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Untangling Love: Navigating Breakups and New Beginnings | BEYOND I DO | S1E31 Apr 18, 2024

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Join us in this heartfelt episode as we delve into the emotional aftermath of breakups and the complexities of moving forward into new relationships. We explore the tangled web of feelings and experiences that often accompany the end of a romance and the challenges of embarking on a fresh journey while still grappling with unresolved emotions. Through candid stories and reflections, we highlight the importance of self-awareness, integrity, and personal growth in navigating the delicate terrain of love and commitment. From the courage to end relationships to the healing process that follows, we offer insights and guidance to help you navigate the twists and turns of romantic entanglements with grace and resilience. Tune in for an episode filled with wisdom, empathy, and the empowering journey of rediscovering joy and peace amidst the complexities of love. And let us know your thoughts! Comment below and tell us, what you would do if you were in a similar situation!? -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Unexpected Lessons in Leadership | BTL S2E27 Apr 15, 2024

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This episode is one you’re going to want to tune into! Join us for this riveting table of leaders as we are joined by Brad Lomenick, the author of H3 Leadership. The conversation is fact and navigates different complexities perfect for any listener! This isn't your average leadership talk. Our conversations dance through the greens of golf courses to the smoky debates over cigars in Christian culture. Listen in and discover how saying 'no' might just clear the path for your 'best yes,' and how early 'reps' in your career can set the stage for future triumphs. For those wondering how to align passion with profession, this is a must-hear. We unpack the five stages of lasting leadership, reveal the value of mentorship, and even give a nod to the dynamic duos that inspire us. Pour yourself a coffee and join us for an episode that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire you to action—whether you're a seasoned leader or just finding your footing. -- Connect with: Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D Pastor Brad Lomenick https://www.instagram.com/bradlomenick/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/

Being friends with your ex? Good or bad? | BEYOND I DO S1E30 Apr 11, 2024

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Ever been stuck in the murky waters of post-breakup friendships or wrestled with the digital ghost of a past relationship on your social media feed? Adam and Ashlee share how they navigate the choppy seas of relationships past and present with humor and a bit of wisdom. But it's not all laughs — though we do love a good round of the latter. We wade into the deeper end when discussing the sometimes uncomfortable conversations necessary to set boundaries with exes, especially when they linger like uninvited guests at family functions. The inclusion of personal anecdotes lends a genuine touch, as we explore the impact of these scenarios from a parental viewpoint, reminding listeners that the ripples of our choices extend far beyond our own ponds. Wrapping things up, we don't just leave you with questions; we aim to provide insights that could guide you through your own tangled web of familial and social connections. We tackle everything from maintaining friendships with an ex's family to the delicate balance required when children are in the picture. Tune in for a candid look at the humorous, poignant, and undeniably complex intersection of love, loss, and the ties that bind. And let us know your thoughts! Comment below what you think about being friends with an ex, good or bad and why?? -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Public Speaking, Ministry, Youth Culture | Beyond the Letter Podcast S2E26 Apr 08, 2024

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Join us as we explore the multifaceted world of faith and its interaction with youth culture, particularly within the Mormon church. We discuss the mission work that is a rite of passage for young Mormons, contrasting the experiences of men and women and their distinct approaches to service. Listen in as we navigate the challenges young people face when expressing and defending their faith, and how church culture and preaching can be complex yet accessible. This episode also delves into the provocative insights from the book "48 Laws of Power" and its controversial alignment with Christian values. We dissect how these principles play out in real-life scenarios, including street survival tactics and their ethical implications. Wrap up with us as we reflect on the pressures of public speaking within ministry, sharing strategies to manage stress and avoid burnout. We delve into the importance of kindness and consistency in youth ministry, emphasizing the different preaching approaches required for engaging young minds versus adults. We contemplate the true meaning of success and the wisdom of recognizing its perils. The episode culminates with lessons on leadership, the impact of family legacy, and the importance of academic achievements within one's community. Tune in for a heartfelt and enlightening discussion that celebrates the guidance of mentors and the enduring power of a life led with integrity and spiritual conviction. -- Connect with: Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D Pastor Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/

Navigating Body Image and Sex in Marriage | BEYOND I DO | S1E29 Apr 04, 2024

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Feeling comfortable in our own skin, especially in the intimate quarters of marriage, can be a complex dance of emotions and self-perception. Imagine opening up to your partner about the deepest insecurities that haunt your body image, or better yet, embracing those very insecurities to find a deeper connection. That's exactly where we venture in this heartfelt episode as we navigate the sensitive topic of body dysmorphia and its profound impact on marital intimacy. From the physical changes ushered in by childbirth and breastfeeding to the hormonal upheavals that challenge both women and men, we share personal stories and insights that promise to resonate with many. There's a delicate balance in supporting a partner through body image changes, and we don't shy away from the emotional complexities it adds to a relationship. The journey is not just about recognizing and empathizing with one's spouse but learning the nuances of communicating support without offense. Our candid conversation peels back the layers of self-image struggles within marriage, the adjustments in intimacy that come with life's transformations, and the path to fostering a supportive environment as a couple embraces a new chapter of life. With transparency and a touch of humor, we discuss how external stressors and health issues can disrupt the harmony of hormonal balance and intimacy, urging couples to adapt and communicate openly.

It's not just an exploration of personal challenges, but also an affirmation of the strength found in camaraderie and the deep connection that grows from shared vulnerability. So grab your partner, settle in, and let's discover the beauty of navigating these universal struggles together. -- Connect with Nathan and Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@sanazmesa?lan... Abundant Women https://www.instagram.com/alfcwomen/ -- Couples Card Game: https://a.co/d/3InL8wZ -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

The Journey of Parenting | Beyond the Letter Podcast S2E25 Apr 01, 2024

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BTL Fam, we hope you have your tissues ready because it is one of those episodes that will move your heart. We talk about the intimate threads of parenting, our discussion unveils the varying approaches to nurturing children in a world saturated with information and opinions. One mother's viral take on education and mental health strikes a chord, prompting us to reflect on the intricate dance of freedom and boundaries. We navigate through the sensitive terrains of trauma, intimacy, and the subtle art of imparting appropriate affection, all while grounding our narrative in personal anecdotes that highlight the profound impact of family dynamics on a child's development. Wrapping up, we contemplate the deep-seated impact of character development in our little ones, daring to question the conventional wisdom that places academic success on a pedestal. The conversation pivots to the role of healing from personal traumas, ensuring they don't seep into our relationships and parenting styles. Through a Biblical lens, we explore how trials might ultimately cultivate character and hope, sharing our stories as parents who are ever-adapting to the unfolding tales of our children. Join us in this heartfelt exploration where wisdom meets vulnerability in the quest to equip the next generation with the tools to thrive. -- Connect with: Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/?img_index=1 Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D Pastor Sanaz:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@sanazmesa?lan...Abundant Women https://www.instagram.com/alfcwomen/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/

Love, Laughter, and Loyalty: A Healthy Marriage | BEYOND I DO S1E28 Mar 28, 2024

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Have you ever burst into laughter upon seeing a colleague's overly personal profile picture pop up on your phone? We've all been there! The fun doesn't stop there; we also swap tales about our most cherished pieces of jewelry and tattoos that celebrate family pride, diving into the emotional depth behind these tokens and the cultural expectations they defy. Imagine your partner consistently pursuing self-improvement and inspiring you along the way – that's the story Ashlee shares about her husband. Our conversation extends into the realm of marriage and parenting, where respect and communication are the cornerstones of intimacy and partnership. We even confess to those all-too-human moments, like resorting to melatonin gummies to get through a night when the kids just won't settle. Through candid stories and shared experiences, we uncover the beauty of a balanced and nurturing relationship. Laughter, insights, and a touch of wisdom – this episode has it all, and we can't wait for you to join the conversation!

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-- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido

-- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020

-- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo

-- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Crumping, Christian Discipleship, Motherhood | Beyond the Letter Podcast S2E24 Mar 25, 2024

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BTL Fam! We have yet, another debate. If you could eat something all day, do you prefer breakfast, lunch, or dinner? LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS! Before we jump in to what this episode is about. We have a newbie at the table! Help us welcome Alyssa Cano, she is the Kids Director at Abundant Living Family Church, a wife, a new mother and a woman of many talents! Now, let's jump in to what this episode is about! Sure, you've seen the viral dances, but have you considered TikTok as a serious platform for business growth and deep-rooted community? We'll share how this app isn't just for scrolling but for Alyssa, has become a cornerstone for "mom talk," personal branding, and even navigating the postpartum journey. We laugh over our initial Instagram fumbles, marvel at the evolution of our online selves, and ponder on the potential sale of TikTok, all while keeping the conversation as delightfully unpredictable as scrolling through your feed. But it's not all likes and hashtags; we anchor the episode with a soulful reflection on speaking in tongues, the struggles of Christian discipleship, and the power of community in the face of pain. We candidly discuss the challenges within religious discourse, advocating for a respectful approach to disagreement and personal growth. With hearts open and minds engaged, we navigate the complexities of life and faith, leaving you with a sense of connection and perhaps a renewed perspective on the spiritual journey. So plug in, pour your favorite brew, and join us for an episode that's as richly layered as your best Sunday brunch! -- Connect with: Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/?img_index=1 Colin Barrier https://www.instagram.com/_wadeinthewater/ Alyssa Cano https://www.instagram.com/alyssabcano?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/

Is love enough? What is more important when choosing a partner? | BEYOND I DO | S1E27 Mar 21, 2024

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What matters more when choosing a partner: someone you can build a life with or someone you are in love with? Have you ever questioned the recipe for a lasting marriage? Is it a pinch of love or a hefty scoop of practicality? We tackle this heart-centered debate head-on, challenging the conventional wisdom that suggests foundations of practicality might outweigh those of romance. We dissect this layered issue by reflecting on a provocative video that ignited our thoughts, and we weave in our own marital experiences to enrich the conversation. From the spark of love versus the steady burn of companionship to the thorny topics such as financial stability and the dreaded 'gold digger' accusation, we leave no stone unturned.Our personal tales serve as the canvas, painting the intricate picture of how love and friendship play out in the sacred dance of marriage. Navigating the high seas of marital dynamics, we delve into the nuanced differences in how we communicate with a spouse as opposed to a best friend. Candid stories are shared that illustrate the variances in these relationships, emphasizing why understanding these distinctions is crucial. We also discuss how passion, attraction, and financial concerns intermingle, and how striking a balance between heart and head is key. Lastly, we get personal, opening up about our journeys through the ebbs and flows of love and sacrifice within our relationships. We share how aligning dreams, expectations, and personal aspirations with our partners is a dance of love, communication, and shared vision. With stories ranging from soccer fields to church fields, the choices between career and family, and the decisions that shape our paths, Adam and I illustrate the power of unified sacrifice and love.Join us as we explore these heartfelt topics, offering insights into the ever-evolving nature of relationships and the joys of fulfilling dreams with those we hold dearest. Thanks for reading and watching! Don't forget to leave a comment :) -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Tye Tribbett said "The Church is Wack" We discuss Traditional vs. Online Church Church | BTL S2E23 Mar 18, 2024

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When Tye Tribbett stepped into the studio with The Breakfast Club, he didn't just bring his music; he brought a storm of introspection and bold challenges to the status quo of faith and fellowship. Our latest episode peels back the layers of this impactful conversation, exploring the nuances of personal pride, the complex dance between hip-hop and gospel, and the striking dichotomy between God and institutionalized religion. Discover how Tye Tribbet's shift from traditional church to online ministry echoes a broader conversation about authenticity within our spiritual communities. As we examine the intricate dynamics of church leadership and the role of the pastor, listeners will find themselves wrestling with the very stereotypes and misconceptions that often cloud our perceptions of those called to minister. Hear personal reflections on the delicate balance of pastoral care, the misunderstood life of pastor's kids, and the ongoing debate between individualized faith and the collective church experience. It's not just about critiquing what's wrong; it's about seeking the profound connections that resonate within our souls, all while navigating the consumerist tendencies that shape our approach to spirituality. Rounding out our discussion, we question the metrics of success for online churches and the essential nature of physical community, accountability, and discipleship in our faith journeys. This episode isn't just a critique; it's a call to action for a more profound understanding of leadership, representation, and the shared responsibilities within our church communities. Join us as we tackle these thought-provoking issues, offering insights that promise to stir both the heart and the mind. -- Connect with: Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/?img_index=1 -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/

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