Better Health While Aging

Latest Episodes:

102 – Interview: The Importance of Grandparents & Intergenerational Connections Jan 09, 2020

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Kerry Byrne, PhD, a researcher and expert in aging and family caregiving, and the founder of TheLongDistanceGrandparent.com. They discuss the importance of intergenerational connections and of grandparents in particular. They cover:

Why intergenerational connections are so important to society, and how they reduce ageism
What we know about the grandparent-grandchild relationship
How Kerry’s experience living abroad led to her particular interest in “long distance” grandparents
Why grandparents are especially important, when it comes to countering ageism
How grandparents can more easily stay connected to grandchildren, especially if they live far away
Tips on fostering more intergenerational connections, whether that’s with family or others

082- Interview: Bill Thomas on Housing & Communities as Engines of Independence in Aging

Related Resources:

TheLongDistanceGrandparent.com
- Get Kerry Byrne’s free resource created especially for long-distance grandparents: ‘Ultimate Video Call Cheat Sheet’

Blogs for grandparents recommended by Kerry Byrne:
- GrandyCamp
- More Than Grand
AARP’s Grandparent Survey
To get involved in intergenerational activities:
Book: How To Live Forever: The Enduring Power of Connecting The Generations

Episode Transcript: The Importance of Grandparents & Intergenerational Connections

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101 – Interview: Avoiding Holiday Pitfalls with Aging Parents Dec 20, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Linda Fodrini-Johnson, MA MFT CMC, a past president of the National Association of Geriatric Care Managers (now the Aging Life Care Association) and a featured expert providing guidance in Dr. K’s Helping Older Parents Membership Program.

To help families have the best holidays possible, they discuss practical approaches to help families avoid common conflicts that come up during the holidays. They also discuss adapting the holidays for aging parents with dementia. Their talk includes:

What are geriatric care managers (also now known as aging life care professionals)
Why adult children should avoid telling their aging parents what they “should” do, and what to do instead
How to handle common causes of sibling conflict related to aging parents
How to learn more about what aging parents want for their future
What you can do if YOU are the older parent and your adult children are concerned
How to adapt the holidays so they work better for aging parents with dementia
What to do if an aging parent is showing signs of memory problems but hasn’t been diagnosed

Related episodes:

003 – Interview: Helping Reluctant Parents Address Memory Concerns

036 – Interview: Minimizing Family Conflicts & Supporting Aging Parents

Related Resources:

For more help with aging parents from Dr. Kernisan and Linda Fodrini-Johnson:

You can also get a PDF transcript of this episode, as our holiday gift to you: Click here for the Holidays with Aging Parents transcript!

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100 – Interview: Bill Thomas on Ageism, Housing & Changing Aging in 2019 Dec 12, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with geriatrician Bill Thomas, MD, founder of ChangingAging.org. They discuss what he’s worked on during the past year, including his work fostering better aging through Minka houses, MAGIC (Multi-Ability, Multi-Generational Inclusive) Communities, and much more. They cover:

Why ageism is so important
Why it’s better to avoid age (and ability) segregation, when it comes to housing and community services
The mismatch between the housing we have and the housing we need
The problem of older adults loving houses that don’t love them back
His own experience this year of turning 60 and of moving to a smaller house
How cars affect aging and communities, and whether self-driving cars will change things
Why the Village of Hope community is designed to cultivate social capital
His recent work in value-based home health care
Whether aging issues will become part of the election conversation
Why it’s vital to confront our internal ageist narratives and appreciate our aging faces

Related episodes:

082- Interview: Bill Thomas on Housing & Communities as Engines of Independence in Aging

055 – Interview: Bill Thomas on Ageism & Innovations to Improve Aging

098 – Interview: Medicare Open Enrollment: What to Know & When to Switch

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099 – Flu Shots for Older Adults: What to Know (2019 Update) Nov 14, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K explains what all older adults and family caregivers should know about annual vaccination against influenza. She also reports on the statistics from last year’s flu season. This episode covers:

What is influenza, and how many people are affected every year
Why older adults are at higher risk of harm from the flu
How the vaccine works
The two key ways you can protect yourself from the flu
How pneumococcal vaccination helps protect against flu complications
What to know about flu shots designed for older adults
Which influenza vaccine she thinks is best for most older adults
What to do if your older relative is unable or unwilling to get vaccinated

Related Resources:

Flu Shots for Older Adults: What to Know & Do for 2019-2020
CDC: U.S. Influenza Vaccines for the 2019-20 Season
Adults: Protect Yourself with Pneumococcal Vaccines
How to boost your immune system (Harvard Health Review)
2018-2019 U.S. Flu Season: Preliminary Burden Estimates
To find a place to get your annual influenza vaccination: VaccineFinder.org

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098 – Interview: Medicare Open Enrollment: What to Know & When to Switch Oct 10, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Michelle Allen, LCSW, about what all older adults and families should know about Medicare Open Enrollment and understanding your Medicare coverage. Michelle is an experienced social worker and geriatric care manager based in Atlanta, and is a featured expert providing guidance in Dr. K’s Helping Older Parents Membership. They discuss:

The surprisingly common misunderstandings that people often have about their Medicare coverage
The difference between traditional Medicare and Medicare Advantage plan
What is Medigap, what is secondary insurance, and what is supplemental insurance
How to find out just what type of Medicare coverage you or your older relative has
How to know whether it’s worth considering a plan switch during Medicare Open Enrollment
Why it’s a good idea to request a medication review before reviewing your Part D prescription coverage
What to consider if you frequently spend time traveling or living in other states
How to get free help understanding your Medicare coverage options

Related episodes:

093 – Interview: Hiring In-Home Care for Aging in Place: What to Know

096 – Interview: Paying for Long-Term Care: 2019 Updates

Related Resources:

Transcript: Click here.
Note from Dr. K: We don’t have the funds to transcribe most podcast episodes, but we made an exception and decided to transcribe Michelle Allen’s episode because it is such an important topic.

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097 – Interview: Common Elder Law Issues When Helping Aging Parents Sep 12, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with elder law and estate planning attorney, Mark Gilfix, JD, about common legal issues that come up when helping aging parents. He is a partner at Gilfix & La Poll Associates, a Bay Area law firm that helped pioneer elder law. They discuss:

What is elder law and how it differs from estate planning and trust law
Why a durable power of attorney (DPOA) is a vital elder law planning tool
How DPOAs come into play if there are memory issues or other capacity concerns
The role of attorneys in checking capacity when their clients complete legal documents
What happens if you contact an older parent’s attorney with concerns about memory or capacity
The risks of undue influence, financial exploitation, and family members having an agenda
What people can do if they are concerned about the validity of an older person’s legal transaction
Options when a potentially impaired older parent refuses to release DPOA documents to family
Why it’s best for families to communicate early and often
How elder law attorneys can help with long-term care planning
Tips on starting planning conversations with your family

Related episodes:

091 – Interview: Reducing the Risk of Power of Attorney Abuse

037 – Interview: Using Powers of Attorney to Help Older Adults

070 – Interview: Addressing & Preventing Financial Exploitation in Aging

038 – FAQs On “Incompetence” & Losing Decision Capacity

Related Resources:

Gilfix & La Poll, Associates LLP
California Probate Code on Creation of Powers of Attorney
National Center on Law & Elder Rights (NCLER) Issue Brief: Drafting Advance Planning Documents to Reduce the Risk of Abuse or Exploitation
Better Health While Aging: Incompetence & Losing Capacity: Answers to 7 FAQs
American Psychological Association: Assessment of Capacity in Older Adults
American Bar Association: American Bar Association Ten Legal Tips for Caregivers
National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys
For law firms that include geriatric care coordinators: Life Care Planning Law Firm Association

For more information on the Helping Older Parents Membership Community, where people helping aging parents can regularly get guidance from Dr. K and from geriatric care managers, click here.

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096 – Interview: Paying for Long-Term Care: 2019 Updates Aug 08, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Howard Gleckman, senior fellow at the Urban Institute and an expert on how policy and tax issues affect older adults and their long-term care. He is also the author of Caring for Our Parents: Inspiring Stories of Families Seeking New Solutions to America’s Most Urgent Health Crisis. They discuss:

What is “long-term care” and who usually ends up paying for it
Why so many older adults end up needing some form of long-term care
That it’s Medicaid, not Medicare, that sometimes covers long-term care needs for older adults
What “triggers” need to occur for long- term care insurance policies to kick-in
Currently available options to pay for long-term care and “ongoing living assistance”
Why insurers have had difficulty offering affordable long-term care insurance
What happened to the federal long-term care program the CLASS act
How Washington State’s new public long-term care insurance plan is set up, and why it won’t help today’s older adults
The new Medicare rules that might enable Medicare Advantage plans to offer the “non-medical” services that can help older adults age in place
What are the benefits of Medicare Advantage care plans
What politicians are saying about this, and why we don’t hear more about long-term care issues

Related episodes:

059 – Interview: Long-Term Care Insurance & Financing Late-Life Care Needs

074 – Interview: How the Village Model Supports Aging in Place & Community

017- Interview: Paying for Long-Term Care & Other Family Caregiving Challenges

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095 – Interview: Hearing Aids & Other Hearing Loss Treatment Options Jul 11, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks about hearing aids and other ways to address hearing loss with Meg Wallhagen, PhD, Professor of Gerontological Nursing at UCSF’s School of Nursing. She is a nationally recognized expert on hearing loss and has been on the board of the Hearing Loss Association of America since 2010. This episode is Part 2 of a two-part series on hearing loss. They discuss:

Why people may be entitled to workplace accommodations to address hearing loss
What should take place during an initial audiology evaluation
How audiologists adjust and fit hearing aids, and what to expect from a good audiology provider
What to expect from using hearing aids
Common hearing aid options to consider, & how to choose a hearing aid
Why it’s good to get a hearing aid with a telecoil
Why the brain needs time to adjust to hearing aids & why it’s essential to use them regularly
Who shouldn’t get hearing aids
Why a “Pocket Talker” can be a good option for people with dementia
Other alternatives to hearing aids, such as special phones
Why it’s important to address hearing loss sooner rather than later
Other simple ways to improve communication with older adults with hearing loss
Recent developments in over-the-counter hearing aids and personal sound amplification products (PSAPs)

Related Resources:

Professor Wallhagen’s Brochure (for people affected by hearing loss):
- Hearing Helps Us Stay Connected to Others
UCSF Audiology: The Speech Banana
Medicare.gov: Hearing & balance exams & hearing aids
Mayo Clinic: Hearing aids, How to choose the right one
The Hurdles to Getting Hearing Aids
Hearing Loss Association of America:
- Hearing Loss Basics
- A Guide to Understanding Hearing Loops (includes info on telecoils)
- Find a Local Chapter
AARP
- Congress Approves Over-the-Counter Hearing Aids
- Hearing Care Program: Captioned Telephone
Pocketalkers*
Hearing & Speech Center (San Francisco)
National Academies: Hearing Health Care for Adults: Priorities for Improving Access and Affordability
Better Health While Aging:
- 4 Key Things to Know About Age-Related Hearing Loss
Professor Wallhagen’s Research:
Transcript: Click here.
Note from Dr. K: We don’t have the funds to transcribe most podcast episodes, but we decided to transcribe Professor Wallhagen’s episodes, to make them more accessible to anyone experiencing hearing loss.

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094 – Interview: Hearing Loss in Aging: Why It Matters & Getting Evaluated Jun 27, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks about how we can help older adults address hearing loss with Meg Wallhagen, PhD, Professor of Gerontological Nursing at UCSF’s School of Nursing. She is a nationally recognized expert on hearing loss and has been on the board of the Hearing Loss Association of America since 2010. This episode is Part 1 of a two-part series on hearing loss. They discuss:

Why hearing loss in aging usually causes distortion of sounds, and how that affects understanding speech (and grandchildren)
Why it usually doesn’t help to speak more loudly to someone with hearing loss
How hearing loss affects the health, wellbeing, and social relationships of older adults
Why older people often don’t want to address hearing loss
The problem of healthcare professionals overlooking hearing loss
How hearing loss affects brain function
Why it can become harder to successfully address hearing loss once it’s severe
How hearing loss should be evaluated and what happens during a hearing test
Why poor Medicare coverage of hearing loss often creates barriers to care
How Professor Wallhagen’s brochure can help older adults agree to address hearing loss

Related Resources:

Professor Wallhagen’s Brochure (for people affected by hearing loss):
- Hearing Helps Us Stay Connected to Others
UCSF Audiology:The Speech Banana
Medicare.gov: Hearing & balance exams & hearing aids
National Academies: Hearing Health Care for Adults: Priorities for Improving Access and Affordability
Hearing Loss Association of America’s: Hearing Loss Basics
Better Health While Aging:
- 4 Key Things to Know About Age-Related Hearing Loss
Professor Wallhagen’s Research:

Transcript: Click here.
Note from Dr. K: We don’t have the funds to transcribe most podcast episodes, but we decided to transcribe Professor Wallhagen’s episodes, to make them more accessible to anyone experiencing hearing loss.

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093 – Interview: Hiring In-Home Care for Aging in Place: What to Know Jun 13, 2019

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In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Michelle Allen, LCSW, about what families should know, when they want to obtain or hire in-home care to help an older person with aging in place. Michelle is an experienced social worker and geriatric care manager based in Atlanta, and is a featured expert providing guidance in Dr. K’s Helping Older Parents Membership Community. They discuss:

How geriatric social workers (and geriatric care managers) help older adults and families address aging issues
Why families and older adults usually seek out privately paid in-home care
Why most of the home care services older adults need to age in place are not covered by Medicare
What is “home health care,” and how to get Medicare to pay for certain medically skilled home services
What to know about hiring paid in-home caregivers
The pros and cons of hiring through an agency versus hiring an individual caregiver
Why families have to pay taxes, if they hire someone without going through an agency
Common mistakes that families make, when hiring in-home help to assist an older person
Why aging in place may not work out, and how to plan for other options
The benefits of working with “life care planning” elder law firms, which provide geriatric care coordinators such as Michelle

Related episodes:

059 – Interview: Long-Term Care Insurance & Financing Late-Life Care Needs

017 – Interview: Paying for Long-Term Care & Other Family Caregiving Challenges

Related Resources:

Family Caregiver Alliance: Hiring In-Home Help
About Aging Life Care Professionals
Medicare and Home Health Services
- Medicare.gov PDF: Medicare & Home Health Care
Platforms to find paid in-home care for older adults
- Carelinx.com
Information on paying taxes to paid caregivers:
- Learn more about your tax responsibility as a household employer
- Do you need to pay taxes for your part-time caregiver?
To find your local Area Agency on Aging: Eldercare.gov Locator
For law firms that include geriatric care coordinators: Life Care Planning Law Firm Association

For more information on the Helping Older Parents Membership Community, where people helping aging parents can regularly get guidance from Dr. K and from Michelle Allen:

Learn More About the Helping Older Parents Membership Community!

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