Betches Video Club

What Is The Best RomCom Of All Time? ft. Ryan Gosling, Heath Ledger, Kate Hudson & More Jul 14, 2025

Romcom lovers, assemble. In this episode of Betches Video Club, we’re handing out our own (completely legitimate) Betchie awards to the greatest romantic comedies of all time (as determined by our office poll): When Harry Met Sally, 10 Things I Hate About You, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, and Crazy, Stupid, Love. We rank the most iconic romcom moments—from Heath Ledger singing on the bleachers to Ryan Gosling’s shirtless reveal in Crazy, Stupid, Love, the yellow dress from How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, and of course, the New Year’s Eve kiss in When Harry Met Sally. Plus, we award the Judy Greer Award for Best Best Friend. Also discussed:

-The foreplay-to-kiss ratio in Crazy, Stupid, Love ("an hour and ten minutes of foreplay, as usual")

-Whether you’d need a therapist or a friend to convince you to hook up with Ryan Gosling

-The universal truth that "they don’t make sweaters like they used to"

-Billy Crystal’s unexpected sex appeal in When Harry Met Sally

-Why the kiss in 10 Things I Hate About You just hits harder when there’s paint on your face

Whether you're Team Gosling, Team Ledger, or just here to yell about how unrealistic diamond ad pitches are, this is the romcom breakdown you didn’t know you needed. 00:00-02:31 We Dressed Like Our Fave Rom Com Leads 02:32 The 'Judy Greer Award' For Best Rom Com Friend 06:17 Rom Com's Worst Characters Ever 08:34 Throbbiest Heartthrob and Best Dressed 19:41 Best and Worst Dressed Rom Com Characters 22:14 This Is The Best Rom Time Of All Time!

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Betches @ Home: Pride IS TONIGHT! Jun 29, 2020

Since we won’t be going to any Pride events IRL this year, we’re bringing the celebration to you as a part of our Betches @ Home Series. Grab a drink and join us tonight (Monday, June 29th) at 8pm ET, as @fatcarriebradshaw and @bryanrussellsmith host a Pride variety show. 100% of ticket proceeds will be donated to the Marsha P. Johnson Institute (@mpjinstitute), a non-profit committed to protecting the human rights of Black transgender people.

There'll be games with special guests, Everyone's Gay trivia, live performances, and more, so make sure to reserve your spot at betches.co/pride before tickets sell out!

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Come To Our Live Pride Show Jun 22, 2020

Since we won’t be going to any Pride parades this year, we’re bringing the celebration to your homes. On Monday, June 29 at 8pm EST, Everyone’s Gay stars Bryan Russell Smith and Chris Burns (aka @fatcarriebradshaw) will go live for Betches Pride variety as a part of our Betches @ Home Series. All ticket sales will be donated to the Marsha P. Johnson Institute, a non profit for elevation and advocating the Black LGBTQ+ community.

Chris and Bryan will talk about all things Pride, play some games,be joined by special guests, and more. Tickets are on sale now, so make sure to secure your spot before they sell out.

Go to betches.co/pride to get your tickets today!

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Queerantine Pride Is Coming To The Betches Sup Podcast May 29, 2020

Chris and Bryan are back to tell you about an exciting EG crossover series coming soon on The Betches Sup Podcast! Every Friday in the month of June 2020, the EG hosts will be covering a different piece of queer history. The parades might be cancelled, but that doesn't mean Pride is over. Be sure to subscribe now to The Betches Sup Podcast so you don't miss a single episode of Pride, Queerantine Edition.

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We're Too Pretty For A Podcast Dec 27, 2019

Bryan and Chris return...for the final time, kind of. They begin by explaining the changes coming to Everyone’s Gay and what might be coming in the future. Next they do a full retrospective on their favorite past episodes of the show. Next they play a round of “Cock It Or Block It”. Then they read some heart felt messages from listeners. Finally they end the show with one last listener email.

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The Everyone’s Gay Hallmark Original Christmas Extravaganza Dec 20, 2019

Bryan and Chris are ready for Christmas and aren’t watching the Hallmark Channel this year. They start by discussing Hallmark’s decision to pull an LGBTQ focused Zola commercial and the network’s sudden back pedal vow to be more inclusive in their content. Then Chris pitches a gay Hallmark movie of his own. Next they talk about Netflix’s backlash about a foreign gay Jesus film. Then they play a holiday edition of “Cock It Or Block It”. Finally a listener writes in wondering how to handle a sticky situation with a married man.

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GaySMR Is A Thing Now Dec 13, 2019

Bryan and Chris start the show with their Spotify year-in-review lists and a conversation about the songs of the year. Next, they talk about the Merriam-Webster dictionary making “they” the word of the year. Plus, they tell us which celebrity’s dad came out as gay this week, including a strange public comparison he made about his struggle. They talk about the weirdest new YouTube video trend: GaySMR. They play us some examples of GaySMR and tell us whether or not they understand the fad. They play a game of Cock It or Block It, leading to a debate about Baby Yoda. Then they close things out with an announcement about the show.

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Can I Ever Be Friends With My Ex? Dec 06, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back from their Thanksgiving travels. They start by talking about Gabrielle Union’s week of drama surrounding the Instagram criticism of her gay son and racial mistreatment at “America’s Got Talent”. Next they discuss whether or not it’s possible to be friends with an ex. Later they play cock it or block it and discuss Dakota Johnson’s uncomfortable “Ellen” appearance. Finally a listener writes in wondering how to attract a third sexual partner into his relationship with his boyfriend.

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The Best Thanksgiving Dish? Revenge. Nov 29, 2019

Bryan and Chris get this holiday edition of the show started with a revenge story about a homophobic mom and a secret meatloaf recipe. They talk about Pete Davidson’s confusing sex appeal and a confession he made about masturbating to a certain male celebrity. Next, they talk about Sam Smith sharing that they used to feel the need to butch it up early in their career and where that pressure came from. Why are gay artists still getting pressured to stay in the closet? Plus, they react to Kim Kardashian’s makeup artist coming out at the age of 37. They play a game of Thanksgiving-themed Cock It or Block It, which leads to a conversation about partying the night before the holiday. Then a listener writes in to ask if he should come clean about the feelings he has for a friend that may or may not be in the closet, which leads to a similar story from Chris about a former crush. They finish the show with advice for how to express your feelings for someone, despite the potential consequences.

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Venmo @FatCarrieBradshaw Nov 22, 2019

Bryan and Chris return in the midst of Chris’ high profile credit debt lawsuit. They begin by talking about the Grammy nominations and the chances that Lizzo could take home the Best New Artist hardware. Next Bryan gives a quick recap on what’s going on with the impeachment audience while Chris takes a nap. Later Chris recaps his weekend at Bravocon and the boys play a round of cock it or block it. They close the show by solving a relationship crisis sent in by a listener.

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Hoe, Hoe, Hoe Ft. BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon Nov 15, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and they are pissed at Madonna. They start by discussing the icon’s chronic lateness on her tour and the fans that are suing her for it. Next, a listener writes in wondering how to be comfortable being less masculine. Later, they are joined by BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon to discuss RuPaul’s Drag Race, their new touring show All I Want For Christmas Is Attention, and play a round of Cock It or Block It.

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Why Is Rosario Dawson Being Sued By A Trans Person? Nov 08, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re botox curious. At 8:50 they discuss potential plastic surgery work they would get done. At 11:00 they discuss the anti trans controversy surrounding Rosario Dawson. At 19:10 they discuss the surge in LGBTQ members winning elections for public office. At 25:30 they discuss the women that made them realize they were gay when they were younger. At 37:00 they play a round of cock it or block it. At 41:40 a listener writes in wondering how to find out her significant other’s true feelings in a long distance relationship.

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Tips To Prepare For Bottoming Nov 01, 2019

Bryan and Chris are on their own this week. They start by discussing a new poll that asked Americans if they would be ready for a gay President. At 8:45 they discuss a police officer who was fired for being gay. At 12:40 they discuss the frustrating lack of etiquette regarding “Great British Bake Off” spoilers. At 18:30 they play a round of “Cock It or Block It”. At 23:30 a listener writes in wondering how to shadily deal with an unfriendly neighbor parking in a spot they aren’t supposed to. At 33:10 a listener writes in wondering how to prepare for bottoming.

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How To Be Bi In a Hetero Relationship Ft. Catey Shaw Oct 25, 2019

Bryan and Chris return for a very spooky Halloween episode. At 4:50 they discuss Miley Cyrus’s ignorant Instagram live joke. At 12:40 they play a Halloween edition of Cock It Or Block It”. At 23:00 they’re joined by artist, musician and Bryan’s best friend, Catey Shaw. They talk about the origin of Bryan and Catey’s friendship, how her marriage to a man affects the perception of her bisexuality, and her vape pen company, Shade. At 31:40 a listener writes in wondering what to do after feeling discriminated against by the family of a friend who’s about to get married.

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So Emotional Ft. Sasha Velour Oct 18, 2019

Bryan and Chris are sick of each other. With a busy schedule of making sketches and recording the podcast, they have spent practically every minute of the week together. At 6:00 Bryan discusses his journey back from Gay Massachusetts. At 9:40 they discuss what they would like to do with their bodies once they die. At 14:30 they are joined by Sasha Velour to discuss SNL paying homage to her, the Judy Garland biopic, and her upcoming “Smoke And Mirrors” tour. At 38:34 a listener writes in looking for advice on how to be a better ally.

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Is Ellen Too Rich To Make Sense Anymore? Oct 11, 2019

Bryan and Chris return with a stunning confession for the listeners, they’re sluts for Christmas. At 6:20 they discuss the tell all book about “The View” and Chris admits his new ambition is to be one of the ladies on the show. At 16:15 they discuss a new study investigating income averages for LGBTQ working professionals in the US. At 24:00 they discuss Kim Petris/ Dr. Luke songwriting controversy. At 32:20 they talk about Ellen DeGeneres sitting next to George W Bush at the Dallas Cowboys game. At 40:40 they play a round of cock it or block it. At 51:10 a listener writes in wondering how to help a married friend come out of the closet. To contact The Trevor Project’s suicide hotline call 1-866-488-7386

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Lions, Tigers & Lesbians Ft. Amy Ordman Oct 04, 2019

Bryan and Chris were in Fire Island together this weekend and start the show with a recap of what went down. Plus, Chris tells us how he’d want his own funeral to be planned and shares what he learned about Siegfried and Roy’s relationship behind closed doors. At 9:45 they’re joined by YouTube star Amy Ordman to talk about her new podcast Dating Straight. They start with her move from Australia to Los Angeles to pursue her dream of becoming a YouTuber, chat about her first viral video, and how they deal with trolls. They also discuss the differences between gay, straight and lesbian relationships. At 31:05 they play a round of Cock It or Block It, which leads to a conversation about makeup tutorials. At 36:00 a listener reaches out for advice with a recent breakup and asks if it’s normal to expect the “white picket fence” at a young age.

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The One With JVN ft. Jonathan Van Ness Sep 27, 2019

Chris and Bryan are back for an episode months in the making. They start by discussing Chris saving the life of a poor elderly man on the train. At 4:00 they talk about the most popular gay porn searches in America by state. At 13:25 they’re joined by Queer Eye’s legendary Jonathan Van Ness. JVN talks Elizabeth Warren, the study that proves undetectable HIV means untransmittable, his new book and the first time he ever saw a dick. At 34:55 they play a round of Cock It Or Block It. At 37:45 a listener writes in wondering if it’s ok for straight girls to refer to their LGBTQ friends as “their gays”.

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Who Does Madonna Think She Is? Sep 20, 2019

Bryan and Chris kick things off with a review of J.Lo’s new movie Hustlers and discuss the moment Keke Palmer is having right now. They also update us on Bryan’s new puppy Betty and recap Madonna’s performance in Brooklyn. At 29:25 they’re joined by singer/songwriter Justin Utley to talk about the dangers of conversion therapy, resigning from the Mormon faith, and the release of his third studio album Scars. At 46:40 they play Cock It or Block It, including American Idol, a cappella groups, and Stagecoach. At 58:35 a listener writes in looking for advice about how to meet new guys in a small gay scene.

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Should I Try A Heterosexual Hook Up? Ft. Slutty Puffin Sep 13, 2019

Bryan and Chris get the show started with a recap of DragCon and Willam’s visit to the office. Chris also tells us about a touching moment at the lesbian wedding he attended this weekend. At 15:00 they’re joined by social media personality Slutty Puffin. They start out with the origin of his Instagram account, the slutty puppy kink, and meeting Lindsay Lohan. Next, they talk about people stealing jokes online and what it’s like to run a big social media account. Plus, they revisit some of their favorite reality dating show moments of all time. At 49:05 they play Cock It or Block It, including a question about “slipping” into someone’s DMs. Are you okay with unsolicited dick pics? At 47:00 an emailer asks about assuming he’s either asexual or straight, and whether or not he should hook up with a girl who is interested in him. Do you feel guilty making out with girls?

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Drag, Douching and “A Star Is Born” Ft. Willam Sep 06, 2019

Bryan and Chris return to close out summer with some scandalous escapades. Chris has been DMing hot cast members from “The Great British Baking Show” in hopes to curl up in a warm, snuggly, bread basket with them. At 8:30 they talk about Kristen Stewart not labelling her sexuality and Donald Trump’s vintage tweets about her and Robert Pattinson’s relationship from 2012. At 15:45 they discuss Lil Nas X’s appearance on “The Shop” in which he explained why he came out as gay at the peak of his fame. At 24:20 they are joined by Willam to discuss NYC Dragcon, what went on behind the scenes on the set of “A Star Is Born” and his new cosmetics line “Cover Boy”.

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What Are You Supposed To Do When You Catch Your Partner Masturbating? Ft. Andew Fitzsimons Aug 30, 2019

Chris and Bryan start the show with a recap of the VMA red carpet and a conversation about how hard it is to be bold in public. They talk about Taylor Swift’s new album and share an inspiring clip from her VMA acceptance speech. Why do people continue to criticize her for waiting so long to speak out about politics? At 22:10 they’re joined by celebrity hairstylist Andrew Fitzsimons. They start out with some inside info on working with the Kardashians, Jenners, and tons of other huge names. He tells us about getting his start in the industry and eventually working his way to style people like Adele and Mariah. They also talk about Andrew starting the Trans Cosmetic Donation Program at the Los Angeles LGBT Center. At 49:05 Andrew sticks around for a game of Cock It or Block It. Then at 1:00:05 a listener writes in to ask how you should react if you catch your partner masturbating.

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The Gays Have Gone Wild (On Reality TV) Ft. @Kayyorkcity Aug 23, 2019

Chris and Bryan start the show with a news story about Karamo from Queer Eye coming to the defense of Sean Spicer, despite the horrible lies he has told in the past. At 16:05 they’re joined by Kay Brown of The Betchelor podcast to talk about everything going down on Bachelor In Paradise this season. They discuss Derek Peth’s inspiring reaction to Demi coming out and the arrival of her girlfriend on the show. Is this the most genuine moment in the history of the franchise? At 34:20 they play a game of Cock It or Block It, including a critique of the Kardashians and a debate about cooking shows. At 48:40 a listener writes in to ask if Grindr is a good place to find friends. How do you go about finding friends in the LGBTQ+ community when you’re new to town?

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Miley Cyrus Is On A Whirlwind Bisexual Adventure Aug 16, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with a story from Fire Island and a convo about the best music of the Summer. At 11:15 they play Gag it or Bag it and debate whether or not chain restaurants are any good. At 17:40 they are joined by our resident pop culture expert, Dylan Hafer. Together, they discuss Katy Perry getting #metooed, Miley Cyrus hooking up with Brody Jenner’s ex, and Demi coming out as bisexual on Bachelor in Paradise. Plus, they share the news that Bella Thorne is directing a movie for Pornhub. Then at 35:40 a listener writes in to ask how to tell his “good Christian boy” roommate that he’s gay. Is it better to drop hints or just come clean?

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Is It Time To Cancel Gender Reveal Parties? Aug 09, 2019

Chris and Bryan start the show with a conversation about whether or not the new Lion King movie should have ever been made. At 8:30 they talk about the woman who started the viral gender reveal video trend and the news that her child is non-binary. Is it time to cancel gender reveal parties? At 15:00 they’re joined by New York-based fitness trainer Patrick McGrath to talk about what you should and shouldn’t be doing to get fit. Patrick shares a list of true or false fitness questions and answers some listener submissions. At 29:30 Patrick sticks around for a game of Gag It or Bag It. Then at 39:15 a listener writes in to ask how to tell his long term boyfriend that he’s trans. They close out the show with some fun listener reviews.

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What’s Up With Tituss Burgess Coming For Andy Cohen? Aug 02, 2019

Bryan and Chris start the show with a conversation about how well Chris would do as a CIA agent. They also talk about the Democratic debates from this week. At 12:45 they share a clip of Tituss Burgess giving Andy Cohen attitude on WWHL over a question about Eddie Murphy’s homophobic jokes. Why did he feel the need to come for Andy after the interview? They also tell us who Lady Gaga is dating now and ask if she’s staging her public photos. At 21:25 they play a game of Gag It or Bag It, including one about whether or not emojis have any place in sexting. At 27:00 a listener writes in to ask whether or not the guy he’s dating is just using him to test out a gay relationship. As a person who is open and honest about their own sexuality, is it harder to date someone who isn’t out of the closet yet?

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Is It Ever Okay To Tell Your Partner They’ve Let Themself Go? Jul 26, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with details about the Carly Rae Jepsen concert Bryan attended and share a huge announcement about Chris’s career. They also offer their opinions on Taylor Swift’s new single. Is this album destined to be a disappointment? At 18:30 they talk about Lance Bass telling the world how he came out to Britney Spears. Then at 23:25 they play a game of Gag It or Bag It and debate whether or not thirst traps are getting out of control. Plus, they ask how early is too early to start doing Botox treatments. At 37:40 a listener writes in to ask if it’s okay to tell his partner that he has begun to let himself go.

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What Do You Do If Your Partner Is Still In The Closet? Jul 19, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with a recap of Bryan’s trip to Spain, including the moment he had to save his boyfriend from choking. They also discuss Chris’s family lake trip and preview the Carly Rae Jepsen concert Bryan is planning to attend. At 18:45 they introduce a new game called “Bag It or Gag It” all about the latest trends and whether or not they’re having it. Are you loving the new FaceApp age filter? At 27:00 a listener writes in to ask how to deal with a new boyfriend who hasn’t come out to his family. Would you be okay with meeting your significant other’s parents and pretending you’re not a couple? They close the show with a conversation about Elon Musk creating a bluetooth connection to your brain, and an explanation of his girlfriend’s bizarre health routine.

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Is An Open Relationship The Answer To Making Long Distance Work? Ft. Daryn Carp Jul 12, 2019

With Bryan away, Chris is joined by Daryn Carp, resident lesbian correspondent and host of the Martinis and Murder podcast. They start out with a recap of their Pride march with the Bravo float. Next, they talk about the difference between texting and email obligations. Is it okay to leave a text unanswered? Chris shares his hiking experience and they speculate about how they would do on the Appalachian Trail. At 22:10 they talk about Ariana Grande crying on stage, the explosion of Lizzo in the pop world, and Adele avoiding the spotlight. At 36:15 a listener writes in to ask for advice with a long distance relationship. Is agreeing to an open relationship the best way to make it work? They close the show with a conversation about what it takes to make an open relationship right for you.

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Can You Get Your Penis Out Of My Face? Jul 05, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back with a World Pride hangover. While Chris was marching next to the Bravo float, Bryan was in Fire Island having unwanted penises flashed in his face by some guys being extra on the beach. At 9:40 they discuss Lil Nas X coming out of the closet at Glastonbury. At 13:40 they break down the Scooter Braun/ Taylor Swift controversy. At 31:30 a listener writes in wondering how handle his boyfriend who is seemingly addicted to porn.

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What Really Happens At A Ball? Ft. Saro Jun 28, 2019

Bryan and Chris kick off this week’s episode with a news story about Cracker Barrel standing up to a bigot who tried to stage an event at one of their restaurants. Next, they talk about a new study that says poppers may not be so bad for you. At 15:00 they discuss the origin of ball culture and tell us what really happens at a ball. Then at 25:40 they’re joined by recording artist Saro to talk about his new EP and LA Pride performance. They talk about the pop icons that have inspired each of them and Saro tells a story about getting chicken and waffles with Beyonce. At 47:40 a listener writes in to ask for tips on bottoming for the first time with his boyfriend. They close the show with advice on how to prepare for your first time and what to do if things don’t go well.

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All The Sh*t You Didn’t Know About Drag Ft. Lady Bunny & Chris Moukarbel Jun 21, 2019

Bryan and Chris start the show with a reaction to the new Taylor Swift video. Are we okay with her using LGBTQ icons to promote her song? At 10:00 they dive into a conversation about drag culture, and Chris tells the story of how he first started out as a drag performer. At 18:50 they’re joined by drag icon Lady Bunny and director Chris Moukarbel to talk about their new documentary “Wig” on HBO. Bunny tells us how the Wigstock festival first started and explains how the drag scene is different today. They discuss the origin of the documentary, recent revival of the festival, and the current place drag holds in the LGBTQ community. Plus, Bunny talks about getting banned from Twitter and Chis tells them about working with Lady Gaga. At 53:45 they close the show with a listener email about whether or not you should come out to your family on a birthday. Is there a right and wrong time to come out?

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Where Are All The Gay Pro Athletes? Jun 14, 2019

Bryan and Chris kick off the show with a recap of their recent shoot at Bryan’s childhood home and talk about a pair of new singles that just dropped. At 11:00 they dive into a conversation about LGBTQ representation in sports. Bryan shares his experience playing in a gay sports league in NYC and talks about playing on teams growing up. They talk about the lack of gay pro athletes today. Why aren’t there any out athletes in any of the four major American sports? At 25:05 they share a story about the Trump administration instructing international embassies not to fly the pride flag. Then at 32:40 a listener writes in to ask how to get involved in the local gay scene when you first come out. How do you build self esteem when you don’t have enough experience?

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Dive Into Pride: The Anniversary Episode Jun 07, 2019

Bryan and Chris celebrate the one year anniversary of Everyone’s Gay by reflecting on some listener messages, including one from a girl who was inspired by the podcast to come out to her mom. At 9:50 they discuss the “Straight Pride Parade” controversy. Are people just looking for reasons to feel marginalized? Bryan tells us about posting his first ever thirst trap and tells us the name he got called in his DMs. Then Chris tells a story about losing his wallet at a strip show. At 26:05 they start their new Dive into Pride segment brought to you by Bon and Viv Spiked Seltzer, sharing their earliest and fondest Pride memories. Then at 31:45 a listener writes in to ask how to come out in the workplace. Are people finally comfortable sharing their sexual identity with coworkers?

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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I Want To Be Polyamorous? May 31, 2019

Happy Pride eve from Bryan and Chris! They start by talking about Bryan’s trip to Drag Con in LA and Chris’ experience seeing newly crowned gay icon, Lizzo, at Terminal 5. At 7:00 they discuss their inner conflicts about pride being monetized throughout the month of June. At 14:45 a listener writes in wondering how to bring up his interest in a polyamorous relationship with his partner. At 21:15 Mathew Shurka joins Bryan to discuss the practice of conversion therapy in America. They tell us what the next steps are for outlawing the practice and outline the biggest obstacles to making it happen.

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Are There Any Rules On Fire Island? May 24, 2019

Bryan and Chris are cranking the new album by newly crowned gay icon, Carly Rae Jepson. At 10:15 Bryan talks about his first summer 2019 Fire Island experience. At 14:00 they talk about the controversy surrounding the fictional gay wedding in the children’s show “Arthur”. At 22:00 they discuss how they would walk down the aisle if they were to get married. At 28:15 a listener writes in wondering if losing straight friends is common amongst more flamboyant gay guys.

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Who The F*ck Is James Charles And Should I Care? Ft. John Paul Brammer May 16, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by resident gay betch Dylan Hafer to break down the James Charles Youtube drama. Dylan explains how Charles became enemy number one after clashing with his former mentor Tati Westbrook. Who is really to blame here? At 18:50 they’re joined by John Paul ("JP") Brammer, managing editor at the Trevor Project. They talk about coming out later in life and what it’s like to grow up gay in rural America. JP tells us about his advice column and shares some of the most common questions he gets. Why is everyone worried they’re being “too” gay? At 38:45 a listener writes in to ask if he needs to tell his friend that they’re both flirting with the same guy. Are you obligated to be honest about a mutual crush? They close out the show with a conversation about the new gender-swap Snapchat filter, and whether or not we should be concerned about its implications.

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I Gave A Blowjob And My Car Caught On Fire Ft. Joey Camasta May 10, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and talking the Met Gala. They start off with a recap of the GLAAD awards and their highlights from attending the event. At 4:25 they talk about the Met Gala and react to the best and worst outfits this year. Bryan also shares a story about a celeb sliding into his DMs. At 16:20 they are joined by Joey Camasta, makeup artist, foodie and host of “It's Happening with Snooki & Joey.” Joey tells a story about the time he gave a blow job and his car caught on fire. At 28:00 he tells us how he became best friends with Snooki. At 33:30 they talk about astrology and dating apps. They finish the show with a listener email about dating a guy who needs financial support.

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Is Iced Coffee Gay? Ft. Thomas Whitfield May 03, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and talking about Taylor Swift’s new music video. Is everyone else disappointed she didn’t come out as bisexual? At 13:00 they discuss a GQ article about iced coffee becoming the new gay signifier. At 20:20 they’re joined by our gay wellness correspondent Thomas Whitfield to answer some sex advice questions. They start with a conversation about sex education across the country and the negative impact of not including information about gay sex. At 59:40 a listener writes in to ask if it’s okay to date a daddy and whether or not a large age gap is cause for concern.

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What Is A Sex Dungeon, Really? Ft. Rightor Doyle Apr 26, 2019

Bryan and Chris start the show with an announcement about new Everyone’s Gay merch and tell us about their Easter weekends, including Bryan’s family gathering and Chris’s jury duty. At 13:00 they discuss news that the Supreme Court plans to hear arguments on LGBTQ rights. At 23:20 they are joined by actor, writer and director Rightor Doyle to talk about his new brand new Netflix series Bonding. Rightor tells the real-life story of how he got tricked into working for a dominatrix and turned the experience into a tv show. They discuss some of the most common sex kinks and explain what sex dungeons are really like. At 38:00 a listener writes in to ask about hooking up with someone who has a full bush. They finish the with some talk about Rightor’s role on the hit HBO series Barry. To order your Everyone's Gay T-shirt, visit http://betches.co/everyonesgaytee

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Everyone’s A Pothead (420 Episode) Ft. Daryn Carp Apr 19, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by Daryn Carp, resident lesbian correspondent and host of the Martinis and Murder podcast, for a special 420 episode. They start off talking about doing poppers and watching the movie Thirteen. At 11:10 they share a list of surprising weed facts and discuss the impact of the next election on legalization. Is there any chance weed will finally be legal soon? At 26:15 they ask Daryn a series of listener-submitted questions about being a lesbian and working for Andy Cohen. To close out the show, they tell stories of the craziest things they’ve ever done while high.

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Is Public Sex Really That Common? Apr 12, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and Chris tells us all about his non-gay Caribbean cruise, including the moment he almost died at a waterpark. They answer a series of listener submitted questions from the Everyone’s Gay Instagram, including one about hooking up with your Uber driver. At 18:00 they introduce a new segment called “This Bitch” and talk about Kim K’s plans to become a lawyer. Then at 29:20 a listener writes in to ask about his new boyfriend’s kink and whether or not it’s normal. Does everyone like to have sex in public places? They close out the show with some public hookup stories.

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Should I Try A Dom/Slave Relationship? Ft. Matthew Camp Apr 05, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by radio-host/model Matthew Camp. They start off talking about Matt’s early days as a stripper and go-go dancer. At 11:00 they discuss his role in the mockumentary Getting Go: The Go Doc Project, and how it launched his career. Next they dive into the world of OnlyFans and Matt explains why he thinks porn can be a good thing for a lot of people. At 23:45 a listener writes in to ask if his straight friend is actually into him, or just sending weird signals. Have you ever hooked up with a “straight guy” before? To close out the show, Matt tells a story about a relationship he had that was a slave/master dynamic.

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Too Gay To Function (Mean Girls Secrets Revealed) Ft. Daniel Franzese Mar 29, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by actor/comedian Daniel Franzese to celebrate the 15th anniversary of Mean Girls. They start off talking about Daniel’s earliest experiences in theater and how he landed the role of Damian in Mean Girls. He recalls how different the climate for a gay actor was when the movie came out and how he became type cast. At 11:40 they talk about Daniel’s role as an advocate for those living with HIV and his upcoming trip to Washington DC. At 22:00 a listener writes in to ask about dating a woman who is constantly drinking too much. How can she bring up her partner’s drinking without sounding controlling? At 32:00 they close out the show with Daniel’s coming out story as he shares his experience with conversion therapy.

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Why Can’t I Get Over My Ex? Ft. Caitlin Kinnunen Mar 22, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by Caitlin Kinnunen, star of the hit Broadway musical “The Prom.” She tells us about getting her start on Broadway as a teenager and how she eventually worked her way up to a starring role. At 10:25 they talk about her controversial kiss at the Thanksgiving Day Parade. At 23:15 a listener writes in to ask for help with getting over a shady ex-girlfriend who won’t admit she cheated. Is it fair to seek closure with an ex now that you’re in a new relationship? At 28:30 Caitlin shares some skincare tips and talks about doing her own makeup for each performance. They finish the show with a conversation about the right way to interact with fans.

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Is Vacay The Best Time To Test An Open Relationship? Mar 15, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and talking all about Bryan’s trip to Costa Rica, including his stay at a gay villa and getting hit on at the bar. They discuss Pete Buttigieg’s presidential campaign and react to his comments about Mike Pence. At 23:00 they close the show with a listener question about sexual assault in the gay community. How can we do more to address the problem and begin to talk more openly about it?

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Coming Out Stories: Someone Always Cries Ft. Emma Willmann Mar 08, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by the hilarious Emma Willmann to talk about breaking into comedy, faking your way into a job, and how to get your big break. At 18:00 Emma talks about the challenge of doing lesbian material in her comedy sets and shares her coming out story. They debate what it means to have a “type” and discuss some shocking relationship stories. At 45:00 a listener asks for the best way to answer when people inquire about a friend’s sexuality. What’s the best way to avoid outing someone? They close the show with memories of dealing with these questions when they were in high school.

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The Real Reason Irina Shayk’s Jealous Of Gaga Is… Mar 01, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and talking about Ariana Grande headlining Pride in Manchester. Does this feel like exploitation to you, or is the outrage overblown? At 17:10 they talk about all the straight people winning Oscars for playing LGBTQ characters this year. They break down Bohemian Rhapsody’s awards success and react to Lady Gaga losing out on the Best Actress trophy. At 24:45 they weigh on the Lady Gaga/Bradley Cooper/Irina Shayk love triangle and stumble upon a groundbreaking theory about what’s fueling Irina’s jealousy. They close out the show with a listener question about a hot guy at the gym constantly flirting. Is he really interested or just a straight guy playing games?

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Choking During Sex, Yay Or Nay? Feb 22, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and talking about Jordyn Woods hooking up with Tristan Thompson. Is there any way Kylie can forgive her for what she did? At 11:00 they discuss the Jussie Smollett attack scandal and update us on the shocking details that have emerged this week. Will he ever be able to come back from this? They talk about Lady Gaga splitting from her fiancé and speculate on her relationship with Bradley Cooper. How lucky is she for choosing this crazy week to announce the split? At 25:45 a listener writes in to ask how to tell guys he likes to be choked in the bedroom. Is that a normal kink or do people think it’s weird?

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Is My F*ck Buddy’s Roommate Off Limits? Ft. Chris Witherspoon Feb 18, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by pop culture expert Chris Witherspoon. They discuss the upcoming Academy Awards and ask if this year’s show is the gayest yet. At 6:30 they offer some Best Picture predictions. Will Lady Gaga take home the Best Actress trophy? At 21:20 our guest shares the story of how he had a child with his lesbian bff. At 30:00 they discuss Ellen Page calling out Chris Pratt for being a part of Hillsong Church. In the wake of Jussie Smollett’s public statements, they examine the experience of being a gay black man in America. At 45:45 a listener asks for advice about hooking up with your f*ck buddy’s roommate.

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Bonus Episode: Can You Really Be Fired For Being Gay In America? Feb 13, 2019

Sami and Bryan bring you a very special Sup/Everyone’s Gay crossover bonus episode. They start by talking about the lack of laws protecting the LGBTQ community from being fired from their job for their sexual preference. At 11:45 they talk about Trump’s vow to end AIDS and HIV by 2030. At 20:10 they talk about Mike Pompeo’s terrible record against the LGBT community. At 25:00 they talk about the current blood ban against LGBT people that want to donate blood.

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How Much Porn Is Too Much Porn? Ft. Thomas Whitfield Feb 11, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by sex researcher Thomas Whitfield. At 6:00 they talk about the PrEP pill. Does taking the pill change people’s choices in the bedroom? They discuss HIV stigma and ask how long you should wait to tell someone you’re HIV positive. At 17:30 they talk about research into watching porn and how it affects your sex life. Does anyone else prefer watching straight porn? At 30:00 a listener asks if it’s normal to feel upset after your first gay hookup. They each share stories of their first gay kiss. They close out the show with a conversation about dating a bisexual partner.

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He Did What With Those Bodies!? Feb 04, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back. They talk about the creepy serial killer who was targeting gay men in Toronto and discuss the Ted Bundy Netflix doc. At 8:35 they share details of the brutal attack on Empire star Jussie Smollett. Why are hate crimes like this still happening today? At 17:00 a listener writes in to ask about masc vs femme tendencies. Why not just be yourself and not worry about falling into either category? At 24:30 they admit their go-to karaoke songs and close out the show talking about what it means to be asexual.

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Do People Hate Me More For Being Fat Or Gay? Ft. Jessica Henderson Jan 28, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by comedian Jessica Henderson. They start with the Oscar nominations and are relieved to hear Lady Gaga got two noms. At 16:00 they talk about watching your own porn tape. Would you go back and watch it or is that too awkward? At 23:00 Chris and Jessica tell the story of how they met and discuss the importance of body positivity. At 30:00 they talk about feeling uncomfortable at the gym. At 33:15 they read a listener question from a girl who thinks her boyfriend may be gay. They close out the show by asking how the gay experience has changed in just the last few years.

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Bonus Episode: Are They Really Torturing And Killing LGBTQ People In 2019? Jan 25, 2019

In this special bonus episode from the Betches Sup Podcast, Bryan is joined by Wyatt Harms of the Voices 4 organization and Lyosha Gorshkov, Co-President of RUSA LGBT. They begin by talking about the oppression and torture of queer people in Chechnya. At 7:55 they discuss why the UN hasn’t investigated the violence against the LGBTQ community in Russia. At 18:00 they talk about all the great work that Voices 4 is doing in countries where the LGBTQ community is being oppressed. At 20:00 Lyosha talks about his experience being harassed in Russia because of his sexual preference.

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I Catfished My Partner On Grindr, Now What? Ft. Manscapers Jan 21, 2019

Bryan and Chris are joined by Garrett Magee and James DeSantis of Bravo’s “Backyard Envy.” They talk about the origins of their “Manscapers NY” exterior design company and dish on what the garden party scene is really like in New York. What’s the difference between landscaping and gardening? At 13:00 a listener writes in about catfishing his partner on Grindr. Is it time to confront him about his cheating? At 24:20 Garrett and James weigh in on the current Rupaul's Drag Race season.

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Is Ass-Riding A Normal Sex Kink? Jan 14, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by Betches writer/editor Dylan Hafer aka 50 Shades of Betch. At 4:00 a listener writes in to explain how truck stop sex works. At 11:40 Bryan shares red carpet audio of Rupaul's Drag Race cast members Aquaria, Trinity and Monét X Change and their thoughts on the latest All Stars season. At 16:40 a listener writes in to ask why the guy she was seeing refused sex but insisted she “ride on his ass” instead. They explain how to work your kinks into the relationship over time. At 33:10 Chris shares a story about going to war with a meme Instagram account.

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How Do I Start Dating In A New City? Jan 07, 2019

Bryan and Chris are back for the first episode of 2019. Chris attempted to save the Betches office from a rogue mouse. They update us on their New Year’s resolutions. So far Bryan has failed to go to the gym and Chris has failed to do the splits. At 8:45 they raise concerns that Lady Gaga may not win an Oscar for her role in “A Star Is Born” which leads to some movie discussion and a review of the new Mary Poppins. At 13:50 a listener writes in for advice about trying to meet new friends in a city when you’re planning to leave anyway. Chris shares a weird threatening Grindr message he received this week. At 24:00 another listener writes in to ask about how to find a guy when he moves to New York.

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Is It Normal To Feel Anxious When I’m Alone With Another Gay Guy? Ft. Ian Michael Crumm Dec 31, 2018

Bryan and Chris present to you a very gay new year! They’re joined by fashion blogger and influencer Ian Michael Crumm. Ian talks about how he was able to transition his blog and Tumblr into a successful Instagram account. At 19:00 a listener writes in asking how to feel as comfortable when he’s by himself with another gay as opposed to a group of gays.

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My New Year’s Resolution Is To Be A Bigger Bitch Ft. Daryn Carp Dec 24, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by The Official Everyone’s Gay Lesbian Correspondent, Daryn Carp. They start by talking about Andy Cohen’s announcement that he’s having a baby through a surrogate. Daryn’s known all along and is finally happy that the cat is out of the bag so she doesn’t have the weight of the secret on her shoulders anymore. At 8:00 they talk about their New Year’s resolutions, or lack thereof. At 13:30 a listener writes in wondering if it’s ok to sleep with a boss? At 25:25 a listener writes in wondering if he should tell his friend that her dad has a grindr profile and loves to send nudes.

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Come For The Dick, Stay For The Yoga Ft. Grayson Gilbert Dec 17, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by gay jack of all trades, Grayson Gilbert. At 5:00 Grayson explains how he got into kundalini yoga. At 9:30 Grayson explains how he uses his onlyfans.com page for something other than porn. At 21:30 a listener writes in wondering how to make an awkward romantic encounter at an office party a little less awkward. At 28:20 they talk about the awkwardness of uninspired hookups and whether it’s better to pass up those opportunities all together. At 32:00 Grayson explains how he thought he was lactose intolerant but really it was chlamydia.

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Should I Reconnect With My Ex After A Two Year Breakup? Dec 10, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They start by dissecting their top songs on Spotify. Chris seems a bit surprised by how much Demi Lovato he listened to this year but he’s convinced that he and Ariana Grande will cross paths and become friends. At 9:25 they talk about the Golden Globes and the nomination of Lady Gaga for lead actress in a drama. At 12:30 they talk about Kevin Hart’s homophobic tweets that have stirred up controversy surrounding the Oscars. At 16:50 they talk about their relationship history with straight men through the years as it relates to tolerance and kindness. At 24:55 a listener writes in wondering if he should contact an old flame 2 years after after a breakup with minimal contact. Thanks to our sponsor! Scentbird- Go to scentbird.com/GAY and use code GAY for fifty percent off your first month!

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It's Never Too Late To Come Out Ft. Taylor Strecker Dec 03, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by the amazing, Taylor Strecker. At 7:40 Bryan explains his gay awakening which took place after watching the Michael Keaton movie “Jack Frost”. At 13:00 Taylor talks about her turn from closeted homophobe to fabulous out of the closet lesbian. At 16:00 Taylor explains how she met her girlfriend while originally trying to set her up with a friend of her ex husband’s. At 23:00 Taylor talks about her experience realizing she was gay and breaking the news to her radio audience. At 31:45 a listener living in a new city writes in wondering how to re-introduce himself to the gay scene after a lukewarm first impression. Thanks to our sponsor! Go to TomBoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

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Is My Boyfriend Gay? Nov 26, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. Chris saw “Bohemian Rhapsody” which he enjoyed but was a little surprised that a movie about Freddie Mercury has no sex of any kind in it. At 8:00 Bryan brings up “Keeping Up With The Kardashians” and the show’s amazing ability to stretch the Khloe pregnancy story line for months. At 11:00 a listener writes in hoping to get a little insight on whether or not her boyfriend is a homosexual or not. 22:40 Chris explains that he was invited to his 10 year high school reunion and also explains why his won’t be attending. At 25:50 a listener writes in wondering if he should keep contact with a long distance flame who now has a boyfriend. Thanks to our sponsors! Care/of- For 25% off your first month of personalized Care/of vitamins, visit TakeCareOf.com and enter Promo Code GAY. Go to Tom BoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

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Why Do Some Guys Insist On Not Wearing A Condom? Ft. Tyler Ashley Nov 19, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by The Dauphine of Bushwick, Tyler Ashley. Tyler is a star in the NYC nightlife scene who performs in drag, and dances. At 6:30 Tyler explains the origins of his “Dauphine” nickname. At 10:15 Tyler explains how he got started as a performer in the NYC nightlife scene which, surprisingly, started in the field of acrobatics. At 20:20 a listener writes in wondering if it's a dealbreaker that the guy he's hooking up with constantly asks to not wear a condom. At 30:00 Tyler breaks down which dating apps he’s using and explains which one he thinks the best are. Thanks to our sponsor Tomboy X! Regardless of where you fall on the size or gender spectrum – TomBoyX offers amazing underwear that ANY BODY feels comfortable in. Go to Tom BoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

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Getting Ghosted... Literally Ft. Mike Kelton Nov 12, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by comedian and host of the podcast “Beyond”, Mike Kelton. Mike is an extremely spiritual person and explores the possibilities of past lives and the other side on his show. At 7:40 Mike explains that he went to see a soothsayer who revealed his past lives to him. At 11:00 Mike talks about the experience of losing his grandfather and feeling the disruption of his departure of this plain of existence. At 25:00 a listener writes in wondering if he’s going overboard by sexting guys all day.

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Always Have Sex Like An Ugly Person Nov 05, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and excited for the election! At 3:15 they talk about Carly Rae Jepson’s new song which they both love. Chris also loves Carly Rae Jepson because she’s older than him and doesn’t have to be jealous of someone younger and more successful. At 6:55 they talk about Marina and The Diamonds’ new song which, again, they love. At 13:30 a listener writes in looking for advice on how to build up enough steam to move to New York City. At 21:45 a listener writes in wondering how to tame a hot guy who is dating a lot of people. Thanks to our sponsors! Zola- Zola, the wedding company that will do anything for love, is reinventing the wedding planning and registry experience to make the happiest moment in couples' lives even happier. To start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your registry on Zola, go to ZOLA.com/Gay Be A Hero- Garland Benson is on a mission to save his sister, Christiane, by funding a treatment for her and other kids with the fatal and rare condition called Batten disease. To learn more and watch his video visit: www.beyondbatten.org/hero Text HERO to 501501 to donate $10

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What Is Masculinity Anyway? Oct 29, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back! Chris has finally returned from his odyssey across the Atlantic which included a wedding, a bad mushroom trip, and an encounter with an aggressive London business man. At 12:30 a listener in the closet writes in wondering how to shake self hateful feelings about their own sexuality. At 28:30 a listener writes in wondering how to get a guy he’s casually seeing to take their relationship as seriously as he does. Bryan and Chris both agree that having a boyfriend is actually pretty cool and it’s not a crime to admit that you want one. Thanks to our sponsors Lola-LOLA is a female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners and all-natural cleansing wipes. “For 40% off all subscriptions, visit mylola.com and enter "GAY" when you subscribe!” Scentbird- Scentbird dot com keeps you smelling good month after month. Go to scentbird.com/gay for 50 percent off your first month.

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How To Run Into Your One Night Stand Gracefully Ft. Cole Escola Oct 22, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by hilarious comedian, Cole Escola. Cole has been open about his sexuality since he was 17 when he came out of the closet after renting “Queer As Folk” at a Hollywood video in Portland, Oregon. At 12:00 Cole confesses that in his early years in New York, he worked as a sex worker. At 17:00 a listener writes in wondering how to bring a partner to work events without making a company wide announcement that they’re gay. At 29:45 Bryan tells the story of a one night stand that reared its ugly head on a recent trip to Fire Island.

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What's It Like to Work With the Biggest Pop Stars? Ft. Mark Kanemura Oct 15, 2018

Bryan and Chris are joined by Mark Kanemura of many fames including his viral Cut to the Feeling video, Dancing to the Stars, and dancing for Lady Gaga. He talks about his first music video, touring with Gaga, dealing with Little Monsters, and working with Janet Jackson. At 26:15, they take a question from a lesbian listener who wants to get more serious in her relationship but her partner doesn't seem quite on board. For instance, she won’t drop the ILY. Is there a future there? They talk about the difference between being friends with your exes between gays and lesbians. They wrap up talking about the temptation of doing ASMR recordings while on mic.

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Will Lady Gaga EGOT? Oct 08, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re on cloud nine after watching, “A Star Is Born”. At 1:45 a listener asks how long you should date someone until you realize they’re boyfriend material. At 7:50 they dive into their review of “A Star Is Born”. If you’re not into spoilers, that might be when you want to shut the pod off. If you’ve seen the movie continue on to hear them talk about the movie, Lady Gaga, and how many times they may have cried in the theater.

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Who’s Better To Work With, Kendall or Kylie? Ft. James DeMolet Oct 01, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by, stylist to the stars, James DeMolet. James has a million stories from working with some of the biggest names in show business like Justin Bieber, Pink and Kylie and Kendall to name a few. At 5:00 James spills some major tea about Jennifer Hudson. At 8:20 James reveals his favorite celebrity to style. At 19:25 find out which Jonas Brother cut Bryan in line. At 22:00 a listener writes in for advice after feeling forced into an open relationship with their partner.

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How To Make The First Move Sep 24, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back recording on location at Fire Island. They’re partying hard and Chris loves the wild get togethers, but Bryan just wants to be where the people aren't. At 4:30 they talk about Kelly Clarkson getting her own daytime talk show proclaiming that she will most certainly EGOT. At 8:00 Bryan talks about his battle with an internet troll. At 14:50 a listener writes in wondering how to make the first move to begin a new friendship as opposed to a romantic relationship. At 25:50 A listener writes in wondering how to get into a relationship.

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Spitting During Sex, Yay Or Nay? Ft. Daryn Carp Sep 17, 2018

Chris and Bryan are back with huge news. Friend of the show, Daryn Carp is their new lesbian correspondent! At 10:21 they recount their experiences with people spitting in their mouths. At 14:35 a listener writes in wondering how to experiment with bi-sexuality without being labelled “bi-sexual”. At 21:00 Chris recounts a steamy encounter at a wedding with a man he thought was straight. At 27:30 a listener writes in hoping for flirting advice on his college campus. At 35:40, Daryn blows Bryan’s mind by explaining to him what docking is.

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Does Instagram Make Me Look More Ratchet? Ft. Madeline Grey DeFreece Sep 10, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by Actress Madeline Grey DeFreece of “The Last OG” who officially comes out at 3:15 as bisexual and that she's been hooking up with women since high school. At 13:00 Madeline talks about the experience of being directed by the legendary Spike Lee. At 18:00 Bryan recounts an acting class that he took which he hated immensely. At 20:35 A straight listener writes in wondering if gay men ever have sex with each other while in drag.

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How Do I Know If I'm Getting Ghosted Ft. Zeke Smith Sep 03, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back with a Labor Day extravaganza. They’re joined by Zeke Smith from “Survivor”. At 2:30 Bryan reveals that he’s a huge “Survivor” fan and is a little star struck. Zeke talks to them about his journey as a trans man and how he was outed by another “Survivor” contestant way before he was willing to let the world know. At 22:00 a listener writes in because they are confused as to whether or not they are being ghosted.

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Don't Fall Under The Dick Spell Ft. Zara Barrie Aug 27, 2018

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by author, editor, and all around renaissance woman, Zara Barrie to wrap up wedding season. Zara is recently “lesbian engaged” and is planning her wedding with her fiance. Everyone assumes she's bridezilla because she’s fem, but it’s actually the other way around. At 13:40 Chris admits that he never wanted to get married growing up, but is beginning to change his mind as he gets older. At 15:05 a listener wonders if straight people are ruining Fire Island just for the spectacle. Should straight people even be allowed to walk on this sacred ground? At 25:15 a listener asks if they should keep dating someone who is hot but has a number of red flags.

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Open Relationships: How Do They Work? Ft. Anonymous Married Man Aug 20, 2018

Bryan and Chris sit down with a gay man in a 7-year open marriage. You'd think that after meeting on Grindr, this fling would've been a lot shorter. This secret guest stresses the importance of honesty, communication, and mentions the bed rule, a since-outdated rule where suitors were outcalls only (the bed was a sacred place). At 27:11, they take a letter from a listner whose partner of five years doesn't want sex anymore. Are they asexual and what gives? Bryan offends their secret guest by suggesting that gay sex is only 10 minutes long, which segues into a general discussion of how long gay sex should take. Chris encourages listeners to send him hate mail because the engagement is through the roof.

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Bachelorette Parties: Invite Your Gay Friend Aug 13, 2018

Chris and Bryan are fried because this recording is early, bitch. After last week’s failed attempt at recording a “potcast” they reunite to give their opinions on bachelorette parties. At 7:50 Chris explains that being included in bachelorette parties makes him feel included despite not being able to fit into women’s XL theme shirts. At 12:15 a listener writes in asking if it bothers them when women have bachelorette parties at drag shows. At 21:50 Chris offers to officiate your wedding. He promises not to ruin it with his comedy.

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Buns Not Guns Ft. The Travelin Bum Aug 06, 2018

Chris and Bryan are joined by The Travelin Bum himself, Jeff Perla. At 6:55 Jeff explains how he picks people, and their asses, for his Instagram account. At 11:30 they reminisce on scouring AOL chat rooms for dick pics. At 16:50 they decide who tops their list of people they’d like to see naked. At 32:30 a listener writes asking what he should do about a relationship with a wealthy twink that’s losing its luster. At 41:00 they play a game of would you rather, naked butt edition.

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Craigslist: The OG Hook-up App Jul 30, 2018

Chris and Bryan discuss gay online dating. Chris describes it as "hard, stupid, and it makes me feel bad about myself." They discuss the original gay hook-up app: Craigslist. Bryan's previous prospects included men who were variously: married, closeted, poor, or hoarders. Chris was once greeted by a man opening a door, already spanking it (and who had a rubber duck collection). At 30:45 they take a letter from a listener who met a guy online. Before they ever got a chance to meet, this guy moved to Germany. They want to know why. At 35:25, they play some games including Would You Rather: meet people only on Christian Mingle or only on Grindr?

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Gay Bars: What Not To Do Jul 23, 2018

It’s the podcast where “we’re both gay so so are you.” Today’s topic is gay bars or as they’re known to straights, “bars but specifically for the homosexual people.” They talk about leather, types of gay bars, and tell some hook-up stories. You’ll never know if harnesses are becoming mainstream unless you tune in. Chris tells the story of getting gay friend-zoned by being told he’s loved like a brother. Bryan got scarlet fever and became a super twink -- which did not end well. They talk about their first gay bar experiences and “that smell of straight men.” At 30:03, they take a letter from a “baby gay betch” who recently came out and is nervous that they’ll make a fool of themselves at a gay bar, are there any unspoken rules? At 38:44, they play would you rather: only go to straight bars forever, or have to go to a gay bar every night for 10 years for at least two hours.

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You Don't Love Me, You Want To Be Me Ft. Daryn Carp Jul 16, 2018

Bryan and Chris are joined by their first lady and host of the podcast "Martinis and Murder", Daryn Carp. Daryn breaks down what it's like to work first hand with Andy Cohen, and why the Manson Murders are her favorite. This episode presents the question "are gay men misogynistic towards women?" At 29:00, they break down a letter from a listener asking how to do damage control after being outed by somebody when they aren't ready for the world to know. At 38:00, get ready for a game of "Marry, Fuck, Kill"- serial killer edition.

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What To Do If You've Fallen For a Gay Man Jul 09, 2018

Gay people are feeling off all of the time. Chris admits to feeling on maybe once or twice a week, usually uppers are involved. Bryan hates girls' hair (don't ask him to smell your hair). Pride Month is over and the hosts are low-key thrilled. The commercialization of pride month is frustrating. Obviously, you like gays, you're a store in Chelsea. They move onto gay tribes such as twink, bear, otter, daddy, chub, etc. and define all of them. At 24:11, a listener writes in about being unable to orgasm with their boyfriend inside of them. Chris advocates that one should, "eat the bussy, eat the pussy, suck the peen." At 30:27, a single female writes in. She's fallen for a gay guy and is totally and completely in love with him. What should she do?

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What It's Like To Be a Mean Girl On Broadway Ft. Grey Henson Jul 02, 2018

Bryan saw Mean Girls on Broadway and Emma Thompson told a girl being noisy, "excuse me, but you really need to stop that." They ask Grey how it was working with Tina Fey, how Broadway shows write and rehearse, and what it was like finding out he got the big part. Grey talks about how fun and tiring it can be playing a high schooler and taking selfies with fans. Bryan shares a trick for getting to the front of Beyonce concerts. At 25:00, they take a letter from a listener struggling to make gay friends. At 31:50, they take another letter from a listener whose gay sister is dating someone. They've been together a couple months and are moving in. Chris used to be friends with five 38-year-old Lesbians. They wrap up asking Grey what he would tell your teenage-age self?

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Should You Hit On Your 'Straight' Friend? Ft. Yuhua Hamasaki Jun 25, 2018

Bryan and Chris are joined by Yuhua Hamasaki of RuPaul's Drag Race. They talk about the process of getting on the show and the viral moments (Miss. Vannnjie). They talk about drag culture, its origins, and who they think will win the finale. At 18:20, they take a letter from a listener who is attracted to a straight friend and wants to make a move since they're potentially bi, but they don't want to come off as a "predator to the straights." At 26:40 they take a letter from a gay man talking about his lesbian sister. The listener wonders if gay men and lesbians can be friends. At 35:00, they wrap up on a classic question: what would you tell your 14-year-old self if you could?

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You’re Welcome For This Bonus Episode Jun 22, 2018

Everyone’s Gay + The Betches Sup team up for a hilarious bonus episode ahead of their upcoming live show 6/26 at The Public Hotel. Buy tickets at: betches.co/supeglive

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Just a Bottom Trying To Get On Top Jun 18, 2018

Bryan and Chris return for an amazing Episode 2. They talk about Bryan and whether or not he's a ginger (he's not), gay people who don't have a community, and remember the tough times when they were in the closet and not surrounded by gay friends. After they talk about gay icons. Seriously, why are they all women (besides RuPaul)? They talk extensively about Lady Gaga, queen that she is. After, at 19:57, they take a letter from a listener who's always been a bottom but wants to try being a top. The problem is they don't last very long. How can he last longer? At 26:44, they take another letter from a listener asking about how to handle a niece that they suspect is gay. What do they say when she comes out? After they talk about what piece of advice your current self would tell your high school self. Then they ask Gus Kenworthy, Adam Rippon, Natasha Lyonne and more the same question.

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I Moved To The City And Now I'm Gay Ft. Phillip Picardi Jun 11, 2018

Bryan and Chris, neither of whom have ever touched a vagina, talk about coming out of the closet. They talk about the challenges of coming out and how if everyone had just come out of the closet, they could have all been fucking the whole time. They talk about how to react when someone comes out to you. They move onto pride which Bryan deems worth going if you've never gone. At 20:54, they are joined by Phillip Picardi, Chief Content Officer at Teen Vogue and them. They talk about the meaning of Pride, them (a community platform dedicated to celebrating LGBTQ voices), fashion, and more. At 34:18, they take a question from a listener asking if her boyfriend is gay who wants a male-male-female encounter - more for his benefit than hers

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Everyone's Gay Teaser May 24, 2018

Welcome to the latest podcast by Betches Media! Everyone’s Gay is a no filter podcast that covers gay sex, dating and lifestyle with occasional pop culture analysis. Unlike other "gay" podcasts, Everyone's Gay is not toned down for a squeamish straight audience. Instead, your hilarious hosts, Chris Burns and Bryan Russell Smith, provide a real look at all things homosexual in a funny, informative way that will delight gay audiences (and interested breeders).

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