Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson - Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Latest Episodes:

How to Have Great Relationships: Attachment and the Self Aug 03, 2020

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We all want great relationships - ones that are fulfilling, loving, stable, and fun. This is the first of two episodes focused on becoming a 'great relater.' Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest focus on understanding our individual attachment style, and how we can work through our personal material.

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Key Topics:

0:25: Staying content while striving for achievement.

4:00: Information on the relationship workshop.

6:20: Who helps you feel enlarged?

7:55: Rick makes fun of Forrest…and managing different levels of standard.

9:00: Building a good relator.

10:15: Attachment theory

17:00: Getting less attached to our attachment style.

19:15: Insecure attachment styles.

23:00: What issues does anxious attachment create?

26:00: A relationship between anxious and avoidant.

29:00: Skills for relating with an anxious person.

32:00: Finding optimal distance.

35:30: Working through a dreaded experience.

39:30: Exposure and blame.

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The Pitfalls of Self-Help: Comparison and The Secret Jul 27, 2020

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In the second episode related to the pitfalls of self-help, we explore how individuals and environments can manipulate others by making them feel like something is wrong with them.

This is a self-help podcast. And there's a lot to like about self-help! But it has it's issues as well. Today we're exploring our exploration of those issues by focusing on painful forms of comparison and the natural vs. supernatural frame.

Key Topics:

2:45: Being goal directed vs. self-acceptance.

6:50: Exploitative practices and the fragile psyche.

10:20: Relating to “problems” in healthy ways.

14:20: Comparison and creating a sense of lack.

16:30: Identifying good teachers and communities.

21:30: Comparison.

24:00: Separating means and ends.

26:00: How to deal with comparison.

30:30: How much do we actually control?

33:00: The Secret, and the natural vs. supernatural frames.

39:15: Cheapening the truly transcendent.

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Polyvagal Theory with Dr. Stephen Porges Jul 20, 2020

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Dr. Stephen Porges joins Rick and Forrest to explore his Polyvagal Theory, which explains how we can use the systems of the body to completely change our relationship with stress.

About Our Guest: Dr. Stephen Porges is a Distinguished University Scientist at Indiana University and Professor of Psychiatry at the University of North Carolina. In 1994 he proposed the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that links the evolution of the nervous system to social behavior and emphasizes the importance of physiological states in our psychological experiences.

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Key Topics:

1:45: Summary of Polyvagal Theory.

6:00: Evolutionary neuro-biology: the three systems of the body.

15:15: The adaptive nature of the three systems.

19:45: Shutdown, trauma, and constructing a narrative.

23:00: Challenges of COVID to the social engagement system

28:15: How to intervene in the body.

33:00: Being stuck with problematic people.

35:30: Using the breath and staying calm.

38:00: Co-regulation

42:00: A message to your younger self.

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The Pitfalls of Self-Help: Forced Positivity Jul 13, 2020

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Do self-help environments force us into inauthentic happiness? And how can we move away from the false front, and into more authentic expression? This is the first of a series of episodes dedicated to some of the self-help community's pitfalls.

This is a self-help podcast. And there's a lot to like about self-help! But it has it's issues as well. Today we're exploring one of them: toxic positivity and forced happiness.

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Key Topics:

3:00: Rick’s personal experience inside the personal development world.

8:00: Things that tend to limit abuses of power.

10:00: The democratization of self-help, and related pitfalls.

18:00: Act, scared self, and true being.

21:00: Where does toxic positivity appear?

26:00: The importance of authenticity.

29:30: The false front.

32:30: Encouraging other people to be fully authentic.

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Start Now: Mid-Year Resolutions Jul 06, 2020

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We're halfway through a very strange year, and it's a good time to take stock, check in with ourselves, and establish some new commitments – even if they’re as simple as being kind to ourselves.

One way we can reclaim our experience of agency is by finding where we do still have influence over our outcomes. And that’s what we’ll be exploring today: how to start anew under the circumstances we find ourselves in.

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Key Topics:

3:45: Hope and disappointment.

7:30: Reckoning, repentance, and renewal.

11:00: Controlling what you can.

14:00: Coping with self-criticism and shame.

18:30: How to approach the future.

20:45: Building key habits.

24:00: Changing our identity in order to change our behavior.

26:30: Forrest's changing identity - moving into empathy.

29:30: Using key phrases.

31:00: Rick's changing identity - feeling like a good person.

34:00: Realistic optimism.

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Can We Do No Harm? Jun 29, 2020

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Is it possible to "do no harm," and should we even try? Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore what it means to do no harm, and the inner resources that allow us to do as little as possible.

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Key Topics:

1:10: Reckoning and repenting in this moment.

4:45: What does it mean to truly do no harm?

6:45: How does doing no harm help us “be well?”

11:30: Reasons to take a collective perspective.

16:15: Grappling with the reality of causing harm.

19:00: The importance of repair.

22:30: Extending repair to yourself.

29:30: Are there necessary harms?

33:00: Resources that allow us to do less harm.

40:30: What happens when we stop being a danger to others?

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Unlearning Racist Conditioning with Erin Trent Johnson Jun 22, 2020

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What can we do to combat, unlearn, and ultimately unburden ourselves from the influence of systemic structures of racism - both out in the world and inside of ourselves?

About Our Guest: Erin is the CEO, principal coach, and founder of Community Equity Partners, and the senior advisor at the Equity Lab. Erin works with educational, non-profit, government, and tech organizations that are committed to creating equitable and inclusive practices.

Key Topics:

1:10: Finding hope and awakening in the moment.

6:30: "Unburdening" ourselves.

9:15: Overt vs. covert structures and systems of racism.

16:15: Key moments that lead to waking to systemic racism.

23:30: A message to your younger self.

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Healing Our History with Dr. Sherri Taylor Jun 15, 2020

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What is intergenerational trauma, how does it influence our lives today, and what can we do to heal and persevere when things get tough?

The events of the past few weeks have cast the importance of healing the wounds of the past into stark relief. Today we’re exploring how the traumatic past, including that handed down through the generations, can influence our lives today.

About Our Guest: Dr. Sherri Taylor is an assistant professor of somatic psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies, and also teaches in the clinical psychology doctoral program at The Wright Institute.

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Key Topics:

4:10: What is intergenerational trauma?

7:30: Adaptive strategies for coping with trauma.

12:30: The primacy of the body.

15:15: Reclaiming comfort in your body.

20:45: Sensorymotor psychotherapy

22:30: Being with grief.

26:15: How to keep going when this process gets hard.

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Institutional Racism and Traumatic Stress with Dr. Alfiee Jun 08, 2020

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Racism and racist structures place an enormous mental health burden on the people they persecute. Dr. Alfiee joins me to discuss the mental health consequences of institutional racism, unique challenges faced by marginalized youth, disparities in access to mental health services, and the importance of "naming and claiming."

About Our Guest: Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble is a licensed psychologist who spent 20 years in academic medicine. She's the lead author of The Handbook of Mental Health in African American Youth, the host of the podcast "Couched in Color with Dr. Alfiee," and the founder of the mental health nonprofit the AAKOMA Project.

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Key Topics:

3:30: The impact of institutional racism on mental health.

7:00: Forms of exposure to racism.

9:45: Allostatic load, weathering, and secondary traumatic stress.

15:30: Ways to manage traumatic stress.

19:45: Confusing stress and anxiety.

22:30: The importance of accurate labeling.

25:00: AAKOMA and availability of mental health resources.

29:00: Access, and the stigmatization of mental health.

33:30: Removing the stigma.

37:20: A message to your younger self.

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We Should Be Uncomfortable Jun 05, 2020

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It's our turn to be uncomfortable.

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Racism is a public health crisis.

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