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Start Your Engines Ep. 13: On Arousal Non-Concordance and the Sexy Sex Oct 29, 2020

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It's time for our monthly 'Start Your Engines' podcast, with special guest Keith! We hope you enjoyed this conversation all about the sexy sex!
Links to things mentioned:
10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/10-things-husbands-who-are-great-lovers-do/
The Orgasm Course: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-orgasm-course/
Some articles from the blog talking about dealing with Pornography addiction:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/motivation-for-men-to-fight-pornography/
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/how-to-break-the-stronghold-of-porn/
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

The One MAJOR Roadblock to Orgasm Oct 15, 2020

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Join us for another week of the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast, where Sheila explores some of your comments on how the beliefs we internalize affect a couple's sex life.
Link to the blog:
http://www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com
Link to Pre-Order The Great Sex Rescue:
https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 74. Having Troubles with Orgasm? You are NOT Broken! Oct 08, 2020

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This month on the blog we're going to be talking lots about orgasms! Do you struggle with having orgasms? Do you see your body as something working against you, not for you? We're here to help talk about these things!
And today we have Sheila, Rebecca AND Connor all hopping on the podcast to give some great thoughts about how we talk about women's sexuality, how we view our sexual needs, and how we can increase the likelihood of orgasming!
Blog post mentioned from Monday: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/you-are-not-broken-if-you-cant-reach-orgasm/
Blog post for this podcast: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 73. Questions on Sexual Abuse and the Road to Recovery Oct 01, 2020

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Join us this week as Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach discuss some important topics -- sexual abuse and when to seek professional help.
Links to things mentioned in the podcast:
The need for licensed counselling : https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/question-your-biblical-counsellor/
Dan Allender's book: https://www.amazon.com/The-Wounded-Heart-Dan-B-Allender-audiobook/dp/B01ATOK6H8
"98 Ways You Could Be Sinning Against Your Husband": https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/06/sinning-against-husband/

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Start Your Engines Ep. 12: On Frequency and Feeling Sex-Starved Sep 24, 2020

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Thank you for tuning in to the September edition of the 'Start Your Engines Podcast'!
Links mentioned in the episode:
Blog Post on Frequency: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/
Email List Sign-up: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7dab5e96bfaeb6aaa1503b481&id=5b44e4e8aa
Link for the Blog: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 72. What if Frequency and Libido Differences AREN'T the Real Issue? Sep 17, 2020

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This month on the blog we’re discussing all things ‘Libido’! Listen in to hear Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Sheila Wray Gregoire talk about what could possibly be the key to unlocking your spouses’ low libido, and perhaps make you rethink how you see 'frequency' in relation to healthy sex!

Blog Posts Mentioned in this Podcast:

How frequently should a healthy couple have sex?:

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/

How to see Every Man’s Battle Differently: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2017/06/every-mans-battle-is-wrong/

How to see Sex from a Different Perspective: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/understanding-sex-from-a-womans-perspective/

Why We Need to See Sex as Mutual: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/godly-sex-is-mutual-sex/

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 71. Are Sex and Talking Really the Same Thing? Sep 10, 2020

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This week Sheila is flying solo on the podcast, and getting a bit more controversial!
Listen in to hear her discuss the concept of how being content with your sex life can perhaps cause it to flourish even more, how sex and talking are NOT equivalent, and how Christians should better handle speaking about divorce.
Links for Things Mentioned:
Free Sex Pep-Talk Course! https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/sex-pep-talk-course/
This week's mentioned post: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/libido-can-high-drive-spouses-be-content-with-sex-frequency/
My Post on "Are you to blame if your husband has an affair?" https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/07/are-you-to-blame-if-your-spouse-cheats-on-you/
Book Recommendation: Marc Alan Schelske's "The Wisdom of your Heart" https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Your-Heart-Discovering-God-Given/dp/0781414512/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=marc+alan+wisdom&qid=1599678760&sr=8-1

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 70: How To Handle Complicated Engagements Sep 03, 2020

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How do you handle it when tough conversations come up and loved ones are making decisions you don't agree with? Especially when marriage and engagements are the starting point for those hard conversations?
Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum talk through different Reader Questions and come up with some tips on communicating and how to discuss issues such as pornography and past trauma with your fiance!
Some links mentioned in this podcast:
The Honeymoon Course!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-honeymoon-course-start-your-marriage-and-your-sex-life-off-well/
Our 'Love & Respect' Blog Posts:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/01/love-and-respect-review-how-sex-portrayed/
Should you marry someone who uses porn?
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/01/should-you-marry-porn-user/
BOOKS MENTIONED:
Why I Didn't Rebel: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Didnt-Rebel-Twenty-Two-Year-Old-Narrow/dp/0718090004/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=why+i+didn%27t+rebel&qid=1599102064&sr=8-1
Discipline That Connects with Your Child's Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Discipline-that-Connects-Childs-Heart/dp/0984994203

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Start Your Engines Ep. 11: How NOT to Flirt With Your Wife Aug 27, 2020

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What if, when flirting, your signals keep getting crossed and for some reason your wife doesn't respond well to your advances? In today's episode, Sheila and Keith, (plus Rebecca and Connor!), sit down to break down why flirting and groping are different things, as well as how to optimize your timing and context when flirting!
Check out the blog for so much more on this topic, and fun challenges to do with your spouse!
http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Episode 69: Let's Talk Sexual Favours... and Pain? Aug 20, 2020

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What do you do if you can't/don't want to have intercourse, but other forms of sex are actually uncomfortable?

Some Christian books tell women they should give sexual favors, because they're "simple" and take a "minimum of effort."

Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum look at the complete picture--what this should look like in a healthy relationship, and how to think about it if one of you actually is physically uncomfortable.

Because, as always, sex is supposed to be MUTUAL.

Some links mentioned in this podcast:

All my Audio books--and the free book studies that go along with my books:

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/audio-books-free-video-studies-and-more/

My Boost Your Libido course!

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/boost-libido-course/

Our marital rape/consent/obligation sex podcast:

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/

And for more discussion on this podcast, check out the post that goes along with it!

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/podcast-when-oral-sex-manual-sex-hurt

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:

The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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