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Instagram Couples, Kinky America, and Daddy Issues with Violet Benson Jul 16, 2021

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Happy Balls Deep Day, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel decides to remove her IUD, Arielle gives her new lover blue balls, and together they brainstorm why boys love “the crazy.” The girls give the inside scoop on what you should watch this weekend and schmooze about Selena Gomez’s hot girl summer. They also debunk the myth that Elle Woods was originally meant to have a queer ending, hype up Nikki Glaser’s upcoming dating show FBOY Island, and give the 411 on two of 2021’s most unlikely updates: the NBA helping fans get off and Lil Wayne’s favorite sex position. YOWZA! In scary news, the patriarchy is chipping away at abortion rights, and in flirty news, Americans are having better sex.

Mother of sex memes and queen of @daddyissues_, Violet Benson, joins the pod for an epic convo on ugly duckling syndrome, immigrant mentality, and pulling yourself out of toxic dating patterns. The Jewish-Russian business bitch presents her case on withholding sex on the first date and warns against getting “dickmatized.” As for her porn story? This is one we’ve never heard before…

Okay, so… a recovering Catholic requests pointers to help her overcome her religious guilt and another listener calls in on behalf of her mother with a question on how to get out of the dreaded “talking phase.” Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Summer Coochie, Pull Out Method, and Bisexuality with Zachary Zane Jul 09, 2021

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It’s not getting any cooler and we know you’re thirsty for episode 28! This week, Arielle spills a secret from a late night romp and Rachel gives tips for dealing with Sweaty Summer Coochie™. The girls get Balls Deep into Kim Kardashian freeing Britney Spears, Netflix’s Sexy Beasts, Bill Cosby, the new breakup app PostDates, and Allison Mack’s sentencing. In news, the girls discuss the efficacy of the pull out method and how you can tell if someone wants sex based on just their facial features.

Bisexual icon, writer, and activist Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk bisexuality. The interview covers everything from “double discrimination,” to why bisexual people face more mental and physical problems than the rest of the LGBTQ+ community. He explains why more people need to publicly come out as bi, and as always, we suggest you stay tuned for a first-time porn story you won’t want to miss.

Okay, so… a caller wants to explore her sexuality with a woman and fears internalized misogyny will make her bad at cunnilingus, and another Blue baller is at her wits end with dating apps. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Fisting, False Positive, and Curly Pubes with Emily Wilson Jul 02, 2021

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It’s July and it’s hot as BALLS — might we suggest cooling off with the 27th installation of Balls Deep? This week, we live react to horny texts from one of Arielle’s many suitors before giving you a list of must-watch content. From Ilana Glazer’s False Positive (skip from 13:57 — 22:14 to avoid spoilers!) to Outer Banks, Rachel and Arielle also break down Britney Spears’ chilling court testimony and talk about the importance of showing healthy male bromances in media. In news, the hosts discuss a study on sluts, identity, and neglect, and Rachel ends Pride month with a groundbreaking announcement for the Miss USA Pageant and trans community.

This week’s interview features a dear friend of the pod who also happens to be a hilarious comedian, singer, and actor: Emily Wilson. We have an open chat on white girls on a diet, coke nails (but for frosting), and Emily’s appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show. Stay tuned for Emily’s first porn experience, and remember: everyone’s got curly pubes.

Okay, so a Blue Baller is stressing because her boyfriend keeps going on dates with his girl “friends,” and another listener needs to know if guys at the bar REALLY think she is hot. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO

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Broken Dicks, Olympic Orgies, and Sex & Money with Gaby Dunn Jun 25, 2021

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on the pod, Rachel and Arielle reveal the dirty truth behind club promoters and wonder if anyone actually knows what a real-life 26 year old looks like. Schmooze highlights include the Batman/Catwoman oral sex debate, Victoria’s Secret’s long-overdue rebrand, and a politician’s perfect response to his leaked BDSM video. In sex news, the girls get balls deep into new protections for transgender students, why the Olympics banned sex but supplies condoms for athletes, and celebrate Anne Frank’s bisexuality.

Strap in for a hilarious conversation with podcaster, author, and activist Gaby Dunn as we talk about two of the most taboo subjects: sex and money. Gaby talks about the struggle of wanting more money and needing to stay true to themselves. Gaby opens up about how dating helped pave the way to explore their gender and shared the story of their first time reading Superman porn online. Needless to say, it’s a must-listen.

Okay, so… a caller feels guilty for breaking her not-boyfriend’s dick, and Rachel and Arielle give a recently-single gal some advice on casual sex after a long-term relationship. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Ghost Orgasms, Floor Sex, and Netflix Queerbaiting with Casey Tanner Jun 18, 2021

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A toast is in order for the 25th Balls Deep Day! This week, Arielle witnesses her first ghost orgasm, Rachel and Hunter recreate that Notebook sex scene (you know the one), and the girls list off all the different hot girl sub-genres. See also: a conversation about Billie Eilish’s queerbaiting accusations, nipple reconstruction surgery, and advice on how to track how many calories you burn doin' the dirty. In news, the hosts get Balls Deep into why shitty husbands make more money, how long sex should really last, and a new report that declares Facebook a hub for sex trafficking — oy vey!

The vivacious Casey Tanner joins the show for an incredible conversation on queer sex therapy and how her career path flipped from studying to be a youth paster to becoming the queer affirming therapist she wished she had. We also dive into how Netflix knows your sexuality better than you do, all the different flavors of the patriarchy, and to top it all off, Dr. Casey answers some listener questions.

Okay, so a Blue Baller calls in to request tips for butt stuff with her boyfriend, and another listener needs advice on the post sex cleanup. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Lazy Girl Sex, Blocking Your Ex, and She Rates Dogs with Michaela Okland Jun 11, 2021

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Mazel tov, Blue Ballers, you made it to Balls Deep Friday! This week, Arielle dishes on her dating life and anti-depressants, Rachel shares her adventures at the beach, and together they expose companies guilty of “rainbow-washing.” The hosts schmooze about a bad-ass valedictorian speech, McDonald’s “feminist” commercial, and Tinder’s best update yet. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a study about height preferences and attractiveness, how ride-sharing apps can help reduce sexual assault, and an oral history on the most controversial sex position: 69.

Stick around for our interview with the creator of She Rates Dogs and all-around absolute icon, Michaela Okland. She joins the pod to talk about calling out shitty men on the internet, why she blocks anyone who calls her hot, and how getting a therapist for her ex totally backfired. Grab a tissue for Michaela’s first porn story, it’ll make you cry tears of laughter and then of sadness.

Okay, so ever since she moved in with her boyfriend a Blue Baller can’t masturbate to climax, and another listener’s beau cums too quickly. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Burner Accounts, Period Peeling, and Bimbo-Tok with Chrissy Chlapecka Jun 04, 2021

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Happy Pride, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle bravely buys tampons at a bodega and Rachel tries to trick her boyfriend into believing period-havers peel off their skin after they bleed. Stick around for what the hosts are binge watching, a review of Hulu’s Plan B, and the short and scandalous tale of the iconic woman who inspired Cruella de Vil. The girls get Balls Deep into making the perfect burner Instagram account to stalk your ex, why police are banned from NYC’s Pride March, and a new study that looks at why women who sleep around are perceived as insecure.

Chrissy Chlapecka, aka the queen of the Bimbo Movement on TikTok, joins the girls for a conversation on the rise of the new age bimbo and subverting the male gaze. Chrissy breaks down the different types of bimbos, how she navigates living in a world made for White cis-het men, and her journey to coming out as bisexual. The cherry on top? Her amazing and oh-so-relatable story about the first time she watched porn.

Okay, so a Blue Baller is on a new medication that makes her libido skyrocket but her boyfriend’s meds make his libido plummet — what’s a gal to do? Another caller is dating a virgin and needs help asking for cunnilingus. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Dirty Talk, Dating on Drugs, and Sexy Subtitles with Girls on Porn May 28, 2021

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Tell your boss you can’t work today cuz Fridays are for the Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle get nostalgic for work-free summers, schmooze about that viral Taika Waititi threesome photo. Oh, and HUGE news for porn consumers: you can now password protect your Google searches. The girls get Balls Deep into dirty talk, why you should Marie Kondo your sex life, and that gross Florida high school that photoshopped over female students’ cleavage in the yearbooks. Ew!

Friends of the pod and hosts of the Girls on Porn podcast Rachel Napoleon and Laura Ramadei join the girls and get balls deep into — you guessed it — porn! They talk about their ever-evolving relationship with porn, laugh about what closed captions for porn would look like, and share their personal method for recognizing ethical porn when they see it.

Okay, so a Blue Baller thinks her birth control is making her mad depressed, and another caller isn’t sure what to do about a guy who says “it depends” when it comes to going down on a girl. Classic. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Boundaries, Blood Sucking, and Badge Bangers with Rachel Feinstein May 21, 2021

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Grab a drink, Blue Ballers, we’re toasting the 21st episode! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle deletes her dating apps, Rachel decides it’s time to ditch Victoria’s Secret for Hanes, and the girls bond over a shared disappointment with John Mulaney. In audience engagement, the Blue Ballers share their dating boundaries and tips on how to set your relationship up for success. And in news, the girls get Balls Deep into abortion rights and the most credible threat to Roe v Wade. Arielle gets into a new study about social anxiety and Tinder habits, and Rachel busts a silly myth about Covid vaccines and infertility.

Iconic comedian and new friend of the pod RACHEL FREAKING FEINSTEIN joins the girls for what’s essentially a private comedy show. Married to a firefighter, Rachel shares how she became a Badge Banger, spills the tea about her ex-bf who froze her laptop (??), and teaches us how to British novel our lives.

Okay, so a caller in a ten-year relationship needs to decide if her marriage is worth saving, and another Blue Baller isn’t sure how to ask her hotel hookup to enter a long distance relationship. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Plan B, Bi-Erasure, and How to Squirt with Lola Jean May 14, 2021

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This week on Balls Deep, Rachel recaps her sexcation, Arielle takes Plan B, and together, they schmooze about the struggle of losing a condom inside of you. The girls also share their thoughts on Aubrey Plaza’s marriage and celebrity divorces (RIP John Mulaney and Annamarie Tendler). In news, they share the sexy secret to youthful skin, explain why masturbating is self care, and reveal a trick guaranteed to tell you if your crush has a massive schlong.

Grab a towel ‘cause this week’s interview is about to get WET. Sex educator and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting Lola Jean joins the pod for a beginner’s guide to squirting. Lola shares tips on how to do it, explains why it happens, and offers advice on navigating squirting with hookups and partners.

Okay, so after being treated for chlamydia from oral sex a caller needs the 411 on dental dams, and another Blue Baller wants more from a guy who clearly doesn’t deserve her. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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