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Date Nights, Zombie Boys, and Pegging the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas Sep 24, 2021

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TGIF, BLUE BALLERS! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel celebrates her anniversary, Arielle gives a relationship status update, and the girls schmooze about the Met Gala, the petty queen Taylor Swift, and our divine goddess Megan Fox. For this week’s Blue Baller question, the girls wanted to know how “weird” you get with your partner. In news, Arielle talks about a new study that proves exposure to plus-sized people on Instagram makes you happier and Rachel breaks down the mating strategies of heterosexual college students.

New friend of the pod, Luna Matatas, joins the girls to talk about her work as a sex and pleasure educator, why we can’t have consent without pleasure, and oh, the Peg the Patriarchy scandal (you might have heard of it). Luna trademarked the phrase in 2015, and for our Blue Ballers, she breaks down what it really means, how we can dismantle the patriarchy through penetration, and why she’s not suing Prada.

Okay, so… a tired Blue Baller wants to have sex with her partner but she’s too darn tired (relatable). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Divorce Parties, Cuffing Season, and Period Cycle Syncing with Nicole Bendayan Sep 17, 2021

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, we’re back to our regularly scheduled programming. Rachel attempts an interesting TikTok trend with her boyfriend, Arielle reunites with her FB husband, and together, the girls schmooze about divorce parties, cuffing season, and baby fever in Hollywood. The girls also get Balls Deep in dating contracts, Amazon’s new docu-series LueLaRich, and explain why straights probably shouldn’t be partying at gay bars. In news, Rachel gives a quick update on Texas’s abortion ban and Arielle breaks down the California bill that would ban stealthing.

Cycle-Syncing Nutritionist Nicole Bendayan joins the pod for an enlightening and educational conversation on how you can optimize your menstrual cycle. Women know so little about how our period cycle and birth control affects our bodies (thanks, patriarchy!), and if you have a uterus this interview is a MUST listen.

Okay so… a Blue Baller calls in with a complaint about getting cat-called, and another listener vents about her toxic ex-friend. Got a question? Call 855-OKAYSO.

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Balls Deep in Abortions (F*ck You, Texas) Sep 10, 2021

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle get balls mf deep in all things abortion, and yes, they’re looking at you, Texas (and Mississippi, and every other state that’s tried to undermine a person’s right to abortion!). In this special edition episode, things are going to sound a little different. While there isn’t a guest interview, there is a breakdown of all the information you need to better understand the history of reproductive rights in the United States and where we’ll go from here. The girls tell you everything you need to know about the state and federal laws, bust some major myths about the surgery, and break down who gets abortions and why. (The answers may surprise you!) Warning, shit most definitely gets real, but as always, Rachel and Arielle keep it fun and flirty.

P.S. Thank you to all the Blue Ballers who submitted their questions, shared their stories, and helped us put this episode together. We couldn’t have done it without you!

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Shrek Porn, Dick Pics, and Period Poverty with Nadya Okamoto Sep 03, 2021

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Happy Friday Blue Ballers!! This week on the pod, Arielle is obsessed with Jersey Shore, Rachel calls out slut-shaming on Bachelor in Paradise, and the girls question Drake’s weird habit of befriending teenage girls. Later on, the girls talk about a Texas anti-abortion website that’s being flooded with Shrek porn and share the best tips on how to send a dick pic that actually looks good. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a legal battle between a man who sued his parents over his porn collection and the different pleasure signals partners look for during sex.

Get ready to see red during this interview with Nadya Okamoto, who has been fighting to normalize conversations around periods since she was 16. We’re talking about period poverty, the tampon tax, and how we can fight the stigma surrounding periods. The co-founder of August, a brand that reimagines periods, Nadya explains why we need to separate menstruation from motherhood, and why we should retire phrases like “aunt flow,” and “time of the month.”

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in for advice on a friend breakup and another listener asks a very vague question that the girls attempt to answer. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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OnlyFans, Plastic Surgery, and Toxic Exes with Tefi Pessoa Aug 27, 2021

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It’s the last Friday of the month, Blue Ballers and we’re here to help you go out of the month with a BANG! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets cock-blocked by her new kitten (Mandy Patinkin), Arielle takes a look inside a subreddit community where people fantasize about shtupping bees, and the girls schmooze about ugly representation, botox, and friend breakups. In news, Rachel and Arielle get Balls Deep into the disaster that is OnlyFans banning porn and why no one should ever have “maintenance sex” with their partner.

Queen of pop culture and your TikTok BFF, Tefi Pessoa, joins the pod for a hilarious conversation on how she manifested her dream career and finally ditched her toxic ex. Listeners beware, shit gets heavy, but we keep it real and laugh through it, as always. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Tefi’s first porn story.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller feels like she missed out on a hoe-phase, and another caller wants to know if she should tell her husband she’s fantasizing about fucking a stranger. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

UPDATE: After recording this episode, OnlyFans shared an update saying they will no longer ban porn starting October 1.

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Pick Me Girls, Queer Representation, and Intuitive Dating with Dana Hamilton Aug 20, 2021

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Cheers to the weekend, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel reveals herself to be a recovering “Cool Girl,” Arielle has a smallllllll emotional breakdown, and the girls get Balls Deep into queer representation in Scooby-Doo, Batman, and Gossip Girl. Later on, they pose the age-old question: “Just how far will you go for sex?” and explain why Jamie Spears stepping down from Britney’s Conservatorship isn’t as great as it might seem. In sex news, Rachel and Arielle explore why Nazi Porn is so popular, remind you it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies (even if you’re in a relationship), and break down why you don’t need to be worried about Apple scanning your iCloud photos for porn.

Strap in for this week’s interview with Anti-Diet Dating coach, Dana Hamilton, who helps break down the social stigmas around bodies and boys. She gives tips on how we can remove some of the anxiety around rejection, explains how to practice intuitive dating, and gives us some very real advice on why it’s okay to walk away from people who aren’t meeting our standards.

Okay, so a caller is wondering how to recover her sex drive after getting out of a relationship and another listener is wondering if her post-sex depression is normal. (It totally is!). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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Eating Ass, FBoy Island, and Porn Addiction with Dr. Nicole Prause Aug 13, 2021

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle eats ass, Rachel cuts her boyfriend’s hair, and together they review HBO’s FBoy Island- and get into a heated discussion on what it really means to be a “Nice Guy.” The girls schmooze and news about gaslighting on The Bachelorette, Reddit’s OnlyFans problem, and those weird apple cider vinegar penis enlargement ads. To top it off, they get Balls Deep into a study that confirms that women are extremely anxious in bed.

Give a round of applause for today’s esteemed guest, Dr. Nicole Prause! A wealth of knowledge, Dr. Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behavior, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response. She tells us about the positive effects of watching porn for women, explains why sex addiction isn’t a real thing, and reveals the perfect dick size (according to science, of course).

Okay, so… a Blue Baller wonders if painful sex is related to her IUD, and another listener wants to know how she can repay her boyfriend for “spoiling” her with oral sex. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Hickeys, Strip Clubs, and Fucking Like a Goddess with Alexandra Roxo Aug 06, 2021

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! Welcome back to another sexy episode-- strap in for some hot takes. This week, Rachel shares her go-to karaoke song, Arielle has sex with someone her friends don’t approve of, and the girls talk about the complicated dynamic of wanting to complain to your friends about your partner while also not wanting your friends to hate their guts. In schmooze, Rachel and Arielle get into why crusty old man Matt Damon is finally retiring the F-slur and break down the top 5 best things you can put on your dating profile. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a study that proves that strip clubs reduce sex crimes-- and they reveal the REAL reason why men are messier than women.

Stay tuned for an interview with Goddess, Speaker, and Coach Alexandra Roxo, who you might recognize from the latest season of Too Hot To Handle. Alexandra explains how we can work past generational trauma to become more in touch with our emotions and spiritual selves, teaches us the importance of celebrating our sexuality, and redefines our definition of feminine to go beyond vanity.

Okay, so a listener wants to know if it’s worth it to pursue a relationship with a woman who is in a very serious sub/dom partnership, and another listener wants to know how she can talk to her partner about not being able to cum via penetration without making it weird. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Pregnancy Tests, Olympics Sexism, and Body Neutrality with Maddie Dragsbaek Jul 30, 2021

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It’s the 31st episode of Balls Deep!! WE’RE SO OLD!! This week, Arielle shows up with a big ol’ hickey (and a surprising announcement), Rachel laments adult hangovers, and the girls give the best hack for inducing menstruation. In schmooze, the girls discuss Barney’s tantric sex cult, why the Louvre is suing Pornhub, Vince Vaughn’s new comedy-horror movie, Freaky, Amazon’s upcoming lesbian reality show, Tampa Baes, and sex toys in space (phew!). After a riveting conversation on celeb couple Zach Braff and Florence Pugh’s age gap, Rachel breaks down “sexual gaslighting” and how to spot it. The gals also get balls deep in relevant Olympics news.

Body-positive YouTuber and filmmaker Maddie Dragsbaeck joins the pod for a conversation that will leave you with a new appreciation for your body. Tune in for how the body positive movement was co opted by the self-love movement, plus sized tips for riding cowgirl, and Maddie’s experience being fetishized for her physique. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Maddie’s first porn story!

Okay, so... a Blue Baller tells us about your next girls’ night activity — presenting a slideshow on your sexual debut — and another listener shares her very real and scary experience with a predatory Uber driver. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Madonna-Whore, Limp Dicks, and Water Births with Bekah Martinez Jul 23, 2021

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Balls Deep is officially in its dirty thirties! That’s right — this is our thirtieth episode and we’re ready to take you for a ride! This week, Arielle has a threesome with I Love You Man and his dog and Rachel is working on giving out less advice to people who don’t want to take it. The girls schmooze about Madonna’s first orgasm, the iconic dating trend you’ve never heard of, and Hollywood’s obsession with unrealistic sex scenes. In news, they get Balls Deep™ into a study about friends who fuck, get into the nitty-gritty of Drake “Campana” Bell’s court hearing, and discuss the importance of post sex cuddles.

Stick around for a conversation with Bachelor Nation’s Bekah Martinez all about the realities of being a mother raising her children online. Bekah teaches the girls about the history of breastfeeding and birthing practices and shares her own experience of feeling like a fertility goddess and smiling throughout her second birth. We also talk about the importance of teaching kids about their bodies, and reveal the most ethical kind of porn there is… want to know? You’ll have to listen to find out.

Okay, so… a girl is having dinner with her mom but her girlfriend planted a big ol’ hickey on her cheek — WTF? Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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