Stay ConnectedThis podcast is for people who feel like they came out of the closet and got placed in a box. It’s time to put the u-haul theory to bed, and connect over being Bad Queers.
Join Kris and Shana, fellow Bad Queers, to discuss breaking stereotypes, owning your identity and their unpopular queer opinions. Bad Queers will leave you both offended and inspired by the news, stories and advice about the very fluid, very real LGBTQ+ experience.
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This episode was recorded before we went on vacation. Topics may be a bit older, but we still needed to talk about them. Our final review of the Olympics, Dearica Hamby’s lawsuit and we do our best to figure out what is going on with Kehlani. In AIABQ? We answer questions about families that are too supportive and going back to a partner after a break up.
Someone needs to hit up Billie Eilish about her uncle at the cookout outfits and should the word “straight” get a rebrand?
Shoutouts:
Kris: Shouting out Quita Loves Sports again. Quita’s coverage of women’s basketball and WNBA is the place to go. Quita has a really excellent breakdown of the Dearica Hamby lawsuit if you want to know more. Subscribe to her Youtube Channel @QuitaLovesSports
Shana: Lesbifriends Travel - Provide unique and intentional travel and social experiences for queer people of color while creating an environment that supports building lifelong bonds and friendships. This year they are going to Portugal & Spain, Thailand and Belize and they already have 2025 trips listed. Follow and support @lesbifriendstravel on IG
Episode Notes:
[0:50] Queer Urban Dictionary
[4:45] Category Is: Olympic wrap ups
[18:08] Category is: Dearica Hamby Lawsuit
[29:56] Category is: What is going on with Kehlani?
[44:36] Am I a Bad Queer?
[52:43] Bad Queer Opinion
[59:50] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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It’s a news round up and it’s a mess. Missouri is now requiring proof of gender reassignment surgery for folks to update their IDs, Lowe’s is the most recent company to take back their LGBTQ+ support efforts, and Team LGBTQ+ is earning medals in the Paralympics.
Am I a Bad Queer? Brought the range. We discussed loving long distance relationships and hating being together in person, queer themed weddings that make you feel like you aren’t queer enough and getting off dating apps. We wrap up our Bad Queer opinions calling in gay men and masculine presenting folks for a discussion.
Shoutouts:
Kris: Another Brooklyn: A Novel - Jacqueline Woodson. An anthropologist looks back on her past to understand the death of her mother and the loss of her closest friends. Another Brooklyn is a novel about love and memory. And of course, about Brooklyn. Follow on IG @jacqueline_woodson
Shana: Yes Homo - Edgy queer brand for bold, confident and sexy homos. They are coming out with new apparel this fall, so keep an eye out by following @yeshomo.co
Episode Notes:
[0:50] Queer Urban Dictionary
[4:06] Category Is: Missouri Now Requires Proof of Gender Reassignment Surgery for Trans People to Update Their ID
[5:46] Category is: Lowe’s becomes the latest company to dial back DEI efforts aimed at LGBTQ Groups
[12:51] Category is: Team LGBTQ+ Paris Paralympics
[15:16] Am I a Bad Queer?
[30:52] Bad Queer Opinion
[39:43] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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The Democratic National Convention, the 'Demure' trend and Daddy Billy Porter are topics of conversation this week on Bad Queers. Shana recaps the events she participated in during the DNC (and meeting her favorite athlete!), what it was like in Chicago and reflected on the speeches, highs and lows. In AIABQ? straight women avoid dating discussions, respectability politics and relationship + finance woes. Bad Queer Opinions include privilege in the LGBTQ+ community and
Shoutouts:
Kris: To myself and my wife! We are celebrating our son's second year of life this week and it's been such an adventure and blessing. Follow them on IG @ablackgirlandherson
Shana: AmbersCloset - Creator, Activist, Host, Actor - You’re coming out was probably supported by Ambers YouTube. Got to meet them this week and they are a light. Follow and engage with their content @amberscloset on IG
Episode Notes:
[00:50] - Queer Urban Dictionary
[4:58] Category is: The 'Demure' Trend
[8:46] Category is: DNC Recap
[46:21] Category is: Daddy ain't ever going to be silent
[50:47] Am I a Bad Queer?
[1:06:20] Bad Queer Opinion
[1:15:21] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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This week, we welcome back Black Queer Dom to discuss their Sublime Effigy Pride & Prejudice Ball in D.C. We dive deep into the preparation process, highlights and special moments for the party and how to create safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. We also discuss play parties and what to do the first time you attend. Instead of Bad Queer Opinions, Black Queer Dom shares Bad Misconceptions people have of play parties.
Shoutouts:
Shana: GRRRL Spells - A horror and occult inspired queer and trans art and apparel brand, combining riot grrrl attitude with goth aesthetics and the gay agenda. QTPOC owned and operated. Follow @grrrlspells on IG
Kris: Afro Movie Review Pod - Join queer movie enthusiasts Mo and Keekz, as they critique films across genres, eras, languages and cultures, with a dash of history for reference and perspective. Follow and support anywhere you listen to podcasts and on IG @afromoviereview
Black Queer Dom: Come to the ball - If you are interested in joining the society @blackqueerdom IG page to apply. Shoutout to Queen Santana @bondagequeentana and Syre @i_amsyre working on a dissertation - sadist, dominant, vampire and longest running trans and nonbinary person in the kink game
Ticket Giveaway for the ball - comment on Black Queer Doms Ball Post on their account!
Episode Breakdown:
[0:51] Queer Urban Dictionary
[2:14] Black Queer Dom Intro
[3:40] Black Queer Dom Interview
[46:45] Bad Misconceptions about play parties
[50:26] Shoutouts
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We've got LOTS of company! This week we welcome Ronald, Darnell, DaJuan and Jade from the upcoming new web series, NATIVES. The team took us through their characters, what it was like to have an intersectional writers room, memorable moments from recording and their hopes for how folks will feel after watching NATIVES.
Bad Queer Opinions include not slowing your walking pace for YT people, I love that for you being a backhanded compliment, Tory Lanez being un-cancelled and bringing monogamy back.
Shoutouts
Shana: The Dress Code Project - Mission is Hair has no gender. A Global Alliance of salons/shops committed to providing positive, gender-affirming services for LGBTQ2S+ folks - You can follow and support @thedresscodeproject on IG
Kris: Lindsey Harding - Former WNBA star and #1 pick for the Mercury who was named the first female assistant coach in the Lakers 77 yr history IG @lindsey_harding
Darnell: Chef Will Coleman - Queer chef in NY - IG @chefwillcoleman on IG
DaJuan: Family is opening a grocery store - Sphinx Halal Mini Market in New Jersey
Jade: 7House - Real NY family. It’s a design collective that works with leather. Father/son duo - Follow and support @7house.ny
Ronald: Shoutout to Brittany Franklin, Natives director/producer and has stepped in and up in more ways than one @bybrittfranklin
Episode notes:
[0:51] Queer Urban Dictionary
[2:30] Guest introduction
[4:45] NATIVES Interview
[57:16] Bad Queer Opinions
[1:22:18] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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In positive news: We've had a LOT of wins in the Olympics. We discuss Team LGBTQ+ and how our favorite sports (women's gymnastics, soccer, basketball, rugby and Coco Gauff) are performing so far. Couldn't ignore the political mess of Trump's interview during the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ) conference and a recent study about adults coming out.
In Am I a Bad Queer? questions ranged from late in life coming out to being gay and still misgendering folks. Bad Queer Opinions - should we continue to praise Billy Porter? And it's ok if you don't enjoy certain LGBTQ+ bars.
Shoutouts:
Kris: Whoever designed the new USWNT jerseys for the olympics. This was a massive improvement from the paint stain, field day ones that may have contributed to our World Cup showing. The jerseys are available in most places you can buy jerseys and of course @Nike
Shana: Urbody Co - Gender-affirming underwear and activewear. Known as a brand for the human being. You can purchase and support @urbodyco on IG
Episode Notes:
[0:52] Queer Urban Dictionary
[2:25] Category is: Nearly 1 in 5 LGBTQ Adults have never come out, Gallup Survey finds
[6:35] Category is: Trump at the National Association for Black Journalists (NABJ)
[22:21] Category is: Olympics recap (so far)
[41:49] Am I a Bad Queer?
[56:38] Bad Queer Opinion
[1:05:58] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.
Maybe living in precedented times is overrated?
In an all-new episode, we discuss the craziest two weekends in recent American political history between the Trump assassination attempt, Joe Biden stepping down, and Kamala stepping TF up.
Rest in power to Sonya Massey. We discuss the current details of the senseless murder by the police in Illinois.
The Summer Olympics are here and over 175 out Olympians are in this year’s Paris Games.
Kim Burrell apologizes to the LGBTQ community but not for generally being a shitty person.
We’re sending out hopefully encouraging words and advice for our of our “Am I A Bad Queer” listeners. In Bad Queer Opinions, we discuss if men are ruining bisexuality and Tyler Perry’s Four Loko connection.
Shoutouts:
Shana: Taylor Casey - trans leader from Chicago who was last seen in Paradise Island, Nassau Bahamas, June 19, 2024 at a yoga retreat. Two days into the retreat she went missing.The search continues and the family is requesting donations to help their efforts as they continue to be met with roadblocks in the search. Follow and share @findtaylorcasey on IG
Kris: Here’s Why w/ Kevin Ortega-Rojas - a progress-focused, pro-equality queer, afro-latino owned and operated news IG account. We had the pleasure of meeting Kevin during the Voices Stay Proud campaign and not only is he passionate about our community, he’s an accurate journalist and shines lights on lesser covered queer stories as well as the world around us. Follow on IG: @hereswhynews and listen to @bylatinmen podcast to hear more from Kevin
Episode Time Stamps:
[0:56] - Queer Urban Dictionary
[5:16] - Category Is - Political Plot Twists
[31:23] - Category is - Rest in Peace to Sonya Massey [TW: Death, Police Brutality]
[40:40] - Category Is - Kim Burrell Apologizes to the LGBTQ Community
[43:33] - Category Is - The Olympics
[52:48] - Am I A Bad Queer?
[1:09] - Bad Queer Opinions
1:19:33- Shoutouts
Reference:
Team LGBTQ
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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Happy Christmas in July to all those who celebrate.
As a present, we're gifting yall a special episode full of all the Bad Queer Opinions from our guests so far this year.
Whether you've missed some or want to hear your favorites back, enjoy the Bad Queer Opinions below.
Episode notes:
[0:00] Intro
[0:59] Mx. Eden's Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 190
[3:18] Siena Liggins' Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 195
[13:08] Jade Fox's Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 200
[15:36] Neicy & Noiry of Queer Queens Travel Bad Queer Opinions - Ep 201
[23:58] Hope Giselle's Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 202
[32:44] Jerell, Kerel & Dawon of Minoritea Podcast Bad Queer Opinions - Ep 206
[44:15] Preston Mitchum's Bad Queer Opinions - Eps 207 & 214
[51:50] Imara Jones' Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 209
[59:27] Deidree Golbourne's Bad Queer Opinion - Ep 212
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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Politics are politicking.
In this special episode, Shana and Kris dig into the current political goings-on including the horrific Project 2025 plans, the recent Supreme Corrupt decisions, and fallout from the first presidential debate.
Not to totally bum yall out, we end the show sharing what we're currently watching and what's on our to-watch list.
Episode notes:
[1:17] Category is: Project 2025
[11:35] Category is: Supreme Corrupt Decisions
[26:00] Category is: Presidential Debate Thoughts
[37:04] Category is: What we're watching
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
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Victoria Monèt and Teyana Taylor CARRIED the BET Awards. Amber Ruffin comes out for Pride. Speaking of Pride, this year's protests reminded us that Pride was a riot. In Am I A Bad Queer, we reiterate our stance on disowning disrespectful family members and discuss if queer friends are mandatory.
In Bad Queer Opinions, we hard agree with Durand Bernarr's comment on zesty and sassy being the new F word.
Shoutouts:
Kris: Angie Daniels- traveling vegan chef, caterer, and owner of Nefe Vee, a vegan brunch & dessert serving Baltimore and surrounding areas. Follow on IG @chef_nefe
Shana: Point of Pride: Empowering trans folks to live more authentically through access to life-saving health and wellness services. This includes a Transgender Surgery fund, HRT Access Fund, free chest binders/femme shapewear, and more. Follow and support @pointofprideorg on IG
Episode notes:
[0:20] Queer Urban Dictionary
[3:00] Category is: Queer Activism during Pride
[8:48] Category is: 2024 BET Awards recap/ Amber Ruffin comes out
[19:43] Category is: 2024 WNBA All-Star lineup
[26:10] Am I a Bad Queer?
[38:12] Bad Queer Opinions
[42:26] Shoutouts
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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.
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