After The Gig with Jesse Humphrey

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#137 Patrick McAloon - “Multifaceted” May 06, 2025

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In this episode of After the Gig, Jesse sits down with Patrick McAloon, an integral member of the Pat McGee Band and an artist relations professional at Sixthman. The discussion delves into Patrick's multifaceted career in music, from his early influences and family support to his current roles. Highlights include Patrick's journey in the music industry, the unique experience of working for Sixthman, and the importance of building a community among artists and fans. Patrick also shares personal anecdotes about his family, particularly his daughter Ruby, and the balance he strikes between his musical passions and professional commitments. Enjoy!

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00:00 Introduction to the Show and Guest

01:55 Patrick Macon's Musical Background

02:49 Family Influence on Music

04:39 Early Musical Experiences

15:49 Creative Pursuits and Burnout

22:02 Sixth Man Cruises and Artist Relations

30:21 Secret Coffee Machines and Reunions

30:58 Creative Stage Performances

32:56 Respect and Collaboration on the Boat

34:14 Balancing Work and Family

35:54 The Evolution of Sixth Man Events

39:19 Summertime Cruises and Unique Destinations

41:32 Unexpected Family Visits

43:23 Musical Journey and Mentorship

49:15 Advice for Aspiring Musicians

53:54 The Art of Collaboration

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#136 After the Gig - Artist's Secret Lives: The Side Hustle Apr 10, 2025

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In this episode, Jesse discusses the often overlooked but crucial aspect of musicians' lives—side hustles. Sharing his personal experiences from bartending to delivering packages during the pandemic, Jesse highlights the importance of having flexible side jobs to sustain a career in music. He emphasizes that there's no shame in having secondary jobs and encourages all aspiring artists to find side gigs that complement their artistic pursuits until they can make music their full-time profession. Learn about the emotional journey, valuable skills gained, and the balance needed to thrive as a musician.

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00:00 Introduction and Purpose

01:00 The Necessity of Side Hustles

01:18 Personal Journey: From Boston to Bartending

04:15 Pandemic Pivot: Amazon Logistics

08:12 Balancing Music and Side Gigs

14:37 Choosing the Right Side Hustle

18:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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After the Gig #135 “There’s always a bigger boat” Feb 27, 2025

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In this episode, Jesse explores the deep passion and relentless drive behind playing music. Drawing parallels between music and hitting a perfect golf shot, we delve into the joy of playing an instrument or having a musical conversation with fellow musicians. The episode touches on the importance of connecting with your music, the audience, and the struggles young musicians face. We discuss the dangers of comparing oneself to others and emphasize measuring personal growth. The discussion also includes insights on parenting, the significance of not stifling creativity in children, and the journey of perseverance and practice in achieving success. This episode is a deep dive into the world of music, connection, and personal growth.

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Outro: “Chemical” by Jesse Humphrey

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00:00 Introduction: The Passion for Music

01:31 The Magic of Mastery: Golf and Drumming

02:09 Musical Conversations and Connections

03:16 Challenges and Perseverance in Music

07:22 The Flow State and Creative Process

09:15 Avoiding Comparisons and Self-Improvement

15:03 Podcast Updates and Personal Reflections

19:15 Impact of Words on Young Minds

28:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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#134 “I have a super crazy crush on Dua Lipa” Feb 13, 2025

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2025 Grammy Highlights & Super Bowl Controversy: Kendrick Lamar's Bold Statement

In this episode of 'After the Gig,' Jesse delves deep into the 2025 Grammy performances, featuring reactions to standout artists like Dua Lipa, Billie Eilish, Lizzo, and more. He also discusses the much-talked-about Super Bowl halftime show by Kendrick Lamar, which sparked significant controversy due to its direct jabs at Drake and the inclusion of Serena Williams. Additionally, Jesse touches on poignant topics like the devastating California wildfires and the Grammy tribute to LA's first responders. From riveting performances to thought-provoking commentary, join us for a thorough exploration of the highs and lows of these major music events.

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00:00 Introduction and Overview

00:54 Dua Lipa's Stellar Performance

01:20 Anita and Billie Eilish: A Mixed Bag

03:51 Lizzo's Controversies and Performances

06:20 Benson Boone's Crowd-Pleasing Act

07:36 Sabrina Carpenter's Fun and Levity

10:45 Teddy Swims and Other Notable Performances

13:32 Cynthia Erivo's Tribute and Lady Gaga's Polarizing Act

17:44 Shakira and the Impact of Wildfires

23:54 Babyface's Disrespect and the Super Bowl Halftime Show

26:43 Kendrick Lamar's Controversial Super Bowl Performance

35:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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#133 - City Winery: "25 Bucks Whether You Like It or Not" - After the Gig Jan 21, 2025

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City Winery's $25 Minimum: A Deep Dive into the New Policy and Its Impact

In this episode, we explore City Winery's recent decision to implement a $25 minimum on food and beverage sales for concertgoers at their venues. Jesse shares personal thoughts and insights on the policy, its potential impact on patrons, and the reasons behind this move, including the desire to support artists by giving them a larger share of ticket sales. By reading an email from City Winery's CEO, we get an inside look at the motivations behind the new policy. Jesse also discusses broader issues affecting live music venues, such as the challenges of booking talent, managing unpredictable ticket sales, and ensuring quality service. Additionally, the episode touches on how similar venues have navigated financial challenges and offers a balanced perspective on the implications of the policy for both artists and patrons.

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00:00 Introduction to City Winery's New Policy

01:16 Personal Experience with Minimum Spend Policies

02:38 Reading the CEO's Email

05:00 Analyzing the Email and Menu Changes

06:22 Challenges Faced by City Winery

09:02 Impact on Artists and Venues

11:07 Case Study: Rockwood Music Hall

15:42 Balancing Acts and Business Models

18:14 Potential Solutions and Final Thoughts

25:09 Service Quality and Final Wrap-Up

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#132 Jonathan Ulman - “Pat Boone, Debby Boone” Jan 15, 2025

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Join Jesse as he drives through blizzard conditions from Providence to Boston, reminiscing about the days commuting to the Berklee College of Music. Jesse catches up with, drummer and a member of the Berklee Percussion Department, Jonathan Ulman, as they discuss their careers, share inspiring stories, and reflect on the music industry. Don’t miss this engaging conversation that touches on the importance of humility, the life of touring musicians, and the role of mentorship. This episode also sheds light on the current challenges in Los Angeles due to devastating fires and includes ways to support the affected communities.

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Music from the show: "Thruple Shuffle" by Uncle Bronco

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00:00 Winter Commute to Berklee College of Music

01:06 Revisiting Berklee After 14 Years

01:22 Insights from the Newsletter

03:05 Arriving at Berklee and Finding Parking

05:33 Podcast with Jonathan Allman Begins

15:53 Balancing Passion and Profession

16:36 The Importance of Professionalism in Music

31:05 Learning from Industry Legends

36:11 The Role of Social Media in Music Careers

37:07 Reflections on Musical Growth and Simplicity

43:30 Navigating Criticism and Staying Positive

44:41 Morning Coffee Ritual

44:55 Challenges of Being a Drummer

48:23 Inspiring the Next Generation

52:21 Tour Life and Its Struggles

54:20 Perspective on Success

01:07:43 Meeting Eddie Vedder

01:22:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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#131 After the Gig - "And the Award Goes To..." Nov 21, 2024

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This week on the podcast I talk about the New England Music Awards, Health on the Road, and Productivity as an artist. Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter, and check out the links below. Enjoy

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#130 Ed Valauskas - "Just play 8th notes and shut the f**k up" Nov 12, 2024

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Ed Valauskas is a Boston legend. He's played with everyone, and produced some of the cities best musical exports from the comfy confines of Q division studios in Cambridge, MA. Ed and I met back when my former band Love in Stockholm recorded our 3rd release "Hold Back the Sun". You can listen to that here: https://open.spotify.com/album/669ssJgNDfL41GIIBg5Rw5?si=mnTRnlNRRKSFLLLIehaAJQ

Ed is the musical director of the Hot Stove Cool Music event that happens every year in Boston. It was started by Baseball hall of fame journalist Peter Gammons, and features an impressive roster of Boston sports heros that come together to play music. Ed talks all about it in our chat as well as many other things! Enjoy

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#129 Pat Murphy - “I never wanted to do this!” Oct 30, 2024

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Today on the podcast I have the great Pat Murphy of Gaelic Storm. The band was founded by Pat in 1996 and was featured in the record setting, blockbuster movie (one of the biggest films ever made) “Titanic”. From then, they went on to a record deal and decades as a staple in the Irish music community. Go to their website for tour dates. You will not want to miss them when they come to your town! Pat is one of my favorite people I’ve met in the music industry (and in general) and I hope you enjoy our chat half as much as I did. Enjoy!

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#128 Sean Quackenbush - “Get the Meat and Potatoes” Oct 25, 2024

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Today on the podcast I have my buddy Sean Quackenbush. Sean is the Grammy-winning sound engineer for Brandi Carlisle, and various others. Sean and I met and worked together on a tour with Stephen Kellogg, and having him on the show has been a long time coming. Sean talks about his experience with mix recordings, the Grammys, touring stories, and lot more. Enjoy!

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