Stay Connectedenough. is a podcast which aims to shine light into the darkened corners of the music industry while discussing the ways we can and should improve ourselves and, in turn, our community. This podcast may contain graphic descriptions of sexual abuse and assault, including rape. These accounts can be triggering, especially for those who have also experienced sexual trauma.
enough. is hosted by Kendra Sheetz and Rich Gill.
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Renn is a musician and clinical social worker who has been involved in DIY spaces for years. In this episode, she discusses the ways that being involved in punk rock has helped in her social work role, navigating having abusers present at her shows, and her thoughts on why the punk scene still has such a hard time believing survivors.
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In 2022, hip hop artist and author Psalm-One spoke to us about the abuse and mistreatment she endured at the hands of Rhymesayers Entertainment, including artists on the label. This experience led her to write the book Her Word Is Bond: Navigating Hip Hop and Relationships In A Culture of Misogyny. It was recently announced that Atmosphere, a Rhymesayers Entertainment artist will be headlining the Minneapolis State Fair, which was attended by almost 2 million people in the summer of 2024. We are re-issuing this episode as a reminder that many artists are able to continue their careers without consequence or accountability, regardless of allegations.
Visit Psalm's Website: https://www.psalmonelovesyou.com
Check out her book: https://www.haymarketbooks.org/books/1660-her-word-is-bond
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RE-ISSUE: Brand New has been on hiatus since numerous grooming and sexual abuse accusations were made against front-man Jesse Lacey. However, in early March, Brand New announced three reunion tour dates. These were soon followed by the announcement of a nationwide tour. In light of the band’s upcoming tour, we are re-issuing a prior subtext episode which outlines the accusations, Lacey’s behavior, and his discusses his blanket apology.
"Sic Transit Gloria… Glory Fades" was one of the breakout songs for Long Island band Brand New but it could just as easily be a description of their long running career. The dizzying heights the band had reached in the mid to late 2000’s all came crashing down in 2017 when allegations of grooming and sexual misconduct against singer Jesse Lacey were made public. In this episode Kendra and Rich dive into some of those allegations and how little the music landscape has changed since they came to light.
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Cristy C. Road is a celebrated artist, musician, and writer who has been active in the punk scene since the mid nineties. In this conversation with Kendra and Rich she talks about how music helped her find her identity, the ways that media has normalized talking about sexual assault, and the importance of conversations surrounding cancellation and transformative justice.
Visit Cristy's website: https://www.croadcore.org
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A lot happened during our one month break in January, so in this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich provide a rundown of some of the biggest news stories, including updates on past topics we've covered and a sneak peek at potential future Subtext discussions.
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Jay-Z sues Jane Doe weeks after she dropped her lawsuit accusing him of sexual assault (USA Today)
‘Sex Education’ Actor Alexander Westwood Jailed For 15 Years After Sexually Abusing Teenagers
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After A ‘Sex Education’ Actor Was Jailed For Raping His Drama Student, The Survivor Tells Her Story Of Disgust & Defiance (Deadline)
Sexual abuse group’s website erases trans people to keep federal funding (LGBTQ Nation)
Who is Andrew Tate? The self-proclaimed misogynist influencer (BBC)
Love is Blind‘s Alex Was Accused of Inappropriate Relationships With Minors in Resurfaced Social Media Posts (stylecaster)
This Love Is Blind Star Seemingly Disappeared Mid-Show Amid Disturbing Allegations (TheThings)
Rosie Richeson, former Night Witch vocalist and current BOOB drummer, joins us on episode 75. Rosie shares her experiences with leading impromptu support groups after shows, being "cancelled" for speaking out about inequalities in the music scene, the importance of trying to build much needed community spaces (even if they’re not always successful), and how a change of scenery has reinvigorated her enthusiasm for punk shows.
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Kendra and Rich discuss the greatly publicized French trial in which Dominque Pelicot, along with 50 other men he solicited, was accused and charged of raping and assaulting his wife Gisele. They also discuss the impact of this guilty verdict, and the ways that it has impacted people worldwide.
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Ruby Blu is an educator, musician, and the lead singer / songwriter for the Minnesota-based band Red Eyed Ruby. In this wide ranging conversation, Ruby Blu shares her expertise on how the patriarchy hurts everyone in our society, including men, what the path for repair and accountability can look like for perpetrators, and her path to becoming a music teacher and the joy it has brought to her and her students.
Check out Red Eye Ruby: https://www.redeyeruby.com
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Corinne Caouette is a Minneapolis-based booker, activist, advocate and musician, performing and writing music with her band, Black Widows. In this wide ranging conversation with Kendra and Rich, Corinne discusses the ups and downs of being self managed, her experiences in a primarily femme band, and the importance of truly seeing, understanding and taking care in the music scene and beyond.
Black Widows on Bandcamp: https://blackwidows.bandcamp.com/
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Kendra and Rich look back at the topics they've covered and guests they've had in 2024 while also sharing what they have in store for 2025.
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After the disheartening results of the US presidential election, Rich and Kendra discuss how to move themselves and the podcast forward in preparation of a Trump presidency, which will likely be rife with even more sexism and hatred than the first term.
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Sociologist and author, Dr. Nicole Bedera, joins Kendra and Rich to discuss her new book, On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence. The book was released on October 1st, 2024, to critical and public acclaim, resonating with people across countless industries and landing in the Amazon Top 10 for higher education books.
Nicole has been featured on top podcasts such as Now What? with Brooke Shields, The Waves, and Faith and Feminism with Meghan Tschanz. Her work has also been featured in The New York Times, NPR, Time Magazine, and Teen Vogue!
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"Sic Transit Gloria… Glory Fades" was one of the breakout songs for Long Island band Brand New but it could just as easily be a description of their long running career. The dizzying heights the band had reached in the mid to late 2000’s all came crashing down in 2017 when allegations of grooming and sexual misconduct against singer Jesse Lacey were made public. In this episode Kendra and Rich dive into some of those allegations and how little the music landscape has changed since they came to light.
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Wilmer Valderrama became a household name in the early 2000's as the character Fez on That 70's Show. At the same time he became a tabloid mainstay for his relationships with teenage Lindsey Lohan, Mandy Moore, and Demi Lovato. In this episode Kendra and Rich break down Valderrama's history of dating very young artists and why the entertainment industry so often seems to turn a blind eye to this behavior.
CORRECTION: Tyga was 24 when he started hanging out with 16 year old Kylie Jenner, not 27.
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"Brody" worked her way up to manager at a popular music venue in her city. During her time there, she witnessed a number of egregious and illegal activities perpetrated by the owner. When she became vocal about what she had experienced, she was fired. In this episode, we discuss how power dynamics play into harassment and abuse, and the positives of finally speaking out.
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Lou Pearlman is best known for two things, launching the careers of some of the biggest pop artists of the 1990’s and being the mastermind behind one of the largest ponzi schemes in the history of the United States. In this episode of subtext Kendra and Rich break down both sides of Lou Pearlman and talk about how someone who seemingly did so many positive things for popular music also drastically altered the lives of almost every person he came in contact with for the worse.
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The Boy Band Con: The Lou Pearlman Story (YouTube Originals, 2019)
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Cydni spent ten years in a relationship with the singer of a popular band that became increasingly more abusive, both physically and mentally, before she removed herself from it in 2023. In this episode she talks about what caused her to ignore the red flags she noticed at the beginning of the relationship, the ways in which the abuse escalated, and what gave her the strength to overcome the abuse and end the relationship.
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For almost a quarter of a century, Warped Tour was the can’t-miss festival of the year for teenage and young adult fans of punk rock and all its variations. In its later years, a slew of sexual assault allegations overshadowed the bands and camaraderie for which it initially stood. In this episode, Kendra and Rich break down the history of Warped Tour and how these accusations affected the tour’s legacy.
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Part 2: Michelle details the brutal and public rape she experienced, as a minor, by the singer of a well-known rock band. She also discusses how her story has been falsely represented in books and interviews by members of that band, and what her path to healing has looked like since that time. This is the second half of a two part interview.
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Michelle Rhoades came of age in the early days of the highly influential Hollywood punk and glam rock scene. In this episode, she talks about growing up in Los Angeles and how a chance encounter with the future singer of a famous rock band led to a harrowing, life-altering experience. This is the first half of a two part interview.-
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In 2009, Chris Brown made headlines when he viciously beat artist and singer Rihanna during a domestic dispute. After a brief hiatus, Brown continued his career without seemingly any setbacks. Fifteen years after the initial incident, Rich and Kendra discuss other examples of Brown engaging in domestic abuse and violent outbursts and the accolades and praise has received for his music.
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For nine years, award winning producer Dr. Luke and pop songstress Kesha battled in court over her accusations that she was drugged, raped, emotionally abused, and body shamed by the producer. Kendra and Rich discuss numerous facets of the lawsuits, including the complexities of multi state suits, interpersonal ties to the music industry which may have skewed judgments, and the recent settlement.
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Nick Carter of the multi platinum selling boy band, The Backstreet Boys, has recently come under scrutiny for numerous allegations of sexual assault. We discuss the allegations, the girl and boy band industry of the 90s, and Fallen Idols, a documentary recently released about Nick and Aaron Carter.
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In 2017, dozens of women came forward to speak out against the abuse they faced from film mogul and heavyweight Harvey Weinstein. In April 2024, after an extensive appeals process, his New York conviction was overturned. Rich and Kendra discuss what this means for his future, the #metoo movement, and survivors nationwide.
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In 2010 Cara Kizer reported that she was drugged and raped by two members of the NY Philharmonic Orchestra. In this episode of subtext we look at the aftermath of those accusations and what the ensuing ten years looked like for Kizer including how the orchestra itself handled her coming forward.
Read the Vulture article: https://www.vulture.com/article/new-york-philharmonic-players-not-performing-sexual-misconduct.html
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Hip hop artist Nur-D joins us from the Twin Cities to discuss his zero-tolerance policy regarding playing bills with rapists/abusers and his refusal to play at venues which allow them on their stages. He shares his negative experiences with one of the major venues in Minneapolis and how his career continues to advance without their support.
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In July of 2023, Justin Sane, a.k.a Justin Geever, frontman of the political punk band Anti-Flag, was accused of rape and assault by multiple women. As a result, the band broke up and dissolved their record label, A-F Records. Kendra and Rich share updates on the case including litigation and Geever’s recent plans to flee the country.
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Read the Make the Music Industry Safe Report: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com/make-music-safer.pdf
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Over the course of Danny Elfman’s decades plus career he has worked with the biggest names in the entertainment industry and also had sexual assault and harassment accusations levied against him. In this episode, Kendra and Rich break down these allegations and how they tie into the bigger conversation of grooming and how high profile entertainers use their status to pressure victims into staying silent.
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Emily Wolfe was in the midst of a tour when she found out that a member of her team sexually assaulted someone. Emily discusses how her decision to let this person go impacted her life and informed her art, and how important it is that live shows are a place where people can feel safe.
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Emily's new album, The Blowback, is available on streaming platforms and for purchase on her website.
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Emily Wolfe’s website: https://www.emilywolfemusic.com/
Emily Wolfe on Bandcamp: https://emilywolfemusic.bandcamp.com
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Kendra and Rich discuss the recent allegations and subsequent lawsuit against Sean "Diddy” Combs, his extensive musical career, and the history of assault accusations that have been levied against him, as far back as the early 90’s.
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Karen Barth Mensies is a litigation attorney who represents survivors of sexual abuse and harassment. Shawn Vincent works alongside Karen as a litigation consultant. The two have been working tirelessly on a myriad of high profile sexual assault allegation cases and fighting to extend statutes of limitations nationwide.
Karen and Shawn discuss the statute of limitations, the importance of survivors coming together to form a network, how the music industry enables predators all the way up the food chain, and Karen’s involvement with The Punk Rock Therapist.
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Visit KBM Law to learn more about the legal work Karen and Shawn are doing for survivors: https://kbmlaw.com
Visit The Punk Rock Therapist to learn more about the support they are providing for survivors: https://www.thepunkrocktherapist.org
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On the final subtext of 2023, Kendra and Rich look back at some of the highlights from the last year and look ahead to what's in store for 2024.
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In June 2020, the hashtag #SpeakingOut started trending on Twitter as numerous women came forward with stories of the abuse, assaults, and harassment they had experienced as wrestlers.
On this episode, Kendra and Rich talk to independent wrestling fan Joe about what this meant for the world of professional wrestling and how these stories had previously been swept under the rug for as long as sports entertainment has been around. They also discuss the parallels between the indie wrestling and punk / hardcore scenes and how the fans can change the direction of both these industries for the better.
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On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich break down the court filings against Lizzo and discuss her problematic past. They also discuss the complications that arise when an artist goes from a small touring outfit to a large production arena act and how this can impact the power dynamics and interpersonal relationships. -
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Shannon details the horrific trauma she suffered during a toxic and abusive relationship with a well-connected East Coast tattoo artist. She also discusses how that relationship directly contributed to a years long struggle with alcoholism. After hitting rock bottom during the pandemic, Shannon walks us through her journey of going to rehab, getting sober, and what her life looks like today.
Our guest has requested to be referred to by the name Shannon. Shannon is a critical care nurse and advocate.
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On this episode, Kendra and Rich give a quick overview of the popular EDM DJ Diplo and the many allegations that have been levied against him over the past several years.
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Veronica De Hart discusses her entrance into the punk scene in 2021 after years of advocacy work. She shares her own personal history of sexual assault along with her goal to make Camp Punkslyvania, and the scene as a whole, a safer place for everyone. - If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com - Visit our website: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enough.podcast Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@enoughpodcast enough. is a feature on Bad Copy: https://thebadcopy.com
Kendra and Rich share the ways in which they support each other and the importance of having a strong support system when the emotional weight of engaging in persistent discourse on trauma is at its heaviest.
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This guest has asked that they remain anonymous. We refer to her as "Lily" throughout the episode.
While in college in the Midwest, Lily began a long distance relationship with a musician from her home state on the East Coast. Upon returning home early due to the pandemic, relationship red flags became more noticeable and resulted in sexual assault. Lily describes the details leading up to and after the incident, including medical complications that were likely exacerbated by forceful penetrative sex.
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Rich and Kendra discuss what happens when a survivor of sexual assault or abuse by a musician comes forward. They explain the repercussions of speaking out, the impact when other artists remain silent or align themselves with abusers, and the massive influence that music fans can have as a driving force for change in today's culture.
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Kristina found salvation in the punk community as an escape from her home life. But when she finally met her idol, the singer of a political punk band that helped shape her values, instead of treating her like part of the community, he raped her. Kristina describes the details of that night, how it changed the trajectory of her life and how she interacts with music.
Kristina Sarhadi is a therapist, reiki master, writer and recovering social worker from New York. She uses her experiences growing up in the NY punk scene to inform her trauma-informed therapy practice and seek creative ways to help her community build empowering relationships, stand up to injustices, and create sustainable change with joy and confidence.
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On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the results of actor Danny Masterson's recent court retrial in which he was found guilty of 2 of 3 counts of rape. They consider the role that the Church of Scientology played in Masterson's defense, how Hollywood reacted to the initial accusations, and how this ruling could set a precedent for similar celebrity rape cases.
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Grand Rapids, Michigan musicians Bek Graham and Bridget Nicole Rose join us to discuss A.M.P.T. - or A.rtists & M.usicians P.rogressing T.ogether - a collaborative group and zine. We learn the process of how it all came together and the ways a zine about abuse in the music scene can be an asset to communities far beyond their own.
In their words:
a.rtists & m.usicians p.rogressing t.ogether is an informal, collaborative group of folks who decided that the grand rapids, michigan music and arts scene has had unaddressed issues with abuse for too long. we are small and humble, but we are mighty! even though this topic is a lot to unpack, our goal is to provide some resources and hope to those who are facing a difficult situation. we want this zine to be informative for those looking for support where our music and art community is unfortunately lacking. our work is far from perfect, but we hope it can make an impact.
Visit A.M.P.T.: https://amptgrandrapids.simdif.com
Bek Graham plays guitar in bands The Quirk, Charlie Darling, and subs for Bong Mountain.
Bridget Nicole Rose plays bass in FLUSHED, is on the founding committee of Girls Rock! Grand Rapids, and is the social media manager at the DAAC.
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On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss a recent YouTube video entitled Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith and follow up on a promise from a prior episode, #30, by discussing helpful books which address trauma, consent, improving yourself and the spaces around you, and more.
Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith | PEOPLE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBvc7Ny4iUk
Kendra’s Reads
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn
The Gift of Fear: And Other Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker
Rich’s Reads
We Will Not Cancel Us (And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice) by Adrienne Maree Brown
Making Spaces Safer: A Guide to Giving Harassment the Boot Wherever You Work, Play, and Gather by Shawna Potter
Refusing to be a Man: Essays on Sex and Justice by Stoltenberg, John
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Kaija, a Seattle-based photographer and musician, shares her history of abuse stemming from a photography teacher who was 20 years her senior. He used his local notoriety and position of power to groom, gaslight, and manipulate her over the course of several years. Kaija also speaks to the work she’s done to address her trauma and rebuild her confidence.
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On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich define and outline different forms of online harassment, their emotional and mental repercussions, and explain how they can affect victims/survivors of abuse.
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Jason Garcia joins us to speak about the Minneapolis music community's uprising against abuse, along with the pushback that they have received from using their privilege to speak out on behalf of victims/survivors.
Jason Garcia (they/them) lives and works in Minneapolis, Minnesota. They work for a nonprofit that aims to increase food sovereignty for Indigenous people and help make traditional Indigenous foods more accessible. Jason also spends time volunteering with Planned Parenthood and with their neighborhood association. When not doing any of those things, they enjoy spending time in the community and planning leftist get-togethers for the summer.
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On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich dive into Marilyn Manson's long history of shocking and repulsive behavior and discuss the dangers when carefully crafted personas are used as scapegoats.
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Shawna Potter, front-person of the hardcore-punk band War on Women, and author of Making Spaces Safer: A Guide to Giving Harassment the Boot Wherever You Work, Play, and Gather joins us.
We discuss changes in the dynamics of the music scene, the basics of making spaces safer for the masses, and the importance of creating educational guides for the community.
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Visit Shawna’s website: https://shawnapotter.com/
Buy Shawna’s book from AK Press: https://www.akpress.org/making-spaces-safer-book.html
Listen to Shawna’s podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ipYhkVPK98V1c8JQAOnJ3
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On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the recent lawsuit alleging sexual assault of a minor against Steven Tyler. Plus, the history of rock stars getting a pass for committing statutory rape.
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On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss different types of therapy, with an emphasis on EMDR and the benefits that Kendra has gotten from it.
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The clock is ticking on the music industry’s need for its #metoo day of reckoning. Kendra and Rich discuss what must happen for us to get there.
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Hip Hop Artist and author Psalm One joins us to discuss her experiences with Rhymesayers, a popular Minneapolis record label. Her courage in coming forward helped others share similar stories of abuse and mistreatment. This resulted in members of the community speaking out against the label with the Boycott Rhymesayers movement. We also discuss how these challenges led to the writing of her book, Her Word is Bond: Navigating Hip Hop and Relationships in a Culture of Misogyny.
Visit Psalm's Website: https://www.psalmonelovesyou.com
Check out her book: https://www.haymarketbooks.org/books/1660-her-word-is-bond
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In this episode of subtext, we discuss a man who has been dominating the 24 hr news cycle for the last month, Kanye West. While his anti-semetic comments have halted his career, we dive into his problematic and abusive behaviors towards women, specifically his stalking of ex wife Kim Kardashian.
A quick note about the timing of this episode: After several months of planning a subtext episode with Kanye West as the subject, Kendra and I recorded the episode on November 22nd. The next day, Rolling Stone magazine printed a longform expose detailing a years-long pattern of emotional and psychological abuse and inappropriate business practices perpetrated by Kanye. While we were not able to discuss these allegations during the episode, we feel that it reinforces everything we say and should be taken in tandem with what we discuss.
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Danny Wolf talks about the childhood sexual trauma he experienced at the hands of a family member and how that affected his relationships later in life. He also shares a song he wrote about that abusive event. Danny Wolf, a musician who currently plays in Danny Russel Wolf, The Haunted Hallows, The Getaways, and The New Bodies. Previously, he was in Small Towns Burn A Little Slower and Wrestling With Wolves. Danny is also a dad and a house husband with multiple side hustles. He does live sound at a local music venue (Lefty’s Live Music) and works for his brother picking up old cars that he parts out and sells. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com Visit our website: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enough.podcast enough. is a feature on Bad Copy: https://thebadcopy.com
In this episode of subtext, our information driven subset, we define and discuss the statute of limitations as it relates to rape and assault. We break down the statues in different states and discuss the need for lengthening term limits.
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Educator, activist, and creator Laura Danger joins us to discuss meeting people through the social media platforms of the early aughts, how age differences and power dynamics are intrinsically tied, and how being able to trust those around us is essential to strengthening our communities.
Get to know Laura and learn more about Fair Play and the workshops and coaching she’s doing at her website:
https://www.thatdarnchat.com/
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Laura recommends For The Love of Men, by Liz Plank:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43263540-for-the-love-of-men
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Hosts Kendra and Rich discuss all angles of what could happen when an artist is accused of misconduct from the fan's point of view. They also discuss their personal viewpoints on separating the art from the artist.
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On this edition of Subtext, our information-driven subset, Kendra and Rich define and discuss consent, how it was taught to them growing up, and how the term has changed over the years. They also discuss FRIES, the acronym created by Planned Parenthood that’s commonly used as a reference in sexual education.
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We believe in change and accountability over canceling someone. With that in mind, we both share a past personal story in which we responded inappropriately when confronted with the abuse of someone we know.
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Jess joins us to discuss a past relationship in which she faced abuse that manifested in gaslighting, love bombing, bullying, and other forms of psychological abuse.
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On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we break down the hard data on rape using analogies our show-going listeners can relate to. We also discuss the myths surrounding false reporting. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com Visit our website: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enough.podcast enough. is a feature on Bad Copy: https://thebadcopy.com
For our one year anniversary, founder and co-host Kendra Sheetz recounts her own story of abuse and gaslighting at the hands of a former partner. We also talk about the similarities between her experience and those of some of our past guests, and the bond that exists between victim/survivors.
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On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we review the Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard defamation suit. We discuss what the outcome of the trial means for survivors and the Me Too movement, how this establishes dangerous case law, and how the overturning of Roe v. Wade and this ruling are the beginning of a detrimental turn of events in our country.
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Becky Fontaine (Nathan Gray and the Iron Roses) joins us to discuss her personal struggles with abuse, finding herself again with the aid of therapy, and the double-edged sword of being completely raw and open when performing onstage.
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On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we do a deep dive into Roe v. Wade, the landmark Supreme Court case. We discuss its origins, what the current case law means, and what could happen if overturned by the Supreme Court.
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Adult film actress Jordan Maxx shares what it was like to book shows and tour with bands as a woman in a patriarchal scene, how becoming a sex worker helped her reclaim her sexuality and body, and why sex workers favor decriminalization over legalization.
Jordan Maxx on OnlyFans:
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https://twitter.com/thejordanmaxx
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On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we focus on DARVO by breaking down the acronym, tracing the origin of gaslighting, and talking through the reasons victims/survivors are not always believed.
Resources:
How Narcissists Use DARVO to Escape Accountability
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https://www.narcissisticabuserehab.com/darvo
DARVO on Wikipedia:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
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Nathan Gray (Nathan Gray and the Iron Roses, BoySetsFire) joins us to discuss the injustice he's seen in the music scene, his personal journey of change, the importance of cis white men making space for others to speak, and his unwavering drive to do what is right.
Nathan Gray Music Website:
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Nathan Gray Music on Bandcamp:
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Nathan Gray on Spotify:
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Welcome to Subtext. This is our first information-driven episode. We define cancel culture, discuss its creation, how it has been used and changed throughout the years, and how it has changed society.
Recommended Book: We Will Not Cancel Us and Other Dreams of Transformative Justice by Adrienne Maree Brown.
https://www.akpress.org/we-will-not-cancel-us.html
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Will discusses growing up with a toxic parent who engaged in domestic, verbal, and emotional abuse. He shares the story of how, in his adult years, he learned about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and how that realization helped him to re-frame events of his younger years.
Will also discusses how he discovered the Punk scene and how, years later, his column in DIY print zine Razorcake has helped him in his process of healing by helping others.
Read more from Will at Razorcake: https://razorcake.org/tag/will-kenneth/
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After a few months hiatus, we're happy to announce that we're back! Hosts Rich and Kendra discuss their reasons behind the break, updates to the episode format, along with the introduction of a new kind of episode. They also talk about what listeners can expect in the upcoming season. Join us for Season 2 of enough.
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Episode 8 features Tim Anderl of Sweet Cheetah Publicity. Tim speaks about his long standing career in journalism and passion for all things music. He also discusses how continual allegations of abuse, assault, rape, and violence in the industry lead him away from promoting bands through his writing of them for a variety of publications. In turn, he refocused his love of music into Public Relations, where he is the sole deciding factor on who he represents, taking no monetary income but asking that the bands and artists donate to charity or contribute their time to social service.
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Kate is a victim/survivor of rape who learned that the legal path to reporting is wrought with disorder, injustice, and indifference.
In this episode, she walks us through this grueling reality and the ways she’s worked toward healing from this experience. Kate is the host of Surviving Justice: Realities of Reporting Rape, a podcast that explores the complexities of the legal system. The podcast outlines why so many instances of rape are unreported and why the few that are, rarely result in a conviction.
Surviving Justice Website http://survivingjustice.org/#/home
Surviving Justice on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3YVgw40hIbCqzOJyzqIQvN
Surviving Justice on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/surviving-justice-realities-of-reporting-rape/id1479296913
Books mentioned in this episode:
Know My Name by Chanel Miller https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/553663/know-my-name-by-chanel-miller/
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Our guest this week, who we have dubbed "Red," has asked that they remain anonymous.
On this episode, Red recounts the years of verbal and mental abuse they faced at the hands of one very active member of their local music scene. We discuss the types of abuse, levels of severity, and Red’s therapeutic progressions and breakthroughs.
Red recommends the following books:
The Verbally Abusive Relationship, by Patricia Evans https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Verbally-Abusive-Relationship-Expanded-Third-Edition/Patricia-Evans/9781440504631
Making Spaces Safer, by Shawna Potter https://www.akpress.org/making-spaces-safer-book.html
Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life, by Scott A. Spradlin https://www.newharbinger.com/9781572243095/dont-let-your-emotions-run-your-life/
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Erin recounts the night she was sexually assaulted at her band’s album release show and the myriad of issues that occurred once she went public with the incident. We discuss the severity and reality of the role social media plays in today’s society from spreading information and news to harassing and belittling people through comments and messages. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/enoughpodcastyoutube If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com Visit our website: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enough.podcast enough. is a feature on Bad Copy: https://thebadcopy.com
Christin shares her experiences growing up in and around Hip Hop Culture in the Twin Cities. She discusses her history of abuse, its recurring nature in her life, and the efforts she has made over the years to break the cycles. She also shares her thoughts about restorative justice and what she, and so many people, hope to see from an artist who is accused of abuse.
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When people in positions of power use that power to manipulate or abuse others, how do we heal the harm that they've committed?
We discuss how society views sexual abuse, explore various approaches to justice, and define accountability, while dispelling the myth that healing harm equates to cancel culture.
Many of us were drawn to the independent music scene out of a desire to be part of a progressive, inclusive, anti-sexist, anti-homophobic, anti-racist, and anti-violent community. It's time for all of us to #speakupforourscene in order to preserve those values.
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When Colorado-native Savvi moved to Laramie, WY for school, she knew this would be a big change in her life. What she didn’t know was that she would come to befriend, be groomed by, and then assaulted by the singer of a local band.
Savvi shares her story, how this man’s actions left a permanent mark on her mentally and physically, and her thoughts on whether it’s possible to separate the art from the artist.
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Sexual harassment and abuse have always existed in the music industry. While many seem to know this, too few of them grasp how expansive the problem has become.
Many people we know in the punk scene have expressed that they “had no idea”, they “can’t keep up with the accusations”, or they “want to know how to be better”, but don’t know where to start. There are no more excuses
This podcast is a place for survivors of abuse to share their truths and to expose listeners to the patterns of abuse and how the self-involved actions of others can change the course of another person’s life.
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