Seeing Other People

How to Be a Good Friend When Your BFF Has a Baby Mar 06, 2025

Your best friend, sibling, or coworker is pregnant or just had a baby—now what?! If you’ve ever wondered how to support a friend through pregnancy, postpartum, and the transition into parenthood (without being annoying), this episode is for you. I sit down with my friend Jamie, a new mom, to get the unfiltered scoop on what to say, what NOT to say, and how to actually show up for your friends in this life stage—even if you have zero experience with babies. We talk about the biggest mistakes people make, the things new moms secretly wish you’d do, and why your friendship doesn’t have to change (even if everything else does). Whether you’re single, dating, or just nowhere near parenthood, this is the ultimate guide to being a thoughtful, supportive, and not cringey friend during this huge life transition.

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Why Your Relationships Keep Failing—And How to Fix Them ft. Yung Pueblo Mar 04, 2025

In this episode, Diego Perez aka Yung Pueblo shares his journey from personal struggles and substance abuse to becoming a celebrated author and meditation advocate. He dives into his new book, How to Love Better, and explores how emotional maturity and relationship dynamics shape our connections. We discuss the balance of privacy and openness in relationships, the transformative power of meditation, and how personal growth plays a role in fostering healthier, deeper love. Yung Pueblo opens up about his rock-bottom moment, the importance of self-truth, and the impact of his relationship with his wife, Sara, on his growth.

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Why Everything Falling Apart Might Be the Best Thing for You Feb 27, 2025

Stephanie Pavone joins us today to talk about her journey through heartbreak, growth, and self-discovery. She gets real about everything from crying in the Equinox locker room in 2017 to finding happiness and learning to love herself. Stephanie shares her story of getting married young at 22, making the tough decision to part ways, and how she rebuilt her life. She also dives into her book Clarity Through Chaos, her solo travels, dealing with anxiety, and meeting her now-husband, Kevin. Along the way, she highlights the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and being true to yourself in relationships.

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The Secret to Meeting People IRL (Without It Being Awkward) Feb 25, 2025

Tired of dating apps? Elle Wilson, founder of Met Through Friends shares how bringing a friend to a singles event can change your dating luck. We dive into why speed dating actually works, the biggest mistakes people make at in-person events, and how Elle met her fiancé just before lockdown. We also chat about the mindset shift that makes dating easier, why meeting through friends feels more natural, and how to put yourself in the right places to find a great match. Come to Met Through Friends x Seeing Other People speed dating in NYC on March 20th—bring a friend and meet great people!

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Herpes & Dating: The Truth Nobody Talks About Feb 20, 2025

Allie Mazur, founder of Beyond Herpes discusses the importance of normalizing conversations about genital herpes, to overcome the associated shame and stigma. She shares her personal journey, contracting herpes at age 23, and the emotional impact it had on her. Allie delves into how herpes reshaped her dating life, leading her to pursue higher-quality relationships and adopt a healthier lifestyle. She emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships, offering advice for both those with herpes and their partners. She underscores the need for mutual responsibility in sexual health discussions and how faith played a role in her healing journey.

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Dating App Mistakes You’re Making—And How to Fix Them with Devyn Simone Feb 18, 2025

Devyn Simone, matchmaker, dating expert, and Tinder's in-house relationship expert, joins us to dive into the world of online dating. We discuss the biggest mistakes dating app users make—from swiping and messaging to crafting the perfect profile—and share expert tips for improving communication, emotional availability, and taking a more holistic approach to dating. Devyn also opens up about her relationship with her husband, Adam, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and fostering authentic connections.

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The Truth About Divorce, Biological Clocks & The Fear of Uncertainty with Dr. Victoria Grinman Feb 13, 2025

Today we welcome Dr. Victoria Grinman, a therapist and trauma-informed practitioner, to discuss her professional insights and personal journey through marriage and divorce. Dr. Grinman shares what motivated her to become a therapist and how her own divorce reshaped her approach to therapy and relationships. We explore the complexities of pursuing authentic connections, managing the fear of uncertainty, and the importance of doing inner work. Dr. Grinman reveals the personal dilemmas she faced regarding biological clocks and the possibility of having children, emphasizing the need for self-trust and setting realistic expectations.

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Our 4-Year Anniversary: How We’ve Changed + Q&A Feb 11, 2025

My husband Jake is back on the show to discuss our journey thus far as a married couple. We reflect on our four-years together and discuss how we've changed individually throughout our relationship. We discuss surviving Valentine's Day single and we answer listener questions about navigating friendships when you dislike a friend's partner, handling being a +1 at weddings, and identifying red flags versus personal insecurities in early dating stages.

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Your Partner Can't Read Your Mind with Dr. Tara & Brent Feb 06, 2025

We sit down with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, a sexologist and professor, and her husband Brent Estabrook, an artist, to explore their unique love story. The couple recounts their initial meeting on a flight in 2019, their evolving relationship during COVID, and how they navigated their way from friends with benefits to a committed relationship. They discuss important themes such as the significance of open communication, embracing change, sexual exploration, and balancing individual passions. Dr. Tara underlines the importance of speaking one's mind and empowering oneself in both life and relationships while Brent highlights the value of being inspired by one's partner and maintaining good physical and mental health.

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What Men Wish Women Knew with Ricky Liorti Feb 04, 2025

Ricky Liorti joins us to discuss how he's made his single years some of the best years of his life, even while navigating the emotional impacts of a breakup. Ricky shares how he turned his rollercoaster of love and heartbreak into art through his book Heartbreak Love. He opens up about therapy, the importance of prioritizing oneself, and the critical role emotional support plays in relationships. We discuss why you should be picky when dating, what women get wrong about men, what makes a perfect DM slide, and so much more.

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"From Married Life to Finding Myself" Jan 30, 2025

Vanessa Gordon, CEO of East End Taste Magazine, shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to discovering casual dating in Europe, Vanessa opens up about her personal growth, challenges, and the newfound freedom of being Vanessa 2.0. She discusses the significant impact of her past relationships on her identity and offers advice for others contemplating major life changes, emphasizing the importance of self-care and being open to new experiences.

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How to be Dateable Jan 28, 2025

On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, 'How to Be Dateable.' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intentional with one's energy in dating, and how true connection can be achieved by leading with curiosity and honesty. The episode highlights practical advice on overcoming common dating pitfalls, maintaining self-growth, and ensuring one's needs are communicated and met within a relationship.

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"Small Town Breakups Are Not for The Faint of Heart" Jan 23, 2025

I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the complexities of dating in a small town close-knit community. She delves into the impact of infidelity, unrequited love, and emotionally unavailable partners, as well as the challenges of moving on while constantly encountering exes. Despite the struggles, she offers insights on establishing boundaries and pursuing personal growth, advocating for self-awareness and emotional well-being in relationships.

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Expectations vs Reality of Marriage and Parenthood Jan 21, 2025

Renee Reina, founder of 'The Mom Room' and host of 'The Mom Room Podcast,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the dynamic shifts in relationships after having children. Drawing from her background in psychology and her experiences as a mother and content creator, Renee offers insights into balancing personal goals with relationship responsibilities, the evolving stages of love, the importance of effective communication and teamwork in partnerships. She shares advice on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage while navigating the challenges of parenthood, how to reconnect with your partner when things feel dull, and more.

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"Being Single Isn't My Flaw" Jan 16, 2025

A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern friendships. The guest, who recently lost her job, shares insightful anecdotes on maintaining self-esteem and navigating life amidst singlehood and uncertainty of what lies ahead. We emphasize the significance of meaningful relationships and how to balance personal highs and lows within them.

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Is My Gut Protecting Me or Is My Attachment Sabotaging Me? Jan 14, 2025

In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson, an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how her chaotic childhood inspired her to delve into the world of relationships and attachment styles. She explains the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and their origins and effects on adult relationships. Thais also provides actionable advice on dating, communication, and building trust.

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Communication in Early Stages & Making First Dates More Fun Jan 09, 2025

Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of dating someone new. She shares how she's approached the shift by managing her anxiety, being upfront, and communicating her needs. We share advice on how to approach dating when things start to feel off, and we answer listener questions about making dates feel less like interviews, what to do when they say they need space, and how much someone's physique matters in a relationship.

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Making Friends as Adults & Growing In Relationships with Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson Jan 07, 2025

In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson, co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home. The conversation covers everything from the unexpected depths of friendships formed in adulthood to the evolving dynamics of long-term relationships. Caroline and Nicole share personal anecdotes about meeting their partners in college, dealing with life's unexpected challenges, and the reality versus expectations of marriage. They also discuss the importance of maintaining personal hobbies, mutual support through difficult times, and the significance of continuously dating your partner. The episode is filled with laughs, heartfelt moments, and practical advice on cultivating meaningful relationships and friendships in your 20s and beyond.

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Accomplish Your Dating Goals This Year with Coach Erika Ettin Jan 02, 2025

We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to becoming a top dating coach and building her thriving business 'A Little Nudge'. We delve into her approach of giving hard truths with kindness, managing dating app messages, and offering effective online dating strategies. We'll explore modern dating challenges, including communication, mindset, and handling rejection. Listener questions guide us through identifying red flags, dealing with the need for validation, and starting to date if you've never been in a serious relationship. Join us as we uncover invaluable tips for dating success and personal growth.

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Getting Real About My Job, Finances, Marriage, Boundaries & More (2024 EOY Ep) Dec 30, 2024

We're getting deep for our annual EOY episode. Camila Vola (my fabulous editor and associate producer) interviews me as I reflect on one hell of a year. I open up about what I've struggled with, the challenges I face with my job, and what I wish I could do differently. We talk about the highs and lows of wedding planning, how I've grown and what I've added to my life in 2024 that I'm bringing into next year, and what my goals are moving forward. I share what I would tell my single self and advice for accomplishing your dating goals in 2025.

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"I Flew In To Take Her Out & Now We're Engaged" with Jenn and Robbie Dec 26, 2024

Jenn and Robbie are here to inspire you with their incredible journey of long-distance love. They share how they met through an app across state lines, navigated the complexities of a relationship between New York and Austin, and overcame the odds to build a life together. They also offer practical dating advice, emphasizing the importance of following your gut and the right timing in relationships.

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Pro Tips To Manage Your Dating & Relationship Anxiety with Mackinzie Rummell, LCSW Dec 23, 2024

In this episode, relationship therapist Mackinzie Rummell returns to discuss crucial topics in dating and relationships. Mackenzie shares insights on dating intentionally for marriage, managing vulnerability and anxiety in relationships, and handling conflicts both early and in long-term dating. We also answered listener questions, including dealing with snooping on a partner's internet history, balancing social anxiety with dating, and coping with rejection. And then, Mackinzie provides guidance on the importance of communication skills and preparing for life's big transitions, like having a baby.

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How Do You Know If They're The One? with Mackinzie Rummell, LCSW Dec 19, 2024

I welcome Mackinzie Rummell, a relationship therapist based in California, to the podcast. Mackinzie shares her journey into therapy, spurred by personal relationship crises during college. She delves into her background, her passion for helping couples, and her transition from chaos to clarity. Mackinzie discusses her previous engagement and the difficult decision to break it off before meeting her now-husband. She highlights the importance of safety, communication, and mutual respect in relationships. The episode sets the stage for a deeper dive into therapeutic advice and communication tips in an upcoming second part.

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How to Make Dating Feel Magical Again with Magician Max Davidson Dec 17, 2024

Today I'm joined by Max Davidson, an award-winning magician. Max shares his captivating journey into magic, inspired by a childhood experience, and discusses the unique human connections and surprises that magic facilitates. We dive into Max's hit New York-based show 'Stand Up Magic,' which merges comedy and magic for an affordable, high-quality experience (perfect for date night). Max also reveals the challenges and rewards of dating as a magician and surprises me with incredible tricks that leave me mind blown. This episode is filled with laughter, awe, and magical insights that attest to the power of genuine, spontaneous moments.

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"I'm 34 And I've Never Had a Boyfriend" Dec 12, 2024

I'm joined by Paige Crutcher, host of Adultish Wines, to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of Paige's hilariously wild dating stories, and then dive deeper into a discussion about people-pleasing, relationship statuses, coping mechanisms, handling rejection, and maintaining a positive mindset in the dating scene.

Haven’t been in a relationship before or feel like you’re lacking experience? This playlist is filled with episodes from those who are (or were) in the same boat.

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The Current State & Future Fate of Modern Dating Dec 10, 2024

Today I'm joined by Wren Woodson and Mabel Kabani, hosts of NEWSGIRLS. We discuss their journey from meeting at 60 Minutes to creating their own news podcast aimed at young audiences. We explore the decline of dating apps, the rise of in-person events, friends in different life stages, the art of being a wingwoman, and more,

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"He Married Someone While We Were Dating" Dec 05, 2024

I'm joined by Lizzie, a 28 year old who opens up about falling for a narcissistic sociopath and finding out he married someone else while they were dating. She shares how he isolated her from her family, how they planned to move in together, and the warning signs she missed along the way. We hear what led her to think he might be hiding something and how she went about finding proof before confronting him. Finally, she shares how she connected with other women he was doing the same thing to and the personal growth journey that she went on after ending the relationship.

Lizzie mentions two books that helped her heal – "Psychopath Free" by Jackson Mackenzie and "Whole Again" by Jackson Mackenzie. She recommends you read them in that order.

We won’t cheat you on episodes about cheating! Check out this playlist with all the cheating stories you want to hear.

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No BS Breakup Survival Guide with Dara Pollak Dec 03, 2024

Dara Pollak, content creator, writer and former food blogger, returns to discuss her journey through a devastating breakup and her path to healing. Dara shares her emotional and transformative story of being blindsided in a serious relationship and how she managed to reclaim her life. She offers practical advice on dealing with breakups, including the importance of therapy, the benefits of no contact, and ways to find personal joy amidst the grief. Dara also introduces her new book, 'The Ultimate No BS Breakup Survival Guide,' which provides a comprehensive approach to overcoming heartbreak and finding strength within.

If you’re going through a breakup, check out this playlist filled with episodes about healing your heart.

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"Combatting Loneliness, Reassessing Boundaries, and Enjoying Singlehood" Nov 28, 2024

In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She discusses the complexities of maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and the regional differences she observed in dating cultures as she's lived in three parts of the country throughout her medical journey. She also offers advice on moving frequently, forming new friendships, and maintaining old ones. Tune in to hear her candid insights and the valuable lessons she learned along the way.

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You're Not Too Busy For A Relationship with Noam Raiter Nov 26, 2024

Today we're joined by Noam Raiter, a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career with her relationship, friendships, and daily life. She shares her journey into medicine, the struggles of maintaining a social life, and how her relationship with her boyfriend Sam has thrived despite her busy schedule. Additionally, Noam offers insightful advice on solo traveling, maintaining personal independence in a relationship, and the importance of self-love and self-understanding in building successful relationships.

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Listen Now: FML Talk - F%uck Abandonment Nov 22, 2024

So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this is the place for you. Host Gabrielle Stone had the rug ripped out from underneath her not once, but twice, by the paws of shitty men. But instead of landing flat on her ass, she built a career out of it. Penning her best-selling tell-all, Eat, Pray, #FML was not enough; the fans demanded more tea, and thus, this very podcast was born. FML Talk has since become a safe place for you to commiserate, heal, have a (self-love) cocktail, and laugh your ass off, as Gabrielle welcomes incredible guests to share their perspective on love, sex, heartbreak, trauma, and getting the f%ck over it all. Your weekly dose of therapy — with f-bombs and no bullsh*t advice…you won’t want to miss a session!

If you like what you hear, subscribe and listen to FML Talk every Wednesday wherever you get your podcasts. Follow FML Talk on Instagram @fmltalkpodcast and Gabrielle @gabriellestone.

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Overcoming Feeling Behind & Surviving The Holidays Single SOLO EP Nov 21, 2024

In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an exciting and intimidating update, reflect on embracing stillness after a busy season, and talk about the pressure to “keep up” with milestones like marriage, babies, and houses. Later, I offer advice to a listener feeling stuck in her late twenties and share tips for handling family holiday questions about being single and thriving during the holiday season.

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Do You Have To Love Yourself First? with Ken Reid Nov 19, 2024

Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else,' and many more.

00:00 - 02:34 Welcome Back, Ken!

02:34 - 03:59 Debunking Popular Dating Advice

03:59 - 10:29 High Value Partner Debate

10:29 - 17:39 If He Wanted To, He Would

17:39 - 23:58 Finding Love When You Least Expect It

23:58 - 25:12 The Healing Power of Meeting New People

25:12 - 27:47 The Importance of Indifference in Breakups

27:47 - 30:38 Navigating Avoidant and Narcissistic Exes

30:38 - 35:05 The Numbers Game in Dating

35:05 - 37:39 The Myth of Loving Yourself First

37:39 - 45:52 When You Know, You Know: Debunked

45:52 - 47:31 Finding Dating Advice That Works for You

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"What I Learned From Cheating On My Ex" Nov 14, 2024

In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability played crucial roles. He offers insights and advice for both cheaters and those who have been cheated on, emphasizing the importance of empathy, self-awareness, and open communication in relationships.

We won’t cheat you on episodes about cheating! Check out this playlist with all the cheating stories you want to hear.

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Becoming Confident When You're Insecure with Jackie Shames Nov 12, 2024

Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dynamics, and podcasting, and we live-text someone Jackie went on a date with.

00:00 - 09:30 Navigating Confidence and Dating

09:30 - 26:24 Unexpected Encounters

26:24 - 28:54 Reflecting on Closure and Moving On

28:54 - 29:49 The Importance of Detachment

29:49 - 31:25 Running Into an Ex-Fling

31:25 - 33:24 Finding Security in a New Relationship

33:24 - 36:26 Navigating Dating Patterns and Self-Sabotage

36:26 - 43:38 Balancing Personalities in Relationships

43:38 - 55:53 Influencer Culture and Personal Growth

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"From Ghosting & Catfishing to Finding Each Other" Nov 07, 2024

Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their initial dating struggles, including catfishing and ghosting, and their eventual connection that sparked over a phone call and FaceTime. The couple discusses the importance of open communication, handling financial changes, how they support each other in tough times. Walter and Bethany explore their compatibility, different upbringings, and expectations in their relationship, and provide advice to singles ready to give up on dating."

Love hearing how people found love? Check out this playlist filled with stories of how real daters met their person!

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Age Gaps, Playing Games, and Defining The Relationship with Felix Levine Nov 05, 2024

Felix Levine, entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me, joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connections, handling past relationship traumas, and the intricacies of dating someone significantly older. The episode also addresses listener questions on unique dating challenges and offers advice on maintaining relationships amidst personal anxieties.

01:35 - 03:40 Navigating College and Depression

03:40 - 04:32 Podcasting as a Career

04:32 - 06:10 The Realities of Podcasting

06:10 - 08:18 Maturity and Personal Growth

08:18 - 11:06 Friendships and Ambition

11:06 - 14:03 A Special Relationship

14:03 - 15:02 The Meet Cute and Beyond

15:02 - 25:15 Dating Advice and Personal Stories

25:15 - 27:58Confident Beginnings

27:58 - 30:59 Overcoming Past Trauma

30:59 - 34:46 Healing and Moving Forward

34:46 - 41:29 Navigating Age Gaps in Relationships

41:29 - 48:32 Listener Questions: Weird and Serious

48:32 - 51:10Best Dating Advice

51:10 - 53:29 Outro

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"How I Became Okay With Being Single" Oct 31, 2024

Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and embracing new passions like photography. Throughout the conversation, they explore Harry's experiences with dating, the societal pressures of relationships, and his journey to understand and accept his neurodiversity. The episode emphasizes making one's own rules in life, finding personal fulfillment through community, and the transformative power of genuine human connections.

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Nomalize Calling Off An Engagment with Rebekah Lipsky, LMHC Oct 29, 2024

In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky, a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement and wedding after a five-and-a-half-year relationship. She delves into the emotional challenges of such decisions, the importance of aligning one's values, and her journey of self-discovery post-breakup. The discussion includes insights on handling grief, the role of supportive friends, and her upcoming support group for women who have called off engagements. Rebecca also offers valuable advice for anyone facing similar life transitions.

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04:41 - 06:34 Life Transitions and Personal Struggles

06:34 - 09:45 Calling Off her Engagement

09:45 - 15:21 The Emotional Rollercoaster

15:21 - 27:48 Making the Tough Decision

27:48 - 28:24 Facing the Guilt of Canceling a Wedding

28:24 - 29:56 Support from Friends and Family

29:56 - 33:01 Layers of Grief in Breakups

33:01 - 38:14 Supporting Friends Through Breakups

38:14 - 45:10 Rediscovering Yourself After a Breakup

45:10 - 48:39 Navigating Relationship Decisions

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"If It's Not a Hell No, It's a Yes" Oct 24, 2024

Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the importance of taking risks in dating, inspired by a quote from the movie 'We Bought a Zoo.' Adrian also addresses the common dating adage 'if he wanted to, he would' and shares his thoughts on modern dating pressures and misconceptions.

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Learn Your Values To Find & Build The Right Relationship with Suzy Welch Oct 22, 2024

The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisions in dating!)

We discuss the potential impacts of value misalignment in relationships, and how understanding of one's values can inform personal and professional life decisions, leading to greater fulfillment.

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03:34 - 03:34 The Concept of Values and Their Importance

03:54 - 07:12 Developing the 'Becoming You' Methodology

07:12 - 08:28 Values in Relationships and Personal Growth

08:28 - 14:15 The Values Bridge Tool and Its Applications

24:19 - 26:03 High Scope vs. Low Scope Values in Relationships

26:03 - 30:06 Work Centrism: Balancing Career and Family

30:06 - 37:28 The 10-10-10 Decision-Making Method

37:28 - 41:47 The Velvet Coffin: Avoiding Complacency

41:47 - 46:19 Whose Life Do You Want Anyway?

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"How to Not Lose Hope That Your Person Is Still Out There" Oct 17, 2024

Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Tune in for a conversation where we explore relationship dynamics and discuss the importance of self-awareness and patience.

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What You Wear Impacts Who You Date with Gab Saper Oct 15, 2024

In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper, a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York, despite challenges like ghosting. She explains how eventually forgiving her now husband led to a deep relationship. Gab also talks about her journey into fashion styling, giving tips on dressing authentically, and how clothes are tied to self-expression and dating. They conclude with a discussion on the importance of wearing comfortable, authentic clothing and recognizing the significance of quality undergarments.

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01:07 Dressing for Your Body

03:30 Parallels Between Fashion and Dating

04:06 A Love Story: Meeting Her Husband

11:03 The Ghosting Incident

22:06 The Proposal

25:01 Wardrobe Styling Career

25:08 Early Fashion Memories

26:09 Turning Passion into a Business

27:53 Fashion and Dating

28:49 Breaking Fashion Myths

30:46 Finding Your Style

32:04 Dressing for Confidence

35:48 Comfort Over Trends

38:38 The Importance of Proper Fit

47:03 Advice for Men

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How My Parents Met & Have Stayed Together 35 Years Oct 10, 2024

In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present. They offer valuable advice on navigating the modern dating world, staying hopeful, and the importance of being true to oneself in love. The episode also touches upon Ilana's recent wedding planning experience and fond family memories, making it a heartfelt exploration of love across generations.

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Parents

00:11 First Impressions and Initial Reactions

01:10 How They Met: A Love Story

05:53 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges

17:58 The Proposal and Engagement

21:45 Adapting to Life Changes and Parenthood

24:36 Balancing Personal Interests and Family Life

26:41 A Memorable Vegas Trip

28:33 Lost and Found Wallets

29:13 Listener Questions: Favorite Nephew

30:41 Advice for Single Women

33:45 Reflecting on Love and Relationships

39:18 Alana's Career Journey

47:41 Wedding Planning Insights

51:50 Final Thoughts and Advice

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Transforming Heartbreak into Personal Growth Oct 08, 2024

In this insightful episode, relationship coach Lucy Price discusses navigating the emotional turbulence of breakups and finding empowerment. Lucy shares her journey from corporate marketing to becoming a breakup expert. The episode covers processing feelings, challenging self-blaming thoughts, and creating closure independently. Lucy offers practical advice for gaining emotional regulation and support during tough encounters, such as seeing an ex at social events. This conversation is essential listening for anyone looking to move forward and reclaim their power after a breakup.

00:00 - 00:37 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:37 - 04:56 Lucy's Journey to Relationship Coaching

04:56 - 09:14 The First 24 Hours After a Breakup

09:14 - 16:16 Understanding and Processing Breakups

16:16 - 24:46 Moving Forward and Self-Reflection

24:46 - 26:01 Navigating Post-Breakup Grief

26:01 - 28:37 Challenging Self-Blame After a Breakup

28:37 - 35:29 Finding Positives and Lessons in Past Relationships

35:29 - 40:45 Creating Closure and Acceptance

40:45 - 46:09 Preparing for Encounters with Your Ex

46:09 - 48:50 Best Relationship Advice and Conclusion

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Following The Dating Rules is Ruining Your Dating Life Oct 03, 2024

Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff Carly Silverman dissect historical dating rules to see which stood the test of time. Then they go through more modern, viral dating rules they've heard of and debate where they stand on them. 33 minutes in, they share dating rules that they broke when they found love.

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How to Maintain Emotional and Physical Intimacy with Sex Therapist Lindsey Schafer Oct 01, 2024

In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Lindsey Schafer, a licensed couples and sex therapist, with us. Lindsey delves into the importance of normalizing conversations about intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. She shares her personal journey of overcoming her embarrassment about her unique initials to embracing her identity. We explore the dynamics of name changes after marriage, the stigma around sex and couples therapy, and practical advice for reigniting emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. Lindsey answers listener questions on managing differing sex drives and rebuilding trust after infidelity, offering insightful strategies to strengthen connection and communication.

Lindsey is accepting new clients! Reach out on lindseyschafer.com or follow Lindsey on Instagram!

01:30 Journey to Becoming a Therapist

06:14 Defining Intimacy

11:54 Common Relationship Issues

14:43 Approaching Therapy and Stigmas

22:40 The Importance of Relatable Education

24:29 Addressing Sexual Confidence and Intimacy

26:37 The Rewards of Being a Sex Therapist

28:37 Listener Questions: Navigating Relationship Challenges

38:39 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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Don't Let Texting Ruin Dating | Solo Q&A Sep 26, 2024

In this solo episode, answer listener questions covering the intricacies of dating, such as how to deal with texting anxieties, ending relationships respectfully, and managing the dynamics of dating someone within your friend group. I also dive into how to handle relationships when dealing with controlling in-laws and the importance of setting boundaries.

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Are They Avoidant or An Asshole? with Ken Reid Sep 24, 2024

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network.

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01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling

04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners

09:55 Attachment Styles Overview

19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners

22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners

25:06 Doing the Inner Work

30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment

31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team

33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments

34:22 Finding Problems with Partners

39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships

47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds

Want to hear more of our episodes with therapists? This playlist has them all!

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Am I Too Busy To Date? Sep 19, 2024

Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his 13-year relationship, and shares the challenges of balancing work and personal life. Ryan also touches on growing up with a single mother, the impact of his demanding career on his social and dating life, and offers his best piece of dating advice.

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04:04 Career and Personal Life Balance

06:20 Challenges of Maintaining Relationships

12:52 Current Dating Life and Career Demands

17:58 Lessons from a Single Mom

19:16 Balancing Work and Fun

20:15 Dating in Your 40s vs. 20s

24:47 Finding Joy in Life

31:40 The Importance of Listening

For more episodes about finding love after 30, check out this playlist.

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Maintaining Confidence in Love and Work with Bradley Steven Perry Sep 17, 2024

Bradley Steven Perry, known for his roles on Disney Channel's 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Mighty Med' and cohost of The Sit and Chat podcast joins us to discuss his journey as a child actor, his love for acting, and how he keeps himself creatively engaged. Bradley touches on the unpredictable nature of the acting industry and the importance of consistency in his life. He candidly shares his experiences with dating, relationships, and his current relationship with Natasha Bure. Bradley also delves into his biggest fears, his first kiss, dealing with heartbreak, and future aspirations.

01:16 Navigating the Acting Industry

03:43 Early Acting Experiences

04:55 College Life and Relationships

12:02 Meeting Natasha and Relationship Dynamics

21:05 Confidence and Overcoming Rejection

29:01 Moving to New York:

35:39 Bradley's crazy NYC story

40:36 First Kiss Memories

41:59 Fears and Future Aspirations

44:49 Celebrity Crushes and Industry Realities

47:01 Best Relationship Advice

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"I Like You, But I Don’t Like Labels" Sep 12, 2024

In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional attachment and unclear boundaries, the relationship was marked by lies, invalidated feelings, and constant back-and-forth. After years of trying to move on, a pivotal moment led her to finally break free and prioritize self-worth. Now thriving, she reflect on the importance of choosing yourself over toxic situations.

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How To Stop Getting Attached So Quickly with Sabrina Zohar Sep 10, 2024

In this episode, we welcome special guest Sabrina Zohar, a dating coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show. Sabrina shares her intriguing journey from a dissatisfied fashion professional to a dating maven and content creator. We discuss Sabrina's personal experiences with anxious attachment, the impact of her past relationships, and her transformative path through therapy and self-discovery. We touch on the importance of setting boundaries, dealing with rejection, and maintaining self-worth. This episode shares insights for managing dating anxiety, the significance of authentic self-presentation, and the value of continuous personal growth within relationships.

Timecodes (may be slightly altered due to ads):

00:57 Sabrina Zohar's Journey to Dating Coach

01:48 The Turning Point: Therapy and Self-Discovery

03:10 TikTok Success and Podcast Launch

03:41 Handling Trolls and Building a Community

05:42 Dealing with Rejection in Dating

14:28 Authenticity in Relationships

16:11 Personal Stories and Overcoming Challenges

22:19 Insights from Working at Hinge

27:01 Understanding Avoidant Behavior

31:05 Supporting a Friend with Anxious Attachment

33:16 Navigating Mixed Signals in Dating

43:48 Managing Anxiety in New Relationships

50:59 Best Dating Advice Ever Received

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"I Don't Want To Have Sex" Sep 05, 2024

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Sam, a man who opens up about his experience recognizing and accepting his asexuality. He shares what his early experiences with sex and dating were like and how he came to realize that sex isn't something he needs to feel connected to somebody. He shares his journey of finding himself and finding the love of his life. Plus, we hear about his experience coming out to friends and family and trying to find his place in the LGBTQIA+ community.

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Finding A Love That Lasts with Matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom Sep 03, 2024

Aleeza Ben Shalom, Coach, Matchmaker, and Host of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, joins us to talk about what goes into finding a love that will last. Aleeza opens up about how she and her husband met, and how assumptions almost ruined their chances at a relationship. She shares her expertise on what holds people back from finding love, why you should “date ‘em till you hate ‘em,” the benefits of not touching for five dates, and so much more.

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“I Quit My Toxic Ex & Toxic Job In The Same Day” Aug 29, 2024

Danielle Farage joins us to share her experience leaving both a toxic relationship and a toxic work environment. We hear how all-consuming these situations were, how they dimmed her light, and why she felt trapped in them for so long. She shares how she realized she wasn’t in healthy situations and how she came to terms with walking away from both. We discuss what to do if you feel like your friend is in a toxic situation, and how to approach having those conversations.

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How to Overcome Your Dating Anxiety and Codependence Aug 27, 2024

I’m joined by Dating & Relationship Anxiety Hypnotherapist Danielle Hatton to dive into rewiring you brain to feel calm and confident instead of anxious and panicked. Danielle opens up about how her decision to call off her engagement led to healing her codependency, exploring her independence, and becoming the best version of herself. We bust myths about hypnotherapy and discuss how to build our self worth, why we obsess over people and how to stop, how to not let your anxiety sabotoge a great dating situation, and what to do when they’re not texting you back.

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"I Finally Got Over Him...By Getting Under Someone Else" Aug 22, 2024

I’m joined by a 30-year-old who opens up about the pain she went through when she and the person she thought she was meant to be with learned they had different plans for their futures. She shares advice for long distance relationships along with what she’s learned about getting through heartbreak over the past year. Plus, we hear about how she crushes the IRL dating game and she gives us hot tips for approaching people in the wild.

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Politics in Dating, Being Judged & Keeping Momentum | Solo Q&A Aug 20, 2024

On this solo episode, I’m opening up about turning 30, figuring out what I want to do with my life, and a few exciting things that are happening in the next month weeks along with my never ending fears surrounding them. Later, I answer your questions about finding out someone’s political beliefs on a date, fearing that someone will not want to date you because of who you are, feeling judged about taking off from dating, keeping the momentum going when one of you goes away after a few dates, and more. Love you all – thanks for tuning in and supporting me always!

Check out Patreon for weekly bonus episodes, a group chat where you can ask me anything, and a community of friends going who get what you’re going through. patreon.com/lifeinprogress

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"My 6 Year Relationship Ended at 31" Aug 15, 2024

I'm joined by Maria, a 33 year old living in San Diego who opens up about ending her six year relationship and starting over at the age of 31. She shares how she and her ex grew apart over the years and how she ultimately decided the relationship was over. We hear how she navigated moving out, coparenting their dog, and how she processed the breakup. Maria walks us through what it was like to date as a newly single 31 year old while all of her friends were in relationships. She gifts us some hilarious dating stories and fails, and tells us how she met her now-partner.

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What I'd Tell My 25 Year Old Self As a 50 Year Old Divorcee with Christina Ford Aug 13, 2024

Christina Ford, Author of, “In Search of Mr. Darcy” and writer of the popular blog A-Broad in London, joins us to share her life and thoughts as a divorced mother of two thriving later in her 50s. Christina walks us through two marriages and multiple proposals, saying “I do” when she knew she did not, and what it was like starting over and over and over again. We hear what advice she would give to her 25-year-old self about love, life, and how to find happiness within.

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It Takes 7 Attempts To Leave An Abusive Relationship Aug 08, 2024

TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence or intimate partner abuse. I'm joined by Leor, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with victims of intimate partner abuse. Leor joins us for an immensely important conversation surrounding the early warning signs of emotional, physical, financial, sexual abuse, what to do if you think you're in an abusive relationship, and how to seek help. We discuss how to support someone in your life who may a victim, why it takes people so many attempts to leave, and how victims can best approach healing and rebuilding their lives after they do leave. Later, we lighten the conversation to discuss staying positive in dating, how to take the pressure off, going to events alone, anxious attachment, and more.

Help is available 24/7 via the National Domestic Violence Hotline/ Visit thehotline.org or call 1800.799.SAFE (7233)

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Hitting Rock Bottom (& Bouncing Back) with Sydney Kaplan Aug 06, 2024

Sydney Kapan, writer and content creator, joins the show to talk about her experiences coming back from rock bottom.

We discuss how to find your own clarity amongst all of the contradicting dating advice out there, and how to surround yourself with a filled life that will keep you afloat, even in tough times.

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“I Slept With A Married Man” Aug 01, 2024

I’m joined by Talia, a 30 year old living between Montreal and NYC, to hear the crazy dating experiences she’s encountered during her pursuit of love. Talia tells us how getting stood up on a date led to one of the most spontaneous and crazy nights of her life. We hear about her “dating olympics,” how she constantly meets people IRL, and how she unapologetically pursues dating and life in her own authentic way.

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Conversations Couples Need to Be Having ft. Rabbi David Levy Jul 30, 2024

Rabbi David Levy (mine and Jake's Rabbi!) joins me to discuss the most important conversations couples should be having before they get married. We discuss what conversation topics couples often avoid, the importance of learning how to fight well, and why you should go to bed angry. We hear what led him to become a Rabbi, what Judaism means to him, and how Jewish beliefs can help us live a more fulfilled life.

Get in touch with Rabbi David at https://rabbidavidlevy.com/ or email him at rabbidavidelevy@gmail.com

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Swiping Right, Hooking Up, and Settling Down While Chronically Ill and Disabled Jul 25, 2024

I'm joined by Jessica Slice, author of Dateable: Swiping Right, Hooking Up, and Settling Down While Chronically Ill and Disabled. Diagnosed at 28, Jessica opens up about how her life and dating experiences transformed post-diagnosis. She shares the emotional differences before and after her diagnosis, offering a glimpse into her journey of self-discovery and acceptance.

Jessica delves into the complexities of disclosing her disability to potential partners, discussing when and how much to share. She reflects on how her diagnosis changed her self-view and the time it took to build a healthy relationship with her condition. We also explore how therapy helped her relationships, pushing through discomfort to find safety and understanding in them.

Join us as we discuss the nuances of dating with a chronic illness, the journey to self-acceptance, and finding love and confidence in who you are and what you have to offer.

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Spotting Green Flags & Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone with with Piper Phillips Jul 23, 2024

Piper Phillips is on the mic today to share the charming story of how she met her boyfriend, highlight the green flags she noticed early on in their relationship, and discuss how they manage dynamics with friends. We answer listener questions on feeling overwhelmed by app responses, dating after getting laid off, attending singles events alone, moving in together while maintaining independence, and whether or not to send a double text.

Tune in for practical dating tips and heartfelt advice from Piper on this episode!

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"From Dating Disasters to Meeting My Person" Jul 18, 2024

Anonymous from the episode, “The Classy Fckboy” returns two years later to share how she went from being the girl who got played by guys who weren’t looking for something serous, to finding her now-fiancé! She shares how she first met her fiancé (days after our last recording), red and green flags she saw along the way, what felt different in this relationship vs. previous ones, how she knew he was the one, and so much more.

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Learning Your Non Negotiables & Finding Your Voice Jul 16, 2024

My fabulous makeup artist, Essie Cohen joins us for a fun and engaging conversation on her experiences with dating and relationships. She shares insights from her 9+ year relationship, becoming single at 31, and dating someone 10 years older. Essie talks about what it felt like to "start over" and where she began her journey. She also discusses her work with brides and how she has seen and heard of marriages not working out. Essie reflects on whether she could ever sense what a bride was feeling on her big day, and we have a meaningful discussion about how you never know what someone is going through.

Essie's blog: https://justagirltrying2be.wordpress.com/

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Our Vows Jul 15, 2024

Jake and I got married on June 1, 2024 surrounded by our families and closest friends. I'm so excited to share mine and Jake's vows with our SOP family 🤍

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I Got Engaged, Married, and Divorced in 10 Months Jul 11, 2024

I'm joined by a 32-year-old woman who opens up about getting engaged, married, and divorced in less than a year when she was 29. We hear how their relationship unfolded and how things were when they got engaged, along with how she felt throughout the engagement. She shares what her wedding night was like and what happened after that led to the divorce. Finally, we hear about her healing process and what dating has been like as a young divorcee.

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Trusting Your Timeline, Avoiding Situationships & Obsessing Over Crushes with Emily Bonani Jul 09, 2024

Emily Bonani joins us for a hilarious and honest conversation about avoiding situationships, balancing dating while focusing on herself, and what it's like dating at the same time as her mom. We answer listener questions about not obsessing over relationships, how to not seek validation, and more.

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"How I Became Securely Attached" Jul 04, 2024

I'm joined by Lok, a 37 year old male living in Boston, Massachusetts. Lok joins the podcast to share his experience going from a disorganized attachment style to secrely attached. He opens up about how at times he felt overly anxious and other times feeling overly avoidant, and what steps he took to work on himself and get to a place where he's confident in who he is and what he has to offer. We discuss the nuances of getting advice from friends, how to find people you can open up to, and overcoming periods of intense anxiety and depression.

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Taking Back Your Life After The Breakup Jul 02, 2024

My friend (and a woman I have looked up to for a literal decade) Kelley Fox joins us for an inspiring conversation on dealing with burnout, overcoming heartbreak, and navigating breakups. She shares her journey of being true to herself, offering insights on dating English men and her personal evolution from being anxiously attached to securely attached. Kelley discusses strategies for managing emotional stress, healing after a breakup, and fostering healthy relationships. Join us as Kelley empowers us to embrace our true selves and navigate life with authenticity and resilience.

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"1000 Invisible Strings" Jun 27, 2024

In this episode, our guest shares a joyful dating journey with her boyfriend that made her believe in the invisible string theory. They recount how growing up in neighboring towns on Long Island and sharing many mutual connections led to their eventual meeting on Hinge in January 2022.

Despite numerous past connections, including appearing in the same childhood photo, they never interacted until their fateful match on Hinge. She reflects on the serendipitous timing of their meeting and values the individual growth they both experienced beforehand, believing they met at the perfect time in their lives.

Join us as our guest candidly shares her story of love, personal growth, and the invisible strings that brought them together.

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How to Meet Someone IRL with Liv Schreiber Jun 25, 2024

Liv Schreiber, Founder of Hot and Social, joins us for an inspiring conversation on embracing authenticity and living unapologetically. She shares her journey of being true to herself, offering insights on confidently approaching someone in person and recounting the serendipitous moment of meeting her now-boyfriend in an elevator. She discusses strategies for tuning out judgmental noise and staying grounded in who you are, along with practical tips for gaining confidence and maintaining a positive outlook in life and relationships. Join us as Liv empowers us to embrace our true selves and navigate life with authenticity and resilience.

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"My Transcontinental Movie-Worthy Romance" Jun 20, 2024

In this episode, I'm joined by a woman who shares her experience of a transformative long-distance relationship spanning continents between Sweden and the US. She opens up about how they met and started their relationship, the challenges and joys of maintaining a connection across such distances, their journey over three years, and how the relationship eventually came to an end. She also discusses the valuable lessons she learned from this unique experience. Join us as she candidly reflects on love, distance, and personal growth.

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“I Got Cheated On By A Homeless Man” Jun 18, 2024

My friend and fitness instructor extraordinaire, Jill Goodtree, joins the pod today to open up about her multiple experiences getting cheated on and how she bounced back from each of them. Jill shares how she has created a life that she loves and how she would have to meet someone who really adds to her already filled cup in order to move forward with a relationship. We discuss how she and others in her situation are coming to terms with the possiblity that they may not find a life partner, and that they're okay with that.

Follow Jill at @jillgoodtree on Instagram and take one of her classes with me at Rumble!

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"All I Wanted Was To Be Wanted" Jun 13, 2024

TW: Sexual assault

I'm joined by Rafaella, a 23-year-old who opens up about entering a relationship during a phase of her life where she felt like she wasn't enough for someone to want to be with her. We hear how her insecurities led to unhealthy relationship patterns unfolding, including her being manipulated and emotionally and physically abused. We hear how she lost herself in her relationship, and how leaving the relationship in the emotional state she was in led her down an even darker path until she finally had a wake-up call and took control of her life.

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How To Improve Your Relationship With Yourself Jun 11, 2024

Marianna Cuomo Maier, Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach and Founder of Grata Wellness, is here to help us learn how to thrive, not just survive. We discuss how we're all operating on autopilot and why it's so important to figure out what we want our lives to feel and look like. We chat about little changes we can make in our daily lives to better show up for ourselves, our friends, our dates, and our partners. Marianna shares tips for overcoming dating burnout, starting your wellness journey, and prioritizing your relationship with yourself.

Follow Marianna at @gratawellness on Instagram and learn more at https://www.gratawellness.com/

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"Embracing My Values While Dating" Jun 06, 2024

In this episode, I'm joined by Anna, a 28-year-old living in Calgary, Alberta. She dives into her journey of self-discovery and the challenges she's faced along the way. From dealing with breakups to navigating the dating scene with caution and staying true to her values. We also explore her experiences grappling with confusion around sexuality and attraction, as well as her decision to embrace a life without children.

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WE'RE MARRIED!! Jun 04, 2024

I'M MARRIED!! Today, my husband Jake joins me to recap our wedding weekend—from the nerves and hiccups to the sweetest moments and tears of joy. We spill all the tea about our rehearsal dinner speeches, the heartfelt moments from our ceremony, the joyous celebrations at our reception, and the epic after-party that kept the festivities going. Plus, we reflect on how each of these moments brought us closer together and share the highlights and challenges of our wedding day.

Thank you to our incredible vendors who made this day possible. We couldn’t recommend each of them more highly.

Dress: Tom Sebastien from L’Fay Bridal

Hair: Hair By Antonella

Makeup: Essie Cohen Makeup

Rings: Flawless Carat

Coordinator: Marisa Shwartz from Rhinebrook Events

Florals: Frank’s House of Flowers

Content Creator: Dear Bride Social

Band: Sugarlane from Hank Lane Music

Earrings Rental: Verstolo

Cake: Just Desserts By Jess

Trainer: The Irish Yank

Photo Booth: Mashbooths

First Dance: Maya Moves

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“My Family Was So Messed Up, I Thought I’d Never Find My Person” May 30, 2024

I'm joined by Danielle, a 31-year-old woman living in LA, who opens up about the trauma she went through due to her alcoholic father. She shares how she believed nobody would want to be with her because of what her family was like, and as a result, she closed herself off to finding love. We hear how she moved to Los Angeles to get a fresh start and how she hit rock bottom before creating a life for herself that brought her true happiness. Now, she fears that she's too fiercely independent and successful to find someone.

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10 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Single Self May 28, 2024

On this solo episode, I open up about what I wish I could tell my younger, single, struggling self. I share insight from my experiences as a dater, dating coach, friend, and fiancé. We discuss knowing your worth, not letting someone’s disinterest impact how you view yourself, mindsets to approach dating with, future tripping, fixing people, and so much more.

Book a coaching session, submit a question for the pod, and get in touch at theleap.co/creator/ilanadunn/

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Can Guys and Girls Be "Just Friends?" May 23, 2024

My friends Sammy and Glenn met as coworkers and became close “friends with nonsexual benefits.” Sammy and Glenn share how they’ve helped each other naviate dating situations by providing the perspective of the opposite gender, talking one another off the ledge when they’re spiraling, and hyping each other up IRL. We hear how they’ve grown as daters, if they’ve ever argued or disagreed on how to approach a dating situation, how they’ve found the confidence to go to singles events & more.

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How We Knew They Were "The One" May 21, 2024

Jen Lauren is back on the pod and this time, she’s engaged. We’re commiserating about wedding planning, discussing how to set and maintain boundaries, and appreciating the little things about our relationships. We answer your questions about how we know our fiancés were the one, how we balance(d) our side jobs with our full time jobs, and how we reduce stress during high stress times.

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"We Met & Broke Up At Work" May 16, 2024

I’m joined by a 30 year old woman who opens up about spending a year and a half in a tumultuous on again, off again situationship with someone she met at work. She shares how things went from being blissful to confusing overnight, and how she never knew which version of him she would get when she would walk into work or spend time with him. We hear how her friends expressed their concern, how he ruined her 28th birthday, and how she found out he was seeing someone else while they were together. She shares what her healing journey has looked like, the difficulties of trying to move forward while having to see the person everyday, and what she’d learned from going through this experience.

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What Working With Couples Before Their Wedding Is Really Like May 14, 2024

Maya Sank (AKA Maya Moves AKA wedding dance instructor extraordinaire) joins the podcast today to share her experiences working with couples before they walk down the aisle. We hear what dynamics Maya sees among her clients, what it’s like working with bridezillas and groomzillas, and what qualities she sees amongst couples she admires. We hear how she and her fiancé met and what it’s been like having a long engagement. Plus, we discuss being in different life stages than friends and how being a bridesmaid and wedding guest has prepared us for our own experiences.

Follow along and get in touch with Maya at @maya.moves on Instagram

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"BRCA Means Planning Your Whole Future at 26" May 09, 2024

Emily Kellman (27) opens up about how finding out that she is a BRCA1 gene mutation carrier has impacted her life. She shares what the testing process was like and how she felt when she “tested positive.” We hear how she, her family, and her doctors worked together to determine the best path forward, and what her fears and anxieties have been like along the way. Emily tells us how she’s had to plan for her future in her twenties to ensure she’s able to have the life and family that she wants. Emily shares how her friends have supported her, what resources have been helpful, and what advice she has for anyone else who may be going through something similar.

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Carley Fortune: Female Friendships, Right Person Wrong time, and Happy Endings May 07, 2024

To celebrate the release of her new novel, “This Summer Will Be Different,” my favorite author Carley Fortune joins the podcast today! Carley and I chat about what we’ve learned about love and relationships from the characters and love stories in her three novels. We discuss how her childhood experiences shaped the characters and settings in her books, how female friendships play a major role in relationships, and if “right person, wrong time” holds true. Carley tells us her transformation from award winning journalist to NYT best selling author, and we hear how she met her husband and how he’s supported her through various life changes.

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“He’s Marrying (One Of) The Girls He Cheated On Me With” May 02, 2024

I'm joined by a woman who opens up about how her nine-year relationship with her high school boyfriend that was filled with infidelity and emotional abuse finally came to an end. She shares how she held onto the idea of what the person she wanted him to be vs the person he was, along with how she became stronger because of what she went through. We discuss dating after a breakup of this magnitude, what she learned from working with a life coach, and what she's looking for now. Plus, we chat about how we're all guilty of accepting less than we deserve and that you're never alone no matter how isolated you feel in what you're going through.

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Stop Trying To Find "The One" with Jennifer Teplin, LCSW Apr 30, 2024

I’m joined by Jennifer Teplin, LCSW and founder of Manhattan Wellness, joins the show to talk about how we can own that your 20s might not be the best time of your life, and that’s okay. We discuss the idea of who we thought we would be vs who we are, how to embrace where we’re at, and why you should never compare yourself to anyone else’s timeline or life milestones. We chat about the pressure to find, “the one,” and answer listener questions about managing anxiety in the early stages of dating and relationships.

Check out @Manhattan.wellness on Instagram and learn more at https://manhattanwellness.org/

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"9 Ways My Dating Mindset Has Changed" Apr 25, 2024

I’m joined by a 25-year-old listener who is wise beyond her years. She shares the various ways her dating mindset has changed over the past year (which she documents in a note on her phone). I don’t want to spoil them, but if you listen to one thing this week, let it be this episode!

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Learning To Love Yourself (Or Like Yourself) with Kayla Kleinman Apr 23, 2024

Kayla Kleinman, book lover, introvert, and realistic wellness content creator joins the SOP family today. Kayla and I chat about learning to be unapologetically yourself, the difference between being alone and being lonely, and how to differentiate your feelings vs. your anxiety. We chat living alone, enjoying your own company, saying no to plans you don’t want to do, and embracing the weird things you’re obsessed with. Kayla opens up about her experience in couples therapy and how it allowed her and her partner to successfully work through challenges they faced together. Finally, Kayla shares what she’s learned about love from books and what books are most representative of modern dating and relationships.

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“Being Single Has Been Life’s Most Unexpected Gift" Apr 18, 2024

My friend Emily joins the podcast today to open up about taking a leap of faith and moving across the country. She shares the mindset that she had that allowed her to meet other people, say yes to everything, and create the life she wanted for herself. We discuss dating in NY vs LA, comparing yourself to your younger siblings, and making new friends in your 30s. Finally, Emily tells us what went into her decision to freeze her eggs and how she feels now that she went through the process.

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How To Manifest Your Future Partner Apr 16, 2024

I’m joined by Carleigh Ferrante, writer and host of the dating and wellness podcast Mostly Balanced. Carleigh and I chat about how she went from being avoidant and fiercely independent to manifesting her now-boyfriend of over a year. We discuss how she maintained her independence in her relationship, why it’s important to look within when considering what you’re looking for, and how you can set yourself up for dating success. We answer listener questions about the ick, saving friendships, and making the first move.

Follow @mostlybalancedpodcast on Instagram and check out the podcast on Spotify!

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"He Wasn’t Capable of Loving Me" Apr 11, 2024

On this Unfiltered, I’m joined by a woman who opens up about the year long relationship she was in where her boyfriend was unable to love her due to trauma from past relationships. She shares how he continuously told her he wanted to get there, how she remained patient, and how it became an elephant in the room and often prevented her from expressing her love. We hear what finally led her to break things off with him, and how she’s working to move forward knowing that she’s worthy of love.

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Getting Real About My Insecurities with My Brother Andrew Apr 09, 2024

My oldest brother Andrew interviews me about my journey with Seeing Other People over the last few years. I open up about the imposter syndrome I've faced, my biggest challenges with my role, and what I fear people finding out about me. We discuss how I decided what parts of my life to reveal on the podcast, how I've grown from it over the years, and what the most rewarding parts of my job are. Andrew shares what the cringiest part of his sister hosting a podcast is, what it's been like seeing me build my brand, and what it feels like watching his younger sister find love and get married.

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How to Not Lose Yourself In Your Relationship Apr 04, 2024

Ava Nouri, RD and host of the Loving Wellness podcast, joins us to discuss how to approach dating and relationships in a more loving and intentional way. Ava shares how relationships should be a vehicle for self-discovery and how we can stay in gratitude in our relationships and not take our partner for granted. We hear how Ava and her partner successfully survived their years of being in a long-distance relationship, and she opens up about how she’s maintained her independence in her relationship.

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Why You Should Stop Over-Romanticizing with Minaa B, LCSW Apr 02, 2024

Minaa B, LCSW and author of Owning Our Struggles joins the show to share her expertise on healing and embracing our past experiences. We hear how everyone has something they can heal from and the accessible ways anyone can begin their healing journey. Minaa explains how we often contribute to our own suffering in dating by over romanticizing, and she breaks down how the stories we create in our minds are more rewarding than reality, which leads to more pain when something doesn’t work out.

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From Hopelessly Single to Happily In Love Mar 28, 2024

Nearly 8 months after coming on the podcast to commiserate about being in a dating drought, Erica Shea is back on to share how she found her person and has built a happy and healthy relationship. Erica shares what changed for her in her dating life and mindset leading up to meeting him, their romcom-worthy meet-cute, and how going slow allowed her to feel more secure. She shares how they both knew it was right, and we hear what it’s been like introducing each other to their families and planning to move in together soon.

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The Red Flags I Repeatedly Ignored Mar 26, 2024

I'm joined by Brianna McCabe, author of "The Red Flags I Repeatedly Ignored" to discuss why it's so important to consider our role in the things that happen to us. We chat about how our self-worth, friendships, and alcohol consumption all relate to the dating and relationship experiences we have, and why it's incredibly important to look within at our personal red flags. We discuss behaviors we've exhibited in the past that we're horrified about now, why the answers are always right there in front of us, and why college drinking and hookup culture has gotten out of hand.

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I Moved Abroad and Found Myself (& Found Love) Mar 21, 2024

I'm joined by my childhood friend Jordan who made a sudden move from New York to Amsterdam, four years ago. Jordan shares why she took the risk to move to a new country, how her family and friends reacted to the news, and what it was like picking up and starting a new life in a new place. Jordan opens up about how she approached making friends, establishing roots, dating, and feeling comfortable and at home in a foreign country. We hear how she met her now longterm boyfriend and what her fears were surrounding meeting someone abroad and how that would impact her future. Jordan gives us incredible advice for taking chances, making the most of life, and not having any regrets.

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How To Accept The Timeline You're On Mar 19, 2024

Emma Wilson, Life Coach and host of the Turning 30 Podcast, joins the show today! Emma and I discuss how to navigate feeling like you’re falling behind. We about the pressure we’ve felt at different phases of our lives to have it all figured out and get to that next stage, and why it’s so much better to wait for the right person rather than saying yes to one you don’t feel sure about. Emma opens up about breaking off a four-year long relationship at the age of 33 and how instead of setting her back, it set her free.

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“Overcoming My Body Image & Self Worth Insecurities” Mar 14, 2024

TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around eating disorders and body image.

My friend Elana Rubin joins the show today to open up about how her struggle with disordered eating and body image has impacted her self-confidence, relationships, and dating life. She shares how a conversation with a boy when she was fourteen changed the way she viewed herself and had a lasting impact on her self-worth. Elana vulnerably discusses how she's worked through her struggles, what she's learned in therapy, and where she's at now.

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Becoming Mentally and Physically Stronger Changes Your (Dating) Life Mar 12, 2024

I’m joined by celebrity fitness trainer, Daniel McKenna, AKA The Irish Yank, to hear about how becoming mentally and physically stronger can transform your confidence and change your dating life. We discuss why fitness has the ability to get someone through a difficult time, and how to get yourself to go to the gym if you’re intimidated. Daniel shares what he’s observed from his female clients when it comes to their dating lives. We hear what he wishes women understood about men and what he sees women struggling with in dating. We debate whether couples who work out together, stay together, and how we can rewrite a healthier narrative for ourselves surrounding going to the gym and working out.

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"Learning From Past Dating Mistakes" Mar 07, 2024

On this week's Unfiltered episode, I’m joined by Mitchell, a 26-year from Minnesota who shares his experience starting a situation off casual, but later having it turn to more. We discuss how "box theory" doesn't account for how dynamic we are as individuals and how our feelings are constantly evolving. Mitchell opens up about learning from each dating experience and relationship he's had, and how he holds himself accountable for not making the same mistake twice. Finally, we discuss the pros and cons of dating as an introvert.

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What To Look For When Dating To Find a Life Partner Mar 05, 2024

Remi Stern, life coach, and her husband Jonathan are cohosts of the "You're Allowed to Hate Your Hubsand" podcast. Remi and Jonathan join the show to talk about what they were looking for when they met each other, the expectations vs. realities of marriage, and how they view marriage as a dedication vs. "work." Jonathan shares how he thinks women can approach dating in a better way, and we discuss how we can shift our mindsets to have less pain and more success in our dating lives and relationships.

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Are Guys Overthinking Everything, Too? Feb 29, 2024

I'm joined by Jacob, a 28 year old in NYC who opens up about going from a tumultuous, long distance, on again off again relationship to now being one year into a healthy relationship with someone he met on Hinge. We hear what his frustrations were when navigating the apps for the first time, what stood out about his now-girlfriend's profile, and how they stayed in touch when she went away for a few weeks after their first date. He shares how guys vs girls in his life approach dating when it comes to texting and overthinking. Finally, Jacob and I answer listener questions about exclusivity, photos of exes on Instagram, and more.

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First Date Conversations You Need To Be Having with Garin Flowers Feb 27, 2024

I'm joined by Garin Flowers, writer, journalist, communications expert, and former Bachelorette contestant. We chat about how long you should wait to see if chemistry develops, how to talk about your values and dating goals on a first date, and whether or not a first-date kiss is a reflection on how the date actually went. Garin shares what he learned about dating and confidence from being on The Bachelorette, as well as how being a journalist has helped him navigate communicating on dates. We answer listener questions about moving in with your partner against your parents' wishes, dates ending after going deep, and always being the 5th wheel.

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"I Reconnected With My Ex After 17 Years & Learned THIS" Feb 22, 2024

This weeks unfiltered guest joins us to open up about reconnecting with two people from her past, almost two decades later. She shares what she learned from the experience, what surprised her, and if she would recommend reaching out to your ex.

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How to Believe You're Good Enough For What You Want Feb 20, 2024

TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around eating disorders and body image. Dr. Rachel Goldman, PHD Psychologist and Speaker, joins the podcast to share her expertise on how to overcome some of the biggest challenges that women are facing when it comes to dating, self love, and confidence. We discuss the pressures that society and social media put on us when it comes to how to look, what we're doing, and what our timelines are. Dr. Rachel explains why we should strive to feel "good enough" in our daily lives instead of perfect.

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So You Don't Think You Have Time To Date? Feb 15, 2024

My maid of honor Julia (!!!) and her fiancé Luke join the show to share their experiences dating while Julia went through medical school and now her residency. We hear what drew them to each other on Coffee Meets Bagel and how their app date turned into a livelong love story. We discuss what how their relationship changed when Julia became a med student, what sacrifices and compromises they each had to make, and how they worked through Julia’s demanding schedule together. We chat about their move to LA for her residency and what it was like moving across the country and moving in together at the same time. Finally, they give their best tips for anyone navigating a relationship where one partner is in school or has a job that requires a lot of their time and energy.

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Stop Overcomplicating Your Dating Life Feb 13, 2024

Talia Koren AKA @dating.intentionally and I sit down to discuss why dating is so damn hard and what steps we can take to make it suck less. We hear about Talia’s recent engagement, how she and her now-fiancé built a strong foundation, why she was dating other people when she met him, and how she gave a chance to someone who wasn’t her usual type. We discuss the importance of experimenting with different dating styles, testing out dating advice, and finding what works for you. We chat about love bombing vs. general interest, accepting that you and your ex weren’t compatible, dating a bad texter, and more.

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Healing From Toxicity & Learning Hard Truths Feb 08, 2024

Kristina Kane, Actress and Host of Dirty Daytini, joins the show to discuss some hard truths she’s learned throughout dating. We discuss the differences in dating in LA vs NY, how we healed from toxic relationships, going after what we want, tailoring our profiles to help attract the right person, and more.

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How To Not Settle & The Key To Confidence with Victoria Alario Feb 06, 2024

Victoria Alario, Confidence Coach and Host of For The Girls podcast, joins the Seeing Other People family today. We discuss what safety looks and feels like in a relationship, how to stop falling for a version of someone you created in your head, and why you need to focus on how you feel about them instead of how they feel about you. Victoria shares her expertise on how to become more confident, why you shouldn’t let someone’s disinterest shake your confidence, and how to develop standards that stop you from settling for less than you deserve. Later, we answer listener questions about self sabotaging and what to do when an ex continues to go to all of your spots.

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“I Had My First Kiss At 25" Feb 01, 2024

I’m joined by Linda Panda, a DC-based woman in her mid thirties who opens up about how being raised in Utah with Asian parents impacted her dating life. She shares that while she didn’t have her first kiss until she was 25, a series of whirlwind romance stories would follow. We hear about her mindset with dating, how she’s approached meeting people off of dating apps, and why she’s open to finding a sperm done if she doesn’t find a partner. Follow along with Linda's adventures at @wanderwithpandalove on Instagram!

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How to Find And Keep A Secure Relationship with @thesecurerelationship's Julie Mennano, LMFT, LCPC Jan 30, 2024

Julie Menanno, MA, LMFT, LCPC, AKA @thesecurerelationship (1M+) joins the show today to share her expertise on the role that attachment theory plays in relationships. Julie shares advice on how to improve communication in relationships, how to stay connected during conflict, and how to approach difficult situations productively and lovingly. We hear why couples have the same fight over and over, the most common relationship issues she sees in her clients, what steps we can take to achieve secure love in our relationships, and the importance of learning how to self-regulate your emotions. Finally, Julie shares how she, as both a parent and a professional, has approached raising her six children.

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"My Career Kept Me From Dating & Now I Feel Behind" Jan 25, 2024

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Stephanie, a 32-year-old who opens up about being a late bloomer with little dating experience. We hear about what has held her back from dating, what it feels like trying to date now, how she has navigated friendships changing as people enter different life phases, and what she wishes people understood better about late bloomers.

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Is Honesty The Best Policy & Is Ghosting Ever Okay? Jan 23, 2024

Tinah Ogalo, host of In Your Twentys Podcast, makes her return to the SOP stage after a long year and a half. We hear about how Tinah put dating on the back burner as she focused on her her career, what it was like navigating her FGirl phase, and how she now feels about reprioritizing dating and getting back on the apps. Tinah and I debate splitting the bill, if texting ruined dating, day vs night dates, if ghosting is ever okay, what decade we would most want to date in, and so much more.

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"I've Never Been In A Relationship Before" Jan 18, 2024

I'm joined by a New Yorker named Maddie who opens up about never having been in a relationship before, and why she thinks it's her biggest green flag. We discuss why someone can still have relationship experience if they’ve never been in a relationship, how to navigate dating and relationship advice with friends, and why you shouldn’t feel like you’re falling behind.

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Is Being A Hopeless Romantic A Bad Thing? Jan 16, 2024

I’m joined by comedian Tess Tregellas to discuss whether being a hopeless romantic is a blessing or a curse. We chat about what makes a date epic, why you should always shoot your shot, meeting people IRL, and Tess’s best and worst dating stories. Finally, we hear about Tess’s upcoming 4th wedding and why we all need to be a part of it.

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"All Women Should Know About The Health Issue I Faced" Jan 11, 2024

My cousin-in-law Angie joins the podcast to open up about a very serious medical issue she faced earlier this year. When Angie started experiencing lethargy, excess bleeding during her periods, hair loss, and frequent urination, her doctors chalked it up to stress and anxiety, and she chalked it up to "being 32." As her list of symptoms got longer and more intense, Angie found herself going to a series of doctors to figure out what was wrong. Angie learned there was a Fibroid growing in her uterus that needed to be surgically removed. All the while, she was helping her brother through a tragedy, taking over her law firm, and planning her wedding. Angie shares how she navigated this medical crisis, what she wished she knew before ever knowing what a Fibroid was, how it impacted her relationship, and what she wishes she knew.

Uterine Fibroidsaffect up to 80% of women by age 50. 25-50% of those are symptomatic.

Approximately 25% to 50% of women with fibroids are symptomatic, experiencing heavy menses, reproductive issues, pain, increased urinary frequency, and anemia. There is a general lack of awareness of fibroids among women and their potential health impact. One survey documented an average of 3.6 years to seek treatment, and 41% saw at least two healthcare providers before diagnosis.

Advocate for yourself, ask your doctors questions, and reach out to me if you’d like to get connected with Angie!

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Ask The Guys Anything: Texting, Commitment, GF Material & More Jan 09, 2024

Backed by incredibly popular demand, Sam Panitch and Joey Lane are back for the 4th episode of "Ask The Guys Anything." They answer your questions about whether or not guys are actually bad texters, how they would feel if their friend dated someone they used to date, if guys "know" in 1-2 months, and if guys put girls in boxes (hookup box vs girlfriend box). We disucss unmatching, assessing chemistry, ending on good terms, what would make a guy actually want to commit, and more.

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"Second Chances Can Change Your Life" Jan 04, 2024

UPDATE: Tyler proposed to Nikki while skiing in Colorado just days after recording this episode!

I'm joined by Nikki, a 28-year-old woman who shares her story of reconnecting with her now-fiancé years after their first few dates. We hear how their relationship unfolded and led to a few years of long distance followed by moving in together. We discuss how things change when you move in with your partner, why it's important to keep learning about each other and growing together.

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Crush Your 2024 Dating Goals with Damona Hoffman Jan 02, 2024

I'm joined by Damona Hoffman, host of Dates And Mates Podcast, contributor to the Drew Barrymore Show, NPR, and The Washington Post, and author of F The Fairytale, a brand new book that you should order right this minute. Damona shares the four biggest dating myths that we need to ditch to find and build healthy, lasting relationships. We debate if we believe in soulmates, what should and shouldn't be on your checklist, why we can't rely on – or ditch – the dating apps entirely, and so much more.

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Ilana and Jake's 2023 Time Capsule: Date #351 - Date #476 Dec 31, 2023

Bonus episode! I sit down with my fiancé Jake (and Barkley) for our first annual recap recording all of our dates from the year!

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"I Spent 8 Years Searching For Closure" Dec 28, 2023

TW: This conversation may triggering for those with sensitivities around sexual assault. I’m joined by a 30-year-old anonymous guest who opens up about searching for closure for eight years after her five-year relationship ended. She shares how she reconnected with him after not speaking for years, and we hear how she learned that closure is something you cannot get from someone else. Finally, we have a serious and candid conversation about our experiences with sexual assault.

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Facing Fears, Finding Joy, and Setting Goals – Ilana Unfiltered Dec 26, 2023

Welcome to the Third Annual End of Year Episode! I sit down with my Associate Producer, Camila Vola, to reflect on 2023 and look ahead to 2024. We discuss my highs and lows of the year, biggest wins and biggest challenges, accomplished goals, and more. We talk about wedding planning, favorite episodes and guests, New Year's resolutions, mindset shifts, how to best approach dating in the new year, and so much more.

Thank you guys for the best 2023 ever. Cheers to a happy and healthy 2024!

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Guys Get Their Hearts Broken Too (Ask Him Anything) Dec 21, 2023

I'm joined by a 25-year-old male listener from South Africa, who shares the painful dating experience he recently went through and how he's navigating his healing era. Then he answers your questions about what guys want to see on a dating app profile, what to do if you're a bad texter, whether or not men put you in a hookup vs date box, what his dealbreakers are, if it matters which gender says ILY first, and more.

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If You Feel Like You're Falling Behind, Listen To This Dec 19, 2023

I'm joined by Beth Gulotta, LMHC, Founder and Owner of NYC Therapeutic Wellness, and host of Quiet The Clock Podcast. Beth and I discuss the societal pressures that many women face to meet their person, settle down, and have children all by a certain age. We hear how Beth met her now-husband at 34 and why she's glad she didn't meet him any sooner. We discuss why we should challenge society's expectations and pave our paths, how to overcome the feeling that you're falling behind, what to do if you feel like you're in a different life stage than your friends, and what we wish we could tell our single selves.

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Textual Chemistry, Friendships Changing, and Marriage Fears. Solo Q&A Dec 14, 2023

On this solo unfiltered, I'm answering your questions about fears I have for marriage, fighting in relationships, people having photos of their ex on their Instagram, friendships changing, how I knew Jake was the one, and more.

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This Is How You'll Know If It's Right with Jordanna Drazin Dec 12, 2023

TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities surrounding disordered eating

I'm joined by health and wellness creator, Jordanna Drazin AKA The Daily Schvitz! We hear how Jordanna met her long-term boyfriend on Birthright while she was dating someone else. We hear how they ended up reconnecting once she was single, and how she wasn't sure if their first date was actually a date or a catch-up as just friends. We discuss changing in your twenties, maintaining independence in relationships, dating in eating disorder recovery, and so much more.

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"How a 66-Year-Old Makes The Most Of Each Date" Dec 07, 2023

I'm joined by a 66-year-old divorcee who opens up about looking for love a third time around. She opens up what she learned from her first two marriages, what she say if she could go back and give her younger self advice, and what she's looking for now. We hear about her dating app experiences including which apps she's using, what points she's experiencing, and how she makes the most of each date. Finally, she shares some hilarious date fails along with the best advice she has for all of us.

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Splitting The Bill, Dinner vs. Drinks & Red Flags We Missed Dec 05, 2023

I’m joined by Dara Pollak and Kunal Arora, hosts of You Both Suck podcast, to decide once and for all what the best type of date is: dinner, drinks, or activities. We chat splitting the bill, whether or not there is such thing as too much therapy, and what red flags we missed in our last relationships. We answer listener questions about navigating a situation where you realize you don’t want something casual with someone you hooked up with, and how to find out if someone you met IRL is in a relationship or not.

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Guys Don't Talk To Each Other About Dating Enough Nov 30, 2023

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Jason, a 34-year-old from Cape Town living in London. He shares how men rarely open up about their dating lives and feelings to each other, which can lead to a feeling of loneliness when going through something. He takes us through situations with four women he met last year on dating apps that all ended in a similar way. We hear what he's learned from these experiences, how they've impacted him, and what he's hoping for moving forward in his dating life.

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Staying Positive When Dating Sucks Nov 28, 2023

I’m joined by Dani Kravette, a longtime friend and 27 year old navigating modern dating in NYC. We chat about being a “boyfriend girl,” feeling surrounded by friends in relationships, and debate if someone’s reason for ending things actually matters. We dissect her Hinge profile, chat about not drinking on dates, discuss her dealbreakers, and cackle over her hilarious dating stories.

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"Don't Forget To Take Time To Heal" Nov 23, 2023

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a 40-year-old woman who opens up about getting divorced after 15 years of marriage to her high school sweetheart. She shares how their relationship changed over time and how they were able to end things on positive terms. We hear what it was like to be independent for the first time ever in her mid-thirties and how she processed the divorce by moving to LA and taking time to heal. Finally, we hear what it was like dating for the first time and what's been going on with the relationship she has been in for the past year.

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What Guys Hate About Modern Dating with Scott Erickson Nov 21, 2023

TikToker Scott Erickson joins the Seeing Other People family this week! He opens up about what led to his divorce, how he and his ex-wife have managed to stay friends, and the good, bad, and ugly about dating after divorce. We chat about the hardest part of dating apps and dating, traveling for first dates, when you should move in with your partner, how the death of a loved one impacts your dating life, and much more.

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“How I Got Through My Breakup” Nov 16, 2023

I’m joined by an anonymous 25-year-old woman who lives in NYC and recently got out of a four-year long-distance relationship. We discuss the pros and cons of long-distance relationships, how we firmly believe that long-distance relationships need an end date, and how being long-distance helped her healing process once they broke up. She shares what has surprised her about dating in NYC, and at the very end of the episode, she tells us one of the most profound things any Unfiltered guest has ever said.

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If You're Sad You're Single, Listen To This with Leeor Gal, LMFT Nov 14, 2023

I'm joined by Leeor Gal, LMFT, AKA The Therapy Gal, to discuss dating burnout and feeling anxious about never finding your person. We discuss mindset shifts for when you're feeling down about your relationship status, what to say to your annoying relatives during the holidays when they ask why you're still single, how to navigate the anxiety around approaching someone IRL, and more.

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"Wrong Person, Right Time" Nov 09, 2023

I'm joined by a woman who opens up about an emotionally abusive relationship she was in and how she was able to grow and learn from it, and break her unhealthy dating patterns. We hear how he "removed labels" from the relationship and the emotional impact it had on he, how he begged to stay friends after she learned he was cheating, and how he later came back and expressed how he wished he could have loved her. She shares what she's learned from dating podcasts and how she's applied them to her dating life to ultimately find a loving partner.

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Your Dating Life Doesn't Suck As Much As You Think Nov 07, 2023

We're celebrating your dating wins in this very special solo episode! I talk about the importance of staying positive and finding little wins every step of the way when dating. Then, I highlight your dating wins about firsts, vulnerability, prioritizing yourself, breaking bad habits, and more.

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"If I Hadn't Gone To Therapy, I'd Still Be Unhappily Married" Nov 02, 2023

I'm joined by a 29-year-old woman who recently divorced her husband of five years. She shares how she and her ex-husband grew apart throughout their marriage, to a point where their lives and futures were no longer aligning. She talks us through her decision to go to therapy hoping to fix her marriage, but how her therapist helped her realize that fixing it may not have been the answer. Finally, we discuss what she's looking for now and what her experience has been like dating and using dating apps for the first time as a 29-year-old divorcée.

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Stop Looking For The Perfect Person Oct 31, 2023

I'm joined by Rebecca Marcus, LCSW, to discuss why we find ourselves in unhealthy dating patterns and how to stop. We chat about the importance of putting in the work, taking accountability, and recognizing when something isn't working for you. We answer listener questions about what to do if someone isn't making time for you and keeps rescheduling, how much couples should challenge each other, and how to navigate a situation where someone ends things with you but still wants to be friends.

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What Are Mine And Jake's Dealbreakers? Oct 26, 2023

Jake and I sit down for a dramatic game of Where Do You Draw The Line to figure out what our relationship dealbreakers are. We debate topics like sharing locations, talking about exes, cheating, finances, prenups and more. Play Where Do You Draw The Line on your next date, with your bffs, or during family dinner! Grab your box at wdydtl.com/buy and use code ILANA for 20% off!

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How To Become Securely Attached After A Bad Relationship Oct 24, 2023

Dr. Morgan Anderson, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, and host of Let's Get Vulnerable joins us today to discuss going from an unhealthy or traumatic relationship to a healthy relationship. We discuss where our attachment styles can come from, what steps we need to take to heal them, and how the research around attachment theory has changed over time. We open up about our past traumatic relationships, how they impacted us, and how we were able to move past them and find loving, healthy relationships.

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"How Therapy Changed My Dating Life" Oct 19, 2023

On this Unfiltered, I’m joined by a woman in her early-mid 30s who opens up about her therapy journey and how it transformed the way she approaches dating. We hear about what led to the breakup of her four year long relationship, how she approached her healing process, and what she did differently when she got back out there. Finally, we discuss dating as an expat, what it’s like being so far away from your family, and making new female friendships in your twenties and thirties.

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Can You Actually Fall in Love in Six Weeks? Oct 17, 2023

I'm joined by Natasha and Justine, cohosts of 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose, to hear what they've learned about modern dating, love and relationships from our favorite tv shows. We discuss which shows are most accurately portraying modern dating, what shows have started important conversations that we need to be having, and which shows we should be watching if we want to actually learn and grow. We voice our opinions on whether or not love is blind, if giving an ultimatum is ever a good idea, can you fall in love in six weeks, and more.

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"How I Learned to Love Being Single" Oct 05, 2023

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a woman who opens up about ending an eight-year relationship, during which, she felt like nothing was wrong but she wasn't truly happy. We discuss what finally led her to end the relationship and what it was like being single for the first time at 27. We discuss navigating career changes, solo traveling, and how she came to the realization that the traditional setup of relationships might not be suited for her.

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Stop Accepting The Bare Minimum Oct 03, 2023

I'm joined by Stella Stephanopolous, host of Everyday Endorphins, to talk about embracing singlehood, developing an abundance mindset, and not needing someone else to complete you. We discuss how we spent years accepting less than we deserved, how we've learend to speak up for ourselves, why we no longer put up with the bare minimum, why the high highs are never worth the low lows, how to communicate with someone who has a different communication style, and more.

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"I Never Expected Getting Pregnant Would Be This Hard" Sep 28, 2023

I'm joined by Keren Longo AKA @mama.in.the.burbs to hear about her fertility journey. She opens up about her struggles to get pregnant, her experiences with IVF and IUI, the complications that arose along the way, her recent miscarriage, and more. She shares how she overcame all of these challenges, what she wishes she knew when she started trying to get pregnant, and what has kept her going throughout all of the ups and downs.

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You Can't Lose Someone Who Was Never There For You with Carrie Berk Sep 26, 2023

I’m joined by Carrie Berk, TikTok star, journalist, and author of My Real-Life Rom-Com to discuss how important it is to learn from each relationship and situationship (no matter how short-lived it is). We chat about how social media has impacted dating, why we need banish the phrase "moving on" from our vocabulary, how you can’t lose someone who was never there for you to begin with, and more.

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How I Overcame My Dating Anxiety Sep 21, 2023

On this solo episode, I open up about the biggest dating anxieties I faced when I was single, and more importantly, how I overcame them. I reflect on where they came from, how they impacted me, and what steps I had to take and lessons I had to learn in order to feel more comfortable and confident in my dating life.

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Make The Most Of Your First Dates Sep 19, 2023

I'm joined by Joe Feminella, Founder & CEO of First Rounds On Me. Joe and I chat about the biggest challenges our generation is facing on dating apps and what we can do to fix it. We discuss all things first dates including: how to take the pressure off, conversations you should and shouldn't have, how to make the most of a date when you know in the first five minutes that you're not interested, and more. Plus, we answer lister questions about confidence, how to tell if he's into you or if he just wants to hook up, and what it means if he says he doesn't want a relationship early on.

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"Create Dating Rules That Work For You" Sep 14, 2023

Anonymous from the episode "It's Not Always Your Fault, Even If They Say It Is" is back on the podcast to talk about her experiences dating for the first time as a 30-year-old divorced single mom of three kids. We hear what she thought dating would be like vs. how it turned out, lessons the hard way, and what she wish she knew when getting out there for the first time. She opens up about the highs and lows of dating as a single parent, misconceptions about single moms, and what boundaries she sets surrounding her kids when it comes to her dating life.

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How To Actually Move On with Tonya Carter Sep 12, 2023

I'm joined by Tonya Carter, Marriage/Relationship Exit Strategist, host of Purposely Thriving, and author of Divorce Your Story, to talk about how to effectively heal from a breakup. We discuss why your ex is a non-factor in your healing, the importance of acknowledging that the "what ifs" did not happen, and how to make peace with the closure you received. We answer listener questions about whether or not someone's reason for wanting to end things is genuine or an excuse, getting over a situationship when they're in your friend group, and more.

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If You're an Anxious Dater, Listen to This Episode – Solo Q&A Sep 07, 2023

On this solo episode, I'm answering your questions about when to give someone another chance, how to save your friendship with your best friend of your desired sex who you hooked up with, what to do when someone keeps talking but never wants to meet up, how to navigate never having been in a relationship before, and more.

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Are You Holding Yourself Back in Dating? with Talia Bombola Sep 05, 2023

Talia Bombola is a Psychoanalytic LMFT, Professor, Speaker, and the host of Heal Through Humor, and theco-host of The Couple’s Guide Podcast as well as Between Two Clinicians. Talia and I chat about where our own self-worth stems from and how important it is to learn about who you are in order to set yourself up for relationship success. We talk about how to notice and break unhealthy dating patterns, how Talia overcame her anxious attachment, and the importance of communicating your needs. Finally, we answer listener questions about dating someone who doesn't text you enough, getting dumped by someone who wasn't looking for something serious only to see them in a relationship a month later, and if you should be financially stable when actively dating.

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Dating Droughts, Leaving Situationships, and Healing your Heart Aug 31, 2023

Erica Shea is back on the pod to catch up with us about taking time off from dating and finding the strength to end her most recent situationship. We talk about how it's normal (and sometimes beneficial) to be in a dating drought, how she knew it was time to end the situationship instead of continuing in discomfort, as many of us do. Later we discuss mindset shifts and laugh off some hilarious bad date stories.

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It's Never Too Late To End Things Aug 29, 2023

I’m joined by Iris Jardiel to chat about why she broke off her engagement to her longtime partner, Luke, who proposed on Temptation Island Season 4. We hear why they decided to go on the show, what it was like having their relationship tested, and how she felt when he proposed. She shares how she caught him cheating and wanted to believe he could change, but after repeatedly being proven wrong, she eventually found the courage to walk away. Finally, we hear how her life has changed for the better since leaving him.

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"He Wasn't Ghosting Me, He Was In A Coma" Aug 24, 2023

I’m joined by an anonymous 27-year-old woman who opens up about starting to date someone and suddenly not hearing from him for days. She shares how she thought she was getting ghosted and assumed he blocked her, only to find out via Instagram that he was hit by a car and was in a coma. We hear how she processed this news, how she was not in a position to get updates on his condition because of how recently they had met, and how what led them to getting back in touch, and how they navigated their new friendship turned relationship. Finally, we discuss inter-abled dating, and how we’re so quick to judge people and often have limitations in our mind about who we can and can’t date.

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The Biggest Mistakes Women Are Making in Dating with Evan Marc Katz Aug 22, 2023

I’m joined by Evan Marc Katz, the world’s first dating coach (2003!), four-time author, and host of the Love U Podcast. Evan and I chat about where women are going wrong in dating when it comes to taking breaks from dating, going on dates, and getting into relationships. We learn which dealbreakers matter, ways to figure out if a relationship is right and how to know if it’s time to leave. Evan helps answer listener questions about getting over someone, whether or not you’re wasting your time, and more.

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"How Family Dynamics, Religion, and All Girls High School Shaped My Dating Life" Aug 17, 2023

I’m joined by Liz Mina to talk about approaching dating from a place of security and curiosity rather than the fear of being alone. We chat about dating as an adult after never having romantic interests in high school, why society should stop putting pressure on people to find partners at a certain age, how being an only child has impacted her dating life, and the importance of having vulnerable conversations on early dates. Finally, Liz shares what it’s like dating as a Middle Eastern woman and how religion and family values have played a role in her relationships.

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29 Things I Learned Before Turning 29 Aug 15, 2023

In honor of my 29th birthday, I spent time reflecting on some of the most meaningful moments, the biggest turning points, and the hardest lessons learned in my 28 years. I put together a list and I'm so excited to share them with you in this special episode. We cover life, love, friendship, career, family, and everything in between. Thanks for being on this journey with me and cheers to 29!

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"Go On The Date, Even If You're Not In The Mood" Aug 10, 2023

I'm joined by Rachel Schwab, AKA @justbecauseitspretty, to discuss what her dating life was like before meeting her person and how she ended up getting engaged to her first ever Hinge date. She shares how she felt going into her first date with her now-fiancé, whether or not she was anxious after it, why she's glad they talked about exes on their third date, and when/how they DTRd. We hear how they navigated long distances while he was also a full-time medical student and how they communicated their needs. Finally, we discuss Instagram vs. Reality of getting engaged!

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Why Are You Still Single? Aug 08, 2023

TW: Eating disorders & body image struggles. Julie Griggs and Danielle Dietzek, my friends and the cofounders of Fourplay Social, are back on Seeing Other People. We discuss why the question "Why are you still single?" is so problematic and how society perpetuates the belief that we aren't complete until we find our partner. Danielle opens up about her struggle with body image and weight gain, sharing how it's held her back in her dating life along with ways she's worked to overcome her insecurities. We talk about do's and don'ts for getting your personality across on your profiles, why you should not write people off too soon, and what we've all learned from each other.

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"I Found Out He Was Married From A Facebook Group" Aug 03, 2023

I'm joined by a 36-year-old woman who opens up about the relationship she found herself in shortly after getting divorced from her ex-husband of 11 years (and the father of her two children). We hear how she and this man met, what their relationship started out like, and how they soon developed a dominant/submissive relationship. She shares how she later found out he was still married and that she was not the only "other woman."

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Learning to Be Unapologetically Yourself with Laura Belgray Aug 01, 2023

I'm joined by Laura Belgray, author of the book "Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You’re the F-ing Worst" to discuss how to let go of what other people and society expect of you. We chat about embracing your flaws, owning your timeline, not comparing yourself to others, how your worth doesn't need to be attached to someone else liking you, and more. Laura shares her dating mishaps and adventures from when she was in her 20s, the pressure she felt to want to have children when she wasn't sure what she wanted, and the beautifully uncommon story of how she and her now-husband met.

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"Why Modern Dating Is So Annoying" Jul 27, 2023

I'm joined by my friend Carly, aka @kicksbycarly, to talk about the most frustrating aspects of modern dating. We chat about matching with someone you're excited about and then the convo never going anywhere, multi-yearlong situationships, dating someone who lives too close to you, whether or not athletes are looking for something serious, seeing your friends get into relationships and feeling left behind, and more.

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Ask The Guys Anything: Dating App Edition Jul 25, 2023

Sam Panitch and Joey Lane are back for another round of Ask The Guys Anything! We chat do's and don'ts for profile photos, prompts, and starting conversations. We debate whether or not you should send roses, slide into someone's DMs after seeing them on an app, whose responsibility it is to send the first message, and more.

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"1 year, 70 dates, 26 guys" Jul 20, 2023

I’m joined by a 31-year-old woman who shares a series of relatable dating sagas that she’s experienced over the last few years including a drawn out situationship, developing feelings for a best guy friend, dating someone who is always working, and more. We hear how she wished she cut things off sooner in many of these situations and how she’s finally learned to ask for what she needs and speak up when something isn’t right. Plus, we dive into her dating stats from the past few years as she’s kept track of how many dates she’s been on. Spoiler alert: 2022 included 70 dates with a breakdown of 26 guys, 2+ dates with 12 guys and 3+ dates with 5 guys.

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Trusting your Gut, Being the Only Single one in the Friend Group, Wedding Planning Updates & more. Solo Q&A Jul 18, 2023

Thanks for sending in your questions for today’s solo episode! We’re chatting: moving in before or after getting married, insecurities around dating someone a similar size, whether or not the relationship is doomed if he changed his mind about moving in together, how long I was on dating apps before I met Jake, when should you trust your gut vs. give someone the benefit of the doubt, how to navigate being single when your friends are all in relationships or getting married, and more!

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"Divorced At 29 With Three Kids" Jul 13, 2023

I'm joined by a 29-year-old divorceé and mother of three who opens up about the emotionally and financially abusive realtionship. We hear what their relationship was like as high school sweethearts and how it evolved overtime and once kids were involved. She shares how he made her think she was always at fault, but how she stayed because she was so blindly in love with him and wanted to make it work. Finally, we hear what led them to ultimately call it quits, and how coparenting has been.

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Dating App Tips, Breakup Advice, When to Walk Away & more. Solo Q&A Jul 11, 2023

On this week’s episode, I’m answering your questions about navigating the free versions of dating apps, what questions o ask when checking in with your partner, if it’s a good idea to reach out to someone who you regret hurting, what to do when you meet someone great who doesn’t want to take things further, getting over a breakup when you can’t avoid the person, and more.

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"How to Embrace Being the Single Friend" Jul 06, 2023

I’m joined by a 28 year old woman from Miami, FL. We chat about how to not feel down on yourself for being the only single one in the friend group, and how to instead embrace it and use it as a time to learn from the relationships your friends are in. We discuss feeling confident going into first dates, whether or not it matters when you sleep with someone, and ways to stay positive when you’re feeling behind. Finally, we hear about how she met her now-boyfriend and how she knew they could build a healthy relationship together.

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Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life Jul 04, 2023

In this episode, we're breaking down how to approach dating in a less anxiety-producing way. We discuss mindset shifts and reframes for dating app usage, going on first dates, texting, and assessing feelings. We end on a well-needed reminder that yes, dating is hard and no, you're not crazy.

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"Find Yourself First, Then Find Your Person" Jun 29, 2023

Sarah Taplin, formelly known as Sarah Sasson, is making her comeback to Seeing Other People after a two-year hiatus. She last joined us on the episode "Learning to Love Your Single Self" shortly before meeting her now-husband, Ben. We hear how her self-discovery allowed her to grow into the preson she was when she and Ben met, and she shares what felt different this time around that indicated this was a healthy potential relationship. We discuss how her journey to explore her Judaism impacted her dating life, how she found someone who accepted her exactly where she was at, and the importance of discussing non-negotiables in the early stages of dating.

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Confident Girl Summer Jun 27, 2023

Brianne Helfrich, host of Welcome to the Collective and Founder/CEO of Helfrich Collective, is on the pod today! We chat about the definition of a relationship, how her breakup fueled her to start her own clothing brand, and how we've never "gone with grace" after being broken up with. We hear how she approached her phase of being single and going on a ton of dates, how she met her boyfriend of 2+ years right before making a big move, and how they created a strong foundation based on open communication and vulnerability.

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"We Survived Our Friendship Breakup" Jun 22, 2023

My friend Jamie is here! Jamie recaps what the beginning stages of her now 4 1/2 year relationship were like. We hear how she navigated her fiancé's mixed messages and we discuss why it's important to give people the benefit of the doubt if it feels right in your gut. Jamie and I open up about a friendship breakup that we went through 4 years ago as a result of her new relationship, which was with my ex's best friend. We hash out what happened, why it happened, and how we both could have approached the situation differently. Finally, we reminisce on our single years and share hilarious dating stories and things we wish we knew when we were single.

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It Matters Where Your Dating Advice Comes From Jun 20, 2023

Victoria Aron and Paulina Siegel, Licensed Therapists and hosts of Shit Talking Shrinks, join the show today. First, we hear about how Paulina went from planning her engagement to healing from a blindsided breakup. Then, we discuss the art or giving and getting advice. We chat about how who you get your advice from and what you do with it matters. Finally, we answer listener questions about texting cadence, porn consumption, and more.

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"Be Careful who you Date" Jun 15, 2023

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by an anonymous woman who lives in Dallas, Texas. She opens up about meeting someone on a dating app who she gets to know over the course of a few months. We discuss how he seemed smart, mature, trusting and put together, but she ended up finding herself in a dangerous and horrifying situation, drugged and left stranded in the middle of the street with no phone and nowhere to go in the middle of the night. We discuss dating safety tips, why it's important to have these conversations, and how she took a terrifying situaiton and used it to fuel a period of growth and self-love in her life.

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Owning Who You Are & Finding Love After Heartbreak Jun 13, 2023

I'm joined by Sierra Michelle Green, former cohost of Fingers Crossed Podcast and bride-to-be! We shoot the shit about her seemingly epic bachelorette party and my *breaking news* decision to not have one. Later, Sierra opens up about how she met her fiancé shortly after going through a traumatic, emotionally abusive relationship. We talk about healing, reclaiming who you are, expressing how you feel to someone early on, learning your worth, and so much more.

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"Coworkers with Benefits" Jun 08, 2023

I'm joined by an anonymous woman who opens up about her 2+ year long, on and off, friends with benefits situationship with her coworker. We hear how things started, what boundaries and rules they laid down in order to make it work, and if they really set themselves up for success. She shares how feelings started to complicate things, how they prioritzed their friendship, and if they ended up turning things into a relationship or cutting it off completely.

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Don't Let Anxiety Ruin your Dating Experiences with Lillian Rishty, LCSW Jun 06, 2023

I'm joined by Lillian Rishty, LCSW and Therapist at NYC Therapy Group, to discuss how to navigate your dating anxiety at every step of the dating process. We talk about ways to self-sooth your anxiety on the apps, before the date, after the date, as feelings get involved, when facing rejection, and everything in between.

Lillian and NYC Therapy Group are accepting new clients! Check out nyctherapygroup.com for more info.

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"Am I Too Independent to Find Love?" Jun 01, 2023

I'm joined by an anonymous 31 year old woman who opens up about her journey to find self acceptance in her single hood. She shares how she felt more pressure in her 20s to find her person, but as the years went on, her fierce independence and love for the life she’s built for herself became more apparent. We discuss the joys of singlehood, how she feels about the possibility of never finding a life-partner, her approach with going on dates, what led her to learn her worth and put herself first, and more.

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Healing Your Heart & Learning to Love Yourself with Gabrielle Stone May 30, 2023

Gabrielle stone, host of FML Talk podcast joins the show today. Gabrielle opens up about how getting cheated on by her ex husband and getting her heart broken shortly after led her to embark on a soul-searching, solo adventure to Europe, and then write her book, Eat, Pray, #FML about it. Gabrielle shares how she recovered from her trauma and heartbreak, why she had a fear of abandonment and how she worked to overcome it, what lessons she learned through her experiences, and how she embraced her past instead of hiding it.

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"Dating in NYC: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly" May 25, 2023

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Amanda, a New York City dater who has a myriad of dating horror stories to share. We commiserate about the good, the bad, the crazy, the hilarious, and even the scary things that Amanda has encountered while navigating modern dating and dating apps. Most importantly, Amanda opens up about how she maintains hope that her person is out there.

Amanda’s DMs are open! Slide in @amandalgerard

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The Art to Having a Roster May 23, 2023

Allana Blumberg, lifestyle and wellness creator and host of Morning Rae podcast, joins the show today. Allanna and I chat shifting your mindset from focusing on dating to focusing on yourself, getting stuck in situationships, masculine vs feminine energy and how it impacts your dating life, whether or not you should have a roster (and how to build one), if there’s a difference between being in a relationship vs being exclusive, and more.

Follow Allana on instagram @allanablumberg and TikTok at @allanablumberg and listen to Morning Rae wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Deciding to DTR, Moving in Together, Wedding +1s and more. Solo Q&A May 18, 2023

I’m joined by…myself! On this solo episode, I’m answering a bunch of questions that you guys sent in! We’re chatting life & wedding planning updates, how to feel if your partner doesn’t get included as a +1 on a wedding invite, how to prepare for and know when you are ready to move in with your partner, what to do when the person you’re seeing has a family bereavement or illness, if/when/how to tell the person you’re seeing that you’re a virgin, what to do if they want to be official but you’re not yet sure how you feel, and more.

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Dealing with Rejection, Dating to Marry, and Sneaky Links with Carly Weinstein May 16, 2023

I’m joined by Carly Weinstein, content creator and host of Hot Girl Talks, to chat all about the biggest pain-points in modern dating. We discuss whether not having a sneaky link is holding you back from finding the real deal, being single in college for the first time, whether or not her social media presence impacts her dating life, how to navigate feeling rejected IRL when your friends are getting approached at bars, and more.

Follow @carly_weinstein on Instagram and @carlyweinstein on TikTok and listen to Hot Girl Talks wherever you listen to podcasts!

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"You Don't Need Alcohol to Have Fun on Dates" May 11, 2023

I'm joined by Zoe Scurletis, host of Solace and the City, recent Sober queen, and soon-to-be therapist. Zoe opens up about making the decision to become sober, how it's impacted her mental health, and what it means for her dating life. We talk about situationships, what to do when someone says they're "not looking for something serious: or are working on themselves, closure, what we've learned in therapy, and more.

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Ask the Guys Anything with Sam & Joey May 09, 2023

Our favorite guys, Sam Panitch and Joey Lane, are back for another round of “Ask the Guys Anything.” This time we’re talking about who should pay (and if he wants you to reach for your wallet), what guys want to see on your dating app profiles, the right moment for a first kiss, and how to tell if he’s ghosting you. We discuss repeat matching with someone but never getting into a conversation, how to feel if your friend starts seeing someone from your past, the one that got away, and more.

Follow Sam @sam_p_Panitch and check out Elevation Nation

Follow Joey @thejoeylane on IG and @Joeysmoke14 on Twitter and check out Drive The Lane Podcast

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The Jonas Brothers Episode May 04, 2023

I can't believe I'm saying this...The Jonas Brothers are on today’s episode of Seeing Other People! I sit down with Nick, Joe, and Kevin Jonas to discuss their music, marriages, fatherhood, and brotherhood. They share the inspiration behind the lyrics and sound on The Album, their favorite memories as brothers and as a band, and which songs and venues they are most excited about performing on The Tour. We hear how becoming fathers has impacted them personally and professionally, how they overcame creative disagreements when working on The Album, what chapter of their personal growth journeys has had the biggest impact, and what relationship advice they would give us.

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Building Confidence & Knowing your Worth with Gigi Robinson May 02, 2023

Gigi Robinson, Chronic Illness Advocate, Creator Economy Speaker, and Author of A Kid’s Book About Chronic Illness, is back on the podcast a year and a half after her previous episode: “Chronically Single.” Gigi opens up about the inner work she did when she was single and for the spills the tea about her new relationship. We hear how she met her now boyfriend, what led her to feel comfortable with him, and what they’ve done to create a healthy foundation. We chat about building confidence, knowing your worth, balancing career and relationships, navigating insecurities, and more.

Follow Gigi @itsgigirobinson on Instagram and TikTok

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"I Want to Be Known for Something Other than Who I'm Dating" Apr 27, 2023

I'm joined by Bianca, a 31-year-old single mother, and career-focused psychiatric registered nurse. Bianca opens up about how her previous heartbreaks led her down a path of introspective work and healing. She shares how she’s worked through codependency and her anxious attachment styles, and how she’s shaped her now-positive and healthy mindset around dating. Follow Bianca at @biancakoko on Instagram.

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How to Move On from Someone You Loved with Natalie Barbu Apr 25, 2023

Natalie Barbu, Youtuber, Founder of Rella, and Host of The Real Reel, joins the show today to talk all about ending a four-year-long relationship. We hear why things ended, her fears surrounding the breakup, and what it’s been like to get back out there. Natalie walks us through her healing process from day 1 through now, eight months later. She shares what helped her move on the most, moments where she had regrets about the breakup, and how she’s now having fun being single and enjoying her twenties without feeling pressure to find someone.

Follow Natalie on Instagram at @nataliebarbu and TikTok at @nataliebarbu

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"I Lost Myself in my Relationship" Apr 20, 2023

This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence and acts of physical and verbal abuse.

I’m joined by a woman who opens up about the abusive relationship that she was in. We hear how the relationship started, when things took a turn, whether or not she realized she was a victim of domestic violence, why she stayed with him for as long as she did, and what finally helped her leave.

If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, help is available. The National Domestic Hotline is here to listen with confidential support 24/7/365. Call 800-799-7233

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Modern Dating Sucks – Here’s How We Fix It Apr 18, 2023

We have a solo episode this week! I’m sharing what has been upsetting me about modern dating and what I would do to change it if I had a magic wand. Later, I answer listener questions about whether or not we are limiting ourselves off by having specific things we’re looking for in a person, how to navigate having feelings for your best friend, and what to do when someone comes back two weeks after ending it.

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"Finding Love while Finding Yourself" Apr 13, 2023

I’m joined by Taylor, a 24 year old woman living in Los Angeles who shares her experience dating with chronic health issues. Taylor’s life was turned upside down 2 years ago in a matter of 24 hours when she started experiencing what she now knows is long-COVID. Taylor opens up about dealing with her loss of identity, struggling to do certain physical activities on dates, having to reschedule dates because she’s not feeling well, and when/how to explain her diagnosis to someone new.

Get in touch with Taylor @taylorrumm on Instagram!

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What Do Men Really Want? + Q&A with The Guys Apr 11, 2023

Sam Panitch and Joey Lane are here to provide the male perspective on your burning dating questions and confusing scenarios. Sam and Joey share what they wish they could change about modern dating along with misconceptions women have about men when it comes to finding love. We answer listener questions about liking thirst traps on Instagram, why he likes your stories but doesn’t text you back, how long it takes for a guy to know if he wants something serious with you, if guys and girls can just be friends, and the best and worst questions asked on dates. Sam and Joey share whether or not they want a girl to text them thank you after a date, if it’s okay for a girl to text a guy first, and what it means if they take a long time to text you back. We discuss reconnecting with exes, how to tell if you’re being strung along, what to do if they don’t know what they’re looking for, and more.

Follow Sam @sam_p_Panitch and check out Elevation Nation

Follow Joey @thejoeylane on IG and @Joeysmoke14 on Twitter and check out Drive The Lane Podcast

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"How to Catch a Cheater" Apr 06, 2023

Unfiltered: Anonymous joins the podcast to share her healing process from being cheated on, including what steps she took to recover and what finally led her to getting back out there. We hear how she meets her next boyfriend, how he's the polar opposite from her ex, and what green flags he gave off. She share how the relationship unfolds, suspicions she has along the way that he may be cheating, how he reassures her that he isn't, and why she stays. We talk about going through someone's phone, how many times can you give someone the benefit of the doubt, and why being cheated on is not about you. Lastly, we discuss how she's come to terms with her past but doesn't believe that just because her two exes have cheated on her does not mean that every other person she dates will.

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This is Seeing Other People Apr 04, 2023

Seeing Other People and host Ilana Dunn are here to help you feel less alone in your dating struggles.

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Real people, real stories, real life.

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What to Do if You Miss Your Ex Apr 04, 2023

We kick off the episode with some of this week's dating wins and an update on my wedding venue search! Then I'm joined by Carly Silverman to answer your questions about if it's still okay to ask someone to facetime before a date (and how to pop the q), when is the right time to move in with your partner, accepting a missed connection, what to do if you're talking to a bad texter, how to move on when you wish things hadn't ended, what to do if you're still thinking about your ex, and more.

Follow Carly @carlyrsilverman on TikTok!

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"Stop Putting Pressure on Yourself" Mar 30, 2023

I'm joined by a 28-year-old man who shares the story of a short-lived but very intense dating experience that lead him down a path of self-discovery and growth. We hear how their connection was off to a great start on the apps, how it felt like they've known each other forever on their first date, and how they each had a "second date curse" and "third date curse" that they wanted to overcome. He opens up about why she ended it, the feedback she gave, and what mistakes he made that he was able to see in hindsight. He shares his therapy journey, what he's learned, and how he plans to approach dating differently in the future.

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How to Stay Positive when Modern Dating Sucks with Carly Silverman Mar 28, 2023

Carly Silverman is back on the pod to help me answer listener questions! We talk about why we're so frustrated by influencers making grand statements about how much sex you should be having, why we always question “what’s wrong with me,” how we get so in our heads and make wrongful assumptions, accepting that not everyone is going to like you, how to stay positive when you keep losing hope from the dating world, and more.

Follow Carly @carlyrsilverman on tiktok and @carlysilverman on Instagram!

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"He Was Sleeping with His Ex" Mar 23, 2023

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by an anonymous woman who shares the story of a two year long situationship turned relationship filled with anxiety, manipulation, and infidelity. She opens up about why she gave him so many chances, why it was easier to stay in a broken relationship than it was to leave, and what finally pushed her to her breaking point. We hear about her healing process, how it impacted her mental health, and what advice she would give to anyone going through something similar.

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36 Questions that Lead to Love with Mady Maio Mar 21, 2023

Mady Maio, founder of Camber app and host of Okay Sis, joins the show today. We answer some of the 36 Questions that Lead to Love in honor of Mady’s new video podcast “36 Questions Later,” and deep dive into discussions about the concept of fame, how you can’t make everybody happy, and our desire to not care what others think. Mady shares how she and her long-term boyfriend started out as friends and transitioned to more, and we hear how they’ve grown as individuals and partners throughout their twenties. We chat about dating mistakes we made in college, how to meet people in a new city, what Mady has learned from romance novels, and more.

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I'M ENGAGED! Mar 16, 2023

My fiancé Jake (AH!) joins me to recap our proposal week! We answer your questions about when we knew we wanted to marry each other, if/when we talked about a timeline for getting engaged, and if he asked my parents’ permission. We dive into our ring-making process, what “ring shopping” was like, how far in advance he got the ring, and more. Finally, we talk about our proposal day, whether or not I knew, and how the proposal unfolded. Jake shares his thoughts going into popping the question, and I open up about how it felt in the moment when he got down on one knee. Thanks to everyone who has been a part of our love story and shoutout to our families for making this such a magical week.

Shoutout to our amazing jeweler, Scott at Flawless Carat! Get in touch for the ring (or any jewelry) of your dreams https://flawlesscarat.com/ scott@flawlesscarat.com

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How to Express Your Needs Mar 14, 2023

I’m joined by Ariella Azaraf, LCSW, to talk about expressing your needs, setting boundaries, and managing your dating anxiety. We discuss the language to use when you want to communicate about your needs (or your needs not being met) to someone new, when and how to trust your gut and intuition, coping with being blindsided, and what to do when you’re fresh out of a breakup and are afraid to go to the places that remind you of them. Ariella shares her expertise on where your anxiety comes from, what to do in moments of high anxiety, and how you can work towards healing your anxious attachment.

Ariella’s practice is currently accepting new clients! Check out www.ariellaazaraflcsw.com for more info and to get in touch.

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Losing my Job at Hinge, Starting Seeing Other People, and My Biggest Dating Tips Mar 09, 2023

I’m sharing one of my favorite podcast interviews I’ve experienced to date! Elevation Nation’s Sam Pantich and Parker Yablon invited me onto their show to discuss how I got to where I am today. We discuss my career path, including my struggle in the music industry post-college, my time at Hinge, and how I made the decision to go full time with Seeing Other People. I open up about the challenges I faced, my internal struggles, and what led me to start podcasting and opening up about mid dating life. We discuss the power of vulnerability, dating app tips, and more.

Check out Elevation Nation and follow along on Instagram at @elevationnation_io

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Dating for Fun, Not for Love Mar 07, 2023

I’m joined by Brianna Apple, a 23 year old Tiktoker navigating the NYC dating scene. We discuss the nuances of why she’s dating for fun and not for love right now, and how she navigates getting to know people without being misleading about her intentions. She shares why she has her heart guarded, her biggest dating pet peeves, and hilarious dating fails. We discuss red flags we give off, the best and worst parts of dating in your 20s, and more.

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"Getting Through A Blindsided Breakup" Mar 02, 2023

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 40 year old woman who shares the story of how she developed a relationship with an old friend after he became her white knight during her divorce. We hear how they went from being friends (and roommates) to partners, and how their relationship went from happy and healthy to toxic, manipulative, and emotionally abusive. She shares red flags she missed, why she didn’t end it even though she was unhappy, and how they finally parted ways. We hear what has helped her get through the breakup and what she learned from the situation.

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How to Stop Overthinking Feb 28, 2023

I’m joined by Sabrina Bendory, Author of “You’re Overthinking It” and “10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men.” Sabrina shares insight into what men really want, red flags that you should never ignore, and how we can stop overthinking. We discuss how to stop obsessing over someone early on, whether or not you should date multiple people at a time, mistakes we made in our dating lives, and whether or not men marry the woman in front of them when they’re ready.

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"Learning to Accept Myself" Feb 23, 2023

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Laurina Sachetti, host of Funny Girl Podcast to talk about her experience embracing her sexuality. We learned what led her to become pansexual (and what that means), what signs she saw and may have ignored, and how she began to experiment dating people of different genders and sexual orientations. Laurina shares how the queer community has embraced her, how she navigates telling someone she’s queer when on a date, and what differences she’s noticed between dating men and dating other genders.

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How to Be a Better Listener Feb 21, 2023

I’m joined by Orly Israel, founder of Orly’s Listening Table, to discuss all things listening and communication. We hear about why he started Orly’s listening table, what he’s learned from it, and the impact it’s had. We discuss how to practice being a better listener, when should you just listen vs offer advice, what to do when you disagree with someone who is venting to you, tips for spicing up communication in your daily lives, the craziest stories he’s heard while doing Orly’s listening table, and more.

Check out @orlyslisteningtable for more!

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"Can Relationships End on Good Terms?" Feb 16, 2023

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Julia Mazur, host of Pretty Much Done and former Tinder employee, to discuss her journey leaving a toxic relationship, learning to love herself, what she’s learned from her recent breakup, how she overcame the societal / internal pressure to get married and start a family, and more. We hear how her she ended her previous relationship on good terms, what it was like working at Tinder, and more.

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Recently Single Behavior, Missing an Ex, and How to Flirt Feb 14, 2023

Erica Shea (previously on the episode “Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It?” is back to update us on what happened with the guy she met…when she least expected it. We hear why it didn’t work out, how things ended, how her healing process has been, and what she’s learned from the breakup. We chat about RSB, AKA “Recent Single Behavior,” and if Erica still believes you find love when you least expect it, even after getting her heart broken. We answer listener questions about reaching back out to exes, how to flirt, making the first move, and more.

Check my episode on Erica’s podcast “Oversharing with Erica Shea”

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"Dating in Different Countires" Feb 09, 2023

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by Kyla who shares her experiences dating people from all around the world during her solo travels. We hear what led her to start traveling on her own, how she went about meeting people, the differences in her dating experiences abroad vs in America, what she learned from dating in different countries, and more.

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Don't Believe What You See on Social Media with Hilary Weinstein, LCSW Feb 07, 2023

I’m joined by Hilary Weinstein, LCSW, founder of HLW therapy to discuss what she has learned while going through the most difficult time of her life. Hilary opens up about getting engaged as her mother’s four year battle with ovarian cancer was coming to a devastating end. We discuss the lack of transparency on social media, how we compare ourselves and our lives to others based on what we see online, and how everyone’s high highs are on display while the low lows are kept behind closed doors. We chat about our fears surrounding being more transparent online, our individual struggles with social media, her advice to anyone going through a similar situation, and more.

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"I Dated a Nazi" Feb 02, 2023

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a woman who tells the story of meeting a man from Bumble, developing a relationship with him, and then learning that he's a member of a Nationalist organization. We hear how he told her this, what her reaction was, and why she decided to continue seeing him. She shares the internal struggle she faced because of this, her experience going to his Nationalist chapter Christmas party, whether or not she told her friends, why she continued to date him despite his beliefs, and what happened when she finally called it quits.

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Blindsided Breakups, Dating App Tips & Meeting People IRL Jan 31, 2023

I’m joined by Morgan Raum, Lox Club’s Head of Membership and creator of @tooomuchfoood. Morgan opens up about taking it slow at the start of a new relationship, the pressure of being their +1 at weddings in the early stages of dating, and the blindsided breakup she recently went through. We chat about the biggest mistakes people are making on dating apps and how to improve your profile. Finally, we discuss Morgan’s viral “I’m Single” series where she became known as the girl who walked around parks, concerts, and parties with a sign on her phone that said “I’m Single” as a method of meeting people IRL.

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"I Was the Other Woman for a Year and Didn't Know It" Jan 26, 2023

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a woman who tells the story of how she accidentally ended up in a long distance relationship with a man she met on Bumble while he was visiting NYC from Australia. We hear about their rom-com worthy first date, why they decided to keep in touch, and how deep their connection got despite the distance. She shares how spotted some red flags along the way, but was easily able to justify them and continue forward, until she received a message from his girlfriend of over a decade.

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When to Call it Quits & How to Get Back Out There Jan 24, 2023

I'm joined by Rudy A, TikToker and host of the Rude Advice podcast. We discuss how he went from being happily married to having an affair, why he and his ex-wife decided to finally call it quits, and what going through his divorce was like. Rudy shares his advice for healing after a breakup or divorce, rediscovering yourself / rebuilding your life, and getting back out there. We answer listener questions about dating someone who isn't on the same page about wanting to get married, why someone would be cuddly after sex if they aren't planning to see you again, what to do after hooking up with your coworker, and more.

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"My Ex-Wife Realized She's a Lesbian 14 Years into Marriage" Jan 19, 2023

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a man who tells the story of how his 14-year marriage ended because his wife realized she was a lesbian. We hear how he reacted to the news, and how he and his ex-wife created a wonderful co-parenting situation filled with gratitude, empathy, and flexibility. He opens up about falling in love, with a woman we refer to as “A,” soon after he dipped his toe back in the dating pool. He shares how this relationship was the best six months of his life, while also being filled with anxiety, guilt, and pain because she wasn’t okay with him remaining friends with his ex-wife.

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Relationship Timelines, Proposal Fails & Working With Your Partner with Olivia Landau Jan 17, 2023

I’m joined by Olivia Landau, Founder & CEO of The Clear Cut, the insanely popular bespoke diamond and fine jewelry company. We hear Olivia she made the first move with her now-husband Kyle, their emotional rollercoaster of a proposal story, why they ended up starting The Clear Cut together despite their families telling them not to go into business together, and what it’s like working with your spouse. We discuss how social media has completely changed the proposal process and led to fewer suprises and more collaboration on ring shopping. We answer listener questions about how to start the process of looking for an engagement ring, what to do if you hate the ring that your fiancé picked out, how to navigate being on different timelines than your partner, and more. Check out www.theclearcut.co and follow along on Instgram & Tiktok @theclearcut.

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"When You 'Do Everything Right' & It Still Doesn't Work Out" Jan 12, 2023

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a man who went through a painful breakup in Mid-August. We hear how the situation spawned a lot of self-discovery and growth in the past four months as he's been healing, learning, and reflecting. We discuss how to read mixed signals, what to do when someone isn't ready to commit but you are, and how to process the feedback that "you did everything right," but it didn't work out anyway.

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Talk About Sex Before Having It Jan 10, 2023

I’m joined by Tatiana Fogt, sexuality educator and host of Bedside, a podcast series & activist platform, where she explores sexual health & wellness in the digital age. We discuss having non awkward dialogues surrounding sex, setting clear boundaries, and assessing someone’s intentions. Tatiana answers listener questions about porn consumption, whether you should discuss how you would handle an unplanned pregnancy before having sex with someone, what to do if your sex drive and your partner’s sex drive don’t match up, and more.

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"Surviving and Thriving After a Toxic Relationship" Jan 05, 2023

I'm joined by a 30 year old woman who shares the story of her two year long toxic relationship involving cheating, manipulation, and emotional abuse. She shares how the relationship started off like a fairytale, but then became an endless cycle of explosive fights, and silent treatments followed by outpours of affection and apologies for his behavior. We discuss if the bad times were worth the good times, the red flags she now sees in hindsight, and what advice she would give to anyone going through something similar.

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Adulting 101: Dating Mistakes, Losing Dream Jobs, and Friendship Breakups Jan 03, 2023

On this episode, I’m joined by Carly Silverman and Dani Katowitz, two of my good friends who I met via social media in 2022. We discuss all things navigating your twenties from career to friendship to dating to mental health and social media. We open up about getting let go from our “dream jobs,” the pressure we put on ourselves to find boyfriends, how we realized that some of our friendship weren’t serving us, why we feel like we need to people please, what advice we would give to our younger selves and more.

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Ilana's 2022: Highs & Lows, Lessons Learned, My Struggles & More Dec 29, 2022

I’m joined by my associate producer, Camila Vola, to reflect back on 2022 and look ahead to 2023. We discuss my highs and lows, what lessons I learned, who had the biggest impact on my year, challenges I overcame, and goals I accomplished (plus goals I did not). I open up about my fears, what I’m self-conscious about, and what my struggles are with this career path. We chat about favorite episodes, the best pieces of advice, what I want to accomplish in the new year, and more.

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Pressure & Expectations from Family & Culture Dec 27, 2022

I'm joined by South Asian Therapist Fatema Jivanjee-Shakir, LMSW, to discuss the nuances of South Asian dating culture and how much emphasis our society places on marriage. We discuss the shame and secrecy around dating in South Asian culture, how individuals are expected to not date in their teenage years and get married in their early twenties, the intersection of food and body image with dating and relationships, and more. Fatema shares advice on how to become more confident in your own skin and identify your own values so you can live the life that feels most right for you.

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"I Caught Him Cheating and Took Him Back" Dec 22, 2022

UNFILTERED: An anonymous listener shares the story of the relationship she was in over the last year where she caught her boyfriend cheating on her. We hear how the relationship began, when and how she found out he was being unfaithful, if she confronted him about it, and why she decided to take him back. She shares if she was able to truly forgive him, if the relationship was able to progress forward, how her loved ones felt about the situation, and how it impacted her mental health and self worth.

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The Biggest Challenges that Couples are Facing + Listener Q’s Dec 20, 2022

I'm joined by Zac Stern, Founder, and CEO of Official, the app for enhancing your relationships. We discuss why dating apps aren’t setting us up for relationship success, the biggest challenges that couples are facing right now, and why we’re so afraid to communicate with our crushes and partners. Zac walks us through what led him to start Official and why we’re more comfortable on our phones than IRL. We answer listener questions about date ideas, how to identify someone’s intentions, are they not interested if they didn’t ask for your number, can a girl change an fboy, are men honest when writing what they’re looking for on the apps, and more.

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So You Have a Crush on Your Coworker? with Kristen and Sam Dec 15, 2022

I'm joined by Kristen and Sam, my friends who are getting married in 2023 who – you guessed it – met at work. We hear how Kristen was crushing on Sam from afar and what steps she took to assess if there was mutual interest and make her move. They share Sam's initial hesitations, how they navigated the early stages of figuring out what was between them while keeping things professional, and if they told their colleagues that they were together. We discuss getting over your work crush who isn't interested in you, handling breakups in the workplace, differentiating between work spouse feelings vs. romantic feelings, and more.

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Avoiding, Leaving, and Recovering From Narcissistic Relationships with Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Dec 13, 2022

I'm joined by narcissism expert and licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Jaime Zuckerman. We discuss the difference between a toxic relationship and a narcissistic relationship, early signs someone might be a narcissist, the difference between love bombing vs. someone being really interested in you, if a narcissist can ever change, and what causes someone to become a narcissist. We discuss how to spot narcissistic characteristics in friends and family members, what to do if your friend is dating a narcissist, why it takes on average 7 attempts to leave a narcissistic or abusive relationship, and what to do if you realize you're in a narcissistic relationship.

Check out Dr. Z's work at https://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/ and follow along on Instagram at @dr.z_psychologist.

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"Neurodiversity in Modern Dating" Dec 08, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Hannah, a 28-year-old woman who shares her experience living and dating with ADHD. We hear when and how she got her diagnosis and in what ways her ADHD impacts her day-to-day life and her dating life. Hannah helps answer listener ADHD-related questions including dealing with a lack of texts, how your non-ADHD partner can best support you, when to mention your ADHD to someone new, how to avoid overpowering the conversation and interrupting someone, what to do when someone tells you ADHD isn’t real, and more.

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Chemistry vs. Compatibility with Matchmaker Maria Dec 06, 2022

I'm joined by Maria Avgitidis, aka Matchmaker Maria, founder of Agape Match to chat all things chemistry and compatibility. We discuss if singles are looking for the wrong things, how we should assess first dates, how to meet people IRL, and what you should look for when setting friends up. Maria shares advice on how to approach important conversations like wanting children, finances, and cultural differences. We answer listener questions about seeking intellectual connections, what to do when someone asks you to be official or says "I love you" before you're on the same page, and more.

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How Losing Loved Ones Impacts Your Love Life with Jamie Stone Dec 01, 2022

I’m joined by Jamie Stone, blogger at honestlyjamie.com and host of the “A Little Too Much” podcast. Jamie opens up about losing her younger sister in 2016 and her dad in 2019 and how it’s impacted her life, dating journey, relationships, and friendships. We discuss why we’re afraid to talk about death, how you lose friends during the grieving process, how her losses amplified her fear of abandonment, bonding with someone else who has experienced loss like this, what to say when it comes up on dates, and how you should respond if someone tells you they’ve lost a loved one.

Articles we discussed:

https://honestlyjamie.com/sympathy-gift-ideas-for-grieving-friends/

https://hellogiggles.com/friend-unfollow-you-instagram/

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What Men Wish Women Did Differently in Dating with Tripp Kramer Nov 29, 2022

I’m joined by Tripp Kramer, world-renowned dating men’s dating coach and host of the “How to Talk to Girls” podcast. Tripp and I discuss the biggest misconceptions that men and women have about each other and what men wish women did differently in dating. We answer listener questions from women about assessing interest, paying for dates, friend zoning, bringing up exclusivity, and nerves going into your first trip with a new significant other. We answer questions from guys about when to make a move, sending the post-date follow-up text, staying motivated when you’re having no luck, showing interest while still taking it slow, and relaxing through the process of finding love.

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Situationships, Approaching Someone IRL & First Date Anxiety Nov 24, 2022

Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode I answer listener questions about how to enjoy the holidays when you're single, how to get over a situationship when you're in the same friend group, what to do if the idea of going on a date causes so much anxiety, tips for bonding with your significant other's family, advice for believing your healthy relatioship is real, what to do when things ended but you see them every time you go to the gym, and more.

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Make Your Own Dating Rules with Eli Rallo Nov 22, 2022

I’m joined by Eli Rallo, writer, content creator, host of the podcast Miss Congeniality, and Author of “I Didn’t Know I Needed This” coming out next Fall, 2023. Eli and I discuss how to create your own rules that work for you in dating, what to do if you get ghosted, and combatting loneliness and seasonal depression. Eli shares how she manifested her boyfriend and teaches us a Manifestation 101 lesson. We answer listener questions about making new friends in a new city, moving in with your partner, accepting that you went off on someone and said things you regret, and more.

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"How to Make a Relationship Last" Nov 17, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by my college professor, Keith Giglio, and his wife, Juliet Giglio, a husband-wife screenwriting duo who met cute in an elevator while attending NYU Grad Film school (and have produced films including A Cinderella Story, Return to Halloweentown, Disney’s Tarzan & more). We chat about their first novel and my personal favorite book ever, THE SUMMER OF CHRISTMAS, a holiday romcom that so many love stories can relate to. We hear about how they got married while still in school, how they supported each other in their careers, what led them to team up, and how they’ve navigated working together and raising a family all while maintaining a healthy and loving relationship. Keith and Juliet share their secret to staying together, early signs they’ve noticed that someone’s relationship won’t work out, what’s led to some of their friends getting divorced, and more.

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Saving Modern Dating with Dateable's Julie and Yue Nov 15, 2022

I’m joined by Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, hosts of Dateable podcast. We’re chatting all about why dating sucks and how we each can make it better. We discuss the biggest mistakes singles are making in their dating lives, the importance of focusing on the positives when dating, how we can turn each date into a learning experience, what we’ve learned from our past, and more.

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"Getting Ghosted Led Me to Meet the Love of My Life'" Nov 10, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 29-year-old woman who tells us how got ghosted after dating someone for months whom she met through her parents. We talk about the red flags she noticed retrospectively, when things shifted, and how he went about ghosting her. We hear what getting back into dating after this experience was like, and how it ultimately led her to reconnect with her now partner and the love of her life, who she had previously written off because of distance.

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How to Tell if a Guy is Interested In You with Jake Tuff Nov 08, 2022

I’m joined by my friend Jake Tuff who opens up about a breakup that he just went through. We hear what he’s learned from going through it, what his breakup recovery looks like, and if he has any regrets about how everything went down. He talks about moving to a new place and starting over when you don’t know many people, learning his love language, and how he navigates his many female friendships when he’s in a relationship. Jake answers listener questions about what guys think of the phrase “If he wanted to, he would,” if guys are generally bad at texting, for sure signs that a guy is interested in you, if sleeping with a guy too early on makes them less interested in dating longterm, what it means if he’s suddenly avoiding your stories, and more.

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"Dating an Addict" Nov 03, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 29 year old woman who opens up about her eight year relationship that ultimately ended because of her partner’s addiction to alcohol. She shares how his struggle with alcohol use went unnoticed during college as heavy drinking is common in greek life culture, but how it became more noticible post-grad, once they lived together, and when covid hit. She shares how she tried to support him and encourage him to be sober, how his alcohol use impacted her, and what it finally took took for him to get sober. If you know someone struggling with addiction, you don’t have to go through this alone. Resources and community are available through Al-Anon.org.

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Taking Breaks & Being Friends with Exes Nov 01, 2022

I’m joined by Leslie Grant, host of Interstates and Heartbreak, to discuss taking breaks & staying in touch with exes. We chat about whether or not taking a break can work, what situations would allow for it to work, and when a break is just a precursor to a breakup. We discuss giving someone a second chance, criteria for being friends with an ex, whether or not you should text your ex on their birthday, and tips for dating in LA.

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Ilana's Childhood BFF Spills the Tea About her Dating Life Oct 27, 2022

My childhood best friend Cristina joins me to answer listener-submitted questions about my past dating experiences. We cover all of my firsts, from my first crush to my first date to my first time being cheated on and everything in between. We discuss mistakes I made in the past, times I put boys before my friendships, how I handle rejection, ways I've grown in my dating life, whether or not I take my own advice, if there is a guy from my past she was rooting for, and so much more.

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What We Learned About Love from Taylor Swift with Michael Kaye Oct 25, 2022

I’m joined by Michael Kaye, Global Head of Communications at OkCupid, to discuss all things dating apps, cuffing season, and Taylor Swift. Michael shares the insider scoop into the biggest mistakes people are making in their dating app profiles, the best icebreakers for first opening lines, and how to best prepare for this year’s cuffing season. Michael opens up about how he was still in the closet when he and his partner Parker connected on Tinder, and what he has learned about love from OkCupid and Taylor Swift.

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Is Sexuality Really Fluid? Oct 20, 2022

I’m joined by Sarah and Audrey, cohosts of the podcast Completely Fucking Clueless. Sarah and Audrey open up about when they knew they were queer, how they explored it, whether or not they suppressed their sexuality, and what helped them fully embrace who they are. Sarah shares how she and her current partner first met at summer camp when they were 12, and Audrey shares what it’s like being bisexual on dating apps in NYC. We chat about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who have shared experiences, dating when your career isn’t where you want it to be, and comparing yourself to those around you who seem to have things more figured out.

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Once an Fboy, Always an Fboy? Oct 18, 2022

I'm joined by singer/songwriter Maryon King to chat all about fboys and situationships. We discuss fboy tendencies, how to spot an fboy, and whether or not we're all capable of being fboys. We dissect why we end up in so many situationships, if it's possible to go from a situationship to a relationship, how to combat the feeling of someone making you feel unworthy, how she turned her frustration with modern dating into her hit song "Boys Will Be Boys."

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Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It? with Erica Shea Oct 11, 2022

I’m joined by Erica Shea, San Diego radio star on The Geena the Latina And Frankie V. Morning Show, and host of the podcast “Oversharing with Erica Shea.” Erica and I chat about dating while moving to a new city, meeting people IRL, and accepting the bare minimum. Erica tells us the crazy story of how she met her current partner (IRL!), why her mindset was different when she met him, and how they’ve made their long-distance relationship work. We discuss asking for your needs and whether or not there’s a difference between being exclusive and being in a relationship.

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"Choosing to be Childfree" Oct 06, 2022

TW: Suicidal thoughts

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a man who opens up about the longterm relationship he was in where his partner knew she wanted a child and he knew that he did not. We hear how they tried to work through this, how difficult it was to try and change their mind for the other, and how it ultimately lead to them breaking up. He shares what factors went into his decision to get a vasectomy, how his childfree lifestyle has impacted his friendships, and what navigating the dating world is like when you don’t want children.

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Setting Boundaries will Change Your Dating Life with Mariann Yip Oct 04, 2022

I’m joined by Mariann Yip, host of the podcast The City Confessions and Author of “UN-HINGED what I Learned from Saying It’s You, It’s Not Me in the NYC Dating Scene.”

Mariann and I discuss how therapy helped us navigate our dating challenges, why we should stop asking our friends to show us photos of their date/crush, the importance of looking for a growth-oriented relationship, and how much we have changed throughout our twenties. Mariann shares how she learned to set boundaries when dating, what kinds of boundaries she set, and how her boundaries have helped her filter through potential partners.

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"You Don’t Need to Lose Weight to Be Loved" Sep 29, 2022

*This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around eating disorders.

UNFILTERED; I’m joined by Jackie Shames, a woman who opens up about her long-term struggle with her body image and an eating disorder. We hear how her ED impacted her dating life and made her feel like she wouldn’t find love if she didn’t look a certain way. She shares how she’s worked through it, how therapy has helped her, and why she no longer feels like she needs to lose weight to be loved. We discuss whether or not you should date with an ED, if, when and how you should communicate about it to someone you’re dating, tips for feeling confident when going on dates, and much more.

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Freezing Your Eggs 101 Sep 27, 2022

I’m joined by Ali Jackson AKA Finding Mr. Height to chat all about her egg freezing experience. Ali walks us through what egg freezing is, what factors went into her decision to freeze her eggs, and what the process is like. She shares how she felt throughout the process, what side effects she experienced, whether or not it’s changed how she feels about her timeline, and how she communicates about this with potential partners.

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"When Your Relationship Has an End Date" Sep 22, 2022

I'm joined by Livia, a 23-year-old who shares her story of starting a relationship while knowing there was an end date. We discuss what it's like to countdown to the relationship ending, sticking with your gut decision to pursue something independently, being open-minded about dealbreakers, and more.

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You're Worthy of Love with Kirstie Taylor Sep 20, 2022

I’m joined by Kirstie Taylor, a dating, relationships, and self-love writer & author of “What I Wish I Knew About Love.” Kirstie and I chat about practicing self-love when navigating modern dating, forgiving yourself when your actions caused things to go awry, and setting and enforcing healthy boundaries. We discuss what to do when going through a breakup including building back your self-worth, rediscovering yourself, and working towards getting back out there.

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Q&A: Exclusive Vs. Relationship, Bringing Up Moving In & Getting Engaged, Age Gaps and More Sep 15, 2022

My best friend Sara Curwin and I sit down to answer your questions! We discuss what to do when he invites you to his party but his other hookup is there and they are flirting, how to handle bad manners on a first date, whether or not there's a difference between being exclusive and being in a relationship, how to have conversations about longterm plans with your significant other, age gaps, breaking the ice when you match with someone you kind of know, when to let go of someone who seemed promising but can't commit, and more.

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What Makes a Marriage Last? Sep 13, 2022

In this episode, I’m joined by world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman to discuss why people get married, what makes a marriage last, what intimacy really means, and what it means to be a husband or a wife. He explains why we shouldn’t date if we have no intentions of getting married within the next five years and why we need to be selfish when we date.

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"The Craziest Dating Stories You Will Ever Hear" Sep 08, 2022

Get ready for the most jaw dropping, hilarious, and heartwarming Unfiltered episode yet! This week’s guest shares three wild dating scenarios she found herself in. No spoilers here!

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Early Signs a Relationship Won’t Work Out with Hilary Weinstein, LCSW Sep 06, 2022

I’m joined by Hilary Weinstein, LCSW and Founder of HLW Therapy, a therapy practice that is currently accepting new clients. We discuss the importance of taking time to reflect on your dating experiences, the most common mistakes women are making in dating, getting back out there after going through a traumatic relationship experience, and how to have a “Who do I want to pick?” mindset instead of a “Pick me!” mindset. We answer listener questions about early signs a relationship won’t work, if relationships should be easy for a certain amount of time, and what to do when you feel demoralized about dating because of your past experiences.

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"Comparing Yourself & Staying Present" Sep 01, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Stella Stephanopolous, host of the Everyday Endorphins podcast to discuss dating intentionally. We chat about focusing on how the person makes you feel, staying present on the date, why it doesn’t matter if someone has never been in a relationship before, how to stop comparing your timeline to those around you, forgiving yourself for not being where you want to be, how to end a bad date, and whether to reject someone at the end of the date or wait until the next day.

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Expectations Vs. Reality of Marriage with Maya and Hunter Aug 30, 2022

I’m joined by Maya and Hunter, high school sweethearts turned married couple who are breaking the internet by breaking gender norms. We discuss how Hunter became a “Stay-At-Home Husband” and why their reversal of gender roles is so important for our society to see. Maya and Hunter share how they navigated their most transformative years as they grew and changed both individually and as a couple. We chat about what goes into a successful partnership, the realities of taking a break, how social media portrays unrealistic standards of relationships, and the magical moment that recently happened as they were celebrating their first wedding anniversary.

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"Questioning Chemistry and Learning from Mistakes" Aug 25, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 23-year-old man who shares his dating experiences over the past year. He opens up about putting too much pressure on himself to make potential relationships work out, misreading signs because of how much he wanted the connection to be there, and how overanalyzing and obsessing over someone fuels our anxiety.

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You’re Only as Needy as your Unmet Needs with Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick Aug 23, 2022

I’m joined by Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, PhD, LPC to discuss how our upbringing impacts our relationships. Elizabeth teaches us all about relational programming, how the way we grew up impacts who we choose as a partner, how we can move past our traumas to end up in healthy relationships, reprograming negative core beliefs, learning to differentiate what feels like a threat vs. what actually is a threat, understanding your triggers and more.

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"A Cross-Border LDR" Aug 18, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman from Canada who shares the story of the LDR she was in during COVID while the America/Canada border was semi-closed. We discuss meeting someone who restores your hope in dating, the added pressure that comes with texting someone for a while before meeting, keeping communication strong when you aren’t seeing each other for a while, whether or not it means something when the cadence of texting changes, how the stakes are raised when you’re traveling for dates, and the stress of not knowing when you’ll see them again next, and more.

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Being Friends with Exes, Dating After Addiction and Learning from Heartbreak with Emily Ruhl Aug 16, 2022

I’m joined by writer, producer, actress & model, Emily Ruhl. We discuss sharing your fears and anxieties with the people you’re dating, learning from each heartbreak, loving and hating someone at the same time, and how the length of a relationship does not equal the emotional impact of the relationship. Emily shares her experience dating after addiction, being friends with multiple exes, and how she prioritizes maintaining her independence when in relationships. Check out Emily’s short film Blue Moon here or at publicschoolpictures.com.

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"When Religion is a Dealbreaker" Aug 11, 2022

I'm joined by a 23 year old woman in NYC who shares her experience dating within the Jewish community. We discuss being raised Jewish, deciding to pursue relationships with other Jews, and filtering within the community for what we're looking for. She shares date fails and hilarious dating stories, which apps worked and didn't work for her, why she opted to go on shorter first dates, and how she met her current partner.

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Is Timing Everything? With Justin & Slavo Aug 09, 2022

I’m joined by Justina and Slavo from the LA-based indie pop duo, Fly By Midnight. They share how they’ve supported each other through different stages of their dating lives, how where they were in their career at different times impacted their ability and desire to pursue serious relationships, and how they’ve made it work with their partners through various stages of their lives and careers. We discuss how everyone has different communication needs, the importance of having difficult conversations, how their personal lives inspire their music, what music has impacted us, and more.

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"Self Sabotaging & Post-Breakup Mistakes" Aug 04, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Mackenzie (24) who hosts the podcast Taste of Blonde. We discuss her breakup from a healthy long-term relationship, how she handled seeing him move on so quickly, getting back out there too soon, self-sabotaging new connections, how her disorganized attachment style plays into her dating life, how family matters can complicate relationships and breakups, and more.

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Helping My Ex Realize He’s Gay with Jordan Paul Aug 02, 2022

On this episode, I'm joined by my ex Jordan who I dated for six months in the beginning of the pandemic until he ended things, seemingly out of the blue. After not speaking for two years, we recently reconnected when I saw his Instagram post announcing and celebrating that he came out. Jordan and I sit down to discuss his coming out journey, including years of experimenting, moving to a new city where he could fully explore his sexuality, and finally coming out to his friends and family after keeping it a secret for so long. We chat about our relationship and our breakup, how dating me helped him realize that he liked men, the differences in dating men and women on apps, and how it feels to finally be his most authentic self.

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"He Met My Dad, but Was Still Active on Bumble" Jul 28, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman who thought things were going well with the guy she was seeing until she when saw a Bumble notification pop up on his phone, after establishing they had both deleted the apps. She shares how she approached confronting him, what his explanation was, whether or not she believed him and could trust him, and unfolded from there.

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Romance Isn’t What We See on Instagram with Couples Confessional  Jul 26, 2022

I’m joined by the anonymous founder of @couplesconfessional, an online safe space for relationships, dating, and singles to share stories, ask questions and start related conversations with other followers – anonymously. We discuss what led her to start Couples Confessional, the benefits of getting advice from strangers, what people are struggling with the most in modern dating, and the most relatable and memorable confessions. We hear confessions about struggling to get over someone you never actually dated, feeling like you’re “too much,” and seeing someone who cuts off communication and then comes back, over and over.

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"What Men Think Women Get Wrong About Dating" Jul 21, 2022

UNFILTERED: In this episode, I'm joined by a male in his late twenties to discuss the differences in the dating advice that men and women get. We discuss mixed messages, playing games, shooting your shot, commitment, rejection, and everything in between. He shares what he wishes girls did differently in dating, what conversations girls should be less afraid to bring up, the importance of saying what you mean and meaning what you say, and more.

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Dos and Don’ts of Texting Someone You Want to Date with Erika Ettin Jul 19, 2022

I’m joined by dating coach Erika Ettin aka @alittlenudge to break down everything you need to know about texting when it comes to dating. From messaging on the apps, to planning the date, following up after the date, and communicating between dates, we’re giving you the full Texting 101 college course in this episode. We answer listener questions about texting for a month before meeting up, determining whether or not someone is starting to slow fade you and what you should do, and how to handle when someone overshares and is a little too comfortable opening up before meeting IRL.

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"Starting Over After a Broken Engagement" Jul 14, 2022

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by fitness entrepreneur Kyle Axman who shares the story of getting back out there and finding love after breaking up with his partner of five years just a few months after getting engaged. We hear how they originally met, how their relationship progressed, what led to them calling it quits, and what it was like starting over. He shares how he got back out there and dated without using dating apps, how he determined what he was looking for, when and how he brought up his previous engagement, and how he and his now-girlfriend never would have matched on a dating app.

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The Art of the One Night Stand with John Franklin Jul 12, 2022

On this hilarious episode, I’m joined by John Franklin, comedian, musician, and star of Netflix’s “The Circle.” We hear how his time on The Circle changed his life, his history of being a “relationship guy,” absurdly funny date stories, epic date fails, do’s and don’ts for one night stands, and more.

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Unfiltered: Everyone's Getting Engaged and Married (Except Me) Jul 07, 2022

On this Unfiltered, I’m joined by Jenna, a 26-year-old living in Austin, Texas. Jenna opens up about being one of the only single people in her friend group, what it’s like being on different timelines than her friends, the pressure singles often face of getting unsolicited dating advice from everyone in their lives, trying not to be the bitter single person, letting go of people who weren’t meant to be, and more.

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From Feeling Hopeless to Finding Love with Carly Silverman Jul 05, 2022

On this episode, I’m joined by Carly Silverman, TikTok star and Lox Club’s Senior Growth Manager. We hear how she went from feeling lost and heartbroken while living and working with her ex boyfriend to having her faith restored in modern dating through her role at Lox Club. We discuss how to make dating more fun, the bold first moves she made with her now-boyfriend, FaceTime dates, transparency around healing from an unhealthy relationship, what you don’t know about your partner until you move in together, being on the same page about your timeline, and more.

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Unfiltered: The Abortion Episode Jun 30, 2022

The majority of this episode was originally recorded with an anonymous guest in February, 2021. After hearing the devastating news of SCOTUS overturning Roe v. Wade, she and I jumped back on the mic to share how we are feeling, how this impacts someone who has previously gotten an abortion, what we can do to help, and how it feels to be a woman in 2022. Then, we replay the original episode where she shares the story of her unplanned pregnancy her senior year of college. She shares the moment she found out, how her friends and family helped her through it, why she decided to not tell the guy she had slept with, the trauma she's dealt with as a result of the unplanned pregnancy, how you can support your friends who are going through something similar, and more.

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Navigating Sex & Sexual Health in the Age of Hookup Culture with Alyssa Ljub Jun 28, 2022

I'm joined by Alyssa Ljub, Sex & Relationship Coach and recent star on Netflix's 'The Circle.' Alyssa shares how and why she became a sex coach, tips for creating genuine connections over text, when and how to have conversations around condoms and STI testing before having sex, how to communicate about sexual needs, fears and previous traumas with a new partner, and more.

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"Overcoming the Pressure to Find 'The One'" Jun 23, 2022

UNFILTERED: I'm joined by a 40 year old woman who shares the pressure she's felt over the last twenty years to find her person, get married, and settle down. We discuss how our society makes us feel like we're running out of time and have to meet someone by a certain age, what it's like to see your friends get into relationships and move forward with their partners while you're not, and how to accept that some relationships aren't right, no matter how much we sometimes wish they were. We hear how she's learned to get comfortable with the idea of being alone and appreciate the amazing life she's built for herself.

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Embracing Singlehood with Helena and Laurina Jun 21, 2022

I’m joined by Helena Rosen (Former SOP Guest “27 Years Single”) and Laurina Sachetti, hosts of Funny Girls podcast. Helena reflects on being in her first relationship at 28 years old, how she met someone shortly after accepting that being single, and how the conversation went when she told her now-boyfriend that she had never been in a relationship. We hear about Laurina’s bizarre dating experiences including learning her date had a kid from his phone background, and being taken to a funeral on a date. She shares how she wen from being the bitter single person to embracing her singlehood, and we hear about her experience being guarded after an unhealthy relationship and how she’s turned that experience around to help her filter out who isn’t right for her.

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Unfiltered: He Took Back the Relationship Jun 16, 2022

I'm joined by a woman who tells us about her partner asking to remove the "boyfriend/girlfriend" label just weeks after he asked her to be his girlfriend. We hear how his request fueled her insecurities, left her feeling confused, led her to feel like she had to play games to win him back, and ultimately resulted in a painful breakup.

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Stop Believing these Dating Myths with Jared & Jordana Jun 14, 2022

I’m joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, hosts of Betches’ U Up? Podcast', or as I like to call them, the mom and dad of modern dating. We discuss whether or not there’s truth to the most common dating phrases we hear including “you’ll find someone when you stop looking,” “there’s someone out there for everyone,” “you have to love yourself before you can be loved by someone else,” and more. Later, we answer listener questions about vulnerability, overcoming nervousness and date anxiety, determining your dealbreakers (and sticking to them), if women wrongly read into situations like meeting the friends, and how to make sure you’re on the same page as the person you’re dating.

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Unfiltered: What I Learned from Working with a Matchmaker & Dating Coach Jun 09, 2022

I’m joined by a 30-year-old man from Washington, D.C. who shares what his dating journey has been like since it began when around 27 years old. We hear about how being bullied in school ultimately led to anxiety and self-confidence issues that held him back from putting himself out there in the dating world. He shares what he learned from working with a dating coach and a matchmaker, the feedback he received from his dates that helped him improve, how he navigates not being able to use his phone during the day due to his government job, and how he’s developed a growth mindset and tries to be upfront and work on his issues head-on.

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Finding Yourself and Prioritizing What Matters with Molly Fedick Jun 07, 2022

I’m joined by Molly Fedick, my former Hinge colleague and the founder of Buzzkill Wines, an Alcohol-Removed Sauvignon Blanc. Molly shares sober dating tips and reads a hilariously relatable excerpt from her high school journal. Later, Molly opens up about how going to rehab helped her rediscover herself and reevaluate her values, how therapy helped her realize she had been going for the wrong types of people, why we’re way too quick to judge someone, how she approaches meeting people IRL instead of on dating apps, and how she’s setting herself up to live the life she wants and have children even if she doesn’t meet someone to do it with.

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Unfiltered: I Was Raised Mormon & My Ex-Husband Was a Sex Addict Jun 02, 2022

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a woman who was raised Mormon. She shares how she lived by the rules, was extremely obedient and felt promised that if she did everything right and married a "good guy," she would be blessed. After 11 years of marriage, she learned that her husband had been unfaithful nearly their entire marriage and was a sex addict. Fast forward and she's exploring the dating world for the first time while reevaluating her faith, her values, and her beliefs about sex.

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What Guys Think of Dating Rules with Sam and Parker May 31, 2022

On this episode I’m joined by Sam Panitch and Parker Yablon, the men of Elevation Nation. We hear about what problems guys face in dating that women don’t realize, where they get their dating and relationship advice from, why more men should be in therapy, the key to building a healthy relationships from the start, what a perfect date looks like, and their thoughts on playing games and following dating rules. Later we answer listener questions about why he texts you after the first date but doesn’t ask you out again, catching your boyfriend in a lie about exclusivity, being friends first, and more.

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Unfiltered: When Life & Death Get in the Way May 26, 2022

On this Unfiltered episode, I'm joined by a 28-year-old man from Scotland who is dating for the first time in 12 years due to the chronic illness diagnosis he received when he was a teenager, accompanied by a cancer diagnosis shortly after. We hear what his journey has been like and how it's impacted his relationships, friendships, and mental health. He shares his fears surrounding putting himself out there and we hear how his 31-year-old brother who recently passed away helped give him the push he needed to get back into the dating world.

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The Dating App Episode with Finding Mr. Height May 24, 2022

Ali AKA Finding Mr. Height is back on the show for the most requested episode yet. We’re giving you a Dating Apps 101 course covering everything you need to know about dating apps. We discuss which dating apps you should be on, mistakes you’re probably making, do’s and don’ts for prompts, photos, conversation starters, how long you should chat for, getting from the app to the date, and everything in between.

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Unfiltered: The Nuances of Dating After 30 May 19, 2022

I'm joined by a 33-year-old woman who shares her dating experiences. We discuss her dating app profile and conversation pain points, how she's maintained a healthy friend with benefits situation for over a year, why and how she investigated the pool of daters out there through a fake dating app profile, being the only single one in the friend group, balancing talking to multiple people at once, worst and best date stories.

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My Anxieties, Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends, Saying ILY, Maintaining Independence & More. Solo Ep May 17, 2022

I kick off this solo episode by opening up about career growing pains, feeling sad about the dating world, and the pressure I put on myself to succeed. After concluding my vent session, I answer listener questions about when and how to say "I love you," whether or not I think guys and girls can be just friends, how to handle If someone treats you like a boyfriend or girlfriend but won't call you that, maintaining your independence when you start talking to someone new and being newly single when your friends are in relationships.

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Unfiltered: Dating with Cancer May 12, 2022

I'm joined by a man who shares his experience fighting cancer throughout his 20s. He discusses how it's impacted his dating life and his social life, how he navigated ending things with someone he started dating in remission as his cancer came back, how he feels about the possibility of putting himself out there to date again, when and how he would approach discussing his medical history with a potential partner, and more.

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Who Should Pay? The Money Conversations You Should be Having with Katie Gatti May 10, 2022

I’m Joined by Katie Gatti, AKA Money with Katie, to discuss the most common money issues that singles and couples face. We discuss who should get the check and what it means if you split it, when and how you should talk about how much money you make, having a different financial situation than your friends, dealing with families and money when wedding planning, and how to navigate when your partner makes more than you.

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Unfiltered: The Classy Fckboy May 05, 2022

I'm joined by a girl who shares her experience with a "Classy Fckboy," someone who knows how to win you over with their words, but is a professional at making empty promises. We hear about how each time she was ready to give up and move on, he reeled her back in by convincing her he was looking for something serious, too. She shares the red flags she identified in hindsight, why she gave him the benefit of the doubt, how she tried to communicate openly with him, and what her dating life looks like now.

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How to Stop Going for the Wrong People with Therapy Jeff May 03, 2022

I'm joined by Jeff Guenther, LPC, to discuss how we can overcome our dating anxiety, make better decisions, and approach the early stages of dating in a healthier way. We discuss what to do when your anxiety is holding you back from dating, tips for staying calm when going on a first date, why we go for people who send us mixed messages and don't treat us well, how to choose better people, why you should take it slow in the beginning, and if attraction can build over time.

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Unfiltered: What I Learned From Going on 300 Dates in One Year Apr 28, 2022

I’m joined by a man who shares the the ups and downs he experienced in his hyper-active pursuit of love, which ultimately led him to meet his fiance. We hear how he fit so many dates into his schedule, what he was looking for, how he balanced dating multiple women at the same time, what he learned from all of his dates, how he kept track of them, and how it felt to finally meet the person he was searching for. At the end of the episode, he shares his movie-worthy proposal story.

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Why Am I Still Single? With Mariah Grippo Apr 26, 2022

Mariah Grippo, TikTok’s dating queen and founding member of Little Words Project, joins the show to talk about the struggles she and many other women face in their dating lives. We discuss how draining it feels to continue to form connections and relationships with people only to be told they’re “not ready,” questioning if there’s something wrong with us when it keeps not working out, staying with people for too long, making purpose out of the situations that break us, and finding a partner who unconditionally supports your passions.

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Unfiltered: Afraid to Fall For The Wrong Person (Again) Apr 21, 2022

I’m joined by a listener who shares the story of the relationship and breakup that changed her and set her years back on the timeline she had imagined for herself. We discuss going from that high of being so in love with someone who loves you back to breaking up and feeling the lowest you’ve ever felt in your life, what it felt like to see her ex in a relationship with someone new shortly after their breakup and the fear and anxiety surrounding falling for the wrong person again that is holding her back in her dating life.

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It’s Okay to Feel Sad About Your Dating Life with Whitney Goodman, LMFT Apr 19, 2022

In this episode, I’m joined by Whitney Goodman, LMFT, author of Toxic Positivity, and the brains behind the popular account @sitwithwhit. We discuss how our culture doesn’t allow for negativity and has become a competition for who can seem happiest and most positive, how toxic positivity invalidates people struggling with relationship problems, how we can better support our friends and loved ones who are unhappy with their timelines and their singlehood, the overuse of the term “gaslighting,” and how we can learn to accept our negative emotions.

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Unfiltered: I Thought He Was The One Apr 14, 2022

I sit down with my friend Sammy who shares her highest highs and lowest lows throughout her dating journey. We hear about a six-year relationship that ended because he was having doubts, going through her “hoe phase” in her mid-twenties, how she’s managed to stay friends with most of her exes, finding out her most recent relationship ex was in a relationship with someone else weeks after they called it quits, and what she says when someone says they feel more of a friend vibe after a date.

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Breaking Dating Rules, Our Biggest Challenges, The Honeymoon Phase + More with My Boyfriend Jake Apr 12, 2022

Jake and I answer listener questions about our relationship and reflect on how we got to where we are now as a couple. We discuss what Jake thinks of dating rules, the honeymoon phase and if we’re still in it, the biggest challenges we've faced together, how we knew we wanted to commit to each other, who said “I love you” first, if we ever run out of things to talk about, the surprising perks of dating someone who’s never been in a relationship before and more.

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Unfiltered: I Don't Want Kids Apr 07, 2022

On this episode, I sit down with a woman who is navigating dating while knowing she doesn’t want kids. We hear when she decided this, why she stands by her decision, and how it impacts her dating life. We also discuss her personal preference for dating nonamericans and how their dating behavior appears drastically different from the Americans she’s dated.

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How Do You Know If They're The One? with Kate Steinberg Apr 05, 2022

On this episode I’m joined by Kate Steinberg, the internet’s early 2000s queen who met her fiancé Chad on HBO Max’s “12 Dates of Christmas.” Kate shares how she remained calm and confident while knowing Chad was going on dates with other women and the benefits of not sharing every detail of your dating life with friends. We discuss how you know if someone’s the one, the importance of being your truest self when dating, and how everything is not what it seems on reality TV.

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Unfiltered: Dating a Divorcee Mar 31, 2022

On today's episode I talk to a woman who reached out to me after listening to the unfiltered episode called "Married at 25, Divorced at 26, Dating at 27". She wanted to share her story of being on the other side of that situation, dating someone who was married at 25 and divorced at 27. She shares how their relationship unfolded, what her initial reaction was to him sharing that he was divorced and how his previous marriage has impacted their current relationship. She gives advice for anyone dating a divorcee and for divorcees getting back in the dating world

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The Attachment Styles Episode with Rikki Cloos Mar 29, 2022

On this episode, I’m joined by Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide) to discuss the basics of attachment theory. We learn how our attachment styles are shaped, if we can change attachment styles, how our style shows up in our dating lives and our relationships, how to navigate your partner’s attachment style, and more.

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First Dates, Situationships, Friends with Exes & More. Solo Q&A Mar 24, 2022

On this solo Q&A I answer listener questions about what makes a good date, rekindling an old situationship, being friends with an ex after ending on good terms, not hearing back from someone after telling them how you feel, what to do if you're always texting first, if they're still active on dating apps after telling you they like you, when to follow up, and how to know if you should stay or go.

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Don't Let Your Anxiety Control Your Dating Life with @SitWithKelly Mar 22, 2022

On this episode, I sit down with Kelly McKenna (@sitwithkelly), a therapist for anxious millennials. We discuss the difference between overthinking and anxiety, how dating rules and games can make you more anxious, boundaries you should be setting, identifying the source of your anxiety, and in-the-moment tools for dealing with your dating anxiety. Kelly shares tips for communicating your anxieties to a new partner and supporting a partner with anxiety.

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Unfiltered: I Used Sex as a Coping Mechanism Mar 17, 2022

On today’s episode I sit down with Kayla Moran, host of the Let’s Get Candid podcast. Kayla opens up about relationship and intimacy trauma, her relationship with sex and her body, and how her childhood and her relationship with her mother impacted her dating life.

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The Guide to Getting Over Them with @yourbreakupbestie Kendra Allen Mar 15, 2022

On this episode, I’m joined by @yourbreakupbestie Kendra Allen to discuss how to get through a breakup. Kendra walks us through the biggest mistakes people make after a breakup, if getting back together is ever a good idea, what to do if it’s been a while since the breakup but you still think about them, when and how to get back out there, if you should ever text your ex on their birthday, how to stop watching their Instagram stories, and everything in between.

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Unfiltered: I Was Blinded by Gaslighting & Manipulation Mar 10, 2022

TW: Sexual assault. On this Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares the story of the toxic relationship she didn’t realize she was in, despite all of the warning signs. We hear about gaslighting, manipulation, lying, and other unhealthy behaviors her partner brought to their relationship. We discuss why she was in denial of what was really happening, why she ignored the early red flags, what she wishes she would have done differently, and how she learned from this experience and moved forward to find a healthy relationship with a loving partner.

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Am I In a Toxic Relationship? (And How to Avoid Them) With Shrink Chicks Mar 08, 2022

On this episode, I sit down with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT, owners and founders of the Therapy Group. We hear about early red flags you can look out for to identify if someone might be toxic, manipulative, or abusive, how to realize you’re in an unhealthy situation, and how you can get out of it. We discuss why we want what we can’t have and push away what we can have, dating a narcissist, what to do if our friend is in a toxic situation and more. We close out the episode by hearing how to find the right kind of therapist for you and how to break up with a therapist who isn’t the right fit.

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Unfiltered: Married at 25, Divorced at 26, Dating at 27 Mar 03, 2022

On today’s episode, I sit down with a 27-year-old woman who recently went through a divorce from her high school sweetheart who she had been with for nine years. We hear about what her life was like before the divorce, why they got divorced, and what it’s been like getting out in the dating world for the first time as a 27-year-old divorcee.

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The Most Common Mistakes in Modern Dating with Talia Goldstein Mar 01, 2022

On this episode I sit down with Talia Goldstein, Founder and CEO of Three Day Rule Matchmaking. We discuss the biggest flaws in dating apps and modern dating, the most common mistakes daters are making, what questions you should be asking on dates, how to determine your dealbreakers vs. “nice to haves,” and whether or not you’re correct about your “type.” Talia shares how the matchmaking process works from getting to know you, to pre-screening dates, setting you up with people who are truly looking for something serious, post-date chats, and more.

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Comparing Your Timeline, Taking Things Slow, Dating a Friend & More. Solo Q&A Feb 24, 2022

In this solo episode, I answer listener questions about ghosting, unfollowing, and taking things slow. At 15 minutes in, I open up about the constant pressure I feel to be at a certain place in my relationship and how social media leads us down a dangerous path of comparing ourselves to others, no matter what life stage we’re in. At 28 minutes I discuss the precautions you should take when considering dating a close friend. I share a past dating experience where I approached this situation in a way that I regret. I close out the episode with my thoughts on The Tinder Swindler and this week’s Bachelor episode.

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Couples Therapy Isn’t Just for Crisis with Elizabeth Earnshaw Feb 22, 2022

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Elizabeth Earnshaw (aka @lizlistens), Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, owner of A Better Life Therapy, and author of “I Want This to Work.” We discuss the different types of couples therapy, the most common issues couples face, how to ask your partner to go to couples therapy, and early signs of relationship success or failure. Liz gives us tips for starting hard conversations, fighting well, and building healthy relationships from the start.

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Unfiltered: Inside the Brain of Someone who Cheated Feb 17, 2022

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a man whose infidelity and the guilt surrounding it led to him and his wife getting divorced. We hear what his life was like before he cheated, why he decided to do it, how the truth came out, and what happened next. He shares how this impacted his self-worth and his personal relationships, and whether or not he’s been able to forgive himself and move forward. We discuss if the statement “Once a cheater, always a cheater” is true or false.

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The Love We Love with Fran Mariano Feb 14, 2022

I kick off this Valentine’s Day special by sharing tips for making the most out of the holiday if you’re single. At 10 minutes, I’m joined by Fran Mariano from Barstool’s Chicks in the Office to chat celebrity couples, on-screen romances, and public breakups. We share our favorite tv, movie and music couples, celebrity couples we admire, and couples we wish lasted. We discuss the pressure and stress of relationships in the spotlight, PR relationships, and how difficult it must be to continue working together after breaking up. Finally, Fran shares how she feels about having met her long-term boyfriend prior to her rise to fame at Barstool.

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Unfiltered: 37 and Single (and Happy) Feb 10, 2022

On today's episode, I sit down with Diana, a 37-year-old woman who is happily single. Diana opens up about growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness, how her views on marriage changed as she got older, and how she’s navigated different dating phases of her life. Diana shares how she’s learned to embrace singlehood, love herself, enjoy her timeline, and not let societal pressures force her to settle.

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Jealousy, Open Relationships and Intimacy with Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia Feb 08, 2022

On this episode, I’m joined by Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia. We hear about Candice’s rise to fame in the adult film industry and what her career taught her about intimacy and relationships. Candice shares how she and her now-husband navigated their open relationship, worked through moments of jealousy and made it work despite the unique challenges they faced. We discuss what it takes to have a healthy open relationship, why you shouldn’t feel jealous that your partner enjoys porn, and how to communicate with a new partner about what you want in your sex life.

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Unfiltered: The 27 Year Old Virgin Feb 03, 2022

In this episode, I'm joined by a 27-year-old woman who has never had sex before. We hear about why she’s never had sex, what it’s like to date as a virgin, how dates react when she tells them about it, how others judge her and how she judges her self because of it. She shares her fears around losing her virginity and how our sex-obsessed culture causes her to feel isolated.

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What Nobody Tells You About Moving In Together with Jen Lauren Feb 01, 2022

On this episode I’m joined by Jen Lauren, host of Dare to Self Care. We discuss the importance of balancing your relationship and friendships, maintaining your independence and sense of self throughout your relationship, and continuing to practice self-care when you're in a relationship. Jen shares how she and her boyfriend went from “high school sweethearts” to serious partners in the real world, how they’ve changed as individuals and as partners over the course of their 10 year relationship, and the realities of moving in with your significant other.

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Unfiltered: When Vaccines Destroy Love with Aliana Michals Jan 27, 2022

On todays episode, I sit down with Aliana Michals who shares her story of how her happy and healthy relationship was directly affected by the national dialogue surrounding the pandemic, vaccine efficacy and hesitancy. Aliana’s upcoming poetry collection, In Defense of Science, is a direct reflection on her how despite how in love she and her partner were, they ultimately chose their values over each other, in the end, they were better off for it.

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You’re Not Dating a Mind Reader with The Latke Room Boys Jan 25, 2022

On this episode, I’m joined by Jonny Lazarus and Justin Kapelmaster from The Latke Room. We discuss why your date or partner probably doesn’t know what you’re thinking, what an Instagram story view really means, how to slide into the DMs, why gender roles shouldn’t matter but social cues should, and why some people think they have to prioritize their career over their relationships. We answer listener emails about being ghosted after dating for four months and being unsure whether or not to close the door on a situationship.

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Unfiltered: Dating on the Spectrum Jan 20, 2022

On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers Syndrome. He shares what having Aspergers is like, how it does and doesn’t impact his daily life and relationships, and what common misconceptions are of those with this disability. We hear about what his relationship was like, how the breakup unfolded, and how painful it is to be discriminated against because of a disability.

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Dating is Hard for Him, Too with Dating by Blaine Jan 18, 2022

On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine, who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern dating, ways men are misunderstood in dating, and how Blaine ended up helping men with their dating lives. Blaine shares tips for dating apps profiles, approaching a woman IRL, sliding into her DMs, and texting etiquette. We answer listener questions about exclusivity, having needs vs. being needy, burnout, and sifting through matches.

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Unfiltered: We Aren’t Born Knowing How to Date Jan 13, 2022

On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs. what they were actually like, how it felt to learn about dating with a group of strangers, what what surprised them and challenged them throughout the process, what they learned from Logan, what they learned from each other, and how their dating lives are going now that they've completed the course.

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Date Smarter with Logan Ury Jan 11, 2022

On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everything. Logan shares her advice for people who feel like they’ve tried everything, but it’s just not working out for them.

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Unfiltered: Your Trauma Makes You Stronger with Zoe Scurletis Jan 06, 2022

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide, and spiraling into depression. We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing, why The Bachelor franchise is wrongfully encouraging trauma bonding, and more.

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Being Better Daters & Partners in 2022 with Mia and Carleigh Jan 04, 2022

In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embracing singlehood and navigating dating burnout. Finally, we discuss how we stay mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating life and relationships.

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Unfiltered (Ilana's Version) Dec 28, 2021

On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaways and dating lessons from all of this year’s expert and Unfiltered guests.

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Unfiltered: A Hopeless but Hopeful Romantic Dec 23, 2021

On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more.

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2021: Looking Back and Moving Forward with Katie and Vic Dec 21, 2021

I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021.

We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dating trends that have consumed our year. Finally, we discuss how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, and what we think we’ll see in 2022.

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Unfiltered: Breakthroughs from a Breakup Dec 16, 2021

This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts.

On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what his recovery journey has been like, including seeking therapy and psychiatry for the first time, experimenting with different mental health professionals to find the right one, contacting the suicide hotline, creating a routine, discovering new hobbies and passions, and more.

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What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like with Jamie & Taylor Dec 14, 2021

Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how they ask for space when they need it, and how they have learned to communicate effectively.

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Unfiltered: The Psychological Impact of Getting Ghosted Dec 09, 2021

On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience changed her for the better.

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Anatomy of a Gentleman with Levon The Gent Dec 07, 2021

This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them), why genders react to breakups differently, why men seem to be afraid of commitment, and more.

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Unfiltered: Don't Blame The Other Woman Dec 02, 2021

On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should let someone know if you know they’re being cheated on, and more.

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Does "The One" Exist? Closure, Dealbreakers, and more with Erica & Molly Nov 30, 2021

I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more.

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Dating While Grieving with Krista St. Germain Nov 23, 2021

Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner, keeping their memory alive while moving on, rediscovering yourself, learning your triggers, and more.

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OCDating with Lindsay and Emily Stetzer Nov 18, 2021

Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affect their daily lives. They open up about how their OCD has impacted their past relationships and their current dating lives, as well as the tools they have learned to not let their mental health hold them back. Follow @presentlybracelets and treat yourself or a friend to an anxiety-soothing bracelet from Presently this holiday season at presentlybracelets.com Use code "seeingotherpeople" for 20% off your purchase.

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Learn About Divorce Before Getting Married with Kate Anthony Nov 16, 2021

Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce and more. Nobody goes into a relationship or marriage planning on getting divorced, which is why this episode is a must-listen even if you’re single or in the beginning stages of a relationship.

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Unfiltered: Even Therapists Get Their Hearts Broken Nov 11, 2021

On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggles being vulnerable and more.

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Bridesmaid for Hire & Surviving Weddings Single with Jen Glantz Nov 09, 2021

On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our bride and groom friends, if/when we should offer our opinions on their wedding planning, common mistakes people make when it comes to wedding planning, and more. She shares her own love story and gives us an inside look at wedding horror stories, love stories, and everything in between that she has witnessed since she founded Bridesmaid For Hire.

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Unfiltered: Stop Lying to Yourself Nov 04, 2021

On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells us what it was like finding this out, how she reacted to it, and how it impacted her dating life for years to come. We discuss wanting to change people, not having our needs met in situationships, and lying to ourselves about what kind of relationships we’re really ready for.

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Owning Your Timeline with Laura Behnke Nov 02, 2021

Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning television journalist, Laura still couldn’t help but feel like she was “behind” as she was in her 30s and had never been in a relationship. We discuss how to stop worrying about where you “should” be in your life, how to not feel like there’s something wrong with you for being single for a long period of time, what to say when someone asks why you’ve never been in a relationship, how friendships change as people’s lives go down different paths at different times, what to say to your friend who has never been in a relationship or feels left behind, and more.

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Unfiltered: On Again, Off Again Oct 28, 2021

On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college.

We hear about the highs and lows of the relationship, the pressure he faced from his peers as a college athlete to have a get girls mentality, the breakups, the makeups, cheating, anxiety and more. Romeo explains how he overcame his heartbreak and worked through all of these things in order to end up in the healthy relationship that he is now in.

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Overcoming Dating Anxiety with Kevin Nahai Oct 26, 2021

On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy relationship. We dive into the ins and outs of dating anxiety including: how to know if your anxiety is coming from you or from them, how to stop attracting unhealthy partners, how to not get anxious when someone doesn’t text back, why you should focus on whether or not you like them, why you should make sure your values align, when and how to share your anxieties with a new potential partner, and more.

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Unfiltered: I Flew to NY for a First Date Oct 21, 2021

On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched with on bumble a few months earlier. We hear what their conversations were like leading up to the trip, what happened when she finally got there, and how everything was not at all what she thought it was going to be like.

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Work Hard, Sleep Hard, Date Hard with Zac and Jordan Stenmark Oct 19, 2021

On this episode I’m joined by Jordan and Zac Stenmark, twins, international models and entrepreneurs. We discuss their dating and relationship experiences as twins, world travelers, and businessmen. We hear about Dreamers, the company they founded to help people sleep better and stay mentally healthy so we can be our best selves in work, dating, and daily life. They share their personal dating struggles and hilarious date fails, and we discuss how looks, success and fame don’t actually lead to an easier dating life.

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Unfiltered: Little People Big Hearts Oct 14, 2021

On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I talk to Jillian about dating as a little person. She shares what it’s like to live and date in a world that’s not designed for you. We discuss dating apps, common misconceptions, what she wishes people knew, and more. Jillian hosts a podcast called Always Looking Up – check it out if you want to hear honest and real stories about being a little person in an average-sized world.

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Healthy Communication 101 with David Sauvage Oct 12, 2021

David Sauvage is an empath, an expert on empathy, and a teacher of empathy and emotional intelligence. He joins us today to help us learn how to communicate more honestly, openly, and empathetically. We discuss healthy vs. unhealthy communication, how to learn healthy communication if you did not grow up witnessing it, how to encourage your partner to communicate in a healthier way, the process of shifting the way you communicate, how to be more open and honest in an empathetic way, why men are more reserved with their feelings, and more. Learn more about David and his work at empath.nyc.

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Unfiltered: Dating with an Eating Disorder Oct 07, 2021

TW: Eating disorder thoughts and behaviors.

On today’s episode I sit down with Sam, a woman who is in recovery from her eating disorder. She shares how her eating disorder impacted her dating life prior to seeking treatment and how she’s been navigating it while in recovery.

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Career & Love: You Can Have Both with Sami Wunder Oct 05, 2021

Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Sami joins us to discuss breaking toxic relationship patterns, how to identify why you’re still single, why rotational dating might be the key to finding love, making time for dating, having both career and relationship success, and more.

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"Right Person, Wrong Time" Sep 30, 2021

On today's Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a 28-year-old guy from New York City named Sam. Sam walks us through his complicated relationship with Taylor that began right before covid started, resulting in an unexpected Long distance relationship. Sam shares the struggles that he and Taylor faced including lack of communication, internal mental health issues, external pressures, family members adding their opinions in, and breaking up and getting back together multiple times.

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Chronically Single with Gigi Robinson Sep 28, 2021

Gigi Robinson, Gen Z thought leader, chronic illness and mental health advocate, and the host of Spotify Greenroom's "Everything You Need Is Within" joins the show today. We discuss how social media makes us feel more single and isolated than we are, what it feels to not have gone on a date since 2019, dating during covid when you are immune compromised, how quarantine impacted friendships, navigating dating when you are chronically ill, and why you shouldn’t making snap judgments about potential dates based on their social media.

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What The F*ck’s Up With Cheating? with Caitlin Kelley Sep 21, 2021

Caitlin Kelley, host of What The Fuck’s Up podcast, joins us for a deep dive into all things cheating. We analyze your responses to a series of cheating-focused IG story question boxes and polls, and discuss why people cheat, if they get caught if they come clean, the long term impacts of cheating and being cheated on, and how cheaters feel in the moment.

Caitlin shares her own story of being cheated on, why she initially chose to give him the benefit of the doubt, and what finally pushed her over the edge and caused her to end it for good. Finally, we debate the age old question, “Once a cheater, always a cheater?”

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'My Vagina Says, 'Do Not Enter'" Sep 16, 2021

UNFILTERED: In this episode, I sit down with a woman who shares a story about being diagnosed with vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition in which the vaginal muscles contract involuntarily during any form of vaginal penetration. Depending on the woman, the effects of vaginismus can vary from mild discomfort to severe pain. She shares what it was like to receive her diagnosis and how it’s impacted her dating life and daily life ever since.

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abcdefu with Gayle Sep 14, 2021

Artist and songwriter Gayle joins the show today to talk about what it’s like transforming her dating experiences into music and lyrics. We talk about the breakup that led to her new single "abcdefu," what it’s like putting her raw emotions out there for the world to hear, turning heartbreak into music, dating within the industry, writing revenge songs, the fear of never being good enough, and more.

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"My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience" Sep 09, 2021

TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault.

On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a nonconsensual sexual experience when she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened in the moment, and how it’s impacted her longterm. We discuss guilt, trust, consent, communication, safe dating and more.

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See Them vs. See Other People with Tinah Ogalo Sep 07, 2021

Tinah (with an H) Ogalo, host of the In Your Twentys podcast, joins us today for a deep dive into the most controversial and shocking poll results from the @seeingotherpeople Instagram Story that you’ve all been voting on. Get ready to hear about politics, cheating, family involvement, social media stalking, commitment issues, exclusivity and more.

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Unfiltered: How Body Image Insecurities Impact His Dating Life Sep 02, 2021

TW: the following content may be sensitive for those with an eating disorder.

On today’s episode, we hear from a 25 year old male who has struggled with body image issues and an eating disorder. He shares what it’s been like to date and use dating apps when you aren’t comfortable in your own skin.

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Don’t Let Past Relationships Impact Future Ones with Dr. Abby Medcalf Aug 31, 2021

Today we’re joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author of "Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing Kindle" and host of the "Relationships Made Easy" podcast. We’re sitting down to discuss everything that you need to know about moving on, leaving the past in the past and not letting previous dating and relationship experiences impact present and future ones. Abby walks us through getting closure with yourself, learning how to live in the moment and not in the past, having high standards and low expectations, learning to trust yourself, setting boundaries, and more.

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"His Parents Didn't Accept Me" Aug 26, 2021

On today’s Unfiltered episode, Ilana sits down with Daniela, a 27 year old female living in Toronto, Canada. Daniela shares the story of the breakup she went through due to her partner's parents not supporting their relationship because of factors including her ethnicity, immigration status, age, career, and appearance. We discuss how this impacted her relationship, her self worth, and her values when it comes to dating and searching for a life partner.

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Long Distance Survival Guide with Jamie and Max Aug 24, 2021

LDR (Long Distance Relationship) survivors Jamie and Max walk us through the highs and lows of the four-year long distance span of their relationship. We discuss their decision to pursue a long-distance relationship during college, how they involved each other in their lives from afar, what visiting each other was like, how important it was to trust one another and practice straightforward communication, the shift that occurred when Max graduated and was starting his career in NYC during Jamie’s senior year of college, what aspects of their LDR made their now in-person relationship stronger, how their LDR helped shape them into the independent and self-sufficient people that they are today, and more.

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"Get Knocked Down 2 Times, Get Back Up 3" Aug 19, 2021

Ilana sits down with a 28 heterosexual woman who currently lives in New York. She opens up about her first dating app experiences in 2019, which included somebody who ghosted her out of nowhere followed by a situation that had a tremendous negative impact on her mental and physical health. We discuss how she overcame these traumatizing experiences in order to get back out there and end up in a healthy relationship.

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Everything You’re Doing Wrong In Dating with Damona Hoffman Aug 17, 2021

Damona Hoffman is the Host of the podcast Dates & Mates, the official Dating Coach for OkCupid, a Love Expert on The Drew Barrymore Show, an Advice Columnist and more. Damona joins us to discuss the way dating has changed overtime, how we give dating apps too much power, why having a phone call before a date can be a game changer, what exclusivity really means and how to know if you’re exclusive with someone, and what happens if you actually express what you want.

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"I Called Off My Engagement" Aug 12, 2021

Ilana sits down with a 32-year-old who called off her marriage just two months before the wedding. We hear what led to this decision, how she went about ending the engagement, what she’s learned from this experience, and what advice she has for anyone who is going through something similar or questioning whether or not their relationship is built to last.

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Let’s Get Confident with Serena Kerrigan Aug 10, 2021

Serena Kerrigan, the Queen of Confidence and the creator of the show and card game Let’s F*cking Date and the new card game Let’s F*cking F*ck, joins us today to give us the scoop on how we can be more confident in our dating lives. We chat about how to portray yourself on dating apps, why texting isn’t real and you should get to the date before stalking and talking too much, whether or not they always come back, how it’s tough to see an ex move on, prioritizing work and relationships at the same time, getting back out there after heartbreak, and why you need to talk to yourself the way you would talk to your best friend.

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"Am I Into Women, Too?" Aug 05, 2021

A 27-year-old woman takes over the Unfiltered mic to share her experience exploring her sexuality and coming out as bisexual.

She explains what led to this exploration, what her first dating experience with a woman was like, and how she came out to the people in her life.

Anonymous opens up about the ups and downs of dating each gender, why dating apps don’t make bisexual dating easy, common misconceptions of bisexuality, and advice she has for anyone else who is considering exploring their sexuality.

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Seeing Each Other with Ilana & Jake Aug 03, 2021

Backed by popular demand, Ilana’s boyfriend Jake is joining the show for a tell-all about their relationship. Ilana and Jake open up about how everything unfolded, starting with their Hinge meet-cute where Ilana didn’t respond, and followed by a “just fine” first date where the sparks were MIA.

They share how things progressed, why Ilana wasn’t anxious for the first time, and when and how they became official. We also hear their first fight go down as they debate some of these details.

Ilana and Jake answer listener questions about pre-date nerves, timing, communication, what it’s like dating a "dating expert," how long it took to feel comfortable with each other, what Jake likes and doesn’t like about Ilana and more. Jake closes out the episode by begging you to please support his girlfriend by following @seeingotherpeople on IG, signing up for the Patreon, leaving 5-star reviews, and sending the podcast to your friends.

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"It’s Not Your Fault You’re Single" Jul 29, 2021

On this episode of Unfiltered I sit down with Austin (30M) who lives in Australia. When Austin was 15, he met someone who he ended up dating and marrying when he was 21. By the time he was 25, they got divorced, leaving him to enter the dating world for the first time as a single divorcee. He shares why his childhood experiences made him value love and relationships, and how his journey to really finding his person has been very difficult. We discuss what it was like for him to tell people that he was divorced, and we hear about the similarities and differences between dating in the US and dating in Australia.

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DTR, Communication and Commitment with Shaun Galanos @TheLoveDrive Jul 27, 2021

Love, Communication and Intimacy Coach Shaun Galanos aka @thelovedrive joins us on Seeing Other People to share his expertise on how to be a better communicator, and all things DTR (defining the relationship). We discuss how to practice vulnerability and learn how to openly communicate, why you should explore the edges of your comfort zone, what to disclose and what not to disclose prior to meeting someone, how to navigate you or your date having a fear of commitment, what to do when someone says they’re not looking for something serious, when and how to have the DTR convo, what to do if they’re not on the same page, and more. We close out the episode by answering listener questions.

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"He Gave Me an STI" Jul 22, 2021

On this Unfiltered episode we’re joined by a 26 year old female who was diagnosed with herpes. She shares what it was like receiving her diagnosis, communicating it to the person who transmitted it to her and what it’s been like to date with herpes. We hear how her diagnosis impacted her mental health and self worth and she walks us through the steps she took to get herself back to a good place. We learn about the common misconceptions about herpes, the resources that are available for those who find out they have herpes and how we can better communicate about sexually transmitted infections in order to reduce the stigma.

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Confessions of an Ex Fckboy Jul 20, 2021

Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a fuckboy bro-y culture (including being his fraternity’s social chair, promoting parties, and working for a nightlife startup), he turned a corner and began to learn that human connection and vulnerability was more valuable and fulfilling than partying and sex. Andrew walks us through what sparked his transformation, including taking a break from alcohol and dating while spending time in India, his move to the San Francisco Bay Area which allowed him to explore the spectrums of sex, gender, identity, etc., studying attachment styles, spirituality, and researching how childhood and ancestral trauma prevent us from showing up fully in life, and are often present major challenges in relationships of all types.

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"Guys Get Anxiety, Too" Jul 15, 2021

On this Unfiltered episode, we’re joined by a 26-year-old straight male in the New York City area to hear about his recent relationship that led him to experience anxiety the first time in his life. He shares what caused the anxiety – including the red flags that he ignored, what it felt like, and how he seeks out help by communicating to friends and family and starting therapy.

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What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma Jul 13, 2021

Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs when Grandma Gail was searching for love. We talk about how dating has changed over time, when and how “dating” began, social media’s role in dating, the ability to stalk a potential date or an ex, having too many options, the most surprising things about dating in the 50s and dating now, and more.

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Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss Jul 08, 2021

On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She shares what it’s like to communicate her loss to a date, what people’s reactions have been, and how each individual has their own personal preference on the grieving process and on how and when to have these conversations with a potential partner. Caroline and I discuss how people can have more thoughtful and empathetic conversations surrounding loss and grief in order to destigmatize and reduce the overall awkwardness.

Follow along on Instagram @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn.

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Double Dating with Fourplay Social Jul 06, 2021

Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about why the duo decided to create a new dating app, the benefits of double dating are, how you can be a good wing-person for your single friends, and how to make dating fun when you feel burnt out. We also discuss why first dates shouldn’t be longer than an hour, how important the little things in dating are.

Follow @fourplaysocial, visit Fourplay Social’s website at https://www.fourplaysocial.com/

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Unfiltered: 27 Years Single Jul 01, 2021

Twenty-seven year old NYC resident, listener and friend Helena joins the Unfiltered family today to discuss the challenges of dating when you’ve never been in a relationship before. She opens up about the pressure she feels from her family, society, and herself to find love. Helena shares what she feels like she’s missing out on, how she discusses her “relationship history” with potential partners, and what her fears are for the future.

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The Age of Loneliness with Smiley Poswolsky Jun 29, 2021

Smiley Poswolsky, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness, joins Ilana on Seeing Other People to discuss human connection in today’s society and culture. Smiley shares his research and knowledge on opening your world up to new people, digging deeper with the people that you know, using technology to foster more meaningful connections, and more. He gives advice on maintaining friendships when you or a friend gets into a new relationship, what to do when your friend’s new significant other is bringing them down, and how to be a good friend to someone going through heartbreak or a difficult time.

Follow Smiley @whatsupsmiley, visit Smiley’s website at https://smileyposwolsky.com/ and head to Amazon to buy the book!

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Unfiltered: I Left the Church to Save Myself Jun 24, 2021

On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by a 24-year-old female who has been grappling with religious sexual shame while trying to date. From a young age, she was taught that dating and sexual experiences were for marriage only. She has spent years reflecting on her religious upbringing and is now committed to starting over and dictating her own values as she beings to explore how she feels about casual dating, relationships, and the entire world of modern dating.

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50 Dates in 50 States with Matthew Wurnig Jun 22, 2021

Ilana sits down with Matthew Wurnig, the creator and dater behind 50 Dates in 50 States. Matthew shares how he got the idea to do a date in every state during the pandemic, first virtually, and then IRL. We discuss what it’s like meeting and dating people from all different backgrounds, how the place you grow up can impact your dating life, and how dating culture differs from state to state. We also learn what Matthew has learned about himself and about human connection throughout his journey.

Check out Matthew’s journey on tiktok @50datesin50states and on IG @matthewwurnig.

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Unfiltered: Feeling Broken After a Breakup Jun 15, 2021

Real people. Real stories. Real life. Anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Topics to expect include dating after experiencing loss, STIs, eating disorders, abortions, mental health, trauma and more. No matter what you’re going through, you’re not alone. This is Seeing Other People UNFILTERED. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.

On the first episode of UNFILTERED, Ilana is joined by Anonymous who is currently struggling to get over her ex after a difficult breakup. We hear about the events that unfolded leading to the breakup, how she feels addicted to checking his social media, and why we often stay in unhealthy relationships even when we know we deserve more.

7:18 How Ilana and our Anonymous guest met

10:36 A letter from Anonymous to her ex

20:08 The relationship – what went down?

36:30 Walking away isn't easy

38:56 Ilana shares her breakup story

44:53 Feeling unworthy of the person you’re with

48:02 How Ilana and Anonymous have been working together

54:01 What you’re mourning with heartbreak

1:00:09 Regrets

1:06:38 Listener questions

Have a story you want to share on UNFILTERED? Email us at seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com.

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Learning to Love Your Single Self with Sarah Sasson Jun 08, 2021

On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah discuss overcoming the loneliness that comes with singlehood, how to make the most of being the only single one in the friend group, and why the more you know yourself the harder (but more rewarding) dating can be.

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We're Breaking Up Jun 03, 2021

On this special episode of Seeing Other People, we’re parting ways with one of our beloved hosts. We’re bad at goodbyes, but we did our best. Plus, it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later (worldwide…on a big screen…or a small screen…lots of screens…ok just listen). Tune in to hear the breaking news.

Follow along and keep in touch www.instagram.com/jonahfeingold and make sure to check out Jonah’s new film Dating and New York!

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When Should You Start Being Vulnerable? Jun 01, 2021

We’re diving into the ins and outs of being vulnerable in your dating life. When do you start opening up and being vulnerable? How can you be vulnerable without putting yourself at risk of oversharing? If someone’s not opening up to you, how can you encourage them to? What do you do if you feel closed off and afraid to be vulnerable after a heartbreak? Later in the episode, we practice vulnerability by playing the We’re Not Really Strangers card game and learn more about each other and ourselves in the process.

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Dating Coworkers, Trying Again With Exes, Physical Attraction & More. Full Q&A Episode! May 25, 2021

We’re back with another full Q&A episode! How can you close the door on someone once and for all? How many dates in should you delete your dating apps? How do you tell your ex you want to give it another chance? How should you handle a crush on a coworker? What if you don't feel physically attracted to someone? All of this and more.

DM us your questions @seeingotherpeople on IG or email us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com.

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Should a First Date be Drinks or Dinner? with Jeremy Jacobowitz May 18, 2021

Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is okay to order on a first date? How to maintain the same drinking speed as your partner - and more in this hilarious episode that pokes fun and brings awareness to the nuances of modern dating. The episode wraps with some listener questions

p.s. Jonah apologizes that his mic was turned off and his sound is a bit reverb-y.

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Me in Search of You with Jenna Langbaum May 11, 2021

Jenna Langbaum, author of “Me in Search of You,” joins us on this episode of Seeing Other People. Jenna’s writing beautifully dissects the nuances of modern dating, ghosting, and dating apps and helps to remind us that we’re not alone in what we’re facing, as we’re all connected by shared dating struggles. We discuss how the concept of ghosting is actually insane and how painful and confusing getting ghosted can really be. We explore how dating apps have led us to consider potential partners based on their basic credentials. We debate if dating is really just a numbers game. Finally, Jenna helps us answer listener questions about whether or not to text a guy after meeting at a party and spending the night, what to do when your friend’s SO is toxic, and how to navigate simply not liking your friend’s partner.

“Me in Search of You” is available everywhere books are sold. Follow Jenna @jennalangbaum for more!

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It's Complicated: Situationships with Finding Mr. Height May 04, 2021

Situationships? More like situationshits. We’re diving into the ins and outs of situationships with Ali and Roark of Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast. What exactly is a situationship and how do you know if you’re in one? Can you turn a situationship into a relationship? How do you know when it’s time to leave? We’re discussing all of this, answering listener questions, and so much more.

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What Not to Talk About on a First Date with Alexis AKA NYC Date Nite Apr 28, 2021

We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date in over a year, to determining what the best and worst types of places to go on a first date are, we’re covering all of the bases for you to shoot your shot at love (after getting that #vax shot).

-How to choose a first date spot

-What not to talk about on your date

-Why you shouldn’t have a regular “first date spot”

-What to do if you’re not yet comfortable with indoor dining

-How to tell someone you don’t want to go to the place they suggested

-What to do if you think you’re getting ghosted

-Bachelor & Bachelorette of the week

Follow Alexis at @nycdatenite and check out her website www.nycdatenite.com.

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So You Think You Can Date? with Sandro D'Abruzzo Apr 22, 2021

We chat with Sandro D’Abruzzo, author of “So You Think You Can Date?” We hear what led Sandro to write about how to find success in dating and his experiences dating around the world. We discuss the importance of being yourself from the start in any dating situation, and get into the nitty gritty of how to actually practice being yourself. Sandro shares what the process of writing his book was like, and we dive into topics like spontaneity, self perception, and whether or not guys are complicated or overly simple.

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Should We Give Second Chances? Full Q&A Episode Apr 20, 2021

We love when you ask us questions, so we're taking up a whole episode to answer as many of them as we can! We're answering questions including:

Do people deserve second chances?

How soon is too soon to have sex?

If we didn't kiss on the first date, is it doomed?

How do I ask someone to put effort into planning dates?

Why do people lose interest?

Do guys still ask to be official?

Plus long distance, pandemicships, DTR, and more!

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Dating with Chronic Illness with Noa Porten Apr 15, 2021

Today's guest is Noa Porten who hosts the Spooning with Spoonies podcast where she chats about dating and relationships with experts, singles, and couples from the chronic illness community. We learn how chronic illness can impact someone’s dating life and daily life, and how tools like setting boundaries and practicing open communication are crucial in the search for a lasting romantic partnership. For those who are chronically ill, Noa shares advice on how and when to comfortably communicate information about your chronic illness to someone you’re seeing. For listeners who do not have a chronic illness, we learn more about what it means to have chronic illness and how we can best support someone if and when they inform us of theirs.

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How To Be a Good Texter Apr 13, 2021

The episode you probably knew you needed is finally here. Are your texting habits holding you back from finding what you’re looking for? Are they not into you if they don’t text you back right away? Can it work if you’re a “bad” texter? Are you rightfully stressing over your crush’s response time or are you expecting too much? Does lack of texting mean the relationship is doomed before it even started? We’re breaking down everything about texting when it comes to dating so you can have the tools to text for success. Towards the end of the episode, we shift gears and answer your questions about paying for dating apps, when is the right time to make things official, and how to ask friends and family to set you up with people without coming off as desperate.

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Wedding Szn Survival Guide with Nicole Pellegrino Apr 08, 2021

Nicole Pellegrino, cohost of the Betches Brides podcast joins us to prep you all for this year’s wedding season. Nicole spills the secrets to what has kept her eight-year relationship going strong, how we can work towards keeping that relationship (once we all find it). She shares the importance of enjoying your independence when you’re single and carrying that independence with you into a relationship. Nicole gives us the scoop on what brides and grooms are doing to help their single friends out at weddings, and we discuss how we can all turn weddings into opportunities to spark your own love story by putting yourself out there to meet someone new at a wedding. Finally, we debate how soon is too soon to start planning your wedding. Hear more from Nicole on @betchesbrides and @nicolepellegrin0!

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Is Every App a Dating App? & Friends with Benefits Apr 06, 2021

Not having the best luck meeting people on dating apps? This episode is all about other ways you can put yourself out there and find love. Whether it be the comment section of a post on any platform, through TikTok (Jonah’s favorite dating app), sliding into the DMs, or finding love on Club Penguin (Ilana’s pick), it’s not all about dating apps. Our listeners chime in to tell us about their experiences meeting people via email, Instagram DM, and from a TikTok video. We discuss the right ways to approach people on all different platforms so you can set yourself up for success. Later, we change gears to meeting someone IRL– in an elevator to be specific, as we sit down with Ilana’s good friend and former FWB, Alex. Ilana and Alex share their story of their transition from friends, to friends with benefits, to a situationship that took them on a European "honeymoon," all the way to a potential relationship, and finally to a friendship-ruining spiral. We dive into the nuances of friends with benefits, whether or not it’s possible to go from FWB to a relationship, and if you can be FWB without ruining the friendship.

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Should All Dates End with a Rose Ceremony? with Ed Waisbrot Apr 01, 2021

We’re kicking off our Thursday episode series by catching up with Bachelor Nation’s Ed Weisbrot. We hear about Ed’s dating life since his time on Clare/Tayshia’s season and he shares how being on the show reinforced the importance of authenticity, vulnerability and communication. Ed talks about why he has chosen to stay off of dating apps, how he’s been meeting people IRL, and why Whole Foods is the best spot to find your soulmate. We discuss whether or not all dates should end with a rose ceremony, what the audience saw vs. what really went down throughout, and what really happened on that infamous night when he knocked on Chris Harrison's door. Finally, Ilana shoots her shot with Ed.

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Booty Call to Bride with Rishi Mathur Mar 30, 2021

We're joined by comedian Rishi Mather who kicks off the episode by sharing how he’s been navigating his parents’ disapproval of his engagement. We discuss how some couples stay together even while being unhappy because of what society would think of them if they split up, especially in Indian culture. Rishi tells us how he met his now fiancé on Tinder (we love a dating app success story!) and spent four days building up the courage to send that opening message. What started out as a booty call ended up slowly developing into a long-term situation ship, and after months of unpacking each other’s pasts and learning everything about each other, they finally made things official. We close the episode out with a few rounds of ‘Save The Date’ to determine how you can bounce back from date-ruining scenarios including screenshotting their text and accidentally sending it back to them, unexpectedly blurting out “I love you,” and the unfortunate but classic stomach-issues-at-their-place debacle.

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Coming Out at Twenty Seven Mar 23, 2021

New Yorker and friend of the show, Derek Lindsey, joins us today to share his experience coming out in his late twenties. Derek opens up about his fears about coming out and shares what finally pushed him to do so. We dive into the differences between straight and gay dating on dating apps as well as specific nuances of gay vs straight relationships. Derek gives his advice for anyone who might be struggling with their sexuality or debating whether or not to come out. Later, we discuss how Derek’s family and friends reacted to the news, and Derek provides his insight on what he wishes people knew about how to navigate that conversation with a friend or loved one who is coming out. Finally, we answer listener questions about the spark disappearing, how long you should wait for someone to be ready to date after getting out of a relationship, and how to choose between wanting something fun and wanting something longterm.

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Defining Dating with Jared Freid Mar 16, 2021

We’re hanging (socially distanced…of course) with Jared Freid on this episode of Seeing Other People! We kick things off with a friendly reminder that social media relationships aren’t what they seem. We chat about how communication is easier said than done, because we all have different definitions of what each step of the modern dating process means to us. Jared shares what he would do to fix modern dating if he was cupid. Later, we play a game of “Save The Date” where we dissect potential date fail scenarios and come up with game plans to help you save the date in the moment if this ever happens to you. Jared helps us answer listener questions including: what to do if you don’t like your friend’s girlfriend, why guys bring up future plans while on the first date, and how to slide into the DMs.

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Don't Bring Work Home with You Mar 09, 2021

We’re sitting down (virtually) with Jon and Rene Shapiro, husband and wife and founders Mixology and Mindset Wellness CBD. The Shapiros open up about the highs and lows of building a life, a family and a business together. They share how Rene supported Jon through his battle with anxiety and depression, how they struggled to separate not bringing work home with them, and why they decided to leave the fashion industry behind to build a CBD company together. Finally, we answer listener questions about what to do if you know someone might be cheating, how to navigate being stuck in the penpal zone, and whether or not you should let your new significant other know which friend(s) you have history with.

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We Have History with Francesca Beauman Mar 02, 2021

We're traveling back in time with Francesca Beauman, writer, historian, and the world’s leading expert in Personal Ads, to learn about how people “dated” throughout history. We discuss how we got to where we are in dating culture, and how society transitioned from arranged marriages and courting to the casual hookup culture of today’s modern dating world. We learn how advancements like transportation and technology impacted the way people date, and finally we chat about what dating might look like 100 years from now (and what people then think of how we dated in 2021.)

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An Unplanned Pregnancy Feb 23, 2021

"Get an abortion" was not on her college bucket list. She never thought she would have to call her parents and say, "I'm pregnant." Our guest opens up about her experience getting an abortion her senior year of college. She shares everything from moment she found out, to the aftermath and trauma she's dealt with as a result. We learn how her friends and family helped her get through it, and we hear about what was going through her mind as she made important decisions including not telling the guy she had been sleeping with that she was pregnant. Whether or not this has or will happen to you or someone you know, we encourage you to listen and learn with an open mind and an open heart.

For more information about pregnancy, birth control, women's health, and more, please visit www.plannedparenthood.com.

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How To Get Over Someone feat. Amy Chan of Renew Breakup Bootcamp Feb 16, 2021

We’re joined by Amy Chan, Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp -The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. In this episode, we learn how to navigate what happens in your brain and your body when you go through a breakup. We discuss what steps you should take if you’re struggling to get over someone, how to identify when you’re ready to get back out there, and why you shouldn’t spend your time in bed with chocolate, ice cream, wine and rom-coms. Finally, we chat about the importance of friendship in getting over someone and how you can support a friend who is going through a breakup.

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V****tine's Day Survival Guide Feb 11, 2021

Happy almost February 14th! AKA, the day that comes after February 13th and before February 15th. If this day makes you anxious, nervous, or sad, have no fear. We are here to walk you through being single AND happy on V****tine's Day. We chat about our past Feb 14th experiences, what to do and what not to do on the day, and we treat you to some hilarious listener-submitted date fails.

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Disagreeing with We Met at Acme Feb 09, 2021

We’re going head to head with Lindsey Metselaar, host of We Met at Acme, to debate some of the most common "rules" of dating, including girls shouldn't text first and whether or not you should send a "thank you" text after a date. We discuss what went down when we first met and went on a date back in 2019, and Lindsey gives us the low down on whether or not we're are astrologically compatible. Finally, Lindsey spills the tea on the time she crafted all of her friend's texts to a guy...for three months...

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Thirty, Flirty and Dating with Zahra Sahebzada Feb 02, 2021

Repeat after us: being thirty and single is OKAY. We're joined by Zahra Sahebzada who is here to discuss her experiences dating in New York City as an Afghan Muslim. Zahra breaks down what it's like to be the first in her family to not have an arranged marriage, how to not feel like there's something wrong with you if you haven't found your person by the age you hoped to, how stalking someone on social media before you get the chance to know them IRL can be misguiding, and more. We close out the episode by answering listener-submitted questions about intentions, communication, and at what point to give up hope on a conversation progressing. Follow @zahrasahebzada and @seeingotherpeople for more!

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The Dating App Episode Jan 26, 2021

Why am I not getting any matches? Why are my conversations not turning into dates? What is the deal with all of the fish photos? If you've ever asked yourself any of these questions, we promise you're not alone. This episode is the ultimate guide to setting yourself up for success on dating apps starting with choosing the right photos and prompt answers, to having productive conversations, and getting out on dates.

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What Guys Wish Girls Knew & What Girls Wish Guys Knew Jan 19, 2021

On this week's episode, we're sharing our listener's responses to what they wish the people they were dating knew. It's the tell-all that you didn't know you desperately needed to hear.

Ladies, buckle up and get ready to find out what the guys out there are begging you to realize. Gentleman, tune in to hear what the ladies are really thinking and what "it's fine" actually means!

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Anatomy of a F***boy with Dylan Farella Jan 12, 2021

We're breaking down what it really means to be a f**kperson with the help of @dfarella, everyone’s favorite internet boyfriend. What are a f******y's true intentions? What do you do if you start sending f******y behavior from someone you're interested in? Are f******y misunderstood? Is there a little f******y in all of us? We answer all of these questions, and more.

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We're Getting Back Together Jan 03, 2021

New year, new podcast! Hey guys, it’s Ilana and Jonah and we are back and better than ever! Today is Dating Sunday, the busiest online dating day of the year, and the perfect day to kick off Episode 1 of our brand new podcast, Seeing Other People. We’re catching up the status of our relationship, the current state of dating, what it’s been like to be single during quarantine, and SO MUCH MORE. Episodes will come out weekly on Tuesdays.

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