The EVRYMAN Podcast

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Episode: 091 All At Once Jul 30, 2019

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"I thought I had my shit together, and didn't think I needed more.. Then life happened and I decided to dive in fully."

This week's episode is a throwback to the beginning of EVRYMAN. Two years ago Founders Dan, Sasha, and Lucas sat down in upstate New York to dream up the future of men's work. EVRYMAN has since grown into a true movement that is helping men slow down, connect and move fully into the lives they want.

In This Episode:

Facing darkness when your a positive guy
Playing it safe vs dropping in deep
Facing your persona
Not needing to have your shit together
Men's Groups as a multiplier of life experience
Truly stepping into your power
Training to be able to show up in life fully
Healthy tension

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Episode: 090 The Arc of Resiliency Jul 11, 2019

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'It's never a good life when your operating out of fear, waiting for the next shoe to drop."

Our guest this week has lived an enormous amount of life in a short period of time. Gabriel Rao was thrust into fending for himself and his siblings at age twelve. He threw on a mask of survival and convinced those around him that things were fine when they were far from it. Gabriel is an amazing example of resiliency and he has used this gift to slowly open up and move from surviving to thriving.

Being stunted by survival
Having to parent out parents
The upside of adversity
Owning our story
Receiving love for our dark sides
Seeking control through work
The family we are brought up in and the family we create
The power of validation
Post traumatic growth
The courage of vulnerability

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Episode: 089 The Language of Gender Jul 04, 2019

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"What we don't talk about culturally is how afraid men are of each other."

This week's guest is Rocco Kayiatos. Rocco is a writer, performer and organizer. He released his first album under the moniker Katastrophe in 2004, becoming the first openly trans-man to release an LP. He is the founding editor of Original Plumbing magazine. The world's first trans-male quarterly print magazine. Rocco is also the founder of Camp Lost Boys, the first sleep away summer camp exclusively for adult men of trans experience.

In This Episode:

Leading with vulnerability
Being 'one of the guys'
Owning one's true self
The gifts of adversity
Celebrating the binary and everything in between
Bringing intension to maleness
The Good Man: it's about love and openness
Observation vs Control and Domination
Call outs vs Call ins

www.camplostboys.org

www.roccokayiatos.com

Episode: 088 The Unlived Life of the Parent Jun 28, 2019

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"If you can't get the emotions out, they just stay in there"

Our guest this week exemplifies what Evryman is all about. Luke Stutzman is a salt of the earth midwestern dude. He's a father. In the most beautiful way Luke is a regular-ass guy. He works out, he works hard, and he is asking deep questions of himself. Check out Luke's podcast: Unfamous podcast, https://apple.co/2LpMF3u

In this episode:

How to be truly strong
Showing emotion to our children
Feeling safe enough to break down
Joining the "everybody's got their own shit" club
The weight of repression
Feeling stuck
Regretting the past
Being comfortable with not knowing

Episode: 087 Homeless Spirituality Jun 20, 2019

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"Anything that feels unfamiliar to me, I protect myself from committing by telling myself that I can stay on the outside observing."

Our guest this week is yoga teacher and Ayurveda practitioner Marc Holzman. Marc recently brought his skills to our Open Source retreat in the Berkshires. Marc's openness leaps out straight away with the admission that he considered showing up to teach his practice and remain an observer. Luckily for us he dove in instead.

In this episode:

The importance of living an authentic life
The vitality and spark in finding your purpose
"Coming out" as a catalyst for full self-ownership
The deep need to contribute to something larger
Want to find your purpose? Try everything
The beauty of men when they drop the macho role
Just say the scary thing!
What your missing when your checked out
Being vs Doing
The duty to take care of yourself to be able to fully show up

marcholzman.com

Episode: 086 The Burden of Ungifted Love Jun 13, 2019

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"I have all of this to give but don't know where it goes. I don't have pipes big enough to flow it through."

Cherie Healey is back on the podcast. Cherie is a powerhouse and she's one of Evryman's most exciting allies. Cherie is a self described "Possibilitarian". She works with leaders in tech and entertainment to help them create workplaces that solve the world's biggest problems. Dan and Cherie sat down following a coed workshop in Tulum Mexico.

In this episode:

Bringing men and women together
Over complicating the relationship game
The power of just listening
The burden of ungifted love
Trusting that your love is ok
The consequences of being unseen
The truth behind the desire to fix others
Creating an epidemic of joy

http://cheriehealey.com

Episode: 085 Our Man In The Cave Jun 06, 2019

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"When you sign up for something big, your required to get bigger. The smallness gets exercised out of you."

Our very own Yoda, Owen Marcus is back with us on this episode of the Evryman podcast. Dan and Owen sat down at the foot of the Berkshire mountains in the barn Evryman calls home. This conversation follows a successful Open Source retreat and precedes the launch of Evryman's first Fundamentals Training program for facilitators. The love and excitement in this conversation is palpable. Owen brings the wisdom every time…

In this episode:

Relaxing stress held in the body
Connecting to the body is the missing piece
Finding a mission and purpose in life
The edge of emotional expression
Vulnerability and giving up control
Love courage and commitment
Finding true diversity in men's groups
Survival and distraction
Sensitivity without reactivity

https://owenmarcus.com

Episode: 084 Terrifying and Irresistible May 29, 2019

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"Fulfillment is working my edge. It doesn't feel easy, it's outside my comfort zone, it feels like I'm being asked to grow, to show up."

This week's guest is Tim Corcoran. Tim helps people who feel a deep connection to nature and want to really discover their place in the world. Those with a burning desire to live their vision and a willingness to work with resistance and fear. He believes that men can't settle down until they find their meaning and purpose.

In this episode:

The perceived narrow options of pursuing a life 'outdoors'
The low points as a catalyst to change
What to do when your current experience of life isn't working
The moment you realize people truly see you and they care
The power of being honoured
Being present in your body and senses
Investing in yourself so that you can give what's truly yours to the world

www.purposemountain.com

Episode: 083 Know Thyself May 16, 2019

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"Murder can be an attempt to eradicate pain by acting it out on someone else: "I hurt, so you must hurt too."

Our guest this week is Susan Olesek. Susan is the founder of the Enneagram Prison Project. Her life's work is freeing people from the prisons of their own making by helping them understand why they do what they do. As you'll hear in this episode Susan is fired up by pursuing peoples potential.

In this episode:

Creating presence to tolerate whats in front of us
Identifying motives behind behaviour: the why before the what
How committing murder can be an attempt to gain love
Why we can't change what we can't see
The critical role of proper attachment to our parents
Why being present requires safety
The freedom between stimulus and response

https://susanolesek.com

Episode 082: Reading to our boys Apr 25, 2019

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"If boys do not learn to read by the third grade, their whole future is an upward battle."

This week's guest is children's author Robert Gould. Robert is lit up by getting our boys engaged in reading. As a boy he learned to link reading with love while sitting on his grandfather's lap being read to. Recognizing the vitality and visual nature of young boys, he set out to create content that would engage young men, and to give them books they actually wanted to read.

In this episode:

Why Boys are not reading
Why its crucial that men read to their sons
Engaging boys with books they actually want to read
The visual nature of young men
Camouflage, toxic masculinity and political correctness
The need for male teachers

https://greatbooksforboys.com/

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