Your Turned on Desire

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56: Navigating Purity Culture & Sexuality With Shauna ShaktiMa Feb 20, 2024

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Purity culture had an impact on many of us. Purity culture was taught to many of us in varying degrees and seems to have began as a way to keep people from making harmful decisions around their sexuality, but instead led to many relationships and marriages starving from a lack of intimacy. My guest today tells us her story of being raised in a high demand religious upbringing and how the messages she absorbed impacted her and her then husband in harmful ways. She shares her story up until where she is today and the healing she went through and how she now helps people heal their wounds that were created by lies around sexuality. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Shauna ShaktiMa: * Instagram: @shaunashaktiMa https://www.instagram.com/shaunashaktima?igsh=MW84ZWNxdTVneWQ4dg== * Website: https://www.shaunashaktima.com/ * More of her offerings and services: https://linktr.ee/shaunashaktima?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=f7eb2e20-4924-495b-8552-b3e3a150cd55 Erotic blueprint quiz: https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/?_gl=1%2A1gqy4u8%2A_ga%2AMTQ2Mjk1MDMyNC4xNzA3NTIwNjkw%2A_ga_Y9LB6PMSWZ%2AMTcwNzUyMDY5MC4xLjEuMTcwNzUyMDcxNC4wLjAuMA.. If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

55: Relief From Trauma With Meleah Manning Feb 13, 2024

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Trauma in our intimate and sexual lives is complex and sometimes difficult to understand. Sometimes women experience a resistance in their sexual relationship and don’t realize that the resistance is because of trauma. In this conversation Jamee has with her guest Meleah Manning, we learn what trauma feels like in the body and easy things you can do TODAY to relieve yourself of the symptoms so you can start to enjoy your sex life instead of dread it. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Meleah: * Instagram: @Meleah_Manning www.instagram.com/meleah_manning/ * Website: www.sistersthatstray.com/rra * Free gift for listeners: Masterclass to Overcome Relationship Anxiety & Attract Ideal Partner https://radiantrelationship.org/case-study If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

54: 4 Remedies I Used to Overcome Struggles in the Bedroom Dec 30, 2023

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There are many remedies I used (and still use) to overcome intimacy challenges in the bedroom. In this episode I am sharing 4 of those remedies with you. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

53: Preferences in the Bedroom Dec 26, 2023

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Preferences in the bedroom are not that different from opinions and preferences outside the bedroom. For example, we tend to have an easier time accepting our partners different tastes in foods or if they use a top sheet or not, yet so many of us struggle with accepting preferences in the bedrooom when our partners opinions of our intimate lives are different than ours. In this episode we discuss what it looks like to have different ideas around our sex lives with our partners and what we can do to accept our differences and what it looks like to put this into action. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

52: When I’m Feeling Disconnected Nov 28, 2023

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*Repost of an old podcast episode from my old podcast* I have noticed that I am much more connected to my spouse than I sometimes perceive. Alot of people have the desire to be emotionally connected to their spouses before they share themselves sexually, but oftentimes aren’t sure how to emotionally connect or they are relying on their spouses to connect and feel helpless in the process. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

51: How I Stopped Fighting About Intimacy Nov 14, 2023

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I have learned that to stop fighting about all forms of intimacy in my marriage that I didn’t need a system that helped me avoid breakdowns. What I needed was a system that helped me have more breakthroughs. Breakdowns were not a sign that something was wrong. A lack of breakthroughs was the sign that something was off for us. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

50: A Spicy Love Life in Midlife: Tips For Married Couples Nov 07, 2023

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In this episode we are going to talk about what I’ve learned about sex during perimenopause and then post menopause. For a lot of people this happens after age 50. But some people hit menopause before 50. I’ve had clients ages 19-75. And because I’ve helped many women who are going through the changes that happen after 40 years old I wanted to share what has worked for many of these people. And I myself am currently struggling through perimenopause, so I have my own experiences to share for you to learn from. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us. Dr Mary Claire MD Her IG account https://instagram.com/drmaryclaire?igshid=bm5iNjQycnY2bnA4

49: Four Ways I Ruined Love-Making Oct 31, 2023

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There are many ways in which I ruined my sex life. But in this episode we navigate four of them so that it’s easier for others to understand and start taking action to improve what they can. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

48: Making My Intimate Life Happy Oct 24, 2023

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It wasn’t easy, but the rewards of making my sex life happy were worth it. I took a look at the most common reasons people (me included) were using to have an unhappy sex life and I challenged those ideas. I noticed that people who had happy and peaceful sex lives didn’t have convenient reasons or excuses for not having sex. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

47: When I Realized I was Part of the Problem Oct 17, 2023

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Was it partly my husbands fault that we were struggling in our sex life? Yes. Was it my job to solve the problem? Yes. Because thinking that this was my husbands problem or even OUR problem to solve kept me stuck in blame and kept us both stuck in our problems. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

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