Your Turned on Desire

73: Be More Selfish (as a spiritual practice) With Guests Britt Hartley and Corrie Woods Oct 27, 2024

Are spirituality and sexuality connected?

Is spirituality different for women than men? Has religion done a disservice to women when it comes to their overall wellbeing and their sex lives? We discuss these questions and more in this episode with Jamee and her guests Britt Hartley and Corrie Woods.

Connect with Britt Hartley:

Nononsensespirituality.com

Britt’s YouTube channel

No Nonsense Spirituality | Britt Hartley - YouTube

Corrie Woods:

https://www.facebook.com/share/1R484GmeTF/?mibextid=LQQJ4d

Details about private coaching with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

72: Navigating His Reactions to Sexual Rejection Oct 16, 2024

You saying “No” to sex is not the problem. His responses to your “no” are the problem.

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

71: Should I Keep Insisting for Emotional Connection or Give Up the Quest? Oct 08, 2024

It’s time we put an end to the idea that men need sexual connection before they can connect emotionally and start prioritizing emotional connection first always. Why? Because it’s what women are saying they need before they happily have sex with their husbands and we need to listen to them.

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

70: Stop Trying to Control Women’s Clothing Choices (and other things modesty isn’t) Oct 01, 2024

Does the way religion teach women about modesty cause more harm than good? We are going to discuss this idea with a guest named Buck. He is a Christian, a father and a husband and he noticed the harm that had been done on women and men with the emphasis that religion had placed on modesty so he and his wife decided to teach their children differently than the rhetoric that was being used inside their religion.

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

69: Why New Positions and Giving In to Sex Are Not the Answers to Improving Your Intimate Life Sep 24, 2024

Lots of people think that in order to make their intimate lives better in their marriages that they need books on better positions and they need to just keep giving into sex until they like it better. Almost like sex can be approached the same we approach exercise. Luckily, this isn’t the case. Lets talk about the 4 things we can focus instead that actually change our intimate lives for the better in this episode.

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

68: Beyond Attraction: Unpacking Power, Rejection, and Intimacy in Marital Sex Sep 03, 2024

Sex isn’t just about attraction and desire in marriage. Sex is a mixture of playing with power dynamics, avoiding rejection, and learning what true intimacy is. We are unpacking some of this in this episode. And it’s a good thing to unpack this because wouldn’t it be great to be able to enjoy a fun fulfilling sex life?

Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching program.

Article by Celeste Davis: The Men Who Like Women and The Men Who Don’t. Yes We Can Tell.

https://open.substack.com/pub/celestemdavis/p/men-who-like-women?r=1tvcj9&utm_medium=ios

Article by Celeste Davis: Can Men and Women Really Be Just Friends? God I Hope So.

https://open.substack.com/pub/celestemdavis/p/can-men-and-women-be-friends?r=1tvcj9&utm_medium=ios

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

67: “I am too tired” Is Not An Excuse. It’s Real. Aug 30, 2024

Women are too tired to have sex with their husbands because they are the kind of tired that husbands can’t possibly understand or imagine. It’s not just something women are saying to get out of sex. We need to stop ignoring the “I’m too tired” response and take it seriously. Women would like to feel turned on and sexy and they want to enjoy their sex lives with a good amazing husband so if we listen to women, better sex is around the corner. But even better, women will be feeling better.

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

66: The Infection of Bad Sex in Marriage Aug 25, 2024

Why are so many marriages struggling with bad sex lives? Why are so many men wishing their women wanted more sex but so many women aren’t wanting sex at all? Why do troubled and struggling sex lives feel like it’s a pandemic that has hit marriage? And isn’t it strange that women have an organ specifically designed for pleasure and multiple orgasms yet, they don’t really care to use it?

Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:

Private Program | Your Turned on Desire

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

65: What Stunts Our Sexual Development? Aug 18, 2024

Sexuality is part of our human development. It isn’t something we just have or don’t have or something we turn off and then turn on again. Sexuality requires natural evolution and can be stunted if we don’t allow the evolution.

Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life!

Link to details about my private coaching program and to schedule your free consultation with me:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire 

64: Female Sexuality Through Dr. Suuzi Hazen’s Perspective Jul 23, 2024

In my experience, I have noticed that we learn best through stories. Specifically other peoples personal experiences. Which is why I am so happy to share this conversation I had with Dr. Suuzi Hazen with you. Dr. Suuzi Hazen is a farmer, wife, Dr. of TCM and owner and founder of Mother's Best Liver Pills, the only USA-raised, non-white-label 100% grass-fed beef liver supplement. Dr. Suuzi is a passionate advocate for women's and children's health, intact (and thriving!) families, reviving ancient human lifeways, and simply enjoying this wonderful creation we are all part of. She has interned extensively under legendary California rancher Jim Gates, as well as with healers Dr. Katrine Heigelmann and Dr. David Li Lam. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Dr. Suuzi Hazen’s Liver Pills: Mothersbestliverpills.com Dr. Suuzi Hazen on IG: https://www.instagram.com/drsuuzihazen?igsh=bjd3NXliZ3p1Y3R6 Link to schedule your free consultation with me: https://calendly.com/coachingwithjamee/free-consultation Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807 I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

63: Female Sexuality: Heal Adrenals for More Desire Jul 02, 2024

If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

62: Female Sexuality: Women Discuss Sexuality Together May 28, 2024

In this episode, Jamee uses some questions that she gathered from social media and emails that other women have sent her and she and 3 women who are enrolled in her online program answer and discuss the questions from their own perspectives. After this episode we hope that you will feel more at ease and at peace with being a sexual woman, your thoughts and feelings will be validated and hopefully you will get to relax a little more in your own sex life. That’s our hope for you. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

61: Female Sexuality & Intellect May 21, 2024

Our biggest sexual organ is actually our brain. And it’s the most under utilized organ for most women who are struggling with low libido and for couples who are wanting a better sexual connection. Let’s learn about how, as females, we can enjoy a better sexual experience by bringing in an intellectual aspect to our sexualities. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

60: Female Sexuality and Freedom May 02, 2024

When females are asked what they desire most in their sex lives, it’s freedom. And this is lovely. Except when they have the freedom there are a few obstacles that come up and this is overwhelming and makes them feel like they just took 10 steps backwards in all the work they were doing. So let’s talk about it. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

59: Underdeveloped Female Sexuality Apr 10, 2024

Underdeveloped Female sexuality causes low libido, frustrating sex lives and more importantly- an inability for a woman to experience a fullness of joy in her life. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

58: High Quality vs Low Quality Sexual Connection Mar 31, 2024

Needing/wanting sex from a low quality connection in your marriage contributes to a low desire, pressure and being unsatisfied in your sex life. Desiring sex from a high quality connection creates higher desires for sex and satisfaction for both people in the marriage. In this episode we are discussing low quality connection vs high quality connection. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

57: 11 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Intimacy Mar 05, 2024

There are many things that women wish their husbands knew about sex and intimacy so they could be understood better and so that their sex lives could be amazing. In this episode we talk about 11 things wives wish their husbands understood about them sexually. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

56: Navigating Purity Culture & Sexuality With Shauna ShaktiMa Feb 20, 2024

Purity culture had an impact on many of us. Purity culture was taught to many of us in varying degrees and seems to have began as a way to keep people from making harmful decisions around their sexuality, but instead led to many relationships and marriages starving from a lack of intimacy. My guest today tells us her story of being raised in a high demand religious upbringing and how the messages she absorbed impacted her and her then husband in harmful ways. She shares her story up until where she is today and the healing she went through and how she now helps people heal their wounds that were created by lies around sexuality. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Shauna ShaktiMa: * Instagram: @shaunashaktiMa https://www.instagram.com/shaunashaktima?igsh=MW84ZWNxdTVneWQ4dg== * Website: https://www.shaunashaktima.com/ * More of her offerings and services: https://linktr.ee/shaunashaktima?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=f7eb2e20-4924-495b-8552-b3e3a150cd55 Erotic blueprint quiz: https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/?_gl=1%2A1gqy4u8%2A_ga%2AMTQ2Mjk1MDMyNC4xNzA3NTIwNjkw%2A_ga_Y9LB6PMSWZ%2AMTcwNzUyMDY5MC4xLjEuMTcwNzUyMDcxNC4wLjAuMA.. If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

55: Relief From Trauma With Meleah Manning Feb 13, 2024

Trauma in our intimate and sexual lives is complex and sometimes difficult to understand. Sometimes women experience a resistance in their sexual relationship and don’t realize that the resistance is because of trauma. In this conversation Jamee has with her guest Meleah Manning, we learn what trauma feels like in the body and easy things you can do TODAY to relieve yourself of the symptoms so you can start to enjoy your sex life instead of dread it. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Meleah: * Instagram: @Meleah_Manning www.instagram.com/meleah_manning/ * Website: www.sistersthatstray.com/rra * Free gift for listeners: Masterclass to Overcome Relationship Anxiety & Attract Ideal Partner https://radiantrelationship.org/case-study If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

54: 4 Remedies I Used to Overcome Struggles in the Bedroom Dec 30, 2023

There are many remedies I used (and still use) to overcome intimacy challenges in the bedroom. In this episode I am sharing 4 of those remedies with you. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

53: Preferences in the Bedroom Dec 26, 2023

Preferences in the bedroom are not that different from opinions and preferences outside the bedroom. For example, we tend to have an easier time accepting our partners different tastes in foods or if they use a top sheet or not, yet so many of us struggle with accepting preferences in the bedrooom when our partners opinions of our intimate lives are different than ours. In this episode we discuss what it looks like to have different ideas around our sex lives with our partners and what we can do to accept our differences and what it looks like to put this into action. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

52: When I’m Feeling Disconnected Nov 28, 2023

*Repost of an old podcast episode from my old podcast* I have noticed that I am much more connected to my spouse than I sometimes perceive. Alot of people have the desire to be emotionally connected to their spouses before they share themselves sexually, but oftentimes aren’t sure how to emotionally connect or they are relying on their spouses to connect and feel helpless in the process. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

51: How I Stopped Fighting About Intimacy Nov 14, 2023

I have learned that to stop fighting about all forms of intimacy in my marriage that I didn’t need a system that helped me avoid breakdowns. What I needed was a system that helped me have more breakthroughs. Breakdowns were not a sign that something was wrong. A lack of breakthroughs was the sign that something was off for us. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

50: A Spicy Love Life in Midlife: Tips For Married Couples Nov 07, 2023

In this episode we are going to talk about what I’ve learned about sex during perimenopause and then post menopause. For a lot of people this happens after age 50. But some people hit menopause before 50. I’ve had clients ages 19-75. And because I’ve helped many women who are going through the changes that happen after 40 years old I wanted to share what has worked for many of these people. And I myself am currently struggling through perimenopause, so I have my own experiences to share for you to learn from. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us. Dr Mary Claire MD Her IG account https://instagram.com/drmaryclaire?igshid=bm5iNjQycnY2bnA4

49: Four Ways I Ruined Love-Making Oct 31, 2023

There are many ways in which I ruined my sex life. But in this episode we navigate four of them so that it’s easier for others to understand and start taking action to improve what they can. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

48: Making My Intimate Life Happy Oct 24, 2023

It wasn’t easy, but the rewards of making my sex life happy were worth it. I took a look at the most common reasons people (me included) were using to have an unhappy sex life and I challenged those ideas. I noticed that people who had happy and peaceful sex lives didn’t have convenient reasons or excuses for not having sex. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

47: When I Realized I was Part of the Problem Oct 17, 2023

Was it partly my husbands fault that we were struggling in our sex life? Yes. Was it my job to solve the problem? Yes. Because thinking that this was my husbands problem or even OUR problem to solve kept me stuck in blame and kept us both stuck in our problems. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

46: How I Have Sex 2-4 Times a Week (Without Forcing Myself, Alcohol, or Sacrificing sleep) Oct 10, 2023

People ask me all the time: how do I increase my desire for sex? How do I raise my capacity to be more connected to my spouse? If you want to have an easier and more fun sex life you typically need to raise your desire and capacity for intimacy. I’ve done that. Part of the work is physical and the other part of the work is mental (and this includes our emotions and the way we relate to our spouses). Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

45: I Sucked at Sex and Then Got Better Oct 03, 2023

Today Jamee shares how she didn’t know that she sucked at sex (but she did) and then how she realized she sucked and how she got better. She shares 4 skills that she practiced that made sex better for her until a great sex life became second nature to her and she didn’t have to work hard or try hard anymore. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! If private coaching sounds like the support you need then please schedule a consultation call with me here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire On this consultation call we will discuss details of private coaching to make sure working together in this way will be a good fit for both of us.

44: What Separating Not Being in the Mood vs. Having Obligation Sex Taught Me Sep 26, 2023

For me, there’s a difference between not being in the mood for sex (not feeling like it) and having obligation sex. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Online program will be paused for enrollment on Oct 3, 2023. Here is the link to check out all the details of my online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

43: How My Guest Corrie Woods Heals and Understands Her Sexuality as a Single Woman Sep 19, 2023

Today, Jamee gets to visit with her friend Corrie Woods who is a coach. Corrie was married for 14 years and is a mom of 5 kids. She chose to divorce within the last couple years and since then she has learned some new lessons about being single and understanding her sexuality. She talks about learning about herself sexually in a marriage and then healing her sexuality outside of a relationship. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex, stop arguing about sex, learned how to look forward to and enjoy sex, and then how she helps women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Here is the link to check out all the details of my online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807 Corrie Woods IG profile: https://instagram.com/corriejwoods?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

42: One of My Favorite Ways to Increase Desire Sep 12, 2023

Desire grows in an environment of love, connection, self respect, and knowing your desires. Sexual and nonsexual desires. When we do anything that takes us out of this environment then it turns down our desire (enter screeching brakes sound*). I share my favorite way to push the gas pedal on desire in this episode.

41: Sex is a Form of Play Sep 06, 2023

Sex is meant to be a form of play in our marriages. But in order to understand this we first need to understand what play even is and then how this understanding shows up to make our sex lives better or confusing. When you understand the game of sex, your struggles will melt away. If you don’t understand the game, you’ll stay confused for, well, forever. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

40: Who Was in Charge of My Pleasure? Aug 27, 2023

This is a podcast episode I recorded for my friend Corrie’s podcast. Have you ever considered an Orgasm to be a physical, emotional, spiritual and mental experience? As Women, our bodies are built to experience Orgasms in multiple ways. In this episode, We talk about the conditioning us woman have around our bodies and the effects it plays on our sexuality. Whats happening in your intimate relationships is patterned in every area of your life. You are a sovereign human BEing. Your body is yours. It is for YOU. You are in charge of your sexual authority. If you have NEVER had an orgasm, this episode is also for you. The question for todays listeners is this: Does your sexuality exist for someone else or does it exist for you and then you get to choose if you share it and how you want to share it…? Find my online program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/ Find Corrie’s podcast called Be a Woman (Not a Weak Ass Bitch) here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/corrie-woods3/episodes/Be-a-Woman-and-not-a-weak-ass-bitch-e2250bj

39 Delight in the Wonderment Aug 20, 2023

Welcome to step 8! This is the final step in the process of going from sex being a frustration in your marriage to being at peace with your sex life and looking forward to and enjoying sex with your spouse. In this episode we discuss what it means to delight in the wonderment that is your life with your spouse and how to keep evolving your sexuality so that you can be at peace with yourself as a woman and also with the man you choose to climb into bed with at the end of each day. After you listen to this episode, if you would like to dive deeper into your relationship with your sexuality because your marriage is important to you, then For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

38 Fling Yourself Into the Life of a Turned on Woman Aug 08, 2023

This episode is step 7 of 8 that it takes to go from struggling in your sex life to sex being a non issue. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

37 Practice Growing Your Desire Aug 01, 2023

This is step 6 in the process of making sex a nonissue. This step is called Practice Growing Your Desire. This is where we understand the life of a turned on woman on a deeper level. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

36 Sex Worth Wanting More of Jul 25, 2023

Sexual desire needs incentives to show up and this episode is all about steps 4 and 5 in the process of going from avoiding sex to looking forward to and enjoying sex with your spouse: Step 4 learn how to make sex enjoyable for yourself. Step 5 Make the sex you’re having something worth wanting more of. These steps are the most fun and fascinating steps in this whole process and can’t be skipped by. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

35 Permission to Seek Pleasure Jul 18, 2023

Step 3 in the process of going from struggling with to enjoying sex is Permission to Seek Pleasure. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

34 Understand Your Sexual Desire Jul 17, 2023

Each of us experience our bodies and our sexual desires differently. In order to experience a good sex life with our spouses we have to be able to understand our unique body and desire and accept ourselves. We also need to be able to receive the information our spouse is sharing with us about their desire and accept this as well. In this episode we discuss this important step in the process of going from struggling with low desire to being at peace in our sex lives and enjoying sex with our husbands. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

33 Embracing Your Sexuality Jul 16, 2023

Many women ask me what it means to embrace our sexualities and why it’s important to experiencing a great sex life. In this episode I explain the stages of embracing your sexuality so that you can understand it better. My hope is to make it easy and fun for you to do. And if joining my online program sounds like a fun way for you to embrace your sexuality because you’re wanting help and support while you do it because you’re not experiencing the results you want by doing it on your own, then come join!! For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

32 The Steps to Your Happily Ever After Jul 15, 2023

Every good story has a stinky start and a happily ever after. In this episode we talk about the steps that take you from your stinky start of arguing about sex and being frustrated and not happy in your sex life to your happily ever after of being at peace with sex and therefore enjoying and amazingly easy and fun sex life with your husband. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

31: Lust Isn’t Bad Jul 12, 2023

Lust gets a bad rap. Mostly because it’s such a strong force and people think that bad things happen from erotic and lustful feelings. But the truth is that lust is just a force and you get to decide if you want to use this force for good or for bad. The happiest marriages have two people who are cultivating both love and lust- because these feelings don’t just happen to people. Not cultivating lust can have a damaging effect on a marriage. In this episode we discuss love and lust and how the cultivation of lust is what creates sexual desire. If you’re a woman who is struggling with low desire, then this episode could be the catalyst that transforms your sex life.

30: Sex is a Celebration Jun 20, 2023

A great sex life between a husband and wife happens when sex is how they celebrate an already great connection between the two of them. Some people want to use sex as a way to fix the disconnect that is going on between them and their partners. These people are missing the mark. Some people worry that if they don’t respond to their spouses expectations and requests in their sex life that they will disappoint their spouses and cause more disconnect. So instead of building the intimacy between the two of them, they oblige their spouses and go along with what ever their spouse is requesting sexually. These people are missing the mark as well. In this episode, we explore the 5 ways you can forget about using sex as a way to fix struggles and instead make sex a celebration of your intimacy together. If you would like to enroll in my comprehensive bundle as pre-work before you join my online program and you’re ready to begin your deep dive into intimacy and sex being a celebration use code: SELFLOVE to save $100 with this link: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

29: Be the Sexual Authority in Your Life Jun 13, 2023

In this episode, we're going to explore the idea of having sexual authority and what it means and then sharing this part of ourselves with someone else (if you choose to share that with them). This episode is for women who are experiencing low sexual desire and are married to men who are experiencing high sexual desire. (Or least their desire seems to be higher than their wives desire and this is causing some frustration and friction in their marriage). We'll answer questions such as what sexual authority is, why it's important to have it, how to develop it over time and the challenges you may face in the process. If you would like to enroll in my comprehensive bundle of courses to begin your deep dive into sexual authority use code: SELFLOVE to save $100 with this link: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

28: Sex as an Equal Slice of the Pie Jun 06, 2023

Sex isn’t less or more important as everything else in our lives. But if we make sex seem more important to everything else then our spouses tend to make it less important. If we make it seem less important then our spouses tend to put extra emphasis on sex. What we are each really seeking is simply balance! No matter where you’re at in your sexual relationship, there are good reasons why many women are resisting making sex more important, and we talk about them in this episode. In this episode, we talk about the challenges that husband and wives have to making sex an equal piece of the pie. Learning to put sex in its rightful place will make sex a non issue in your marriage! Ignite for Her supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Save $100 on The Comprehensive Bundle with this code: SELFLOVE at this link https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

27: Make Love, Not Dinner May 31, 2023

We have so many competing wants. Things we want in the moment. Things we want in the big picture. Sometimes we lie to ourselves and say we want something when that isn’t really what we want at all. In this episode I’m going to draw attention to the lies that women tell themselves that really turn off our libido. And I’m going to draw attention to what we really want as women so that we can be on to ourselves when we start lying. WARNING: Possible side effects are feeling more rested, wanting more sex, husbands who are partners and having more fun. Use code SELFLOVE to save $100 off the Comprehensive Bundle: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

26: Postpartum Sexual Authority May 15, 2023

On todays episode we get to hear from The Postpartum Coach Lizzie Langston. Lizzie is a friend of mine and a fellow advocate for women. In this episode we address this question from a listener: “I just had a baby and am cleared to have sex but I don’t know what to do because my libido is so low.” Connect with Lizzie on her website: https://www.lizzielangston.com/

25: Do You Have What it Takes? Apr 14, 2023

There are 9 qualities that sexually successful people posses and are willing to work on. If you have these 9 qualities and are willing to work on them and exercise them like muscles, then you’re guaranteed a sex life that you’re proud of. If you don’t have these qualities and you’re not willing to practice them, then it’s a waste of time to pretend that your sex life will get better- that would be like laying in bed all day eating chocolate covered pretzels and telling yourself that you’re going to be the fittest you’ve ever been. You’re not going to get fit unless you eat healthy and exercise. You’re not going to bathe in the rewards of a great sex life unless you work on these qualities. Natural Herbal Arousal Supplement called IGNITE HER: https://www.amare.com/et/la5c2j/188812 Inquiries for private coaching? Email me at coachingwithjamee@gmail.com

24: Sex Hormones (a scientific special) Apr 04, 2023

In this episode we discuss female sex hormones and the impact they have on female sexual desire. Sex hormones are the foundation to a healthy desire. When we don’t understand the basics of sex hormones and our female biology, we will be unnecessarily frustrated. Misunderstanding female sex hormones will also make all the other work to increase desire really hard. I’m going to give you an inspiring amount of information, in this episode, that you can use to start supporting your sex hormones today. Get ready for: •Why we should stop blaming our spouses if sex is a challenge. •Why increasing sexual desire is a challenge for some people and why not every married couple wants to make sex easier in their marriage. •The 3 H’s women experience when their sex hormones are being produced at their peak. •What prohibits certain sex hormones from being produced at different times of our cycles •What are the different sex hormones and why they aren’t just important for a healthy sexual desire. Natural Herbal Arousal Supplement: https://www.amare.com/et/la5c2j/188812 Books: Fast Like a Girl: A Woman's Guide to Using the Healing Power of Fasting to Burn Fat, Boost Energy, and Balance Hormones https://a.co/d/gCF0qV6 Rushing Woman's Syndrome: The Impact of a Never-Ending To-Do List and How to Stay Healthy in Today's Busy World https://a.co/d/4NBbG9t Wild Power: Discover the Magic of Your Menstrual Cycle and Awaken the Feminine Path to Power https://a.co/d/axkwqjU Email: coachingwithjamee@gmail.com

23: Husband Series: It’s Not a Fairytale Mar 21, 2023

Improving your sex life and making it a non-issue is not a fairytale. It can happen for anyone who is willing to put in the work & take the steps. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

22: Husband Series: Provide a Space for Healing Mar 14, 2023

The more you’re open to understanding your woman’s natural feminine nature, the better your sex life will be. The more you understand, the more you’ll be able to provide a space for healing. Which is a really important step in evolving from phase one into phase two sex. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

21: Husband Series: Inspired Invitations Mar 06, 2023

The low desire isn’t resisting sex. They aren’t too tired for sex. They aren’t too stressed for sex. What they are resisting is PHASE 1 sex and the dynamics that are happening between them and their high desire partner. They are ready for phase 2 sexual dynamics in their marriage. Everyone who is SO DONE with the confusing and frustrating dynamics around their sex lives with a low and high desire partner will appreciate the understanding that there is hope and another way! For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

20: Husband Series: Sense of Entitlement Feb 28, 2023

There are a few things that keep a couple stuck in phase 1 sex. One of those is a developed sense of entitlement. In this episode, we talk about the signs of a developed sense of entitlement, how this is keeping the couple stuck from evolving their sex life and of course what they can do to get unstuck and relax into phase 2 of married sex. It’s the best. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

19: Husband Series: Phases of Sex Feb 24, 2023

There are few different phases of sex that a married couple can expect to move through. But no married couple moves through the phases without intentionally deciding to evolve through phase 1 first. The transition between phase 1 and phase 2 sex is the hardest transition. Most people are staying stuck in phase 1 because they don’t know how to evolve through it. I explain the process in this episode and what you can do to evolve. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

18: When Hubby is Impatient & Triggered Feb 22, 2023

When women decide to heal and evolve the sexual parts of themselves, this can really trigger their husbands for various reasons. You know your hubby is triggered because he will be impatient: (“Why don’t you want to jump my bones everyday yet?”) or (“You’re taking too long to change… 😩”). Or he can become insecure and become withdrawn. He can even start giving you ultimatums: (“If you don’t figure this out by this week then I’m going to move out” or something like this). Or husbands can even say: “Fine. I’m not going to talk about sex ever again. This is on you now. I’m staying out of it.” This isn’t easy to manage and can make wives feel lonely and confused which adds another layer of suffering on top of trying to learn new habits while learning how to turn on their desire. But it’s also completely normal for husbands to respond this way. It’s coming from their own need to emotionally and sexually mature themselves and their insecurities are being brought to the surface. In this episode, we talk about what these insecurities are and what you can do to get through this difficult time. Instead of staying stuck, you can actually evolve through all the stages of sex so you can end up where sex isn’t an issue anymore. The code to save $100 off of the bundle of all my online courses is SELFLOVE and here is the link to enroll: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle My free download of 60 ways you can turn off your stress response is here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807 Find these links and connect with me more at: @jameeandelin on Instagram

17: Are You Strong Enough to Handle the Pressure? Feb 20, 2023

A lot of men and women are afraid to say or do anything that might make their spouses uncomfortable. They are also afraid of taking 10 steps backwards when they are trying to move towards a great sex life- so a lot of us are unsure what To Do when we notice we want better for ourselves and our marriages in our sex lives. In this episode we discuss what to do so that we can evolve and mature in our sex lives together.

16: Turning on Your Desire to Sex, Love, Partnership, Your Wants, and Life w/ guest Irene Feb 14, 2023

This is a repost of an old podcast episode. *Irene Vivanco is our guest today. She is sharing about her experience with being one of my private clients for 6 months and all the benefits that came from our time together. Irene has also become a friend and I hired her to work with me on creating my ecourses for my online school, Your Turned on Desire. What’s in this episode for you: •Turning on your desire for sex is so much more than having more sex. •Learning how to prioritize what you want as a woman, wife and/or mother is beneficial for everyone. •When your sex life is fulfilling, and not a source of contention or frustration anymore, it’s amazing what doors open for you in your personal life. •In a sexually successful marriage, everyone gets what they want in life and this manifests itself in the bedroom. •What both people in the marriage want is a satisfied woman! •When she knows what she wants and isn’t apologetic, guilty or confused about herself- then everyone thrives. Links: Your Turned on Desire eschool and courses are avialable here: www.coachingwithjamee.com Follow Irene on IG: https://www.instagram.com/vivanco_irene/ @vivanco_irene Irene’s website: vivayourvision.com

15: A Conversation About Porn Feb 12, 2023

I get many messages from women about their husbands looking at porn or using porn and I thought it was time to to start a conversation about porn and give you some useful things to think about and do. There will be other episodes and conversations to have but I think this is a good start to a topic that is hurtful and confusing to many people. My goal here is to help and to be useful to you whether you look at porn or not.

14: Children As Excuses Feb 07, 2023

Are children understandably good reasons to not have a magnificent sex life or are they the inspiration we need to prioritize good pleasurable refueling sex? I have to be very careful how I think about my children. I don’t want to send them messages that they are the reason for why I don’t have the life and marriage I want.

13 The Pressure is On (Quickie Episode) Jan 28, 2023

Why do we feel pressure to improve our sex lives? Because we want something. Our desires (what we really really want) come from inside of us. This internal pressure is nagging at us to take action towards what we want. Women who feel the pressure want an amazing sex life. Women who don’t feel the pressure aren’t listening to this podcast and aren’t bothered by the sex struggles in their marriages. Being bothered and annoyed and wanting the sex struggles to go away is a message from your internal desires. Are we going to listen to them or are we going to avoid them and push them away? Ignoring them doesn’t make them stop nagging at us. Enroll in New Year, New Sex Life here: www.coachingwithjamee.com click on “PROGRAM” for the details.

12 One Shift Can Change Everything Jan 21, 2023

Are you open to just one shift changing everything for you? Are you open to just one thought or perspective being the one shift that created an amazingly fun and easy sex life for you? In this episode I share some of my shifts that have happened over time and some of my clients shifts that have happened. These shifts were the catalyst that changed everything for us. If you would like to invest a little bit more of your time, money and energy into dealing and healing your relationship with your sexuality and then ditching all the struggles that come with low desire, come join my online program. What you desire your sex life to be like is worth investing in. You’re worth investing in. I love you. Check out program details here: www.coachingwithjamee.com

11 The Talk Doesn’t Work Jan 17, 2023

Talking talking talking about why you don’t want more sex and how your husband needs more sex, doesn’t work. Because this isn’t addressing the actual problem of you, as the woman, not being turned on. You’re just not turned on. That’s simply put. The talk doesn’t turn you on either. If it did, you wouldn’t be having the talk. The not enough sex problem can only be solved when you learn the art of increasing your desire and how to be turned on. Waiting for your husband to turn you on isn’t going to work either because then you still don’t know how your sexual desire works. Sexual desire is an inside job and waiting for someone to figure out your own insides is low investment and will always create more low desire. Enroll in my new program here: www.coachingwithjamee.com enrollment ends Feb 1, 2023.

10 The Art of Increasing Desire Jan 10, 2023

I didn’t realize that before I could enjoy my sex life with my husband there were some things that needed to be healed. We were trying all kinds of different things like herbs, position books, vacations, lingerie, weekly date nights etc…. And none of these were working because I wasn’t healing and learning about the art of desire. Sexual desire is an art form, an energy, a way of being…and without this awareness & knowledge- nothing else was going to work. Listen to this episode to ignite your curiosity about desire, healing & wanting. Enroll in my newest online program until February 1, 2023 here: www.coachingwithjamee.com

9 Dealing with Your Own Sexuality Jan 03, 2023

If we don’t deal with our sexuality, it will deal with us later. What does it look and feel like if we don’t deal with our sexuality? What does this mean? I talk about this in this podcast. I also share with you a snippet from a video in my new program called New Year, New Sex Life. I’m enrolling in this program all of January. Enrollment ends Feb, so if you are ready to make your sex life a source of joy in your marriage then I wouldn’t wait to enroll. The time time it will be available to enroll is next year at this time. Read about the details of this program and enroll here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/new-year-new-sex-life

8: Self Belonging and Desire Dec 28, 2022

There are several things happening in a low sexual desire marriage. And unfortunately the person who gets labeled as the low desire partner is usually dismissing several things that are under the surface for them. One way we create low desire is by self betrayal in many areas of our lives. Check out the details and/or enroll in my newest course/program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife Access program from my website: coachingwithjamee.com

7: Good Judgment or Low Desire? Dec 22, 2022

Many times, women are labeled with low libido or sexual desire when really there are other underlying things going on with them and their relationship. Low desire is simply a symptom of these underlying things that could use some attention and maturing. Learn more about how good judgment gets labeled as low desire in this episode. Check out the details and/or enroll in my newest course/program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife Access program from my website: coachingwithjamee.com

6: Three Ways to Make Peace with Your Sexuality Dec 13, 2022

If you’re struggling in your sex life (whether you have a low or high desire) the chances are there are parts of your sexuality that you’ll want to make peace with. And when you make peace, you’ll enjoy a peaceful sex life. New online course will be available soon!!!

5: Enjoy More Married Sex: A Mans Perspective w/ Coach Cory Ivins Dec 06, 2022

*This is a repost of an old podcast episode.*When a husband is struggling with feelings of lack of sex in his marriage and wishes that him and his wife enjoyed more sex, this is a sign that he has some work to do too. This episode is for husbands and wives who desire a better sexual connection, don’t want to have the “we aren’t having enough sex” talk ever again, are ready to stop the blame game and just simply want to enjoy more good sex!! Cory Ivins, our guest today, is a coach, a father, and a husband of 13 years. He struggled with the frustrations of desiring sex more often then his wife and all the obstacles that come with that. He is now on the other side and can help men who are also struggling and desire to delight in the wonderment that is their lives with their wives, be much happier and more fulfilled sexually, and over all better men. Contact Cory at CoryIvins@gmail.com and connect with him on IG @coryivins

4: The Way She Thinks (Our First Quickie Episode) Nov 29, 2022

What has more impact on a woman’s sexual desire than a biological or physical urge? Find out in this episode.

3: Stinky Start to Happily Ever After: A Husbands Tale Nov 22, 2022

*This is a repost of an old podcast episode* My guest on this episode is my very own husband, Daron Andelin. He is courageous and shares the pain and suffering he experienced when we struggled with sex being an issue in our marriage. We talk about some of the changes he and I both made so that we could be better friends and supports to eachother and we share (appropriate) personal stories of what our sex life is like now. There’s a happy ending! Link to enroll in my online courses: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com if you enroll before August 22, 2022, you’ll be invited to join a private community for extra support from me.

2: Low Desire Isn’t a Condition Nov 16, 2022

Sexual desire isn’t something you have or you don’t. Sexual desire isn’t something that diminishes with time. Sexual desire is a measuring stick or barameter for where the intimacy is at between the couple. What I’m most concerned about are all the missed opportunities that people experience when desire is thought of as something that is just there or it isn’t. It’s also concerning when people think that if someone doesn’t have much desire then there is something wrong with them. When someone is struggling with low desire this is a giant neon arrow pointing at the lack of intimacy between the two people.

1: Three (surprising!) Causes of Low Desire Nov 08, 2022

There are several causes of low sexual desire. In this episode, I share 3 causes of low desire that will blow your mind because they aren’t talked about often- if at all!

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