Stay ConnectedWork and Play with Nancy Ray is a weekly podcast all about learning to balance the two most competing areas of our lives: work and play.
She dives into topics like productivity, work life balance, leading a team, time management, contentment, play, sabbath, marriage, parenting, and rest, always pointing back to scripture, the ultimate guide for a life of faith. This is a podcast all about learning to work and play well, which ultimately leads to a healthy soul and a fulfilling life.
Today, I have the absolute privilege of talking to my new friend, Cleere Cherry. You might know her as Cleerely Stated on Instagram. She has been such a massive blessing to me. I love the way she writes and the way she speaks life. Her faith is resilient and contagious. I just feel so honored to have this conversation today with Cleere. I know you’re going to love it.
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If you’re anything like me, you’re already starting to think about the holidays and Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up. Today’s episode is simply going to be some questions for you to ask yourself (and for me to ask myself) before the holiday craziness begins.
Resources from this episode:
A Vision for this Season - Free Guide
Decluttering at the Speed of Life by Dana K. White
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Today, I have the absolute privilege of talking with Megan Fate Marshman about her new book called, “Relaxed.” Let me just tell you, this conversation was so special. It is one that I am going to listen to over and over again. I hope it means as much to you as it has meant to me.
Resources from this episode:
Relaxed by Megan Fate Marshman
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Today’s episode is going to be sweet, short, and hopefully powerful as I declare the truths of Colossians 1 over your work.
Resources from this episode:
A Vision for this Season Free Guide
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Today’s episode is fun, lighthearted, and it’s all about fall. I am going to share with you ten things that I have tried and loved this time of year and ten things that I plan to try this autumn.
Resources from this episode:
Calm Amidst the Chaos Podcast Series
Magnolia Hearth and Hand Candle
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Today I have the privilege of talking with my friend, Hannah Brencher, the author of The Unplugged Hours: Cultivating a Life of Presence in a Digitally Connected World. Hannah is such a gift! I am so excited to share her with you today and the message of her new book that is already changing my life.
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This episode of Work & Play with Nancy Ray is simply called, “Get Quiet, Then Go.”
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Welcome back to part two of my conversation with Graham Cochrane about his new book, Rebel, which is so great. If you haven’t listened to last week’s episode, definitely go back and listen to that one first. This is a continuation of my conversation with Graham. I told him when I was talking with him, “I feel like this is a sermon for me. How is it that we’re talking about your book called ‘Rebel’ right now?” It’s so good. I hope you enjoy our conversation. It was such a challenge and such a blessing to me all at once. I know you’re going to love it. Here’s part two of my conversation with Graham Cochrane.
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Get excited for today’s episode (and next week’s episode) because I get to talk with Graham Cochrane, who is a dear friend of mine. He and his wife Shay are good friends of mine and WIll. He is also my business coach. He has coached me in different seasons of my business and he just wrote a book. He loves the Lord. He is a brilliant entrepreneur, thought leader, author. It is a joy to get to talk to him and ask him questions one on one. You guys are in for a treat. The episode was packed full of so much goodness, I decided to break it up into two episodes. So don’t miss next week’s episode as well, as Graham and I talk all about his new book, Rebel.
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We stare at the walls in our home every single day. Honestly, we just get used to them and we don’t think about what’s on them very much. Slowly, they become outdated or need a refresh. Old photos and artwork fill the walls of our home and we don’t love them like we used to. Today’s episode is meant to be a little boost for you and to remind you that the walls in your home are supposed to bring you joy. I am inviting you to refresh your walls with me.
Resources from this episode:
The Lifegiving Home by Sally Clarkson
Ikea 16x20 Gold Picture Frames
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Today’s episode is full of scripture and encouragement for us to live in the authority that God has given us instead of walking in guilt.
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The school year is here and it is time to get in that mode. I feel like today’s episode is a pep talk for us mamas who are getting ready to start the school year and we want to start it strong. This episode is called “School Prep and Play” because we are going to be talking about how to prepare well for the school year and also how to play more this school year.
Resources from this episode:
Teaching from Rest by Sarah Mackenzie
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Hello! Welcome back to Work & Play with Nancy Ray. After a month-long break this summer, I thought that we would kick it off by talking about my favorite books that I have read so far in 2024.
Resources from this episode:
Set the Stars Alight by Amanda Dykes
Made for People by Justin Whitmel Early
Last Light by Terri Blackstone
If I Don't Laugh, I'll Cry by Molly Stillman
How to Train Your Dragon Series by Cressida Cowell
The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
Decluttering at the Speed of Life by Dana White
Until the Streetlights Come on by Ginny Yurich
The 1,000 Hours Outside Podcast
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Today’s episode is all about the purpose of summer. What is the purpose of summer? What is the purpose of your summer? What do you want to get out of it? How can we walk through summer with a heart of contentment, gratitude, really enjoy it and make the most out of it?
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I believe the key to making your summer run smoothly is to do a lot of the work on the front end. So today’s episode is all about summer prep.
Resources from this episode:
Kate Strickler (Naptime Kitchen)
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Happy June! Happy summer! It’s the second episode in our June summer series and today is all about summer play.
Resources from this episode:
The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
The Coddling of the American Mind Book
The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon
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Today’s episode is all about my summer projects and how having some projects to anchor you in the summer is really good for you.
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Abraham Lincoln said,
“Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax.”
Well, I had this thought: What if we took that quote and applied it to motherhood? I thought of a few examples, but not many. But man, when I took it to Instagram and my email list, you guys delivered! I have a whole list of ways that this quote can apply to motherhood and you are in for a treat. Get ready to make your life a whole lot more practical and easier in this last “May is for Mamas” episode.
Resources from this episode:
Teaching from Rest by Sarah MacKenzie
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I’m so excited to welcome you back to another episode of “May is for Mamas” where every episode in the month of May is dedicated to mamas. Today, we are talking with an expert on health, nourishing ourselves, and how to change our families forever by taking care of our bodies with the food that we eat. I’m so excited for you to hear from Ilana Muhlstein. Now, if you’ve ever been part of the “Beach Body” program or heard of the “2B Mindset”, this is who created it. Guys, I’m geeking out. I don’t usually say “Yes” to people who I get random emails from in my inbox, but when I saw hers come thorough, I started geeking out because I personally have done “2B Mindset”, I’ve gone through her program (I’ve done it last year, I’m doing it now), I believe in it and it works. So I thought to share something that’s been so life changing for me with my listeners with Illana herself would be such a gift, especially in the month of May for “May is for Mamas.” So I’m so excited. She is a dietician, a nutritionist, and a best-selling author. Guys, at the age of 13, Ilana weighed over 200 pounds. Her story is so inspiring. She came up with this model that really works and I can say that honestly because it works for me. It is like a track to run on; so helpful. The conversation is going to be so great. I hope you enjoy this episode of “May is for Mamas” with Ilana Muhlstein.
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Use Code "HWPOD10" for $10 Off Ilana Housewares orders over $70
Use Code "PODCAST10" for $10 Off Your First Meal + 5% Off When You Subscribe
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I don’t know if you’re like me in this way, but I love to sit around and picture the time that I am a grandmother. It’s something about the legacy that we are leaving right now, in the thick of motherhood and keeping the vision of me as a grandmother. It just keeps me going. Today, I am going to share a little secret. I have a note on my phone (in the Notes app) that I have been writing down all of the things that I don’t want to forget when I’m a grandma. Notes to myself, advice to myself that I will never forget and will hopefully be the grandma that I want to be someday. Today, I am going to share everything that I’ve written down in that little Notes app with you.
Resources from this episode:
Kate Strickler (Naptime Kitchen) Instagram
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Welcome to the first episode of my “May is for Mamas” series, where every episode in the month of May is dedicated to the mamas listening. I’m starting out with a great conversation with my friend, Molly Stillman, who just wrote an amazing book called, “If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry.” It’s so good. We talk all about it, but it really honors the life and story of her mom, which is just amazing. You’ll hear all about it. I’m so excited for this series! I hope you love it.
Resources from this episode:
If I Don't Laugh, I'll Cry book by Molly Stillman
Molly Stillman Podcast: Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Home Before Morning book by Lynda Van Devanter
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This week’s episode is part 2 of a conversation I had with my husband Will all about how we have observed the Sabbath as a family for a year now and how it has changed us forever. If you missed the first part of our conversation, go back to last week’s episode and listen to that before you listen to today’s episode. I’m so excited to finish out this conversation with you today.
Resources from this episode:
Birds and Bees with Megan Michelson Podcast Episode
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
Celebration of Discipline by Richard J. Foster
Brighter Day Press Watercolor Classes
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Well it has been one whole year of our little Ray family embracing the Sabbath as a weekly rhythm. This episode is a conversation with myself and Will all about how it has changed us forever.
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We are back with the second half of my conversation with Jess Connolly talking all about rest because the month of April on the Work and Play podcast is all about the importance of rest in our lives. I’m so grateful you’re here! I can’t wait for you to listen to the rest. If you haven’t listened to part one already, go back to last week’s episode and start there.
Resources from this episode:
Tired of Being Tired book by Jess Connolly
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Well, I’m trying something new here on Work and Play with Nancy Ray and that is months that have themes. So the theme of April is rest and this conversation is not going to disappoint. I’m talking to Jess Connolly today all about why women are so tired. We’re all so tired and this conversation is full of practical and spiritual answers as to why we’re so tired and what we can do differently. Guys, this conversation was so good, I decided to divide it into two episodes. I can’t wait for you to hear it and I think it fits perfectly with the theme of rest for this April. Enjoy and come back next week to hear part 2!
Resources from this episode:
Tired of Being Tired book by Jess Connolly
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We live in a time where rest and play are very hard to come by. It can even be looked down on in our culture and often it feels impossible with the busy nature of our lives and schedules. Today’s episode is hopefully going to be encouraging to you to make time to rest and play a little bit more.
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Okay guys, get ready for part 2 of my conversation with Barbara. If you missed last week’s episode, you’re going to want to go back and listen to it. She is so full of wisdom, so gracious, she loves the Lord, and she’s teaching us all about how to maintain our homes, get rid of clutter, and set up systems in our life that will help us do the work that we’re meant to do and live the life we’re meant to live. Loved these conversations so much. Can’t wait for you to hear part 2!
Resources from this episode:
Episode 227 - Less Clutter More Life with Barbara Hemphill : Part 1
Less Clutter More Life by Barbara Hemphill
Love It or Lose It: Living Clutter-Free Forever by Barbara Hemphill and Maggie Bedrosian
Taming the Paper Tiger at Home by Barbara Hemphill
How to Make Your Clothes Closet a Place You Love
Productive Environment Scorecard
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Today's episode is so special! We have Barbara Hemphill chatting with us about how to manage all of the stuff and clutter in our lives. Guys, she has been doing this for over 40 years! She is THE pioneer to the decluttering industry. Before minimalism was a thing, she was out there helping people declutter their homes. She has so many systems and so much wisdom. I feel like I could talk to her for hours and never get tired of it. It's such a great conversation - so valuable and helpful. I plan to go back and re-listen to it and take notes. I'm so excited! It was so good that we're splitting it across two episodes so you'll get to hear from Barbara this week and next week. Get excited because it's a good one.
Resources from this episode:
Taming the Paper Tiger at Home by Barbara Hemphill
Less Clutter More Life by Barbara Hemphill
How to Make Your Clothes Closet a Place You Love!
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The longer I live, the more I realize our journey with our money and our finances is not a straight line. There are different seasons of our life, different incomes that we will have, different life experiences and family members will add to our family. Life is ever changing and so are our finances. So today's episode is all about 5 tools that I am using right now that have helped me take a financial reset.
Resources from this episode:
The Blueprint Model Free Training
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Today I'm talking with my friend, Paige Brunton, who is a website expert (specifically in Squarespace). She teaches others to design their own Squarespace websites and she also teaches others how to become professional Squarespace web designers which is pretty cool. She has totally ditched social media, but has an amazing online business and a very engaged Youtube following. She now lives in Switzerland with her husband, which is amazing. I know you're going to love her and whether or not you have a Squarespace website, you're going to be so encouraged to know the most important thing that you need to do with your website after listening today.
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Every once in a while us moms find ourselves in a very perplexing situation. We have an unexpected hour of time and we have no idea what to do with ourselves. Today, we're gonna get a game plan.
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Work and Play Weekly Checklist
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During the month of January, I read the entire Bible and this episode is all about how I did it.
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My friend Val Marie is such a gift. She's the founder of Val Marie Paper, she's an author and she designed the lovely yearly prayer journal, which I have used time and time again. Val has given me so much perspective on prayer and has been such an encouragement to my walk with the Lord and today we're talking about what prayer can actually look like in our lives and how to make 2024 a year of prayer, for you, for real.
Resources from this episode:
Productive Morning Spotify Playlist
How (and What) to Read on Prayer with Val Marie Podcast
30 Minute Prayer Method by Val Marie
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I'm back! It's 2024 I'm so excited to be here for my beloved State of the Podcast episode. I hope you enjoy listening to Work and Play with Nancy Ray episode 221 🎉
Shownotes : nancyray.com/podcast/221
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Have you ever heard of wintering as a verb? Well, now you have because today I am going to share with you 5 ways that I'm wintering this year.
Resources from this episode:Episode 108 - Book | Sleep Smarter
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So this year I'm doing something a little different. I decided early in November that I am not thinking about or planning for next year until next year in January. I am all in for 2023. I want to be present and finish this year strong. My eyes are on my kids, my husband, Christmas, and New Year's, and I just, for whatever reason, feel so strongly in my spirit that I need to not take time and energy in this month to plan and look at it. This is so different for me. Okay. I am a planner. I am a forward thinker. But there's just been some different life circumstances that have led me to this, so this episode is all about some end-of-year rhythms for reflecting on your year and how you can finish this year strong.
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Today is my annual book club episode where I share my very favorite books that I read this last year in 2023 and also what I have planned for 2024. You can always find that current list updated at nancyray.com/bookclub or you can follow along and read with me if you choose. It is very relaxed or you can just catch up on the podcast episodes as I release them. So I’m excited. I read some really good stuff this year and I have some exciting picks for next year and I can’t wait to share them with you today.
Resources from this episode:Val Marie Paper - Prayer Journal | use code “WORKANDPLAY” for 10% off
Books I Read in 2023:
Episode 212 - Narnia, Harry Potter, and the Wingfeather Saga
Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt
Episode 183 - Book | Four Thousand Weeks
Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
Better than Before by Gretchen Rubin
The Power of Writing it Down by Allison Fallon
Episode 196 - The Blessing [Book] with Kari Trent Stageberg
The Blessing by John Trent, Gary Smalley, Kari Trent Stageberg
The Blessing Of A Skinned Knee by Wendy Mogel
Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May
Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley, Troy and Ruth Simons
Books I Wanted to Read in 2023:
The Stories We Tell by Joanna Gaines
The Lazy Genius Kitchen by Kendra Adachi
Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends by Sarah Mally
Books I Plan to Read in 2024:
The Pilgrim's Progress by John Bunyan
Set The Stars Alight by Amanda Dykes
Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley
Until the Streetlights Come On by Ginny Yurich
The 2-Hour Cocktail Party by Nick Gray
Take Back Your Time by Christy Wright
The Stories We Tell by Joanna Gaines
Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends by Sarah Mally
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Get ready for the icing on the cake for the best kept secret to a holiday season full of joy and contentment. You ready? It's giving. It's giving. It's being intentional about giving away the resources that God has blessed you with. We're wrapping up this holiday series with the best episode of them all, holiday giving.
Resources from this episode:Val Marie Paper - Prayer Journal use code “WORKANDPLAY” for 10% off
God and Money by John Cortines
The Blessed Life by Robert Morris
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There is something so sacred about food during the holidays. The taste of your grandma's casserole or your aunt's monkey bread, or your mom's Christmas Eve dinner. It can fill your heart and mind with so many wonderful feelings and memories. Food represents so much more than just a meal. It represents feelings of nostalgia and it represents just the most important parts of the holiday season, which is bringing people together around the table in love. I'm so excited just to have a little bit of fun on this episode and encourage you just to think about the food that you are having in your family over this holiday season.
Resources from this episode:Christian Healthcare Ministries
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I'm pumped to talk about a Christmas budget and Christmas gifts today. Guys, this can get so outta hand so fast, and also it can have such a negative connotation to it. Just making a Christmas budget feels like it's stifles all the Christmas cheer. But I'm here to say it doesn't. It doesn't. Making a Christmas budget actually brings me a lot of joy because it helps me to stay organized and focused on what I really, really want to be spending my money on.
And it helps me not get so carried away that in January I look back and have a lot of regret. I don't. When I make a Christmas budget, I don't. And so today we're gonna talk all about how to make a simple and effective Christmas budget for you to follow, as well as how to create a gift tracking document so that you can keep track of everything really well this Christmas.
Resources from this episode:
Christian Healthcare Ministries
GoodKind - Use the code WORKANDPLAY for 15% off
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Okay. Deep breath everybody. It is time to tackle the holiday schedule. Dare I say, this is the main source of stress that we encounter during the holidays. There are so many different invitations, obligations, so many people and organizations who are all asking something of us. And today I am here to remind you, you get to choose your yeses and your nos.
Resources from this episode:Christian Healthcare Ministries
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Today I'm kicking off a new series on the podcast, and I am giddy about it because it's all about the holidays. We're all thinking about it already. It's the last week of October. We're looking at November and December, and I think we can feel equal parts overwhelmed and excited. So today I am starting a five-part podcast series. It's gonna be very short podcast episodes just to get you thinking about how you can create holidays that are full of joy and contentment.
And I'll get into all the details of it. But here's what you can expect. The first episode, which is today, is gonna be about traditions. Next week it's gonna be about creating your holiday schedule. Then the next week, your holiday budget, and then your gifts, and then food. And I'm gonna be sharing all of the things that our family does while also just inviting you to think through and really, I don't know, analyze and consider what you want your holidays to look like. And I'm excited. I'm so excited about this. So I'm glad that you're here. Let's jump in.
Resources from this episode:Episode 33 - Our Favorite Thanksgiving Tradition
The Giving Manger by Allison Hottinger
Duke Chorale Christmas Concert
A Midnight Clear by John Nilsen
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Hey there! You're in the right place for Work and Play with Nancy Ray. A quick note—the podcast will be taking a break this week (November 2), but I'll be back next week with an exciting new episode. See you then!
There will never be adequate words to describe what these book series have meant to me over the last year. They have been some of the best parts of my life. I kid you not, over the last 12 months, I sobbed at the end of each one. Not an exaggeration. And if I'm honest, today's podcast episode almost didn't happen because I already know it's gonna fall short of what I want to say about each of these series, but I decided to move forward with it because if it encourages you to read them with a kingdom mindset, I believe it will have been worth it. Let's dive into the three best children’s series of all time.
Resources from this episode:Christian Healthcare Ministries
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One thing I have realized recently is that all of us in one way or another are seeking wisdom from God in our work. Whether that is working in our home and serving our kids and raising them, or whether it is running a business, managing a team, developing a new product, just maintaining something that we've had for years. As we get older, we need more wisdom. Life continues to get more complicated and more challenging, and especially in our work. And today's episode is gonna be simple. It's gonna be about three promises that we can find in scripture regarding wisdom in our work.
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Okay. I felt like it was just time for a more lighthearted podcast episode and that is why I am bringing you 10 things that are saving my life, fall edition. Are they actually saving my life? No, but they’re really helping it and I think they’re making my fall a little bit better, and I’m just gonna share those things with you today. So I hope you enjoy listening.
Resources from this episode:Christian Healthcare Ministries
Artificial Pumpkins from Walmart
Summer Moon Coffee - Moon Milk Creamer
William Sonoma - Mulling Spices
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I had a friend recently ask me, “How in the world do you do chores in your family with all four of your kids?” And I thought that would be a great podcast episode. So today I am gonna share with you how we do chores in the Ray household.
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Okay, confession. I am a major time management junkie and I love it. I love planning. I love buying my new calendar for the year and getting my favorite pens and highlighters and making a plan and writing an appointments and making lists. I love managing stuff. I love managing my time. And today I'm gonna share with you five of my favorite time management tools that have really helped me through the years because we all have 24 hours in a day, but it all comes down to how we manage our time.
Resources from this episode:Boundaries by Henry Cloud & John Townsend
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Today, I am gonna be telling you all about how I create a strategy for my life. And I know that sounds very broad and possibly overwhelming, but hang with me because I feel like I have been given some amazing tools to help me in four main areas of my life: my faith, my home, my work, and my legacy or my life overall.
So that's what we're gonna talk about today, how to create a strategy for your life. If you're feeling like you need some clarity, then this episode is for you.
Resources from this episode:Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman
Secrets of Happy Families by Bruce Feiler
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero
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While so many women wear multitasking as a badge of honor, I will readily admit that I am the worst at multitasking. I—it's terrible. I get so distracted and cannot do it. And I'll be frank, this has not served me well in motherhood because the interruptions are great and we'll talk a little bit about that. But today I just wanna share my thoughts on multitasking and how it doesn't help anyone and how it's so much better if we can focus on one thing at a time.
Resources from this episode:Episode 205 - Be where your feet are
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Be where your feet are. This simple phrase has brought me back time and time again from feeling scattered and overwhelmed to simply being present. It's taught me a lot about my own limits and how God is limitless, and I found a lot of encouragement in that. So today's episode is all about that phrase, be where your feet are. And I hope you find it encouraging.
Resources from this episode:Birds and Bees (code WORKANDPLAY for 20% off)
Episode 195 - Birds & Bees With Megan Michelson
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Today, I am so excited to share with you one of my very favorite things to do. I know this is really nerdy of me, but I love writing out my ideal week. This is something that I do at least twice a year, sometimes three times a year, because there are different times in my year that just look different. An ideal week looks different, and today I'm gonna walk you through my process of how to create an ideal week so that you can be living the life that you want in and week out with a lot of joy.
Resources from this episode:Birds and Bees (code WORKANDPLAY for 20% off)
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So we all know that play is such an important part of our lives. It's easy to talk about work all the time, and it's a little bit more difficult as we get older to talk about play and incorporate play into our lives. But what I found out is it's so important to do it in small ways every day. If you can incorporate small play into your life on a daily basis, it really makes your lives and your work that much better. And that is what we are talking about in today's episode.
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Well, it is back to school for the Ray family this week. I know everybody starts school at different times, but for us, school starts back this week. I’m so excited. And with school comes a lot of different ideas about new rhythms and routines that we wanna implement as a family. I personally get really excited about it, but one thing that God has been putting on my heart over and over again this year is implementing rhythms of faith to go alongside our rhythms of school and that is what today’s episode is all about.
Resources from this episode:Episode 182 - University Model School & Why We Chose It
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Today’s so special because I have a long-awaited guest joining me. Jess Ray is a singer/songwriter/producer from Raleigh, North Carolina. She has her own series of albums that hold some of my favorite songs ever written, and she’s part of a worship band called Mission House. She helps lead a local movement of worshipers here in Raleigh under the ministry named Feast and Feast.
Her musical career has weaved in and out of Christian spaces, mainstream circles from house concerts, including my backyard to historic venues like the Ryman Auditorium in Nashville. More than all of this, Jess has a beautiful soul and the humblest of hearts. She loves Jesus. If you’re ever at a show of hers, she’ll look you in the eyes and give you a giant hug afterwards.
She’s the real deal, and I’m just the luckiest ever to have her as my best friend since the ninth grade, who also turned into my sister when I married her big brother. I’m so excited to talk with her today about fresh creativity. Oh, and one more thing…you know the music you hear every single week when you listen to this podcast?
Yep. It’s from the song “Too Good” by Jess Ray. You should go listen to it, and I hope you enjoy today’s conversation.
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Today is the 200th episode of work and play with Nancy Ray. I am so excited to celebrate with you. I can't believe it. I can't believe I've done 200 of these episodes. That's crazy. I'm so grateful that you have been listening. I hope today's episode is just fun. I thought of 200 of my favorite things, which is kind of wild, and it also took me a really long time to come up with 200 of my favorite things.
But the hope was that maybe there are some things that I'm enjoying in my life that you don't know about. Maybe there's things I'm loving that you already know and love as well. Either way, I hope it's fun, lighthearted, playful, something to celebrate.
I've brought a few helpers along. If you were here for the hundredth episode, you remember my kids helped me out with that, and that was when I just had three kids and Beaufort was a baby, and now I have four, and Benji’s the baby, and it has been so fun to incorporate them into this episode. Makes me a little teary, really happy and I hope you enjoy it. Thanks for listening to the 200th episode of Work and play with Nancy Ray.
Resources from this episode:A’del Bashful Eyeshadow or The Dusk
Ursa Major Golden Hour Face Recovery Cream
Ursa Major Forest Alchemy Eye Cream
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This week, we’re diving back into our 2-part series as Will and I celebrate 15 years of marriage (crazy, I know)! This week, we’ll be talking about kids and home life—from how we balance everything after adding kids to the mix to how we keep our home running smoothly amid the day-to-day busyness. It’ll be a fun one, so listen in!
Resources from this episode:Episode 198 - 15 Years Married : Part 1
Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul Tripp
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father by Meg Meeker
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Back in January, I did a big survey of all of my podcast listeners and one of the most requested people that I was asked to interview on the podcast was my husband, Will! Today, we’ll kick off a two-part episode series just to cover some of the most-asked questions about travel and finances for us. We'll talk about kids and home life next week.
Resources from this episode:
Episode 068 - 12 Years of Marriage, Part 1
Episode 069 - 12 Years of Marriage, Part 2
Episode 124 - We're Debt Free AGAIN!
God and Money by John Cortines
Dave Ramsey: Financial Peace University
The Blessed Life by Robert Morris
The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
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Summer is here—and after a long school year of hard work, it’s time to kick up our feet and play! Today’s episode is going to be fun and two-fold. First, we’ll talk about the practical: how to plan your summer well. Then, we’ll dive into part two and talk about the actual summer plan and what kind of mindset can help you have a summer filled with both rest and play!
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Today is the last episode of May is for Mamas this year, and I hope you have loved it as much as I have. Today, I get to have a conversation with Kari Trent Stageberg, the author of The Blessing. Her story is unbelievable, as you'll hear in today's episode, and her simple encouragement to speak life and be a blessing to not only your children, but to everyone you encounter, was just the reminder I needed.
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Hello and welcome to another episode of May is for Mamas. I am so excited about the guest that I have today on the podcast because I kept thinking “If I could choose someone who would deliver a lot of value to my listeners who are mamas this month of May, who would it be?” And I kept thinking about Megan Michelson.
Megan is the co-creator and co-host of Birds & Bees, an online course with an amazing woman named Mary Flo Ridley. The two of them teach about sex and how to talk to your kids about sex in a healthy way. Let me just say—it is such a fabulous resource. Will and I have watched the course, we have taken so many notes, and I have even watched it a second time. It is such a great resource that I thought “You know, if I could have her on the podcast to share this information with you guys, it would be a game changer.”
Megan has three kids of her own, is married, and lives in Dallas, Texas, and she is just a wonderful human being. And if you are interested after listening to this conversation in getting your own Birds & Bees course, you can use the code: WORKANDPLAY and get 20% off. I am very grateful to their generosity to you and I hope you enjoy!
Resources from this episode:Use the code: WORKANDPLAY and get 20% off
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I'm back with another May is for Mama's episode, and today I'm releasing one of my Patreon-only episodes into the world. This episode was published to my Patreon community last year, and it's the first time I've ever done this, but I love this precious woman so much, and I loved what she had to say so much that I knew eventually I had to share it with everyone.
Elizabeth Ray, who we affectionately call Grammy in our home, is my husband's mom, so she is my mother-in-law and she is one of my favorite people on this earth. Now, it's not lost on me that I am calling my mother-in-law one of my favorite people. I realize this is very rare and it is truly the greatest gift. Now, she always told me that she had the privilege of having an incredible mother-in-law herself who modeled that to her and now I am receiving that gift because she's now passing it down to me and I'm learning what that looks like.
I'm learning it because I'm watching it in action and I love that we have such a good, healthy relationship. But let me just say, whether you have a great relationship with your mother-in-law, a mediocre one, or maybe even a terribly painful one, I know you'll be encouraged today as Grammy simply shares about what she's learned from her mother-in-law—the power of words. And we can all take notes and decide now the kind of mother-in-law that we want to be one day. Now, don't forget the Legacy Photo System is on sale for the month of May. Head to legacyphotosystem.com and use the discount code mamas MAMAS to receive $50 off.
I hope you'll enjoy this conversation as you listen to one of my exclusive Patreon interviews with one of my favorite people, Grammy.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
The Legacy Photo System (Code: MAMAS for $50 off)
Welcome to another episode of May is for Mamas, and this is Mother's Day Week! We are approaching Mother's Day and I had the thought, I want to create a podcast episode that is a gift to any mom who is listening. And oftentimes for Mother's Day, we wanna get a massage or we wanna get away, or we want a new bag, or we wanna be served breakfast in bed. And all of these things are good and of of course, of course we want most of all those homemade cards from our kids that is the best. And just the acknowledgement of all the work and love that we pour into our families and all of that is so good and right and wonderful to want and receive those things.
But sometimes, sometimes more than anything, I just want some words of life spoken over me. I need a fresh wind of the Holy Spirit to empower my steps. I want to to hear scripture and words that can speak to me in the dark moments that hold me together when I feel like I'm falling apart. The words that give me patience when I lose my temper, the words that give me wisdom when I need it most.
And so today I am gonna be sharing my favorite scripture verses for mamas. And of course there are endless scriptures that I could share. There are so many more that I could pull from, but these are some of my personal favorites that I just want to read over you and share with you today.
Also, I wanted to let you know as another Mother's Day gift, I'm giving you $50 towards the Legacy Photo System. If you want to take advantage of that, just use the code MAMAS when you check out.
Lastly, I wanted to let you know that there are still a few spots available for my mastermind group, which is kicking off in June. If you are interested to learn more about that and apply, head to nancyray.com/mastermind. Applications close May 17th so make sure you go and apply before then!
Welcome to May is for Mamas, where I dedicate every episode in the month of May to the Mamas listening. We are kicking it off with a beautiful, encouraging conversation with Ashlee Gadd on why it's so important to keep creating in the margins of motherhood. Ashlee is the author of Create Anyway, which is a beautiful book. It just came out and I could not get my hands on it fast enough.
Y'all. It's so good. Listen, Ashlee is a wife, a mom of three, a follower of Jesus, a writer, a photographer, and she founded Coffee and Crumbs, which is a beautiful online space that brings mothers together through storytelling. Ashlee is just the kind of person who has a beautiful heart, and I'm so grateful I got to spend time with her today.
Also, side note, Coffee and Crumbs has a podcast and it's one of the very few podcasts I actually listen to regularly, and what a gift it was to just to get to know Ashlee, to get to know her heart. I know you're gonna love our conversation on creating in motherhood.
Resources from this episode:
The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
The Work & Play Mastermind — price goes up on May 5!
The Legacy Photo System (code: MAMAS for $50 off through the end of May)
Jumping in right off the bat with a few really fun announcements!
Number one, I have a new website as of today and a new brand, new colors new look. Shout out to Sammy Jo, I love you. Thank you for creating such a beautiful space. Head to nancyray.com to see it.
Number two, along with the website, I am launching a Mastermind group (!) for a group of women, only 12 women who are business owners in the Raleigh area. I'm so excited. You can go to my website to learn more and I'll talk a little bit more about it in the podcast today.
And third next month, starting next week, we're already almost in May—crazy—we start May is for Mamas! Every May I set aside my episodes and I dedicate them to the Mamas listening. And I have some exciting guests lined up, some great content for you, and I can't believe we're almost already in May.
Okay, let's jump in to today's episode. My top eight work hacks or tips or advice, or, I had the hardest time naming this episode, but these are just random things that I have pieced together after my 16 years of experience of being an entrepreneur.
Some of them I've created, some of them I have learned from books, some of them are systems, some of them are habits, but they're the things I keep coming back to again and again. Now, you might be surprised at some of them, but here's the deal: I know I struggled the most in my work and in my business when I have a lack of clarity and when I feel really overwhelmed with all that I have to do.
So this list of eight things are things that I've brainstormed based on my years of being an entrepreneur. They're the things that have worked when I've worked by myself and they've worked when I've had a team working with me. They helped me not only in my work but in my life and being more present with my family as well, and just being more fulfilled. They helped me stay inspired and passionate about my work and I'm so excited to share them with you today.
For the full episode, head to nancyray.com/podcast/191.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Episode 026 - My Favorite Business Book of All Time
The 12 Week Year, by Brian Moran
The Advantage, by Pat Lencioni
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Let's talk about family trips.
Listen, there is so much planning and work that goes into taking a family trip, but there's also these golden memories of play and adventure that come out of that work. Today, I'm going to share with you how we work hard and we play hard on family trips and I'll share my favorite tips to hopefully make your next family trip a little bit easier!
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Today I have some simple encouragement for you, which is just a glimpse into what God has been teaching me lately. I have found that when I complete another Contentment Challenge, it's good for me to take a minute to recap the biggest lessons the Lord has taught me during this fast of sorts, because I find that every time I give up shopping or extra spending for a limited time—which is what the Contentment Challenge is—it frees up space for him to do things in my life and to address some spiritual things going on in my heart, in my mind. So, today I'm just gonna share three simple things that the Lord has been teaching me this year up to this point.
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I currently work one day a week with the occasional help of maybe one to two evenings a month. This episode is all about how I maximize my very limited work hours!
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Today is a book club episode where I'm gonna be sharing my three biggest takeaways from the book Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin. I love the tagline of her book, which is "What I learned about making and breaking habits to sleep more, quit sugar, procrastinate less, and generally build a happier life." Doesn't that sound awesome?
For a list of all the books that I'm reading this year, head to nancyray.com/bookclub. Sometimes we just need a good kick in the pants from someone to show us how to start something difficult or how to do something that we've always wanted to do and Better Than Before does exactly that. I'm so excited to share my thoughts with you today.
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There is never a shortage of decisions to be made in regards to your work.
What should I be doing for my career? Should I stop working when I have children? Do I go back to work? And if I do, when should I go back to work? How much should I be working? Should I close down my work? Should I start something new? Should I hire someone? Do I need to fire someone? How do I spend my time this year? How do I spend my time today? The decisions go on and on.
In today's episode, I'm going to encourage you with some tools that you can use when making a big decision in regards to your work. And I'm just gonna be here to remind you that God's got you and He's got your business from beginning to end.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/186.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Episode 004 - Seasons of Business
Episode 005 - Calling vs. Assignment
The Seasons of God, by Richard Blackaby
Episode 047 - Book | Seasons of God with Dr. Richard Blackaby
The Next Right Thing, by Emily P. Freeman
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I've had three best friends for over 20 years: Jess, Heather, and Sam. And the four of us are called The Minkies, and I invited them to do a special episode of the podcast, just me and my best friends sharing our story, sharing our favorite memories and what it's taken for us to maintain a long lasting friendship for over two decades.
So it's a very fun, different episode today. There's a lot of laughing and joking and storytelling, and when it comes to work and play, these ladies, they definitely know how to work hard, but when we're together—it is 100% play. They are my idea of fun and having a good time, and they have been for the better part of my life. What a gift it is that I get to share them with you today!
Resources from this episode:Here's a job description that life handed me that I just didn't really see coming. I have to be a cook like every day and I have to be a fairly good one because the tiny humans that I feed around my table are fairly opinionated about food. Actually, they're very opinionated about food.
Also, with that job description, it will affect my mood, whatever I make, whatever I cook, it's gonna affect my mood and theirs. Also, if I feed them and myself unhealthy things, it affects our mood and our weight and our overall health, how much we get sick, and it just so happens that the food that they love are the things that are terrible for you. So when I'm having a hard day, all I want to do is feed them goldfish and gummy snacks and ice cream and nothing that has any nutritious value because I'm gonna be honest, it's just a lot easier to give them what they want for that moment of course, because the cycle just continues. Food, our health, our moods on repeat, not to mention it affects the clarity of my own mind. If I eat, when I eat, how much I eat, what I am eating, it affects how I discipline them because I get very cranky and I am quick to anger when I'm hungry. And also I just wanna enjoy life and I want my ice cream and gummy snacks too sometimes.
Listen, it's just a lot to balance all of this. And here's the deal: I'm just supposed to be good at it. I'm supposed to be good at it and I'm not. I'm not normally good at this whole cooking thing, but it is a skill that's required of me as I have to feed my family and it's up to me, and this year I put some new habits into place—nothing huge, nothing massive—that have changed everything for me.
They're small changes that I've put into place just to help me stay sane, to help me stay on budget and to help me bless my family. So, I'm not a great chef, although I really love to pretend to be one with my kids and they like to call themselves sous chefs, especially because we're watching Ratatouille on repeat lately. But here we go. Here are some habits that I have recently put into place, just the last three months really and I've committed to them and I'm gonna share them with you today. Take them or leave them, but maybe just take one or two because honestly they've all served my family really well and served me in my sanity well, and I feel like at least one is gonna serve your family well, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/184.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Alright, it's time for the Nancy Ray Book Club 2023 edition, and in these episodes I'm gonna share my three biggest takeaways from the books that I'm reading. I keep a pace of about a book a month, and it's usually the last episode of the month that you'll find me sharing about that current book on my list. Today I'm gonna be giving an honest review of Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mere Mortals by Oliver Burkeman.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/183.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Four Thousand Weeks, Oliver Burkeman
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Now that two of my four kids are school age, I get asked a lot about their education. Where do they go to school? Do you homeschool? And the answer is that they go to school and they homeschool. They do both. We have chosen the route of a University Model Christian School, which means they attend school two days a week in person, and then I homeschool them three days a week.
It's a bit of a different take on education, and there aren't a ton of schools out there with this model, although it is growing a lot more throughout the US. But today I'm just gonna share our philosophy on educating our kids why we chose this route, and a little peak into what a typical day in the life looks like for us on one of those homeschool days.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/182.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
This episode is simply a day in the life of Nancy Ray. This feels a little bit mundane, maybe a little vulnerable to share a day of my life with you, a bit of a peak into our crazy world with raising four kids and work and all of that. But so many people have requested it. So here I am, listen at your own risk or enjoyment.
But I'm grateful that so many of you are interested in the simplicity of my life, and that's what I'm gonna share with you today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/181.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
My most downloaded episode, maybe ever, was Episode 007 called You Can Do Hard Things. Today, I'm gonna introduce her sister to you: You Can Do Fun Things. I've decided that this year I wanna make more of these Work & Play episodes about play, and I'm gonna try to be a little more lighthearted, which can be kind of hard for me. But that's the goal for this year, and that's what today's episode is all about—encouraging you (and me) to incorporate more play in your life and to do fun things.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/180.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
It is the first podcast episode of 2023. I'm so grateful for you. I'm so grateful that you're listening right now, that you keep listening, and that somehow my voice has found a place in your life. One thing’s for sure: you keep me coming back. You keep me coming back to record podcasts again and again. The fact that you're listening keeps me coming back and I just want to say thank you.
I wanna thank you and just let you know how grateful I am to have like-minded friends out there to connect to in this format. Now, today's episode is gonna be kind of different. It's gonna be a little behind the scenes of the podcast itself, where I've been, where I think I'm headed, and what you can expect for this upcoming year. It'll be short and sweet with lots of resources thrown your way, hopefully helpful ones. And I just wanna give you a heads up too, that I'm taking the whole month of January off, so I'll see you back here in February!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/179.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Today I'm sharing my top 10 books of 2022, and why I love them. Listen, I had a great list of books I was gonna read this year, and I read a lot of them, I did, but then I kept getting sidetracked with recommendations from friends, and I would read other books instead. And let me just pause and say I'm so glad that I did. It led to some of the most wonderful books, and I cannot wait to share them with you today.
Resources from this Episode:
Join the Contentment Challenge!
The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
The Little Pilgrims Progress, by Helen Taylor
The 12 Week Year, by Brian Moran
The Self-Driven Child, by William Stixrud
The Psychology of Money, by Morgan Housel
How to Get Paid For What You Know, by Graham Cochrane
The Great Blue Hills of God, by Kreis Beall
Just Do Something, by Kevin DeYoung
Mere Christianity, by C.S. Lewis
Steal Like an Artist, by Austin Kleon
Honorable Mentions
The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, by C.S. Lewis
The Four Disciplines of Execution, by Covey, Huling, and McChesney
The Confident Mom, by Renee Swope
Take Back Your Joy, by Nicole Jacobsmeyer
The Great Divorce, by C.S. Lewis
Walking with Barbara, by Barbara Hemphill
Just a few months from now, in the start of 2023, that will mark 10 years since I did my first Contentment Challenge, where I give up shopping for three months straight to pursue a more content life and a closer walk with the Lord. 10 years! That's a long time, and you may or may not know this, but it had such a great impact on my life that I have done the Contentment Challenge almost every year since then—I think I skipped one year, maybe two.
So, today I'm gonna share the lessons that I have learned through the last 10 years of doing the Contentment Challenge, and I'm gonna invite you to pray about doing it with me again at the beginning of 2023.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/177.
Resources from this episode:Take the Contentment Challenge
USE CODE: 5OFF2023 to take $5 off The Contentment Reset!
The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
At the end of every year, I plan time to do three simple things to plan for the year ahead. I take time to look back, reviewing the previous year. I set aside time to celebrate the previous year in God's faithfulness, and I take time to look ahead and set goals for the year to come. This episode's gonna give you more of a behind the scenes look at what that actually looks like for me.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/176.
Resources from this episode:“Finish Your Year Strong” Worksheet (Free Download!)
The Contentment Challenge (starts Jan. 1!)
A few years ago, I came up with a core purpose statement for my work and this podcast, and that is: Practical tools for an integrated life. That is what I'm after. I want my teachings, my content, everything that I give to you or anyone who's listening to be very practica, and I want them to be implemented into an integrated life.
But first you have to answer the question: What is an integrated life? What does that even mean? Well, the word integrate means to combine one thing with another so that they become a whole. Another definition of integrated is with various parts or aspects linked or coordinated. Living an integrated life means combining your faith life, your home life, and your work life so that they become linked or coordinated, complimenting each other beautifully and ultimately providing the train tracks for a healthy soul and a fulfilling life. And I'm gonna challenge you today, in your faith and your home and in your work—to live an integrated life.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
From gift guides to Instagram Ads, to those Amazon kids toy magazines, to Black Friday deals—everyone right now is telling us that we should be buying more, that we should have more, that we should be dressing in cuter clothes and decorating more perfectly. And today, I just want to be a voice that says: You don't.
You don't! You don't have to buy all of those things. You don't have to do more. The good stuff, the really good stuff of this holiday season, is found in the quiet, grateful moments.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/174.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Episode 172 - My Christmas Gameplan
Song of the Stars, by Sally Lloyd Jones
Episode 033 - Our Favorite Thanksgiving Tradition
Episode 171 - Let Your Yes Be Yes
God created the world in six days, and on the seventh day He completely rested and enjoyed his work. He created this cadence for all of us to work six days and to rest one, and then repeat. We have a hard time doing this, don't we? I do. It's hard. It's not surprising why of all the 10 Commandments, this one was the longest with the most emphasis in the Bible.
He designed us to do life this way. And when we do, life is refreshing and when we don't, it's exhausting. So today, I am gonna share with you simply how we practice the Sabbath and hopefully give you some practical things that you can do, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/173.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
It is that time of the year where we are starting to think all about the holidays. And in my opinion, you can't start planning too early for Christmas. So, today I am telling you all about my Christmas gameplan, which is simply the planning that goes in to making Christmas a wonderful, peaceful time of year—because let's face it, it can be very stressful and very hectic if you don't thoughtfully plan ahead.
So I'm just gonna share with you my approach and my strategy, and hopefully it will encourage you and bless you to plan a little more ahead and also enjoy your holidays a little bit more.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/172.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Welcome Home, by MyQuillyn Smith
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“Priorities are what we do, everything else is just talk.” I love that phrase. My husband works for an organization called C12, and they say that all the time, and it just re-centers you and re-grounds you on the fact that what we do matters. It's not what we say, it's what we do.
I had a hard time coming up with the title of this episode and I landed on “Let Your Yes Be Yes,” because that's the biblical truth I just kept coming back to, but I also thought about naming it “Saying vs. Doing” or “Teaching vs. Modeling.” The heart of what I want to talk about today is simply the idea that we can say a lot and we can have a lot of great ideas, but really our lives come down to what we do. My encouragement to you today is simply to let your yes be yes.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/171.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist (Free Download!)
Em for Marvelous blog post about leisure
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Someone once told me that we are most like God when we are creating. He is after all the creator of everything, and we are after all made in his image. Today's episode has me feeling, I don't know, a bit weepy, inspired, ultimately, grateful. Fair warning: might cry by the end of this. I don't know, we'll see. But this content today was inspired by a children's book that left me in tears and the simple truth that I've been kind of mulling over that we were created to create.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/170.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist
Called to Create, by Jordan Raynor
Steal Like an Artist, by Austin Kleon
Redeeming Your Time, by Jordan Raynor
The Creator in You, by Jordan Raynor
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Today I'm talking with my dear friend Nicole Jacobsmeyer, who is a fellow mama of four. She is an author and a kindred spirit. Fun little backstory— she and I met when we went to Great Wolf Lodge and she had three kids and I had three kids and we experienced it together and then connected on Instagram, then connected on Marco Polo, and we have stayed in touch and has been so sweet to find out how connected we are and like-minded we are in so many areas of our lives!
Nicole loves Jesus and she has a passion for helping women walk in victory, joy, and faith in the face of trials, sorrow and suffering. Her story is unbelievable. Her first book, Take Back Your Joy, just came out and if you open the first two pages of the book, you'll read my endorsement, which is so much fun!
I hope you enjoy our heartfelt conversation today.
Resources from this episode:Take Back your Joy, by Nicole Jacobsmeyer
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Have you ever heard of having theme days? It's this idea that you choose different themes to focus on for different days and it helps you batch things or just simply not switch back and forth mentally between tasks so much. I have found them very helpful and I wanted to share a few different ways to approach creating your own theme days throughout your week, or even breaking them down into theme hours, to maximize productivity and enjoyment—AKA maximizing your work and your play.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/168.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist
Episode 73: Design Your Rhythm of Work, The Next Right Thing Podcast
Today, I had the absolute privilege of talking to my friend Graham Cochrane. He is the author of How To Get Paid For What You Know, and we talk all about his book! I've read the whole thing cover to cover and it's so good. If I could describe it in any way, it would be practical and helpful.
You know, sometimes you read business books and you think, “Oh, that's great, but that doesn't really apply to me.” It's not that way with his book. He really makes you feel like you can do this—it's awesome. So, yeah, he's an author. He's also a business coach to over 3,000 premium customers worldwide. He founded the recording revolution, a seven figure online music business in 2009, and now, he hosts over 80,000 monthly followers on his podcast, YouTube, and blog, talking about business mindset, productivity, psychology. He's a believer; he's a brother; he's a friend.
I just really have so much respect for Graham. I’m so grateful for him. And even though he's been featured in things like Business Insider and Yahoo and Huffington post and CNBC, he's so humble and he's so real. And I'm so grateful for his voice in this industry.
I know you're going to enjoy our conversation today and I can't wait for you to listen in!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/167.
Resources from this episode:How to Get Paid For What You Know, by Graham Cochrane
158 - Raising Daughters with Shay Cochrane, Part I
159 - Raising Daughters with Shay Cochrane, Part II
The Go-Giver, by Bob Burg and John David Mann
Invitation To Solitude And Silence by Ruth Haley Barton
Vuori Sunday Performance Joggers
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Listen, this episode is so good. I say that because I get to sit down and talk with three of my good friends, women who I adore and admire, who run businesses, who are moms. They are so special to me, and you get to hear the inside scoop about their lives and their businesses, but all throughout the conversations, we're going to be talking about this thing called The Blueprint Model.
And I first want to tell you what that is before you listen in, because otherwise you're going to be really confused. So The Blueprint Model is a course that was created by Shanna—who is one of the ladies you're going to be hearing from today—and it's all about the numbers behind your business. But more than that, it's about creating a business that suits your life.
Now, Shanna is a numbers girl, and she helps people. She helps a lot of creatives get the hang of their money, like the money side of business. And she is teaching a free class in two days and I want you to mark this down in your calendar because it's going to be so good. It's on Thursday, the 18th, I believe at 1pm—you can find out all the details at nancyray.com/blueprint, but the name of the class is The Art of Six Figures: Join me live where I'll teach you exactly how to define what is enough in your business and how to align your business goals with your big dreams and life values.
Okay. That is Shanna's class, not my class. She's gonna be teaching it, but it's so good. I'm going to be there. It's so good. Okay. So the blueprint model, which she's going to be explaining in that class is something that I have taken a small group of women through already once this year. I coached them through it and we did The Blueprint Model together and we learned so much and applied it to all of our very different businesses.
And guess what? The doors are opening to The Blueprint Model again in just a few days. And it's only going to be open until August 25th and after that, the doors are going to close. So I just encourage you to check it out. If you think that these conversations resonate with you, just go check it out, go to nancyray.com/blueprint to see if it's a good fit for you.
And if it's not, that is totally great! I know you're still going to get a lot of value from these conversations today because they just get you thinking about what's important versus vanity metrics and the things that we *think* are important. So I know you're going to enjoy it. Make sure you had to nancyray.com/blueprint to register for Shanna's free class or in a few days, it'll turn into the page where you can learn all about The Blueprint Model.
Now, two more quick things, before we jump into these conversations, you might be wondering, okay, why is Nancy talking about this other girl's course so much? I wonder if she's an affiliate. The answer is yes, I am an affiliate because I'm invested in this course. So, whoever signs up for the course through nancyray.com/blueprint I'm actually going to be group coaching you through the course, and I'll be talking with you the entire time as we go through it together. I love the accountability and I love this course. So I am a proud affiliate of The Blueprint Model.
Second thing is, I wish I could give these wonderful long intros to of these ladies, but I'm going to just keep it short and sweet and let you know that I trust these ladies. I love them. I love their businesses and I'm so grateful. So you're going to hear from Shanna first, she created The Blueprint Model, and I think your mind is just going to be blown with her wisdom. I'm also gonna leave a link in the show notes to my last episode with Shanna, which is referenced several times in this episode.
And then you're going to hear from my friend, Kayse, she runs an online business that really equips women and moms. And she's going to tell you all about her business. It's awesome. It's Anchored Women.
Then the third lady I'll be interviewing today is Kait. And she is just a kindred spirit; I love Kait. She creates the Curious Year Calendar, which my kids are total fans of. We have one hanging in our kitchen and we look at it every day.
So I just love these ladies. I love the work that they do, and I'm thrilled for you to hear from each of them today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/166.
Resources from this episode:Episode 146 - Life & Work Without Social Media With Shanna Skidmore
Free Class: Quiet the Running To-Do List in Your Head!
A Little Something Goods website
The Curious Year Calendar (USE CODE: WORKANDPLAY)
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Well, I'm back from taking a month off of the podcast!! And this episode is going to be a little bit of a catch-up of what I've been up to, what's coming in August, a little bit of a change of plans with the podcast, but as all good. And I'm going to break down at my favorite weekly rhythm for you, which is my Sunday plan.
I'm so excited to share all this with you. I'm excited to be back—it just feels so good. I've missed you guys and I'm so grateful that you are here listening today!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/165.
Resources from this episode:The Work & Play Weekly Checklist
Episode 146 - Life & Work Without Social Media With Shanna Skidmore
The Blueprint Model Waitlist Sign-up
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Well, today is my last episode before I take a month off of the podcast in July! So, I'll look forward to connecting with you again here in August, and I thought I'd end these fun summer-y episodes with just a mix of lighthearted and serious recommendations of sorts—I'm sharing 10 things that are saving my life right now. I hope you enjoy.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/164.
Resources from this episode:
Emily P. Freeman's podcast episode: What's Saving My Life Right Now
California Beach Company pop-up tent
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Our photos, whether they're digital, printed, on our phones, framed, in albums—all of them in a word can feel overwhelming. Which is why I want to lighten your load just a little bit this summer and I came up with the Summer Photo Challenge. Now, the Summer Photo Challenge is simply this:
I am challenging you and myself during the month of July to tackle ONE photo project, just one, that's it. And today I'm going to give you three options, three different photo projects to tackle and exactly how to do each one.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/163.
Resources from this episode:
Welcome to the summer episode where I'm doing something I've never done before—having a little fun with this episode and I'll be sharing everything that reminds me of summer, including some great recommendations. I'll cover places to go, feelings to feel, sites to see, books to read, music to listen to, things to wear, memories to make. I hope this episode makes you really happy.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/posdcast/162.
Resources from this episode:
The Great Blue Hills of God, by Kreis Beall
The Nightingale, by Kristin Hannah
Where the Crawdad’s Sing, by Delia Owens
The Cronicles of Narnia, by C. S. Lewis
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Hello and happy June! Today is a full and exciting episode because I have some updates for you for the Summer and it's a book club episode, which are always my favorites. This book kind of has a funny story with it—which I'll get to.
We are out of school, we're getting used to new rhythms with all the kids home and I've got some fun Summer episodes coming up. Lots to talk about today, but today's book is called The 4 Disciplines of Execution and it was a doozy of a business book. There was a lot in there, but I'm really excited to simplify it and kind of translate it to how we can apply it to our work and our homes. It's going to be good.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/161
Resources from this episode:Welcome to May is for Mama's, when every episode in the month of May is dedicated to all you mamas listening with topics and conversations specifically designed for you!
Today, we have the privilege of hearing from my friend and mama mentor, Renee Swope, who is a wife and a mama of three and an author and speaker and she loves Jesus so much! We are going to be talking all about her latest book, A Confident Mom, which is the perfect fit for my book club and May is for Mamas. You can get all the details about the updated 2022 Book Club at nancyray.com/bookclub.
I am thrilled to talk about one of those books today with the author and Renee is just such a treasure of a friend to me. She's so wise and I love that she is ahead of me in the motherhood journey, she has so much to offer. You are going to love our conversation, I can't wait to share it with you today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/160.
Resources from this episode:
A Confident Mom, by Renee Swope
The Hard Good, by Lisa Whittle
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Welcome to May is for Mamas, when every episode in the month of May on the Work and Play Podcast is dedicated to all you mamas listening.
Today, I am continuing my conversation with my dear friend, Shay Cochrane. She's a wife, a mom of two girls. We tackle all kinds of topics and I just couldn't leave anything out so I decided to split it up into two episodes.
I hope you enjoy the rest of our conversation!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/159.
Resources from this Episode:The Coaching Habit, by Michael Stanier
The Creator in You, by Jordan Raynor
Lies Girls Believe, by Dannah Gresh
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Welcome to May is for Mamas, where every episode in the month of May is dedicated to all the mamas out there, with topics and conversations specifically for you.
Today, I'm chatting with my friend Shay Cochrane, who is a wife and an entrepreneur, and a mama of two daughters. She owns Social Squares, which supplies elevated stock images and digital marketing education for female owned online brands. Her vision as a creator is to enable more women to find greater success, sharing their ideas and businesses with the world, and she does all that in just 16 hours a week! I love how she models her life and her parenting and I have loved this conversation with her today.
We jumped into some hard stuff like, what it looks like to raise daughters in 2022—body image, style, confidence, work ethic, technology, teaching your kids about money. You are going to leave this conversation with some really practical parenting conversations and decisions, as well as some solid encouragement to keep up the good hard work we are doing as mamas.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/158.
Resources from this episode:
This is the epitome of combining Work and Play for mamas there's work to be done. Plenty of it. Folding clothes, meal planning, unloading the dishwasher, picking up toys, tackling the junk drawer, cleaning out the pantry, cleaning up the kitchen and on and on and on. Well, why not turn those work items that are not optional in our lives into some play?
The magic missing link for you could be using a timer.
When you set a timer before tackling a task, you turn it into a game. And before you know it, you're trying to beat your personal best and the kids are actually helping and using the timer, too—and it's really kind of fun! Today's episode for May is for Mamas is all about using a timer in motherhood. This is going to be fun.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/157.
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This is the first episode of May is for Mamas, which is one of my favorite things I do on the podcast every May! Each episode this month will be made for the mamas listening and I hope it will be a mix of uplifting, helpful, encouraging, and maybe even a little lighthearted cause we all need that right now. This first episode is all about speaking scripture over your children and how powerful that can be for your kids and for you.
Today is also the day I'm launching my Patreon page(!), which I'm so excited about. You can head to patreon.com/workandplay to get access to a community of like-minded friends who are Work and Play listeners like you and for as little as $1 a month, you can help keep the Work and Play podcast going. I'll occasionally have discussion threads or polls or exclusive episodes just for those of you who decide to become patrons.
But even if none of that exclusive content or community interests you and you just like the Work and Play podcast as it is, and you want to support it and help me bring it to you, Patreon is the way to do that. So head to patreon.com/workandplay and know I am so genuinely grateful for your support.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/156
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Today, I'm veering off the normal podcast course and I'm breaking a few rules and I just want to share some of where I am in my own work and play and how that affects this podcast moving forward. I'm really excited about where I'm headed and I want to be very honest with you and take you along in this journey with me. I value you, I'm grateful for you listening, especially those of you who listen every week. I'm so, so grateful and I'm excited just to share my heart with you today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/155
Today, I'm going to share my two favorite work habits and that is: how I start my workday and how I finish my workday. I'm just going to go ahead and put this out there—they're pretty nerdy. Some of you are probably going to laugh and be like, I'm never going to do that, and that's fine, but they've worked for me and I really like them.
I'm trying to get back to them after this fourth baby, it takes a little bit to kind of get them in your system again, but I tell you what, when you can rock these routines, your workday is amazing.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/154.
Resources from this episode:Two Second Lean, by Paul Akers
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We all have tension in our lives. And a lot of times that manifests itself in anxious thoughts and just feeling like we can't get our heads around something or we can't move through it and that's just part of being human. It's just part of living life and this isn't the episode that I had planned for today, but it's the episode that God put on my heart.
So I'm just going to talk about tension and anxiety and how to get through that, how to get past it, how to get through to the other side. I'm going to share some practical things that I've walked through in my life very recently and I'm going to share the things that helped me get through it.
And then at the end of this episode, I'm just gonna to be honest and share a little bit about what's going on with the podcast and what you can look forward to in the coming weeks and months.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/153.
There's something about meeting regularly as a family that brings you together, not only in a practical way—which it does—you can talk about the calendar and your schedules and your plans, but emotionally you can connect and you can share things you're looking forward to or problems that you're having and I didn't have this growing up.
We didn't meet regularly as a family, but it's something that we've started to do recently and it has been such a joy. Today I'm going to share with you the simple outline that we follow for our family meeting and I hope it's helpful to you.
For the full show notes head to nancyray.com/podcast/152.
Resources from this episode:
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Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where every month I read a book and then I share my three biggest takeaways from that book with you here. This month, I read the Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel. A book that came really highly recommended to me by a few trusted friends and it did not disappoint. So yes, today we are talking all about money and our relationship with it.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/151.
Resources from this episode:
The Pyschology of Money, by Morgan Housel
The Millionaire Next Door, by Thomas Stanley
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I have been doing a lot of thinking lately on productivity and how to be productive, mostly because right now I have very limited amounts of time that I can devote to projects. As a breastfeeding mama, my windows of time are very limited—they're limited when I need to feed the baby next. So in a lot of ways it forces me to think strategically about my time.
As I manage a household with four little kids and a lot of stuff, as well as my online business, I've realized there are two parts to productivity. Those are also the two places I tend to get hung up, but when I get them right, they are key. So hopefully today's episode will unlock some insight for you, too, and will give you some helpful tips on how to be truly productive.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/150.
Resources from this episode:
What's Best Next, by Matt Perman
My Favorite Pens (Pilot G2 Ultra Fine)
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Having four small children six and under simply means that over the last six years there has been a lot of sickness in our house. And for two and a half years of that time, we have lived through the pandemic, our culture has been hyper-vigilant and very fearful of any kind of sickness because of COVID.
And while there's really no right or wrong way to be sick, because you're just sick, I have learned a few things. I've learned ways to cope with sickness, ways to cling to Jesus, ways to pray over your children during sickness, ways to perhaps make sickness a little less miserable and that's what I'm going to share with you today.
For the full show notes head to nancyray.com/podcast/149.
Resources from this episode:
How to Raise a Healthy Child in Spite of your Doctor, by Robert Mendelsohn
We are living in a tense time. Cultural pressures are really high. Our nation feels like it's falling apart some days and is super divided and it's hard, and more than anything, the dark world around us is begging for light and truth.
I sense there's just so much spiritual confusion and a drought in people's lives spiritually. This episode is simply an encouragement for you to be bold and strong and to live out your faith in every aspect of your life, and to cling to Jesus every day. I hope these words encourage you.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/148.
Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where once a month I tell you about a book I'm reading and loving and I share my top three takeaways from that book. To learn more about the books I'm reading this year head to nancyray.com/bookclub. And to get even more out of these episodes, I encourage you pick up these books, join me and read them alongside me.
Now, today I'm going to be talking about The Self-Driven Child, which is a book that's going to stay with me throughout the rest of my parenting journey. One that I am highly encouraging Will to read alongside me and one that I'm committing to picking up and reading again when my kids get a little older. It's that good. Think about it—who doesn't want a self-driven child who grows up to be a self-driven adult.
Now the tagline of the book is "The science and sense of giving your kids more control over their lives." If you have kiddos of any age, I think this episode is going to be really helpful and will hopefully give you some things to think about and act on that will help you raise motivated, driven children.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/147.
Resources from this episode:The Self-Driven Child, by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson
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Well, today is part two of a wrap-up of my break from social media, and I took six months off and I'm just talking about the impact it's had on my life and my work. And today we're going to get practical. I'm going to answer some questions about, practically, how did I pull myself away from social media? What did that look like? How did I fill my time?
But I'm most excited about my conversation with my friend Shanna Skidmore(!), which will happen later in this episode. So, I'll answer some questions first, then I'll ask Shanna some questions, and we had the most amazing conversation about it and how to build a life that you want.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/146.
Resources from this episode:The Blueprint Model + Nancy’s offer
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For the last six months, I've taken a break from social media and it has been so good. Today, I’m going to give you an update on how I liked it, what I missed, the best lessons I learned and how I'm going to do things differently when I come back. This is a topic I'm passionate about; I strongly believe we can't just let technology into our lives without being extremely thoughtful about it.
Because I want to leave you with my heart and my thoughts from my own experience, along with some practical tips on how to use social media rightly in our lives, and what rhythms did I replace social media—with and all that good practical stuff, I've actually decided to separate this into a two-part series. So this is going to be part one, which is the “heart” part of it—lessons, all about what I've learned and next week is going to be the practical side of it, and I'm going to have a special guest (and I'm really excited about that!).
Now, before I jump into part one, I want to let you know about my special guest and an amazing live webinar that she's teaching on February 17th. Her name is Shanna Skidmore. I admire her SO much. I have learned so much from her and she actually runs her entire business without social media and it's for creative entrepreneurs—in a space that you would really think she should maybe be on social media. And one of the comments I get all the time is, oh, you know, I wish I could take a break from social, but my work depends on it, or I can never take a break from social media because it's directly tied to my income, or I'd leave it if I could, but I can't because my work depends on it.
My friend Shanna has kind of challenged that thought and has been a trailblazer and honestly, such an example to me on how to run a successful business that's profitable without social media, or if you'd rather—with limited social media.
Now, the webinar is called The Art of Six Figures: How to Build a Thriving Business on Your Own Terms. And that's the point! It's building a business that you love, and engaging with your work and with social media on your terms, with healthy boundaries and clarity.
Okay, I could literally talk about this all day because I love her. I've learned so much from her. And I think she answers a question a lot of creatives are wondering, which is how you can do this. So I wanted to share this resource with you! You can sign up right here!
Also—spoiler alert—Shanna and I are going to be teaming up for something really good about this topic and about her webinar. So if you want to be in the know, be sure you're on my email list, and I'll be sure to tell you there or tune in next week and you'll learn a little bit more about it then, as well.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/145.
Resources from this episode:Shanna’s Webinar: The Art of Six Figures
Free Download: A Vision For Your Season
Episode 042 - Book | Switch On Your Brain
The Self-Driven Child, by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson
Episode 135 - An Update On My Social Media Break
Episode 088 - Book | Digital Minimalism
Episode 138 - 3 Habits to Put Social Media in its Place (Ep. 12 Replay)
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Well, it's almost Valentines Day and I just wanted to give you something fun to do. I am giving you 10 fun questions to ask on your next date night. Now, you can use these on Valentine's Day, or maybe you can use these on a date night at home after the kids go to bed, but the point is for you to take a break from normal life discussions and conversations, and just to get to know each other more. I hope you have fun with this!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/144.
Resources from this episode:I'm just going to say, I hit it out of the park with my first book choice of the year. The Nancy Book Club is off to a great start for 2022. If you want to see all the books that I'm reading and join in with me for any of them, or all of them, head to nancyray.com/bookclub to see.
But today I'm going to be talking about my first book, The 12 Week Year and why this book was just what I needed to read at the start of this year, between having baby number four and this pandemic. I don't know about you, but it felt so hard to plan and to dream and set goals—but 12 weeks? 12 weeks? I can do that. I can plan the next 12 weeks.
This book teaches kind of how to throw out that annualized thinking and truly treat every 12 week group like an entire year. And today I'm going to teach you how to have a 12 week year based on the book, and of course I'll share my three biggest takeaways as well.
Resources from this episode:
Money is a part of our life. Whether we like it or not, we need it to live and we can choose to either manage it well and let it be a blessing to us and those around us, or if we neglect it, we'll likely end up with not very much of it and it will be a continual point of stress for us. Today I'm excited to share five money mindsets that Will and I have embraced throughout our marriage that have been such a blessing to us and have kind of been the foundation of how we handle our money.
This episode will be full of practical advice, but all of that practical how-to is going to stem from these money mindsets, and I hope that they're a blessing to you.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/142.
Resources from this episode:Episode 124 - We’re Debt Free Again!
The key to success is contentment.
I mean, think about it—if you can find a way to truly be content, to be happy in every circumstance, wouldn't it be awesome? Every day it would be incredible. I mean, we'd wake up so grateful and so happy because we're content! This episode is about fighting for contentment with simple habits in our lives. Habits that can help us pause and realize just how good we have it. Habits that help us to live at ease and to live content.
Now, for those of you who just started the Contentment Challenge, you can do this! I hope this is going to be encouraging to you. And if you're listening and have no idea what I'm talking about, it's a challenge I host every year to give up shopping for things for three months, it's saying a temporary goodbye to Amazon Prime and Target and instead, focusing on the things that bring true contentment and fulfillment. It started January 10th, but the beauty about the Contentment Challenge is you can do it any time of year when it works for you.
Head to nancyray.com/contentmentchallenge, where you can learn all about it.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/141.
Resources from this episode:This episode is going to be a fun one. I firmly believe before we can look ahead and move forward, we need to pause and look back, and this episode is going to do just that. It's going to be all about 2021. The things that happened in my life that were highlights, experiences—I recommend trips that we took, books that I read, things I tried and liked, and more.
Here is the best of 2021!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/140.
Resources from this episode:Up From Slavery, Booker T. Washington’s autobiography
Episode 103 - Book | Up From Slavery
The Gospel Comes With a House Key, by Rosaria Butterfield
Where the Crawdads Sing, by Delia Owens
Blog: Children and the Passing of Time, by Emily Thomas
Joanna Gaines’ mac and cheese recipe
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Hello and happy new year! I am so excited to be back, to be bringing you some fresh episodes of the work and play podcast moving forward, and to start this year off on the right foot, encouraging you in your work and in your play.
Happy 2022!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/139.
Resources from this episode:
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Listen, we all struggle with social media. It is an incredible tool of connectivity, but it's literally designed to keep us scrolling, even when we don't want to be. Now in my best moments, I've connected with people I've never met. They have brought me hope or encouragement in a time I have desperately needed it. But in my darkest moments, I've thought some pretty terrible thoughts about myself as a wife, or a mother. I've wanted to escape a messy house or crying baby, or even worse, I haven't wanted to escape those things, but I've been scrolling none the less.
I want to say is that technology isn't good or bad. Social media isn't good or bad, it is simply a tool. Just like money can be used to bless other people, and you can help eradicate poverty, do amazing things with money. Or you can spend it on some pretty terrible things and fuel addiction. Just like you can use bricks to build a hospital or a foundation that helps people in need. Or you can take a brick and throw it through a window and bring destruction. It's just a tool, right? Money is a tool, bricks are a tool, social media, technology, they're tools that you can use. It's not good or bad, it's how we use it or how we choose to use it that determines its outcome. With that said, it's incredibly important for us to know that this is just a tool, but it's also important for us to understand how it has been designed and refined over time. I want to enhance your understanding of its design, so that you can be aware of it and take responsibility for your life and your scrolling habits.
It can be helpful. It can provide income. It can be addictive. It can be a trap. Today, I want to talk about simple practices that I have found incredibly life-giving to keep social media in its place.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/138.
Resources from this episode:A Good Podcast Episode on the Subject
BBC Article: Social Media is ‘deliberately’ addictive
The Tech-Wise Family, Andy Crouch
I have three quick things for you before I dive into a very brief, but hopefully very encouraging episode for you today. First, would you head to nancyray.com/survey to help me make this podcast even better for you next year? Listen, I choose the episode content based on three things:
1) what I believe God wants me to say, 2) what I'm learning, and 3) what you want me to talk about.
And since I'm off social media and can't ask you there, this is the way I'm able to ask you, what do you want me to talk about next year? So I would love for you to head here to let me know.
And I appreciate it so, so much. It should only take a minute, it's just a couple of questions and thank you in advance for doing that.
Second, the Contentment Challenge is starting again on January 10th! Head to nancyray.com/contentmentchallenge to learn more and sign up if you want to be part of that.
And the third thing is my book club. You can see the books I'm reading for 2022, and you can join in with me on some of them or all of them or none of them, or you can just see what I'm reading next year if you want. Whatever you want to do, it’s very casual, but you can head to nancyray.com/bookclub to check that out.
And now for the shortest podcast episode of 2021, I hope this encourages you and is just what you need today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/137.
Quick links from this episode:
What is the Contentment Challenge? In a nutshell, it is a commitment to giving up shopping for clothes, accessories, household decor, stuff, really anything excessive, for 3 months straight in order to focus your heart and your mind on the root of true contentment. It's also a commitment to replace shopping with activities experiences and relationships— the things that really matter in your life.
We live in a world where money seems to kind of fly out of our bank accounts with the simple push of an Amazon button on your phone or the irresistible one spot at Target. We keep buying more and more to make us happy, but does it really? Does it really foster a deep, centered posture of joy and contentment? A few years ago, God asked me to give up shopping for 3 months straight and at first I was not happy about that. This episode is all about that journey and the profound difference that it's made in my heart and in my life. The simple act of abstaining from shopping for extra things for a short amount of time opened my eyes wide to the weird way that I was living life is a consumer and it revealed the actual way that I want to live—full of gratitude and Grace. I have actually taken the Contentment Challenge many times over the years, and in this episode I share the three things I learned during my most recent time through (Jan-March 2019). This also includes a lot of our financial story. Some of which, quite honestly, hurts my pride a little to share, but I pray that God can use it to benefit you!
I hope this episode causes you to pause and think about your own life and how content you are today. Who knows? Maybe you need to take the challenge, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/136.
Resources from this episode:Take the Contentment Challenge (begins Jan. 10, 2022!)
Taking a long-ish break from social media has been on my heart for quite some time, and having Benji, our fourth child, just seemed like the perfect time to do it. So when he was born at the end of July, I decided to go off social media completely for six months.
I'm currently four months in—and yes, Benji is already four months old, which I cannot wrap my mind around—but this episode is all about what I've learned in the last four months from my social media sabbatical so far, I can't wait for you to hear it.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/135.
Resources from this episode:The Tech-Wise Family, by Andy Crouch
Some of these links are affiliate links, which means I do receive a commission when you choose to purchase through them, and that helps me keep this podcast up and running—I truly appreciate when you choose to!
I have an invitation for you today: choose the courageous thing and slow down.
It's time to live a simpler, slower life than the one that you're living. Does that feel impossible? Does it feel like it just cannot happen for you? Do you feel scattered and a bit out of control? I know sometimes I do. Maybe you feel like your life can't actually change right now because of work, kids, or a schedule that you really can't change. Well, friend, I have good news. Even though your life can't change, you can. You can change. The feeling of living out of control and always in the chaos can absolutely change because you can always change.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/134.
Resources from this episode:FREE DOWNLOAD: 5 Steps to Creating Calm Amidst the Chaos
The Effective Executive, by Peter Drucker
What’s Best Next, by Matt Perman
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I recently shared the news that after this year, my twelfth year of business, the doors of Nancy Ray Photography will close. This was one of the hardest, most difficult decisions of my life. I love this work, I am going to miss this work, but the bottom line is this: God gently made it clear to me that this season has come to an end.
This was a massive decision for me personally and for my family, and it all started one year ago. Today, it feels like I've turned the page into the next chapter of my life. Now, I'll be honest, I could've kept going. Part of me really, really wanted to just keep going. I was good at it. I was confident in it, but this quote from Richard Blackaby explains why I'm letting it go:
"Our problem as leaders is we do everything we know to do. That's not enough. We need to do everything God wants us to do."
That says it all. I just know that in order for me to everything that God wants me to do, I need to let this go. I simply know that God wants me to do something different. I'm going to walk you through how I got to this point and how I finally made the decision and how I listen to God's voice every step of the way. I'm going to share some questions, some hard questions, that I had to ask myself and I'm going to ask these questions to you, too. So I'm going to start this episode by asking these questions and hopefully as I share my story, you're going to understand a little bit more about what those questions mean. And as I finish the episode and come back and ask these questions again, maybe you'll have a fuller understanding about where you are today.
My hope is that as I share how I navigated this huge decision, you’ll hopefully walk away with some helpful tools for he next time that you step into a new season, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/133.
Resources from this episode:The Seasons of God, by Richard Blackaby
Lioness Arising, by Lisa Bevere
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I am so excited to bring this special episode with Emily Ley back to the Work and Play podcast today. She is one of the most authentic people I have ever met, I kid you not. She’s been a friend of mine for several years now. I've watched her grow as a mom, as a business owner, but she never loses that on authenticity. Every time I hang out with her, she makes me cry, and it's not in a bad way. It's because her heart for life, her heart for her people, it moves me. She really wants the right things in life. She's doing something really wonderful with her work and her play.
For the show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/132.
Resources from this episode:When Less Becomes More, by Emily Ley
Get ready for another one of your past favorites! Today's episode was originally Episode 005: Calling vs. Assignment. I hope you enjoy.
I think it's pretty safe to say that when it comes to our work, we want to be part of something that we are called to do— something that is full of meaning and has purpose, something that is in line perfectly with our passions and giftings. But today I want to challenge our way of thinking, and really the language that we use describing our work and our calling.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/131.
Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where every month I share a book I'm reading, and three big takeaways that I have from that book. And you can always find more information about the books I'm reading at nancyray.com/bookclub, where you can join in reading them with me.
Now, I've got a quick update on the book club for the rest of 2021. I did not realize in the beginning of this year that I would be needing a six month sabbatical and that I'd be taking off six months from work and this podcast and social media, which simply means I'm going to be putting the Book Club on hold until 2022. Fighting Forward, this interview, is going to be my last 2021 Book Club episode, and all the other books I did not get to are simply going to be pushed back to 2022.
I just want to thank you for your grace in this. Listen, you know, my approach with this book club is very relaxed anyway—read what you'd like to read, participate as you can. If a book doesn't sound interesting, you don't have to read it with us. I personally hope to do a lot of reading while I'm away, but realistically I have a newborn baby and three other children. So I just appreciate your grace towards me, as well, while I kind of redirect and do things a little differently to serve my work and my play and my life and my family and you guys, as best as I can during the season of my life.
Today, I have a conversation with a friend and author Hannah Brencher. Hannah is such a breath of fresh air. She is a writer, a TED speaker, an online educator with a heart for building leaders. She has written three books. First, If You Find This Letter. Second, Come Matter Here. And third, which we're talking about today, Fighting Forward. It has been exactly what I have needed to read. It's incredible. Her heart for change and for fighting for the life that God has for you is something that you do not want to miss.
I think you're going to love our conversation today about how you can fight forward in your own life.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/130.
Get ready, because I love a good morning routine. Fair warning: I am such a nerd about this. I know this sounds kind of extreme, but having a morning routine in place really enhances the quality of my life. I'm not kidding. It gives me something to look forward to at night. It starts my day off connected with the Lord and with a healthy mindset. It allows me to start my day in a place of abundance, which really determines so much of the rest of my day. So whether you have a solid morning routine or if you don't have one at all, this episode is for you.
PSA: This was recorded when I was not knee deep in newborn life!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/129.
Resources from this episode:Michael Hyatt & the Lead to Win Podcast
Allie Casazza & The Purpose Show
What the Most Successful People do Before Breakfast, by Laura Vanderkam
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Life is hard, and sometimes it just seems we can't move forward in our lives until someone speaks some words of life to us. So that's what I'm here for today. If you're facing something really hard, I am here to tell you, you were made for hard things.
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/128.
As you may know, I'm currently taking a six month break from work and social media to be fully present with my family, which means that every Tuesday on the podcast, you're going to be getting a mix of new episodes, old episodes and interviews. This episode of the podcast is one of my earlier most popular, most downloaded episodes, which means it's worth repeating.
This is the first episode ever of Work & Play with Nancy Ray, I hope you enjoy it.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/127.
Resources from this episode:Hello! I am back after a two month break from this podcast! I'm happy to be back and today I'm so excited to share with you a huge life event that took place over the last two months for us, which is the birth of our fourth baby, a son, Benjamin Valor Ray. And today I'm going to be sharing his birth story with you.
I'm going to go into the details of why we chose a home birth and just the story of how God used his birth to really heal me and rid me of so much fear and just show me how beautiful birth can really be. It was such an amazing experience, and I'm so excited to share it with you today.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/126.
Resources from this episode:Hello! I am back after a two month break from this podcast! I'm happy to be back and today I'm so excited to share with you a huge life event that took place over the last two months for us, which is the birth of our fourth baby, a son, Benjamin Valor Ray. And today I'm going to be sharing his birth story with you.
I'm going to go into the details of why we chose a home birth and just the story of how God used his birth to really heal me and rid me of so much fear and just show me how beautiful birth can really be. It was such an amazing experience, and I'm so excited to share it with you today.
Well friend, this is my last episode of Work & Play before I take a two month break from the podcast and a six month break from work and social media. I just want to use this time and space to encourage you. And I want to speak life over you. And I want to encourage you to speak life over the people around you.
I'll also tell you a little bit about what to expect from me for the rest of the year. It's going to be a short and sweet episode, and I kind of hope it feels like a little podcast hug, and I'm excited to know I'll see you again soon.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/125.
See you in a few months!
To sign up for my monthly emails during the podcast break, head to nancyray.com/emails.
Well friend, this is my last episode of Work & Play before I take a two month break from the podcast and a six month break from work and social media. I just want to use this time and space to encourage you. And I want to speak life over you. And I want to encourage you to speak life over the people around you.
I'll also tell you a little bit about what to expect from me for the rest of the year. It's going to be a short and sweet episode, and I kind of hope it feels like a little podcast hug, and I'm excited to know I'll see you again soon.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/125.
See you in a few months!
To sign up for my monthly emails during the podcast break, head to nancyray.com/emails.
I am so excited about today's episode! Today, Will and I are going to be sharing about how we are debt-free again, as we just paid off our house! If you followed us for a while, you know, we are passionate about financial stewardship and financial freedom, and you also might know that we paid off our first mortgage when we were just 25 and 26 years old.
And today we will be telling you a little bit about our journey and how we went back into debt for the house we live in now and how we were able to pay that house off this year. Our hope more than anything is that you would be inspired and know that with some hard work and intentional planning, this could be possible for you, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/124.
Resources from this episode:Episode 068 - 12 Years of Marriage, Part I
Episode 069 - 12 Years of Marriage, Part II
God and Money, by John Cortines and Gregory Baumer
The Total Money Makeover, by Dave Ramsey
Rich Dad, Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki
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Before we jump in, this is your quick reminder that today is the last day you can purchase An Integrated Life, which is an 18 lesson audio course—basically 18 podcast episodes with a workbook that you can keep coming back to, and it outlines a framework for you to grow deeper in your faith, take authority in your home and gain clarity in your work, all for the kingdom of God.
Head to nancyray.com/integratedlife to grab yours today. And if you're listening to this and the deadline has passed, feel free to still go to that link to sign up for the wait list, so you'll be the first to know when it comes back out again!
So, I have decided to take six months off of social media. No Instagram, no Facebook, no Twitter, no social media. As soon as our fourth baby arrives, I'm going to be spending time with my family and friends in real life, being present and free myself from any obligation to post or share anything for six whole months.
In today's podcast episode, I'm going to share more about why I'm doing this and why you might consider doing it, too.
Resources from this episode:An Integrated Life (An Audio Course)
Episode 012 - 3 Habits to Put Social Media In It’s Place
Episode 088 - Book | Digital Minimalism
Episode 093 - A Year of Contentment with Reagan Reynolds, Pt. 1
Episode 114 - BFFs, Infertility, and Miracles with Samantha Ray
The Graham Cochrane Show, Ep. 105: A Year off Social Media (The Update)
Shanna Skidmore’s blog: I Quit Social Media for a Year. Here’s Why.
The Tech-Wise Family, by Andy Crouch
Digital Minimalism, by Cal Newport
Affiliate links have been used in this post! I do receive a commission when you choose to purchase through these links, and that helps me keep this podcast up and running—I truly appreciate when you choose to use them!
Before we jump in, this is your quick reminder that today is the last day you can purchase An Integrated Life, which is an 18 lesson audio course—basically 18 podcast episodes with a workbook that you can keep coming back to, and it outlines a framework for you to grow deeper in your faith. Take authority in your home and gain clarity in your work.
All for the kingdom of God had to nancyray.com/integratedlife to grab yours today. And if you're listening to this and the deadline has passed, feel free to still go to that link to sign up for the wait list, so you'll be the first to know when it comes back out again.
So I have decided to take six months off of social media. No Instagram, no Facebook, no Twitter, no social media. As soon as our fourth baby arrives, I'm going to be spending time with my family and friends in real life, being present and free myself from any obligation to post or share anything for six whole months.
In today's podcast episode, I'm going to share more about why I'm doing this and why you might consider doing it, too.
Resources from this episode:An Integrated Life (An Audio Course)
Episode 012 - 3 Habits to Put Social Media In It’s Place
Episode 088 - Book | Digital Minimalism
Episode 093 - A Year of Contentment with Reagan Reynolds, Pt. 1
Episode 114 - BFFs, Infertility, and Miracles with Samantha Ray
The Graham Cochrane Show, Ep. 105: A Year off Social Media (The Update)
Shanna Skidmore’s blog: I Quit Social Media for a Year. Here’s Why.
The Tech-Wise Family, by Andy Crouch
Digital Minimalism, by Cal Newport
Affiliate links have been used in this post! I do receive a commission when you choose to purchase through these links, and that helps me keep this podcast up and running—I truly appreciate when you choose to use them!
Before we dive in today, I just wanted to remind you that my new audio course, An Integrated Life, is still available. An Integrated Life is an 18 lesson audio course, think: this podcast you listen to meets an online course meets an audio book. It's something you can come back to over and over again.
Anyway, it's a course that outlines a framework for you to grow deeper in your faith, take authority in your home, and gain clarity in your work, all for the Kingdom of God. And it's available for purchase until July 15. So, if you buy the bundle for $50, you can actually listen to it on your phone like this podcast. So while I'm taking a two month break from this podcast with the new baby, you can keep listening. Head to nancyray.com/integratedlife to learn more and sign up.
Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where I'm sharing a book that I'm reading and my top three takeaways from that book. You can join in anytime at nancyray.com/bookclub. Today's book is Parenting by Paul David Tripp.
He outlines 14 gospel principles that can radically change your family. This book isn't as much a practical book on how to handle a tantrum or discipline your child or what to feed your kid or how to raise teenagers, instead, it's a book that speaks to the "why" of parenting—the heart of parenting—and really how to view our role of parents as believers.
Today's episode is the last of a three part series, giving you a glimpse into the new course I'm releasing TODAY at noon eastern time. So today is all about work, and my foundational approach to it.
To learn more about An Integrated Life and to go ahead and get access today when the doors open, head to nancyray.com/integratedlife.
Today's episode is part two of a three part episode series, giving you a glimpse of this new audio course. Today you'll hear about my outlook on the home and how important home life is. I hope you enjoy it.
And the course is almost out! So be sure that you head to nancyray.com/integratedlife to hear more about it and grab it before the doors close on July 13th.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/120.
Resources from this episode:The Life-Giving Home, by Sally & Sarah Clarkson
An Integrated Life (my newest audio course!)
Affiliate links have been used in this post! I do receive a commission when you choose to purchase through these links, and that helps me keep this podcast up and running—I truly appreciate when you choose to use them!
Over the last several months, I have been working on a project I haven’t told anyone about, but you, my dear work and play podcast listener, are going to be the very first to know about it.
Today’s episode is part 1 of a three part episode series giving you a glimpse inside this new audio course (I honestly hesitate to call it a course because it’s more of a comprehensive way that I look at my life broken down into three categories: faith, home and work). You’re going to hear Lesson 1 from the Faith section which includes my testimony and really just the foundational outlook I have on my faith.
Learn more about my newest audio course: An Integrated Life.
I'm so grateful that for every baby we've had, we've had the opportunity to get away, just me and my husband for a few days before our new baby arrives.
Today's episode is going to cover all of the work and play of going on a babymoon. I'm going to summarize each of the babymoons we've taken; how they've all been different and how we've budgeted for each one.
Now, there's a lot of work that goes on behind the scenes to make it happen, but the play makes it all worth it.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/118.
Resources from this episode:Where the Crawdads Sing, by Delia Owens
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Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where every month I share a book worth reading and invite you to read it along with me. Today's book is The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer.
Highly recommending this one, friend. Listen, by now, you know I'm fascinated with the fast pace of our culture and the use of technology in our world and biblical principles for living. But this book was particularly helpful because it felt like it bridged the gap between modern living and the way that Jesus actually lived. It's one of those books that have kind of settled into my spirit and I think about it often. And I can't wait to share more about it with you today.
Resources from this episode:The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, by John Mark Comer
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My mom is the kindest wisest, warmest, funniest woman I know. It is really an honor to have her as a mom. Every time I've needed advice or have felt misunderstood or have been confused, she is the first person I call. She's so trustworthy. She's the best listener in the world, and every time I ask for advice, it seems like she always has the exact words I need to hear.
The world needs more people like my mom, and today I get to share her with you. I hope you enjoy the last May is for Mamas episode: an interview with my very own mama.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/116.
Resources from this episode:The Nightingale, by Kristin Hannah
The Four Winds, by Kristin Hannah
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Welcome to another episode of May is for Mamas! Today, I’m going to be brief and hopefully encouraging. And I don't say this lightly—I believe the secret to getting the most out of motherhood, and life in general, is to simply lean in to your season.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/115.
Resources from this episode:Episode 047 - Book | Seasons of God with Dr. Richard Blackaby
Seasons of God, by Dr. Richard Blackaby
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Welcome to May is for Mamas where every episode this month is dedicated to all the mamas out there. Today is a special one because I'm having my best friends since ninth grade, who also happens to be my sister-in-law—yes, it's crazy—we ended up marrying brothers on my podcast as my guest. Her name is Samantha Ray, and she is a writer, creator, mother, and my dearest friend, living in Wake Forest, North Carolina, with her husband, John, daughter, Griffin, and their three kitties.
She is a writer in every sense of the word. She writes about slow living, pursuing a whole healthful lifestyle, including relational and emotional health. And she has never been afraid to dig into the deeper grittier issues of life, which is why she's here today. She's also a beautiful songwriter and musician. She's gifted in so many ways. I adore her and she always has this profound belief that there's beauty to be found in the messy, the undone, the less photo-worthy moments of life. And it's always worthwhile to dig for the gold, right where you are. Now, Sam and I have been friends for a long, long time.
Today we are diving into one of the most difficult seasons of our friendship, the season of five years where she was walking through infertility and I had three babies. The tension, the heartache, and the hope that we felt was very real and we're sharing that today, and Sam specifically is sharing her story. And as she does, she's very honest, very real. She gives a lot of great practical advice and a huge dose of hope and healing for anyone walking through infertility.
I'm just so honored to share today's podcast episode with you, because what it feels like for me is a precious gift that I'm giving to you, that you can hear Sam's heart and her story. And it feels like we are sharing this really vulnerable part of our journey together as friends and sisters with you.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/114.
Resources from this episode:Episode 093 - A Year of Contentment with Reagan Reynolds, Pt. 1
Episode 094 - A Year of Contentment with Reagan Reynolds, Pt. 2
Welcome to May is for Mamas where every episode this month is dedicated to all the mamas out there. Today is a special one because I'm having my best friends since ninth grade, who also happens to be my sister-in-law—yes, it's crazy—we ended up marrying brothers on my podcast as my guest. Her name is Samantha Ray, and she is a writer, creator, mother, and my dearest friend, living in Wake Forest, North Carolina, with her husband, John, daughter, Griffin, and their three kitties.
She is a writer in every sense of the word. She writes about slow living, pursuing a whole healthful lifestyle, including relational and emotional health. And she has never been afraid to dig into the deeper grittier issues of life, which is why she's here today. She's also a beautiful songwriter and musician. She's gifted in so many ways. I adore her and she always has this profound belief that there's beauty to be found in the messy, the undone, the less photo-worthy moments of life. And it's always worthwhile to dig for the gold, right where you are. Now, Sam and I have been friends for a long, long time.
Today we are diving into one of the most difficult seasons of our friendship, the season of five years where she was walking through infertility and I had three babies. The tension, the heartache, and the hope that we felt was very real and we're sharing that today, and Sam specifically is sharing her story. And as she does, she's very honest, very real. She gives a lot of great practical advice and a huge dose of hope and healing for anyone walking through infertility.
I'm just so honored to share today's podcast episode with you, because what it feels like for me is a precious gift that I'm giving to you, that you can hear Sam's heart and her story. And it feels like we are sharing this really vulnerable part of our journey together as friends and sisters with you.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/114.
Welcome to the first episode in May is for Mamas! Every episode this month will be dedicated to all the mamas listening and will hopefully be encouraging and helpful to you. Before I jump into the episode, I wanted you to know that starting tomorrow May 5th lasting through May 10th, my Legacy Photo System is going to be on sale.
This is the system I created to organize all of my photos. My printed photos, my digital photos, how to back them up, how to get them under control on my phone, how to get a system in place long-term moving forward so that you can get rid of the overwhelming stress of managing your photos and actually enjoy them again. So head to legacyphotosystem.com from May 5th through the 10th to grab yours on sale. It's the perfect mother's day gift, in my opinion, if you don't have it already.
Now, this episode feels vulnerable. This episode feels extra vulnerable for me because I don't feel like I got to this path of motherhood that I'm on like most women do, but I'm realizing that every story of motherhood is different and hard and beautiful and every unique way.
And so in hopes that I'm going to make someone who's listening feel a little less lonely and a little more normal, I am going to be vulnerable and share how I got here, how I got to being a mama of almost four kids. How I love it so much, but how I was terrified of it at first.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/113.
Resources from this episode:The Legacy Photo System (on sale 5/5-5/10!)
Episode 058 - Raising 6 Kids (Including triplets!) with Mary Lindsey Blanton
Hinds’ Feet on High Places, by Hannah Hurnard
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It's a Nancy Ray Book Club episode! Once a month I share a book I'm reading and loving, and my three biggest takeaways from that book. You can join in on this book club at any point by heading over to nancyray.com/bookclub.
Now this month's book is Atomic Habits, by James Clear. It has been highly recommended to me for such a long time, and I've got to say, it's lived up to its hype. I really, really enjoyed it. It was hard to narrow down my takeaways, whether we like to admit it or not, we all have habits, good or bad, we all have habits. And sometimes we're aware of these habits, but sometimes they're such a normal part of our lives that we're not even aware that we have this habit.
This book allowed me to take a step back, kind of look at my life and analyze the things that I do, my habits: things I do every day, and more than just that it taught me how to maximize the good habits, even create new good habits and minimize my bad habits--something I think we could all benefit from doing on a regular basis.
One more thing I wanted to add before we jump into this episode is that next month, the whole month of may is May is for Mamas. That's where I dedicate every episode to all the mamas out there listening. I'm really excited for what's to come. I also wanted to give you a heads up that my Legacy Photo System course is going on sale. So make sure you listen to the end of this episode, to get all the details!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/112.
Resources from this episode:Every mother is stuck in this paradox of wanting so badly to photograph and keep and preserve heir children's lives and childhoods with organized baby books and photos, but the very thing that keeps us from doing that are our children. They consume so much of our time and mental energy, it feels impossible to stay on top of our photos.
Being that I used to be a professional photographer, I have set out to simplify this process and do something about it. Today, I'm going to tell you how I plan to keep my photos organized with four kids.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/111.
Resources from this episode:Three days ago, I finished, I think my sixth, maybe my seventh Contentment Challenge, where I give up shopping completely for three months at a time. Of course I buy food, I get gas, I get the necessities, but I quit my addiction to Target. I quit Amazon Prime. I quit impulse buys and I focus my heart on living, on doing things, on gratitude.
So many of you joined me this year and I'm so grateful that you did. Now if this is your first time hearing about the Contentment Challenge, go back and listen to episode three of this podcast—one of the very early episodes—to learn more about it, learn how it began, the story of it and how you could do one too, if you wanted, or you can just go here to get some free resources if you feel like you want to learn more.
Today, I'm going to share with you the value of doing this, the value of giving up something in your life that's easy and convenient and even good, to challenge yourself and specifically the value of the Contentment Challenge this year and what I learned this time around.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/110.
Resources from this episode:Last day to enter the giveaway!!
Today we are celebrating two whole years of this podcast, Work and Play with Nancy Ray! I have a really fun, unique episode planed—it’s like a birthday party that I want to celebrate and encourage you with. But two quick things I wanted to mention before we dive in:
First, if you have never left a review for this podcast in Apple podcasts, would you consider doing that today? It takes less than two minutes. It is a great way for others to discover this podcast. Just pretend like your review is the birthday present that you're bringing to this podcast on her second birthday, and then pretend like I give you a big hug and say, "Thank you! This is exactly what we wanted!" because it is.
But truly, thank you, I'm so grateful that you spend your time listening to this podcast. I know life is short. The fact you take your precious time and listen to my podcast means so so much. I'm so grateful.
The second thing I wanted to share is there is a giveaway happening for this week to celebrate the second birthday of this podcast! And it's full of some really great things. So here's what you need to know about the giveaway: nancyray.com/podcastgiveaway is going to have all of the details.
It starts April 6th and ends April 13th at midnight, and it's really easy for you to enter!
But first of all, I want to tell you what's in the giveaway:
My Legacy Photo System (Premium!) and my Contentment Reset.
Shunta, who you're going to hear from today, her Right Now Routine, which I've been through—it’s amazing—and her Clean One Room program.
Kat Schmoyer's Ultimate Calendar Bundle. If you're planner like me, you are going to want this, it's so good.
And a Cultivate What Matters Custom Write the Word Journal!
Now there are different winners, different tiers and categories of winners. And the first tier, the big winner is going to get most of the stuff. The second tier winner, they're going to get:
Kat’s Quarterly Calendar
So, bottom line is, make sure you register because there's going to be four winners, which is so great!
All right, let's get to today's episode!
Today, you are going to hear from a few friends of mine—dear friends, friends that I trust, friends that have so much wisdom and encouragement to offer you. A lot of these friends have been on the podcast before, I've interviewed several of them, so they might be familiar to you. All of them have contributed to this birthday party, to this encouragement. They're all going to speak life to you, give you some encouragement or advice. Maybe just a helpful tip or words of wisdom, but no matter what, I promise is going to be something valuable.
You might be familiar with them, but even if you're not, I want you to know they are people that I deeply respect and admire, and if something they say resonates with you, I'd encourage you to find them online or on social media. I'm going to be sure to leave all of their links in the show notes today, because what they say today is just the tip of the iceberg of what they have to offer. I love them dearly. I'm so grateful for them.
So, Happy Birthday Work and Play Podcast! Thank you so much for coming to our little party today. I hope you find encouragement, I hope you win the giveaway and I hope you're blessed.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/109.
Resources from this episode:Two Year Anniversary Giveaway!!! (ends 4/13!)
Leave a review for the Work & Play Podcast on iTunes
Kate Strickler (Naptime Kitchen) on Instagram
Cultivate What Matters website
Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where once a month I share a summary of a book worth reading, and my top three takeaways from that book. Many of you have joined my 2021 book club and are reading along with me. But if you haven't, we would still love to have you! You can learn more and join by visiting nancyray.com/bookclub.
Also, I wanted to give you a heads up! Next month, the whole month of May, I'll be dedicating it to our mamas. Any listener who’s a mama—it’s for you. We did this last year and I called it May is for Mamas (Episodes 056-064) and we are doing it again, so stay tuned! I am excited for what's to come.
I'll be honest—I almost took this book off of my reading list this year, because I felt like it was cruel and unusual punishment to myself to read a book about sleep the year that I would have a newborn baby. Like, why am I thinking and reading all about how to get good sleep knowing I am going to be sleep deprived no matter what? BUT I'm really glad I kept it on the list and read it anyway, because it's helping me now in pregnancy and the tips and lessons that I've learned in this book will help me understand my body and maximize my sleep even during that newborn phase, as hard as it's going to be, as well as prioritizing sleep for our whole family for years to come.
I get pretty nerdy today—fair warning! But I'm really excited about all that. We're going to learn together.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/108.
Resources from this episode:Sleep Smarter, by Shawn Stevenson
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In a lot of ways my work has really been simplified for me—I'm going on eight months of no childcare other than the two days that my kids are at preschool and kindergarten. I have been forced to be really strategic and simplified with my time and my plans.
Today, I'm going to share ways that I took things off of my plate, got organized and really simplified my work and my goals this year, and moving forward.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/107.
Resources from this episode:Episode 026 - My Favorite Business Book of All Time
Flodesk - this is an affiliate link! You’ll get 50% off and I get a commission if you choose to use this link!
Episode 102 - Eliminating Decision Fatigue
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Emails can be such a point of stress in our lives because they just keep piling up and they're a complete time suck. I cannot tell you how many days I've wanted to check my email real quick.
Do I get any other work done? No.
Is my inbox actually cleared up? No.
I just spent all day in my inbox and I have nothing to show for it, and there are about seven other super legitimate, important things I would rather be doing.
While I was running my photography business and running my team, we had to get an email system in place and I turned my inbox into a little game. Over the years I have put a lot of disciplines into place and match that up with this little game that I play and all of that has really helped me to get control over it and not feel as overwhelmed, but instead, feel more like an #EmailNinja.
Today, I'm going to teach you how to be an Email Ninja, too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/106.
Resources from this episode:This episode is going to be a personal look into my life, my motherhood, and more specifically, this fourth pregnancy that I am currently experiencing.
Listen, my core purpose with this podcast is to provide you practical tools for an integrated life, and integrated means showing up and sharing all areas of my life and how my faith in Jesus is really the center of everything, in my work and my play and all other areas, and hopefully provide some practical tools along the way.
Today is going to be a little more laid back, more like a conversation with me. Let's pretend like we're out at a coffee shop drinking our favorite coffee, and we're talking about motherhood and pregnancy and all the things. I've gathered so many questions, and I'm really excited to dive in and answer them. And honestly, I haven't really prepared my answers ahead of time. I'm just gonna speak from my heart.
I think it's gonna be fun!
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/105.
Resources from this episode:Maternity photos by Olivia Suriano!
Episode 023 - The Fear of Becoming a Mom with Katelyn James
Episode 072 - What I’ve Learned About Fear
Episode 048 - An Update to Our Dave Ramsey Journey
The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth
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I'm so excited to welcome Rachel Cruze back to the Work & Play Podcast! She is a personal finance expert with Ramsey Solutions and author of Know Yourself, Know Your Money. She's also a mama of three littles, two girls and a boy, so I have a special place in my heart for that. And honestly, she's just such an uplifting voice in my life today.
We're talking about the why behind your money—why we think or behave the way that we do when it comes to our spending, saving and relating to money. And most importantly, how we can continue to dream with our money when it feels like life might be a little out of our control.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/104.
Resources from this episode:Know Yourself, Know Your Money, by Rachel Cruze
Episode 036 - Living a Content Life with Rachel Cruze
The Screwtape Letters, by C.S. Lewis
The Wife Between Us, by Hendricks and Pekkanen
The Last Mrs. Parrish, by Liv Constantine
The Silent Patient, by Alex Michaelides
Glass Castle, by Jeanette Walls
Hillbilly Elegy, by J.D. Vance
Greenlights, by Matthew McConaughey
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Booker T. Washington's life story has impacted me so deeply. I can honestly say, this is one of those books that has changed me. I have the utmost respect for this man, what he did to lift himself and thousands of others out of the awful repercussions of slavery, and to bring unity to white and black communities just years after slavery was abolished, was nothing short of heroic.
He was born a slave. He didn't know who his father was. He didn't even know his birthday.
His deep hunger for education drove him to take some massive risks and endure some incredibly difficult circumstances. But his tenacity and perseverance and hard work carved a path to create such an incredible life and legacy, which I'm going to talk more about today. I hope you'll listen in to his inspiring story, my top three takeaways, and I really, really hope that you're going to pick up this book.
Resources from this episode:Up From Slavery, Booker T. Washington’s Autobiography
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It is estimated that the average adult makes about 35,000 remotely conscious decisions each and every day. That's crazy. 35,000 decisions a day. And of course, every decision we make, big or small, carries certain consequences with it.
When we feel overloaded by too many decisions, our ability to make good, clear decisions decreases, which is called “decision fatigue”: basically we just get so tired of making so many decisions. It doesn't matter how strong or smart you are. Your brain just says “I'm done today.”
I want to ask you simple question and let you in on a few ways that I'm trying to actively eliminate decision fatigue In my own life.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/102.
Resources from this episode:Episode 100 - 100th Episode, 100 Questions!
Episode 099 - Book | Parenting with Love and Logic
Sleep Smarter, by Shawn Stephenson
Episode 028 - The 3 Priorities Exercise
Episode 086 - Find More Hours in Your Week
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Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where once a month I share a summary of a book worth reading and my top 3 takeaways from that book. Many of you have joined my 2021 book club and are reading along with me this year, but if you haven't that's okay. It's very low pressure. We would still love to have you for all 12 books or maybe just one or two. You can learn more about it here.
I decided to start off 2021 with my friend Chrystal Evans’ new book called The 28 Day Prayer Journey after experiencing all of 2020. After my talk with Chrystal back in Episode 080 (which was fantastic, you should go back and listen to it), I just knew in my heart, this was the way I wanted to start off this year, and I am so grateful I did.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/101!
Resources from this episode:The 28 Day Prayer Journey, by Chrystal Evans Hurst
Episode 80 - A Helpful Guide for Consistent Prayers with Chrystal Evans Hurst
Up From Slavery, Booker T. Washington’s Autobiography
Sleep Smarter, by Shawn Stephenson
Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, by John Mark Comer
The Gospel Comes with a House Key, by Rosaria Butterfield
Awakening Wonder, by Sally Clarkson
4 Disciplines of Execution, by Chris McChesney & Sean Covey
Fighting Forward, by Hannah Brencher
The Revenge of Analog, by David Sax
Living Out of the Overflow, by Dr. Richard Blackaby
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I'm so excited to celebrate with you today!
Listen, I'm doing something different today. I actually went to many of you and said, “What should I do for my hundredth episode?” And many of you said, just do a Q&A and answer 100 questions. So many of you actually submitted these questions on Instagram. I'm so excited! I was not able to do all of the questions—believe it or not, I got well over a hundred questions! But I'm really excited just to have fun, and to have a conversation for you guys to get to know me on a different level. A lot of these are personal, a lot of them are lighthearted, a lot of them are fun and hopefully some of them you'll find helpful to you and your life.
If you have been a listener for any amount of time, I want to encourage you to please go leave a review on iTunes Podcasts. It helps me so much when you do that. And thank you truly from the bottom of my heart for being a listener!
We're going to have fun today (believe me, you want to listen to the end!). I brought in a few helpers, and I hope you enjoy it. And again, thank you so much for listening to Work and Play with Nancy Ray.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/100.
Resources from this episode:Leave a Review for the Work & Play Podcast on iTunes
Slugs and Bugs (also on Spotify!)
Christian Healthcare Ministries
A Woman’s Heart, God’s Dwelling Place by Beth Moore
Revelation study by She Reads Truth
Artifact Uprising (family photo books)
Episode 047 - Book | Seasons of God with Dr. Richard Blackaby
Restoring the Foundations ministry
Episode 059 - Growing Faith in Your Littles
How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie
Free Download: Craft Your Morning Routine
Sacred Marriage, by Gary Thomas
The Power of a Praying Wife, by Stormie Omartian
The Power of a Praying Husband, by Stormie Omartian
Episode 056 - Meal Planning Made Fun with Kate from Naptime Kitchen
Podcast: Relatable by Allie Beth Stuckey
Episode 048 - An Update to our Dave Ramsey Journey
Episode 004 - Seasons of Business
Parenting with Love and Logic, by Foster Cline & Jim Fay
Episode 099 - Book | Parenting with Love and Logic
Anonymous, by Alicia Britt Chole
Episode 006 - Book | Anonymous
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Welcome to the Nancy Ray Book Club, where once a month I share a summary of a book worth reading and my top three takeaways from that book. Many of you have joined by 2021 Book Club and are already reading along with me this year. But if you haven't or if you just want to see my list of books I'm reading—I read 12 books a year, one a month—or if you want to join, you can always visit nancyray.com/bookclub, and I would love to have you. It's no pressure. It's come as you are read what you want, but I'm grateful to have you reading alongside me either way.
Today's episode is a recap of the very last book in our 2020 Book Club: Parenting with Love and Logic. We read it in December. It was highly recommended to me by so many friends, and it's already proven to be such a gift in our own family and my own parenting, as I am home a lot with my five-year-old and three-year-old and two-year-old. I hope today's podcast will be super practical and helpful for any moms and dads listening.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/99.
Resources from this episode:Parenting with Love and Logic, Foster Cline & Jim Fay
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I was talking with a friend the other day and she asked me the question, what are you fighting for this year? And it took me a minute to answer her, but after a pause, I finally said, “You know, I think I'm fighting for fun.” I know that might sound trite or silly, but I'm realizing it's—it's not that silly, it's actually necessary.
Especially in this pandemic with the political stress and all the responsibilities of daily life, I'm realizing this year, I'm going to fight for fun. And she responded. She said, that is not trite or silly at all. That's so important. And I'm so thankful she asked me that question because it made me really kind of get that in perspective this year and so this year, that's what I'm doing!
I'm fighting for fun in my life.
And honestly, I hope you'll join me.
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/98.
Resources from this episode:Episode 018 - Life as an Enneagram 3
Emily’s blog - Em for Marvelous
Episode 082 - Kids, Camping & Slowing Down with Emily Thomas
Episode 091 - Book | Celebration of Discipline
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I've decided to take the first month of this year and focus on relationships.
Just focus on my relationships: my relationship with the Lord, my relationship with my husband, my kids, my friends. Relationships are gold in life. They're so valuable. And one of the best resources that I found on relationships last year was a talk given by Brené Brown. It lasts I think 24 minutes-ish. And I'm just going to go ahead and tell you now that her talk is far superior to this podcast episode. And I hope by you listening to this and catching some of the main points of her talk is that you'll take the time and go listen to it from start to finish and take notes.
Her talk is called the Anatomy of Trust, and it's all about how to be a trustworthy person. It breaks down—she's a researcher—she breaks down trust and what that looks like. It's full of beautiful illustrations that are so powerful. And I promise it's worth your time.
Today I'm going to be sharing with you seven ways that you can build trust with those around you and how I'm going to be working on that in my own life.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/97.
Resources from this episode:Anatomy of Trust video by Brené Brown
Daring Greatly, by Brené Brown
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It's hard to know exactly how to approach 2021.
2020 is going to be a year we remember and refer to for the rest of our lives. I mean, even our grandkids and history books, they're going to analyze and discuss how we handled 2020, and this pandemic, and the racial tension and the election, and everything crazy that has happened.
And I'm going to be honest, I have been tempted to, on January 1st, 2021 say, "Check, done. 2020 is behind me. It's over, it's time to move on to a newer and brighter year and future." But more recently, I've kind of caught myself because I don't know that that's actually the wisest way to approach looking into the future.
Today, I'm going to talk about how we don't actually know what 2021 is going to hold, but how we can approach it with wisdom.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/96.
Resources from this episode:Join the 2021 Contentment Challenge (starts Jan. 10!)
Episode 003 - The Contentment Challenge
From Good to Great, by Jim Collins
Sometimes when I'm going about my life, I want to pray, and I just don't have the words to say. Does that ever happen to you? Like, you know it's a really important day, or you know that you want to pray for your children, but you kind of run out of what to say. Or you just can't put words to how you're feeling. Or you want to connect with God personally, but life is busy and you don't know what to say. You don't know what to say or how to pray.
Today, I'm going to share three extremely simple prayers that I pray. You have my full permission to take them with you and use them for the rest of your life, and I hope that they bless you.
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/95.
If you're interested in joining me for the 2021 Contentment Challenge, learn more & sign up here: nancyray.com/contentmentchallenge.
Welcome back to my conversation with my dear friend, Reagan. Since we are so busy in the season of Christmas, I decided to split our chat into two different episodes so it'd be a little bit easier to digest in the midst of the holiday season.
If you're tuning in now and you missed last week's episode, head back to Episode 093 so you can get the full context of what Reagan and I are talking about. Because she and her husband took the Contentment Challenge, which is something I created many years ago, to the next level and they decided to give up shopping for an entire year in pursuit of a more content and debt-free life. It's just an amazing story. I won't leave you hanging any longer. Let's get back to my conversation with Reagan.
Resources from this episode:Episode 093 - A Year of Contentment with Reagan Reynolds, Part 1
Join the Contentment Challenge
Episode 033 - The Contentment Challenge
Women of the Word, by Jen Wilkin
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My friend Reagan has a heart of gold—you'll see in our conversation, just how amazing she is. She lives in Wake Forest, North Carolina, not far from me, with her husband of 10 years and two young boys. And the whole reason I interviewed her is because she took the Contentment Challenge to another level. She and her husband, Jeremy gave up shopping—get this—for the entire year of 2020 to pursue a greater life of contentment and eliminate debt. I think their story and how it all turned out is going to inspire you like crazy. Her days are spent navigating busy mom life and a modest career at an innovative tech company. She has devoted her life to being an earnest disciple of Jesus Christ. In her words, “if my life is solely an experience of God's endless love and mercy upon my undeserving soul, that will be enough to call this run at life a success.”
Today, you're going to hear all about their year of contentment. Now, if you're new to this whole Contentment Challenge thing, I want to leave you two quick resources so you can find out more about it:
First, Episode 003 of this podcast—a very, very old episode. It dives deep into my first Contentment Challenge, how it was born, what it is and how you can do it too.
Second, if you go to here, you can sign up and download a free guide to the Contentment Challenge and get it instantaneously.
So I hope that those two resources shed a little bit more light on where the Contentment Challenge came from, what it is.
Finally, I just want to invite you, come do the Contentment Challenge with me, pray about it. As we talk about in this episode, I'm going to be doing the Contentment Challenge January through March. Like, I do pretty much every year because it has been that life-changing for me. I just want to invite you to do it with me, to pray about doing it and seeing what God does in your heart, in your life.
Listen, we are in a fight for our contentment. I feel it every day. I mean, whenever I walk through Target or scroll through social media, I feel a battle for my own contentment. More than ever, I believe we need to be crazy aware of the battle we are in. My prayer, and I know Reagan's prayer, is that this episode inspires you to make whatever changes you need to make to live the content life that you were meant to live.
Resources from this episode:Episode 033 - The Contentment Challenge
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Today, I'm going to set a record for my shortest podcast of all time and I'm totally okay with that. I hope this encouragement is just what you need today.
Before I jump in, I wanted to remind you about two things.
Number one, the Nancy Ray Book Club 2021 is live! You can click here t0 see all of the books that I am going to be reading this year, and I am inviting you to come along and read them with me. I do a podcast episode about each book that I read every month, and I'm really excited about the lineup for next year. I think it's going to be really good.
The second thing I wanted to let you know is my Contentment Challenge is starting in January. You can find out all of the details by going here. This I think is going to be my sixth or seventh time doing the Contentment Challenge. I hope that it's an encouragement to you. If you decide to do it with me, a lot of people have done it several times over, and it's just a time to give up shopping and to give up a focus of all material things so that we can recenter our hearts on the thing that is most important, which is the Lord, the relationships in our life, and cultivating a grateful heart and an attitude of contentment with all that we have.
Today, I am simply going to read to you an email that I send to everybody in my email family every single December. It's the same email every year. I've been doing this for probably five years and every time I send this email, I get emails back with “thank you”s and tears and “I needed this.”
So, I've kind of decided to make it a tradition here on the podcast just to read it to you, to speak it over you at the end of this year, as you prepare for the holidays as you close up the year.
And just so you know, you can always join my email list if you want to be added for weekly inspiration, podcast episode reminders, and practical tips. So today this is for you, and I think these words are particularly needed this year.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/92.
Resources from this episode:Bread & Wine, by Shauna Niequist
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Today, it is a privilege to share with you one of my favorite books of all time. It's called the Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster. I was introduced to this book in my 12th grade Bible class believe it or not, in high school, and it opened my eyes to the depths of Christianity, friend.
And I don't know about you. I'm tired of surface, trite, make-it-what-you-want-it Christianity. I want the real God of the universe. I want what he has to say, even if it's hard to hear it. This book showed me the practices that we can do as believers to welcome Jesus into our very real lives and to hear his very real voice a little bit clearer. I'll be honest. These disciplines, they aren't easy. They are not for the faint of heart, but they are good. And they have changed me.
Also a little PSA on the side. This is the 11th of 12 books we are reading this year in the Nancy Ray Book Club. I'll do a podcast about the 12th book, Parenting With Love And Logic, in January, as we're still all in the middle of finishing reading that book.
But I did want to let you know the new 2021 book club list is live! You can see all of the books that I've chosen to read in 2021 by heading here. I'm really excited about the lineup. You're always welcome to join in for as few or as many books as you want.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/91.
Resources from this episode:The Celebration of Discipline, by Richard Foster
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Today, I'm going to be sharing all of our favorite Christmas traditions. And sharing this is really just to encourage you to make time for the most important things, and hopefully just to invite you into our family for a little bit in sharing how Will and I have brought our different sets of our own family's traditions and made them our own.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/90.
Resources from this episode:All Nancy Ray Courses (Foundations are on sale!)
Minted (where I get my Christmas cards!)
The Song of the Stars, by Sally Lloyd-Jones
The Jesus Storybook Bible, by Sally Lloyd-Jones
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If you have followed me for any amount of time, you know that I've always been big on having a morning routine and a quiet time and journaling.
To me, these have always been super important in my life: they ground me and anchor me.
So when I became a mom, during that newborn phase of life, it was very hard to determine which way was up or down. And the Lord taught me this simple practice. It doesn't take a lot of time, but still to this day, it speaks straight to my heart and it grounds me. It's simply focusing on one word throughout your whole day.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/89.
Resources from this episode:All Nancy Ray Courses (Foundations will be on sale!)
Affiliate links have been used in this post! I do receive a commission when you choose to purchase through these links, and that helps me keep this podcast up and running—I truly appreciate when you choose to use them!Welcome to this month's edition of the Nancy Ray Book Club, where I choose 12 books to read in a year, and I invite you to join me in reading them, and then I share my takeaways in the book of the month every month. This month I am thrilled to be talking about Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport.
He argues that social media is crazy, it's out of control, it's addictive, it's unhealthy, and yet it's a very real part of our lives. We have got to learn how to live with it and not just live with it, but to live well with it, which in a big part means limiting it.
Digital Minimalism is an answer to this daily, sometimes hourly, struggle that we all face and feel. And honestly, I'm really excited about this episode, and to dive in to my three big takeaways from Digital Minimalism.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/88.
Resources from this episode:Digital Minimalism, by Cal Newport
Episode 012 - 3 Habits to Put Social Media in its Place
Episode 083 - Book | Rhythms of Renewal
Episode 079 - Why I Have a Business Journal
Episode 042 - Book | Switch on Your Brain
Hands Free Mama, by Rachel Macy Stafford
The Tech-Wise Family, by Andy Crouch
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Happy Election Day!
Now, listen, I know tensions are running high. I know convictions and beliefs that we hold have been tried and tested in this year. And especially this election season, it's been heavy. It's been divisive and it's been really hard.
I don't know about you, but I have been doing a deeper dive behind the scenes, listening to podcasts, reading books, having conversations with my close friends and family, to really answer the question: What are my own beliefs about all of this? What do I believe to be true? What do I believe is the best way forward?
In today's episode, I want to remind all of us of three things the Lord calls us to, in any and every season of our lives (three things that, if I'm honest, I feel like they've been pushed to the side). Three things that I believe were part of the founding of this country and three things that we absolutely must maintain if we are to move forward.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/87.
Resources from this episode:Framed for Posterity, by Ralph Ketcham
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Okay, have you ever sat down and thought about everything you do in a week, all the work, all the things you're responsible for all the fun you want to have, all the exercise you need, all the sleep you need, and thoughtfully written out how you would like to live your ideal week?
If you never have, I'm so excited for you to try this. And if you have done this before, I have found one of the greatest benefits of this exercise is doing it often, because guess what? Life changes.
This week, we're going to be talking about how to get the most out of your week with the ideal week exercise.
And you can do your very own ideal week exercise by downloading a PDF that I've made just for you at nancyray.com/idealweek. When you download and print the PDF, you'll be able to write in your own week and hours and things you do, and I promise you're going to find hours in your days and in your weeks. I do every time. Grab yours below.
Free Ideal Week Download: nancyray.com/idealweek
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/86.
Resources from this episode:Free Download: Plan Your Ideal Week
What’s Best Next, by Matt Perman
Episode 009 - The Secret to Success in Business
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Writing a five year business plan can feel daunting and overwhelming, especially if you don't even know where you want to be in five years, which is probably most of us.
Today, I'm going to break it down. I'm going to break it down for you in a way that is actually attainable. You'll be able to wrap your mind around it. And quite frankly, for me, it's really exciting to have that kind of a vision.
Let's take a few minutes to dream about life and work and lay out a game plan for the next five years.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/85.
Resources from this episode:Free Guide: Clear Your Phone Photos!
Episode 026 - My Favorite Business Book of All Time
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This episode is the gentle reminder that Halloween is in two weeks, Thanksgiving is coming, and Christmas is on its way. The shopping, the planning, the decorating, the end of year celebrations, and parties, and whirlwinds, all of it is right around the corner.
Often times, this is the time of year where we go a little off the rails with our eating, our spending, with our planning. We just do too much of all of it.
So, my encouragement to you today is that if you want to finish this year strong, you have to start now.
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/84.
Resources from this episode:Episode 033 - Our Favorite Thanksgiving Tradition
Episode 075 - A Vision For This Season
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Today's book is Rhythms of Renewal by Rebekah Lyons. And it's one of those books I just kept hearing about. It kept popping up on my social media feed or in a podcast or I saw a friend reading it. And after looking into what it was all about, I knew I wanted to get my hands on it.
In it, Rebecca outlines four rhythms for a life of peace and purpose. I couldn't help but think back to my episode just a couple episodes ago on self-care, because I feel like this book is a deeper dive and how we can live out these rhythms and have a healthy, mature life as a believer. All in all, I love the book. I feel like Rebecca is somewhat of a soul sister and I can't wait for you to hear my top takeaways.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/83.
Resources from this episode:Rhythms of Renewal, by Rebekah Lyons
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Every year we go camping, and we go camping with another family, the Thomas family. We have been for eight years. In fact, just this past weekend, we went camping with our dear friends. It was crazy and fun and once again full of new memories in a slower pace. John and Emily Thomas have been our friends for well over a decade long before kids and even still with kids.
Today, I brought Emily on to have a conversation about camping, kids, and slowing down. You might know Emily because she is the Chief of Staff at Cultivate What Matters, and a beautiful writer and blogger over at emformarvelous.com, one of the very few blogs that I adore and read. You're going to love Emily. She has a depth and a graciousness that is unmatched, and I love her. It's why she's been my friend for so long. So, I'm so excited to share our conversation today.
Head to nancyray.com/podcast/82 for the full show notes.
Resources from this episode:Emily Thomas’ blog, Em for Marvelous
Just Mercy, by Bryan Stevenson
Becca Under Eye Brightening Corrector
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We are constantly hearing and seeing the message of self-care. Take time for yourself. Don't forget to care for yourself. Drink water. Exercise. Go get your nails done. I have had so many mixed feelings about the phrase “self-care” for a long time.
So, today, I'm going to dive into the good and bad of self-care and offer a better, more holistic approach.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/81.
Resources from this episode:Episode 025 - Work Hard, Sabbath Hard
Blog post : Where do you put yourself in your list of priorities? by Michael Hyatt
Blog post: Self-care for people who don’t like self-care, by Emily Thomas
Present over Perfect, by Shauna Niequist
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We are constantly hearing and seeing the message of self-care. Take time for yourself. Don't forget to care for yourself. Drink water. Exercise. Go get your nails done. I have had so many mixed feelings about the phrase “self-care” for a long time.
So, today, I'm going to dive into the good and bad of self-care and offer a better, more holistic approach.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/81.
Resources from this episode:Episode 025 - Work Hard, Sabbath Hard
Blog post : Where do you put yourself in your list of priorities? by Michael Hyatt
Blog post: Self-care for people who don’t like self-care, by Emily Thomas
Present over Perfect, by Shauna Niequist
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Today I'm talking with my friend, Chrystal Evans Hurst, and let me just say, this woman, I love her. She is a wife, a mama to five, a grandma of two. She's an encourager. She teaches people to love God, to love others, and to love themselves.
Today we talk about prayer—specifically a seven-day rhythm that you can set for yourself—if you maybe feel stuck in a rut with your prayers, or like she talks about in our conversation, if you want to activate the voice of the Holy Spirit in your life to be more real, and fresh, and conversational.
I feel like I just sat at the feet of a woman who I admire so much, who is a prayer warrior, and I got to learn from her, and I simply invite you to do the same today.
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/80.
Resources from this episode:The 28 Day Prayer Journey, by Chrystal Evans Hurst
A Man Called Ove, by Fredrik Backman
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Today's episode is short and sweet, and I am talking about why I have a business journal—a work journal.
Yes, a separate journal, completely dedicated to my work. And I'll be telling you why I think you should have one too.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/79.
Resources from this episode:Hope*Writers (doors open Sept. 14!)
Hope*Writers’ Free Quiz: Discover Your Writing Stage
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About a year ago, my friend, Sammy Jo, who works with me on my content creation and producing this podcast, she recommended this business book to me called The Pumpkin Plan. She recommended it at the time that I was launching this new brand that I have. I had just launched this podcast, and I added this book to my long list of books that I wanted to read.
As we were starting to do research and kind of figure out what content we wanted to make, she started asking me these questions that were really good questions to challenge my thinking and think outside the box with work and not just go the same direction that everyone else was going, but to blaze a new trail and do something different. And it challenged me. It challenged me to push pause on all of my own ideas, to zoom out a little bit, to get some more perspective, and ask better questions, not only of myself, but of my clients, my audience, and my work.
So, I've been so excited to read this book since then. Let me just say it did not disappoint. I'm really excited to dive in today and share what I learned!
For the full show notes, visit nancyray.com/podcast/78.
Resources from this episode:The Pumpkin Plan, by Mike Michalowicz
Episode 009 - The Secret to Success in Business
Episode 004 - Seasons of Business
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Doing school shopping this year as a parent, I've realized there's a different side to it than when we were younger, and it's not so pretty. There's a lot to manage. There's a lot to take hold of. And I've learned this: there's a lot of different correspondence and papers, a lot of different things going on.
And so I have decided, I am going to learn from other moms and put some systems into place.
I don't have a ton of years under my belt—I fully admit that—but I am committed to putting systems, and rhythms, and routines into place as we go back to school that will allow us to flourish instead of being stressed out. And today I'm excited to share those with you.
Read the full show notes at nancyray.com/podcast/77.
Resources from this episode:The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, by Marie Kondo
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How to write a purpose statement.
It seems a little daunting, doesn't it?
All right, I have to enter this episode with the worst purpose / mission statement of all time. It's actually like the best-worst mission statement of all time. And then we'll play a little game after I read it, you can guess what company it is, all right? All right, this is it:
“We provide our products and services with dedication to the highest degree of integrity and quality of customer satisfaction, developing long-term professional relationships with employees that develop pride, creating a stable working environment and company spirit.”
Any guesses?
Dunder Mifflin Paper Company.
That is their mission statement. And actually I think the Michael Scott Paper Company is the actual worst, which says, "I will not be beat, I will never give up, I am on a mission," that is the Michael Scott guarantee I can not get through this without laughing.
I feel like this might be the best intro ever to a podcast episode because of all The Office references, but here's what I want to do in this episode today: I want to help you write a really, really good mission statement and maybe even reframe your entire thinking about a mission statement and what you even call it.
Because for the most part, mission statements / purpose statements / "what's your why" statements are just too wordy and a bunch of gobbledygook that doesn't help you or clarify your vision.
So if you've never written one for your work, or if you have one, but you can't recite it right now off the top of your head and you don't really believe in it: this episode is for you.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/76.
Resources from this episode:Episode 026 - My Favorite Business Book of All Time
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I feel like I could easily tell you the vision of who I want to be at the end of my life, or even 10 years from now. Or I can make a strong vision for my business or work, where it's going in the next three to five years.
But this year, 2020, is a struggle.
It has given us all a really unique challenge, and I think the hardest part of all is that it's just so hard to catch a vision for what this year or even 2021 should look like, because it's impossible to make any plans. We feel like in all the plans we make, the rug just keeps getting pulled out from underneath our feet.
Today, I want to encourage and kind of pause and coach you through a few exercises and questions that will hopefully help bring clarity to this year, to exactly where you are, and show you that it's not just important to cast vision for your life or your work years down the road, but it's important to have a vision for the current season of life that you are in, and dare I say it, even for 2020.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/75.
Resources from this episode:Making Things Happen Conference
Episode 023 - The Fear of Becoming a Mom with Katelyn James
Katelyn’s Blog Post about Baby James’ birth
Katelyn’s Blog Post about James’ story & their new season
The Purpose Driven Life, by Rick Warren
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The Nightingale has been on my list to read for probably three years as it's one of my dearest friend's all time favorite books, and she's an avid reader, so I knew it was going to be good.
It absolutely did not disappoint.
Listen, I am not a huge fan of novels or fiction books, but I think this book may have changed that for me, I could not put it down. It was so good. On the night I finished reading the book, I was in the bed, wiping tears from my eyes as I finished the last pages, not wanting it to end. A heart wrenching historical fiction about two sisters in France, during World War II when the Nazis took control. It was really a true glimpse into the horrific tragedies and trauma of war and the important role of women in that war.
So if you're looking for a great novel to read this summer or this fall, this is it. But be prepared to not be able to put it down, especially once you get to the halfway point. All in all, this book has given me the gift of perspective. And for that, I'm so grateful.
For the full episode, head to nancyray.com/podcast/74.
Resources from this episode:The Nightingale, by Kristin Hannah
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I've been following Allie Casazza for a little while now, and I love her heart, her work, her family, and all that her business stands for. We are passionate about so many of the same things, and I love her conviction about building a life that serves you, happening to your day, being the CEO of your own home, stepping into the authority that you have as a believer.
Listen, this episode gets hype. It's inspiring. It's challenging, and it's full of practical advice that will help you in your actual life. We're going to be talking about healthy rhythms and mindsets, and I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. I don't know if that's possible, but I hope you do.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/73.
Resources from this episode:Switch on Your Brain, by Dr. Caroline Leaf
Episode 042, where I share my top 3 takeaways of the book Switch on Your Brain
Allie’s blog post about her journey to a book deal
The Joy of Missing Out, by Tonya Dalton
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"Have I not commanded you be strong and courageous? Do not be frightened and do not be dismayed for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." - Joshua 1:9.
There is a lot of fear right now. Fear of COVID, fear of losing somebody who gets COVID, fear of losing your job, fear that you won't be able to find another job because you've been out of work for awhile now, fear surrounding the heated discussions about racism in America, fear of the riots, fear of the future, fear that you're going to say the wrong thing, fear that you're going to have to fire the team that you have been hanging on to by a thread, fear that you're going to lose the business that you have been building for for the last 20, 30, 40 years. This is heavy. We are in a season that is heavy: individually, as families, and as a nation.
And I know a lot of us have adapted to this weird season of life that we're in. And we don't always think about this, but I think it's good to remind you today that this whole situation that is 2020 is still affecting us. It's affecting our relationships, it's affecting our minds. There's just a lot of fear. And I don't know about you, but it feels like it's starting to wear on us a little bit.
Now, before I speak to fear and all that I have learned about it recently, I want to say just a few things. Every week I show up on this podcast and I share from my heart. I try to be real. I share the things I'm learning, the things God's teaching me that I believe will be helpful for you and will encourage you. Sometimes I get it wrong. Actually, I can promise you, I have gotten it wrong and I will get it wrong again at some point. I'm not perfect. But I recently heard a quote from Craig Groeschel's podcast. And he said, "Show up and be yourself because people would rather follow a leader who is always real than a leader who's always right."
So I'm going to keep showing up here and be real because that's all I can do.
For the full show notes, head to nancyray.com/podcast/72.
Resources from this episode:Restoring the Foundations ministry
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It is the middle of summer. I know you know this, but sometimes it's good to hear a reminder of where you are, so you can reset your thinking and really make sure you're on the right track. Now, summer of 2020 is a weird time for all of us. There wasn't even a definitive end of the school year, and then we morphed from this weird quarantine stage into summer. And it felt like this weird continuation of the life, this new, crazy life we've all been living.
So today it's simply going to be like a quick glance at your compass in the middle of 2020 to make sure that, hey, you're on the right track—you're living the life you want to be living!
Here are five ways for you to make the most of the summer of 2020.
Resources from this episode:The Nightingale, by Kristin Hannah
I’m Still Here, by Austin Channing Brown
My guide to organizing your personal photos
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Today's episode is one that I hope you will bookmark and come back to. Actually, I'm almost positive this is one that you will bookmark and come back to. That's because I'm going to share with you the simple steps and how to have a really hard conversation—a crucial conversation—steps that will help you think through what you will say before you say it, and tools that will change your marriage, change your family relationships, your work relationships, all for the better.
Resources from this episode:Crucial Conversations, by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan & Switzler
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We are back again in Part 2 of the marriage question-and-answer with my favorite human ever, Will Ray, my husband. And so, if you missed Part 1, be sure to go back to last week's Episode 068 and re-listen to that, as this is just a continuation of Will and I talking about our marriage. Today, we cover a huge range of topics. We talk about how we fight, parenting, intimacy, communication, faith, money, date nights, everything. I'm really excited to wrap up Part 2 of our conversation together.
For the full show notes, go to nancyray.com/podcast/69.
Resources from this episode:Episode 068 - 12 Years of Marriage, Part 1
Free Class with Amy from Positive Parenting Solutions!
Amy McCready’s Positive Parenting Solutions Course
Episode 031 - My #1 Parenting Tip
Episode 047 - Book | Seasons of God with Dr. Richard Blackaby
Episode 064 - Making Memories with Sally Clarkson
Episode 059 - Growing Faith in Your Littles
Crucial Conversations, by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan & Switzler
Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp
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Today, I have my favorite human as my guest, my husband Will Ray. We are doing a question-and-answer series all about marriage and we cover a huge range of topics. We talked about how we knew we were the right ones for each other and when we met and how we fight and parenting and intimacy and communication and faith and money, our roles and responsibilities, date nights, all the things literally. I feel like we talked about everything.
And because of that, you don't just get to hear from us this week, you're also going to hear from us again next week. We've actually split it up into a part one and part two, both episodes all about our marriage. Now, I don't say it lightly when I say I have so much respect and admiration for this man. We are not perfect. I hope that comes through loud and clear in these episodes, but good gracious God was so generous and good to me when He gave me Will Ray.
I am so honored to share his voice and his heart with you today as we share a little bit about our marriage and the journey we've had together over the last 12 years.
Resources from this episode:The Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman
Faithful and True Marriage Counseling
Weekend to Remember by FamilyLife
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Back in Episode 041, I shared my plan to work one day a week this year, which was quite the change after I closed my business last year. This episode is simply a check-in to tell you how it's been going so far.
Find the full show notes at nancyray.com/podcast/67.
Resources from this episode:Episode 041 - My Plan to Work One Day a Week
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Today I’m humbled and grateful to have Pastor Dorrell on the Work and Play Podcast. We’re going to talk all about the racial crisis that we’ve been in and how the church, how believers, how you and I should respond during this time, during a racial crisis, and even more than that how to bounce forward, not bounce back, when the current storm we’re in starts to quiet.
I'm going to be honest with you, I get real in this episode. I cry. We both do, actually. I mess up. I'm sure I do. I ask him some vulnerable questions. We give each other a ton of grace and love as a brother and sister in Christ. And I hope that you are encouraged by this conversation. So for a moment, let's put aside our politics and let's come together as a church, as believers, and lean in and listen.
Find the full show notes at nancyray.com/podcast/66.
Resources from this episode:Follow Dr. Briscoe on Instagram
Tears We Cannot Stop, by Michael Eric Dyson
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Emily P. Freeman is the kind of person I have grown to admire, respect, and quite frankly, adore. I love her. I love her podcast, The Next Right Thing. I love her book, The Next Right Thing, and today I had a conversation with her that I think you are really going to love.
I personally gained so much wisdom and insight from her about the specific circumstances that I find myself in today, that helped me move forward in the right direction. I hope you enjoy my conversation with Emily, and I hope you enjoyed reading her book this month if you’re part of the Nancy Ray Book Club.
Read the full show notes here: nancyray.com/podcast/65
Resources from this episode:The Next Right Thing, Emily Freeman
All Things Reconsidered, Knox McCoy
Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkle Repair
The Next Right Thing Podcast, Episode 61: Look Back
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Today’s conversation with Sally Clarkson felt like a big hug from your mom—that you really needed. We talk all about making memories with our children and to be honest, I had this idea in my head that it would be all about planning these grand, extravagant trips and celebrations, but it wasn’t. It was about the day-to-day life, about the little things, and really, all about your health and happiness as a mom.
So, I hope you really enjoy our conversation today.
Read the full show notes at nancyray.com/podcast/64.
Resources from this episode:Sally’s Podcast: At Home With Sally
The Life-giving Home, by Sally Clarkson
I can not even believe it, but today is my daughter's fifth birthday. How in the world do I have a five-year-old? I don't know. Five whole years of sweet little Milly being in our lives. Five whole years of me being a mama. I can not believe it.
These five years have come by really fast and really slow all at the same time. Birthdays are so special. They're so special for your kiddos, they're so special for you, mama, but if we're being real, they can be really stressful too. Birthday parties, planning, all the things.
So today I'm going to talk about birthdays in honor of sweet Milly turning five. I'm going to talk about putting some joy back into birthday celebrations and give you a few ideas and lessons that I've learned to make birthdays in your home perfect for your family.
Find the full show notes at nancyray.com/podcast/63
Resources from this episode:The Five Love Languages of Children, by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell
Today I’m having a conversation with my friend, Shunta Grant, and oh is it good! We talk about how important it is to just take it a day at a time—just to slow down, as mamas.
It’s so important to look at our day and make a plan, and we talk about some practices that you can incorporate the night before and the morning of your day, and they’re so insightful and I think you’re really going to love it.
I love Shunta, she is such a bright light in this world, and I hope you enjoy our conversation.
Read the full show notes here: nancyray.com/podcast/62
Resources from this episode:FREE DOWNLOAD: Craft Your Own Morning Routine
Episode 042 - BOOK: Switch On Your Brain
FREE DOWNLOAD: “I Choose Today” Screensavers
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Mom guilt. Just saying those words might conjure up a whole lot of feelings in you. Today, I just want to say: I'm with you, I have felt it, it's real; but I also want to say, that is no way to live out our days as mamas.
We have got to do something about this mom guilt epidemic and the mom guilt we feel in our hearts and in our guts, we need to identify the root of it and ultimately be freed from it so that we can be the guilt free, confident mama leaders of our family that God intends for us to be.
Find the full show notes here: nancyray.com/podcast/61
Resources from this episode:Episode 031 - My #1 Parenting Tip
Episode 004 - Seasons of Business
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