With The Perrys

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Why Y'all Not Talking Bout The Cross No More Jun 09, 2025

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We are losing sight of the simplicity of the gospel message, and we’ve got to get back to the basics. In this episode, Jackie and Preston discuss why it is that we don’t focus enough on Jesus’ redemptive work on the cross. Our sin is a big reason. We forget about God’s wrath and why we need to be saved in the first place. We get caught up in a works-based idea of sanctification. The truth of the gospel becomes uninteresting as we seek greater understanding or deeper knowledge. We can also go through the spiritual disciplines – like time in the Word or prayer – without truly abiding in Christ. All of these scenarios overcomplicate our view of the cross, and it’s time we talk about it.

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Resources:

The Cross of Christ by John Stott

Paul Washer’s 7-part sermon series, “Freedom in The Gospel”

Scripture references:

Galatians 6:14

1 Corinthians 2:1-5

Proverbs 9:10

John 13:34

John 15:3-5

2 Peter 1:3-9

Jeremiah 25:15

Romans 3:22-26

Romans 8:9-11

2 Corinthians 4:7-10

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Act Like a Man Jun 02, 2025

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In 1 Corinthians, Paul says, “Act like men, be strong.” But what does manhood look like?

In this episode, Preston explores some of his earliest views of masculinity as a kid and what it meant to “be a man.” The development of our identity is shaped by both parents in unique ways, so the Perrys talk about the dynamics of being nurtured – or not – by a mother and a father. They also discuss the modeling of emotional maturity, the idea of attachment theory, healthy relationships with other men, and opportunities for discipleship.

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Resources:

Manhood Restored (Dr. Eric Mason)

This Momentary Marriage (John Piper)

Scripture references:

1 Corinthians 16:13

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Let’s Talk Fasting and Prayer May 19, 2025

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It’s been a minute since the Perrys dedicated an episode to the topic of prayer, and they realize they pray differently today than they did back then. Just as sanctification changes who you are, it also changes your prayer life, so what do their prayers look like now?

Jackie and Preston also take a look at several examples of prayer in the Bible. Scripture shows us how we can approach God when we think He is disciplining us or when we doubt He is for us. Prayer grounds us as Christians, reminding us that we can’t lean on our own understanding. Through both prayer and fasting, God wants us to quiet our souls so we become more dependent on Him.

You can also go back and watch the Perrys’ conversation on prayer from 2022: Prayer: The Discipline We All Suck At

Scripture references:

John 15:2
Romans 8:31
2 Corinthians 1:9
2 Kings 19:14
1 Samuel 2
Acts 4:23-29
Daniel 3:17-18
Luke 22:42-43
Isaiah 58:5-8

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How to Be A Christian on Social Media May 12, 2025

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The Perrys are back after many months away spent tending to their souls and their family. The time offline was good and at times “profoundly boring,” but as they re-engage with social media, they’ve got some thoughts.

The Perrys discuss what scripture has to say about our character, and how Christians ought to be on social media because of what the Bible says. How we show up on social media matters, and we should honor Christ while we’re there.

Scripture references:

Ephesians 5:15-17
Matthew 6:25-34
Philippians 4:11-13
Philippians 2:3
Philippians 4:5
James 1:19-20
Matthew 7:3-5
Proverbs 4:23

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Best of WTP: How To Fight For Your Marriage Apr 07, 2025

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While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes.

If marriage feels difficult, it’s not because you and your spouse are incompatible. It’s because you’re married. On today’s episode, Jackie and Preston are joined by mentors and friends CD and Melody Fabien for a conversation about fighting for intimacy. They talk about recognizing dysfunctional rhythms, finding opportunities to connect, not building cases against your spouse, healthy confrontation, and utilizing the greatest tool God has given us to find oneness in marriage: communication.

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Best of WTP: Conflict, Confrontation, and Arguing Well Mar 03, 2025

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While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes.

Confrontation is a necessary function of a healthy relationship and it can create more intimacy. But how do we honor God and one another as we move through conflict? The Perrys have some thoughts from what they’ve learned over the years.

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Best of WTP: Men, Marriage, Sex, and Kevin Samuels Feb 03, 2025

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While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes.Here's an episode from June 2023 with Jackie and Preston's friend Ezekiel Azonwu.

Culture discourages men from being in community, and many men are confused about their call and spiritual giftedness. But guys are crying out for discipleship and voices that are in close proximity to them who will build them up. Let’s talk about it.

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Best of WTP: Mormonism, Homosexuality, Parenting Tips & More Jan 13, 2025

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While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes. In this episode from February 2023, Jackie and Preston sit down and answer questions sent in from their former Patreon community.

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Social Media Break, Slander, and Sanctification Dec 09, 2024

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After a fruitful yet exhausting year, the Perrys talk about the future of the podcast and their public ministry. They discuss whether or not they did too much, what they’ve learned about rhythms of rest, how God has used success and scrutiny to make them more like Jesus, and the gifts and dangers of social media.

While some ministry will still continue at the start of the new year, new episodes of With The Perrys won’t be released until Summer 2025.

In the meantime, be sure you’re subscribed to the newsletter for occasional updates from Jackie and Preston.

Episode resources:

John Piper’s sermon about what God allows: “Seven Ways God Reigns Over Evil”

The Perrys’ 2024 recap:

Jackie’s Bible study, Ephesians: A Study of Faith and Practice, with Lifeway

Preston’s first book, How to Tell the Truth: The Story of How God Saved Me to Win Hearts—Not Just Arguments

The 16-city With The Perrys podcast tour

Acts 242 Conference

Jackie’s EP, “Practice,” with Reach Records

Preston’s Bible study, Everyday Evangelism - Bible Study Book with Video Access: Pursuing Hearts, Not Arguments, with Lifeway

The ramp-up of BOLD Apparel

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The Forgotten Art of Lament with Sarah Benibo Nov 18, 2024

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Today’s podcast guest, Sarah Benibo, joins Jackie and Preston to discuss the church’s relationship with lament – or lack thereof – and the reality that we can still worship God through our expression of sorrow and grief. She explains how we are to lament by pointing to N.T. Wright’s quote that says “Lament is an appeal to God based on confidence in His character.” Our lament says “God, you are good, that I know. This circumstance I’m facing is not. Help!”

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