Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

WT 268: Discontentment in Marriage [RE-AIR] Jun 15, 2021

We all walk down the aisle with hearts full of hope, but a few years and a kid or two down the road, we often discover marriage is more work than we thought it would be. Right after discipline, marriage is the topic we get the most questions about for Wire Talk. If you have a friend whose marriage could use a shot of encouragement, share this episode!

WT 267: Finding Your Purpose in Motherhood with Candace Cameron Bure [RE-AIR] Jun 08, 2021

We've got a fun one for you today moms! Today we're re-airing one of our favorite interviews of all time. Candace Cameron Bure, actress, wife, mom, and as she often points out, first and foremost, a follower of Jesus joins us in the studio to talk faith, career, and motherhood. We love Candace's words of encouragement for young mothers and think that wherever you are in your journey of motherhood, you'll benefit from the reminder in this conversation that our primary purpose in all that we do is to glorify God.

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WT 266: How Do We Survive the Chaos of the Toddler Years? [RE-AIR] Jun 01, 2021

During the month of June, Wire Talk is re-airing 5 of our most popular episodes from years past. We’re kicking off the month with a great one, all about toddlers! Moms are constantly asking, how can we survive the chaos and maybe even enjoy a little bit of these fleeting years? Today Sunny and Karen are addressing your questions and hopefully giving you hope that you CAN do this!

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WT 265: Fostering a Great Relationship with Your Teenage Daughter May 25, 2021

As your little girl turns the corner toward adulthood, your relationship dynamic will definitely start to change. Today Karen shares her thoughts on connecting with older daughters while still holding the line on boundaries and discipline. Don’t miss wisdom bombs, like, “listen before you lecture” and “you do not need to be your child’s best friend”. :) We hope this episode equips those of you navigating Tinder and tattoos while encouraging our toddler moms that you really can enjoy the teenage years. And stay tuned for an upcoming episode all about fostering a great relationship with your teenage son!

Save the Date for Survive: A Retreat for Moms of Teens

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WT 264: Taking Your Family Values Outside the Home May 18, 2021

We all want kids with great character, but how do you help your kids take the lessons you are teaching them at home out into the real world? Today Karen is sharing the family values she and Greg tried to instill in their kids (and why they never had a family mission statement!) while answering questions about character issues at school and on the ball field.

Mentioned on today’s episode:

Wire Talk episode 125: How Do I Handle My Sweet Little Liar

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WT 263: How Do I Teach My Child to Be a Good Friend? May 11, 2021

Whether it’s a friend’s bad behavior rubbing off on your child, or your child having trouble being a good friend, today Karen and Sunny are tackling your questions about friendship. As always, we hope this conversation encourages you right where you are, and gives you a practical tool (or two!) that you can put into practice with your kids today.

Mentioned on today’s episode:

WT 133: What Do I Do About Mean Girls?

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WT 262: How's Your Anxiety Level, Mom? with special guest Sissy Goff May 04, 2021

"We feel out of control and so the easiest place and most natural place to control when we feel fearful, even fearful for our kids, is to step in and control them."

Author and counselor Sissy Goff joins us today to talk about the rise in anxiety and depression among moms (and our kids!) in the past year. There is so much wisdom packed into this conversation, moms. Please listen and SHARE!

Need to hear more about anxiety in your kids? Listen to episode 191

Pick up a copy of Brave: A Teen Girl's Guide to Beating Worry and Anxiety today!

WT 261: Spiritual Disciplines for Mom Life: Practicing Sabbath Apr 27, 2021

Sabbath first appears in the story of creation and again in the 10 commandments, but what does Sabbath actually look like in a mom's world? Today pastor Shireen Eldridge joins Karen and Sunny to share how practicing Sabbath helps recalibrate our hearts to love God and love the people around us better. We also dive into the practical; what does Sabbath REALLY look like in a house with young kids? Join us for this encouraging conversation!

WT 260: Spiritual Disciplines for Moms: Community with Other Believers Apr 20, 2021

Gathering together this past year has been a complicated component of spiritual life for many of us. On today’s episode Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms weary of virtual church, about what to do when your kids hate going to church, and offer suggestions for gathering together with other moms during this unique season.

Resources from today’s episode:

Curious about starting a BOAW group? Head here.

Read about each of the BOAW mom studies HERE.

Parent Cue - more faith resources for kids

WT 259: Spiritual Disciplines for Moms: Pray Continually Apr 13, 2021

We're continuing this month's series on Spiritual Disciplines with a conversation about prayer today. Karen and Sunny address the tenderest questions from moms about how to pray when the words won't come, why Christians say the words, "In Jesus' name, Amen" at the end of prayers and what the purpose of prayer is. If your prayer life is feeling less than inspired lately, we hope this conversation is an encouragement to begin where you are.

P.S. That prayer journal Karen mentions? It's not available yet, but will be later this year. Be sure you're subscribed to our email list to know when it is released!

WT 258: Spiritual Disciplines for Moms: Studying God's Word Apr 06, 2021

All month long we are diving into spiritual disciplines of the Christian faith. We’ll be talking about studying God’s Word, prayer, intentional community with other believers and Sabbath.

Today we are kicking things off by answering your questions about studying the Word. Practically speaking, what does that look like with little kids (and little quiet) in your house? What resources do Karen and Sunny recommend and how can we lead our children well in this discipline? We hope this episode encourages you to start today, whenever you are, knowing that God sees you and has grace and understanding for the season of life that you are in.

Links from today’s episode:

Keep God’s encouragement close by with our Moments with God or Tips on Motherhood card sets.

Listen to our Spotify worship playlist on the go

Adventures in Odyssey

@kidsbiblestories

God’s Big Story podcast from The Village Church

Wild & Wacky and Totally True Bible Stories

A study Karen is currently doing: The Grave Robber by Mark Batterson

Sunny recommends: No Other Gods by Kelly Minter

The Bible Project (cartoon animations explaining major themes, events, stories in the Bible)

Become a Patron today!

Parenting Together study from Greg and Karen Stubbs

The Ark Encounter

The Action Bible (for ages 8+)

One Night with the King movie

WT 257: Fighting For Control With Your Strong-Willed (RED) Child Mar 30, 2021

Those strong-willed kiddos - phew! We know they'll be leaders one day, but what do we do TODAY when they won't listen or are constantly pushing back against us?

How do we establish our authority without crushing their spirits? How do we teach them to harness their innate confidence without being aggressive or coming across as a bully? We hope this conversation gives you a few tools to parent your headstrong children with confidence.

Don't know your kid's color? Take our quiz!

WT 256: Navigating a Family Move Mar 23, 2021

Both Karen and Sunny have moved A LOT in their lifetimes! In this episode, we’re answering questions about preparing your heart to move, staying in touch with friends and family who live far away, and helping your child navigate the difficulties that come with moving frequently.

Shownotes: birdsonawiremoms.com/podcast/episode256

Related Wire Talk episode:

Getting on the Same Page With Your Partner

WT 255: Organizing Your Life, One Day at a Time Mar 16, 2021

Today we are talking all things home management on Wire Talk. From splitting space in your home with a work-from-home spouse to organizing toys and rooms, we even talk about how to keep the kids from getting into your stuff! Karen is feeling fiesty today, so get ready for a little tough love.

Become a Patron today and gain instant access to our other podcast, Real Life Real Moms.

WT 254: What Do I Do When They Want to Eat...Again? Mar 09, 2021

How is it possible that we are always making food and yet our kids never seem to be full? Keeping our families fed is not for the faint of heart! Today Sunny and Karen are answering questions about feeding your people day in and day out. Tune in for practical tips about cooking with babies and toddlers underfoot as well as the one thing Greg did that made dinner prep at the Stubbs home so much easier.

Get the show notes: birdsonawiremoms.com/podcast/episode254

WT 253: The Only Child Family Mar 02, 2021

Recent census data has shown one-child families are the fastest growing family unit in the United States. But often times families with one child feel isolated by the culture of family and siblings around them. On today's show we are diving into questions from moms with one child. A big shout out goes to our mom of the month, Casey Cattell, who suggested this topic and helped us gather questions from moms of one! If you're not a mom of one, we'd love for you to listen to learn, and share with a friend.

WT 252: When Potty Training Isn't Working Feb 23, 2021

Any toddler moms out there at their wit’s end with potty training?! In our first-ever episode on this topic, Karen and Sunny are sharing encouragement and wisdom for all those moms spending a LOT of time in the bathroom these days. The bottom line? Your sanity is just as (and maybe even more) important as wearing big kid undies.

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WT 251: Loving Your Rebellious Child Well Feb 16, 2021

Let's be honest moms, all of our children can be rebellious at times. And when your child is walking through a season of rebellion, sometimes it's really hard to "feel the love." On today's episode we're answering your questions on everything from toddlers who obey daddy but not mommy to lying to teenagers having sex. Yup, today we're running the full gamut. Pop in those earbuds and join us for this conversation - we hope you'll leave encouraged knowing you're not alone, momma!

WT 250: Loving Your Spouse Well Feb 09, 2021

‘Happily ever after’ requires a LOT of work when you’re raising kids, and we could all use some encouragement in this arena from time to time. So today, Karen and Sunny are leaning in to your questions about keeping your marriage in a healthy place. Whether it’s that the day-to-day logistics of life have snuffed out your romantic spark, or that there’s tension in your home around who should lead, Karen has a word of encouragement for you amidst it all.

Want more podcasts about marriage? Check out these episodes:

WT 148: Keeping The Spark Alive

WT 129: How Do I Re-Connect With My Spouse After Kids?

WT 146: Discontentment in Marriage

BONUS EPISODE: Real Life / Real Moms with Claire Stanfill Feb 05, 2021

SURPRISE! We wanted you to overhear a conversation between me and my good friend Claire Stanfill, which we recorded together last spring as episode 5 of our other podcast Real Life / Real Moms, which is available exclusively on Patreon.

Patreon is a way for you to support podcasts you love so we can make bonus content for our best supporters. Become a Family Level Patron $10 per month (or $114 / year if you pay annually). Your support sustains our non-profit ministry and has kept Wire Talk ad-free for all 249 episodes now. This $10 / month level also gets you companion journaling pages for self-reflection, and (my favorite!) quarterly Zoom Q&A sessions with a very small group.

We couldn’t do this without your support and we are grateful for each one of you! // Sign up at PATREON.COM/BOAW

WT 249: Mother & Missionary: An Interview with Betty Loudermilk Feb 02, 2021

In the wake of World War II, a young college graduate decided to answer God's call on her heart to share the Gospel in Japan. Today, 90 year old Betty Loudermilk joins Sunny and Karen in the studio to share stories from her 50+ years of ministry in Japan.

Over the years, Betty placed more than 250 children with their forever families and adopted 15 children as a single woman herself! Don't miss Betty sharing the word God spoke to her heart when she felt overwhelmed by His calling (skip to 20:00 if you are in a hurry). This is one powerful story of provision and encouragement mamas! Enjoy.

WT 248: Why Can't My Kids Play Nicely? Jan 26, 2021

From team sports to bedroom boundaries, your questions in this episode concern the problems we face when our kids refuse to play nicely. Get ready for some practical tips as always and a little bit of tough love from Karen: remember that your children aren't Instant Pots and some of this stuff is going to take time!

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Want more episodes like this one?

WT 120: When Multiple Personalities Collide

WT 151: Sibling Rivalry

WT 247: Quality Time with Teenagers Jan 19, 2021

Parenting teenagers means late nights, empty pantry shelves and more than a few tricky situations. Today Karen and Sunny answer your questions about getting quality time with your teen…plus, Karen shares her secrets to having the “cool” hang out house.

Mentioned on the show:

BOAW Colors Personality Test

WT 246: Building Character in our Daughters Jan 12, 2021

From absorbing bad behavior from TV and social media to making good friends - on today's episode Karen is answering your questions about dealing with character issues in your daughters and showing us simple ways to point our girls to Christ in every season.

Don't have a daughter? Listen to these episodes all about boys:

WT 181: Building Character in Your Son with Taylor Stubbs

WT 109: Raising Older Boys

WT 108: Raising Little Boys

WT 245: A New Year's Pep Talk from Karen Jan 05, 2021

It's the first full week of 2021 and we are more than ready. Today Karen and Sunny are chatting about how they do (and don't do) goal setting, if they have any resolutions to kick off the new year right, and what's in store this year for Birds on a Wire. Whether you've already got your word of the year emblazoned across your annual planner, or you're tip toeing quietly into 2021 just hoping to catch a break, join us as we ring in the New Year at Wire Talk!

WT 244: Behind the Mic on Wire Talk Dec 29, 2020

Wire Talk's producer, Katie @Leipprandt, joins Karen and Sunny in the studio for this episode to talk about all things Wire Talk. We discuss how the BOAW team decides on episode topics, which questions we answer, and what's coming up in 2021 for the show. Join us as we say, "Peace out!" to 2020 and welcome a fresh New Year in together.

Got questions for Karen and Sunny? Send them in to info@birdsonawiremoms.com and use the subject line "Wire Talk questions" - we'd love to answer your question on the show!

WT 243: He Is Worthy of Our Praise Dec 22, 2020

Karen is reading from her Moments with God devotional again today, reminding us to set our minds and our hearts rightly on God. As we celebrate Christmas with our family and hopefully get some much needed rest this week, let's take a moment out of each day to declare His praises and give Him honor.

Moments with God for Moms is available from Amazon HERE.

WT 242: Does Worrying Add A Single Hour To Your Life? Dec 15, 2020

We know you're running hard toward Christmas this week and today's episode is intended to give you a minute of peace. Listen as Karen reads from her devotional and reminds us to place our weary souls into God's very capable hands. We love you mommas!

Find Karen's devotional HERE.

WT 241: Navigating Christmas as a Christian, Part 2 Dec 08, 2020

We’re talking all things Santa Claus on today’s episode! From how to handle the conversation when your kids ask if Santa is real, to making a decision to not start the Santa tradition at all, Karen shares her thoughts on walking that line this Christmas. However your family chooses to celebrate, Karen reminds us to stand firm and be confident in our choices - something we can never hear enough!

WT 240: Navigating Christmas as a Christian, Part 1 Dec 01, 2020

As believers, how do we navigate the hustle and bustle of the holiday season while keeping our eyes focused on the reason we celebrate Christmas in the first place? In part one of this series, Karen answers your questions about how to celebrate in a season when your church doors may be closed, how to prevent overwhelm as a single mom and of course, how to navigate gift giving.

WT 239: Boundaries with Friends & Family Nov 24, 2020

Navigating the differences between our needs and desires and those of our family and friends is tricky. On today's episode Karen answers questions about vacationing with family, teen dating, excessive gift giving (hello grandparents!) and being married to an extrovert when you're 100% an introvert! You're sure to find a practical nugget in this conversation that will provide wisdom for your world.

WT 238: Can You Help Me Handle Our Clashing Personality Colors? Nov 17, 2020

Is there a recurring conflict in your home because your personality color is clashing with your child's? Tune in today to hear Karen's thoughts on the exhausting yellow kids, defiant red kids, and lethargic green kids who have their moms wondering how to cope.

Mentioned on today's episode:

Colors Personality Quiz
smile.amazon.com
Mom Core- Being a Student of your Child
Personality Plus for Parents by Florence Littauer
Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
2020 Soar Together bonus session with Dr Henry Cloud
BOAW Moms Facebook group

WT 237: Why Is Dinner Time The Worst? Nov 10, 2020

From toddlers flinging food off high chair trays to siblings bickering during the blessing, dinner time is rife with opportunities for stress isn't it? Listen in as Karen tackles questions from moms tired of the chaos on today's episode and helps us survive meal time with her tips!

Continue the conversation with us over in our private BOAW Moms Facebook group, where moms ask and answer questions with grace and humility all week long.

WT 236: Managing the Needs of Multiple Children Nov 03, 2020

No matter the number of kids under your roof, managing the needs of your children isn’t easy! On today’s show we are answering questions from moms who are struggling with the revolving door of need that comes with having multiple children in the house.

WT 235: Building Your Own Family Traditions Oct 27, 2020

This year the holidays might look a little different than years’ past. Managing all of the expectations (yours, your family’s, your in-laws…) can be overwhelming as a mom, so today Karen shares her thoughts on making traditions that work for you and your tribe, while letting go of all the things that truly don’t matter.

WT 234: Talking To Your Kids About Race with Alexandra Bates Oct 20, 2020

We are excited to release this much-anticipated conversation about race with friend of BOAW, Alexandra Bates. Last spring, when Alex discovered resources for talking to her daughters about race were lacking, she reached out to Karen and initiated a conversation. Their ensuing relationship has been enlightening for Karen, who wanted to share Alex's point of view and experience with the wider BOAW community. Alex shares her thoughts on racism and how we as moms can teach our children to love those from different races and backgrounds through the behavior we model.

WT 233: Mental Health and Motherhood with Wendi Nunnery Oct 13, 2020

Today’s conversation with author Wendi Nunnery drips with wisdom and grace as she shares her journey with mental health, the church, and motherhood. From growing up in a legalistic church culture to being diagnosed with OCD after becoming a mother, Wendi shares how her brokenness has driven her to Jesus and how she finds rest in His holiness. This is a good one mamas, be sure to share it with a friend who needs to be encouraged today. You can pre-order Wendi’s new book, Good Enough: Letting Go of Perfect for the Sake of Holy over on Amazon or enter our giveaway for a free copy over on Instagram.

WT 232: The Story of Soar Oct 06, 2020

Have you heard about the Soar Conference for years but never been able to attend? Listen in as Karen shares the story of God putting a vision for Soar in her heart almost a decade ago and how this conference has evolved since it began in 2015. We hope you're encouraged to set aside the time and financial resources to make attending a priority this year, because for the first time ever - location and time are not limiting factors! You can Soar Together from wherever you are, whenever you want to this fall.

Find out more at: boaw.mom/soar

WT 231: Loving Your (Actual) Neighbor Sep 29, 2020

God did not create us to live this life alone, He created us for community! And if nothing else, 2020 has taught us just how important community really is. On today's episode Karen and Sunny share your ideas and chat about the simple ways we can love on our actual neighbors even during these pandemic times.

Don't forget about gathering a group to Soar Together this year! Gather 9 moms in addition to yourself and you can snag our group pricing. Check it out at boaw.mom/soar

WT 230: Moms and Military Life Sep 22, 2020

Today Karen is answering questions from moms about military life. Whether it's a mom facing deployment, a child struggling with the frequent moves that are the norm in the military, or a mom fearful about her child's interest in joining the military, there's something you can relate to in this conversation. If you’re not a military family, listen and learn about the issues our military families face. And if you have mom friends in the military - share this episode with them so they can be encouraged!

Moms - don't wait another day to sign up for Soar Together! Tuesday, Sept. 22 is the last day for early bird pricing!

WT 229: Taking Care of Yourself During Crazy Seasons Sep 15, 2020

2020 has been a crazy season in and of itself! How well are you taking care of yourself, momma? From big things like feeling lonely and isolated to little things like how to manage chaos in the car - today Karen answers questions from moms who need a little TLC. Listen and be encouraged!

Don't forget to snag an Early Bird ticket for Soar Together before the price goes up! Watch together with friends on October 17 or watch ANY TIME after that date for six weeks. Learn more HERE.

WT 228: Time Management for Mom Life Sep 08, 2020

From how to sneak in time with God when your kids are home all the time to managing a move and a new baby with a spouse who has a demanding job, today’s questions are from moms struggling to manage their own needs alongside the needs of their household and their kids. Exhale deeply as you hear Karen and Sunny encourage these mamas to give themselves grace in these seasons and lower the imaginary bar you have set for yourself.

Register NOW for Soar Together on October 17th!

WT 227: The Messy Middle School Years Sep 01, 2020

These are the ‘no-man’s land’ years mommas, when our kids are caught in between childhood and adolescence. They are all insecure and they are all searching for their identity. Listen in today for some big picture thoughts about middle school in general as well as the practical answers you can always expect from Karen.

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WT 226: Allowance, Budgets, and Teaching Our Kids Financial Responsibility Aug 25, 2020

Giving our kids a firm footing when it comes to financial habits is one the most helpful things we can teach as parents. Listen in to today’s show as Karen shares about her struggle with being on a budget early in her marriage and the lessons she and Greg have taught their kids over the years. Hear how they handled talking about finances in their family, what they taught their kids about money, and how they still budget to this day!

Visit our show notes for links to everything we talked about in today's episode.

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WT 225: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations Aug 18, 2020

Have you ever walked into a situation with certain expectations and been disappointed when they weren't met? Today Karen shares how expectations can set our relationships up for failure. She defines the difference between desires and expectations and offers several tools for helping change expectations (for our children's faith, our marriage, our kids behavior) into desires so we can experience peace in our daily lives.

Visit our website for links to everything Karen mentioned on today's episode.

WT 224: What Do New Homeschoolers Need to Know? with Katie Leipprandt Aug 11, 2020

Today we’re answering questions from those of you who’ve decided to homeschool your kids for the first time this year. From how to choose a curriculum to managing the needs of toddlers and school-age kids at the same time, Wire Talk’s producer, Katie Leipprandt, shares her insights and experience from homeschooling her four children for the past 6 years. Whatever your school situation looks like this year, we hope this episode reminds you that in spite of imperfect circumstances, God will equip you with everything you need.

Head HERE for links to everything mentioned in today's episode!

WT 223: How Do I Prepare My Child For Puberty? Aug 04, 2020

Preparing our kids for puberty and sex does not have to intimidate us, mommas! If the thought of having “the talk” gives you all kinds of anxiety, tune into today’s episode to hear some straight talk from Karen. In this episode we cover talking about sex, modesty, and the physical changes our kids will be going through. As usual, Karen reminds us moms that we may not be perfect, but we are the perfect parent for our child!

WT 222: How Do I Discipline My Toddler's Defiance? Jul 28, 2020

Disciplining a toddler is no joke. As moms, we want our discipline to work the first time and every time, but as Karen reminds us, toddlers take time. If you need some encouragement to stay the course with your toddler, tune in today and take heart!

WT 221: How Do I Handle the Anxiety Surrounding Back to School This Year? Jul 21, 2020

Plans for school this year are changing daily in school districts around our nation. One thing we know for sure this year? We have no idea what to expect! That’s why we brought Dr. Chinwé Williams into the studio today, to ask for her thoughts both as a therapist and as a mom, about how we can handle our own anxiety surrounding going back to school and how we can help our children navigate these strange days.

WT 220: Help! A Summer Without Normal Activities Has Us At Each Other's Throats Jul 14, 2020

By this point in the year, it seems like everyone has had more than enough ‘quantity time’ with our families…but summer is still going strong! Today on Wire Talk Sunny and Karen answer questions from moms whose families are getting a little edgy from all of the time spent together. From how to give some structure to your summer days to how to teach your children boundaries, Karen shares wisdom on keeping your sanity as a family during this unusual summer.

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WT 219: Inviting Play Into Your Everyday featuring Days with Grey Jul 07, 2020

Beth Rosenbleeth of Days with Grey joins Karen and Sunny today to talk about keeping your toddlers engaged in play during these long summer days. If you've ever found yourself wishing for nap time by 9am, this is the episode for you! Hear Beth share her philosophy and practical tips for beginning your morning with intention, so you can fill your child's creative bucket and lead them toward independent play for the rest of the day.

WT 218: [RE-AIR] Little Miss Sunshine: Parenting Your Yellow Child Jun 30, 2020

Today wraps up a month of diving into the vault to re-air some of our most popular episodes. In this episode, Karen and Sunny are answering all of of your questions about "yellow" kids. Yellows are bubbly, affectionate, fun loving...and they can be exhausting! If you've ever wished your child would just stop talking, this is an episode you don't want to skip.

Wondering what color your child is? Try taking our temperament quiz with them in mind: birdsonawiremoms.com/quiz.

WT 217: [RE-AIR] Help! My Blue Kid is Making Me Melancholy Jun 23, 2020

All month long, we're re-airing some of the most downloaded episodes from the Wire Talk vault:

Today Karen and Sunny address questions from listeners all about the blue, or melancholy, temperament. Organized, thoughtful, loyal, precise - our blues have so many strengths! From how to balance their need for quiet with your family's activities to addressing their mood swings without catering to them, this is one episode packed with practical advice for all you moms of little Eeyores!

WT 216: [RE-AIR] Gaining Understanding of Our Green Children Jun 16, 2020

All month long we're re-airing some of the most downloaded episodes from the Wire Talk vault:

Peaceful, easy-going, conflict avoiders...however you describe them, to a parent who doesn't understand their motivations, "green" kids can be a mystery. Today Karen and Sunny discuss teaching our greens to take responsibility for themselves and how we can help them handle the pressures that come along with high school. If there's a green in your life, we think you'll learn something new when you tune in.

WT 215: [RE-AIR] Parenting Your Red Strong-Willed Child Jun 09, 2020

All month long we're re-airing some of the most downloaded episodes from the Wire Talk vault!

On Wire Talk today Karen and Sunny take questions about your little future president; how do we effectively discipline them? How do we establish our authority without crushing their spirits? How do we teach them to harness their innate confidence without being aggressive or coming across as a bully? We hope this conversation gives you practical tools today to parent your headstrong child with confidence.

WT 214: [RE-AIR] Navigating the Emotional World of Kids with special guest David Thomas Jun 02, 2020

All month long we're re-airing some of the most downloaded episodes from the Wire Talk vault. In today's interview Sunny is joined by one of our most popular guests, child psychologist David Thomas. During their conversation David addresses your questions about the emotional needs of our kids.

Sunny and David cover when to lean in and when to back off, how to discern what is hormones and what is normal behavior and David gives loads of practical tips to help you navigate the outbursts. Whether you're dealing with anger, sadness, anxiety or frustration in your kids, we think you'll hear something today that equips you to respond with grace.

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WT 213: How Do I Stop the Whining?! May 26, 2020

Today’s topic is one all moms can relate to - whiny kids! Whether your child is 4 or 14, listen as Karen answers your questions about how to handle whininess in the moment and how to nip it in the bud for good.

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WT 212: Quarantine Talk with Kelsey, Emily and Abby May 19, 2020

The Stubbs girls got together for this special episode to discuss the way quarantine has changed daily life. From job losses and pregnancy to missing out on the end of her senior year of college and travel opportunities, the girls share the challenges they are still walking through and what God is teaching them in this season.

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WT 211: Being United in Marriage with Greg and Karen Stubbs May 12, 2020

In this episode, we’re sharing exclusive audio from a live event featuring both Karen and her husband, Greg. Listen in as they teach on the topic of staying united as a couple and share a few tools you can use today to communicate better in your marriage.

Love this episode? Share it with your spouse! Our full curriculum for married parents, Parenting Together, is available for digital download on our site.

WT 210: Parenting and the Enneagram with Beth McCord May 05, 2020

Beth McCord (@YourEnneagramCoach) joins Karen and Sunny today to dive into the popular personality typing system, the Enneagram. We loved hearing Beth’s perspective on what makes the Enneagram such an effective tool for understanding ourselves and learning how we can use that knowledge to empower our parenting. Be sure to check out the show notes for links to the many resources Beth shares!

WT 209: How Do I Battle Mom Exhaustion? Apr 28, 2020

From getting up in the middle of the night with babies to staying up until the wee hours because your teen wants to talk late at night, this mom-gig is literally 24/7. On today’s episode we cover sleep regression, Saturday morning tussles over who has to get up with the kids, and dealing with parenting solo when your spouse travels. Sunny and Karen answer your questions and offer tips so you can be there for your kids, no matter what time of day it is. And don’t miss Karen sharing a prayer prayed over her many years ago that still brings peace whenever Greg is away to this day.

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WT 208: ADHD and Your Family with Dr. Staci Bolton, Part Two Apr 21, 2020

We’re back this week with a continuation of this fantastic conversation about ADHD with Dr. Staci Bolton. Today Dr. Bolton answers your questions about treatment alternatives to medication, how to help your teen develop stronger executive functioning skills, and how to discipline when ADHD is a factor. Don’t miss Dr. Bolton talking about how girls with ADHD Inattentive often fall through the cracks.

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WT 207: ADHD and Your Family with Dr. Staci Bolton: Part One Apr 14, 2020

Today Karen and Sunny ask clinical psychologist Dr. Staci Bolton your questions all about raising a child with ADHD. Dr. Bolton brings years of wisdom and expertise to this conversation, including her take on the difference between ADHD and a typically developing active child in the early years, the misdiagnosis of ADHD, and practical strategies for families dealing with the difficult dynamics ADHD can introduce into sibling and parent relationships. This conversation was so rich, we've split it into 2 episodes so you have time to digest all of the information Dr. Bolton shares.

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WT 206: Life in the Time of COVID-19 Apr 07, 2020

Karen and Sunny gathered virtually this week to talk about how COVID-19 has changed life for us all this month. They talk about the highs and lows, from having more meals together as a family, to feeling overwhelmed by the kids' questions all day long. Stay tuned til the end to hear Karen's encouraging word for us from the book of Job.

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WT 205: The Bottom Line With Adult Children Mar 31, 2020

Today's episode should give us all hope. Moms, this is what we are all aiming for - the stage when we finally get to be our child's friend! As your child begins to stand on their own two feet, help maintain a great relationship with them by tucking away the tips Karen shares during this rich discussion.

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WT 204: The Bottom Line During High School Mar 24, 2020

Wherever you are on your journey of motherhood, don't miss hearing Karen's perspective on the high school years! The more you learn early on, the better off you'll be when you do get to those high school years.

This season is all about gradually letting go of control so your child can leave your nest prepared for the wider world. Hear Karen's tips about helping your child earn trust, about the importance of letting them fail, and don't miss the one thing Karen says moms absolutely must not do during high school.

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WT 203: The Bottom Line During the Middle School Years Mar 17, 2020

Today on Wire Talk Karen and Sunny are talking middle schoolers. These middle school years are when your child is trying desperately to figure out who they are. If you only take one thing away from this conversation, that’s the thing I hope you remember! Middle school is a time of transition and it’s a time when as moms, we need to lean in and pay attention to who they ARE, not who we want them to be.

WT 202: The Bottom Line During Elementary School Mar 10, 2020

These are crucial teaching years. Like we talked about last week, hopefully by elementary school you’ve laid the foundation with your child that you are the authority they need to obey. Now is the time to your child teach the 'why' behind the 'what'. Use Scripture and use real life stories to teach your child the principles of how life works. This is the age when you need to help them begin to take responsibility for themselves.

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WT 201: The Bottom Line From Age 0-5 Mar 03, 2020

So many times in parenting we get caught up in the weeds with our kids and we can’t see the forest for the trees. This series is a way to help moms pause for just a moment, and look at the big picture. During our month long Bottom Line series, Karen and Sunny are tackling 5 different stages of life for our kid and sharing wisdom for what we moms need to keep our focus on during those years. Today we’re talking all about the early years, where you need to keep your focus ages 0-5.

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WT 200: Real Life. Real Moms. with Sunny Williams Feb 25, 2020

Today we're celebrating 200 episodes of Wire Talk by flipping the script on our typical show! Listen in as Karen interviews Sunny - Real Life. Real Moms. style - about her journey of motherhood; what has been challenging, what she is loving, and how God has grown her faith in this season of her life.

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WT 199: When Personality Colors Collide Feb 18, 2020

Opposites may attract, but when it comes to parenting your kids, how do you parent effectively as a team when your partner’s personality is the exact opposite of yours? On today’s show Karen answers questions from moms about their husband’s red, blue, green, or yellow personality clashing with their own.

Find out what 'color' you are with our free quiz.

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WT 198: Dealing With Out of Control Anger Feb 11, 2020

Whether it’s you or your child struggling with angry outbursts, we’ve all been there. On today’s show, Karen and Sunny tackle questions from moms about aggressive behavior and physical tantrums, and Karen reminds us where self control ultimately comes from.

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WT 197: Making Deposits In Your Marriage With Creative Date Nights Feb 04, 2020

If you think of your marriage like a bank account, when was the last time you made a deposit? During the years your kids are at home it’s easy to get in the habit of constantly making withdrawals and forgetting to “put money in the bank”. On today’s episode, Karen and Sunny are sharing date night ideas that are sure to improve your balance. We’ve got stay-at-home date ideas, creative childcare solutions, and outside-the-box date night activities. Pick something new to try this month and let us know how it goes!

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WT 196: Setting Boundaries and Sticking to Them Jan 28, 2020

Setting boundaries can be uncomfortable, whether you are trying to take control of your schedule, your toddler, or any other area of life. Listen in as Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms in our Facebook group about healthy, biblical boundaries and saying “no” without guilt!

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Sneak Peek: Real Life Real Moms with Kelsey & Emily Jan 23, 2020

Our first episode of Real Life Real Moms is coming soon and features Karen's daughters Kelsey and Emily. Listen in for a sneak peek of their conversation and to hear Karen explain what our new show is all about.

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WT 195: How To Talk To Your Kids About Pornography with special guest Kristen Jenson Jan 21, 2020

Until our society makes the internet safe for kids, parents must be proactive in teaching what pornography is, why it’s dangerous and exactly how to reject it. Today Karen and Sunny talk with Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures about porn-proofing our kids. We discuss age-appropriate definitions of pornography, how to talk about it with our kids, and how to help our kids form a plan for what to do when they see it.

Warning: this topic is not for young ears, moms. Pop in those earbuds before you start listening!

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WT 194: How Do I Handle This Conflict With My Mother or Mother-In-Law? Jan 14, 2020

Whether you wish you had a closer relationship with your in-laws, are dealing with a broken relationship with a parent, or your relationship is a little too close (and not in a good way) with the grandparents, we think you’ll relate to one of the questions Karen tackles on today’s show. Don’t miss Karen walking us through how we can forgive someone who does not deserve our forgiveness or her surprising (to Sunny) take on one momma’s situation. You’ll especially want to her perspective as a grandmother herself to the very last question!

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WT 193: Saying Yes to Community with Maria Shanlian Jan 07, 2020

On today’s episode, Maria Shanlian from the Birds on a Wire group in Wayne County, OH joins Karen and Sunny to share what happened in her community when she and a friend said yes to God’s prompting to pour into the moms in their community. Maria shares the hesitations they had, how God confirmed this calling, and how they went from 35 moms to more than 125 moms in just two years.

We think what’s going on in Wayne County is inspiring and we are praying hearts are stirred by this conversation!

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WT 192: Finding Rest in Busy Seasons Dec 17, 2019

Prioritizing rest is hard to do throughout the year, and for moms, it can be especially difficult during the holiday season. We're going all of the places and doing all of the things, all of the time! On today’s show Karen answers questions from moms about making room in their schedules, their hearts, and in their cars, for rest this season. Whether you’re a single mom, a new mom, or just a mom of non-stop talkers, listen in and be encouraged to find rest even in the busiest of seasons.

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WT 191: Raising Worry-Free Girls with Sissy Goff Dec 10, 2019

Author and counselor Sissy Goff joins Karen and Sunny in the studio today to talk about the rise of anxiety in our daughters. Sissy shares how anxiety presents in girls, the power there is in naming anxious thoughts, and offers strategies we can put in place to help our daughters cope with their “worry monster” in healthy ways. Plus, she gives a little tough love to moms by suggesting a few ways we may be contributing to our daughters’ struggles without knowing it. While this conversation is specific to girls, boy moms, there is a ton of wisdom in this episode for you as well!

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WT 190: When Bedtime Becomes A Problem Dec 03, 2019

Why does bedtime have to come at the end of the day when we’re already exhausted? All of us know what it’s like to look forward to getting our little ones down, only to be called back to their rooms again and again or woken up in the middle of the night by a scared little one. If you’re in the middle of a rough sleep season, listen in and be encouraged, you are not alone! We hope Karen’s wisdom equips you to handle the bedtime routine with confidence this evening!

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WT 189: We Need An Attitude Adjustment Over Here! Nov 26, 2019

Whether it’s a clash over chores, homework, or just a difference of personality, our kids’ attitudes can bring us down in a heartbeat. Listen for Karen’s wisdom on how to handle attitude explosions, how to celebrate and not fight your kids’ wiring, and how to set healthy boundaries so their emotions don’t suck you in!

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WT 188: Getting on the Same Page With Your Partner Nov 19, 2019

Learning to do life alongside a spouse is a constantly evolving process. Similar to being a student of your child, we have to work to understand and connect with our partners, even after decades of marriage! In this episode, Karen tackles your questions about communication, what to do when you’re at an impasse with your husband, and of course, sex! Enjoy mommas!

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WT 187: What If What I'm Doing Isn't Working? Nov 12, 2019

Whether it’s outbursts of your own anger, temper tantrums from your 5 year old, or the overwhelm that comes from working full time as a new mom…we all know what it’s like to feel defeated from day to day in motherhood. On today’s show Karen answers questions about what to do when it seems like nothing you’ve done has worked. Listen in, be encouraged, and as always, remember that you are a GREAT mom!

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WT 186: Walking By Faith Nov 05, 2019

From losing a parent and co-parenting with a wayward ex, to dealing with disappointment and silence from God - today we are talking about the role faith plays in our lives when things are not easy. Don’t miss Karen sharing stories she’s never told before about experiencing God’s voice throughout her life, including the story of God telling her to start this ministry. We hope today’s show leaves you encouraged to seek God and run after his will regardless of the circumstances of your life.

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WT 185: Communicating with Elementary Aged Kids Oct 29, 2019

Whether you're trying to understand what is actually happening during their school day, or struggling with an issue at home, today Karen answers your questions and shares wisdom on how to communicate so our school-age kids hear and understand us. Don't miss a short list of alternative questions to ask besides, "how was your day?" and Karen's approach to dealing with sibling jealousy. As always, we hope this conversation encourages you and gives you a practical nugget to carry into your mom world today.

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WT 184: Speaking Your Child's Love Language: Part Three Oct 22, 2019

We're back today with the last installment in our Love Languages mini-series. Acts of service and physical touch are the final languages we're covering as we answer your questions and Karen gives loads of practical tips. If you're just tuning in, be sure to catch up with episodes 182 and 183 in this series!

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WT 183: Speaking Your Child's Love Language: Part Two Oct 15, 2019

We're back with part two of our conversation on the five love languages today. In this episode, we're taking a look at Quality Time and Gifts. Karen defines what it means to speak these languages to your kids and answers your questions like, "how much quality time is enough?" and "how do I deal with sibling jealousy when I give gifts to one child?"

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WT 182: Speaking Your Child's Love Language: Part One Oct 08, 2019

We're kicking off a brand-new series today with Part One of a three-part conversation all about the five love languages. You'll get a birds-eye view (no pun intended) of what the five languages are, and then we'll deep dive into Words of Affirmation. As always, Karen gives loads of practical phrases you can start using this week, and even shares how the love languages still help her love her adult children well today.

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Karen’s Lunch Box Notes

The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman

Video lesson: Being A Student of your Child from Mom Core

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WT 181: Building Character in Your Son with Taylor Stubbs Oct 01, 2019

Karen’s son Taylor joins her in the studio today for a conversation about his years growing up in the Stubbs household. He reflects on some of the ways Karen and Greg instilled character in him across the years and the one family habit that stands out in his mind as character-building. He also shares a recent story of personal failure, and how the lessons he was taught as a boy gave him resilience to get back up again as a man.

Mentioned on the show:

Colors Personality Quiz

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WT 180: Creating a Family Culture That Sticks Sep 24, 2019

On today's show we're talking about the habits that bring our families together. From big, intentional practices like creating a family mission statement to fun traditions like weekly queso-fests at the local Mexican restaurant, Karen shares her thoughts on how to create a family culture that ensures your children know they belong. Whatever your family looks like, we think you'll find something in this episode that you can take and make your own.

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WT 179: What I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Motherhood Sep 17, 2019

On today’s episode, Karen reflects back over 29 years of parenting and shares the big lessons she learned from all of those small moments. Plus, she shares the greatest lesson she believes she taught her kids and gives a great little tip for any moms of perfection-minded blue kids. We hope this episode inspires you to take a deep breath, to keep the long view in mind, and reminds you that raising children really does take a village.

Links from today's show:

Corey's Auto Service - Karen’s mechanic, aka the best mechanic in North Georgia!

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WT 178: Finding Your Child's Currency Sep 10, 2019

Discipline is a constant in our world as moms and it's made harder by the fact that what works for your family constantly changes depending on the child you're disciplining and their age. On today's show we're discussing the idea of discipline as "currency", what that means and how to find out what your child's is. Plus, hear Karen delve into the idea of "pain now = peace later" and the Scripture that keeps her motivated to be consistent. If you're struggling with disciplining one or more children in your family, listen in and be encouraged!

Links from the show today:

Discipline series: Episodes 154, 155, 156

Mom Core curriculum - Discipline lesson

Start a BOAW group!

Books on raising boys: Boy Mom, Bringing Up Boys

Hebrews 4:11

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WT 177: Your Most Popular Questions from the Summer Answered Sep 03, 2019

We got a ton of questions from you guys over the summer and on today’s show we’ve picked out 5 questions that seem to come up over and over again. From sibling rivalry and sleepovers to meal time and bed time shenanigans, Karen and Sunny tackle it all.

Mentioned on the Show Today:

Episode 151: Sibling Rivalry

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WT 176: Keep It Simple, Momma! Aug 27, 2019

From managing extracurricular activities and keeping our homes in order, to shepherding our children's faith and paying attention to our marriage in the midst of it all; on today's show we're talking about 4 aspects of family life that are easy to overcomplicate. If you're feeling overwhelmed by pressure to do it all and do it all well, this episode is one you don't want to miss.

Mentioned on the show today:

Episode 175: Launching Your College Freshman Well

Karen's Studies: Says Who? Part 2 and Parenting Together

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WT 175: Launching Your College Freshman Well Aug 20, 2019

Karen and Sunny are back together today talking about the experience of sending our children off to college for the first time. They cover so much territory in this episode! From the best advice Karen gave her kids before they left for school to how to handle boyfriends/girlfriends coming back home with them. Karen also advises how to help siblings left behind adjust to the empty place at the dinner table. Whether you are facing this transition right now or if it's on the horizon, listen and be encouraged as Karen shares why she loved this season of mothering so much.

Mentioned on the show today:

Get tickets to Mom's Night Out with Karen at Christ's Church in Jacksonville HERE.

Wire Talk episode on Grief with Judy Wolfe

Praying for Your Adult Children

Grace Walk by Steve McVey

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WT 174: Your Child's First Device with Arlene Pellicane Aug 13, 2019

Arlene Pellicane joins us again today to talk about a relatively recent parenting milestone: giving our kids their first phone. From pitfalls we want to avoid, to steps we can proactively take to ensure our child's health and safety, we are talking about it all. This is a conversation that is relevant whether you have a 5 year old or 15 year old, so grab a cup of coffee or pop in those earbuds and join us. As always, we hope you are encouraged and equipped!

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WT 173: Technology + Motherhood with Arlene Pellicane Aug 06, 2019

Karen and guest host Katie Leipprandt are chatting with Arlene Pellicane today about how technology has impacted our parenting world. We talk about the ways we use technology as moms, the benefits and pitfalls of having a world of technology at arm's length and some boundaries we can consider putting in place to stay connected in our most important relationships - our families.

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WT 172: Real Talk with Karen's Kids Jul 30, 2019

On today's episode all of Karen's children join her in the studio to answer questions you guys have asked about the Stubbs family. Hear their thoughts on growing up in a big family, what traditions they want to carry into their own families one day, and for sure don't miss them answering the question, "How did Karen mess up as a mom?"

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WT 171: Mom Friendships Jul 23, 2019

On today’s episode we’re getting real about how isolating and lonely life as a mom can be. Listen in to hear Karen answer questions from moms who have recently moved, single moms, and a newly stay-at-home mom. As always, we hope this conversation encourages you! Let us know what you want to hear more of on the show by emailing us at info@birdsonawiremoms.com.

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WT 170: Surviving (and Thriving!) As A Single Mom Jul 16, 2019

Two single moms, Misty Paige and Michelle Lane, join Karen and Sunny on today’s episode to answer your questions, share their hearts, and discuss their experiences as single parents. Listen to hear how they grew as they journeyed from being single moms to young children, to watching those well-adjusted children leave their nests. We hope this encourages your heart whether you are parenting on your own, or have single moms in your circle of friends.

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WT 169: Blended Families and Helping Kids Handle Divorce Jul 09, 2019

Karen shares wisdom for talking about divorce, separation, and navigating a blended family on today’s episode of Wire Talk. Even if you are not in a blended family or going through a divorce, listen to better understand the moms around you. (And don’t miss Karen sharing the prayer she prays that helps her love even the most unloveable people in her life!)

Whether you’re married for the first time, re-married or divorced, we hope this episode gives you a few tools for navigating a tough season of life.

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WT 168: Being a Working Mom Jul 02, 2019

Any working moms out there? We thought so. On today's show Karen answers your questions about managing work plus motherhood and the conflicting emotions that often accompany that combination. She reminds us all to quit chasing perfect and tells us exactly what we should do with all our mom guilt.

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WT 167: How Do We Fight Fair in Our Families? Jun 25, 2019

Karen dives into her mentoring bag of tricks on today's episode to share three key principles for fighting fairly in our families. Learn to practice assertiveness and what it means to actively listen to one another. Plus, find out what Karen's "wish list" activity for conflict resolution is all about.

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WT 166: Clinging to the Upside of Life's Downs with Whoa, Susannah! Jun 18, 2019

Author Susannah B. Lewis of Whoa, Susannah! joins Karen and Sunny today for a conversation you don't want to miss. Susannah opens up about the very real way she clings to God and His Word while facing the curve balls life inevitably throws. If you're already a fan, you're going to love Susannah even more after this chat (if that's possible). And if she's a new voice for you, you're going to understand why more than a million folks find her honest and encouraging humor so refreshing! Stay tuned through the end of the show for details on a fun giveaway!

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WT 165: Authentic Intimacy with Dr. Juli Slattery Jun 11, 2019

Dr. Juli Slattery joins Karen and Sunny today to answer your questions about sexual intimacy within marriage. Juli gives her thoughts on what to do when you’re the one with the higher sex drive, how to keep your sex life alive when you’re exhausted at the end of every day, and how we can integrate our spirituality with our sexuality. (Psst, pop in your earbuds for this one!)

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WT 164: Fun & Energetic Yellow Moms Jun 04, 2019

Yellow moms, this episode is for YOU! Karen is also a yellow, so this conversation is especially fun to listen to as she tells stories about growing up as a yellow and how she brought her yellow strengths to play in her mothering. Not a yellow mom? Listen in to better understand and love on your friends!

In today's conversation, Karen and Sunny address your questions about the monotony of mothering, how to balance your desire for FUN with your kiddo's need for structure, and how to keep the long-term in mind when your nature is to live for the moment.

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WT 163: Disordered Eating & Body Image with Therapist Angela Schaffner May 28, 2019

We all want to be the healthiest version of ourselves possible, but what happens when we fall into destructive patterns with exercise or eating? And what can we do when we see a loved one struggling with the same thing?

Today, therapist Angela Schaffner joins Karen and Sunny in the studio to answer your questions about struggling with eating disorders, uncovering the reasons behind our damaging behaviors, and setting an example for our children.

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WT 162: Positive Body Image & Staying Healthy Amidst the Demands of Motherhood May 21, 2019

There's no way around it, motherhood changes a woman's body. Whether it's stretch marks from giving birth, or a stretched schedule that allows little time for exercise, there's a new normal once kids are a part of your daily routine.

Today Sunny and Karen answer your questions about making time to work out, giving yourself grace, and ultimately, making peace with the beautiful and capable body God has given you.

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WT 161: Friends Are Friends Forever...Or Are They? May 14, 2019

Is it okay that my 7 year old prefers to spend time with our family over other kids? How can I teach my son to be a good friend at school? How do I handle “tricky” friends - ones who look good on paper but who are secretly doing all the things I don’t want my teenage son involved in?

On today’s show we’re tackling questions about your kids and their peer relationships. Tune in to hear this far-ranging discussion and stay tuned until the end for the verse Karen wants us to meditate on as we relinquish control over this arena of our children’s lives.

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WT 160: Perfection-Seeking Blue Moms May 07, 2019

Blue mommas, today is all about YOU. You love order, routine, and nothing makes you smile quite like fresh vacuum lines on a rug. So often times the chaos of mom life drives you nuts! Today Karen and Sunny are tackling your questions on how to carve out time to restore your peace, how to let go of the mile-long to-do list in your mind and just enjoy your kids, and how to communicate your needs to your spouse or kids.

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WT 159: Processing Grief in Motherhood with Judy Wolfe Apr 30, 2019

Grief doesn't make exceptions or take a time out because you're a mom. Whether you're dealing with the loss of a parent or pregnancy, an unexpected diagnosis or the death of a dream, grief touches us all at some point along our journey of motherhood. On today's episode Karen speaks with reverend Judy Wolfe on how we can navigate the complex emotion of grief and how we can help our children process grief when it intersects with their lives as well.

If you've ever wondered how you're supposed to keep driving carpool and checking homework while walking through the valley of grief, we hope you'll tune in today and be encouraged. You are not alone, momma.

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WT 158: Preparing Your Senior for College Apr 23, 2019

On today’s episode Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms with high school seniors getting ready for graduation! We cover enjoying this last summer at home with your child, how often is too often to “check in”, what to expect on move-in day and even how to handle visits home now that your child is living independently at school.

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WT 157: Powerful & Positive Red Mamas Apr 16, 2019

Red moms, this is the episode you've been waiting for! Today Karen tackles your questions and talks about both the positives and the negatives that come along with being a red mom. We discuss anger, identity, and what happens when a red mom and a red child face off.

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WT 156: Discipline 3.0 - Adolescence & Beyond Apr 09, 2019

Today we're wrapping up our three part series by answering your questions on what discipline looks like as our kids move into adolescence. Karen explains the key principle that as moms, these are the years when we need to let consequences play out in our kids' lives. We answer questions about a lying daughter, how to address arrogant attitudes, and the role men can play in our sons' life during high school. Plus, find out why a pair of AirPods might just be the thing you need to make it through these years without losing your mind.

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WT 155: Discipline 2.0 - The Middle Years Apr 02, 2019

How do you discipline in the middle years when time outs aren't an effective option any more and your kids are rapidly closing in on adolescence? Tune in to hear Karen's philosophy on the purpose of discipline in these years and hear your questions answered about the discipline situations you are facing with your 6 to 12 year olds.

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WT 154: Discipline 1.0 - Laying the Foundation Mar 26, 2019

What do you do when time outs just aren't cutting it anymore? Join Karen and Sunny today for the first discussion in a three part mini-series all about discipline. We talk about the why behind the how, explain what Karen means when she talks about a child's "currency," and even take a deep dive into the topic of spanking. We hope this episode is a little refresher course on the purpose of discipline and helps you understand the importance of laying a solid foundation during the early years.

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WT 153: Establishing & Communicating Boundaries Mar 19, 2019

We all know establishing boundaries is important, but we don't always understand how to communicate those boundaries to those around us. On today's show, Karen helps us understand how to communicate our family boundaries to our children, how to deal with toxic relationships in extended families, and how to stand your ground without feeling guilty. Plus Sunny shares a great tip for taking the pressure off of your child as far as keeping your rules when they head to a friend's home.

Mommas, we hope this episode brings you great freedom as you parent this week!

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WT 152: Calm & Peaceful Green Mamas Mar 12, 2019

We're talking personalities again today, but this time we're discussing YOUR personality, and specifically answering questions from our tender and peace-loving GREEN mamas. Listen to hear the advice Karen has for a green mom worn out by her red and yellow kids, how green moms can thrive in a rainbow of competing family members, and stay tuned to hear Karen share a text she receives in the middle of recording with exciting news about her son! :)

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WT 151: Sibling Rivalry Mar 05, 2019

Do your bickering kids drive you nuts some days? You're in good company, momma! On today's episode Karen and Sunny answer your questions all about sibling relationships, rivalry, and the inevitable run-ins that happen when you have more than one child in your family.

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WT 150: To Grow or Not To Grow? Feb 26, 2019

How do you know when your family is complete? On today's episode of Wire Talk Karen and Sunny answer questions about family planning, infertility, and what it looks like to seek God in prayer when it comes to His plans for your future family.

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WT 149: Teens & Dating with Karen and Greg Stubbs Feb 19, 2019

Today Greg Stubbs joins Karen in the studio to talk about how they navigated dating relationships during their children's teenage years. They discuss the boundaries they set for their kids during the dating years, how they handled boyfriends and girlfriends they didn't like, and how they kept the lines of communication open during these important years.

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WT 148: Keeping The Spark Alive Feb 12, 2019

After being married for a while, it's easy to get stuck in a rut. Especially in the busy years between having kids and becoming empty nesters, it’s easy for our weeks to become a blur of dividing kid duties. This week on Wire Talk, Sunny and Karen talk about getting creative for date night, how to find great babysitters and why we should even bother!

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WT 147: The Truth About Postpartum Depression with Dr. Michele Harding Feb 05, 2019

Dr. Michelle Harding joins Sunny and Karen in the studio today to share her professional wisdom and personal experience with postpartum depression. We answer your questions about how to recognize PPD, what to do if you're going through PPD, and how we can be good friends to moms around us walking through a season of postpartum depression. As always, we hope you are encouraged by this conversation!

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WT 146: Handling Discontment in Marriage Jan 23, 2019

We all walk down the aisle with hearts full of hope, but a few years and a kid or two down the road, we often discover marriage is more work than we thought it would be.

On today's episode Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms struggling in their marriages in different ways; wondering how to stay content, how to get on the same page with their spouse, and even what to do when they aren't sure their marriage will survive. We hope this conversation encourages you to choose joy and fight for your marriage, especially when it feels like the hardest thing to do.

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WT 145: Little Miss Sunshine - Parenting Your Yellow Child Jan 17, 2019

Yellow kids are bubbly, affectionate, fun loving...and they can be exhausting! Today we're wrapping up our series on the four personality temperaments by answering questions all about "yellow" kids. If you've ever wished your child would just stop talking, this is an episode you don't want to skip.

For more advice from Karen on the other personality types, listen to episodes 121, 132 and 136.

Read all of our blog posts specific to the personality colors HERE.

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WT 144: Managing Your Family's Schedule Jan 10, 2019

These days moms work more hours than ever and are usually the primary keepers of the family schedule. Grocery shopping, doctor's appointments, preparing dinner, driving carpool, buying birthday gifts, folding laundry and oh yeah, for many of us there's a little thing called work, too. We're often looking at our calendars and scratching our heads, wondering how we can control them instead of being controlled by them.

On today's show, Karen and Sunny answer questions about routine, schedules and managing the busyness that accompanies family life. We hope you're encouraged by a tip to help calm the chaos and as always, reminded that you are not alone!

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WT 143: How to Lead Other Moms Well Jan 02, 2019

Did you know moms all over the U.S. and even across the world gather together weekly or monthly in small groups to learn from Birds on a Wire studies together? On today's Wire Talk we're answering questions from moms who host BOAW groups. Everything from, "how do I get a new group going?" and "how can I get moms to open up?" to "what do I do when I need a break from leading but don't want the group to end?" Tune in to hear the advice Karen has for our BOAW host moms - maybe you'll be inspired to host a BOAW group yourself!

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WT 142: Delighting in the Holidays Dec 12, 2018

It’s our last episode of 2018 and this year we are doing something we have never done before. Wire Talk is taking some time off! We wanted to take the advice we are always giving moms, and take a break from our usual routine so we can spend the time in between Christmas and New Year's Day resting and enjoying our families. Enjoy this episode all about the holidays and we'll see you back here in 2019!

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WT 141: Parenting When Your Spouse is Often Away Dec 04, 2018

Being on the same page with your spouse is never simple, and when one spouse is frequently away from home, things get even more complicated. On Wire Talk today, Karen and Sunny answer questions about how to squash resentment, smooth out the re-entry process, and even get dinner on the table when you're flying solo.

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WT 140: The Emotional World of Kids with special guest David Thomas Dec 03, 2018

Maybe your teenage daughter suddenly bursts into tears at the drop of a hat or maybe your 9 year old son is constantly slamming the door over math homework. The variety of emotions our kids express in one afternoon can leave us confused and exhausted.

David Thomas, one of our most popular break-out speakers at this year's Soar conference, joins Sunny today to address the questions so many of us have when it comes to our kids' emotional needs. We cover when to lean in and when to back off, how to discern what is hormones and what is normal behavior and David gives loads of practical tips to help you navigate the outbursts. Whether you're dealing with anger, sadness, anxiety or frustration, we think you'll hear something in this episode that equips you to respond with grace.

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WT 139: Surviving the Chaos of the Toddler Years Nov 26, 2018

Meal times, temper tantrums, their constant desire for your undivided attention ... it seems we can't do enough episodes on how to survive the toddler years! Many of you are asking, how can we survive the chaos and maybe even enjoy a little bit of these fleeting years? Today Sunny and Karen are addressing your questions and hopefully giving you hope that you CAN do this!

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WT 138: Can You Help Me Navigate The Grandparents? Nov 13, 2018

Just in time for the holidays! On today's episode we're answering your questions on how to handle those awkward, messy, and sometimes frustrating situations that occasionally (okay, maybe often) pop up with the grandparents. Karen and Sunny address boundaries, holiday travel and child care questions. So tune in on that long drive to see your family and we hope you feel ready to engage your family in a healthy way this year.

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WT 137: Teen Mental Health & Suicide Risk Factors with special guest Debbie Causey Nov 12, 2018

Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among students today. As a society we are clearly in crisis, and as mothers, we are fighting on the front line in this battle. Today one of Karen's best friends, Debbie Causey, joins us to talk about her own journey as the mother of a child with mental health conditions. As a mental health professional, Debbie also shares her wisdom on warning signs we can be looking for and the steps we can take to fight for our children's lives.

Even if you have toddlers and this conversation feels light years away, listen for a friend, a family member, or a student you know and love.

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WT 136: Help! My "Blue" Kid Is Making Me Melancholy Nov 05, 2018

Organized, thoughtful, loyal, precise. Our "blue" kids will grow up to be incredible leaders one day. The only problem is ... today may not be that day. Listen in as Karen and Sunny address questions from listeners all about the blue, or melancholy, temperament. From how to balance their need for quiet with your family's activities to addressing their mood swings without catering to them, this is one episode packed with practical advice for all you moms of little Eeyores!

Read all of our blog posts specific to the personality colors HERE.

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WT 135: How Do I Teach My Kids Gratitude? Oct 29, 2018

How many times have you coached your child to say, "thank you" during the younger years? While teaching a two year old to respond politely is one task, teaching a 14 year old to be grateful for opportunities and possessions is entirely another. On today's episode Sunny and Karen answer your questions about instilling gratitude in our children's hearts. Make sure you have your close-toed shoes on mommas, Karen may step on a few toes in this one!

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WT 134: Understanding Sensory Based Behavior with Occupational Therapist Christy Bennett Oct 22, 2018

Mother and occupational therapist Christy Bennett joins Sunny and Karen in this episode to dive into sensory based behavior. We discuss what sensory behaviors are and how to provide the sensory stimulus (or lack thereof) that your child is craving. Christy also answers your questions on how to talk to teachers about your child's specific needs and how parents can advocate for their child in the school system and in situations with other adults (coaches, church leaders, etc.)

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WT 133: What Do I Do About Mean Girls? Oct 09, 2018

We may love to quote Lindsay Lohan in Mean Girls, but no one thinks it's funny when you encounter a real-life mean girl. On Wire Talk today Sunny and Karen answer your questions all about girl drama. From playdate peer pressure to the high school hierarchy, how do you equip your daughter to handle mean girls and the yuck that inevitably comes along with some female relationships? Whether your daughter is 3, 13 or 30, tune in to hear Karen's thoughts, and be encouraged that you can mother with confidence through these difficult times.

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WT 132: Gaining Understanding of Our 'Greens' Oct 07, 2018

Peaceful, easy-going, conflict-avoiders ... however you describe them, to a parent who doesn't understand their motivations, 'green' kids can be a mystery. Today Karen and Sunny discuss teaching our greens to take responsibility for themselves when they are younger and how we can help them handle the pressures that come along with high school when they get older. Whether or not you have a green child, we think you'll learn something new when you tune in.

For Karen's blog posts about each of the personality colors, head HERE.

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WT 131: Intimacy After Babies with special guest Dr. Mike Sytsma Oct 01, 2018

Today we have a much anticipated episode for you! With us in the Nest studio is Dr. Mike Sytsma. Dr. Mike has been a break-out speaker the past several years at our annual Soar Conference. He is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Georgia, a Certified Sex Therapist, and a Certified Sexual Addictions Specialist. He's also an ordained minister who is passionate about marriage and helping couples grow in their marriage.

We are so glad he is hear to provide expert level advice and answers to your questions moms about Intimacy After Babies. Dr. Mike thank you for joining us!

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WT 130: How Do I Create a Peaceful Home? [RE-AIR] Sep 21, 2018

We often talk about bringing peace to the world, but what about bringing peace to your home? On the last of our month-long series of re-broadcast episodes today, Karen doles out advice on everything from creating a family routine and what do when the kids come to you with the dreaded, "I'm bored!" to how to handle differences between you and your spouse when it come to chores and household maintenance. As always, we hope you take away a nugget of practical advice that helps you maintain the peace in your home this week.

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WT 129: How Do I Re-Connect with My Spouse After Kids? [RE-AIR] Sep 17, 2018

When children enter the picture, your life changes forever. Your sleep habits change, your diet is changed, your schedule is changed and the amount of laundry you do definitely changes. As your child grows, some of these areas in your life get back to normal, except for your laundry ... that continues to build!

The addition of children changes your marriage too. So how do you balance life with children and your spouse? It's hard to do, and let’s be honest, sometimes our spouses are put on the back burner because we don’t have the energy to put in the “extra” time with them. Tune in to today's episode to hear Karen answer questions from moms about how to re-connect with their spouse now that kids are in the picture!

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WT 128: How Do I Create A Balanced Life? [RE-AIR] Sep 07, 2018

How do you keep a balance between kids, marriage, work, spirituality, and time for yourself? On today's re-broadcast of a Wire Talk favorite, Karen tackles a broad variety of questions moms constantly ask. Is balance possible? And what does a balanced life even look like? Tune in to hear Karen's straightforward advice as always!

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WT 127: How Do I Overcome Mommy Guilt? [RE-AIR] Sep 04, 2018

Moms, the feelings of guilt are REAL. We feel guilty being late to get our kids at daycare and guilty for not staying late at the office. Guilty for taking them to Chick-fil-A for dinner and guilty that we DIDN'T take them to Chick-fil-A for dinner! That's why we love what Karen has to say about guilt and how we can shake free of what can feel like a constant burden to us as mothers. We hope this episode gives you a practical way to overcome your mommy guilt and leaves you encouraged!

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WT 126: Can You Please Help Me Get Some Sleep? Aug 28, 2018

If anything is a universal experience among mothers, it's sleep deprivation. Whether you're nursing through the night, have a toddler who climbs into your bed too early in the morning or you're staying up late to take advantage of a finally quiet home ... moms know what it's like to miss out on sleep.

Listen in for Karen and Sunny's practical advice on how to get the sleep both you and your kids need!

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WT 125: How Do I Handle My Sweet Little Liar? Aug 21, 2018

Lying is one thing we never teach our kids how to do and yet somehow they figure it out all on their own. On today's episode Karen shares her thoughts on how to discipline when you're not sure which child is lying, what the difference is between tattling and confessing and how to encourage honesty between teenagers.

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WT 124: Managing the Homefront Aug 13, 2018

Whether you're a working mom or a stay at home mom, studies show that women tend to bear the brunt of the work in and around the home. On today's episode Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms about household chores, fighting with our kids over mealtime and how to ask for help from our partners. We love that Karen tells one mom to let it go, one mom to ask for help and one mom to get a maid! Stay tuned 'til the end to hear Karen's #1 hack for keeping your house tidy.

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WT 123: Back to School Aug 06, 2018

Whether your kids have already headed back to school or the yellow bus will be rolling around the corner in the next few weeks - today's episode is for all moms with school-age kiddos. From getting out the door in the morning to checking homework at night, Karen doles out practical wisdom to help you and your kids thrive this school year. Don't miss Karen's advice for those of you suffering from volunteeritis (the inability to say no when asked to volunteer at school) and stay tuned to hear about the perfect back-to-school product you can snag at this year's Soar Conference.

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WT 122: Finding Your Purpose with Candace Cameron Bure Jul 25, 2018

We've got a fun one for you today moms! Candace Cameron Bure, actress, mom and as she often points out, first and foremost a follower of Jesus, joins us to talk about faith and family. We love Candace's words of encouragement for young mothers and think that wherever you are in your journey of motherhood, you'll benefit from the reminder in this conversation that our primary purpose in all that we do is to glorify God.

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WT 121: How Do I Parent My "Red" Strong-Willed Child? Jul 21, 2018

Those strong-willed kiddos - phew! We know they'll be leaders one day, but what do we do TODAY when they won't listen or are constantly pushing back against us?

In this discussion, Karen and Sunny take questions about these strong personalities; how do we effectively discipline them? How do we establish our authority without crushing their spirits? How do we teach them to harness their innate confidence without being aggressive or coming across as a bully?

We hope this conversation gives you a few tools to parent your headstrong children with confidence.

For Karen's blog posts about each of the personality colors, head HERE.

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WT 120: When Multiple Personalities Collide Jul 15, 2018

On today's show we talk about what happens when all of your darling children’s personalities collide. We talk about the fighting and bickering that is so common among siblings as well as how we moms can give to each of our children so they feel known and loved. Karen and Sunny chat about what it feels like to be the mom caught in the middle and offer their insights into how we can maintain a peaceful home in the midst of what often feels like chaos.

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WT 119: How Do I Communicate Well With My Mom (Or My Mother-In-Law!) About My Kids? Jul 10, 2018

Becoming a mom changes everything - but some of those changes catch us completely off guard. On today's episode Karen answers your questions about how to communicate with your own mother (or mother in law!) now that your kids are a part of your relationship. Karen also answers a question from a mom about how to talk to her adult son - this is one episode you don't want to miss!

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WT 118: I Want It All & I Want It Now Jul 02, 2018

Today's episode is all about finding contentment mommas. Karen answers questions about comparison, entitlement and allowances in this episode about learning to be content in our lives. Tune in to hear Karen's wisdom about how we can pass on to our children the peace that comes from running your own race at your own pace.

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WT 117: Why Is Mom Life So Lonely? Jun 25, 2018

We’re getting real about how lonely and isolating motherhood can be on Wire Talk today. Karen talks about her time as a young mom living away from family and friends when Greg was in the Navy, offers advice to a single mom wondering how she can relate to all of her married friends and gives a brand new mom tips on making and being a good friend.

If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and leave a review in iTunes and be sure to check out www.birdsonawiremoms.com for more encouragement from Karen every week!

WT 116: Technology & Your Kids with special guest Tom Shefchunas Jun 11, 2018

Today’s episode is really important moms and because we wanted to get it right, we called in an expert. Today Tom Shefchunas joins us in the Nest to talk about technology and our kids. We were incredibly grateful he could share his expertise with us and we look forward to hearing more from him as a break-out speaker at this year’s Soar conference!

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WT 115: Honoring Dad with special guest Greg Stubbs Jun 08, 2018

In honor of Father’s Day next weekend (hint hint ladies) today on Wire Talk we're answering your questions all about dad! Since we're not dads ourselves, we thought it made sense to bring in a real-life dad to offer up his thoughts, so Greg Stubbs joins Karen and Sunny in the studio today with his thoughts on everything from good Father's Day gifts and traveling for work to how we can communicate effectively with our husbands. Listen in for Greg's wisdom on fatherhood and so much more.

If you enjoyed Wire Talk, visit www.birdsonawiremoms.com for more encouragement on your journey of motherhood.

And snag tickets to the upcoming Soar conference at www.birdsonsawiremoms.com/soar2018

WT 114: How To Survive Summer Jun 04, 2018

On today's episode of Wire Talk we are answering questions about how as moms we can make it through the dog days of summer. From how to make vacation actually feel like vacation when there's so much work involved, to helping our kids learn to entertain themselves ... listen in for Karen's practical answers and encouragement on making this a great summer for your kids and you too momma!

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WT 113: I Want To Do It All, But I'm Just SO Tired May 29, 2018

On today's episode of Wire Talk, Sunny and Karen answer questions from moms who are feeling overwhelmed by all they have to manage day to day. From working to intimacy, bedtime talks with kids to keeping the house clean, listen in to hear Karen's thoughts on what needs to be a priority and what can be let go in the midst of busy seasons.

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WT 112: Anxiety in Motherhood with Special Guest Dr. Emily Shupert May 21, 2018

Today we are here with Dr. Emily Shupert of Simplify Life Counseling to talk about anxiety and how it affects us as mothers. Dr. Shupert is a licensed professional counselor in the Atlanta area - in her practice she integrates psychology with theology and in particular loves helping clients work through anxiety and depression.

We hope this episode brings you hope and help if anxiety as a mother has been a struggle for you!

WT 111: Raising Older Girls May 14, 2018

Today we're wrapping up a 4 part mini-series focused on raising boys and girls. In this last episode of the series we are taking questions from moms about their pre-teen and teenage daughters - we even have a question coming from a grandmother on the show today which we love! Tune in if you're wondering how on earth to have "the talk" with your girls, if social media concerns you or if gossip has taken a hold of your daughter's heart.

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WT 110: Raising Little Girls May 07, 2018

Today we're talking all about little girls. This is the 3rd episode in a mini-series focused on raising boys and girls. For the last two weeks we tackled tough questions from boy mamas and today we are switching gears to talk about raising little girls. Tune in if sassiness, body image or competition between sisters is something you've ever dealt with!

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WT 109: Raising Older Boys Apr 30, 2018

Being a boy mom is not for the faint of heart! On today's episode Karen and Sunny answer questions from moms that will make you laugh and might even make you cry. We tackle body odor, pornography and Karen suggests how single moms can fill the gap when Dad isn't around as a role model for their boys.

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WT 108: Raising Little Boys Apr 19, 2018

We are excited to bring you the first episode in our mini-series all about Raising Boys & Girls today. In this episode we are fielding questions from boy moms - specifically moms with little boys. Body odor and hormones here we come! What a privilege and what a challenge to be a boy mom huh?

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WT 107: Handling Conflict With Our Husbands Apr 16, 2018

Today's episode is all about spouses and how we handle conflict with them. No biggie right? We’ve got questions on everything from intimacy and discipline to finances. Don't miss the teaser Karen sneaks in about the new curriculum she and Greg are developing!

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WT 106: Raising a Child with Special Needs (with guest Kimber Burgess) Apr 09, 2018

Today we are speaking with Kimber Burgess, a friend of the show and incredible mom raising a child with special needs. We know many of you also have a child with special needs and we hope this conversation encourages you. This episode is packed with incredible wisdom for us all, including ways you can encourage the families of children with special needs in your community. If a mom of a child with special needs comes to mind, share this episode with her so she can be encouraged today!

WT 105: Is There A Right Way To Be A Working Mom? Mar 30, 2018

There's no 'right' way to be a working mom and of course it's not 'wrong' to be a working mom either! On today's episode Karen and Sunny take questions from moms about work, work-life balance and all the emotions that come along with navigating this part of life once kids enter the picture.

If today's episode encouraged you, visit www.birdsonawiremoms.com for more encouragement on your journey of motherhood. And, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review on iTunes!

WT 104: How Do I Get Through To My Tween Mar 26, 2018

The middle school years are a time of change and awkwardness that most of us would never willingly return to, but they are also the time when you really start to see the adult your child is going to be emerging. The tween years don’t have to merely be endured, I promise you can enjoy them mom!

WT 103: How Do You Parent the Kid God Gave You? Mar 17, 2018

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WT 102: How Do I Figure Out What Good Discipline Looks Like? Mar 06, 2018

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WT 101: Where Did All These Mom Emotions Come From? Mar 05, 2018

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WT 100: A Candid Conversation with Karen's Kids Feb 27, 2018

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WT 99: Keeping the Future in Mind Feb 17, 2018

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WT 98: How Do I Get on The Same Page As My Husband? Feb 06, 2018

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WT 97: Navigating the Terrible Twos Feb 05, 2018

The toddler days are hard and long days. I loved my children and now I look at pictures and think to myself, or my goodness they were so cute! But, teaching, disciplining and training a toddler is no joke.

Join us for this episode as we take questions from moms all about the toddler years.

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WT 96: How Do I Help My Child Find A Faith of Their Own? Jan 26, 2018

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WT 95: Discipling Your Child's Heart Jan 22, 2018

Today's episode focuses on how to talk to your child about what is going on inside of their heart and how to address some of the behaviors that don’t necessarily deserve a time out.

Join us as Karen and Sunny answer your questions and offer their insights into how to disciple your child's heart.

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WT 94: How Do I Manage My Home Without Going Crazy? Jan 16, 2018

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WT 93: How Can I Be More Intentional in 2018? Jan 06, 2018

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WT 92: How Do I Start a Birds on a Wire Group? Jan 01, 2018

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WT 91: Happy Holidays from Birds on a Wire Pt. 2 Dec 19, 2017

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WT 90: Happy Holidays from Birds on a Wire: A Special Note for Moms Dec 19, 2017

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WT 89: How Do I Show My Husband He Matters Too? Dec 09, 2017

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WT 88: How Do I Set Up My Children for Independence? Nov 30, 2017

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WT 87: Should I Pretend Like I Have It All Together? Nov 27, 2017

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WT 86: Practicing Gratitude and Preparing Your Heart for the Holidays Nov 20, 2017

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WT 85: How Do I Start Dating My Husband Again? Nov 13, 2017

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WT 84: Are My Kids Supposed to Turn Out Like Me? Nov 06, 2017

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WT 083: My Kids Are Acting Out: What Should I Do? Oct 31, 2017

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WT 082: I Didn't Know I Had To Prepare For That: Anticipating The Unexpected Oct 20, 2017

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WT 081: What If I’m Not Ready For My Child to Grow Up? Oct 17, 2017

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Wire Talk Unplugged: What's Happening at Birds On A Wire Oct 10, 2017

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WT 079: How Do I Manage a Growing Family? Oct 02, 2017

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WT 078: How To I Manage Life's Schedule? Sep 26, 2017

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WT 077: How Do I Cultivate My Child's Character? Sep 19, 2017

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WT 076: How Do I Help My Child Deal With Peer Pressure? Sep 12, 2017

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WT 075: When Do I Let Them Fail And When Do I Step In? Sep 05, 2017

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WT 074: Greg and Karen Stubbs on Parenting, Marriage and Other Lessons From 31 Years Together Aug 29, 2017

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WT 073: What Can I Do to Help My Kid's Faith? Aug 22, 2017

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WT 72: How Can I Get My Teen's Respect? Aug 15, 2017

We love our sweet teens (even in their not-always-so-sweet moments), but it doesn't mean that parenting them isn't tough. They're growing and changing and facing enormous amounts of pressure, and sometimes... the moms are the ones who can feel the wrath of it all. The good news is: every teen goes through this. You'll both make it to the other side of this season.

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WT 071: How Do I Handle My Aging Parents? Aug 08, 2017

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WT 070: How Do I Prepare to Be a New Mom? Aug 01, 2017

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WT 069: How Do I Calm Back-to-School Nerves? Jul 25, 2017

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WT 68: What If I Don't Feel Like a Good Mom? Jul 18, 2017

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WT 067: How Do I Get My Child to Stop Crying? Jul 11, 2017

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WT 66: How Do I Start to Focus on Me Again? Jul 04, 2017

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WT 065: How Do I Deal With Social Media Comparisons? Jun 27, 2017

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WT 064: How Do I Find My Passion Again? Jun 20, 2017

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WT 63: How Do I Get Through Losing a Pregnancy or Child? Jun 13, 2017

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WT 062: How Do I Survive and Thrive in the Summer? Jun 06, 2017

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WT 061: Sandra Stanley's 5 Things You Need to Know About Fostering May 30, 2017

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WT 060: What Are The Different Personality Colors? May 23, 2017

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WT 059: How Do I Apologize to My Kids? May 16, 2017

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WT 058: Why Is Everything a Fight? May 09, 2017

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WT 057: School's Out for Summer: How Do I Care for My Kids? May 02, 2017

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WT 056: How Do I Make Each Child Feel Like a Priority? Apr 25, 2017

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WT 055: Will the Attachment Phase Ever Stop? Apr 18, 2017

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WT 054: How Do I Manage the Busyness of Spring? Apr 11, 2017

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WT 053: How Do I Create and Maintain Family Values? Apr 04, 2017

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WT 052: How Do I Parent My Growing Teenager? Mar 28, 2017

WireTalk with Karen Stubbs is a podcast designed to encourage and equip moms by answering your questions about motherhood, hopefully helping you maintain your faithfulness to God while experiencing a peaceful life on your journey.

WT 051: I'm a New Parent: What Do I Need to Know? Mar 21, 2017

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WT 050: 5 Things You Asked About Karen Mar 10, 2017

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WT 049: How Do I Build Friends as an Adult? Mar 06, 2017

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WT 048: What Do I Do About Mommy Guilt? Feb 28, 2017

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WT 046: How Do I Raise Self-Disciplined Kids? Feb 13, 2017

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WT 47: How Should You Parent Your Grown Children? Feb 13, 2017

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WT 045: How Can I Inspire My Family to Help Me More? Feb 07, 2017

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WT 044: How Do I Create a Peaceful Home? Jan 31, 2017

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WT 043: Dealing with Divorce Jan 24, 2017

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WT 042: How Do I Manage Being a Working Mom? Jan 16, 2017

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WT 41: How Can I Manage Being a Stay at Home Mom? Jan 10, 2017

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WT 40: How Do I Start 2017 Off Right? Jan 03, 2017

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WT 039: How Do I Make Next Year Different? Dec 27, 2016

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WT 38: Holiday Special: Encouragement for Moms Dec 21, 2016

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WT 037: How Do I Teach My Kids the Importance of Christmas? Dec 13, 2016

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WT 036: How Do I Reconnect With My Husband? Dec 06, 2016

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WT 036: How Do I Reconnect With My Husband? Dec 06, 2016

WireTalk with Karen Stubbs is a podcast designed to encourage and equip moms by answering your questions about motherhood, hopefully helping you maintain your faithfulness to God while experiencing a peaceful life on your journey.

WT 035: Can You Help Me Understand My Toddler? Nov 29, 2016

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WT 034: How Do I Make the Holidays Run Smoothly? Nov 22, 2016

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WT 033: How Do I Stay Motivated? Nov 15, 2016

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WT 032: What If I Don't Like My Child's Friends? Nov 08, 2016

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WT 030: How Do I Teach My Kids About Money? Oct 28, 2016

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WT 030: The Top 10 Questions Moms Ask Karen Oct 25, 2016

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WT 029: How Do I Talk to My Kids About Sex? Oct 18, 2016

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WT 028: How Do I Create a Balanced Life? Oct 11, 2016

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WT 027: Should I Be My Child's Parent or Friend? Oct 07, 2016

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WT Anniversary Special: The Story of Birds on a Wire Oct 04, 2016

This month Birds on a Wire is celebrating our 5th birthday! Listen in as Karen and Sunny talk about how Birds on a Wire started and what their hopes are for the future of this ministry.

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WT 026: How Do I Overcome Fear? Sep 27, 2016

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WT 025: How Do I Parent a Kid in College? Sep 20, 2016

If you were one of the many parents—like Karen—who dropped their child off at college last month, the sad emotions might be fading and you might be left wondering: wait, how do I parent a kid in college?

WT 024: How Do I Handle Kids and Bullying? Sep 13, 2016

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WT 023: How Do I Set Limits on Technology Sep 06, 2016

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WT 022: How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to Other Moms? Aug 30, 2016

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WT 021: How Do I Get Ready for a Busy Year? Aug 19, 2016

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Wire Talk 020: How Do I Stop Resenting My Husband? Aug 11, 2016

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Wire Talk 019: How Do I Prevent Sibling Rivalry? Aug 09, 2016

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Wire Talk 018: How Do I Prepare for Back-to-School? Aug 02, 2016

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WT 017: What Should I Know About the Elementary School Years? Jul 26, 2016

It's almost back-to-school time for your elementary schoolers! The elementary years can be tricky—all of a sudden your babies seem to turn into little adults! So how do you handle busy schedules, sleepovers with friends, allowance, and the new responsibility of homework? Karen covers all of that and more on today's episode of Wire Talk!

Wire Talk 016: How Do I Handle My In-Laws? Jul 19, 2016

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Wire Talk 015: How Do I Parent Different Personality Types? Jul 12, 2016

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Wire Talk 014: What Are Your Tips for Summer Vacation? Jul 05, 2016

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Wire Talk 013: How Do I Parent All My Kids Equally? Jun 28, 2016

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Wire Talk 012: How Do I Raise My Son? Jun 20, 2016

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WT 011: How Do I Raise My Daughter Jun 14, 2016

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WT 010: Single Parenting: How Do I Do This On My Own? Jun 07, 2016

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WT 009: How Do I Help My Kids Handle Our Divorce? May 30, 2016

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WT 008: What Do I Need to Know About Raising My Teenager? May 24, 2016

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Wire Talk 007: How Do I Keep My Marriage a Priority? May 17, 2016

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Wire Talk 006: Am I Making the Right Decisions For My Newborn? May 09, 2016

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WT 5: Is 'Me Time' Really That Important? May 02, 2016

Being a mom is a very servant-oriented job and it’s very easy to get lost in the shuffle. On today's episode, Karen and Sunny talk about the importance of prioritizing self-care and answer your questions about how to make sure your needs don't get buried while caring for your family.

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Wire Talk 004: What's the Best Way to Discipline My Kids? Apr 28, 2016

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WT 003: Will We Ever Survive the Toddler Years? Apr 26, 2016

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WT Bonus: Meet Sunny Apr 21, 2016

Meet Wire Talk's host, Sunny Williams! Sunny shares her story of how she met Karen and got connected with the Birds on a Wire Ministry. Find out why she thinks the saying "It takes a village" is true and why she's so excited to be part of Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs!

WireTalk 002: How Do I Help My Child Grow Their Faith? Apr 19, 2016

On this episode of Wire Talk, Karen and Sunny talk about a topic of eternal matters: How Do I Help Grow My Child's Faith?

This is something all Christian moms hope and pray for their children, but sometimes we don't know how to begin going about it. Karen and Sunny bring warmth, wisdom as they answer your questions about this topic.

WT Bonus Episode: Meet Karen Stubbs Apr 14, 2016

Meet Wire Talk's own Karen Stubbs! Learn about why she started the Birds on a Wire Ministry, how many kids she has, and how excited she is to talk with you each week during Wire Talk.

WT 001: How Do I Overcome Mommy Guilt? Apr 12, 2016

On this episode of Wire Talk, Karen and Sunny talk about one of the most common issues that moms face: Mommy guilt.

Karen talks about how she's experienced mommy guilt in the past, and how she manages it in the present. Karen also offers her opinions on if moms should feel guilty asking for help, dropping kids off at child care, or telling your kids to stop talking for a few moments when you're in the car.

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