Why or Why Not with the Watsons

Bonus - Why Not Take A Pause Jan 16, 2023

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Do you ever just need to take a breath and pause?

In this check-in with Benjamin and Kirsten they share that they’ll be taking some time away to evaluate 2023 and press into the New Year as a family. They remind us that it’s important to always live out what we’re teaching, and the power of making sure that our “yes” is our BEST “yes”.

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Ep 45 - Why Not Find Christmas in Genesis? Dec 19, 2022

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Can you find a ripple effect of obedience in your life?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how you can find pieces of the Christmas story all throughout the Bible, even in Genesis! They walk us through scripture to show us the power of an act of obedience, reminding us that Christmas is actually in the entirety of the scripture if we look at it through the lens of God’s love and mercy for us.

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Ep 44 - Why College Memories? Dec 12, 2022

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How often do you reflect on past memories to see just how far you’ve come?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten share some never before heard memories from their college days! They tell us some fun stories from early on in their relationship, and how Kirsten’s relationship with Benjamin’s parents developed, reminding us how important it is to look back and smile over past moments in our lives.

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Ep 43 - Why Christmas Chaos? Dec 05, 2022

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How do you manage the chaos that is sometimes associated with this time of year?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin kick off the Christmas season by talking about how to navigate the pressure that comes with the holidays. They give practical tips on how to set the tone in your home, their approach to buying presents, and the value of getting your family involved in serving others, encouraging us to always keep the focus on the true meaning of Christmas!

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Ep 42 - Why Not Be Grateful for Conflict Nov 28, 2022

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How often do we let the conflict in our life produce growth?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten finish up their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about how to navigate conflict. Through talking about a recent moment of conflict in their own life, they help us see how we should approach conflict as a believer, knowing that it can be used as an opportunity for growth and shows us the power of forgiveness.

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Ep 41 - Why Not Be Grateful for Giving Nov 21, 2022

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How often do we take the focus off of ourselves, and put it on the needs of other people?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about giving and the importance of laying the groundwork of generosity with your kids. Through being generous with not just your money, but also your time, they remind us that giving keeps the heart in check, and gives us an opportunity to be a part of what God is doing.

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Ep 40 - Why Not Be Grateful for Prayer in Marriage Nov 14, 2022

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Is prayer a part of your foundation in marriage?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they break down the power of prayer in marriage. They discuss the importance of building a firm foundation and taking time to remember your love story, encouraging us to always make prayer our default response in every situation.

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Ep 39 - Why Not Be Grateful for Change Nov 07, 2022

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How do you respond to change in your life?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they focus on what it looks like to be grateful for the change. They share how they’ve handled new seasons in their own lives, reminding us to shift our perspective to remember that God is our firm foundation, steady throughout every moment.

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Ep 38 - Why Not See Halloween for What It Really Is Oct 30, 2022

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How often do Christians think about spiritual warfare?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten discuss Ephesians 6:12 and show us how to look beyond the surface of our situations to see what we’re actually fighting in the spirit. They also share how they navigate Halloween with their children and the importance of always being on guard, encouraging us to put on the full armor of God to fight our battles.

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Ep 37 - Why Your Kids Prayer Life May be a Reflection of Yours Oct 23, 2022

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How often are you encouraging your kids to talk to God?
In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten & Benjamin talk about how your kids' prayer life may be a direct reflection of yours. They discuss what to do when praying feels uncomfortable, and the power of always pointing your kids back to God, encouraging you to be a living example of “praying without ceasing” alongside your kids.
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Ep 36 - Why Are Good Friends Hard to Find and Keep? Oct 16, 2022

Do you view friendship as a priority in your life?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin & Kirsten talk about why good friends are hard to find and keep. They start by walking through the various types of friends, sharing the reality of knowing that any good relationship is worth fighting for, encouraging us to pray for our friends and find the people who will uplift and enhance our lives.

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Ep 35 - Why Whiter Than Snow is Better Than Crimson Red Oct 09, 2022

How often do you respond to the Lord’s calling?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten & Benjamin read through Isaiah 1 and discuss how God used Isaiah to speak to the people of Judah. Through the scriptures we see the importance of making sure our lives are pleasing to God, but that also through repentance the Lord is faithful to forgive our sins and redeem our stories…however it’s up to us to respond to His calling.

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Ep 34 - If I Knew Then What I Know Now: From Our Future Selves Oct 02, 2022

What advice would you give yourself in your current season? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin & Kirsten finish out their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they give advice from the perspective of their future selves, and discuss how that wisdom impacts their lives today. They talk about prioritizing their own marriage, enjoying the parenting journey, the importance of practicing rest, encouraging us to continue to draw closer to the Lord and know that He will be faithful in every season you walk through.

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Ep 33 - If I Knew Then What I Know Now: To Our 30 Something Year Old Selves Sep 25, 2022

What wisdom would you go back and tell your 30-year-old self?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they share experiences from their 30’s!

They discuss topics like embracing change, how to find purpose exactly where you are, the importance of surrendering your plans to the Lord and trusting that He does not waste anything!

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Ep 32 - If I Knew Then What I Know Now: To Our 20 Something Year Old Selves Sep 18, 2022

What would you say to your 20 year old self if you could go back?

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk all about their 20’s!

They discuss the power of knowing your worth, their first few years of marriage, and talk about the struggle with perfectionism, reminding us that no one is perfect, that’s why we all need God’s grace.

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Ep 31 - If I Knew Then What I Know Now: To Our Younger Selves Sep 11, 2022

What are some things you would go back and tell your younger self?

In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk about themselves when they were younger. From relationships with their parents, purity culture, and the importance of memorizing bible verses as kids, they remind us that God does not waste any of our experiences.

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Ep 30 - Team Why Versus Team Why Not Sep 04, 2022

Are you team Why or team Why Not in your thinking?

In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten review some of their legendary arguments over their 17 year marriage that reveal their own unique thought process. From disagreements over laundry baskets, closing cabinets, unread emails and more, they remind us to look back over our experiences, smile and see how far you have come.

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Ep 29 - Why Hezekiah's Obedience Prepared His People For War Aug 28, 2022

Are you prepared to stand apart in a culture that is going the other way? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin read through 2 Chronicles and discuss Hezekiah’s obedience in preparing his people for war. They talk about the importance of knowing that it’s the Lord who prepares us for battles, explaining that recognizing what God has already done in our lives motivates us to be different. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 28 - Why not Hear From Our Listeners? Q&A Episode Aug 21, 2022

How much do you really know about the Watsons? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin answer your submitted questions. They discuss topics like how to carve out quality time with your children, their friendship with the Brees family, how to discern what popular tv shows to watch, and much more.

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Ep 27 - Why not Learn About the Game of Football? Aug 14, 2022

How much do you know about the game of football? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the logistics of the game of football. As the NFL season opens, Kirsten shares that knowing the basics of the game makes the season feel a lot more fun even if football is not your passion. Whether you love the game or have someone in your household that loves the game, this episode is packed with information that will help to understand what is happening on the field.

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Ep 26 - Why NFL Training Camp Was a Blessing and a Curse Aug 07, 2022

What season or experience has grown you in ways you never thought were possible? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the 16 seasons of NFL Training Camp that they experienced. They both reflect on their memories of this season in their lives, talking about how much they grew individually and as a family through the blessings and curses each year brought.

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Ep 25 - Why Is Summer Almost Over? Jul 31, 2022

Do you feel pressure to give your kids the “perfect summer”? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how they are feeling as summer comes to an end with their kids. Kirsten gets real about her emotions as Benjamin provides encouragement to her and other moms out there who feel the same.

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Ep 24 - Why Talk to Your Kids About Abortion? Jul 24, 2022

How do you talk to your kids about tough issues? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how to approach the difficult topic of abortion with your kids, considering how to share the right information for their age. They discuss some of the barriers to this conversation as well as why it is so important to communicate with them on the issue of life.

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Ep 23 - Why not Go to Family Camp? Jul 17, 2022

Have you ever been to Family Camp? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the amazing benefits of going to family camp for children as well as parents. They share memories of their time at camp as well as some ways they slowed down to focus on their individual spiritual growth and their relationship with one another, leaving the week refreshed and ready to re-engage with their daily lives.

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Ep 22 - Why Is Parenting So Hard? Jul 10, 2022

Do you ever find parenting hard? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the reality of the challenges as a parent. They look to the Bible to see what God says about how we should view our children as a gift and share how to align our parenting perspective with scripture.

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Ep 21 - Why not Be Like Peter? Jul 03, 2022

Are you bold about the gospel like Peter when the opportunity comes? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten read through Acts, chapter 3 and talk about the boldness of Peter proclaiming the gospel after healing the man at the gate. They talk about how to apply that boldness to your everyday life, starting with knowing the gospel personally, to how and when to share just like Peter did.

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Ep 20 - Why Anniversaries Are a Perfect Time for Pruning Jun 26, 2022

Do you have a consistent time set aside with your spouse to talk about how your marriage is doing? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about their longstanding tradition of talking about how their marriage is doing while they are away celebrating their anniversary. From finance, to communication and intimacy, they share how they walk through an annual "pruning" of their marriage so that they will bear better fruit in the coming year.

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Ep 19 - Why Sending an SOS Could Save Your Marriage Jun 19, 2022

Are you willing to ask for outside help for your marriage when you need it? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about why it is important to ask for help especially when it comes to the state of your marriage and relationships. They share what they believe is the #1 key to a happy marriage and how to get help when your marriage is not thriving.
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Ep 18 - Why not Understand Our Holidays? Jun 12, 2022

Does your family love summer? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how many great things summer brings, like grilling, swimming and holidays that mark important events in our nation’s history. They share why it is important that we not only celebrate, but how we pass on our heritage by letting our kids know the details of these important dates.

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Ep 17 - Why Do Father's Need More Than a Tie For Father's Day? Jun 05, 2022

Do you give your father the same gift every year for Father’s Day? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how all those gifts are great, but there are three things fathers truly need: affirmation, accountability and affection.

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Ep 16 - Why not Worship the Big "K" King of Kings? May 29, 2022

When you read the Bible, who is the main character to you? How do you apply it to your life? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the scriptures where the Israelites ask Samuel for an earthly king to rule over them so that they can be like other nations. They show how we as believers have the same ability to struggle with worshipping the King of Kings over the little “k” kings that are tangible here on earth. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 15 - Why the Story Must be Retold? May 22, 2022

Do you share the story of your life and faith journey with your kids? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how important it is to share our stories with our kids about our childhoods and where we came from, so that they can know us. They show how in the Bible, the children of Israel needed to hear truth about God and about their history over and over so that they would remember God’s character and nature.

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Ep 14 - Why not Know the Cost First? May 15, 2022

Are you a person that counts the cost ahead of time? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about counting the cost financially, in our daily lives and spiritually as believers in Christ. Reading the passage in Luke 14:25-35, they break down what Jesus tells his disciples about counting the cost to follow him.

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Ep 13 - Why April Showers Bring More Than May Flowers May 08, 2022

Do the months of April and May compel you to undergo spring cleaning? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how spring cleaning has grown their awareness of how much life changes in a year. They address how important it is to not just clean out closets in the spring, but to check in with yourself and your kids emotionally and spiritually as well.

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Ep 12 - Why Celebrating Mother's Day Is Tricky May 01, 2022

Are you prepared for Mother’s Day? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about Mother’s Day in their home and how that has evolved over the years. They discuss the different emotions that come with Mother’s Day and why it is important to be aware that though this is a day of celebration, there is also heartache and even anger that can come with this day and how to be sensitive to those that are hurting. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 11 - Why Take a Breath? Apr 24, 2022

Are you moving so fast in this life that you forget to pause and just take a breath? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about Kirsten’s new book ‘Sis, Take a Breath’. Kirsten shares highlights from the book, like candid stories, encouragement as well as some behind the scene insights about the project that you won’t want to miss. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!
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Ep 10 - Why Taxes Mean More Than You Think? Apr 17, 2022

How many of you are excited about paying taxes? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the importance of paying taxes as an American citizen, as well as being a light to the world as Christians. They read through scripture highlighting what Jesus said and did on this topic as an example to us.
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Ep 9 - Why not Celebrate Jesus on Easter? Apr 10, 2022

How do you and your family celebrate Easter? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about Easter traditions, where they originated and how we carry them forward in our own families. They reflect on the true meaning of Easter - the resurrection of Jesus, our salvation and hope in the gospel.

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Ep 8 - Why not Plan for Summer in April? Apr 03, 2022

Parents, how do you deal with school breaks for your family whether it’s planned out or basic survival? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how important it is to be intentional with how to spend school breaks, using that as time for fun, family, friends, faith as well as future (building life skills). They encourage us to take some time to see what summer should look like for our specific families, strategize and plan for it without a lot of stress. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 7 - Why Your Marriage Is Your First Ministry Mar 27, 2022

If you are married, do you consider your marriage your first ministry or even a ministry at all? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how marriage is supposed to be our first ministry, not in vocation but in how we live our lives day to day. They dive into how to view marriage as a ministry opportunity to bless not only each other, but also give practical tools to live in a way that honors the Lord. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 6 - Why Read Leviticus? Mar 20, 2022

When was the last time you read the book of Leviticus? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson’s’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how even though the book of Leviticus seems like it is just a book of rules for the Israelites, it is actually deep insight to the heart of God for His people. The truth is that the more and more we read this book, the more we understand that it is not just about rules but is really the storyline of the Bible, ultimately giving hope and guidance to God’s children. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 5 - Why not Pretend the World Is Safe? Mar 13, 2022

Do you feel tempted to ignore what is happening in the world and just pretend it is safe, avoiding difficult conversations with your children? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the responsibility as Christians not only to engage with what is happening in the world, but how to equip children so that they may be effective in their generation. ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’ drops a new episode every Monday. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Ep 4 - Why Are You so Afraid? Mar 07, 2022

Do you or anyone you know struggle with fear? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how and when fear tries to creep into our lives with specific, personal examples of how they have struggled. On the flipside, they talk about what the Bible says about fear and give some practical tips on how to overcome it. ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’ drops a new episode every Monday. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Ep 3 - Why Read Exodus? Feb 28, 2022

Have you ever read the entire Bible cover to cover? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how doing this has impacted their daily life as well as their faith journey. Listen in as they read from Exodus, explaining how that excerpt from the Old Testament applies to life today, showing exactly why the Bible is spiritual food taken in to stay strong.

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Ep 2 - Why Have a Big Family? Feb 20, 2022

Do you already, or are you planning on having kids? In this episode of Why or Why Not with the Watson's, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the decision every couple faces when they enter marriage- if kids, how many. Hear about their family size choices and how that evolved over the years. Plus the things you should never say to parents of big families! New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Ep 1 - Why Flowers for Everyone but Her? Feb 13, 2022

How do you celebrate Valentine's Day? In this season premiere of 'Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the expectations placed on couples and pro's and con's that come with this day of the year. Oh, and you might be surprised to hear who actually wants the chocolates. Join us for our Valentine's Why or Why Not with the Watson's!

Introduction to Why or Why Not with the Watsons Feb 11, 2022

Why or Why Not with the Watsons features first-round draft pick and Super Bowl Champion Benjamin Watson and his wife Kirsten Watson. Benjamin and Kirsten are inviting you into their home and family for a behind the scenes look at their marriage and parenting journey starting Monday, February 14th. Subscribe now so you never miss an episode!

Let's Talk About Race | Best Of The Watsons Oct 03, 2021

In this week's episode, gain insight as Benjamin and Kirsten weigh in with their perspective on the "Race" conversation in today's society, and the events from 2014 that caused a viral post and the penning of Benjamin's book "Under Our Skin."

Back to Where We Started: New England Patriots Sep 26, 2021

After playing for the Saints a second time, The Watson's recall heading back to where it all started: New England. Listen in about the struggles of parenting new twins at the time, never sleeping, lugging seven kids around, and all the pains and injuries on the field. In this episode, The Watson's share their story of a growing family, football, and how they learned to see purpose through everything.

Who Dat Part 2: One More Year with the New Orleans Saints Sep 19, 2021

After leaving Baltimore, The Watson's headed back to New Orleans to play one more year with the Saints. Listen in and hear about the wins, the losses, and all of the in-between struggles of going back to play for Who Dat Nation. In this episode, The Watson's share what happened on and off the field with football, a growing family, and how they learned in a fresh way, how to trust that God was in control.

Takeaways from Playing with the Baltimore Ravens Sep 12, 2021

There is a lot that goes unseen when playing in the NFL. From getting injured on the field to struggles and suffering off of the field, fans rarely see what's happening off of the field. The Watson's experienced a lot of setbacks in their time with the Baltimore Ravens. They say in Baltimore, "Play Like a Raven." It often means playing tough, resilient, and with character. In this episode, The Watson's look back at their tough yet fruitful time with the Ravens. Listen in as they share takeaways with the purple and black both on and off of the field that truly live up to "Playing Like a Raven."

5 Takeaways from Playing with the New Orleans Saints Sep 05, 2021

There's a lot that goes with years of playing in the NFL. Not only do players get to experience living in different cities, they also get all of the changes that take place in their family. The Watson's experienced a lot during their time in New Orleans. In this episode, The Watson's look back at their experiences of playing for the New Orleans Saints. Listen in as they share a few takeaways from their time with the black and gold.

5 Takeaways from Playing with the Cleveland Browns Aug 29, 2021

After years in the NFL with several different teams and life changes, The Watson's learned a lot about business, sports, and life. In this episode, The Watson's look back at their experiences of playing with the Cleveland Browns. Listen as they share five takeaways from their days of playing football that apply well to the journey of marriage, family, and life.

3 Lessons We Learned from Playing in the NFL Aug 22, 2021

NFL training camp is over, the preseason is happening, and the regular season is about to be on us. In this episode, The Watson's look back at God's faithfulness and protection over their years in different NFL cities. Listen as they share the difficulties and obstacles they faced along the way and what it can mean for you and your journey.

How To Set Your Family Up for Success In The New School Year Aug 15, 2021

From family time and fun to fishing and trips, Summer has hopefully been a memorable time of connecting with your family. Now, how can you make those memories last beyond Summer? In this episode, The Watson's share how they plan to create connecting points with their family in the coming months. Listen as they share how they are helping their family understand the importance of setting goals so they succeed throughout the school year.

The Importance of Finding 1-on-1 Time With Your Kids Aug 08, 2021

They say more is caught than taught. When it comes to parenting children, this is often true. But, how do you find time to model correct behavior, speak truth into your kids' lives, and connect in a meaningful way? In this episode, The Watson's share how they create intentional times with each of their kids. They discuss how to make meaningful times of connection a priority-from special trips to weekly walks around the neighborhood. Listen as they share ideas to help each child feel connected and open to talk about anything and everything.

3 Questions To Ask Your Kids About Arguing In Front Of Them Aug 01, 2021

How you argue matters! In some marriages, there's very little arguing. In others, there's lots of it. With kids, it's important to know where to draw the line. In this episode, The Watson's share how they handle arguments in their house. Listen in as they share experiences in their marriage and family. They discuss what's worth arguing about, when to do it, where to do it, and when to call it finished.

How to Handle Singleness and Dating Jul 25, 2021

Being single can be tough-if you don't want to be single! There are a lot of questions about singleness and dating. Culture has a lot to say on this topic. But, culture is often wrong. How do you handle singleness and dating as a believer? Listen as The Watson's share their experiences of being single, dating, being married, and living in obedience to God in all things.

What To Do When the Church Hurts You Jul 18, 2021

We know the church is a group of people-and people aren't perfect. But, what happens when it's the church that hurts you? From all that's going on today-race issues, sexual failure, emotional and physical abuse-all of it can be so deflating as a believer. We need wisdom to know what to do in these situations. Listen as The Watson's share their experiences over the last few years and how they are learning to navigate church today so they can go forward authentically.

3 Reasons Why Vacation is Necessary Jul 11, 2021

When was your last vacation? For many, it's been too long! In all of the busyness with family, it's difficult to find time to get away. But it's so worth it. In this episode, The Watson's share the vacation strategies that work for their marriage and family. Listen in on their experiences to find out how to make memories, create times of bonding, and why vacations are so important-with and without the kids.

What Happens When The Wounds Come From The Church Jul 04, 2021

This is happening too much. Sexual abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, all of these experiences affect so many lives in the church. What do we do when the wounds come from the church? In this episode, The Watson's discuss their experiences and what can happen to our faith when the church isn't being the church. Listen as they share how to deal with these issues and still keep the faith.

How To Keep Your Marriage Strong Jun 27, 2021

How do we keep our marriages thriving while trying to raise kids, reach goals, and work well? In this episode, as The Watson's celebrate their wedding anniversary, they share what they have learned from being married for sixteen years. Listen as they share how they navigate and strengthen their relationship from year to year.

4 Reasons Why Family Camp Is For You Jun 20, 2021

Don't judge too quickly! How often do you take your entire family to camp? We know it's important to connect, but how often does it truly happen? In this episode, The Watson's share when they intentionally got away with their family and connected-and why you should look into family camp to connect with your family more than ever. ?Learn more about Family Camp at www.pinecove.com

"You're Leaving Again?!" How to Navigate Traveling and Your Family Jun 13, 2021

Traveling is something every family has to learn to navigate. Whether it's for work or play, travel brings its own difficulties when you're married and have kids. One spouse is usually left to manage everything at home. In this episode, the Watson's share how they navigate traveling while married with kids, and how to stay connected through it all.

Summer and Screen Time: 3 Ways to Win While Your Kids Are Out of School Jun 06, 2021

The kids are home, but without school to keep them busy and learning. What are you going to do?! From video games, TVs, and devices, it's difficult for parents to know how much screen time is too much. Our screens can control us-or we can control our screens. While every family is different, in this episode, the Watson's share three ways they navigate screen time by having a plan, creating rules, and using it to their advantage.

Advice for Fueling Your Bible Engagement May 31, 2021

How's that yearly Bible reading plan going so far?! Between the busyness of work, kids, school, and life...have you stayed on track? As married couples and parents, do you feel like you have answers for what life throws at you? From what happens when someone treats you wrong to when you're overlooked for that job promotion, where do you turn and where do you point others? In this episode, the Watson's share their struggles and stories of trying to engage with Scripture. Listen as they reveal what makes them worship in weariness, pray in persecution, and keep pointing to God through it all.

How To Never Give Up As Parents May 23, 2021

Work, marriage, life...all of it seems exhausting. Then, kids come along. How do you get through your day when your day doesn't seem to end? In the midst of being overwhelmed, what keeps you going? In this episode, the Watson's share their experiences of having five kids-and then having a set of twins. Twins! Listen as the Watson's reflect on all the exhausting challenges that come their way each day. And, hear how they remain hopeful and motivated to never give up.

3 Ways To Make the Most of This Summer with Your Family May 16, 2021

Cue the music: School's out for Summer! School's out FOREVER! Well, not forever, just a few months. But, even in the next few months, what's your plan for keeping the kids busy? In this episode, the Watson's share three ways they plan on maximizing the Summer. Hint: their plan centers on the three f's of faith, family, and fun! Listen as the Watson's reflect on what made their Summers great growing up and how they plan on intentionally enjoying this quickly-passing season while making it memorable as a family.

What's Really Going On With All of The Birthday Parties? May 09, 2021

In the age of gift bags for attendees, Instagrammable decorations, and out-of-this-world celebrations-and this is just for kids' parties-recent birthdays have made the Watson's look deeper into what's behind birthday celebrations for their family. In this episode, the Watson's look at what to do when there are multiple young kids in the house, how to deal with jealousy from siblings, and much more. Listen as the Watson's reflect on what they've learned from recent birthdays and find out how to be more thoughtful during what can be memorable milestones.

Lordy, Lordy, Someone's Turning 40! May 02, 2021

We won't say who's turning 40. You'll have to listen to find out! But, one of the Watson's is about to celebrate a major milestone. In this episode, the Watson's look back over the years at how they've celebrated birthdays and all of the ups, downs, and in-betweens of having babies and playing professional football. Listen as the Watson's reflect on what they've learned over the years and find out three things they would tell their younger selves.

How to Help Your Kids Face Their Fears Apr 25, 2021

What are your kids afraid of? If you ask them, who knows what you might find out! Fear grips everyone at some point and can often be crippling. Our fears are often rooted in control or lack of control. In this episode, The Watson's share how we can remember what's happened in the past and recognize when our kids have been able to overcome fear. Through everything, you will find that it's our job as parents to point our kids to the Ultimate Comforter no matter what fears may come.

Two Ways to Look at Our Biggest Fears Apr 18, 2021

What are you afraid of? Whether it's in marriage or parenting, fear gets everyone. Fear magnifies issues and is often far from reality. In this episode, The Watson's share some of their strongest fears. Through those fears, they discuss why it's vital to look at what fear is telling us about ourselves and what it's telling us about our view of God. Our fears will come out in our marriages and in our parenting. It's time to overcome our fears so we live free to point our families to God.

Moving Day and the Frustration of Waiting for Our Home Apr 11, 2021

Moving is never easy. Once the excitement wears off, the packing and unpacking starts. How do we "stay home" spiritually in the midst of not feeling like we have a true home yet. In this episode, The Watson's discuss how they are handling relocating to another state-with all of the busyness and emotions of moving an entire family. You'll see how they're navigating it all while trying to trust God through the unknown.

3 Things Worth Addressing With Your Kids' Education Apr 04, 2021

What's the best school for your kids? The Watson's have experienced lots of types of schools over the last 12 years. In this episode, they share how they have handled their kids' education. They discuss what's worked, what hasn't, and how to navigate education so you're confident to address the school, address your kids' needs, and address your worldview as a parent who's called to point your kids to Christ.

How To Handle Sibling Rivalry: Part 2 Mar 28, 2021

Copy-cat siblings, being annoying, tattle-telling, when it comes to being a parent, you have so many battles to fight every single day! The Watsons swap stories about what happens at their home, how they overcome the daily battles, what works and what doesn't, and how you can help build better kids through it all.

How to Handle Sibling Rivalry: Part 1 Mar 21, 2021

Where there are two or more children in a home, there will be sibling rivalry. In moments when children might not like their brothers or sisters, does that sibling know he or she is loved? In this episode, the Watsons share what sibling rivalry, and love, looks like in their family.

Reaping the Rewards of Bible Engagement Mar 14, 2021

In this episode, the Watson's share what they're doing as a busy family when it comes to reading the Bible, talking about it, and actually living it out in their marriage.

Going for the Jugular or Jesus? The Power of Taming Your Tongue in Marriage Mar 07, 2021

Anger does not produce God's righteousness. This little organ on the body called "the tongue" causes problems. When it comes to marriage, couples can go for the jugular or Jesus. Can couples tame the tongue? Yes, couples can learn to tame their tongues by remembering the word TAME. T: Think before you speak A: Apologize quickly M: Make a decision to do things differently E: Engage - engage with others in community. The Watson's discuss these four ideas to TAME anger on this episode. Listen to the full podcast and become the spouse who begins to tame the tongue.

How To Get Dads Involved In Important Conversations Feb 28, 2021

Some conversations with your kids might seem too prickly or awkward. Some conversations are more appropriate for the other parent to take the lead. More often than we'd like to admit, in today's world, the mom is having to have ALL of those conversations. Dad, whether you're guilty of this or not, don't miss this conversation Benjamin and Kirsten have on the importance of the dad getting involved in the conversation. This could change your relationship with your kids and spouse forever!

A Conversation About Black History: Part 4 Feb 21, 2021

This is the last week of Black History Month, but the conversations don't need to end! There is so much to talk about and the dialogue needs to stay open! That is why, this week, Benjamin and Kirsten finish out this series by continuing to answer some of the most asked questions-and these are BIG ones.

A Conversation About Black History: Part 3 Feb 14, 2021

Happy Black History Month! This week, as Benjamin and Kirsten continue their conversation on Black History, they dive into the most common and frequent questions they receive-the good AND the bad.

A Conversation About Black History: Part 2 Feb 07, 2021

This week, Benjamin and Kirsten continue their conversation about Black History and how to talk to your kids. Remember to subscribe so you can be notified on your favorite podcast app and you'll never miss an episode.

A Conversation About Black History: Part 1 Jan 31, 2021

Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast so you don't miss a single episode this month because it's Black History Month! WOOOOO!!! Benjamin and Kirsten kick off this month by starting a normal, open, and honest conversation about growing up Black in America. They talk about the ups and the downs and what it means for their family as well as for ALL people.

Finding Your Family Verse and Your Family Mission Jan 24, 2021

This week on Why Or Why Not, discover the potential impact that you-that's right, YOU-can have starting in your home and even stretching around the world! Tune in and be willing to listen-this could change your life forever.

Gut Punch, Towels, & New Beginnings Jan 17, 2021

Sometimes Life has a uniquely artistic way of sticking its dirty socks in your punch bowl. Well, 2020 decided to give Benjamin and Kirsten "one to remember it by"-BUT-God works through all of the interruptions in life for our good and His glory.

Kids And Sports—To Play Or Not To Play Jan 10, 2021

Stadium seat cushion, rolling cooler with snacks, hat, "Team Mom" clipboard, and sunblock-LET'S GO! That's right-the Watsons are talking about kids and sports. You'll want to be all in on this one! They're talking practical things, how they do sports with their kids, how they grew up playing sports, and even the unrealistic expectations parents often have that can really set kids up for disappointment. So here we go! Aaaaaaaand BREAK!

2021 HAS To Be Better Than 2020—Unless It's Not Jan 03, 2021

Happy New Year! 2020-wow-didn't see that one coming. BUT, 2021 is now here and ALL of our troubles are gone! (cue confetti canons and party whistles)-or are they? This episode, reflect back on 2020 with the Watsons and how we can properly view our circumstances and still have hope moving forward into this new year-2021.

A Day In The Life...With 7 Kids Dec 27, 2020

"All these kids are yours? So how do uh... when is uuuhh... I... eh... but..."Have you ever wondered what it's like in a big family? Have all of your questions answered while Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the ups and downs of daily life with 7 kids.

Another Move?? Dec 20, 2020

Boxes-check.Packing tape-check.Moving Truck-check.Got each other-check.This week, Benjamin and Kirsten reflect back on all of the moves made as an NFL family and all of the life-wisdom gained through it all.

Christmas Traditions Dec 13, 2020

*Parental Warning* Santa WILL be discussed in this episode, so be mindful if you have little ears around that can hear-if you think that'll be an issue. But grab some Hot Cocoa, throw another log on the fire, and let's talk about CHRISTMAS!

Kids, Mental Health, and COVID19 Dec 06, 2020

COVID news seems to change by the minute! Benjamin and Kirsten give helpful insight on parenting and the importance of mental health-especially your kids' mental health-during this season of our lives.

Miscarriages and Dealing with Loss Nov 29, 2020

This week on Why Or Why Not, Kirsten and Benjamin really open up to show you the deep pains they've walked through, specifically with the miscarriages of their babies. Kirsten's transparency about her feelings is powerful, and profound wisdom is shared in the hope they cling to while dealing with such losses in life: a beauty from ashes.

How Do You Talk To Your Kids About... Nov 22, 2020

"Hey, Mom, Dad, what's sex? Wait-did you guys have SEX to have ME?!" Have you ever been blindsided by your kids' questions? You're not alone! This week, Kirsten and Benjamin share how they've navigated these potentially awkward conversations and the relational benefits they reap for everyone.

Family Devotions Nov 15, 2020

You don't have to be a "Bible scholar" to lead your kids in their spiritual lives. Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the simplicity and importance of family devotions and of leading your kids in valuing the growth of their most important relationship-their relationship with God.

Please Talk To Your Kids About Race Nov 08, 2020

This week, Benjamin and Kirsten continue in part 2 of the conversation on racial tension in our society with a special focus on the next generation: teaching our kids. Learn from their experiences and the wisdom gained as they've raised their children, not shying away from the conversation, but showing their children the importance of diversity and how to righteously fight for what's right.

Let's Talk About Race Oct 31, 2020

In this week's episode, gain insight as Benjamin and Kirsten weigh in with their perspective on the "Race" conversation in today's society, and the events from 2014 that caused a viral post and the penning of Benjamin's book "Under Our Skin."

Trick or Treat Oct 25, 2020

With Halloween coming up this week, Benjamin and Kirsten discuss their experiences with the holiday growing up. They explain why they choose not to celebrate Halloween with their family and how they handle that with their kids.

Election Season with Your Kids Oct 18, 2020

Benjamin and Kirsten discuss how to approach and guide your children during an election season.

Pregnancy and Newborns Oct 18, 2020

After having seven kids, Benjamin and Kirsten have a ton of experience with pregnancy and newborns. Today, Benjamin and Kirsten share stories and advice from their multiple pregnancies.

Keeping the Spark in Your Love Story Oct 18, 2020

Benjamin and Kirsten share their love story, about when they first met. Then they discuss having the right priorities in a marriage, being on the same team, the importance of date nights, love languages, and what they do when they don't like each other.

Meet the Watsons Oct 18, 2020

In this debut episode, Benjamin and Kirsten introduce their new project, Why or Why Not with the Watsons. They explain why they decided to start a podcast and what listeners can expect to get.

Why Or Why Not with the Watsons Trailer Oct 12, 2020

First-round draft pick and Super Bowl Champion Benjamin Watson and his wife Kirsten Watson are launching a new podcast, Why or Why Not with the Watsons! Listen to a sneak preview now.

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