What We Said

OUR BEST VALLEY GIRL ADVICE Sep 15, 2026

If there’s anything that deserves a return to the What We Said spotlight, it’s some of Jaci and Chelsey’s glorious advice. You all know it, love it, and keep coming back with burning questions that need answers from your hosts. This “Best Of” episode revisits your biggest dilemmas, from navigating different religious views to dealing with picky eaters. Is it ever okay to date a friend’s ex? Should you be concerned if your man refuses to wear his wedding ring? The girls also discuss catching your husband on Reddit, dealing with immature in-laws, and surviving snarky family group chats.

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MY MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT Sep 08, 2026

Prepare to cringe, because this “Best Of” episode is bringing back some of the most embarrassing moments from What We Said! We’ve got a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father in law that absolutely did not need to be said, and plenty more stories guaranteed to give you secondhand embarrassment. None of these moments happened to you, but your body will still react like they did. Feel free to pause the episode, take a breather and remind yourself this isn’t happening to you.

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SIGNS HE’S CONTROLLING YOU Sep 01, 2026

Back again with another hit compilation, Jaci and Chelsey are getting into your WORST dating and relationship stories! From Tinder to Hinge and Mutual, no dating app is safe. They’re reading about scary tantrums, sneaky thieves, hometown romances, and how to make sure you don’t get stuck with the bill. Then things get spooky with stories about ghosting, the scariest dating phenomenon of all. Whether you’ve been robbed on a first date or left on read by someone you thought was the love of your life, this “Best Of” episode might make being single feel like the only option.

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MOST SHOCKING CONFESSIONS Aug 25, 2026

This week, Jaci and Chelsey are revisiting some of the most shocking anonymous confessions ever shared on What We Said! They’re reading secrets about hooking up with the wrong person and bathroom moments that should have stayed private. There are bad habits to confess, plus a story that demands justice for grandma. Then things get petty with roommate revenge, harmless pranks, and listeners finding creative ways to get back at their exes.

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BURNING QUESTIONS PT. 2 Aug 18, 2026

After y’all ATE UP the last “Burning Questions” episode, Jaci and Chelsey are back with part two! They’re answering even more of the questions you’ve been dying to ask, including what their dream home (or compound) would absolutely have to include. If you guessed Italian kitchens, reformers, and red light rooms, you’d be on the right track. They also reveal which words they’d use to describe each other, which instruments they wish they played, and what food should be banned from airplanes forever. Tune in for another chance to get to know your hosts even better!

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I WILL DIE ON THIS HILL Aug 13, 2026

What’s a hill you’ll die on before ever changing your mind? Listeners submitted their most stubborn stances and Jaci + Chelsey are here to decide if they’re worth defending. Some are reasonable–like the belief that strength training is more effective than other forms of exercise. Others, like adopting a pet just to give it right back, are a little more controversial. Then there’s someone out there who believes all men are gay until proven otherwise. That one might be straight up (pun intended) rage bait, but the girls still find some validity in the argument. Choose your hill wisely, because Jaci and Chelsey are coming in ready to debate.

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HORRIBLE ACCIDENTAL TEXTS Aug 11, 2026

Nothing will make your stomach drop like sending a text message to the wrong person. You’re undeniably guilty, and as the panic sets in, your mind races to come up with an explanation for the receiver of your misdirected message. Today, Jaci and Chelsey are reading some of your WORST accidental texts, and a few are truly unrecoverable. Imagine sending suggestive messages to your in laws, or even worse, pictures of the real deal. There’s an accidental request to snuggle sent to a football coach, in laws exposed in the family group chat, and someone requesting a sample of a pastor’s “sermon,” or at least that’s what they meant to type. Double check that contact name before you hit send, ladies!

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HELP, I HATE MY PERSONALITY!! Aug 06, 2026

Jaci and Chelsey are back with another advice column! How do you plan a wedding when every trend and influencer is pulling you in a different direction, making your big day feel like a nightmare? The girls share tips for navigating mom guilt and taking time away from your kids for yourself. They also suggest cheap hobbies for those moments when you’ve got time and NOT a lot of money. Whatever stage of life you’re in, there’s plenty of advice waiting for you in this episode!

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BURNING QUESTIONS Aug 04, 2026

Today Jaci and Chelsey are answering 73 rapid fire questions, Vogue style. Except they definitely won’t make it through all 73 questions. You’ll learn plenty about the girls as they reveal their dream lazy days and least favorite food. They also share what rules their cult would have and how they’d spend a flight sitting next to their biggest celebrity idol.

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JULY FAVORITES Jul 30, 2026

Welcome back to another Monthly Round-Up Episode. Jaci and Chelsey dish their favourite books of the month–The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron and Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Joe Dispenza. They also share their new favorite podcast obsession, Good Noticings, and a Substack article that captivated Chelsey. Finally, they share some clothing recommendations and a colostrum milkshake moment!

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MONEY, DRAMA & SECRETS OF PODCASTING Jul 28, 2026

Thinking about starting a podcast? Start here.Today Jaci and Chelsey pull back the curtain on what podcasting is really like, how it’s evolved, and everything they’ve learned over the years. They share what things were like before joining the Dear Media network and hiring editors–plus whether you even need an editor at all. They discuss how to keep a podcast sustainable when you’re doing it solo and avoid burnout. They also answer hard questions like where does the revenue come from and why they are so picky about sponsors.

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PODCASTING: 19:37

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GIRL’S TRIP DISASTERS Jul 23, 2026

Nothing tests a friendship quite like a girls trip gone wrong. This scenario is all too familiar to your hosts, Jaci and Chelsey, who have had their fair share of disasters while traveling together. Our first story kicks off eerily similar to Jaci’s speeding ticket drama, which somehow escalated into a warrant being issued for her arrest. Luckily for Jaci, everything got sorted out, but some of these ladies aren’t so fortunate. Tune in to this week’s episode of the What We Said Podcast for some absolutely diabolical girls trip stories that could tear even the strongest friendships apart.

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AM I THE PROBLEM? Jul 21, 2026

Am I the problem? It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves–and if you haven’t, you probably should. This week, some introspective Valley girls share their struggles with deciding if they’re in the wrong. One is suspicious of her husband using Snapchat to chat with his work wife. Another wonders if she can ask her sister to cover up her Star Wars tattoo at her wedding. If there’s one thing you’ll learn from this episode, it’s that it never hurts to look in the mirror and ask the hard question...

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UNHINGED BACHELORETTE TRIP DRAMA Jul 16, 2026

What’s the point of all this Love Island talk lately if nobody is getting married?! This week on the What We Said Podcast, listeners share their craziest stories from the best part of any wedding: the bachelorette party. A weekend full of fun with just the girls? Yes, please! Those rules, however, didn’t apply to one bride, who invited a straight man on the sacred girls-only retreat. Then there’s the bridesmaid who canceled her attendance that was planned months in advance (after everyone had already paid). A true nightmare, the group rental car that gets towed following a late night out on the town, and they couldn’t get it back. Don’t worry ladies it gets even worse, tune in for tips on what NOT to do when celebrating your bestie’s big decision!

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LOVE ISLAND CATCH UP Jul 14, 2026

(In Iain Stirling's voice): The girls kick this week off with another round of Love Island chat, and they’ve got Sincere squarely in their crosshairs. They’ve officially had it up to ~here~ with his games and lies, and they’re breaking down everything happening in the villa. There's a study on the girls and boys entering Casa Amor and how they have to behave so differently to be picked to stay in the Villa. Do the men on the show, and in real life, get way too much grace to do whatever they want under the excuse of “boys will be boys”? And why are the women being villainized this season for doing the exact same things Zach, Dylan, KC, and of course Sincere, have been doing? Things wrap up with discussions of what is going on behind the scenes in Fiji, like contestants that might never enter, and entire seasons filmed before the real deal just so producers can make sure everything runs smoothly. Jaci recaps her family reunion in Tennessee, including the bugs that apparently decided she was their new home, while Chelsey shares some photo drama that’s threatening to tear a family apart.

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8 YEARS OF WWS! Jul 09, 2026

Jaci and Chelsey recently celebrated eight years of the What We Said Podcast! It’s been a wild ride full of unexpected turns. From advice columns and horror stories to tender moments and jaw-dropping drama, the girls have shared so much alongside you, their listeners. Along the way, Jaci and Chelsey have learned a lot, and they’re using today’s episode to share some of the lessons that have genuinely made a positive impact on their lives. If you're new here, welcome. If you’ve been listening from the start, thank you for sticking through it all with us. And to everyone, cheers to many more episodes to come!

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SUMMER FLINGS! Jul 07, 2026

Coming off last week’s Love Island recap, Jaci and Chelsey are craving all the sizzling summer romance. They asked you to send in your favorite summer fling stories, and you absolutely delivered. We’re talking sneaking away with your secret vacation man every summer for years (yes, years), flying across the world to visit that dreamy beach boy studying abroad in hopes he finally gets the hint to put a ring on it, and one we’ve all secretly dreamed about: the hot guy walking down the airplane aisle, only to stop… and take the seat right next to you. Summer is officially heating up, ladies. ☀️💕

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I HATE MY FRIEND’S HUSBAND Jul 02, 2026

Jaci and Chelsey have heard your cries for their thoughts on the current season of Love Island USA, and they’re finally here. The girls kick things off by breaking down the villa after Casa Amor turned everything upside down. Almost every relationship (if you could even call it that) is hanging by a thread, so there’s lot’s to discuss! Then they move into something just about every boy on that show could use: an advice column. Listeners wrote in asking for help with husbands hitting on them, debating whether moving back in with your parents is the right move, and—surprise!—another garbage husband who just can’t stop killing the vibe.

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UNHINGED WEDDING DRAMA Jun 30, 2026

This week on the What We Said Podcast, Jaci and Chelsey are sharing listener submissions about wedding days that went up in flames. No, like literally—one of the weddings actually caught on fire. The rest are metaphorical: heinous comments from in-laws on the day of the ceremony, getting ostracized for not going into debt to attend a destination wedding, being fat-shamed by the bridal seamstress, and bridesmaids treating the wedding like Love Island. If you’ve got a wedding coming up, tune in for a few tips on how to keep your big day from crashing and burning. And if you don’t have one coming up, you should still listen, you might just learn how not to ruin someone else’s (looking at you MILs).

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JUNE FAVORITES Jun 25, 2026

Home sweet home. This week, the girls finish recapping their Italy trip, and let’s just say the travel chaos wasn’t quite over yet. Chelsey gets stranded again, done dirty by the London airport for a second time before finding herself stuck in Dallas too. Jaci also falls victim to the London airport, but manages to turn the setback into bonus vacation time with an extended stay in Italy and a stop in Denmark. Once they finally touch down stateside, it’s time for June Favorites. The girls share everything they’ve been loving lately, including music from a new fav pop artist, shoe recommendations, a few beauty finds (featuring eye patches + a face mask that are truly the best) and more! If you’re looking for your next summer obsession, this episode has plenty of contenders.

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SUMMER RITUALS Jun 23, 2026

The girls are back at it again, coming to you from their Italian villa. This week, they’re sharing their summer must-haves, do’s, eats, and sees. You’ll notice some are heavily inspired by their current vacation, like hanging laundry out to dry in the open air, and then some wild cards, like unique ice molds and fresh recipes to keep you feeling refreshed and healthy all summer long. Maybe this week you can tune in from your patio, or on a towel in the grass at the park, and properly kick off your summer with the What We Said Podcast. This year it's all about getting out and soaking up the sun!

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EURO SUMMER RECAP Jun 18, 2026

Ciao from Italy! Jaci and Chelsey are finally reunited in Capri — but not before a series of very unfortunate events. The girls are recapping their Euro summer adventures so far, and much like the island they’re recording from, the trip has come with some very high highs and some sea-level lows. Chelsey shares the saga of getting stranded at London Heathrow (worst airport ever?) and how she eventually managed to make the most of an unexpected detour, while Jaci reflects on her picturesque time in the Cotswolds and all the charm of the English countryside. They also compare notes on traveling internationally with young kids, navigating the inevitable hiccups along the way, and their first impressions of Capri together. Despite the travel chaos, these two Valley girls are living and loving life together in Italy. Now somebody pass the pasta…

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OUR DREAM VACATION! Jun 16, 2026

This week, the girls are planning their dream Italian summer vacation. Chelsey shares what she’s most excited about as her family heads to Tuscany, while Jaci reveals an extra stop on her itinerary in the Cotswolds, a storybook region in the English countryside, before the families reunite in Capri. They get into the fears of traveling internationally with kids for the first time, how they’re approaching a destination that isn’t exactly known for being stroller-friendly, and the challenge of packing outfits that are both fashionable and practical. Later, the girls recap their Salt Lake City tour stop and reflect on an unforgettable night with the Valley girls, who absolutely showed up and showed out. Thank you to everyone who came and enjoyed the evening with us on our one and only live show of 2026!

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MY BFF IS CRAZY Jun 11, 2026

This week, the girls are diving into your craziest best friend stories, for better and for worse. Jaci and Chelsey react to listener submissions featuring everything from a boyfriend driving a wedge between childhood besties to unknowingly being pimped out by your ride-or-die, and even getting publicly humiliated by someone you thought you could trust. Don’t worry, things end on a much sweeter note with a heartwarming reunion that feels straight out of a movie. Along the way, the girls share their thoughts on navigating relationships without losing your closest friends, and on the Summer House reunion for all the Bravo girls. Grab your right-hand woman and tune in for some truly unbelievable friendship stories.

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SUMMER BUCKET LIST Jun 09, 2026

In this episode, we’re creating our ultimate Summer Bucket List and talking about how we want this season to feel—not just what we want to do. We discuss living more analog (or at least a lot less digital), slowing down, finding inspiration in everyday activities, and creating a summer that feels intentional and beautiful. From building seasonal color palettes to watching nostalgic summer movies, picking the perfect pair of sunglasses, and enjoying classics like the fair, we share the little things that make summer special. If you’re craving a slower, more inspired summer filled with creativity and meaningful experiences, this episode is for you. It’s gonna be a What We Said summer girls!!

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I READ MY HUSBAND’S TEXTS Jun 04, 2026

This week, the girls are back for another monthly advice column and covering everything from friendship dynamics and bridal/baby shower burnout to pregnancy body image and baby timing expectations. Chelsey gives advice on a question about dealing with the mental side of watching your body change (as she is actively going through it), while Jaci shares thoughts on showing up for your friends without feeling resentful or drained. They dive into listener dilemmas about one-sided friendships, social obligations, boundaries, dating expectations, and the pressure to always be the “good friend” even when your social battery is fully dead. Don’t forget: there’s at least one man in every episode doing something very, very wrong. At least he’ll have the honor of having this episode named after the situation he caused.

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CHELSEY’S PREGNANT!! Jun 02, 2026

This week on the What We Said Podcast, Chelsey opens up about being pregnant and some of the struggles that have come along with it, from feeling sick and exhausted to navigating such a huge life change while still trying to show up for her three boys at home. The girls talk honestly about the parts of pregnancy people don’t always prepare you for, how isolating it can feel at times, and the pressure to still “do it all” while your body is constantly changing. We end with a reminder from Jaci that you don’t need a perfect patio layout or tablescape to host people this summer. Sometimes the best memories come from simply inviting people over, even when the backyard is only half done.

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MAY FAVORITES May 28, 2026

Welcome to the What We Said Podcast’s May Favorites. As the girls get ready for their biggest live show yet (see you soon, SLC!), they’re wrapping up the month by sharing everything they’ve been loving lately. This month’s roundup includes a podcast so deeply concerning it’s keeping Jaci up at night, summer essentials as beach season officially arrives, a classic-but-always-amazing TV recommendation, a bold sleeping suggestion, and more. If you’re looking for your next obsession, the What We Said girls have you covered.

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I MARRIED THE GREEN FLAG May 26, 2026

This week, the girls are reading your stories about the moment you knew you married the right person. After falling down the Love Trapped Podcast rabbit hole about a man who seemingly chose the wrong partner and is still paying the price, Jaci and Chelsey wanted to hear the opposite: the moments that made you realize, without a doubt, that you picked the right one. Listeners share stories of husbands showing up during life’s hardest seasons, or small acts of thoughtfulness that meant more than any grand gesture, confirming they had found their forever person. If the podcast that started this conversation was a cautionary tale, these stories are the antidote. A reminder that good partners do exist, and sometimes the clearest signs are found in the little things.

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AM I BEING DRAMATIC? May 21, 2026

This week, the girls are back with another advice column after recapping Jaci’s quick Vegas trip and catching up on life. The listener submissions, centered around determining who might be overreacting in a situation, sparked a lot of strong opinions, especially around friendships and the weird expectations people place on each other during big life moments. One listener writes in after her friend tells her not to get engaged during the same year as her wedding because she doesn’t want the attention taken away from her. This sends Jaci and Chelsey into a full discussion about “wedding year” culture and whether anyone actually owns an entire calendar year for ANY major life events. The girls also get into questions about navigating changing friendships, feeling unsupported during major life transitions, and figuring out when someone is crossing the line with green card marriages.

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FAKE SCENARIO-AHOLIC May 19, 2026

Who doesn’t love a fake scenario? One thing’s for sure: the What We Said Podcast does — and apparently, so do you. This week, listeners submitted tons of hypothetical situations that have absolutely no basis in reality… but somehow still manage to raise your heart rate. What would you do if you caught your sister’s man liking your thirst traps? Or if you ran out of toilet paper in the bathroom at your biggest crush’s house? And then there’s the classic nightmare many of us have unfortunately lived through: accidentally sending a text about someone directly to them. Honestly, just thinking about it is enough to make you feel SICK. Get cozy and overthink with us!

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SHOCKING MOM CONFESSIONS May 14, 2026

Longtime listeners of the What We Said Podcast know that Jaci and Chelsey are moms, loud and proud. But as this episode proves, motherhood also comes with plenty of moments you’d rather never speak about again. This week, listeners wrote in their most controversial and shocking mom stories. Classics like kids accidentally saying horribly rude things to strangers in public (and the desperate cover-ups that follow) to looking away from your baby for one second only to find them casually chain-smoking. Oh, and yes, someone straight-up relieving themselves, in a cup, to avoid waking up their child. Birth control this month is complimentary to the What We Said podcast (jk we love being moms).

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HOW TO FIND YOURSELF May 12, 2026

Yes, another guest episode so soon — and this one is a good one. Jaci and Chelsey are joined by Payton Sartain Ross, lifestyle and fashion creator, host of the Note to Self podcast, and curator behind Chez Ross. Fresh off getting married to MLB player Joe Ross, Payton opens up about life as a WAG (and what that even means), navigating the uncertainty that comes with career slumps in professional sports, and adjusting to an entirely new season of life. She also shares thoughts on a possible career pivot of her own, including going back to school, why influencing appealed to her in the first place, and why she’s considering walking away from it altogether. Oh, and that’s What We Said!! (fin)

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WOMEN ARE TIRED May 07, 2026

This week on the What We Said Podcast, the girls are back with another advice column episode, diving into your dilemmas. Listeners wrote in asking how to deal with gifts you definitely don’t want to keep (and the clutter guilt that comes with them), how to navigate mom guilt in a world where way too much is expected of women, coming to terms with the possibility that your family or future might not look the way you once imagined, and many more juicy questions. Along the way, Jaci and Chelsey also share their thoughts on the latest hit series False Prophet and the devastating realities so many women have faced while living in cult environments like the one depicted on the show.

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REVISITING OUR INSANE LORE May 05, 2026

It’s been a while since Jaci and Chelsey have taken a trip down memory lane, and this time it’s less about how they met (we’ve covered that before) and more about how their lives — and the podcast — have evolved. They get into what it was really like starting What We Said, the blog that walked so the podcast could run, and all the random lore that’s built up along the way. Why pink and blue? Who stole Chelsey’s car? And how does Jaci keep ending up in the middle of scandals? If you’ve ever wanted the inside scoop on the girls, this episode answers it all.

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APRIL FAVORITES! Apr 30, 2026

April has come and gone, which means it’s time for your What We Said hosts to break down their favorite things of the month. Entertainment takes center stage first, with TV show recommendations and a few good old-fashioned book picks. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Monthly Favorites episode without some head-to-toe product recs, including a standout skincare favorite. They wrap things up with an interesting conversation about tension — and the different ways it can elevate your overall look. Stay chic ladies!!

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HOSTESS W/ THE MOSTEST Apr 28, 2026

Kenzie Elizabeth — the What We Said girls’ favorite hosting queen — is back for another episode all about the grandma lifestyle. Kenzie, founder of Friend of Mine and host of the House Guest podcast, joins Jaci and Chelsey to chat about everything from her longtime hobbies like mahjong and needlepoint to her newest obsession: actual love (hi, Charlie). They get into romanticizing your routine, embracing slower hobbies, and what it means to lean into the cozy side of life, before rounding things out with a conversation on hosting — complete with practical tips for anyone trying to channel their inner Ina Garten.

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WOULD YOU RATHER Apr 23, 2026

Would you rather tune in to this week’s episode of What We Said… or—actually, that’s your only option. Jaci and Chelsey are reading through some of the most impossible questions from the classic two-option game, and things get tricky fast. Some start easy, like flying private alone or first class with your friends (What good is first class if my sistas can't sit? - J. Cole I think), but then it escalates to dilemmas like choosing one permanent vacation spot forever or traveling the world in luxury but never returning to the same place twice. Some questions require real thought, most lead to overthinking, and every single one is likely something we’ll never have to deal with. Yay for fake scenarios!!

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I BLOCKED HIM IMMEDIATELY Apr 21, 2026

This week’s topic is dating nightmares — and it might be the most relatable episode yet for women. You know those moments that immediately make you rethink dating entirely? Like showing your date a picture of your best friend and him casually responding with “she’s hot.” How about waiting until ~ spicy ~ time for a confession that he maybe should’ve cleaned up a little better… And of course, it wouldn’t be an episode about men being horrifying without one casually reminding you on the drive home that he could, in fact, unalive you — just a completely normal thing to say, right? If there’s one thing about boys, it’s that they truly cannot keep thoughts to themselves, and this episode is full of the kind of stories that make you question why we ever give them a chance in the first place.

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WHAT DO YOU REALLY VALUE? Apr 16, 2026

This week Jaci and Chelsey are joined by special guest Dr. Suzy Welch, creator of The Values Bridge, to dive into what really drives us at our core. The girls both took the assessment (you should too!) and break down their results with Suzy’s help — from the values they naturally prioritize to the ones they wish they were living out more fully. The test goes beyond surface-level personality traits, giving a deeper look at how your values show up in real life, where you might feel out of alignment, and how that impacts your decisions, relationships, and overall sense of fulfillment. It even highlights where your values work together — or clash — and why that tension can feel so confusing. Whether you’re feeling stuck, curious about your patterns, or just love a good self-discovery moment, this episode is packed with insights you can actually apply.

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THINGS WE FIND CHIC Apr 14, 2026

What could possibly be more chic than listening to the What We Said Podcast? Nothing obv, but Jaci and Chelsey are breaking down a few things that might come close. From analog baskets and paperback books to customized jewelry and… being ugly? The girls explore what “chic” actually means right now. One thing’s for sure: no one’s getting torn down for their preferences. Just because something isn’t your vibe doesn’t make it not chic. If you’re looking for your lifestyle choices to be judged, maybe go read a Substack.

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I LIED TO MY THERAPIST Apr 09, 2026

Jaci and Chelsey have returned from some very fun trips and have some insane stories to share, with some high highs and very low lows. After recapping their travels and touching on the awe inspiring Artemis II mission, they jump right into this month’s advice column, breaking down submissions from What We Said listeners. Valley Girls are struggling across the world with inconsiderate friends asking fertility questions, navigating birth trauma, admitting to lighthearted therapist lies, and more!

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ARE WELLNESS TREATMENTS A SCAM? Apr 07, 2026

We’re a few months into 2026, which makes it the perfect time to check in on your health + wellness New Year’s resolutions… and whether you’ve been wasting your energy the whole time. Jaci and Chelsey are deciding which popular health trends are actually worth it — and which might be total scams. From red light therapy, beef tallow, mindfulness practice, and protein in EVERYTHING to more niche picks like vibration plates, ear seeds, and IV clinics. This episode is not medical advice, just very strong Valley girl opinions. Let us know in the comments if you agree, or if we gave one of the treatments you swear by a bad wrap!

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THE SECRET I’M TAKING TO MY GRAVE Mar 31, 2026

Forgive us, Mother Jaci and Mother Chelsey… it’s been way too long since our last confession. This week, you wrote in your nastiest, vilest, most shocking secrets — the ones you’ve never admitted out loud — and the What We Said Podcast is bringing them to light. We’re not talking about a harmless white lie or swiping a stick of gum here… these confessions go way deeper. From unintentional shoplifting to untimely bathroom situations, unending fake identities, and unfortunately more poop stories. Consider this your penance.

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MARCH ROUND-UP Mar 26, 2026

Continuing the spring reset from last week, our What We Said girls are back with all the recommendations you need to fully step into the season. They kick things off very Martha Stewart-coded with elevated bouquet tips and simple handwriting tricks to make your everyday life more classy, then pivot into the digital world with a game-changing app duo that makes graphic design (because it’s somehow a part of everyone’s job now?) way easier for the creative girls. There are also lip product recs, a matcha recipe you’ll immediately want to try, and a little rant about Timothée Chalamet’s recent media moment involving ballet and opera. March favorites, now playing!!

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SPRING RESET Mar 24, 2026

Spring has officially sprung, and the Valley girls are ready to clean more than just their closets. This week, Jaci and Chelsey share their top spring cleaning tips — and it goes way beyond dusting and reorganizing your sock drawer. They focus on clearing out digital clutter like spam texts and emails, overflowing camera rolls, and the apps that quietly waste your time. Of course, there’s still a place for the classic refresh, but this episode is really about resetting your mindset, stepping out of winter mode, and opening your eyes to everything the new season has to offer; sunshine, fresh energy, and a chance to start again.

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COWORKER FROM HELL Mar 17, 2026

Clock in, because this week’s episode is all about coworker drama. The girls jump right into your submissions, with nurses getting on each other’s nerves, one man getting caught (again!?) drinking breast milk, and some tyrannical teacher’s assistant deciding they’re suddenly in charge of the entire classroom. We all know going into work can be rough, but after hearing these stories, you might just start thanking your lucky stars for your own job situation.

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CAUGHT MY HUSBAND WITH MY BFF Mar 12, 2026

The What We Said girls are March-ing into another month’s advice column, and your submissions delivered! They kick things off with a rogue husband confiding in a Valley girl’s best friend, unpack an awkward situation involving an ex-relationship step cousin, and share some helpful tips for moms-to-be entering their nesting era. Whether you’re navigating messy relationships, family dynamics, or a brand-new phase of life, there’s something in this episode for everyone.

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MAJOR DIVORCE TEA Mar 10, 2026

You’ve all been asking for Jaci and Chelsey’s thoughts on the latest season of The Traitors, and the moment has finally arrived. After kicking things off with reactions to Rob Rausch and Maura Higgins’ wild season finale, the girls shift into a very different kind of traitor — the kind who signs a lifelong contract to love someone forever and then completely throws it out the window. Listeners submitted their most shocking divorce stories, and they have the What We Said girls absolutely shaken. From husbands cheating with their sisters-in-law to secret second homes and people packing up and disappearing without a shred of regret. This episode proves people have no problem hiding behind a mask of lies — and will make you want to keep your eyes peeled on those close to you…

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SELF SABOTAGE Mar 03, 2026

February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we’re not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you’re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.

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FEBRUARY FAVORITES Feb 26, 2026

Welcome to the second installment of the What We Said Podcast’s monthly favorites. Jaci and Chelsey’s February roundup truly has something for every niche in your life. Chelsey, fresh off feeling sick, introduces her go-to sinus rinse (a superior upgrade to the classic neti pot), plus the Substack articles she’s been loving — and yes, she released her own. She also shares the ultra-hydrating face mask that saved her skin during a dry Utah trip and tips for keeping your carefully curated wardrobe looking elevated instead of landfill-bound. Jaci brings the heat (literally) with a hot cacao drink that’s been helping clear her hormonal acne, a genius iMessage scheduling hack, and thoughts on Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie in Wuthering Heights. February may be the month of love, but this episode proves there’s plenty more to obsess over than a silly boy.

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SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT Feb 24, 2026

We’ve all been there — witnessing a painfully awkward moment that wasn’t technically yours, but somehow you still felt the full-body cringe. This week on the What We Said Podcast, you submitted your best secondhand embarrassment stories, and the girls are breaking them down. From a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, to a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father-in-law that absolutely was not necessary. If you’re not already cringing, just wait — this episode is equal parts painful and hilarious.

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MASSIVE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS Feb 17, 2026

Whether it’s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said listeners submitted their biggest warning signs that someone might deserve a little side-eye — from the universally annoying “never takes responsibility” type to more subtle debates like whether not having long-term friends is a reason to think twice before inviting someone to a girls night. Some are obvious, some are controversial, and all of them spark discussion. Tune in to see where Jaci + Chelsey land, and whether you agree with their takes!

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I HATE MY BEST FRIEND’S BOYFRIEND Feb 12, 2026

What’s not clocking with these men? This week, Jaci and Chelsey are stepping in to help untangle your toughest relationship dilemmas. Should this listener drop the guy who refuses to leave his hometown with her? Need help with navigating a boyfriend’s suspiciously mysterious past (and wondering if honesty will actually help)? They’ll also get into the chaos of a friend group being shaken up by the dreaded performative male — because no relationship advice episode would be complete without one. This episode will leave you feeling enriched with that girly guidance you’d want from the group chat. XOXO The Valley Girls!!

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MY DESPERATE VALENTINE Feb 10, 2026

Cover up — your desperation is showing! This week, the girls are exposing your thirstiest confessions after recapping their very polar-opposite vacations. Listeners wrote in with stories that range from unhinged to downright impressive: stalking a love interest, flying across the world just to “accidentally” run into someone, faking sleepwalking for a late-night peek, and even staging serious health scares that end with ambulances being called. If this episode proves one thing, it’s that Valley girls will truly stop at nothing to get what they want <3

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YEAR OF THE HORSE Feb 03, 2026

After a quick catch-up, Jaci and Chelsey dive into the theme, mantra, anthem — whatever you want to call it — for 2026: the Year of the Horse. Known for bold, fast-moving energy, this year is all about confidence and momentum. The girls go even deeper into the fire element of the Horse, a combo famous for turning up the heat and pushing big risks, career pivots, and undeniable main-character decisions. Translation: trust your instincts, move with intention, and stop apologizing for wanting more. In true What We Said fashion, they’ll break down what all of this actually looks like in real life (like ruthless screen time regiments) and how to ride the energy instead of fighting it.

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OUR JANUARY ROUNDUP Jan 29, 2026

Introducing the What We Said Podcast’s newest episode theme: Monthly Favorites. Jaci and Chelsey are spilling all the tea on what they’ve been wearing, watching, consuming, and critiquing lately. Topics include the habit that’s had the biggest impact on their daily lives, a nighttime ritual that completely changed Chelsey’s sleep, a deep dive into Europe’s quick and elevated cooking tips, and a movie-of-the-month pick that lived up to the hype. Tune in for those + many more, and see which favorites you might want to steal and apply to your own life.

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UNHINGED DATING APP INTERACTIONS Jan 27, 2026

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and we’re dropping an episode that might make you want to cancel the holiday altogether. You wrote in your most horrifying dating app stories for Jaci and Chelsey to unpack, and the lineup does not disappoint; Henry on Hinge with questionable hygiene, Daniel from Duet delivering unsolicited dong pics, murder threats from Mike on Mutual, and Bumble Ben rounding things out with a blatantly bold catfish move. Names have been changed for privacy, but the stories are very real — no app is safe, and these are tales from survivors who lived to tell them.

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MY FAMILY IS CRAZY Jan 20, 2026

Another week, another piece of TikTok jargon for Chelsey to break down — this time, it’s “being in your essence.” The girls unpack what that even means, recap Jaci’s low-key 31st birthday, share their thoughts on the current season of The Traitors, and check in on how this year’s goals are going so far. Then things get messy as they dive into your family drama write-ins, featuring stolen breast pumps, side pieces accidentally crossing paths, and situations that escalate all the way to serious prison time. It’s chaotic, jaw-dropping, and exactly the kind of episode that reminds you every family has secrets.

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2026 RESET + GOALS Jan 13, 2026

What do toxic mom groups, 2026 to-do lists, and being spiritually chopped have in common? Absolutely nothing — except they’re all on the What We Said Podcast’s agenda this week. The girls break down Ashley Tisdale’s recent mom-group drama and unpack who’s really at fault (and whether she’s as innocent as she claims), then shift into new-year reset mode as Jaci shares what’s actually helping her step into a clearer, more intentional mindset for 2026. To wrap it all up, Chelsey explains what it means to be “spiritually chopped,” how to spot it, and why you should avoid being it, at all costs!

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WE’RE BACK Jan 09, 2026

The girls are starting the year real chatty, with a Christmas break recap of Chelsey’s bold — and very accidental — “bricking” from social media. Spoiler alert: it ended up being the perfect way to free up time and energy for baking, movies, and the things they actually want to lean into this year. If there’s one takeaway from this episode, it’s that life is too short to sit around over-planning your days — it’s time to start executing on the things you’ve been dreaming about doing, even if it’s just learning how to bake sugar cookies…

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OFFICIAL 2026 REBRAND Jan 06, 2026

Welcome to 2026 — the happiest, healthiest, funniest, most Valley Girliest year yet. Jaci and Chelsey are kicking things off with a little personal rebranding, starting with a life audit of where they’re at and where they want to go. This year’s plans include getting outside more, finally conquering pull-ups, drafting journal prompts that actually make you think, and reassessing how much a girl can realistically handle in a single day. Normally you’d be invited to kick back and relax, but this episode is all about taking action and stepping into your best self for the year ahead.

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2025 AWARDS Dec 30, 2025

The girls are closing out the year with their very own 2025 awards ceremony, celebrating the moments that brought the most laughs, tears, and confusion on the podcast. They hand out recognition for the year’s most spot-on predictions, the worst advice they accidentally gave a listener, their funniest fumbles as parents, and of course, their favorite episodes of the year. It’s a fun, nostalgic wrap-up that highlights everything that made 2025 unforgettable — tune in to see how your thoughts on the year stack up!

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WE ARE IN A PREDICAMENT Dec 26, 2025

The presents have been opened, the eggnog has been drunk, and the decorations are coming down — but things are only just heating up at the What We Said studio. In this bonus episode, Jaci and Chelsey crack open a fresh batch of your advice submissions, from a sister-in-law stealing your baby name to a boyfriend embarrassing you by splitting the bill. Whether your dilemma involves family drama, relationship woes, or just figuring out how to stand up for yourself, the girls are here to break it all down. Tune in to see if your submission made it in, along with plenty of others.

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FAMILY SCANDALS Dec 23, 2025

This week, the girls are wishing you a very merry Christmas Eve Eve and celebrating with a lineup of festive chaos. They’re diving into your biggest holiday pet peeves, the top dishes that should be on every seasonal table, and some piping-hot family scandals to sip on with your hot chocolate. There’s a lot of ground to cover — from potlucks with absolutely no rhyme or reason to hiding a family member’s true identity — making this the perfect mix of cozy, dramatic, and completely unhinged holiday energy.

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HOLIDAY HOT TAKES Dec 16, 2025

This week, Jaci and Chelsey debate your hottest Christmas takes, because the holiday is approaching fast and there is so much to discuss. You sent in everything from whether strangers — or even straight-up enemies — should be welcomed into festive gatherings for the sake of holiday cheer, to whether wish lists are turning gift-giving into a consumerist chore instead of something magical. With plenty more cozy controversy sprinkled in, this episode is all about questioning the traditions we’ve accepted and deciding what actually makes the season feel meaningful.

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THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME Dec 12, 2025

This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season — the gifts — until they’re not so great anymore. They dive into your submissions about the worst presents you’ve ever received, and we’re not just talking about a $5 gift card to a store you’d never step foot in. There are gag gifts gone wrong, destroyed family heirlooms, and even stories involving dead pets… yes, you read that right. This episode will make you feel genuinely grateful if all Santa brings you this year is coal.

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WHO’S IN THE RIGHT? Dec 09, 2025

The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing’s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct.

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SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA Dec 02, 2025

This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else’s big moment to blowing through their husband’s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all… sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy.

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MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME Nov 28, 2025

It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of “wait… how do I handle this?” conversations.

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THE NICEST THING EVER Nov 25, 2025

Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “the sweetest thing someone’s ever done for you,” and honestly, we’re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It’s a much-needed reminder that kindness is alive and well — and if the Valley girls teach you one thing this week, it’s to never lose hope in humanity.

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HE GHOSTED ME Nov 18, 2025

The girls just can’t seem to let Halloween go — but this week’s topic is a different kind of ghosting. 👻 From one-night stands to full-blown engagements, they’re diving into your wildest stories of people who vanished without a trace. Whether it’s vague texts, sudden disappearances, or awkward run-ins after the fact, no one is safe from this digital Irish goodbye. It’s funny, chaotic, and just the right amount of petty — the perfect way to officially close out spooky season.

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MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE 101 Nov 14, 2025

This week, the girls are joined by the amazing Mimi Bouchard to chat all things manifestation, mindset, and creating your dream life. Mimi even hooked the Valley Girls up with an exclusive 2-week free trial and a 69% discount on her app at activations.com/whatwesaid ! From self-improvement hacks and romanticizing your life to real mindset shifts (and the difference between meditation and Activations), this episode is all about stepping into the version of you who’s already living her dream life. Get ready, Valley Girls—it’s time to feel motivated, magnetic, and totally inspired.

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LUCKY GIRL ENERGY Nov 11, 2025

This week, the girls are feeling extra lucky — and they’ve got the stories to prove it. It started earlier this week by scoring some unbelievable finds at an estate sale, but then Jaci and Chelsey dive into listener submissions all about good fortune and serendipity. From sneaking into concerts for free to landing dream jobs out of nowhere, these stories will have you believing that good karma is very real. It’s a feel-good episode full of manifestation energy, lucky breaks, and major main character vibes — because honestly, Valley Girls are just the luckiest girls around…

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UNHINGED TRAVEL STORIES Nov 04, 2025

This week, the girls are reading off your horrors while traveling — but first, they make some predictions for their 2025 Spotify Wrapped (spoiler: the mom era is definitely showing in the charts). They reflect on the end of tour season, sharing heartfelt thank-yous to everyone who helped make the live shows such a massive success. Then it’s time for the main event: your travel horror stories. From international mishaps and near-kidnappings to being trapped on a flight with a full bladder and nowhere to go, these tales will have you laughing, cringing, and double-checking your itinerary before your next trip.

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SPOOKY CATCH UP Oct 31, 2025

This week, the girls are recapping their Halloween-themed Los Angeles tour stop — and yes, Jasper and Chester made their grand return, joined by the one and only Tiffany (Tyson French) to bring the drama and seduction to the stage. They share all the behind-the-scenes chaos, from painful SFX makeup and a halftime mixup to the dreamy TEZZA photo booth that stole the show. Plus, they chat about what’s coming up for the rest of October and how they’re keeping the spooky vibes alive through the end of the month.

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SCARY STORIES!! Oct 28, 2025

Halloween is creeping up, and the girls are out this week — which means Chester and Jasper are back to take over the mic 🎃 .Their mission: to read your terrifying listener write-ins. From music mysteriously blasting in empty rooms to candles blowing out on their own and strange creatures lurking where they shouldn’t be, these stories will give you chills. Plus, Tyson calls in to spill the tea on his unforgettable (and slightly disastrous) spill at a photoshoot. It’s spooky, hilarious, and perfectly chaotic — just in time for Halloween.

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HOMETOWN SCANDALS Oct 21, 2025

Fall is in full swing, and the girls are celebrating the season with a little thrift shopping for cozy decor — but not without a rant about how checking out anywhere has become a full-blown DIY nightmare. Jaci and Chelsey also dive into the chaos of modern life: finances, gender roles, and the weird realities of working from home. Things take a turn with a round of listener-submitted small-town horror stories that prove truth really is stranger than fiction. From shocking scandals to dark secrets you’d never believe, this episode has it all — cozy, creepy, and completely unhinged.

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CATFISHED IRL Oct 14, 2025

This week, the girls dive into Taylor Swift’s new album The Life of a Showgirl and share their unfiltered first impressions before getting into some of the craziest catfishing stories you’ve ever heard. From fake friend identities that go way too far, to situations that blur the line between funny and disturbing, these stories will keep you guessing until the end. It’s one of those episodes that’s equal parts jaw-dropping, hilarious, and so unbelievably chaotic you’ll have to remind yourself it really happened.

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THE DATE I BARELY SURVIVED Oct 10, 2025

This week, the girls are back from their Dallas tour stop and kicking things off with a little travel drama. From the wild emergency that happened mid-flight to the people who cannot wait to jump up the second the plane lands (we all know the type), Jaci and Chelsey have thoughts. After a quick chat about Dancing with the Stars week three, they dive into the main event: your dating horror stories. Getting stood up at dinner to chaotic kissing sessions, and a special golf game ending with a splash — this episode has it all. Buckle up for secondhand embarrassment, laughter, and stories that will make you so glad you’re not on Hinge this week.

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ULTIMATE COZY GUIDE w/ Kristin & Jon Oct 07, 2025

This week, the girls are officially welcoming fall with special guests Kristin Johns and Jon Volk, hosts of That’s The Point Podcast! Together they chat all things cozy—starting with their hometown of Nashville and why it might just have the best autumn vibes of anywhere. From must-watch fall movies and book recs to seasonal routines that make life feel a little more magical, this episode is packed with inspiration to help you make the most of the season. The group also spills on what’s overhyped (and safe to skip) plus underrated fall traditions and activities you should definitely add to your list. Grab a blanket, light your favorite candle, and get ready for the ultimate cozy fall chat.

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COWORKER DRAMA Sep 30, 2025

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