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    Were You Raised By Wolves?

    Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I’m always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.

    When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”

    Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they’ve built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”

    —

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema (“Late Show with Stephen Colbert”), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We’d send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)

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    Mowing Lawns Without Asking, Coordinating Invitation Responses, Dressing for Theme Weddings, and More Jun 02, 2025
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about mowing laws without asking, coordinating invitation responses, dressing for theme weddings, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What do we do about our neighbor who mowed half of our lawn without our permission?
    • Should couples coordinate their responses to invitations?
    • How do I get my colleague to stop knocking on the door before entering our shared office?
    • What to do about dinner party guests who were more than 15 minutes late?
    • Are your outfits supposed to match the theme of a wedding?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • ⁠⁠No Mow May


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    CREDITS

    Hosts: ⁠⁠Nick Leighton⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠Leah Bonnema⁠⁠

    Producer & Editor: ⁠⁠Nick Leighton⁠⁠

    Theme Music: ⁠⁠Rob Paravonian⁠⁠


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    ⁠⁠Episode 267

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    Second Helpings: Crashing White House Weddings, Stealing Flowers From Neighbors, Charging Phones In Public, and More May 26, 2025
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle crashing White House weddings, stealing flowers from neighbors, charging phones in public, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Judith Martin and the Nixon Administration
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Repetition
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it OK for my neighbor to take flowers from my yard without my permission? Is it rude for a woman to keep eating after her partner has finished?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Blocking traffic, Charging phones
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: A custom t-shirt, A nice email


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • ⁠Judith Martin: In defense of ‘women’s pages’⁠
    • ⁠A fan's FSR t-shirt⁠


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    • ⁠Support our show through Patreon⁠
    • ⁠Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts⁠
    • ⁠Call, text, or email us your questions⁠
    • ⁠Follow us on Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠Twitter⁠
    • ⁠Visit our official website⁠
    • ⁠Sign up for our newsletter⁠
    • ⁠Buy some fabulous official merchandise⁠


    CREDITS

    Hosts: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠ & ⁠Leah Bonnema⁠

    Producer & Editor: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠

    Theme Music: ⁠Rob Paravonian⁠


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    TRANSCRIPT

    ⁠Episode 194

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    Playing Duck Duck Goose, Sending Out-of-Office Emails, Taking Free Food Samples, and More May 19, 2025
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle playing Duck Duck Goose in Minnesota, sending out-of-office emails, taking free food samples, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Duck Duck Grey Duck
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Out of Office Emails
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: How many and what type of items are you allowed to purchase at the pharmacy counter? What's the proper way to take a free food sample at a store? Reviewing a key detail from a previous question about sending anonymous birthday cards
    • VENT OR REPENT: Changing the focus, Stealing cabs
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks to everyone who came to see our live show in Los Angeles

    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • ⁠Previous episode about anonymous birthday card
    • Nick and Leah on the "Tamron Hall Show"

    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • ⁠⁠Support our show through Patreon⁠⁠
    • ⁠⁠Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠
    • ⁠⁠Call, text, or email us your questions⁠⁠
    • ⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠
    • ⁠⁠Visit our official website⁠⁠
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    CREDITS

    Hosts: ⁠⁠Nick Leighton⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠Leah Bonnema⁠⁠

    Producer & Editor: ⁠⁠Nick Leighton⁠⁠

    Theme Music: ⁠⁠Rob Paravonian⁠⁠


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    TRANSCRIPT

    ⁠⁠Episode 266

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    Pulling Out Chairs, Sharing Photos with AI, Making Unreasonable Demands, and More May 12, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about pulling out chairs for others, sharing photos with AI, making unreasonable demands, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What do you do when a gentleman pulls out your chair?
    • What is the etiquette around sharing images of people to AI?
    • How can I shut down rude comments about my early retirement?
    • Is it ever acceptable to research someone’s details online before meeting them in person?
    • Bonkers: Being asked to switch classes at a spin studio


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • ⁠Studio Ghibli on Wikipedia


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    • ⁠Support our show through Patreon⁠
    • ⁠Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts⁠
    • ⁠Call, text, or email us your questions⁠
    • ⁠Follow us on Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠Twitter⁠
    • ⁠Visit our official website⁠
    • ⁠Sign up for our newsletter⁠
    • ⁠Buy some fabulous official merchandise⁠


    CREDITS

    Hosts: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠ & ⁠Leah Bonnema⁠

    Producer & Editor: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠

    Theme Music: ⁠Rob Paravonian⁠


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    TRANSCRIPT

    ⁠Episode 265

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    Seating Dinner Party Guests, Getting Spray Tans, Using Fake Addresses, and More May 05, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle seating dinner party guests, getting spray tans, using fake return addresses, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Dinner party seating
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Getting a spray tan
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: If a gift requires assembly, should you give it assembled or unassembled? Bonkers: Sending birthday cards with fake return addresses
    • VENT OR REPENT: Women with long nails, The London Underground
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks to Rambo, Thanks for the birthday dinner


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Big Ben and Parliament scene in "National Lampoon's European Vacation"


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • ⁠Support our show through Patreon⁠
    • ⁠Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts⁠
    • ⁠Call, text, or email us your questions⁠
    • ⁠Follow us on Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠Twitter⁠
    • ⁠Visit our official website⁠
    • ⁠Sign up for our newsletter⁠
    • ⁠Buy some fabulous official merchandise⁠


    CREDITS

    Hosts: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠ & ⁠Leah Bonnema⁠

    Producer & Editor: ⁠Nick Leighton⁠

    Theme Music: ⁠Rob Paravonian⁠


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    TRANSCRIPT

    ⁠Episode 264

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    Scheduling Times With "Ish," Chewing Food on Calls, Socializing at Galas, and More Apr 28, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about scheduling appointments with "ish," chewing food while on the telephone, socializing at galas, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What does "ish" mean when scheduling meetings?
    • What can I say to people who chew food in my ear while we're talking on the phone?
    • Should event photos be sent to all invitees, even those that couldn't attend?
    • What date should we engrave on a wedding gift when the official marriage date is different from the ceremony?
    • What are good conversation starters when at charity and gala events?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • AOL commercial from 1995


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 263

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    Handling Hot Potatoes, Claiming Seats at Buffets, Talking During Musicals, and More Apr 21, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle handling hot potatoes, claiming seats at buffets, talking during musicals, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Baked Potatoes
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Host gifts that are not wine
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What's the correct way to claim a seat at a buffet? What to say when a stranger asks if my best friend and I are mother and daughter?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Refusing hops seltzers, Talking during a musical
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the turkey information, Smiling on airplanes


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Taters scene in "Lord of the Rings"
    • List of things to bring other than wine


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 262

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    Second Helpings: Objecting to Marriages, Watching Strangers' Luggage, Asking for More Chairs, and More Apr 14, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they answer listener questions about objecting to marriages, watching strangers' luggage, asking for more chairs, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • How should I handle my sister-in law who doesn't think I should be married to her brother?
    • How should we respond to strangers asking us to watch their belongings?
    • How do you send invitations or thank you notes when you don't know the recipient's address?
    • Is there a polite way to suggest to my brother that he should have enough dining chairs for everyone?
    • Bonkers: An undisclosed dress code for a wedding rehearsal dinner


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Trailer for "Freaky Friday" movie
    • Zafu and Zazen on Wikipedia


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 211

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    Second Helpings: Sending Signals With Cutlery, Partying in Art Galleries, Flushing Without Permission, and More Apr 07, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle sending signals in restaurants with cutlery, going to art gallery openings, flushing dog poop down toilets, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Signals you can send with your cutlery
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Art galleries
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: How do I break the news to my sister and best friend that I can't attend their weddings? What do I do about a group gift that's going over budget? How do I stop my friend who is flushing dog poop down my toilet?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Unexpected houseguests, Asking for receipts
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Happy anniversary, A nice review


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Incorrect Table Etiquette Infographic
    • Breakfast TV (Toronto): "Can you read this cutlery etiquette language?"
    • Naoshima, Japan
    • Mona (Museum of Old and New Art) in Hobart
    • Venice Biennale
    • NY Times: "How Not To Look Like A Dope In an Art Gallery" (1997)
    • EPA "Pick Up After Your Pet" Brochure (PDF)
    • NYC Department of Sanitation Dog Laws


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 108

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    Waving Back by Mistake, Handling Bad Haircuts, Separating Groceries on Belts, and More Mar 31, 2025
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about waiving back to someone by mistake, handling bad haircuts, separating your groceries on supermarket checkout belts, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What do you do if you think someone is waving at you and you wave back but they were actually waving at the person behind you?
    • What do you do if you get a bad haircut at a barbershop?
    • In a grocery store, who should put up the separation barrier on the belt?
    • Is two hours enough notice for people wanting to be houseguests?
    • Said To My Face: “I don’t really know her.”


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Pea Soup Andersen's


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 261

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