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    Were You Raised By Wolves?

    Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I’m always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.

    When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”

    Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they’ve built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”

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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema (“Late Show with Stephen Colbert”), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We’d send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)

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    Finding Cat Hair in Food, Picking People's Brains, CCing the Wrong Person, and More May 18, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about finding cat hair in food, picking people's brains, CCing the wrong person, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • How should I have handled a holiday guest whose home-baked cake turned out to contain cat hair?
    • Is it rude when you ask someone to meet with you as a favor to then send a calendar scheduling link?
    • Is it OK to announce the death of an old classmate on Facebook before their family does?
    • How should my mother handle a no-shoes household when her doctor says to keep her shoes on?
    • What words of comfort can you offer after I accidentally included the wrong person on an email?


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    • Rules for Passover


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    Receiving Black Napkins, Squatting in Strangers' Kitchens, Slurping Smelly Foods, and More May 11, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle receiving black napkins in restaurants, squatting in strangers' kitchens, slurping smelly foods on airplanes, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Napkins 201
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Making phone calls on airplanes
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Should we host a difficult houseguest again or should we just decline? What do I do when I don't want to reschedule with a friend who has cancelled on me five times?
    • VENT OR REPENT: An unfortunate airplane seatmate, Bringing too many items to the express lane
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the theater outing, Thanks for the nice reviews


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Basic napkin etiquette (Episode 20)
    • Napkin rings (Episode 94)
    • Placing napkins on a table (Episode 230)
    • Should passengers make phone calls on airplanes with new Wi Fi (USA Today)


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    Outrunning Your Friends, Bragging About Possum Sweaters, Renaming Your Coworkers, and More May 04, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about outrunning your friends, bragging about possum sweaters, renaming your coworkers, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What's the etiquette of running your own race when you've signed up with friends?
    • What's the proper age to start calling someone "Miss" or "Mister"?
    • How do I get my in-laws to stop talking incessantly about their luxury vacations?
    • Is it rude to refuse to learn your colleagues' names and to just make up new ones for them instead?
    • What is the etiquette of inviting a second round of guests when a venue has a minimum spend and you want to make sure you have enough attendees?
    • Inserting a card into an envelope redux.


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    • Zip Zap Zop
    • Svalbard, Norway


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    Earning Girl Scout Badges, Washing Strawberries in Soda Fountains, Whisking Away Cake Plates, and More Apr 27, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle earning Girl Scout badges, washing strawberries in soda fountains, whisking away cake plates, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: The "Social Butterfly" Girl Scout Badge
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Soda fountains
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it rude for a host not to offer seconds of cake and then whisk your plate away? Should you let houseguests use your washing machine?
    • VENT OR REPENT: An etiquette breakthrough, A chaotic coffee shop
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the support, Thanks for the kind words


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    • "Social Butterfly" Girl Scout badge
    • Beverly soda


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    Producer & Editor: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Nick Leighton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Outing AI Videos, Evicting Lingering Guests, Reserving Paper Towels, and More Apr 20, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about outing AI videos, evicting lingering guests, reserving paper towels, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Is it rude to tell someone that a video or post they sent you is obviously AI-generated?
    • How do you get a friend to leave your house when you're ready to be alone?
    • Is it okay to be annoyed when the driver changes the song you're playing in their car?
    • At a party, how do you navigate dietary restrictions without being rude to the host or cook?
    • How do you decline an invitation from someone you don't really want to spend time with?
    • Bonkers: Claiming a pre-loaded paper towel in a workplace restroom.


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • "So Long, Farewell" from the Sound of Music
    • "In the Mood" from Glen Miller


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    Decoding Different Cultures, Pursuing Dry Cleaners, Blasting Techno Music, and More Apr 13, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle decoding different cultures, pursuing dry cleaners, blasting techno music, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)


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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: "The Culture Map" by Erin Meyer
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Food delivery services
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What's the best way to follow up on a date invitation now that I no longer live in the area? How do I respond to a parent who wants to know who else is going to my party before they'll RSVP for their child?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Passing on narrow roads, Aggressive airport lounge music
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the accountability, Thanks for organizing our Dallas live show


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • "The Culture Map" by Erin Meyer
    • "U96" by Das Boot
    • Macey Isaacs comedy
    • Our live show in Dallas


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    Second Helpings: Removing Shoes on Airplanes, Exiting Weddings Early, Welcoming Guests In, and More Apr 06, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they answer listener questions about removing shoes on airplanes, exiting weddings early, welcoming guests in, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What are your thoughts on removing one's shoes on an airplane?
    • How do you handle a friend who wants a friendship more than you do and also always suggests meeting up closer to where they live?
    • Should a bride and groom leave their wedding reception before the last song?
    • How do you feel about the phrase "Welcome In"?
    • What do you do about a friend who's always a downer at parties?
    • PSA: You're on camera when you sit front row at an opera or musical.


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    • Sound Baths


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 225

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    Second Helpings: Eating Baguettes in France, Spitting Wine at Tastings, Returning Gifts to Guests, and More Mar 30, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle eating baguettes in France, spitting at winery tasting rooms, returning gifts to guests, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Baguettes in France
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Tasting Rooms at Wineries
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What can be said to in-laws who are expecting a baby at the same time as my wedding? Is it OK to give dinner party guests the wine back that they brought?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Forgetting gluten, Rude coyotes
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks to the librarian, A nice review


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Baguettes on Wikipedia
    • $2 Bill on Wikipedia


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    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 220

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    Leaking Phone Numbers, Venting About Registries, Requesting the 'Man of the House,' and More Mar 23, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about leaking phone numbers to strangers, venting about baby registries, requesting the "Man of the House," and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    • What do you do when someone shares your phone number without your permission?
    • Am I right to expect at least a coffee for helping a friend pick a wedding outfit?
    • Can I ask someone to silence their phone in a shared eating space?
    • How do you respond to a friend who is unhappy people aren't buying gifts off her baby registry?
    • How do you respond when someone asks if the "man of the house" is available?


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    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Episode 301

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    Very Special 300th Episode Extravaganza Mar 16, 2026
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this very special 300th episode extravaganza, Nick and Leah count down their top ten favorite etiquette questions and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    TOP 10 QUESTIONS:

    • What’s the best way to handle being surprised by four extra houseguests? (Episode 281)
    • What do you do if you're asked to chaperone a children's birthday party but your own child isn't invited? (Episode 22)
    • Sending birthday cards with fake return addresses (Episodes 264 and 266)
    • Is it tacky to sell soap at your wedding? (Episode 285)
    • Is it rude to ask for birthday cake before the guest of honor blows out the candles? (Episode 191)
    • What do I do about a parent who asked me to sign a pre-written recommendation letter for her daughter? (Episode 125)
    • I offered to "bring something" to a dinner party and then was given the entire shopping list...what do I do? (Episode 115)
    • Asking for a necklace back (Episode 249)
    • Asking wedding guests to bring appetizers, ice, and liquor (Episode 231)
    • Is it OK for my neighbor to take flowers from my yard without my permission? (Episode 194)


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