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Gabby Bryan: You WILL Meet Queer Babes At The Renaissance Fair | WHGS Ep. 291 Sep 29, 2025

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This episode is NERDY, listener! Gabby Bryan is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, actor, and Emmy-award winning producer, but today she’s cosplaying as a magical fairy wanting to dance in your forest! We discuss the Renaissance Fair and being an undercover weirdo, assuming a masculine role in lesbian relationships, the toxicity that can emerge from that, and how bisexuals most certainly cannot drive. Ashley has a bizarre podcast fan. Lizzy gets gay married / Chuck-and-Larry’d.

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Stevie Boebi: Polyamory, EDS, and Scissor Collections | WHGS Ep. 290 Sep 22, 2025

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This episode is deeply informative, listener! Stevie Boebi is an iconic queer sex educator, content creator, and OG lesbian YouTuber that has pioneered internet queer content, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to pioneer new ways to GET US OFF! We discuss polyamory, censorship of queer content, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), unpacking sexual trauma, and a variety of other important topics! And at some point, Stevie Bobbi scissors on camera (but not really). Is Ashley polyamorous? Is Kylie bisexual? WATCH TO FIND OUT!

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Gay Marriage at Risk, Abortions are Rough, and Other Uplifting Topics w/ Liz Miele | WHGS Ep. 289 Sep 15, 2025

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This episode is HILARIOUS and DARK, listener! Liz Miele (NPR, Comedy Central, Hulu) is an incredible stand up comedian with a new special, SPACE CAMP, out RIGHT NOW, but today she’s in the apartment to come out HERSELF! Not really, actually, we just discuss many heavy things. Also, amazing co-host Kylie is back in the building once again from a sabbatical in Los Angeles! We discuss strategies to repulse men, getting your cervix analyzed, the queer joys of crossfit, and abortion. Ashley takes a look at threats to gay marriage in the Supreme Court. Kylie is getting banned and followed home.

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Emma Willmann: Catching Straights Trying to Cheat With Her GF | WHGS Ep. 288 Sep 08, 2025

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Kylie’s old IG account got cancelled, so get her new account to 10K: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/. This episode is JEALOUS and HILARIOUS, listener! Fan-favorite Emma Willmann is a side-splitting stand up comedian and actor that’s RETURNING to the podcast once again to get down and dirty, but this time she’s airing out some straights trying to steal her girl! In addition, we have beloved co-host Kylie Vincent BACK from California for a slate of episodes! We discuss getting insanely jealous that a man is trying to share his fitness goals with your girlfriend, boundaries, being awful at making the first move, positive self-talk, and sleep scores. Lots and LOTS of sleep scores.

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How to Start Dating Your Best Friend w/ Kimia Behpoornia (Dropout, Abbott Elementary) | WHGS Ep. 287 Sep 01, 2025

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This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best friend; the painful process of coming out; the flexibility of the human mind; and how the straights are way too open with us about their sex life. Ashley tries to bang her acting class partner. Lizzy gets a gay apology.

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Mayday, Mayday — Ali Kolbert Has Gone Straight | WHGS Ep. 286 Aug 25, 2025

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This episode is in a bold new era, listener! Hilarious stand-up comedian and fan-favorite Ali Kolbert RETURNS to the apartment for a duo episode, but this is the only girl-on-girl action she’s gettin’ because she is in her “straight girl” era! We discuss embracing the benefits that come with being newly single, strapping for the first time, exploring threesomes with women (and men), the Hunting Wives, and we debut the inaugural WHGS RAP BATTLE!!! Ashley has been bewitched by a lesbian dark lord. Ali is trying to snap her out of it.

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G Flip Gets a New Marriage Every Year | WHGS Ep. 285 Aug 18, 2025

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This episode is a BIG ONE, listener! G Flip is an award-winning singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and one of your favorite working queer musicians, but today they’re in the apartment to become one of your favorite LOVERS! We discuss having yearly weddings with your life partner, getting started in music, writing songs from a queer perspective, and dreaming about your teeth falling out. Ashley wants to be abused. Lizzy is watching TV (in a gay way).

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How to Come Out Late in Life w/ Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom | WHGS Ep. 284 Aug 11, 2025

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This episode is informative & hilarious, listener! Queer & trans sex educator Eva Bloom RETURNS to the apartment after many years to blow our minds with some knowledge, because we needed a break from blowin’ LOADS. We discuss late bloomers & coming out later in life, how to make moves on your crush, queer line dancing, and your girlfriend going to the emergency room after eating glass in her tofu. Ashley witnesses an epic rejection. Lizzy is the star of the relationship.

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Discovering Kissing & Intimacy Kink w/ Robin Tran | WHGS Ep. 283 Aug 04, 2025

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This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins. Maddie’s rabbit comes out as bisexual.

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