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NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321 Apr 27, 2026

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This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED! We discuss having a fivesome with every single person represented in “LGBTQ,” sexual dynamics when you have autism, horny fans, disabilities, and starting your career as a “My Chemical Romance” fan account. Ashley loves being the rebound. Artificial intelligence decides Lizzy is non-binary.

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What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320 Apr 20, 2026

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This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the apartment to paint YOU like one of her French girls! We discuss the female gaze, how to define it, capturing it in your work, the artistic process in the modern attention economy, and having your gay little heart get broken over the vast and infinite sea — It doesn’t get more gay than that. Ashley is combating the manosphere. Lizzy’s sex gets a little bit too wet.

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When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319 Apr 13, 2026

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This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through Chelsea Cutler. Emily has a crush on Ashley.

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Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318 Apr 06, 2026

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This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. Ashley needs sex therapy. Lizzy gets strapped down (poorly).

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Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317 Mar 30, 2026

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This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance.

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Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316 Mar 23, 2026

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This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New York in the 70s, and how camp is the best place to have queer sex. Oh - and Ashley might even read one of her original poems… and BOY is it embarrassing.

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Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315 Mar 16, 2026

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This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men.

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Jenny Zigrino: Queer History Can Be Found EVERYWHERE | WHGS Ep. 314 Mar 09, 2026

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This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizzy queens out with a taxi driver.

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Kylie Vincent Almost Died — And She STILL Pulls Like Crazy | WHGS Ep. 313 Mar 02, 2026

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This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check in on how she’s doing alongside Ashley’s girlfriend, Jen Davis. We discuss her trials and tribulations in the hospital, the American healthcare system, disabilities, Multiple Sclerosis, and how in spite of it all — Kylie’s STILL banging baddies. Ashley is grateful for Jen. Jen is poisoning her face with makeup.

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