We Used To Be Cool

41: The 4th Trimester Mission w/ Alex Richardson Feb 19, 2025

On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of three, entrepreneur and the executive director of 4th Trimester Mission, Alex Richardson. She shares the inspiration behind her nonprofit and the realities that mom’s face in the first 3 months after birth. She gives some practical advice about self-care, communicating with our spouses and the steps it takes to build a village. This episode is for every mom in any season!
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40: You Were Made for This w/ Tabitha Cox Feb 12, 2025

On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with Tabitha Cox, LCSW to talk about her role as a mom, wife, and therapist. She shares her testimony and the way God has continually worked in her life. She reminds us that we were made for these exact moments with these exact children.
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39: A Day Late and a Dollar Short w/ Xan and Hannah Feb 06, 2025

On this short episode, we share about our technical difficulties this week and how we can decide first thing in the morning how our day is going to turn out.
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38: Praying over our Kids w/ Xan and Hannah Jan 29, 2025

On this episode, Xan and Hannah share a practical way to pray for our kids. They discuss the importance of parenting from a posture of prayer and the way the Lord shows up when we ask him to work in our lives and in the lives of the people we love the most.
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37: New Year, New Mercies w/ Xan and Hannah Jan 15, 2025

2025 is here and so is season 4! On the season premiere, Xan and Hannah chat about the holidays, their goals for the new year and they share some of your resolutions.
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36: The Most Wonderful Time of Year Exclamation Point w/ Xan and Hannah Dec 04, 2024

On the season finale, Xan and Hannah talk through their hopes for this Christmas season and their desire to stay present and joyful in the midst of the chaos.
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35: Drop Your Rocks w/ Xan and Hannah Nov 21, 2024

On this episode, Xan and Hannah chat about what they’e been learning lately. Xan shares about her time at the Behold and Become retreat, and all that she learned about herself and her relationship with the Lord. They also chat about mom rage and how to manage our to-do lists to help manage our emotions. Share with someone who needs to be reminded how loved she is 🤍
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34: Big Family, Big Feelings w/ Kathy Kalish Nov 13, 2024

On episode 34, Xan and Hannah sit down with their lifelong friend and super mom Kathy Kalish to talk all things motherhood. Kathy shares about the importance of conscious parenting, self-reflection and meeting each of our kids’ individual needs as we raise them to be good humans.
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33: Restoring Play-based Childhoods w/ Dana Laymon Nov 06, 2024

On episode 33, Xan and Hannah sit down with their friend Dana Laymon to discuss Jonathan Haidt’s book “The Anxious Generation.” They talk about the dangers of smart phones and social media on our kids, and how we can use this book and other resources to restore a healthy, play-based childhood for our kids.
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32: Mom’s Health Matters w/ Dr. Rachel Neathery Oct 30, 2024

On episode 32, Hannah and Xan sit down with physical therapist and pelvic floor specialist, Rachel Neathery, to discuss reclaiming pelvic health during and after pregnancy. She shares some easy ways to incorporate exercise into our daily lives and the importance of muscle mass, protein and mindfulness on our physical and mental health.
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31: Ensuring Our Kids Feel Seen and Loved w/ Austin Blake Mays Oct 23, 2024

On episode 31, Xan and Hannah sit down with their best friend and brother Austin Blake Mays to discuss sibling closeness and all the things their parents did right. We laugh and we cry, and you probably will too!
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30: Life Lately w/ Xan and Hannah Oct 09, 2024

On episode 30, Xan and Hannah catch up on life lately. Xan shares about Daisy’s birth day, her family’s transition from three to four and the postpartum ups and downs. As always, thanks for tuning in!
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29: That’s so good w/ Alicia Tucker Oct 02, 2024

On episode 29, Xan and Hannah sit down with their sister from another mister Alicia Sutton Tucker to talk about homeschooling, mental health and the power of affirmation. Alicia shares what she has learned in parenting her four kids and what she wishes she knew when she first started her motherhood journey 16 years ago. There is something for everyone in this episode! Don’t miss it!
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28: Blind Faith and Prioritizing Family Closeness w/ Blake Mueses Sep 25, 2024

Blake Mueses is back for episode 28 to tell us all about her family’s
decision to spend time away for five months to lean into their faith and their family while having the adventure of a lifetime in Puerto Rico. She learned so much and shares how motherhood can be an adventure no matter where you find yourself.
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27: The Fruit of the Spirit with Madeline Murphy Sep 18, 2024

On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with rock star mom and author Madeline Murphy to discuss her new devotional “The Fruit of the Spirit” written just for moms. Madeline shares about the joys and struggles we all face as moms and the importance of prioritizing our relationships— first with the Lord and also with our kids.
Buy her new book here: https://a.co/d/7OmtKGc
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26: Long days, Short years w/ Xan and Hannah Sep 11, 2024

On episode 26, Xan and Hannah catch up on everything since they left the “studio” in April. They share about entertaining three kids all summer long and the things that made them laugh (and cry) over the last 4 months.
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25: Season 3 premiere - Let’s catch up! Sep 04, 2024

On the season 3 premiere, Hannah shares about Fletcher’s unexpected hospital stay and Tilly’s birth. We cover the transition from 2 to 3 and what the Lord has been teaching Hannah throughout the last few months.
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24: Season 2 Finale - HAGS! LYLAS! Apr 17, 2024

On the season two finale, Xan and Hannah both share about their pregnancies and their struggles during this season. They also share some tips and tricks for summertime with toddlers and what they are loving right now! See you next season!
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23: Dads Who Used to be Cool w/ Ethan and Jud Apr 10, 2024

Episode 23 is one for the Dads. Xan and Hannah sit down with their husbands, Ethan and Jud, to chat about all things parenthood. They answer the tough questions, share what’s worked for them, and laugh a lot.
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22: Parenting through 4 Decades w/ Dodd and Whitnee Mays Apr 03, 2024

On episode 22, Xan and Hannah sit down with their favorite guests yet— their mom and dad! They talk about them on almost every episode, but finally you get to hear it straight from the source. Tune in to hear all about how they were raised and lessons Dodd and Whitnee have learned in 35 years of continual parenting.
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21: Positive Parenting w/ Xan & Hannah Mar 27, 2024

On episode 21, Hannah and Xan chat about where they’ve been and what they’ve learned over the last couple of weeks. They discuss the importance of positive parenting and managing our own emotions to model that for our kids.
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20: Type B Moms w/ Xan and Hannah Mar 06, 2024

On episode 20, Hannah and Xan breakdown registry dos and don’ts, and other advice for new and expecting moms. They chat about surviving the time change, being type B moms, and why being aesthetically pleasing isn’t a thing anymore.
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19: The Rhythmic Home w/ Alexis Greco Feb 28, 2024

On episode 19, Xan and Hannah sit down with online business coach, Alexis Greco. Alexis is passionate about coming alongside women and helping them find a rhythm between running their home and running their business. As a homeschool mom of 4 and a business owner, she has so many practical tips that every mom can apply today. We learned so much and hope you will too.
Find Alexis on Instagram: @alexistgreco
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18: You Are Enough w/ Xan & Hannah Feb 21, 2024

On episode 18, Hannah and Xan sit down to talk about what the Lord has been teaching them over the last few weeks. They discuss their own struggles and strongholds, and the importance of replacing the lies we tell ourselves with the truth.

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17: Practical Parenting Tips w/ Jane Brock Feb 07, 2024

On episode 17, Hannah and Xan sit down with super mom of 5, Jane Brock, to discuss practical tips for raising kids. She gives discipline strategies, education advice and shares the importance of being encouraging, loving moms above all else.
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16: Life After Loss w/ Jen Pitman Jan 31, 2024

On episode 16, Hannah and Xan sit down with twin mom Jennifer Pitman as she bravely shares about her traumatic birth experience, the tragic loss of her daughter in the NICU and how the experiences have shaped her as a person and as a mom.
TW: infant loss
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15: The Hope You Have w/ Becky Cook Jan 24, 2024

On episode 15, Xan and Hannah sit down with one of our favorite moms, Becky Cook to talk about the value in showing up in our friendships as our authentic selves. Becky shares about the book she is writing, the flexibility motherhood requires, and the importance of enjoying each season because none of them last forever.

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14: Wild Kids, Calm Moms w/ Catherine Ward Jan 17, 2024

On episode 14, Xan and Hannah sit down with fellow boy mom and podcast host, Catherine Ward, to discuss remaining calm in the chaos of raising kids. She shares how important it is to control our own emotions and enjoy the day-to-day. She also shares about her brand new podcast "To Be Loved" and the eternal value our stories hold.
Follow Catherine @catherinestricklandward_
Listen to her podcast:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/to-be-loved/id1719487681
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NJ0XTyAZViZdGAKPeardx?si=77282983bdfb43e2
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13: We’re Back, Baby (on board)! Jan 10, 2024

On the season 2 premiere, Hannah and Xan reflect on the holidays, discuss their personal and parenting goals for the new year and talk about things they are looking forward to in 2024.
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12: It’s Giving Finale Dec 06, 2023

On the season 1 finale, Xan and Hannah answer some listener questions, breakdown toddler discipline and reflect back on the first season of We Used to be Cool. Thanks for listening and Merry Christmas!
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11: The Most Wonderful Time of The Year? Dec 06, 2023

After 32 Christmas seasons together, Xan and Hannah have a lot to discuss. This week, they breakdown the pressure of the holidays, the enhanced mental load and they share some simple ideas to take away a little bit of the stress. The girls also think through and answer some thoughtful questions from several “friends of the pod”.
Nativity Scenes Dec 8-9 at Freedom Baptist Church in Wilmington, NC: https://freedombaptist.org/
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10: Shameless Living w/ Kathryn Benko Nov 15, 2023

TW: miscarriage and pregnancy loss

On episode 10, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom, wife, business owner and fellow podcast host Kathryn Benko to discuss shameless living, breaking free from body shame, and holding onto hope in the face of devastating loss.
Kathryn's Business & Podcast:
Sole Fitness in Wilmington, NC: https://www.solefitness.org/
Heart + Sole:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heart-sole/id1449088333
https://open.spotify.com/show/2Zqauts2fQjkWDwGM81bYE?si=61f0cd408cb2495a
@kathryn_benko
@sole_fitness
@heartandsolepodcast
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09: Managing the Tension w/ Natalie West Nov 08, 2023

On episode 9, Hannah and Xan sit down with Natalie West to discuss single-parenting, the necessity of depending on the Lord, and modeling ministry and service to our kids. We also dive into the challenging but beautiful calling that is foster care.
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08: Relationship-Minded Parenting w/ Serinda Moulton Nov 01, 2023

On episode 8, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of 7, Serinda Moulton, to discuss parenting with the relationship in mind. Serinda shares about how to make each of our kids feel loved and important and reminds us that it’s God’s kindness that leads us to repentance.
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07: Giving Our Kids the Gifts of Hope & Health w/ Christian Stallings Oct 25, 2023

On episode 7, Hannah and Xan sit down with registered nurse, lactation consultant, and pregnancy health coach Christian Stallings to discuss developing healthy habits in ourselves and our kids. Christian dives into her relationship with the Lord and the joy in being refined through the journey that is motherhood.

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06: Maintaining Healthy & Thriving Friendships in All Seasons of Life w/ Marissa Hughes Oct 18, 2023

On episode 6, Xan and Hannah sit down with everyone’s bff Marissa Hughes to talk about creating and maintaining friendships that can thrive in any season and the importance of showing up when it really counts.
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05: Raising Empowered, Inclusive, & Compassionate Kids w/ Lora Kates Oct 11, 2023

On episode 5, Xan and Hannah sit down with twin mom and DIY queen Lora Kates to learn more about Spina Bifida, processing a diagnosis and supporting our kids as they navigate adversity. Lora shares about the importance of inclusion and raising our kids to be kind and compassionate.
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04: Embracing & Enjoying the Chaos of Each Day w/ Emily Jennings Oct 04, 2023

On episode 4, Hannah and Xan sit down with supermom Emily Jennings to discuss the joy that can be found in the chaos, the power in praying for our kids, and walking beside them as they discover their individual value and callings.

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03: Modeling Our Faith in Meaningful Ways w/ Heather Colenda Sep 27, 2023

On episode three, Hannah and Xan sit down with Heather Colenda to talk about modeling our faith to our kids through organic prayer and praise. Shoutout to helping our kids grow up knowing they are loved and whole because of who they are in Christ.
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Song we have on repeat: https://open.spotify.com/track/2GGvmXF70zQ13NS86nOw7k?si=0e7ec119d68c4d1f

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02: Intentional Parenting & Prioritizing Rest w/ Blake Mueses Sep 20, 2023

On episode two, Hannah and Xan sit down with Blake Mueses to discuss the importance of intentional parenting, prioritizing rest, and what it takes to thrive in even the most challenging of parenting seasons.
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01: Welcome to a Podcast for Moms Sep 11, 2023

On this pilot episode of We Used to be Cool, Xan and Hannah sit down to discuss their hopes for the show, Alli Worthington's new book, & how the Olsen Twins informed their parenting.
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Reference to Alli Worthington's podcast episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4LvCJii9cQkvfet3ynEwvp?si=32ad87eed879420b

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