We Talk Back

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STHU For 72 Hrs Jul 09, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a relaxing Fourth of July weekend before diving into the latest viral headlines, internet debates, and cultural conversations shaping today's world. The hosts unpack a report claiming nearly one-third of American men are not working or actively seeking employment, sparking a broader discussion about dating, financial stability, modern hustle culture, and shifting relationship expectations. They also react to research on emotional intelligence and conflict resolution, debate Matthew Knowles' comments about his financial success before Destiny's Child, and explore everything from seasoning culture and healthy eating to the realities of America's food system.

The conversation expands into the influence of social media and the internet on everyday behavior, examining viral trends like the crate challenge, "soft life," trad wives, Ozempic, and the rise of performative online culture. AJ and TamBam also discuss AI's growing impact on music, fashion, and digital storytelling, while questioning how much of what people consume online is authentic. From couples sharing passwords to the consequences of filming strangers for content, this episode blends humor, cultural commentary, and thoughtful discussion about technology, relationships, and navigating an increasingly online world with intention.

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Dumbbihathon Jul 02, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with an unfiltered conversation about the realities of women's health, venting over period struggles, the rising cost of menstrual products, and the ongoing debate over pads, cups, and other feminine hygiene options. With their signature humor, they question why essential products aren't more accessible before diving into a series of bizarre viral headlines, including an amateur sleuth who dated a convicted murderer to help solve a missing person's case, an 11-year-old who ordered an Uber to the airport with dreams of flying to Japan, and a retail theft suspect who allegedly exposed themselves through social media.

The conversation shifts into another installment of the fan-favorite "Dumb B*tch Files," where AJ and TamBam react to jaw-dropping listener submissions involving relationship drama, workplace scandals, and unexpected betrayals. From a therapist with questionable boundaries and a workplace affair uncovered through company phone records to a business partner caught speaking behind someone's back and a woman navigating unexpected feelings for her best friend, AJ and TamBam offer their candid advice, hilarious commentary, and hard-earned perspectives on trust, accountability, friendships, and modern relationships.

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Still Can't Trust Nobody Jun 25, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by filmmaker Big Stevo for a candid conversation about trust, loyalty, and the real-life experiences that inspired the Trust Nobody franchise. The trio explores the emotional impact of betrayal, the challenges of maintaining integrity in relationships and business, and how personal experiences shape the way people navigate trust. Big Stevo also shares insight into the realities of independent filmmaking, the sacrifices required to bring creative visions to life, and the importance of producing quality work in an increasingly competitive entertainment landscape.

The discussion expands into modern relationships, friendship dynamics, and the difficult choices people make in pursuit of money, love, success, and validation. AJ, TamBam, and Big Stevo unpack how ego, finances, and social media influence behavior, while examining loyalty, accountability, and the true cost of betrayal. From debates about fame versus wealth to reflections on masculinity, gender roles, self-respect, and personal values, this episode delivers an honest and thought-provoking look at trust, character, and what it takes to stay true to yourself in a world that constantly tests your principles.

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WTB Presents: Unpopular Opinions Jun 18, 2026

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AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, personal stories, and social commentary as AJ recaps her recent trip to Costa Rica, including moments of relaxation, adventure, and a frightening near-drowning experience. The conversation then shifts into deeper discussions surrounding the Karmelo Anthony case, racial justice, and the influence of social media on public perception and accountability. The hosts also unpack recent business moves involving Jay-Z and Target, exploring the complexities of capitalism, consumer activism, and the challenges of creating meaningful change while navigating economic realities.

The discussion expands into conspiracy theories, dating culture, friendships, and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. AJ and TamBam debate the realities of online dating, the expectations people bring into relationships, and the impact of financial status and social media on how individuals present themselves to the world.

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Broke, Bougie, Basic Jun 04, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on birthdays, solo travel experiences, spiritual cleansing, and the lessons that come with personal growth. The conversation explores the realities of modern relationships, societal expectations, and the influence of social media on how people perceive success, dating, and self-worth. Through candid anecdotes and trending news stories, the hosts unpack the complexities of wealth, gender dynamics, and the pressures of navigating adulthood in an increasingly image-driven world.

The discussion shifts into a lively debate over what behaviors qualify as “broke,” “bougie,” or “basic,” covering everything from dining etiquette and dating expectations to airport snacks, travel habits, priority boarding, and first-class flights. AJ and TamBam also examine friendship dynamics, luxury lifestyles, social media flex culture, and the motivations behind financial decisions people make for status or perception.

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The North Remembers May 28, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around popular films and viral moments. The duo dives into the intersection of crime and law enforcement through humorous commentary, while also unpacking ongoing debates surrounding “gold diggers,” financial expectations, and modern dating standards. They discuss public conversations involving Floyd Mayweather Jr. and child support, using the topic to explore the broader realities of money, responsibility, and perception in relationships.

The conversation expands into the evolving dynamics between men and women, focusing on ambition, attraction, communication, and societal expectations in modern partnerships. AJ and TamBam examine how financial success often shapes male identity, while many women seek emotional connection, support, and intentionality beyond money alone. From discussions around masculine and feminine energy to power, submission, and relationship balance, this episode offers an honest and entertaining perspective on navigating gender dynamics, emotional needs, and healthier communication in today’s dating culture.

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You Only Know The Old Me May 21, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another.

The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself.

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Y'all Feel That Too? May 14, 2026

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and honest dialogue, they explore the pressures women face around love, family, and self-worth while discussing how societal standards shape perceptions of desirability and relationship value. The conversation also tackles trust, communication, and the impact of infidelity, offering candid insight into the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture.

The discussion expands into sexuality, burnout, and the everyday pressures of balancing work, personal life, and emotional well-being. AJ and TamBam examine how media influences ideas around sexuality and self-image while addressing the shared exhaustion many women experience as they juggle responsibilities and expectations. From aging and body image to self-care and emotional health, this episode delivers a relatable and thoughtful perspective on the challenges of maintaining balance, protecting peace, and showing up authentically through life’s evolving seasons.

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So You Doing The Bending May 07, 2026

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AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture.

The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness.

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