We Gotta Thing - Exploring Non-Monogamy

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Episode 93: What if We Are Outed? Jan 17, 2022

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This is the most important topic that nobody wants to talk about! Chances are this won't happen to you (as it did us) but we still want to help prepare you just in case...

We reflect back on our experience of being outed and discuss what we've learned (and are still learning) during the process. Yes, it's painful but it's not the end of the world!

Episode 92: Snapshots from Desire Pearl Nov 30, 2021

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Listen in as our guests share their Desire Pearl 2021 snapshots in a recorded-live conversation from the resort! Some are thoughtful and meaningful, some are sexy and others are downright hilarious! Oh, and we share ours as well...

Our new 'What's Your Thing?' sexy and smart card game is now available!

Here is our updated Naughty Stockings list just in time for the holiday shopping season (or any season really)...

Episode 91: Rejected Again- Why Don't They Like Us? Oct 31, 2021

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This month we discuss why other couples reject us when reaching out from a lifestyle dating site and how to improve our chances of success in the future.

This episode complements our episode 62 "Putting Yourself Out There - Lifestyle Profiles 2.0" and our blog post on the same topic titled "Our First Online Couple Profile."

Episode 90: The Importance of Trust in the Lifestyle Sep 23, 2021

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We discuss the importance of trust from four different angles: trusting your relationship, trusting each other, trusting other couples and trusting who you are becoming in the lifestyle.

Also, I (Mr Jones) share my first ever experience getting waxed...

Episode 89: Enjoying Group Play Aug 30, 2021

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Group play can be fun but also tricky! In this episode we explore the benefits and pitfalls and share our perspective on how we approach and navigate playing in larger groups.

We also recap our very first Desire Mansion takeover event!

Episode 88: The Art of Avoiding Mistakes Jul 26, 2021

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No matter how long you've been in the lifestyle you are going to make mistakes. So we've come up with a few tips to help you minimize those mistakes and make your play experiences more meaningful and fun!

Episode 87: Normalization by Exposure Jun 23, 2021

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In this episode we discuss how our perceptions change to our reality the more we are exposed to actual events. All of us have pre-lifestyle perceptions, newbie lifestyle perceptions and even veteran lifestyle perceptions that can change- but only if we take a step (or two) forward and try new things.

Blog post mentioned: That One Time in Band Camp

Episode 86: Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle May 19, 2021

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There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract and connect with other couples. On the men's side of things there is a double standard and a stigma attached to being 'bi-something' in the lifestyle.

In this episode our goal is to dispel some myths and share our personal views around each in an attempt to provide a safe space for sharing thought provoking conversations in the lifestyle. We believe these conversations must occur for people's minds to be opened and more accepting to those interested in exploring being 'bi-something' in the lifestyle.

Episode 85: Feels Like the First Time Apr 26, 2021

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Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic.

Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticipation and nerves. No matter how that first time goes one can lose sight of the fact that it's only one experience and should not be the benchmark for all future play times in the lifestyle!

Episode 84: The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends? Mar 30, 2021

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Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested?

What if you are the recipient of a 'let down' message? Do you want to know why or would you rather just move on to the next couple? Does the sting of rejection ever get easier?

We invite you to listen in as we discuss this topic from both sides!

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