We Gotta Thing - Exploring Non-Monogamy

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Episode 33: How Deep is Your Love?- How the Lifestyle Strengthens Our Relationship Jan 11, 2017

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Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia. Oh, and you'll also want to hear what we put in each other's naughty stockings!

Discussion topic How is it that we can watch each other have sex with other people and not only does it turn us on but it brings us closer? Many of you have asked this question so we decided to share some tangible things we've experienced that prove to us (and hopefully you) that swinging can improve and already strong relationship.

Snapshots Okay, two naked female bodies and a strap-on. Need we say more?

Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18! Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!

Episode 32: Swinger Fails- Learning From Those Inevitable Mistakes Dec 13, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times. Book on our website through our affiliate link on the page titled "The Joneses Recommend." We also describe what happened at our second house party (note: it was better than the first).

Discussion topic As much as we try to research, learn and discuss everything before stepping into the lifestyle the inevitable mistake(s) will happen to us all. This time we don't tell you how to avoid the mistakes but rather how to work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Mistakes will happen to experienced swingers as well as newbies!

Snapshots We recently had a sexy experience with a couple and did something we've never done before: book a hotel room from our dinner table at a restaurant! Both of us share sexy stories from the evening.

Episode 31: You Are So Beautiful...to Me- Attractiveness in the Lifestyle Nov 17, 2016

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Keeping up with the JonesesOur new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think. We also share what sexy things we've been up to this month to include pushing a boundary by playing on the first date, enjoying our "Southwest Friends" again (in a sexy way) and a couple of other dinner dates. Discussion topic We've received a couple of critical emails lately from listeners who say we "only play with attractive couples" and that the lifestyle environment we describe is "nothing like what we normally see". We break down the idea of what attractiveness means to us both, who we are attracted to and how attractive we see ourselves. Attractiveness is a subjective word and we hope to better explain what it means to us and ask you to do the same.

Snapshots Mr Jones loves the "dirty talk" while Mrs Jones participates in a very sexy triple-blow-job (yes, they do exist)!

BONUS Episode 30: Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle- Our Conversation with Jay and Kay Nov 01, 2016

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Discussion Topic In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle. Jay and Kay from "That Couple Next Door" podcast join us to discuss a performance anxiety issue the four of us encountered when playing together. This issue is pervasive and can be discouraging but fear not, with the right approach: good communication, self-reflection and re-testing it can be resolved for the best!

Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries- When to Mak'em and When to Break'em Oct 13, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses A lifestyle "happy hour" with "sexy" lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with "new" lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with "old" lifestyle friends, and a very fun evening with some "podcasting" friends.

Discussion topic We made mistakes early in our lifestyle journey by not understanding how to make rules. We've split "rule making" into two categories: "rules" to protect your relationship and should not be broken and "boundaries" which are more flexible and allow for healthy growth.

Snapshots Two listeners share snapshots about making and breaking rules and boundaries while Mrs Jones and I share two of our sexy encounters from this past month.

Episode 28: Desire Pearl 2016- No Explanation is Possible Sep 14, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn't go as well as we would've liked.

Topic We talk about our week in paradise! After 14 months we finally get back to Desire Pearl and talk about meeting some amazing new friends, experiencing some play time with sexy couples and of course a lesson learned (or two).

Snapshots Two sexy stories from a couple we had some fun with at Pearl and two from us as well.

BONUS Episode 27: Diversity in the Lifestyle- An Origin Story to Remember Aug 29, 2016

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Discussion topic Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage. If you think you know what an arranged marriage is you might want to listen and learn! They discuss how it all began, the pitfalls and stereotyping they faced and what led them to try the lifestyle after over 20 years of marriage.

Episode 26: Hosting a House Party Aug 10, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses We share our "creed": who we are, where we are coming from, why we share and the purpose of our podcast. We also share a sexy tale after a special visit from friends we met at Naughty in N'awlins!

Discussion topic Finally! After months of remodeling our "sex-pad" and preparation we host our first house party.....and an orgy breaks out! As much fun as it was we had a lot to process about what we enjoyed and what our comfort zones are regarding group sex.

Snapshots Mrs Jones shares a "tattoo'd vision" from our house party and Mr Jones shares a hot (and wet) story about a sexual encounter with Mrs Jones on our sex swing!

Episode 25: Hot Days and Naughty Nights in N'awlins Jul 20, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses We discuss our evening with J and K from the That Couple Next Door podcast and we thank you, our listeners for voting for us and making We Gotta Thing a finalist in the Annual Lifestyle Awards ceremony at Naught in N'awlins.

Discussion topic Not much of a lesson in this episode- we talk about all the hot, fun and sexy times we had at Naughty in N'awlins 2016! Our Meet and Greet was amazing, we met so many lifestyle podcasters, listeners, new swinger friends and reconnected with "old" friends too.

SnapshotsOf course we both share sexy snapshots from NiN!

Contact us Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com Twitter- @wegottathing Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Episode 24: The Newbie Whisperers Jun 21, 2016

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Keeping up with the Joneses Dinner with new friends, hosting new friends in the "Swinger Pad" and a night out with Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Door podcast.

Discussion topic We recap our trip to Temptation Resort in Cancun and discuss our penchant for attracting and helping "newbies" move forward in the lifestyle. Connection, confidence and communication!

Snapshots Listeners "M and A" share a sexy story, Mr Jones recounts a happy ending with Tony and Mrs Jones shares a memory from her birthday weekend at Temptation.

Mentioned in this episode That Couple Next Door podcast with Jay and Kay Temptation Resort, Cancun Mexico Lifestyle Awards voting for your favorite podcast!

Contact us Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com Twitter- @wegottathing Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

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