Stay ConnectedWe’re Jess and Paul, a married couple in our late-30s/early-40s from New York City, about to embark on the biggest adventure of our lives: adopting a baby! Join us as we document the process from the beginning—the ups, the downs, and everything in between.
Keep the conversation going! Email us questions and comments, and share stories of your own at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
After a little hiatus, we're back! Thanks to those of you who've stuck with us during our break.
In episode 40 (!!!), Jess and Paul talk in detail about their family's adoption finalization day, as well as lots of other things.
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Music: "Be My Baby" ©1964 The Ronettes
Happy New Year, everyone!
Do you live in the U.K. or know someone who does? Episode 39 is jam-packed with information about the adoption process in the United Kingdom, thanks to listener Michelle!
We found this information fascinating, and hope you do too! Enjoy!
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Music: "Here Comes My Baby" ©1967 The Tremeloes
At long last, Jess, Paul, and Markéta are back. And with lots of updates! Also, did you know November is National Adoption Month? Join us in celebrating!
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Music: "We Are Family" ©1979 Sister Sledge
Jess, Paul, and Markéta stop in for a catch-up, including an update on the African-American Parents Advisory Group, and where things stand in the adoption finalization process. Email us! WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com!
Music: "Baby Shark" ©2018 The Countdown Kids
It's Markéta's three-month birthday, and we're back for a new episode!
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Music: "Baby, I Love You" ©1967 Aretha Franklin
To vegan or not to vegan? Jess and Paul discuss, in episode 35. Plus, in other news, daycares in Brooklyn are flippin' expensive!
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Music: "Mama Said" ©1960 The Shirelles
Join Jess and Paul for an update on life with a newborn! Find out what Baby Girl's name is, plus we answer some listener questions ... and more!
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Music: "Unless I'm Led" ©2011 Mates of State
Jess and Paul stop in for a quick update on their last two weeks—accompanied by a teeny tiny, very talkative special guest. :)
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Music: "The Circle Game" ©1970 Joni Mitchell
Guys, it happened. Paul and Jess are parents! And ... very sleepy. :) Tune in to episode 32 for all the latest!
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Music: "No Sleep Till Brooklyn" ©1987 Beastie Boys
After nearly 8 months as a waiting family, Jess and Paul have some news! Ahhh!!
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Music: "Cry Baby" ©1971 Janis Joplin
Jess met her self-imposed deadline! Yay! Spend episode 30 with Jess and Paul as they discuss fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD), fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), and the effects of prenatal exposure to alcohol. Also we finally had that check-in call with our social worker—find out how it went!
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Music: "Baby" © 2013 She & Him
Greece was amazing. Paul's subsequent surgery was ... not. But if this year has taught us anything, it's how to roll with the punches! Join Jess and Paul for (a still a little jet-lagged) episode 29.
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Music: "I Wanna Get Better" ©2014 Bleachers
Paul's back from Cali! The move is over! The Greece trip starts now! Join us for episode 28, in which we are way too tired and slap happy! Woo!
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Music: "Leaving on a Jet Plane" ©1967 Peter, Paul and Mary
Paul is in California for work but Jess is an independent woman who gets stuff done! So, join Jess for this solo episode in which she talks to herself for 40 minutes about lots of stuff—including marketing yourself to expectant parents.
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Music: "One" ©1968 Three Dog Night
In episode 26, Jess and Paul share what they've learned about adopting internationally from South Africa!
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Music: "Africa" ©1982 Toto
We're back! And with some amazing emails, a couple wonky life changes, and a brand new computer! :)
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Music: "Biggest Part of Me" ©1980 Ambrosia
Since Jess's notes on South Africa disappeared in the Great Laptop Crash of 2018, we're skipping another week. :( But come back next week for a brand new episode!
And in the meantime, email us at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com!
We're back! And so is Jess's computer! In episode 23 we pick up where we left off with Representations in Media and Pop Culture numero dos!
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Clips:
The Avengers ©2012 Marvel Studios
Despicable Me ©2010 Universal Pictures
The Christmas Prince ©2017 Motion Picture Corporation of America
Twinsters ©2015 Small Package Films
Music: "The Hard-Knock Life" ©1999 Walt Disney
Hey guys, just a quick update. We're having some computer issues this week and don't have access to our recording and editing software, so unfortunately we'll have to skip this week. :( But we'll be back next weekend with Representations in Media and Pop Culture Pt. 2!
Thanks for understanding!
xx
Jess and Paul
As promised, episode 21 centers around the good and not-so-good portrayals of adoption and foster care in film, books, and television. There's a LOT to discuss on this topic, so we're breaking it up into two episodes. Tune in next week for part 2.
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Music: The Fosters theme ©2013 ABC Family/Freeform
Audio clips:
Easy A ©2010 Sony Pictures
Dinosaur Train ©2009 The Jim Henson Company
A Child of the State TED Talk ©2012 Lemn Sissay
It's Paul's turn to be interviewed! Get a glimpse into his mind regarding such fascinating subjects as kangaroo pouches, peanut butter cups, and ... gerrymandering. (Also, please forgive the sound of the dogs chewing their bones in the background. At least it kept them occupied during recording time!)
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Music: "Baby Beluga" ©1980 Raffi
Paul had an idea: Let's interview each other. So, in episode 19, he asks Jess the hard hitting questions about life, dictatorships, and TV shows.
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Music: "Baby Baby Baby" ©1964 Anna King and Bobby Byrd
It's episode 18, and after last weekend's baby class, Jess and Paul are READY TO PARENT! Okay, maybe not entirely, but they get some really awesome and insightful emails from listeners that are sure to help!
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Music: "Sunshine Baby" ©2003 Reamonn
Jess and Paul are ... still waiting for a call. But they're keeping busy! In episode 17, we discuss the Women's March, lingerie bags, late night trips to Rite-Aid, and whether or not to read the baby books.
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Music: "All That She Wants" ©1992 Ace of Base
It's our Sweet 16 episode, and the baby registry experience has led Jess and Paul into an epic discussion about targeted email marketing and capitalism in America. Wheeee! Email us at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
Music: "Baby What a Big Surprise" ©1977 Chicago
Happy new year! It's episode 15, and Jess and Paul are ... still waiting. But hey, they've made some progress on their baby registry and Greece trip! Email us at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com!
Music: "Rockabye" ©2016 Clean Bandit feat. Sean Paul and Anne-Marie
Happy holidays! It's episode 14, and since last we checked in, Jess and Paul have made some progress on the pediatrician front. Plus, more listener emails, and a good, old-fashioned Smash the Patriarchy discussion.
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Music: "Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)" ©1963 Darlene Love
In episode 13, Jess and Paul answer listener mail, and discuss topics such as school in the city vs. school in the suburbs, what's the deal with interim care, and if there's such a thing as adult adoption.
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Music: "Drive My Car" ©1965 The Beatles
In episode 12, Jess and Paul discuss their experience at the Voices of the Triad event back in November.
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Music: "Always Be My Baby" ©1995 Mariah Carey
It's episode 11, and Jess and Paul have gotten some feedback—and questions. We weigh in on what's been happening in our lives since the last episode, and we answer some listener emails! Join the conversation—email your questions and stories to WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
Music: "Baby" ©2002 Ashanti
It's episode 10, and Jess and Paul are settling into the Big Wait. But, as they have a tendency to do, the upcoming holidays are bringing up feelings. Join the conversation! Email questions, stories, and comments to WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [com]. Music: "Hey Baby" ©2001 No Doubt
Jess and Paul are officially a "waiting family"! In episode 9 they discuss the final steps that led them to this point ... and what it's been like, waiting for the phone to ring. Join the conversation! Email your thoughts, questions, and stories to WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com. Music: "Ice Ice Baby" ©1989 Vanilla Ice
The profile is done, it's episode 8, and Jess and Paul are preparing to officially be a "waiting family." The question is, how??
Join the conversation! Email us your questions and comments, and share your own stories at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
Music: "Baby Come Back" ©1977 Player
Jess and Paul have finally completed their home study process! In episode 7 they discuss how visits two and three went, and what comes next.
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Music: "Baby Love" ©1964 The Supremes
In episode 6, Jess and Paul check in after their first home study visit! And fair warning—there's a bit of an epic rant about the subject of religion (from the point of view of two non-religious people) from 25:20 to 42:30. Feel free to skip if that's not your jam. :)
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Music: "Baby" ©2010 Justin Bieber
In episode 5, Jess and Paul talk about what they learned (and who they met!) at last week's adoption fair. Plus they share how they're feeling about tomorrow's home study.
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Music: "Can't Take My Eyes Off You" ©1967 Frankie Valli
In episode 4, Jess and Paul talk about the "marketing yourself" element of the adoption process.
Join the conversation! Email us your questions and comments, and share your own stories at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
NOTE: We're aware of the low audio volume on the first few episodes, and we're working on improving that for the upcoming episodes. Very sorry for the inconvenience, and we hope you'll stick with us!
Music: "Baby, I Love Your Way" ©1994 Big Mountain
In episode 3, Jess and Paul talk in detail about the lengthy adoption application process.
NOTE: We're aware of the low audio volume on the first few episodes, and we're working on improving that for the upcoming episodes. Very sorry for the inconvenience, and we hope you'll stick with us!
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Music: "Wild World" ©1970 Cat Stevens
In episode 2, Jess and Paul back up a bit and explain how and why they decided that adoption was the right path for them.
NOTE: We're aware of the low audio volume on the first few episodes, and we're working on improving that for the upcoming episodes. Very sorry for the inconvenience, and we hope you'll stick with us!
Join the conversation! Email us your questions and comments, and share your own stories at WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
Music: "Baby-Baby-Baby" by TLC, ©1992
Welcome! We're Jess and Paul, a married couple in our mid/late 30s from New York City, about to embark on the biggest adventure of our lives: adopting a baby! In this inaugural episode we introduce ourselves, and talk a little bit about which route to adoption we chose, and why.
Join us every week for a new episode, as we document the process from the beginning—the ups, the downs, and everything in between.
NOTE: We're aware of the low audio volume on the first few episodes, and we're working on improving that for the upcoming episodes. Very sorry for the inconvenience, and we hope you'll stick with us!
Email us questions and comments, and share stories of your own, WeCanDoThisPodcast [at] gmail [dot] com.
Music: "Superstar" by The Carpenters, 1971
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