Wards of the State

Ep: 79 "Diana" Jun 30, 2025

In this episode, Karlos Dillard interviews Diana Colon, who shares her harrowing journey from being born in Russia and living in orphanages to being adopted in America. Diana recounts her traumatic experiences in the orphanage, including abuse and neglect, and the challenges she faced in her adoptive home. Despite the struggles, Diana emphasizes the importance of resilience and healing, and she offers valuable advice for future adoptees. Her story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of sharing one's narrative.
Takeaways
Diana's early life in Russia was marked by hardship and neglect. She faced unique challenges as the only black child in her orphanages. Diana experienced severe trauma and abuse during her time in the orphanage. Adoption brought new challenges, including cultural and language barriers. Diana struggled to communicate her past trauma to her adoptive family. Therapy was difficult for Diana as she couldn't open up about her experiences. Diana's relationship with her adoptive mother was complicated and strained. She found solace in her siblings, who provided support during tough times. Diana emphasizes the importance of sharing one's story for healing. She encourages future adoptees to seek understanding and support in their journeys.
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Ep: 78 "Shantel" Jun 17, 2025

In this episode, Karlos Dillard speaks with Shantel about her experiences as a kinship adoptee. They discuss the challenges of growing up in an adoptive home, the impact of abuse and neglect, and the importance of resilience and support systems. Shantel shares her journey through teenage pregnancy, navigating relationships with her biological family, and the resources available for young parents. They also explore the concept of the 'adoption fog' and the necessity of therapy for adoptive families. The conversation emphasizes the importance of sharing lived experiences to create change and support others in similar situations.
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Ep: 77 "Shana" May 27, 2025

In this episode, Karlos Dillard and Shana discuss the complexities of adoption, including the importance of sharing personal stories, the trauma associated with being adopted, and the role of therapists in understanding adoptee experiences. Shana shares her own adoption story, the challenges of identity, and the impact of closed adoptions on her life. They also explore the legal implications of adoption and the emotional journey of reunification with birth family, emphasizing the need for greater awareness and reform in the adoption industry.
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Ep: 76 "Dr. Cre" May 05, 2025

Hey Lightshiners! In this engaging conversation, Karlos Dillard and Dr. Cre explore the importance of building relationships and support systems for youth, particularly those in foster care. They discuss the significance of creating safe spaces, effective communication, and the role of structure and boundaries in fostering healthy development. Dr. Cre shares insights from her experiences and emphasizes the need for adults to be open, nurturing, and willing to learn from young people. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced by foster parents and the necessity of addressing their own traumas to better support the children in their care. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a powerful reminder of the impact of love, understanding, and intentionality in guiding youth towards a brighter future.
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Takeaways
Relationships are crucial for youth development.
Creating safe spaces helps children feel secure.
Open communication fosters trust and understanding.
Foster parents must address their own traumas.
Structure and boundaries provide stability for youth.
Empowering youth through choices builds confidence.
Teaching negotiation skills is essential for independence.
Support systems are vital for overcoming challenges.
Nurturing relationships requires effort and intention.
Youth need to feel loved and respected to thrive.
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Ep: 75 "Jasmine" Mar 27, 2025

Hey, Light Shiners! I am joined by Jasmine, a foster youth who shares her experience. She also speaks to us about what it is like being a kinship caregiver herself!
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Ep: 74 "Hart & Michael" Feb 28, 2025

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Hart, who is a pre-birth match adoptee who is joined by their biological brother Michael. They speak about how reunification has been for them and Hart speaks about having a net-positive adoption, but still feeling the loss of their sibling
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Ep: 73 "Jasmine" Feb 04, 2025

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Jasmine a former foster youth who has just aged out of foster care. She speaks about life in group homes and how she made a plan to make it out of the system without being institutionalized.
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Ep: 72 "Lisa" Jan 25, 2025

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Lisa an adoptee who didn’t find out she was adopted until she was 7 or 8. She also shares about the abuse she survived at the hands of her stepbrother. We share reunification stories and end the podcast with advice for one another.
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Ep: 71 "MGD" Jan 14, 2025

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by MGD a former foster youth. She speaks about her struggle with her identity and how a DNA test helps discover who she truly is.
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Ep: 70 "Tara" Jan 01, 2025

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Tara who is a transracial adoptee and she shares her experience with dealing with religious trauma from the Mormon church. She also speaks about how she still loves her white adoptive parents but struggles with her racial identity.
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EP: 69 "Cassidy" Dec 17, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Cassidy a former foster youth who was being abused by her birth brother in their home. She speaks about how hard reunification can be and how child abuse can cause lifelong trauma in families.
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We Are Back! Nov 25, 2024

I am so excited to share with you more stories of lived experiences so we can all learn and grow!
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Biological Parents Special: Laura Jun 18, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by Laura a birth mom who almost lost her kids to the system because of a mental health crisis. She speaks about co-parenting with an abusive Ex-spouse and how she was alienated as a mom.
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Biological Parent Special: CJ (update) Jun 05, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by CJ a birth father who was on the show 2 years ago. He gives us an update and how he has been advocating for himself and his daughter.
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Biological Family Special: ShaVonnda May 16, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by ShaVonnda, a birth aunt who helped her brother fight the family policing system and tried to adopt his daughter out to foster parents. They fought for 8 years and won!
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Ep: 68 "George" Apr 18, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! I am joined by George a native adoptee who had a net positive adoption experience. He talks about how his adoptive parents keep his birth family and culture involved while growing up and why ICWA is so important.
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Ep: 67 "Scottie" Apr 03, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! THERE IS A SUICIDE TRIGGER WARNING in this episode. I am joined by Scottie a same-race Black adoptee who shares about their net-positive adoption experiences and religion trauma. We do speak about assisted suicide so please use caution listening and speak to mental health professionals If you are having suicidal thoughts. Always Shine Your Ligjht.
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Ep: 66 "Petrea" Mar 25, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Petrea an international adoptee who was adopted from Russia. She speaks on her net-positive adoption and how isolating it was to grow up in a single-mother household.
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Ep: 65 "Tiffany" Mar 11, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Tiffany and adoptee who shares her story about her adoption, her adoptive parents divorce and how that affected her life.
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EP: 64 "Shellie" Feb 27, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Shellie who speaks about how her adoptive parents paid for her and how that made her feel.
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Ep: 63 "Sandra" Feb 05, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Sandra a foster youth and adoptee whose story will shock you. She shares her experience of being adopted twice...will at least she THOUGHT she was adopted.
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The Truth About Will Jan 26, 2024

Hey, Lightshiners! In this episode, I am interviewing Will Powerrr an adoptive father who went viral on TikTok for brushing his Transracial adoptee's hair. After going viral and facing backlash Will came onto my Tiktok Live to share his lived experience.
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Ep: 62 "Rosie" Jan 17, 2024

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Rosie who speaks about her childhood and reuniting with her birth family. She explains that reunification is not easy and explains why.
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Ep: 61 "Ginger" Dec 28, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Ginger, a foster youth bounced between many foster placements and group homes. She speaks about how she could age out and access the resources but how difficult that process was.
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Ep: 60 "Holly" Dec 20, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Holly who explains to us how she was illegally adopted and how that affected her life.
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Ep: 59 "Keziah" Nov 30, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Keziah an adoptee who was separated from her twin sister at birth. She speaks about the death of her adoptive mother and how her adoptive father supported her. Keziah also talks about how it is growing up without her Romani culture.
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Ep: 57 "David" Nov 08, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by David a foster youth who shares his experiences bouncing between group homes and foster homes as a child growing up. He shares how he created safety nets for himself like going to college to become successful/
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Ep: 56 "Barbara" Nov 04, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Barbara a former foster youth and adoptee. With over 25 years of private practice as a ministerial counselor, Barbara Lane has dedicated herself to serving individuals and families. Her educational background in human development, social sciences, and family psychology, with a specialization in child abuse, fuels her passion for sharing expertise on topics close to her heart.
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Ep: 55 "Diamond" Oct 24, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Diamond who aged out of foster care. She shares her experience entering the foster care system and how it has affected her.
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Ep: 54 "Kristyn" Oct 10, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Kristyn an adoptee who was given up at birth by her biological mother. She speaks about how her adoption was positive overall but had an issue with reunification as an adult.
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Ep: 53 "Cult Adoptee" Sep 28, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Cult Adoptee who was adopted into a religious cult… hence their name! They tell us about their experience as a young child being brainwashed into a cult that made them think that everything they did wrong would send them to hell.
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Ep 52: "Cammie" Sep 21, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Cammie a fictive kin adoptee whose birth mother died of cancer and was placed for adoption. Cammie talks about the trials she experienced as a Black child growing up in a white household. This is a POWERFUL episode.
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Ep: 51 "Carrie" Sep 05, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Carrie who grew up in kinship care. She shares her experience with her birth parents and her family guardians. We speak about mental health and how she has been able to navigate the trauma she experienced as a child.
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2 Year Anniversary! Jul 17, 2023

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Ep: 49 "Jen" Jun 29, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Jen an adoptee adoptee who was left in the hospital as an infant was started the first couple years of her life in and out of foster care until she was adopted at 5.
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Ep: 48 "Mack" Jun 20, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Mack a Former Foster youth and adoptee who shares his experience of being adopted with his twin living with an abusive adoptive mother.
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Biological Parents Special "Carlos" Jun 01, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Carlos a biological father whose daughter was unjustly taken from his custody. This is a very emotional episode because we speak to this father as he is going to the CPS to pick up his daughter for the first time since she was removed.
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Biological Parents Special "Stâurm" May 26, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Stâurm a biological parent who is disabled and fighting for her children. She has faced many challenges but says she will never give up.
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Biological Parents Special "Ebony" May 02, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Ebony a former foster who is a 32-year-old Afro-Caribbean mother of 4 children, her Afro-Indiginous Son ( my eldest) was apprehended in 2016 by Family and Children Services. They refused to turn the file over to Native Child and family services and did not offer a placement in the Native community as an option.
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Ep: 47 "Tracey" Apr 20, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Tracey an adoptee whose adoptive mother died and she was displaced with her siblings. She speaks about how awful it felt to hear her adoptive extended family says they didn't want them and how she survived.
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Ep: 46 "Outspoken Adoptee" Apr 13, 2023

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Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Outspoken Adoptee who is a Transracial adoptee who shares her experience with us. She speaks about the childhood sexual assault she survived at the hands of her adoptive father and we hear her question him and hold him accountable for his actions.
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Ep: 45 "DNA Picasso" Apr 04, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Devin AKA DNA Picasso, a Black adoptee who was on the Maury Show with his twin brother to advertise them for adoption. He informs us about that experience as well as growing up and reunifying with his biological family. This episode completely blew my mind!!!!!
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Ep: 44 "Jenny" Mar 26, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Jenny an adoptee adopted at birth. She speaks about growing up in a household of adoptees and how she has been able to deal with the anger toward her adoptive mother.
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Ep: 43 "Karpoozy" Mar 14, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Karpoozy an adoptee adopted at birth. She shares her troubling experience growing up with a medically fragile adoptive mother who used her as a live in nurse aid. She also speaks about how great her relationship is with her adoptive father and being rejected as an adult but her biological father. You don’t want to miss this one!
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Ep: 42 "DA" Feb 22, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by DA a kinship adoptee who later in life found out that her cousin was actually her mother. DA’s story lets us know that Kinship placements aren’t always better. She also speaks about reunification and how hard but rewarding it can be.
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Ep: 41 "Caitlin" Feb 16, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Caitlin who was adopted at birth. We speak about adoption trauma, bio-parent trauma, and corruption in the adoption industry. She shares some really touching experiences.
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Ep: 40 "Mia" Feb 08, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Mia an International Transracial Adoptee from Haiti who shares her experience of being adopted into a white family. She shares how her adoptive parents have learned to address the racism she faced as a child and what she faces today as a Black woman and a mother herself. Mia also shares her experience with her reunification and how she found her biological family.
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Ep: 39 "Meg" Jan 26, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Meg who is a transracial adoptee who speaks about her transracial adoption, loss of cultural identify and reconnecting to ancestral roots.
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Ep: 38 "Sadie" Jan 17, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Sadie who was in foster care for 1 month and then kinship care for 10 years. She explains the difficulties she faced with her kinship carer and tells me how I helped her reunite with her brother who was adopted at birth. This is a very special episode for me I usual never see how my help brings a family back together and now I have!
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Ep: 37 "Mireille & Marielle" Jan 10, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Marielle & Mireille who are identical twin sisters who were crown wards adopted by white parents on a small island. Their lived experience is straight out of a Disney movie how they found their birth mother and how they reunited with their father's side from another country. You don't want to miss this episode!
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Ep: 36 "Julia" Jan 03, 2023

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Julia an African international transracial adoptee who Europeans adopted. She shares her experience facing racism in France and how difficult it was to move internationally so many times.
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Ep: 35 "Marisa" Dec 14, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Marisa a transracial adoptee who speaks about growing up in a white Mormon household as a Black girl. Marisa also shared her experience with the Mormon church and how it created religious trauma.
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Ep: 34 "Elizabeth" Dec 05, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Elizabeth who was adopted at 6 weeks old. She shares her terrifying experience living in an adoptive home where unfortunately she was abused in many ways. She also shares her experience in the troubled teen industry.
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Ep: 33 "Zina" Nov 16, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Zina and she shares her experience about her transracial adoption and what her adoptive parents did RIGHT! Even though they did a lot of things right Zina let us know how difficult it was growing up as a Black woman, and what her white adoptive parents could have done a little better!
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Ep: 32 "Jay" Nov 01, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Jay, a former foster youth from New York City who started off in an abusive kinship placement and was then removed and started their childhood journey in the foster care system. He stayed in a catholic run youth center for 8 years. He also shares his experience being an LGBT youth in the system.
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Ep: 31 "Heather" Oct 21, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode I am joined by Heather with was an adoptee in a closed adoption. She speaks about the trauma she experienced being thrown into mental hospitals and different programs. She also shares her experience with the troubled teen industry
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Ep: 30 "Julie" Sep 28, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, Julie tells us about her International adoption from her home country of Peru. She also shares her experience in an orphanage and adoption Trauma and getting through the FOG as an adult.
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Ep: 29 "Shiv" Sep 19, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Shiv an adoptee who was adopted though LDS family services, and shares here experience with the Mormon church and her parents. She overall has had a positive experience with her adoptive parents but suffered religion trauma.
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Ep: 27 "Marki" Aug 24, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Marki a former foster youth and adoptee who lets us know that foster/adoptive parents can be heavily abusive, the system does nothing about it, and the community doesn't listen when we speak up as children. The system gives people children who should never have them.
We also speak about Mental illness and generational trauma linked to maternal separation.
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Ep: 26 "Lizette" Aug 09, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Lizette, a Kinship adoptee who experienced a very untraditional adoption. We spoke about the benefits and flaws of Kinship adoption, informal adoptions, and the stigma surrounding adoption. Lizette’s story is one of the most interesting we have had on the podcast to date.
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Ep: 25 "Empress" Jul 06, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Empress a former foster youth that aged out. We talk about independent living programs, foster care statistics and spreading awareness.
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Biological Parents Special: "Intersectional Adoptee" Jun 02, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Intersectional adoptee who shares their experiences as an international transracial adoptee as well as a first mom. There is so much intersectionality in this episode be sure to listen!
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The Truth about Hope May 28, 2022

if you are aware of the story if the illegal adoption on TIKTOK that happen this week here is the truth

Biological Parents Special: "Dee" May 18, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Dee also known as @HonestBirthMom on Tiktok and she shares her experienceas a first mother in private adoption. We speak about how she was lied to and coerced and what assistance birth parents need.
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Biological Parents Special: "CJ" May 09, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! We have a special month of episodes this month where we will highlight first/birth parents. In this episode, I am joined by CJ a first father whose child was given up for adoption without his consent. He speaks about how this affected him and why he thinks racism was the main reason it happened.
Follow CJ on Social Media at https://www.tiktok.com/@childlessparent
and his website https://cjmiler105.com/
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Ep: 24 "Leija" Apr 26, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Leija an adoptee whose parents were immigrants and lost custody of her. She talks about her relationship with her adoptive parents and her reunification with her biological family.
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Ep: 23 "Angela" Apr 21, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Angela Proudfoot a Crown Ward who suffered severe abuse at the hands of her biological parents. They speak about how the cps system in Canada failed them and how they and many others are fighting back!
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Ep: 22 "Lucy" Apr 15, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Lucy, a former foster youth who was bounced between several homes. She explains the abuse she went through in those homes and how she reunified with her father in the end.
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Ep: 21 "Theo" Apr 07, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Theo a queer adoptee who was adopted by religious senior citizens and they explain to me how the age gap and religious views made it hard to grow up them.
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Ep: 20 "Lady Snow" Mar 29, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by LadySnow a Bi-Racial, Transracial adoptee who was born with cerebral palsy. She speaks about reunification with her biological father but her biological mother does not want a relationship. We also speak on how adoptees like herself are medically abused by their adoptive parents.
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Ep: 19 "Sonya" Mar 15, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Sonya who entered foster care at 2 years old. Her parents were mentally disabled and struggled to complete their family plan so the state terminated their rights.
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Ep: 18 "Kieonna" Mar 08, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Kieonna who spent the majority of their childhood in foster care with the same foster parents.
** the audio on my end went wacky towards the end of the interview so I apologize in advance***
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Ep: 17 "Lee Lee" Mar 01, 2022

Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Lee Lee, a former foster youth who was in over 50 foster placements. She shares the horrors she survived at the hands of those who were supposed to protect her while others looked away. She also shares with us her story of overcoming the tribulations she went through and how she is giving back to the Foster Care system.
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https://www.tiktok.com/@leeleeclark?lang=en
https://risingwithhope.godaddysites.com/
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Ep: 16 "Penny" Feb 21, 2022

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Penny who was Transracially adopted into an older Caucasian family. Her parents came from a generation of Jim Crow but did not see color, and that ended up being detrimental for her. She also shared her experience with reunification with her biological family and how that process was.
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Ep: 15 "Valerie" Dec 22, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Valeria, who only has experience in group homes both open and closed facilities. The facilities were St Johns home in Grand Rapids and Wedgwood’s residential home in Grand Rapids. At Wedgwood, a friend in there un-alived themselves and their mother wasn’t much better. We speak about how their time in these facilities has affected their life.
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Ep: 14 "Isaac" Nov 11, 2021

Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Issac, a transracial adoptee. Isaac has used his story of being adopted and growing up in a white world to curate deep conversations about race in America. With his unique insight on racial tensions between the white and black communities, they have been able to curate impactful conversations where everyone learns to value each other and their experience, while learning about systemic racism, privilege, and their role in it.
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Ep: 13 "Nina" Oct 21, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Nina an adoptee. We talk about her adoption and her journey reunifying with her biological family!
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Ep: 12 "Josh" Oct 15, 2021

Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Josh, a former ward of the state who is currently a foster parent. We speak about his lived experience in the Indiana foster system, Teens in the system, black trash bags, the system in general. There is a beautiful special surprise so make sure you tune in!
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Ep: 11 "Shahem" Sep 30, 2021

What’s good light shiners! In this episode, we get Shahems lived experience in kinship care. We discuss how similar foster care and kinship care is and the effects it’s had. Shahem is a licensed therapist and social worker and focuses on advocating for the Black and brown youth in his community. Teaching about the disparities they face. We also discuss Tiktok and how it is a useful tool to educate people about the foster care system but how racist it can be.
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Ep: 10 "Monique" Sep 18, 2021

Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Monique, a former Crown Ward who is currently involved in a lawsuit against The Crown for failure to inform foster children of their rights to sue for abuses. We discuss the similarities and differences between being a foster child in Canada vs the USA as well as the ongoing battles of former foster children to secure housing, education, employment, and the general battle to transition into society after being a Ward. Be sure to follow Monique on social media @beauty_cakes.
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Ep: 9 "Crystael" Sep 09, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Crystael a former foster youth who was transracially adopted by Black people. We talk about how it was difficult being the only White person in her family growing up and how that has been as an adult. Be sure to follow Crystael on social media @crystaelcorbin
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Ep: 8 "Brittney" Sep 02, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by author and former foster youth Brittany. We speak about her lived experience in foster care and her memoir. A Suitcase and a Dream is the story of a 9-year-old girl faced with the atrocities of abuse, hunger, homelessness, abandonment finally ending up in the foster care system. Grab a copy here! https://www.amazon.com/Suitcase-Dream-Brittney-Sherell/dp/1937400077
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Ep: 7 "Bennett" Aug 26, 2021

Light Shiners! In this episode, I am joined by Bennett a former foster youth who was in and out of the foster system 3 times! Bennett shares his lived experience being a first-generation American whose father struggled to keep custody. His story is captivating and profound. Be sure to follow Bennett on social media @bennettknows.
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Ep: 6 "Jasmine" Aug 19, 2021

Hey hey, Light Shiners! This is a VERY special episode for me. I am joined by Jasmine a former foster youth and my sisters' foster sister. I first met her when I was visiting my sister when I was 8 years old at their foster home. Jasmine shares her experience in the foster system and how it overall was a positive experience. You won't want to miss this episode! Be sure to follow Jasmine on social media @jaszzy___ If you would like to be on the show please fill sign up here https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1v7bvzVA12m64Ujr-I9eQcR5UKO8vOIMjDdNic0YYLFg/prefill Please help us keep shining light on the truths of the foster care system by donating. Please click the link to donate! https://karlosdillard.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=611ab8be7dbb68767abf984e Please be sure to leave a 5-star rating and review to keep more amazing episodes coming!

Ep: 5 "Katie" Aug 12, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this week's episode, I am joined by Katie, a young person that has been greatly affected by the foster care system. They discussed how child protective services lied to them and their biological mom and how foster care robbed them of their chidlhood.
Be sure to follow Katie on social media! @themillerfamily2030
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Ep: 4 "Ellery" Aug 05, 2021

Hope all of you light shiners are having an amazing week. In this episode, Ellery shares the incredible story of her life in and out of the foster system. We speak about abuse in the foster care system and the fog it creates. The lack of adult supervision to foster parents and the system treating kids as pawns.
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Ep: 3 "Davon" Jul 29, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! In this week's episode, I am joined by Davon, a twin, former foster youth, and adoptee. He speaks on how the system is failing foster kids. We also talk about his lived experience and what we can do to make a change as former foster youth
Be sure to follow Davon on Tiktok! @woodstwins1
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Ep: 2 "Brandi" Jul 22, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! Welcome to Wards of the State Podcast, a safe place for former foster youth to share their lived experience and others to learn. In this episode, I am joined by Brandi, a mother, sister, and former foster youth. She speaks about the use of psychopharmacology on minors in the late 90s-early 00s. Abusive foster parents and group homes and how foster care destroys family bonds
Be sure to follow Brandi on Tiktok! @amayashannis
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Ep: 1 "Jamerika" Jul 15, 2021

Hey Light Shiners! Welcome to Wards of the State Podcast, a safe place for former foster youth to share their lived experience and others to learn. In this episode, I am joined by Jamerika Haynes-Lewis, a former foster youth adoptee, and Miss Evergreen State 2020. She speaks about her experience being a Black girl in Foster Care, financial literacy, and aging out.
Be sure to follow Jamerika on IG https://www.instagram.com/jamerika_b/ and her other social media platforms. Twitter: @CleverJamComms, LinkedIn: Jamerika Haynes-Lewis, Facebook: CleverJamComms
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Trailer Jul 09, 2021

Tune in for the first Episode on 7/15/21. If you can't wait you can see the video interview on my Patreon (Karlos Dillard). Always Shine Your Light

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