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Relationship Start to Finish with Alexandra Tweten May 18, 2026

Many of you were curious. So here it is! Alexandra returns to the podcast to give us the entire story of her nearly 4-year-long relationship. How it started, and how it ended.

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Situationship? Apr 27, 2026

I am back and so sorry for the delay, but let's get into it. Is it always bad to be in a situationship? What even really is a situationship? If it doesn't become a relationship quickly, will it never be one? I ask these as general Q's, but also in relation to what I got going on in my personal life. Give it a listen and let me know what you think!

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New Year, Same Complaints? Feb 12, 2026

Okay, this one ended up being a catch up but in catching up I kind of repeat sentiments I've shared before but in a NEW way but I also plead for actionable steps if you got them!! The year is just starting, forgive me. I hope you enjoy and next episode will not be so...personal...

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Why Am I So Bored? Dec 02, 2025

Hi hi! I have returned. Apologies for the unexpected long break. The good news is, I went on a lot of dates and have something to talk about...Why is no one fun to hang out with? Something is going on. Whether it be with the men, with me, or BOTH. Or a secret fourth thing? This ep dives into it, so tune in before you jump to any conclusions. I haven't even done that.

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Anhedonia in Dating: Is There Any Way This Can Be Fun Again? Oct 04, 2025

Anhedonia is a symptom characterized by a diminished ability or inability to experience pleasure or joy in previously enjoyable activities...hmm...sound familiar much? I dive into this concept in relation to dating and beg you to help us all figure how to break free from feeling this way. This conversation will be continued in the next ep.

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Be Open, Be Choosy, Be a Slut, Be Confident in Your Body Aug 26, 2025

I'm back with a new ep, reading your messages aloud and responding to them. Plus, I answer two questions: how to be a slut, and how to embrace weight gain. Keep writing me and asking q's! Enjoy this ep and be back soon.

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You Can't Doordash a Boyfriend + Part Two of Decentering Men When it Comes to Casual Sex Jul 25, 2025

Hello! I'm back with a long episode that's really like two eps in one, but I guess that's good since I don't really put these out weekly. The first half is a mix of life updates and expressing my sheer confusion about what the hell is going on with my dating life. Then I go into the rest of the conversation I started a few episodes back about casual sex and what that might truly look like for women if we decenter men from it. Listen and enjoy! I hope.

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How Norway Got Me Looking Forward to Dating Again Jul 03, 2025

I'm back! Some of you requested I talk about my vacation. Specifically, did I meet anyone?! What are the Norway singles like?? Well, I got some insight. This episode is dedicated to discussing the trip, the effect it has had on me since coming home, and how I'm going to navigate dating moving forward. I think. Have a listen and hope you enjoy!

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Decentering Men When it Comes to Casual Sex (PT 1) May 23, 2025

Hello hello! Back with a new ep and this time it's a mix of a few things. I answer a question from a listener about an ex watching his Instagram story. Then, I begin a conversation about the heavy and loaded topic of casual sex and what does that look like when we decenter men from the equation?

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Diving Into the Practice of "Decentering Men" Apr 25, 2025

Most of this episode is dedicated to talking about decentering men: a practice (and/or lifestyle) that calls for women (not exclusively women though) to center themselves and their needs and deprioritize catering to patriarchal demands. Listen now!

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Is It All My Fault? Plus: Do You Leave the City You Feel Unwanted In? Apr 03, 2025

I'm back!! March was a wild month, but very excited to get things going again. I talk about whether or not I might be emotionally unavailable after all (and what my therapist had to say about that) plus I answer a listener question about whether or not they should move to a new city for a better chance at finding love. Listen now and enjoy!

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Believe and Let Go Feb 26, 2025

This episode is a dive into ~manifestation~ and how it can relate to the previous episodes about "quitting" dating. Reframing the narrative! Plus, a few quick updates and more.

Send me your messages and questions!!

@vsinglepod on IG.

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What Does It Mean to "Quit" Dating - PART 2 Jan 24, 2025

Here's the rest of the conversation! Diving into the topic of "quitting" dating -- what that means, and why it's not as bleak as it sounds. Maybe. Listen to part one if you haven't yet, then immediately get into this!

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What Does It Mean to "Quit" Dating? PART 1 Jan 18, 2025

I gabbed too much on this one. It's a loaded topic!! So I've made it into two parts. Referencing an August 2024 article from Atlantic "The People Who Quit Dating" I dive into what this means and my personal relation to it. Next part will be posted in a couple of days.

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Never Say "Good Girl" To Me Jan 06, 2025

Back for a more productive 2025! Expect weekly episodes moving forward and if not, still a lot more frequent!!! For this week's episode, I dive into the movie Babygirl and how much it bugged me! But this is less about the movie itself and actually a wider conversation about how women are almost always portrayed as sexually submissive in mainstream erotic media.

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Updates, Messages, and Talkin' the 4B Movement Nov 19, 2024

Lots to catch up on! I give some personal life updates, then get into a message I recieved that has more to do with the previous episode about fatness in dating, and THEN get into the rise of the 4B Movement. Listen now!

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The Fatness Of It All, PART 1 Oct 08, 2024

This was a tough one to talk through because trust me, I don't want to sound negative about my body at all, but I tried to tackle the loaded topic of fatness and dating and the many complications and mixed signals that arise from being a fat woman on the dating scene. There will probably be a part two to this!

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Do I Respond? Aug 26, 2024

It's another solo ep...yay!! (I hope)

I dive into my little bullshit. Some life updates, and a general question I hope you'll respond to.

THEN, I answer a listener question about whether or not to respond to a love bomber's rejection message.

Listen now!

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It's Good to Talk About Dating -- With Rachele Friedland! Aug 05, 2024

I am joined by comedian Rachele Friedland, a fellow "active dater" who likes talking about this stuff! And is good at it! We had a great conversation covering a wide range of topics. You are going to want to listen to this bad boy!!!

Note: The audio quality isn't perfect because I am bad at audio technology and still learning. Totally still listenable though. And you should listen!

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Are We Always Thinking Long Term? Jul 19, 2024

Another solo ep (guest next episode!). I talk about a tarot reading I had which lead me to believe a tinder match might be my soul mate. Then I think out loud about the question: do we always get into relationships with people we see as our "forever person"?

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Comedians in Garages Getting REAL! Jul 11, 2024

Sorry for the hiatus! I have a good excuse this time (a medical emergency) so you can't be mad at me...

I have guests...three of them! I'm joined by my slightly younger friends Maddy Mulderry, Adam Sloves, and Hannah Carpenter. Live from inside Maddy's garage. We talk about how we each date, comfortability in dating, doling out rejection, and more. We also answer a question Maddy has...listen now!

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Something's Happening Here... Jun 23, 2024

Updates and musings. Going on more dates and actually...enjoying myself?! Not being pessimistic or cynical?! What is happening here? Tune in and catch up. I'll be back with a guest next episode!

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Back and SINGLE Once More Jun 11, 2024

I'm baaaaack. Again. Apologies for the hiatus but I have a good excuse. Your girl was in a whole ass relationship. For 4 months. Now it's over. I catch you all up on stuff, and promise you more episodes and consistency to come!

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The E&P Attraction Jan 13, 2024

Sharing some insight from a used book I found in an occult book store in the valley. Relationship Strategies: The E&P Attraction by John G. Kappas, PhD. This book highlights what Kappas refers to as "emotional sexual personality types" and "physical sexual personality types" and how we are attracted to the personality types opposite us. There's a lot, and you'll hear me saying freqiently, "Interesting". However, this book is not officially endorsed by me! It is...interesting...though.

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No, I'm Not Picky Jan 05, 2024

Some things discussed:

Texting sucks!!

What is a femcel?

Am I too picky?

Listen to the rambling. Write to vsinglepodcast@gmail.com with any questions or thoughts. Or, find it on Instagram at @vsinglepod.

V Single Theme by Jack Boger/Mirthquake!

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Back Again Dec 29, 2023

I'm baaaack. Again. Thanks for bearing with me! I catch you up a bit, and talk about some things annoying me. IE let's stop telling each other we're intimidating!

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Be a Slut Sep 06, 2023

Alison is solo again on this ep, giving some life updates but also talking about slut-shaming, sex work, and misogyny. She reads from her newsletter a piece that is yet to be published. Catch the sneak peek!

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Do I Want a Boyfriend? Aug 18, 2023

Alison and Alexandra sit down, catch up, and get more into the ultimate question: does Alison want a boyfriend or not? We also just generally catch up and talk about a lot of other little things. Listen in on the hang!

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Playing the Feeld & Limerance! Aug 11, 2023

The pod is back after a brief hiatus. This is a solo Alison episode which includes updates, thoughts, and feelings about the current dating highs and lows. Then, a deep dive into limerance! Send your stories and insight to vsinglepodcast@gmail.com! Or DM on Instagram, @vsinglepod.

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Venus in Leo Retrograde & Old Flings With Elizabeth Vazquez! Jul 21, 2023

This week I'm joined by one of my best friends since HIGH SCHOOL, and also an amazing artist and astrologer, Elizabeth Vazquez. We discuss Venus in Leo retrograde and what it means for your dating life.

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Therapy Speak Gone Wrong Jul 14, 2023

I am joined by Alexandra and we get into our life updates, including upcoming pregnancy plans and getting a venmo request from your date for drinks (guess whose updates are who). Then of course, we had to talk about the Jonah Hill text messages!

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Off The Apps With Jordan Sondler! Jun 30, 2023

This week I'm joined by artist and author of "Feel It Out", Jordan Sondler! Jordan talks about being off the dating apps completely, spirituality in dating, dating while fat, and so much more. Follow Jordan on all the socials @jordansondler!

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Navigating Casual Dating With Danielle Perez! Jun 22, 2023

In this episode I'm joined by comedian and actor Danielle Perez! First up my intro where I discuss my tips for how to enjoy living alone. Then the interview where Danielle and I discuss casual dating, the Madonna/Whore Complex, queer dating, and more! Find Danielle at @DivaDelux on socials and be sure to watch Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse in theaters now.

Email your questions to vsinglepodcast@gmail.com, or message on Instagram @vsinglepod.

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Being Mean to Yourself Isn't Hot Jun 14, 2023

Alison talks about something that turns her off, plus a book that claims to help you find a romantic partner in 7 weeks...HMM! Then she's joined by Alexandra and they do some catching up plus answer a listener question about whether or not to keep dating someone who lied about having a girlfriend.

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Back Hickeys & Musician Boyfriends Jun 07, 2023

It's the debut! Alison introduces herself to new listeners and talks about her current dating life. In the second half, she answers a question over whether or not someone should dump their traveling musician boyfriend.

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THIS JUST IN: V Single Returns! Jun 05, 2023

I'm baaaaack. That's right, I AM as in I, Alison Stevenson, return to V Single as your solo host. Don't worry, Alexandra will make many appearances still, but I'll be handling the pod overall on my own. Join me on this new iteration of the show, where we will dive deep into love & dating. Subscribe and join in on the fun!

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