Stay ConnectedIt’s time to take responsibility for the one thing that is holding us ALL back, our jacked up MINDSET! In order for you to “make it big,” or have more money than you’ve ever imagined you must first change the way you see the world.
Welcome to UnFu*k Your Mindset, your host Brayand ‘BP’ Ponciano, truly believes how you do anything is how you do everything. He is here to help you finally take responsibility, unravel, and rebuild your effed up mindset!
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Brayand talks about the fact that because most of us are creatures of habit, most of us are losing our minds having to be locked up in our house for a while. Anybody can be happy and positive when things are going great but your true character will show when things aren’t going good.
Choosing not to participate in the recession, meaning not letting it dictate you mind, your decisions and scare you.
Change equals opportunity and opportunity equals wealth. Every time something changes there’s going to be a need for something attached to that change, whatever it is.
The world will never be exactly the same as it was before we experienced COVID-19. Look at it as potential opportunities to do things differently, to get outside of the curve, to find more ways to create income. Whether you like it or not the world is going to continue changing.
If you are going through something right now, how many other people do you think are also going through it? If you take advantage of the opportunity, you can create wealth. Start looking at obstacles as opportunities instead of complaining about what’s going on.
This upcoming recession will be an amazing opportunity for those of you who make it an opportunity out of it and will be the downfall for those of you that let it be the downfall.
"You cannot fix your problems with the same mind that created them."
This week, Brayand talks to us about the importance of continued learning. He shares about working with his mentor’s and being in his classes for 10 years. They study the same book over and over again but he still shows up, listens, and pays attention.
Never stop learning. Be a "learn-it-all" and not a "know-it-all." The three most dangerous words to human beings are “I know that”. The only way that you know that you know is if you’re living it. He reminds us that nobody likes a know-it-all because they have no intentions of listening.
There’s always something that we can learn. This is often why you hear some of the great mention reading the same book 2-3 times over.....the book doesn’t change but you do.
The best entrepreneurs and successful business owners know there is always something you can learn from someone else even if you already heard it before. Brayand has learned over time that the results are not the reward, it’s who you have to become to get there that becomes the reward.
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"We all get what we believe deep down that we deserve."
In this episode Brayand talks about an experience with one of his one on one coaching clients and how when most people mention "the problem" or what they are struggling with, its usually much deeper. Brayand challenges us to ask ourselves the right question as it's critical to focus on the root and not the symptom.
If you don’t continue working on your mindset, whether things are good or bad, at some point your mindset is going to retract back to the same ways that got you stuck.
BP provided some key insights for us to reflect on:
Not feeling worthy. Deep down inside, do you really think you’re worthy?
Fear of success. Most people are scared of success. People say they are not scared and that they are worthy but deep inside they don’t really believe it.
We all get what deep down inside we believe that we deserve. People keep on getting on the same situation. People don’t believe that they deserve happiness or making money without stressing.
We are taught that if we want anything we must work really hard for it. It doesn’t take money to make money, it just takes creativity. If you don’t truly believe it , it’s not going to happen.
You are worthy, but none of it means anything if you don’t believe it.
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"You are the sum of the people you surround yourself with."
Ever heard that? Some people believe they are exempt from the rule but Brayand breaks down clearly that that simply is not true. He explains that every single time if you show people who you hang around with than that shows who you really are.
Brayand opens up about what many won't by saying, "I don't have regular friends, I don't hang out with people who are not business owners or entrepreneurs." Brayand explains this is not because he thinks he superior but because he himself was once poor but because he gave up being an employee. He committed to himself that he would never ever again work for someone else, and thats something people with 9-5's don't understand.
Brayand admits that he learned early on that he can only hang out with people he wants to be like, if he's doesn't want to be like them than its detrimental to his growth. What he wants most people to understand is that this is the case with most friendships because you tend to mold yourself or others to fit in anyway, it's just a matter of what you are becoming to fit in and the goal should be that you are mimicking or copying something that brings you growth.
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Enough is enough, right? It feels like we are on day 571955 of this quarantine and the excessive fear only seems to be on the rise.
This episode is important because Brayand wants you to understand what you are experiencing and why it's important you control what's controllable. You are not alone, and the more fear you enroll in by choice, the more you anticipate pain. The only thing to fear, is fear itself and fear is anticipating tomorrow with no real evidence.
F.E.A.R. = False Evidence Appearing Real
The more we allow the media to instill fear in us we provoke the energy behind it which gives power to attracting more bullshit, more fear, and stupid decisions, etc. and it becomes a vicious cycle. When the truth is, most of the things we tell ourselves in our most fearful moments about what could happen actually never will.
Our survival relies on us NOT feeding into fear right now.
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In todays episode, Brayand addresses everything we are currently dealing with around the coronavirus. Are you tired of hearing this yet and everything the media has told you about it?
He explains how the medias job is to take away our focus and keep us coming back to read and check-in over and over and over. He uncovers what's real and what's not and how we as humans were created to handle situations like this. Trauma, blanketed fear, and anything that is leading us straight to the unknown is always going to show us who people really are. Brayand helps us understand that how we are when life is simple and easy makes sense but who we are is truly tested in times like these.
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"I am a smart man because I live from my own mistakes, but I am a FUCKING genius for learning from other peoples mistakes."
While it makes since to fail and learn lessons on your own, in this episode Brayand reminds us that we DO NOT have enough time in this life time to learn every single one of them the hard way. It is imperative that we become open to learning rom the mistakes of others.
If you think that "working on yourself is boring" then you must consider that in order to stay above the rest and groom your mind to maintain at a high level than you must treat personal growth like brushing your teeth and taking a shower, it has to be done every single day.
Some of our biggest mistakes are included in our daily habits or the lack there of. Evolution over time has proved to us that the hardest part of unf*cking your mind is society constantly reinforces what everyone is doing as the "way."
Grab your notepad and make sure you are taking notes during this episode!
While "sleep when your dead" seems to be a popular saying these days and something many entrepreneurs live by, Brayand breaks down exactly why it's not!
As a child, the saying "be the first one in and last one out" was instilled in Brayand so much that he even got it tattooed on him. Only to realize later, it's complete bullshit! It's not the right or healthy way to run anything that you want to last. The age old story, "slow and steady wins the race" is something Brayand has found to be true now more than ever otherwise your faced with burnout and most times little results.
When networking with seasoned investors and entrepreneurs the advice Brayand has received has NEVER been, make sure you work until the sun comes up. He has only heard over and over to prioritize family, build a business you love, and don't sacrifice the things that matter because you'll be miserable.
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There is no better question to ask yourself before listening to this episode than, "are you truly happy?"
For many, this is where most people get stuck. The unfortunately reality of living in a capitalist country is how spoiled we've become and how we are never satisfied with what we have. We are all on a fleeting journey of acquiring everything we don't need to meet some unachievable level of success or status.
In this episode, Brayand talks about learning the hard way that happiness is truly a state of mind. During one of his trips to Haiti, Brayand opens up about learning that one of the happiest people he met in Haiti also was sleeping in a shack on the floor with his entire family. How the children there were the happiest when playing with rocks and coke bottles, and they wanted for nothing more.
Whether you are struggling to secure your first deal, wondering when you'll have enough money to buy a new car, get a bigger house, or just find the perfect spouse.....this episode is a MUST! because Brayand explains exactly why happiness is NOT on the other side of "obtaining something" but it is in everything you have right now.
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