Trying Not to Care

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It’s Not All Men, But It’s Always a Man Oct 05, 2026

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In this episode, I’m talking about the Cornell 7, the “not all men” conversation, and the reality of living as a woman in a world where we’re constantly taught how to protect ourselves, yet so often questioned when something happens to us.

This episode isn’t me saying that every man is dangerous. It’s about why so many women feel like we have to be cautious all the time, why we don’t always know who is safe, and why somehow the blame so often ends up being put back on us.

I know this is a heavy conversation, but I felt like it was something I needed to talk about. I hope this episode reminds you that you’re not alone, that your fear is valid, and that there is power in women talking about these things openly and believing each other. 🤍

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Being Disliked by Losers Is the Price You Pay for Not Being One Sep 28, 2026

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In this episode, I talk about why people will always have opinions about you and why you shouldn't care. From projection and insecurity to outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and putting yourself out there, we’ll get into why being authentic and ambitious sometimes mean being misunderstood.

You can’t live a life that’s true to you while constantly worrying about how it looks to everyone else.

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How to Be Kind Without Being a Pushover Sep 21, 2026

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Being kind doesn’t make you a pushover...being kind without boundaries does. 😐 In this episode, I talk about the difference between having a good heart and abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable.

I also break down 5 practical ways to be kind without being a pushover:
1. Being kind without needing to sacrifice your boundaries
2. Give because you want to, not because you feel obligated to
3. Be soft in tone but firm in substance
4. Be interested without becoming responsible
5. Match effort instead of constantly compensating for other people

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How to Rebrand Your Life This Fall 🤎🍂 Sep 14, 2026

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I'M BACK & I MISSED YOU ALL SO MUCH! In this episode, we're kicking off fall with a lil rebrand ✨ How to reset your life, figure out who you want to become, break habits that aren’t serving you, romanticize your routines, declutter your life, and actually start showing up as the version of yourself you’ve been wanting to be. If you’re looking to reset, feel more put together, motivated, and excited about your life again, this one’s for you. 🍂

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If They Want You, You Won’t Have to Question It Aug 24, 2026

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I’M MARRIED!!! 💍🤍 After almost 10 years together, Josh and I finally got married! As excited as I am for this new season of life, before I come back from our honeymoon, I wanted to take a step back and talk about our relationship and what I’ve learned from being in unhealthy relationships before Josh. I’m sharing the biggest differences I’ve noticed between the relationships that made me question myself and the kind of love I have now...where I feel secure, supported, respected, and completely myself.

We’re talking about confusing chemistry with love, mistaking the bare minimum for effort, feeling like you have to earn someone’s love, and why the right relationship shouldn’t make you feel like you have to choose between yourself and the person you’re with.

Whether you’re single, dating, in a situationship, or happily in a relationship, I hope this episode gives you a little perspective on what love should actually feel like. 💕

Stop Feeling Bad for Being Young - The Pressure to Be Perfect in Your 20s Aug 17, 2026

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As I step into a new chapter of my life, I’ve been thinking a lot about how much pressure I put on myself throughout my 20s to have everything figured out. In this episode, I’m talking about the anxiety that comes with feeling behind...whether it’s your career, money, relationships, or just not knowing what you’re doing with your life. I’m sharing some of the things I wish I understood earlier, like why changing your mind isn’t failure, why experiences aren’t a waste of time or money, and why you don’t need a 10-year plan at 22.

If you’ve been feeling behind or like you should have everything figured out by now, I hope this episode reminds you to stop feeling guilty for being exactly where you are.

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How I Became My Own Boss - Influencing, Podcasts, Working for Myself Aug 10, 2026

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4 years ago, I almost quit podcasting because I felt like I was wasting my time and no one was listening. Two weeks later, I had an idea to promote my podcast on TikTok, and that one video completely changed everything. I went from 200 listens per week to charting number 1 in podcasts on Spotify and Apple.

In this episode, I’m taking you guys behind the scenes of how I went from working a job I didn’t love to quitting, becoming my own boss, starting Trying Not to Care, and eventually turning social media and podcasting into my full-time job. I’m talking about the mistakes I made, what I wish I knew sooner, how I started making money as a creator, and what actually helped me grow.

If you’ve ever thought about starting a podcast, growing on social media, or trying to turn something you love into a career, this episode is is filled with some advice that I wish someone had told me when I was starting out. 🎙️✨📸

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For the Brides 💍 - Planning a Wedding, Real or Fake Flowers, Being a Non Traditional Bride, Family Drama, and Is He the One? ADVICE SESSION #17 Aug 03, 2026

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Planning a wedding comes with a lot of questions, and it can be hard to know what's actually worth stressing over. After spending the last year and a half planning my own wedding, I've learned a lot through the process. In today's advice session, I'm giving you my thoughts and best tips that have helped me. If you're a bride who's feeling overwhelmed by wedding planning, whether it's the budget, the decisions, the guest list, or just figuring out where to start, this advice session is for you!! 💍

Questions in today's episode 👰‍♀️
1. Where do you even start with wedding planning?
2. What were the high ticket things that were most important to add to your wedding?
3. What has been the hardest part about planning a wedding?
4. What did you do for florals? I can’t decide whether to do fake flowers or real because I keep getting quoted so much at florists
5. Thoughts on being non traditional and seeing the groom before to the private vow?
6. Your thoughts on a childless wedding?
7. How to deal with family you don’t want to invite cause of past drama? how do you deal with pity invites?
8. How did you determine who and how many guests to invite?
9. Advice on friends not showing up for you/ and handling bachelorette planning anxiety?
10. Any advice on how you’re not letting yourself stress on the day?
11. How did you know he was the “right” one?

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Let People Be Weird and Move On With Your Life Jul 27, 2026

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Sometimes you just gotta accept people move extremely weird and move on!!!

Why Your Friendships Make You Feel Anxious Jul 20, 2026

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Have you ever felt anxious in a friendship but couldn't really explain why? Maybe you're constantly overthinking conversations, wondering if your friend is mad at you, feeling like you're the one putting in all the effort, or questioning whether you're just "too sensitive." In today's episode, we're talking about the real reasons your friendships might be making you feel anxious, and why those feelings aren't always something you should ignore.

This episode covers:
❤️‍🩹Why one-sided friendships leave you constantly questioning where you stand
❤️‍🩹 How emotional inconsistency and mixed signals can make you overthink everything
❤️‍🩹What happens when you start sacrificing your own needs just to keep the peace
❤️‍🩹Why not feeling accepted for who you truly are creates so much anxiety

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