Triggered AF

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The Secret to Living an Amazing Life You Love - EP 157 Jan 07, 2025

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In this inspiring episode of the TriggeredAF Podcast, we sit down with Taneisha Bernal, a celebrity personal chef, entrepreneur, and powerhouse in the kitchen. Taneisha shares her incredible journey from humble beginnings to becoming a sought-after chef for the stars, offering valuable insights on how to design a life you truly love.

In this episode, we cover:

Believing in Yourself, Even When No One Else Does Taneisha opens up about the importance of self-belief on the road to success. She explains why your personal faith in yourself is essential, even when external validation is absent, and how to cultivate a mindset that propels you forward in the face of doubt.
The Necessary Sacrifices for Success Success doesn't come without its sacrifices. Taneisha talks about the hard choices she's made on her path, from late nights to using her lunch break to meal prep, and how understanding these sacrifices is crucial for anyone pursuing their dreams.
Pursuing Your Dreams While Working a 9-5 A key topic in today's conversation is how to balance pursuing your passion with maintaining a steady job. Taneisha shares her tips for managing both worlds and how to make incremental progress toward your goals without burning out or losing momentum.
Building a Life You Love Taneisha provides practical advice for anyone looking to take control of their future, overcome fears, and transform their dreams into reality. From setting goals to making real, actionable changes in your daily life, she gives listeners the tools to live with purpose and passion.

This episode is packed with motivation, actionable tips, and a reminder that no dream is too big when you're willing to work for it.

SPONSORED BY:

Just Thrive Now Expansion Program, visit to learn more: http://justthrivenow.com

CONNECT WITH YOUR GUESTS:

Taneisha Bernal

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/tcookswithflave/?hl=en

Youtube| https://www.youtube.com/c/TCooksWithFlave

Website | https://rileysfestivalmix.com/

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

Creating Your Dream Birth Experience Through Self-Advocacy - EP 156 Dec 12, 2024

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The Black maternal health crisis is a reality that affects thousands of women and families every year. But what can we do to change the narrative and create empowered birth experiences? In this episode, we're joined by Nicky Dawkins, author of A Kids Book About Periods, full-spectrum doula, and feminine health influencer, to explore how to navigate the challenges of childbirth and how to reclaim the joy, power, and peace in the process.

Nicky shares her invaluable insights on advocating for yourself in medical spaces, building a birth plan that reflects your desires, and forming a community that supports your vision. From understanding the language of care to finding resources that help you feel informed and confident, this conversation is packed with actionable advice for birthing people and their families.

Nicky's wisdom is a game-changer for anyone preparing for childbirth, whether it's your first time or your fifth. She reminds us that creating a dream birth experience is not about perfection—it's about empowerment, preparation, and community. Whether you're expecting, supporting a loved one, or simply curious about improving maternal health outcomes, this episode will leave you informed, inspired, and ready to take action.

SPONSORED BY:

Just Thrive Now Expansion Program, visit to learn more: http://justthrivenow.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTABLES:

Doulas don't deliver!
Surround yourself with people, like doulas and advocates, who respect and uplift your vision for your birth experience.
Learn the language to clearly articulate your needs, set boundaries, and advocate for yourself in medical spaces.
Do Your Research to gather credible information to make informed decisions that align with your values and goals.
Why creating a detailed birth plan is essential and how it empowers you to take control of your experience.

CONNECT WITH YOUR GUESTS:

Nicky Dawkins

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thankyounicky/

Website | https://www.menstrualdoula.com

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

The Secret to What Men Really Want – EP 155 Dec 04, 2024

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What do men really want in relationships? It's not always what you think. In this episode, we uncover the surprising truths about what men desire from their partners. Beyond physical attraction or sexual chemistry, men value clarity, partnership, and emotional connection. In this eye-opening episode, we're pulling back the curtain on the unspoken truths - straight from 3 horses' mouths - the owners of Fly Supply Clothing about what men desire in a partner. Spoiler alert: it's not just about looks or sexual chemistry.

Men want more than just surface-level connections—they crave clarity, partnership, and feeling genuinely wanted, too. And, if he's not providing clarity, he might not see you as the one, and that's a truth we all need to hear. This episode dives deep into how men value partners who share their journey as co-pilots, not just passengers.

Watch it on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/5u3cEFyZOyk

SPONSORED BY:

Just Thrive Now Expansion Program, visit to learn more: http://justthrivenow.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTABLES:

If a man avoids providing clarity about your relationship, it's a sign he may not truly want to invest in you.
Feeling desired and appreciated is just as important to men as it is to women.
Men seek a partner who actively contributes to the relationship and life goals—a co-pilot, not just someone along for the ride.
Relationships thrive when both partners prioritize mutual respect, support, and shared growth.

CONNECT WITH YOUR GUESTS:

Reginald Bourdeau, Garrett Brown, & KP

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/reginaldbourdeau/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/gb_king_fsc

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/socialkapital.llc

Website | https://flysupplyclothing.com

Podcast | https://4qtrs.media

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4qtrs-podcast/id1687284460

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

How to Fix Yourself Leveraging Personal Accountability – EP 154 Nov 27, 2024

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Personal accountability is a game-changer, but it requires one thing many of us avoid: telling ourselves the truth. Personal accountability and radical self-honesty are conjoined twins and even when your best isn't good enough, sitting in that uncomfortable truth leads to growth.

In this raw and honest conversation, we explore what it means to face reality, even when it's painful. Acknowledging when your best isn't meeting the standards you've set is tough, but it's also the foundation for true growth. This episode offers powerful insights on how to navigate the gap between where you are and where you want to be—without falling into self-criticism or shame.

🛠️ What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why personal accountability starts with radical self-honesty.
How to acknowledge your limitations while maintaining grace for yourself.

When you accept the truth of your circumstances, you give yourself the freedom to evolve. It's not about perfection—it's about progress, even when your best feels like it's barely enough.

This episode will empower you to take responsibility for your life, reclaim your confidence, and embrace the transformative power of personal accountability.

Tune in now and discover how to fix yourself—not by being perfect, but by being real.

Watch the conversation on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/B0wAb1sFeVY

SPONSORED BY:

Just Thrive Now Expansion Program, visit to learn more: http://justthrivenow.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTABLES:

Acknowledge your limitations while maintaining grace for yourself, and the truth.
The truth is the truth whether or not you fall short.
Facts are not feelings, and it's okay that we honor them even when it doesn't feel good.
It's hardest to honor and hold your standards when confronted by opposing and outside forces.

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

Top Tools to Better Understand and Date Men – EP 153 Nov 20, 2024

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Are you struggling to understand and date men? This episode is your game-changer! We dive into surprising truths about men that no one's talking about—and they might just help you avoid the most common dating mistakes. Many believe the dating pool has "piss in it", but could the real issue be a lack of understanding between men and women?

In this candid conversation, we sat down with Kofi "Kizzle" Forson, the founder of Express Yourself Black Man. Together, we explore:

Why common dating beliefs are holding you back.
How to bridge the communication gap between men and women.
Tools and insights to build healthier, more fulfilling connections.

If you've ever found yourself frustrated, confused, or just plain over it in the dating world, tune in to this episode for actionable advice straight from the source. Don't miss this transformative episode! Listen, subscribe, and share with a friend who could use it.

Watch the conversation on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/ve2SP6NOEJk

SPONSORED BY:

Just Thrive Now Expansion Program, visit to learn more: http://justthrivenow.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTABLES:

"It's okay to be human."
"Not acknowledging your emotions is actually illogical."
"Mothers are the first spokesperson for women to men."
"There's more to life than just providing financially."
"Being hyper-developed in one area, but underdeveloped in every other area leads to challenges in every part of your life."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Kofi "Kizzle" Forson

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman/

TikTok |https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman

Website: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

Powerful Tools to Manage Your ADHD Replay – EP 151 Oct 23, 2024

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It's estimated that ADHD affects more than 8 million adults (or up to 5% of Americans) and 6.1% of children. Unfortunately, many people don't even know they have it. For decades, people with ADHD have been ignored, dismissed and even derided. As one of the most misunderstood diagnoses, it's easy for ADHD to be treated like a joke or a superpower, even though it's neither. NYT best selling author of "How to ADHD", Jessica McCabe, dives deep into everything from how the brain of a person with ADHD works to how their loved ones can better understand and support them. Jessica opens up about what it was like to be the one with "potential" who could never quite bring it to fruition. Tap into this week's episode if you have ADHD or love someone with it for some great tips on how to navigate it successfully.

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/z4lIxTgL1cU?si=RDB7FMJmrHohXIO2

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

ADHD is not a joke or a superpower.
Make space for hyperfocus but install guardrails in your mind to stay on track.
Studies have shown that ADHD may be polygenetic.
Pills don't teach skills. Simply medicating your child is not enough.
Instead of telling someone to "calm down", try telling them to "slow down."
Try to work with your unique brain rather than fight against it.

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Jessica McCabe

Website: https://howtoadhd.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/howtoadhd

TedxTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/jessica_mccabe_this_is_what_it_s_really_like_to_live_with_adhd_jan_2017?language=en

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtoadhd/?hl=en

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Unlock the Secret to Manifesting Your Vision Faster Replay - EP 150 Oct 16, 2024

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Your Triggered AF hosts welcome one of their favorite creators and woman who boldly lives out loud, Melissa Mitchell. An entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker, Melissa is a master manifesting artist who believes fiercely in authenticity, honoring the season you're in, and gratitude as the greatest downpayment for your future.

Tune in as she drops some serious gems and gives you the permission to dream and receive. You are, as she says, just "one away".

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6Ony-wVBDzM

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS:

- "When I show up as myself, that's my entry fee"

- What is the art of allowing?

- Remaining focused on the destination but open to the route

- Why it's not about being good, it's about being in alignment

- Treat everything as it's the next biggest thing

- The value of being a constant student of life

- How you're one away from whatever it is you're waiting on

QUOTABLES:

"I just think being me, once I decided that was enough, it became the entry fee to a lot of things."
"If you're really hungry for something, you'll show up like it is the best opportunity every single time."
"When you're on the right path of gratitude, you become a magnet for more."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Learn more about Melissa Mitchell and her art at melissaamitchell.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/abeillecreations

Website: https://www.melissaamitchell.com/

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluelive.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

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Key Ways To Ask For and Get What You Want Replay - EP 149 Oct 09, 2024

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For many women, it is often easier to show up for someone else rather than themselves. When it comes to those "big asks" and things that require us to step into our self-worth and higher selves, we may feel unworthy or even start smelling like fear. This is where chief activator and lifestyle business coach, Lucinda Cross, comes in! Tune in as Lucinda shares her glory story from incarceration to CEO, empowering women to forgo expectations and tap into what they really want and need. Don't miss this straight-talking powerhouse as she empowers us all to start choosing ourselves in all areas of life. Afterall, "It's a ME season."

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/P_6wiY07KWI?si=UZwQUy2B1t-69Nua

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS:

Women are trained from a young age to accept what they're given
The significance of the word activate to Lucinda Cross
Lucinda's glory story - connecting to women through authenticity
Your energy is the real currency
What is the biggest inhibitor to our desires?

QUOTABLES:

"It's always a waiting game for us to accept what we're given versus going after what we deserve and desire."

"I didn't realize how many women wake up and voluntarily incarcerate themselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually."

"We're constantly told we need to do more of something to get clear, when you don't. Clarity will give you everything and ask for nothing"

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Lucinda Cross

Learn more about Lucinda Cross and her work at: Lucindacross.com

IG | instagram.com/lucindacross

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluelive.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

For more info, visit their website: www.triggeredafpodcast.com

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How to Improve your Money Mindset Replay – EP 148 Oct 02, 2024

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Former Wall Street analyst and founder of Empify, Ashley M. Fox, describes how simply putting yourself in certain spaces can create the opportunity to expand your life. You must create an abundant mindset in order to attract abundance. We attract who we are and not what we want; therefore, training your mind to believe you are worthy of things is essential to accomplishing your goals. Ashley dives into the alignment of priorities in order to create generational wealth and invest in your future. Those that are wealthy subscribe to the mentality that they are deserving of wealth. You must feel like you are worthy of the lifestyle that you desire to bring it to fruition.

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KrcQV6eHQL4

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS:

You have to put yourself in uncomfortable places to become comfortable.
Trust that you know yourself better than anyone else.
Do not allow others' stories or experiences to determine your reality.
Remove the psychological blocks and words from your mind that hold you back.
Wealth does not have a benchmark.
Investing is not an option, it is a standard.

QUOTABLES:

"You don't attract what you want, you attract who you are."

"Your talent can get you into places that your character can kick you out of."

"If you have the money to spend on a company, you have enough money to invest."

"Learn the rules so you can break them like an artist."

"You cannot save your way to wealth."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Ashley M. Fox

Website | https://www.empify.com

IG | https://www.instagram.com/_ashleymfox

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluelive.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

For more info, visit their website: www.triggeredafpodcast.com

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Top Ways to Avoid Common Dating Mistakes Replay – EP 147 Sep 24, 2024

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Are you confused and frustrated out here in these dating streets? With the rise of social media and its impact on who, where and how we date, it's easy to get caught up in how love should look rather than what it actually is. As much as we all want love, are we really willing to do what it takes to obtain it, cultivate it and then sustain it for years to come? We're joined by psychotherapist, media personality, award-winning speaker and 5 time best-selling author, the "King of Breakthroughs", Jack A. Daniels, to help give us a compass and much needed direction on the journey to finding true love and keeping it. From the three types of men women should NEVER date to the places where single women should NEVER live and what's keeping you loveless, we are getting the goods straight from the "horse's mouth." Tap into this week's episode and don't say we never gave y'all nothing!

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KEjwWn8izD8

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

"Your 'list' could be what's keeping you loveless."
Three types of men you shouldn't be dating: the Peacock, the Project and the Penis.
"Bad questions get bad answers, ask the hard questions."
Focus on values instead of valuables.
The more options you have, the less decisions you tend to make.
Most people cheat because they want something easy.