Tres Leches

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BIG MILK ENERGY Sep 19, 2025

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The LECHE is overflowing this week - no guest - just Johnny, Ian, and Juan going back to basics (cue Christina Aguilera) with a supersized spilled milk! From cool girl dating dilemmas, to shower hook ups with straight besties, from toxic work environments, to manifesting cozy fall energy, (maybe with a bae, maybe not) we’re pouring a whole gallon of unfiltered spilled milk and sharp advice. Strap and get comfy because we’re coming at you fast ….(cue Demi Lovato).

MUTE ME DADDY! Sep 12, 2025

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The call is coming from inside the house, milkers! 🚨 This week, we dive deep into Netflix’s Unknown Caller—the catfish doc that proves sometimes the real stalker is closer than you think (hi, Mom 👀). From deranged texts to diabolical parenting, Johnny, Ian, and Juan unpack the drama, drag Sid the Sloth’s doppelgänger, and confess their own lurkiest stalker moments. Plus, we get real about muting, blocking, and whether deleting the app is actually helping… or just hiding the chips in the cupboard.

Tune in, and tell us: what’s the stalkeriest thing YOU’VE ever done?

Homo Sweet Homo 🏡✨ Sep 05, 2025

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This week, we’re getting cozy and talking home — the spaces we dream about, the ones we build, and the ones that live rent-free in our heads.

Johnny shares how creating his perfect nook in Austin (and his childhood Hollywood-inspired bedroom, rope lights and all) became a full-circle moment.

Ian takes us on a tour of his favorite movie and TV homes, from You’ve Got Mail to Nancy Meyers kitchens, while Juan spills on design inspo, nostalgia, and why finding “your place” matters more than ever.

From Architectural Digest deep dives to $300 mattresses, RuPaul-level opulence to Anthony Porowski coziness, we unpack how our homes reflect who we are — and who we’re becoming.

Plus, it’s Johnny’s birthday (!!), so expect peak Virgo energy and plenty of laughs along the way.

Hit play, get comfy, and maybe start reimagining your own nook. 🛋️✨

Gays Behaving Badly! Aug 29, 2025

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💍 Taylor’s ring, Thomas Kinkade paintings, and…Lil Nas X’s arrest?? This week the girls go IN. Ian, Johnny, and Juan unpack the engagement of Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce (pear-shaped or cushion cut? we have thoughts), then tumble down a rabbit hole of Thomas Kinkade, gay genes we don’t have, and why tacky can also be gorgeous.

But the heart of the episode? A deep conversation about Lil Nas X, public scandal, and the double standards queer people—especially Black queer people—face when they “behave badly.” From George Michael to Jussie Smollett to Britney Spears, we talk grace, redemption, and why queer mess so often becomes a cautionary tale instead of a comeback story.

And of course, we bring our own raw receipts— waking up in the wrong house, VIP shopping gone sideways, and listener submissions that had us SCREAMING. (Shoutout to the dad/son mix-up 👀).

Listen, laugh, judge us a little, but mostly—offer grace.

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Abs Are a Scam and I Want Them Anyway Aug 22, 2025

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The Tres Leches crew is cracking open Netflix’s Fit for TV and the chaos of The Biggest Loser era — where fatphobia was the main character and diet culture ruled reality TV. We’re talking Hunger Games-level weigh-ins, caffeine pills, and producers who cared more about drama than health.

But we’re also getting personal: the shady comments that stuck, the Grindr hookups gone wrong, and why even “hot” gays spiral about abs, carbs, and Equinox memberships. From Ozempic to body positivity to living in a world where you’re somehow hypervisible and invisible at the same time… we’re asking the messy, juicy question: what does it actually mean to love your body when everyone else has an opinion about it?

Carrie's Last Cosmo Aug 15, 2025

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This final round of Cosmos is on us…

Just like our favorite girls, the Tres Leches crew takes one last stroll down memory lane—sorry, I mean, Fifth Avenue—to celebrate and eulogize the end of And Just Like That. From the OG Sex and the City, to the movies, to the HBO Max reboot, Ian, Johnny, and Juan give the franchise a proper send-off, reminiscing about iconic fashion moments, the New York that was, the New York that is, and why these fictional friendships have felt so real for so long. We get candid about the show's missteps (yes, we clocked Lisa Wexley’s plotline), the absence of Samantha, and what Carrie's final chapter says about love, loneliness, and self-reinvention. Plus, listener reflections, fashion favorites, and one last toast to our day-one divas.

UNCUT AND UNAVAILABLE Aug 03, 2025

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Ian’s back from Madrid and baby, he brought back more than Jamon Iberico. In this jam(on)-packed episode, the Leches unpack directionless orbiting, male vulnerability (or lack thereof), and the real reason no one's texting back—hint: it’s not you, it’s the algorithm. Johnny shares about his expectations in friendship, Juan gives a crash course in digital dating fatigue, and Ian cries in a garden, obviously. Also, Ian compliments himself more than 17 times. So, there’s that. Plus, a Brazil-Ian love story ( see what we did there? ;), a margarita meltdown, and Ian’s strong opinion on circuit music.

Is connection dead? Or are we just tired, horny, and too online? Send this to someone who needs to stop watching your stories and start texting back. And don’t forget to rate, like, subscribe, and share with someone who gets it—or really needs to. 💋

Ghosted IN THIS ECONOMY?! Jul 12, 2025

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Hola Milkers! Que tal!? Vale! It's a Tres Leches solo episode! The dolls are back together—no guests, just vibes. This week, Ian, Johnny, and Juan reflect on post-Pride energy, romantic misfires, healing through hobbies, and why we don’t have to earn joy to feel it. Ian shares a vulnerable moment about getting stood up at 4am (with a $65 Uber receipt to prove it), Johnny reveals how a pottery class cracked open something deeper, and Juan talks about working too much and sleeping too little—even while being deeply loved. “At what point is enough enough?”

We talk about play, pride, body image, childhood joy, and how sometimes, healing looks like biking to a party in short shorts. Also: Do not ghost your hookups, and remember—being in your prime isn’t about being perfect.

Rate, review, and share with a fellow milker. 💋

MARTIna McPRIDE Jun 29, 2025

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Hi Milkers!! Happy Pride!!! This week, we’re joined by the one and only Marti Gould Cummings! Not only are they a walking International drag artist institution, they are a political powerhouse, and this year’s 2025 NYC Pride Grand Marshal. Claps for Marti !!!

We talk about the full-circle magic of marching in your first Pride at the age of 17… and then leading it 20 years later. Marti opens up about their journey from nightlife icon to political organizer, how drag became a tool for visibility and advocacy, and the mentors who helped shape their path — from Patina Miller gifting them their first drag wardrobe, to Gavin Creel offering the encouragement that would change their everything. We miss you Gav...

We talk chosen family, and why joy is a radical act- especially now!

This one’s a love letter to QUEER resilience, showing up for your community, and becoming the person you needed when you were younger. We loved this conversation and we know you will too.

Wish You Were Queer! (ft. Tim Murray & Michael Henry) Jun 22, 2025

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This week the ultimate comedy duo baby angels Tim Murray and Michael Henry, viral comedians and creators join us to talk about their OUTtv series Wish You Were Queer — The series follows Michael and Tim, who — for the first time — perform stand-up on the road across North America together, with help from executive producer Trixie Mattel. It’s giving road trip, it’s giving dick jokes, it’s giving gay missionary work (but backwards). We cover stand-up horror stories, peacocking through small towns, the fine line between heckling and foreplay, and why the girls who grew up on Rosie and Ragtime are built different.

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