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EP 27: Reflect, Celebrate, and Envision Dec 25, 2024

In this inspiring episode, we explore the power of reflection, resilience, and setting intentions for the year ahead. As we embrace the lessons of 2024 and look to the opportunities of 2025, we dive into personal growth, triumphs, and the value of overcoming life’s obstacles.

A special shoutout to Natalia Sanchez, a cherished listener who loves our family segments—stay tuned for an exciting mix of guest appearances, solo episodes, and more moments with the kids next year.

We also spotlight Linda J, an exceptional Orlando realtor, in our "Her Voice, Her Story" segment. Hear how her dedication and expertise made my first home-buying experience unforgettable, and gain inspiration to celebrate your own milestones and the support systems that lift you up.

Discover the transformative power of vision boards as I share my journey from skeptic to believer, balancing aspirations with gratitude. Plus, we tackle parenting challenges, including teaching empathy by addressing real-life situations, like bullying, to help shape compassionate kids.

As we move forward together, I thank you, our listeners, for your unwavering support. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—your engagement keeps our community thriving. Here’s to growth, gratitude, and an incredible year ahead!

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EP 26: The Gift and Curse of Shame Dec 10, 2024

Tying a tie for my son's homecoming was more than knots and loops—it was a moment of reflection on shame and societal expectations. This simple task became a mirror, revealing the pressures and feelings of inadequacy we all face. In this episode, I share how shame, while often a moral guide, can also become a barrier if left unchecked. Raised in the church as a Florida girl, I explore how faith and life experiences taught me to embrace uncomfortable truths and use shame as a tool for growth and authenticity.

From navigating school struggles to meeting familial expectations, we delve into the deep-rooted societal pressures faced by daughters, particularly Black women. I recount five pivotal moments of vulnerability, illustrating how feelings of inadequacy shaped my identity and led to cycles of shame and disruptive behaviors. These stories reveal how reading struggles and the weight of parental expectations influenced my sense of self and the coping mechanisms I developed.

We also examine the emotional toll of absent fathers and the challenges of single motherhood. Through personal anecdotes and reflection, I discuss the guilt and struggles mothers face in filling the gaps left by non-participating fathers, and how this affects children's identities. My story of teen pregnancy and isolation is shared to inspire strength in vulnerability. This episode is a call to build community support, embrace unique narratives, and find healing through openness and understanding.

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EP 25: Being A Bum Is Contagious Feat. Carla Wilmaris Dec 03, 2024

Feeling weighed down by invisible burdens? Join me and my guest, Carla Wilmaris , as we share stories of releasing the "dead weight" in our lives—whether it’s relationships, jobs, or overconfidence that no longer serve us. Through honest reflections, including my experience with a difficult first marriage, we discuss how letting go creates space for personal growth and well-being.

We also explore the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships and evolving relationships, using my friendship with Carla as an example. From clear communication to addressing changes before they turn toxic, we highlight the importance of maintaining balance and protecting personal space.

In a playful yet insightful segment, "Pick it Up and Preach," we turn a sticky pad into a metaphor for sharing blessings and embracing vulnerability. This episode is all about fostering self-acceptance, setting healthy boundaries, and finding courage to release what no longer serves us.

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EP 24:Shifting Fatherhood Dynamic Nov 26, 2024

Join us as we explore the complexities of teenage life and family dynamics. In this episode, I sit down with my 14-year-old daughter, Hailey, a high school freshman and cheerleader, to discuss her experiences navigating friendships, academic pressures, and the balance between independence and safety. We’re also joined by her protective older brother, Andre, who shares his perspective on sibling relationships and support.

Hailey opens up about reconnecting with her father after years of absence and reflects on the emotional impact of parental choices. We also discuss a tragic story of a teen's attachment to an AI chatbot, raising questions about human connection and societal shifts.

Through candid conversations, we highlight the value of empathy, open communication, and intentional relationships within families. This heartfelt episode invites you to reflect on growth and connection in the lives of teenagers and their families.

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EP 23: Parenting in the Spotlight Nov 20, 2024

Should children be compensated for their appearances on social media, just like they are for chores? We tackle this provocative question as we explore the intricate ethics of family vlogging. With examples like the LeBrants and Ruby Frankie, the conversation traverses the fine line between sharing genuine family moments and exploiting children for profit. Our discussion encourages you to reflect on the importance of giving children a voice and setting boundaries in the digital age.

In a touching exchange with my son Dre, we delve into his journey navigating social media as a 16-year-old. Dre candidly shares how these platforms have shaped both his personal and family life, highlighting the benefits and challenges of growing up online. Together, we emphasize the significance of consent and open communication between parents and children regarding their online presence, while Dre recounts how this digital involvement has positively influenced our living situation.

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EP 22: Redefining Family Traditions and Identity Oct 22, 2024

Join us for an engaging discussion on family dynamics and identity exploration as I, Ariel, welcome my amazing cousin Cameron to the podcast. Together, we reflect on our experiences growing up as Black women and the powerful influence of family on shaping our identities. In the *Her Voice, Her Story* segment, I celebrate Cameron, not only as a remarkable cousin but also as a cherished friend.

We dive into the generational differences within our family, exploring the older generation's preference for privacy and formality compared to our more open, candid approach. This conversation shines a light on the structured nature of our family gatherings, steeped in tradition and etiquette, while also highlighting how our understanding of these dynamics has shifted over time.

We also explore the complexities of parenting and communication styles, reflecting on the lessons learned from our own upbringing and how they now shape our approach to raising children. Emphasizing the value of open communication, we challenge traditional views that equate gentle parenting with weakness. Instead, we advocate for fostering environments where children feel heard, respected, and empowered to express their needs and boundaries confidently.

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EP 21: Navigating the System Oct 02, 2024

Hey Tribe!! We know it’s been a while, but we’re back with a brand new episode of This Too Shall Pass! This week, we’re diving into the topic of child support. Now, I want to be clear—I’m not an attorney. What I’ll be sharing is based on my own experience navigating the child support system here in Florida.

In this episode, we answer listener questions on everything from starting the process to dealing with situations where the other parent lives in a different state or even another country. The insights we share aren’t just for single moms—fathers out there are also doing their best with the tools they have, trying to ensure the best possible outcomes for their children.

Tune in, take a listen, and walk away with some valuable information on this important topic!

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EP 20: Entrepreneurship Hustle Era Jul 08, 2024

Join me, Ariel, on this week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass," where I share my unexpected journey from being let go from my job to discovering the power of social media as a source of multiple income streams. I'll open up about the unsteady yet hopeful transition and tackle a listener's question about high-yield savings accounts. Learn about my experiences with American Express and UFB Bank, and gain insights into how these accounts work. We'll also explore the challenges of maintaining gratitude while juggling motherhood, with children ranging from preschool to high school, and finding financial stability amidst life's unpredictability.

In our discussion on personal health and family dynamics, we touch on the complexities of balancing personal health, motherhood, and personal growth. Hear about my struggles with weight gain, the importance of understanding family health history, and the challenges of stepping out of my comfort zone. We'll also embrace the joys of summer with kids and the simplicity of daily life without school-year stress. Plus, I share the mixed emotions surrounding a co-parent's move to Florida and the intricate dynamics of extended family relationships. And, for a lighter note, get ready to laugh at the humorous and awkward moments that come with dating.

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EP 19: Survivor's Guilt Jul 02, 2024

How do you navigate the challenging maze of survival guilt while raising five kids on your own? Discover the raw and emotional journey of a single mother who finds hope and inspiration through community support and personal growth.

This week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass" is a heartfelt exploration of my life, as I grapple with the complex emotions tied to survival guilt and the unwavering gratitude I have for those who help my family thrive. Listen as I share how the Orlando City Rec center has been a beacon of opportunity for my children, especially my 16-year-old son, Andre, and my 13-year-old daughter, Haley. Their stories highlight the indispensable role of community programs and mentorship in shaping the futures of young lives.

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EP 18: Are You Parenting From Your Traumas? Jun 04, 2024

How do different parenting styles shape our children’s emotional resilience and safety awareness? Join me, Ariel, as I navigate the intricate world of single parenting alongside my daughter Aaryn and my sister Akilah. We dive into the complexities of managing conflicts, emphasizing the importance of communication over physical discipline. Aaryn shares her personal growth story, and we highlight the invaluable feedback from our dear listeners who have become a part of our supportive community.

Gentle parenting, effective communication, and the nuances of sibling relationships take center stage, offering insights that go beyond traditional parenting methods. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of family dynamics, personal growth, and fostering resilience through open and honest communication.

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EP 17: Love, Responsibility, and Independence May 28, 2024

What does parenthood look like without the traditional authoritative fear often emphasized in our culture? Join us on "This Too Shall Pass" as we explore the raw and honest journey of single motherhood within the black community. From the cultural nuances of enjoying an espresso martini to the laughter-filled yet revealing conversations it sparks, we share personal stories that highlight the struggles and triumphs of parenting five children solo. Carla and Paola join me as we shift the conversation to my apprehensions about re-entering the dating scene, navigating the murky waters of online dating, and exploring the hesitant yet hopeful forays into platforms like Hinge.

Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we discuss the importance of co-parenting, personal growth, and the unique challenges of raising children, particularly boys. We reflect on the influence of upbringing on love languages and the struggle to foster independence and responsibility in our kids while maintaining love and support. Personal anecdotes reveal the pressures of being the eldest sibling and balancing household chores, emphasizing the need for positive and respectful parent-child relationships. Through it all, we navigate the societal and familial expectations that shape our parenting journey, striving for a balance that allows our children to flourish.

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EP 16: Breaking Cycles May 21, 2024

Join me on a journey through the complexities of personal growth and parenting as we navigate the tough waters of breaking generational curses.

Listen in as I share my candid experiences as a single mom of five, handling everything from the importance of self-check-ins to the challenges of maintaining discipline and the power of non-verbal communication in teaching our children life lessons. From the trenches of single parenthood to the front lines of family dynamics, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of the trials and triumphs that shape us.

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EP 15: Fostering Independence May 14, 2024

Hey tribe we’re back as promised with another episode! Listen in as we explore the evolving challenges of parenting in the digital era, where the virtual playgrounds have become the new norm, creating a generational shift in children's social and play habits. We talk about the impact this has on family life and the importance of understanding and respecting our children's individual preferences. I also address the tricky landscape of real estate in Orlando, voicing the frustrations many face with the rental and housing market, and inviting you to weigh in with your experiences and solutions.

So grab your headphones and let's navigate these topics together, fostering a space for learning, laughter, and a reminder that through it all, we're not alone.

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EP 14: Juggling the Joys and Challenges May 07, 2024

Can we ever truly heal from the scars of our past, or is it more about the miles we put between ourselves and the memories that once pained us? Get ready to unwrap this question as I, Ariel, take you through my own personal expedition of healing, single motherhood, and the brave steps toward new beginnings in love.

Join me for an episode where we celebrate my son Andre's sweet 16 and grapple with the joys and challenges of raising five unique spirits, each with their own story and co-parenting dynamic. Amidst the festivities and reflections, we also ponder the impact of companionship and community in our lives, especially when faced with the longing for a partner's support on this wild ride called family.

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EP 13: Balancing Act: Realities of Adulthood Feb 05, 2024

Listen in as I kick off the year with raw reflections on single motherhood and the relentless quest for personal growth. With the fresh canvas of 2024 before us, I share the complexities of navigating absent fathers and child support, while setting my sights on spiritual fortitude, health, and financial savvy. It's about making our money work for us, building a fortress of support, and shattering stereotypes.

Join me in setting the stage for a year of transformation and invite you to share your own top three aspirations for this exciting new chapter.

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EP 12: What They didn't Tell You ... Jan 08, 2024

Could you handle the truth about single motherhood, or understand the depth of a child's innocent embarrassment? Today, we pull back the curtain on the reality of raising a little ones on your own, with all the mortifying, yet adorable moments included. As I share the escapades of my three-year-old, Owen, and his knack for public proclamations, you'll find a mix of laughter and empathy within these stories.

in this episode we sift through our listener's mailbag, ensuring you that in the world of complex relationships and parenting, you are anything but alone.

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EP 11:Best of Season 1 Dec 26, 2023

Hey Tribe! As we wrap up the year, I'm excited to reflect on some highlights from Season 1. Wishing you all a joyful holiday season, and get ready for a fresh start with brand new episodes returning next week!

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EP 10: Surviving and Thriving Dec 18, 2023

Join me, Ariel B, in a heartfelt conversation as we explore some sensitive topics, navigating the uncharted waters of victim shaming, forgiveness, and the complexities of relationships. As a survivor of domestic violence. I offer a unique perspective on these issues. I share my own journey, touching on my personal experiences, stressing the importance of not judging others' reactions to trauma, and the dangers of assumptions based on social media.

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EP 9: It Takes A Village... Dec 04, 2023

Ever wonder how other moms juggle work, family, and self-care without losing their sanity? Do they have a secret superpower, or is there a supportive community backing them? If you are a mother, know a mother, or planning to be one, this is a must-listen.

This episode is all about the village, and how crucial it is for the well-being of both children and mothers. The reality is that being a mom isn't easy, especially without a support system in place. We touch on maintaining a sense of identity amidst the demands of motherhood, finding ways to cover expenses, and the sacrifices made by mothers who lack a village. But it's not all about struggles; we're also sharing advice on generating additional income and how to stay positive in the face of adversity.

In the second half of our episode, we're switching gears to discuss the challenges of parenting as our children grow up and move out, and how our own upbringing influences our approach to parenting. We also address a listener's concern about a friend's relationship and offer guidance on setting boundaries while providing support. Wrapping up, we discuss the often-overlooked topic of financial literacy, the importance of creating a safe space for friends to share their experiences, and our guest Carla's moving journey. So sit back, tune in, and join us on this emotional and enlightening ride.

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EP 8: Life Updates with Ariel B: Trial Testimony and A Big Move Nov 27, 2023

Have you ever had to testify in trial…against your abusive ex husband? How about being a mom of 5 and being displaced from your home of 3 years? Well in this episode, I talk about how I am dealing with both of these experiences in the span of under 2 months. I have been working through these hardships but with the help of my supporters, I have been able to keep pushing. So sit back and tune in on this vulnerable episode that I hope will help others know that we all can use unfortunate experiences as blessings and lessons.

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EP 7: Budgeting as a Single Mother of Five Oct 16, 2023

Budgeting did not come to me naturally. As a single mother of five, I had to learn how to make ends meet and I had to learn fast. I never wanted to sacrifice the joy of providing for my kids and putting a smile of their face at Christmas…but this did come at the price of putting my ego aside. In this episode I discuss my tips and tricks of how I started my budgeting journey and how humbling myself allowed me and my kids to become financially stable.

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EP 6: Exit Strategies: Knowing When Enough is Enough Oct 09, 2023

In this week’s episode, I share the many struggles I dealt with after an abusive relationship. I thought I had no where to turn and no support until I was forced to speak my truth regarding my abuse. The hardships I faced while getting through this pivotal moment in my life not only gave me clarity but showed me that you are more than your partner and your situation. Join me in this discussion of learning when to ask for help and knowing your true value.

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EP 5: Finding My Biological Sister 25 Years Later Oct 02, 2023

In this week’s episode, I was joined by a woman I just met 7 years ago…my sister Akeelah. Throughout our discussion, we chatted about familial troubles, the story of how my estranged uncle told me that I was adopted, and the effects that my adoption has had on our entire family. As we dive deeper into each topic, I was able to shed light on my journey in finding my birth family and touch on how similar we are even though we grew up in different households.

Tune in and see how our crazy yet beautiful family tree has allowed us to form an amazing and loving bond that can’t be broken.

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EP 4: Breaking the Silence - Inside the Mind of a Domestic Violence Survivor Sep 25, 2023

I remember feeling the weight of the world on my shoulders as I navigated the complexities of an abusive relationship, often feeling a deep sense of isolation. I somehow found the courage to emerge from this darkness, and that's why we're here today, to candidly discuss surviving domestic violence. We delve into the fear and humiliation that often silences victims, the contrasting dynamics of healthy and unhealthy relationships, and the transformative power of speaking out.

Our conversation is dedicated to shedding light on the harsh realities of domestic violence and providing useful resources for those who may be in need. We bring you invaluable insights from Harbor House, a beacon of hope in Orlando, Florida, serving victims of domestic violence. We discuss their commendable work, including providing legal assistance and the critical steps involved in filing for restraining orders. Our intention is to create a compassionate community, allowing survivors to share their experiences and inspire strength in others.

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EP 3: Modern Family Dynamics Sep 18, 2023

On this week's captivating episode of This Too Shall Pass, we're joined by my children, Haley and Andre. Listen in as we share heartfelt stories and experiences from our lives. Haley and Andre open up about the unique challenges and lessons learned from being raised by a single mom. They candidly discuss the values of patience, communication, and understanding, which they believe have been pivotal in their growth and maturity.

Our conversation takes a twist as we explore the role of social media in the lives of today's youth, specifically in Haley and Andre's relationships with their fathers. They share their experiences navigating these complex dynamics, highlighting the significance of maintaining open and respectful dialogues about family matters. We further discuss the responsibilities that come with being the eldest child and the expectations that come with it.

In the final segment, we unpack their aspirations for the future and the additional responsibilities they've taken on as the eldest children in the family. We discuss how single parenthood has shaped their perspective and outlook towards life. Lastly, we address the challenging aspects of co-living, parenting, and balancing personal relationships. Tune in for an honest, open discussion on family dynamics, parenting, and growing up in a single-parent household.

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