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    Therapist Uncensored Podcast

    Ranked as one of Apple’s Top 10 Social Science podcasts, Therapist Uncensored delivers trusted, science-backed insights on mental health and secure relationships. With over 11 million downloads worldwide, this female-led, independent podcast puts you right in the therapy room, making powerful psychological insights accessible and actionable. Co-hosts Sue Marriott, LCSW CGP and Ann Kelley, PhD break down complex ideas into practical wisdom you can use immediately. They’re joined by top neuroscientists, world-renown relationship experts and outside-the-box perspectives to share cutting-edge research and strategies for building stronger connections with yourself and others. Shownotes at www.therapistuncensored.com Transform how you understand your mind, your relationships, and yourself.

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    The Invisible Toll of Chronic Illness: Navigating Medical Dismissal, Grief & Identity with Destiny Davis (316) Nov 10, 2026
    Show notes

    Chronic illness is more than a physical battle

    Chronic illness is more than a physical experience—it can profoundly impact our mental health, relationships, and sense of self. In this episode, Ann Kelley sits down with Destiny Davis, LPC, CRC, a therapist specializing in chronic illness, to explore the emotional toll of living with unexplained symptoms, delayed diagnoses, and medical invalidation. Together, they discuss how chronic conditions like MCAS, chronic fatigue, and long COVID challenge our understanding of illness, and why being believed is often an essential part of healing. Through personal experiences and clinical insights, Destiny shares how acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), pacing, and grief work can help individuals navigate chronic illness without losing sight of their values and identity. They also discuss the importance of challenging medical bias, supporting loved ones without trying to fix them, and creating safer, more compassionate therapeutic spaces. Discover why curiosity, validation, and learning to live alongside uncertainty can transform the way we approach chronic illness—both for those experiencing it and those supporting them.

    “Even if you recover, you’re still in a period of your life right now where you have lost something. Let’s grieve that.” – Destiny Davis, LPC CRC

    Time Stamps for The Invisible Toll of Chronic Illness: Navigating Medical Dismissal, Grief & Identity with Destiny Davis (316)

    02:04 The psychological toll of years without a diagnosis
    04:22 Why strict criteria can miss fluctuating conditions
    09:32 MCAS: inconsistent triggers and shrinking routines
    14:13 Destiny’s experience and post-exertional malaise
    18:16 Illness identity, pacing, and learning symptom patterns
    23:19 What chronic illness-informed therapy should address
    26:17 ACT, transferable skills, and grief for lost identity
    31:13 Making room for grief without giving up hope
    34:43 How loved ones can stay one step behind
    41:54 Therapists: believe patients and build safety
    47:28 Disability bias, medical history, and emerging research
    54:31 The Chronic Illness Therapist Conference and accessibility

    About our Guest – Destiny Davis, LPC CRC

    Destiny Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor specializing in chronic illness and medical trauma. Based in Atlanta, Georgia, she draws on ACT, Somatic Experiencing, and lived experience to support individuals navigating complex health challenges. She leads The Chronic Illness Therapists Collective, hosts The Chronic Illness Therapists Podcast, and is a CE provider for other clinicians working in this specialty area.

    Resources for The Invisible Toll of Chronic Illness: Navigating Medical Dismissal, Grief & Identity with Destiny Davis (316)

    Chronic Illness Therapist 2027 – Conference website and resources

    Chronic Ilness Therapist – Destiny’s therapy and clinical consultation website

    Please support our sponsors – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!

    SimplePractice is an all-in-one EHR that is HIPPA compliant, HITRUST certified and built specifically for therapists. If you are ready to simplify the business side of your practice, now is a great time to try SimplePractice. Start with a 7-day free trial, then get 50% off your first three months. Just go to SimplePractice.com to claim the offer.

    Talkiatry is a 100% online psychiatry practice that provides comprehensive evaluations, diagnoses, and ongoing medication management for conditions like ADHD, anxiety, depression, and more. Head to Talkiatry.com/TU to complete the short assessment and get matched with an in‑network psychiatrist in just a few minutes.

    Many new events coming up at TU – Check out our events page to see our highlights and happenings!

    Just a few of our fun opportunities!

    Beyond Attachment Styles –

    Deepening Security in Yourself and Fostering More Secure Relationships

    Course available NOW – New LIVE Q&A Coming December 2026!

    Everyone’s heard of attachment styles – but you likely don’t know how much the popular press gets wrong and what the science actually says about how to improve your relationships long term (including how we relate to ourselves). This course is for anyone wanting to more deeply understand attachment (styles vs patterns), unconscious defense activation patterns, implicit scripts… and most importantly, what to do once you do get activated! Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout.

    Ready to dive deeper into Secure Relating? Grab the book or explore the course, and use code BAS15 for a limited-time listener discount.

    Or read Marriott & Kelley’s critically-acclaimed book, Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World (HarperCollins,2023) for the most in-depth experience of learning about Secure Relating.

    Therapists love it, but it’s accessible to everyone. If you aren’t interested in the background science, just start at Part 2 and we will be talking directly to you – it’s fun!

    Attention self-proclaimed Neuronerds!🚨

    If you refer others to the pod, use it in your professional life or just love this stuff – you’re in the right place!

    Your fellow Neuronerds are waiting – Join our exclusive community to get exclusive bonus content, early access to training opportunities, and an ad-free, private podcast feed. It’s this warm community that allows us to donate half of all corporate profits to mental health access for marginalized peoples.

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    The Other Side of Caregiving: Grief, Vulnerability & Finding Joy with Lindsey & Thomas Kealey (315) Oct 27, 2026
    Show notes

    When life changes overnight, how do we find our way forward?

    After losing Thomas’s mother to pancreatic cancer and navigating Thomas’s aggressive leukemia diagnosis, bone marrow transplant, relapse, and ongoing recovery, Lindsay and Thomas join Dr. Ann Kelley to share their deeply personal journey through cancer, caregiving, grief, and resilience. Together, they explore the emotional realities of serious illness, the often-overlooked grief experienced by caregivers, and how vulnerability, honest communication, and mutual support can strengthen relationships during life’s most uncertain moments.

    “If I’m going to go through this, I want to grow through this.” – Thomas Kealey

    Time Stamps for The Other Side of Caregiving: Grief, Vulnerability & Finding Joy with Lindsey & Thomas Kealey (315)

    03:59 Transition from caregiver to patient
    09:52 Keys to acceptance and trust in medical care
    24:51 Supporting each other through grief and fear
    34:59 Practical tools for caregivers and patients
    45:11 Talking about fear and end-of-life conversations
    55:10 Creating normalcy and connection in the hospital
    59:51 Living with uncertainty and foreboding joy

    About our Guests – Lindsey & Thomas Kealey

    Thomas is a dedicated Preoperative & Post Anesthesia charge nurse in Bend, Oregon. As a co-host of the Brain it On! Podcast, he shares insights from his personal journey with Multiple Phenotype Acute Leukemia (MPAL) and a bone marrow transplant. His mission is strengthened by the mutual support he shared with his mother, who had pancreatic cancer, to inspire and help others facing medical challenges.

    Lindsey is an instructor of Human Development and Family Sciences at Oregon State University and the author of PAWsitive Choices Social and Emotional Learning. Her experience teaching in elementary schools and higher education led her to create a curriculum that integrates neuroscience and problem-solving to foster children’s resilience. As a co-host of the Brain it On! Podcast, she shares key learnings from her journey through her husband’s cancer treatment to help others navigate adversity.

    Resources for The Other Side of Caregiving: Grief, Vulnerability & Finding Joy with Lindsey & Thomas Kealey (315)

    Brain It On! – Thomas and Lindsey’s podcast

    The Comfort & Healing Companion: A Patient and Caregiver Toolkit for Treatment, Recovery, and Beyond – Thomas &Lindsey’s book, get your copy!

    Instagram – Following the Brain It On podcast’s profile

    YouTube – Check out their Youtube channel

    Please support our sponsors – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!

    Therapy can be costly, but part of the mission of Talkspace is to provide quality care that is accessible and affordable—whether or not you are insured. As a listener of this podcast, you’ll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com and enter promo code SPACE80.

    Talkiatry is a 100% online psychiatry practice that provides comprehensive evaluations, diagnoses, and ongoing medication management for conditions like ADHD, anxiety, depression, and more. Head to Talkiatry.com/TU to complete the short assessment and get matched with an in‑network psychiatrist in just a few minutes.

    Many new events coming up at TU – Check out our events page to see our highlights and happenings!

    Just a few of our fun opportunities!

    Beyond Attachment Styles –

    Deepening Security in Yourself and Fostering More Secure Relationships

    Course available NOW – New LIVE Q&A Coming December 2026!

    Everyone’s heard of attachment styles – but you likely don’t know how much the popular press gets wrong and what the science actually says about how to improve your relationships long term (including how we relate to ourselves). This course is for anyone wanting to more deeply understand attachment (styles vs patterns), unconscious defense activation patterns, implicit scripts… and most importantly, what to do once you do get activated! Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout.

    Ready to dive deeper into Secure Relating? Grab the book or explore the course, and use code BAS15 for a limited-time listener discount.

    Or read Marriott & Kelley’s critically-acclaimed book, Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World (HarperCollins,2023) for the most in-depth experience of learning about Secure Relating.

    Therapists love it, but it’s accessible to everyone. If you aren’t interested in the background science, just start at Part 2 and we will be talking directly to you – it’s fun!

    Attention self-proclaimed Neuronerds!🚨

    If you refer others to the pod, use it in your professional life or just love this stuff – you’re in the right place!

    Your fellow Neuronerds are waiting – Join our exclusive community to get exclusive bonus content, early access to training opportunities, and an ad-free, private podcast feed. It’s this warm community that allows us to donate half of all corporate profits to mental health access for marginalized peoples.

    Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!


    Bonus – Curiosity Over Certainty: The Secret to More Secure Relationships with Ann & Sue (314) Oct 20, 2026
    Show notes

    Patreon/Supercast Special Release –

    Bonus – Curiosity Over Certainty: The Secret to More Secure Relationships with Ann & Sue (314)

    This is a sneak peek of our newest episode – available only on our Premium Supercast and Patreon platforms. For as little as $5/month you can have access to special releases like this one, first-to-know about upcoming events and discounts and an ad-free feed.

    Click here to join & finish the episode!!

    Are you curious—or just looking for reassurance?

    Sue and Ann are back to explore why genuine curiosity is harder than it sounds—and why our need for certainty can quietly interfere with connection. Through relatable examples, attachment science, and a little self-reflection, Ann and Sue highlight the difference between seeking answers and cultivating true curiosity. They explore how our assumptions about ourselves and others shape our relationships, why uncertainty can feel threatening, and how learning to sit with discomfort can open the door to deeper understanding. From challenging the stories we tell ourselves to recognizing our own emotional reactions, discover practical ways to move beyond defensiveness, strengthen self-awareness, and build more secure, connected relationships—starting with yourself.

    “You need to point your curiosity inward first.” – Sue Marriott, LCSW CGP

    Time Stamps for Bonus – Curiosity Over Certainty: The Secret to More Secure Relationships with Ann & Sue (314)

    01:05 Exploring curiosity as a tool for connection
    09:35 Understanding our stories and assumptions
    14:47 The importance of self-reflection in curiosity
    25:12 Challenging certainty
    31:59 The role of attachment in curiosity
    39:47 Practical steps to cultivate curiosity

    Looking for our Upcoming Events? Click here!! – Ann & Sue have LIVE training sessions in November and December in partnership with the Trauma Therapist Institute… you won’t want to miss them!

    Our Beyond Attachment Styles course is available NOW!

    Learn how your nervous system, your mind, and your relationships work together in a fascinating dance, shaping who you are and how you connect with others.

    • Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout
    • Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s – Next Q&A Coming December 11th 2026!

    …and the course pairs wonderfully with our book – Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World – get your copy HERE!

    “Comprehensive, courageous, creative and clear, Sue Marriott and Ann Kelley expertly and compassionately guide us through a deep understanding of attachment and how to rewire our nervous systems toward more secure and fulfilling relationships. This is a cutting-edge essential read for those at any stage of the self-discovery journey who seek to make meaningful changes in their lives. A wonderful contribution to our collective conversation about how to make our shared world a better place for us all.” – Daniel Siegel, M.D.


    Beyond Western Psychology: Decolonizing Mental Health Through Testimony Therapy with Dr. Makungu Akinyela (313) Oct 13, 2026
    Show notes

    Testimony is more than telling your story—it’s reclaiming the power to heal

    Psychologist, scholar, and activist Dr. Makungu Akinyela explores Testimony Therapy, an African-centered approach that emphasizes storytelling, cultural identity, ancestral wisdom, and community connection. Alongside co-host Sue Marriott, they examine how colonialism and systemic oppression shape mental health, the power of oral traditions in healing, and why meaningful change requires moving beyond individual treatment toward collective healing and liberation.

    “The story is not just one person’s story. It’s a shared story.” – Dr. Makungu Akinyela

    Time Stamps for Beyond Western Psychology: Decolonizing Mental Health Through Testimony Therapy with Dr. Makungu Akinyela (313)

    01:09 Dr. Akinyela’s background and activism
    02:22 The influence of Western psychology and decolonial thought
    03:56 Fanon, Du Bois, and the roots of testimony therapy
    10:32 Testimony therapy and the question of cultural narratives
    13:40 Double consciousness and the experience of Blackness
    17:58 Colorism, internalized racism, and social trauma
    21:28 Fanon’s zone of non-being and political realities
    28:10 African-centered worldview and community healing
    34:04 Orality, storytelling, and the power of testimony
    42:53 Signification, rhythm, and body in oral traditions
    48:41 Cultural practices and healing modalities
    58:13 Decentering the therapist and collaborative healing
    01:02:03 Global resistance and decolonial mental health movements

    About our Guest – Dr. Makungu M. Akinyela

    Dr. Makungu M. Akinyela (Mah-koon-goo Ah-keen-yay-Lah) is a leading authority on cultural democracy, narrative practice, anti-racist resistance, and mental health. He is a licensed psychotherapist practicing in Atlanta, Georgia, and an Associate Professor of Africana Studies at Georgia State University. He is the creator of the African-centered approach to narrative practice called testimony therapy and the author of the book Testimony Therapy: Decolonizing Mental Health for Black Therapists and Clients, published by W.W. Norton. He is also the author of the book Culture, Politics, Spirituality and Practice: A book of resistance and critical theory for disturbing times, published by Dulwich Publications. As a scholar activist and a therapist. Dr. Akinyela is a lifelong committed social justice organizer with a focus on struggles for human rights and justice for Black people in the United States and the African diaspora. His research and writing include such subjects as cultural democracy and mental health care; cultural domination and therapeutic resistance; reparations and the role of mental health workers in repairing oppressive wounds; and African-centered family therapy. He is a Clinical Fellow and an Approved Supervisor of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT).

    Resources for Beyond Western Psychology: Decolonizing Mental Health Through Testimony Therapy with Dr. Makungu Akinyela (313)

    Testimony Therapy: Decolonizing Mental Health for Black Therapists and Clients – Get your copy of Dr. Akinyela’s book

    Please support our sponsors – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!

    Therapy can be costly, but part of the mission of Talkspace is to provide quality care that is accessible and affordable—whether or not you are insured. As a listener of this podcast, you’ll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com and enter promo code SPACE80.

    Beyond Attachment Styles –

    Deepening Security in Yourself and Fostering More Secure Relationships

    Course available NOW – New LIVE Q&A Coming December 2026!

    Everyone’s heard of attachment styles – but you likely don’t know how much the popular press gets wrong and what the science actually says about how to improve your relationships long term (including how we relate to ourselves). This course is for anyone wanting to more deeply understand attachment (styles vs patterns), unconscious defense activation patterns, implicit scripts… and most importantly, what to do once you do get activated! Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout.

    Ready to dive deeper into Secure Relating? Grab the book or explore the course, and use code BAS15 for a limited-time listener discount.

    Or read Marriott & Kelley’s critically-acclaimed book, Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World (HarperCollins,2023) for the most in-depth experience of learning about Secure Relating.

    Therapists love it, but it’s accessible to everyone. If you aren’t interested in the background science, just start at Part 2 and we will be talking directly to you – it’s fun!

    Attention self-proclaimed Neuronerds!🚨

    If you refer others to the pod, use it in your professional life or just love this stuff – you’re in the right place!

    Your fellow Neuronerds are waiting – Join our exclusive community to get exclusive bonus content, early access to training opportunities, and an ad-free, private podcast feed. It’s this warm community that allows us to donate half of all corporate profits to mental health access for marginalized peoples.

    Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!


    Secure-ish: Rethinking Self-Worth & Attachment with Dr. Marisa G. Franco (312) Sep 29, 2026
    Show notes

    What does self-worth really look like when we stop trying to be perfectly secure?

    Dr. Ann Kelley talks with psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco about her new book, Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment. Dr. Franco challenges the idea that healing means becoming perfectly “secure,” arguing instead for becoming “secure-ish”—learning to acknowledge insecurity, shame, vulnerability, and other difficult emotions without judging or rejecting those parts of ourselves. She explores the difference between self-esteem and true self-worth, why some people struggle to receive love or positive feedback, and how our deeply held stories about ourselves can shape the relationships and experiences we seek out. The conversation also navigates into the science of memory and memory reconsolidation, including how past experiences can continue to influence our emotions and reactions even when we don’t consciously remember them.

    “Being a steward of self-worth for self and for others is about allowing people to make mistakes and be imperfect.” – Dr. Marisa G. Franco

    Time Stamps for Secure-ish: Rethinking Self-Worth & Attachment with Dr. Marisa G. Franco (312)

    01:57 Why friendship matters more than we think
    04:01 The problem with attachment styles as status symbols
    08:00 Memory as the database of self-perception
    13:58 The role of implicit and explicit memory
    25:59 The role of body sensations in healing
    31:59 Overcoming self-criticism and building resilience
    36:07 The Science of Memory and Emotional Triggers
    40:02 Addressing detachment and dissociation
    47:57 Practical tools for lasting change
    49:55 The Future of Self-Worth and Emotional Freedom

    About our Guest – Dr. Marisa G. Franco

    An enlightening psychologist, international speaker, and New York Times bestselling author, Dr. Marisa G Franco is known for digesting and communicating science in ways that resonate deeply enough with people to change their lives. She works as a professor at The University of Maryland and authored the New York Times bestseller Platonic: How The Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends and Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment. She writes about friendship for Psychology Today and has been a featured connection expert for major publications like The New York Times, The Telegraph, and Vice. She speaks on belonging and self-worth at corporations, government agencies, non-profits, and universities. For tips on friendship, you can follow her on Instagram (DrMarisaGFranco), or go to her website, www.DrMarisaGFranco.com, where you can take a quiz to assess your strengths and weaknesses as a friend & reach out for speaking engagements. Dr. Marisa G. Franco professor, speaker, and author of Platonic and the forthcoming Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment.

    Resources for Secure-ish: Rethinking Self-Worth & Attachment with Dr. Marisa G. Franco (312)

    Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment – Marisa’s book, get your copy!

    Dr. Franco’s LinkedIn – Profile

    @DrMarisaGFranco – Instagram profile

    Newsletter – Subscribe to receives yours

    Website – Information, speaking engagements and more

    Please support our sponsors – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!

    SimplePractice is an all-in-one EHR that is HIPPA compliant, HITRUST certified and built specifically for therapists.

    If you are ready to simplify the business side of your practice, now is a great time to try SimplePractice. Start with a 7-day free trial, then get 50% off your first three months. Just go to SimplePractice.com to claim the offer.

    Beyond Attachment Styles –

    Deepening Security in Yourself and Fostering More Secure Relationships

    Course available NOW!

    Everyone’s heard of attachment styles – but you likely don’t know how much the popular press gets wrong and what the science actually says about how to improve your relationships long term (including how we relate to ourselves). This course is for anyone wanting to more deeply understand attachment (styles vs patterns), unconscious defense activation patterns, implicit scripts… and most importantly, what to do once you do get activated! Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout.

    Ready to dive deeper into Secure Relating? Grab the book or explore the course, and use code BAS15 for a limited-time listener discount.

    Or read Marriott & Kelley’s critically-acclaimed book, Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World (HarperCollins,2023) for the most in-depth experience of learning about Secure Relating.

    Therapists love it, but it’s accessible to everyone. If you aren’t interested in the background science, just start at Part 2 and we will be talking directly to you – it’s fun!

    Attention self-proclaimed Neuronerds!🚨

    If you refer others to the pod, use it in your professional life or just love this stuff – you’re in the right place!

    Your fellow Neuronerds are waiting – Join our exclusive community to get exclusive bonus content, early access to training opportunities, and an ad-free, private podcast feed. It’s this warm community that allows us to donate half of all corporate profits to mental health access for marginalized peoples.

    Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!


    Bonus – The Art of Allowing: Psychedelics, Breathwork & Expanded States of Consciousness with Patty Nagle (311) Sep 08, 2026
    Show notes

    Explore expanded states of consciousness with Patty Nagle's insights on breathwork and psychedelics for personal transformation.


    Attachment Isn’t Solo Work: Healing Through Community with Martin Jonsson (310) Sep 01, 2026
    Show notes

    Learn how attachment healing can improve your relationships and foster deeper connections within your community and beyond.


    DBT, Chronic Invalidation & Finding Queer Joy with Dr. Kiki Fehling (309) Aug 18, 2026
    Show notes

    Discover how DBT can cultivate joy and self-acceptance, addressing the effects of chronic invalidation on queer identities.


    Bonus – Inside Mentalization-Based Treatment: Borderline & Narcissistic Personality Disorders (308) Aug 11, 2026
    Show notes

    Delve into Mentalization-Based Treatment to support those with Borderline Narcissistic traits and strengthen emotional intelligence.


    Challenging Personalities: Understanding Borderline & Narcissism with Robert Drozek (307) Aug 04, 2026
    Show notes

    Borderline and narcissism are often misunderstood—this episode separates myth from science.

    Robert Drozek explores the science behind borderline and narcissistic personality disorders, separating common myths from current research. Together, he and Sue discuss attachment, trauma, genetics, parenting, evidence-based treatments, and why understanding these often misunderstood conditions can bring greater compassion, hope, and healthier relationships.

    “Borderline is driven by a need to reconnect.” – Robert P. Drozek, LICSW

    Time Stamps for Challenging Personalities: Understanding Borderline & Narcissism with Robert Drozek (307)

    04:14 Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder
    09:25 Exploring narcissism: Definitions and types
    13:29 Vulnerable vs. grandiose narcissism
    18:56 The Role of Trauma in Personality Disorders
    22:25 Parenting styles and their impact on narcissism
    27:14 Identifying narcissism in relationships
    33:34 Treatment approaches for Borderline Personality Disorder
    36:45 Challenges in treating Narcissistic Personality Disorder
    45:26 Navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals

    About our Guest – Robert P. Drozek, LICSW

    Robert P. Drozek, LICSW is the clinical director of the Mentalization-Based Treatment Clinic at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts. He is a teaching associate in the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, specializing in the treatment of
    borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder. He is author of the new book, Mentalization: Utilizing reflection to heal from borderline personality disorder—the first book for the general public about
    mentalization-based treatment.

    Resources for Challenging Personalities: Understanding Borderline & Narcissism with Robert Drozek (307)

    Download page – Free worksheets and handouts from the book

    Mentalization Coach App – The first mobile app for mentalization and MBT,
    adapted from my new book

    Mentalization-based Treatment for Pathological Narcissism – Handbook

    Mentalization-based Treatment for Personality Disorders– A practical guide

    Cambridge Guide to Mentalization-based Treatment

    Anna Freud Centre – The worldwide training hub for mentalization-based
    treatment (MBT)

    NPD Basic – A free guide to narcissistic personality disorder

    MBT Boston – An organization that Robert co-founded that offers training and supervision to clinicians across the world in MBT

    MBT USA – A consortium of MBT providers and organizations in the United

    Robert’s faculty page at McLean Hospital

    Instagram: @RobertDrozek

    Mentalization book – Facebook page

    Get your copy of Mentalization: Utilizing Reflection to Heal from Borderline Personality Disorder here!

    Please support our sponsors – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!

    SimplePractice is an all-in-one EHR that is HIPPA compliant, HITRUST certified and built specifically for therapists.

    If you are ready to simplify the business side of your practice, now is a great time to try SimplePractice. Start with a 7-day free trial, then get 50% off your first three months. Just go to SimplePractice.com to claim the offer.

    Beyond Attachment Styles –

    Deepening Security in Yourself and Fostering More Secure Relationships

    Course available NOW!

    Everyone’s heard of attachment styles – but you likely don’t know how much the popular press gets wrong and what the science actually says about how to improve your relationships long term (including how we relate to ourselves). This course is for anyone wanting to more deeply understand attachment (styles vs patterns), unconscious defense activation patterns, implicit scripts… and most importantly, what to do once you do get activated! Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout.

    As a listener of this podcast, use code BAS15 for a limited-time discount.

    Or read Marriott & Kelley’s critically-acclaimed book, Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World (HarperCollins,2023)

    for the most in-depth experience of learning about Secure Relating.

    Therapists love it, but it’s accessible to everyone. If you aren’t interested in the background science, just start at Part 2 and we will be talking directly to you – it’s fun!

    You are invited!

    OK for those of you who refer others to the pod, use it professionally or consider yourself nerdy and just love this stuff, hello, you are our people!

    Join our exclusive community to get exclusive bonus content, early access to training opportunities, and an ad-free, private podcast feed. It’s this warm community that allows us to donate half of all corportate profits to mental health access for marginalized peoples. Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!


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