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Tuesday Talks: Lifestyle Longevity—Can You Swing at Any Age? Aug 05, 2025

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Tuesday Talks: Lifestyle Longevity—Can You Swing at Any Age? | Episode 68

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another insightful “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from real people in the lifestyle.

This week, a listener from Northern California calls in after celebrating a milestone birthday—he just turned 60, and his stunning wife is 58 and still turning heads. They want to know: Is there a shelf life in the lifestyle?

Dan and Lacy remind listeners that age is just a number, and there’s no one-size-fits-all path in the lifestyle. Whether you’re into high-energy club nights, relaxed resort getaways, or meaningful connections over cocktails, you can shape your journey in a way that fits your vibe and stage of life. Confidence, communication, and fun are timeless—and this episode is a celebration of keeping things sexy at every age.

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Naughty N’awlins Part 3: Rodeo Rides & One Epic After Party Jul 31, 2025

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Naughty N’awlins Part 3: Rodeo Rides & One Epic After Party | Episode 203

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy wrap up their unforgettable trip to Naughty N’awlins 2025, the largest lifestyle convention in the country.

The finale kicks off with topless bull riding and line dancing at their wild Boot Scootin’ Rodeo Party right on Bourbon Street. From there, Dan and Lacy dive into meaningful conversations with industry leaders, highlighting how social media is transforming the lifestyle space and how they’re using their own platforms to help shape its future.

To close out the weekend, Dan takes the stage alongside friends DJ Justin Time and the House Zaddy himself, illest Rich, to DJ the Speakeasy After Party—an absolutely electric night filled with high vibes, packed dance floors, and nonstop energy. It was the perfect finale to a weekend full of connection, celebration, and community.

Don’t miss this powerful and high-energy wrap-up to Naughty N’awlins Part 3!

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Tuesday Talks: Escaping the Clingy Couple—Vacation Edition Jul 29, 2025

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Tuesday Talks: Escaping the Clingy Couple—Vacation Edition | Episode 67

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle real questions from real people navigating the lifestyle.

This week, an anonymous listener shares a story from their recent trip to Desire Resorts. On the very first night, they connected with a new couple and had an amazing play experience—but things got tricky when that couple seemed to latch on, expecting continued play for the rest of the trip. Now, the caller is wondering how to gracefully set boundaries and explore other connections without creating awkward tension.

Dan and Lacy offer candid advice on handling expectations, communicating with kindness, and maintaining your freedom to explore—even when the vibes are strong on night one. Whether you're planning your first lifestyle trip or have been in similar situations, this episode is full of helpful tips on navigating post-hookup boundaries while still keeping the fun flowing.

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Naughty N’awlins Part 2: Dan had Lesbian Sex? Jul 24, 2025

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Naughty N’awlins Part 2: Dan had Lesbian Sex? | Episode 202

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with Part 2 of their unforgettable adventure at Naughty N’awlins, the largest lifestyle convention in the country.

From topless pool parties to wild Bourbon Street day parties, Dan and Lacy dive into all the daytime debauchery that set the tone for a weekend full of connection and chaos. They also share their emotional experience marching in the Sexual Freedom Parade, a heartwarming celebration of openness, acceptance, and the right to love freely.

But the fun didn’t stop when the sun went down—Dan and Lacy also hit up the convention’s steamy themed night parties, where the energy was electric and the playrooms were packed. One particularly hot orgy even led to Dan unexpectedly ending up in lesbian sex (yep, you’ll want to hear that one).

Stay tuned for Part 3—because this trip only gets hotter.

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Tuesday Talks: 5 Secrets to Slaying Your First Secrets Hideaway Trip Jul 22, 2025

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Tuesday Talks: 5 Secrets to Slaying Your First Secrets Hideaway Trip | Episode 66

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another listener-favorite "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from real people in the lifestyle.

This week, a listener who goes by LetsFlamingle texts in with a great question: What are five tips every first-timer should know before heading to Secrets Hideaway Resort? With Dan and Lacy gearing up to host the Swinger Society Takeover at Secrets from September 4–11, they’re the perfect pair to share the insider info.

Whether you're feeling nervous, excited, or just curious—this episode is packed with useful advice, real talk, and everything you need to feel confident and ready for a sexy, unforgettable time at Secrets.

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Naughty N’awlins Part 1: Pre-Parties, Pressure & a Slow Start Jul 17, 2025

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Naughty N’awlins Part 1: Pre-Parties, Pressure & a Slow Start | Episode 201

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy head to New Orleans for one of the biggest events in the lifestyle—Naughty N’awlins!

From the chaos of travel to reconnecting with friends at the pre-party inside Club colette, Dan and Lacy dive into the unique energy of this massive convention. With Bourbon Street buzzing and the clubs packed, the weekend is off to a wild and exciting start.

But not everything goes smoothly—Lacy opens up about the pressure and anxiety that can come with such a high-profile event. The couple shares candid insights on what it’s like navigating social expectations, emotional health, and staying grounded in the middle of a lifestyle whirlwind.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where the energy shifts and the real fun begins.

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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms? Jul 15, 2025

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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms? | Episode 65

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another powerful “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from listeners navigating the lifestyle.

This week, Mr. Rabbit calls in with a heartfelt question for Dan. As a fellow military veteran, he shares that he struggles to relax in group play settings—constantly scanning the room and unable to fully focus on the experience. He asks Dan how to deal with the lingering effects of that hyper-awareness and whether it’s possible to enjoy the lifestyle while carrying that kind of mental weight.

Dan opens up about his own diagnosis of PTSD, sharing personal experiences and the strategies he’s developed to stay grounded and reclaim his peace in high-energy environments. And while Mr. Rabbit’s story is rooted in military experience, anyone who’s felt overwhelmed or distracted in group settings will relate to the challenge of staying present and connected.

Whether you’re a veteran, someone who’s experienced distraction or simply want to support your partner better—this conversation is perfect for you!

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Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville Jul 10, 2025

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Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville | Episode 200

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy head to Nashville for a wild weekend with some of their favorite content creator friends.

Friday kicks off with a night out on Bourbon Street—surrounded by vanilla partygoers, strong drinks, and a hot tub that hits a little too hard. The night ends early for Dan and Lacy, who find themselves tucked in bed while listening to the fun happening around them. But don’t worry—they more than make up for it on Saturday.

The next day is packed with sexy photo shoots, steamy orgies, and spicy gangbangs that turn up the heat. As the sun sets, the group hits the road in a pink party bus for a dive bar tour filled with laughter, adventures, and unforgettable memories. They wrap the night with another Bourbon Street outing, where they run into some fellow pineapple people—but just as things heat up back at their Airbnb, a bit of unexpected drama keeps this playdate from crossing the finish line.

From missed opportunities to unforgettable moments, this episode is a rollercoaster of fun, friendship, and lifestyle chaos you won’t want to miss.

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Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker Jul 08, 2025

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Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker | Episode 64

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another spicy and relatable "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from real lifestyle listeners.

This week, Elanna calls in to share a recent experience with a couple that didn’t go quite as planned. During their play session, the male half of the couple wouldn’t stop talking—and not in a sexy, dirty-talk kind of way. The constant chatter ended up killing the mood, affecting her partner’s performance and her own pleasure. Now she wants to know: How do you tell someone to zip it without making things awkward?

Dan and Lacy share simple, effective ways to speak up in the moment without killing the vibe. If you've ever struggled with awkward energy during play, this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and advice on how to handle it with confidence and class.

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Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson Jul 03, 2025

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Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson | Episode 199

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson.

Dr. Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Board Certified Sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor with over 30 years of experience working with couples and individuals exploring flexible monogamy and non-traditional relationships. She’s also a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble With Sex podcast.

Together, Dan, Lacy, and Dr. Tammy dive deep into the connection between sex, intimacy, and relationship health, explore why people cheat, and discuss the growing societal shift toward non-monogamy.

Whether you're curious about opening up, navigating long-term connection, or just want expert insight into what makes modern relationships work, this episode is packed with wisdom, real talk, and fresh perspectives from one of the leading voices in the field.

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