The Struggle is Real: Modern Parenting

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False Intimacy Fallout feat. Jonathan Alarcon Apr 17, 2017

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Are you rejecting your kids by disregarding or ignoring them? Kids grow fast, if you don't spend time with them now, it may be too late later. Tune in for more. Special Guest: Jonathan Alarcon Resident Expert: Dr. Alicia La Hoz Hosts: Omar Ramos & Veronica Avila

The Invisible String Apr 10, 2017

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Being able to develop a strong bond with your child is important. The sooner you do, the better it is for their well being. The question is how do you do it? Dr. La Hoz explains that it's actually pretty simple - all you have to do is be present in the life of your child. Tune in to the podcast for more. Featuring: Dr. Alicia La Hoz, Janette Avila, Omar Ramos & Veronica Avila

The Worth of Self-Worth feat. Damaris Bran Apr 03, 2017

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Often times the values we have don't necessarily show in our everyday actions. This can make teaching and passing down values to our children very difficult. As parents, we may want kids to "do as I say, not as I do" and that most definitely does not work. Parents: How are your actions shaping the life of your children?

Mini Me feat. Robert Salazar Mar 28, 2017

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Children do what parents do, not necessarily what parents tell them to do. How are your actions shaping the life of your children? Tune in to this podcast to learn more.

Please Silence your Cell Phone Mar 20, 2017

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Is your smartphone’s screen kidnapping your time? Although technology gives us a lot of conveniences and comfort, if we don’t keep it in check, it can create a lot of relationship problems. Our screens can be the barrier keeping us from enjoying each other’s presence, listening to each other, and connecting. This week, we encourage you to think about some ground rules that you can establish to make sure that technology doesn’t take over your life all together.

Parenting: Today and Yesterday Mar 14, 2017

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In this week's podcast our hosts, along with Dr. Alicia La Hoz and our guest, Bill Ferrell, discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of the varying generational parenting styles. Which should you consider using and which should you consider ditching? Tune in to find out.

Appeal to Their Progress Jan 24, 2017

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Parents appeal to the progress of your children. Highlight the progress the child is making as a motivator to grow, and to demonstrate perseverance, patience, diligence, and compassion, i.e. character development. Focus on the accomplishments, instead of what’s wrong, and your tone will change from bitter to encouraging.

The Hamburger Jan 24, 2017

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When we employ discipline tactics that counter our children’s motivation and passion, it can lead to frustration and exhaustion. When asking our children to do something, there are three questions to answer. 1.) Can my child do the task that is required of them? 2.) Does my child want to do this task and why? 3.) What does your child have to do to succeed in this task? Think of these questions like a hamburger. Top bun … meat … and bottom bun.

Follow their passion Jan 04, 2017

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It is difficult to do something if our heart isn’t in it. Once our passion is activated, we find value in experiences and enjoy them thoroughly. Adolescent years are the perfect training ground to discover what a child’s passions may be. You can tell what passions are because a child can spend hours involved in a task without much pressure from you. Support them as they continue to develop their natural gifts and passions and you will face less resistance and more compliance. They will grow up with the ability to set goals for themselves, with a higher ability to persevere and a higher motivation.

Go for Their Heart Jan 03, 2017

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You cannot appeal to a child's logic when they are overly emotional. You cannot change another’s heart, but you can control your own thoughts and behavior. When you are in an argument with your child, navigate to a calm place and explain your feelings, inviting the child to do the same. Ignoring the turbulent emotions of your child on a regular basis will not equip them to deal with their own emotions.