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The Real Question

The Real Question is a show that holds space for life’s tough questions. Each episode, a guest brings a personal question they’re grappling with, and Chaplain Mauricio Bruce helps them find an answer. This season, our focus is on future-oriented questions – those that start with ‘Should I…’

Mauricio sits down with guests who are contemplating big and small changes in their lives — whether it’s habits, careers, or relationships. In every episode, he asks the pivotal question: “Who do you want to be and what’s the best path to get there?”

The Real Question is produced by Not Sorry Productions, a feminist organization that produces podcasts, educational content, live shows, and immersive experiences with the explicit goal of addressing the spiritual needs of its participants. Through community, rigor, and ritual, we treat traditionally secular things as if they were sacred. To learn more about what we do, visit https://notsorryworks.com/

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Latest Episodes:

Revisiting: Should I Quit My Church? Jul 06, 2026

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In the weeks between new episodes, we'll be revisiting some favorite old ones with some new commentary from Mauricio.

In this episode from Season 3, Vanessa talks to Cari, who has been dreading going to church. In theory, she likes so much about the community. But lately, she’s been resenting her obligations there. Is this just a rut? Or is it time to move on?

Stick around until the end of the episode for Mauricio's thoughts! We hope you enjoy revisiting these episodes with us.

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Revisiting: Should I Have A Child? Jun 29, 2026

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In the weeks between new episodes, we'll be revisiting some favorite old ones with some new commentary from Mauricio.

In this episode from Season 4, Mauricio speaks to a guest who has always wanted to have a kid. He’s also aware that having a kid will totally transform his life! Is he willing to give up parts of his life to make room for a baby?

Stick around until the end of the episode for Mauricio's thoughts! We hope you enjoy revisiting these episodes with us.

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This show is completely funded by Patreon, and we are so grateful to our supporters who make it possible. If you can, please considering chipping in!

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Revisiting: In-Laws Jun 22, 2026

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In the weeks between new episodes, we'll be revisiting some favorite old ones with some new commentary from Mauricio.

In this episode from Season 2, Casper and Vanessa talk to Lily. Lily has a boyfriend who she loves. But you know who she doesn’t love? Her boyfriend’s brother. He makes Lily feel small and hurt and honestly angry every time they see each other. But Lily wants to have a good relationship with her boyfriend’s family. So how does she deal with him?

With help from Sara Bareilles and a scene from Fleabag, Lily, Vanessa, and Casper explore our relationships with in-laws and how to best deal with a bully.

Stick around until the end of the episode for Mauricio's thoughts! We hope you enjoy revisiting these episodes with us.

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Special Edition: Storytelling with Micaela Blei! Jun 15, 2026

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This week we're joined by the lovely and very talented Micaela Blei for a special conversation all about storytelling! Micaela and Mauricio talk about the different ways storytelling helps us think about and shape our own identities, and how it's been a helpful tool on this season of The Real Question.

To learn more about What Matters with Micaela, Mauricio and carvel wallace go to our website here. You can also find Micaela's audible original here and her Tik Tok stories here.

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How do I stay informed while managing chronic pain? May 18, 2026

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Kate has always been pretty well informed on current events. They work with kids who care deeply about what's happening in the world, and they believe in the power of collective attention. Unfortunately, over the last several years they've been dealing with back pain which often requires their full attention. Is there a way for them to ease back into paying attention to the news, while also managing their pain?

This week on the show Mauricio and our guest explore personal responsibility, interconnectedness, and chronic pain.

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Do I have to keep living in a place I hate? Apr 20, 2026

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Over the years, Katie's whole family slowly moved to the same midwestern city. Katie was raised with extended family close by and really values this for her future children. Two years ago, she and her husband has made the move as well, but so far they've hated their experience in this city. Does she need to move somewhere new, or is this the best option for her future children?

This week on the show Mauricio and our guest explore real and chosen family, and how to know if your environment is the issue.

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A Prompt from Mauricio - April Apr 09, 2026

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Once a month we'll be dropping into the feed with a (totally optional) prompt for listener submissions. This month Mauricio is thinking about community ahead of his brother's wedding.

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Is the way I'm spending my time aligned with my values? Mar 16, 2026

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Emily is a new mother finally finding the balance between time for her daughter and time just for herself. She's a reliable and consistent friend, a supportive figure within her family, and involved with her community yoga studio. But as she watches the news and the way other people are responding on her social media feeds she wonders, is she doing enough to meet the current moment?

This week on the show Mauricio and our guest explore shame, calling, and how to know if our values are matching our actions.

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A Prompt from Mauricio - March Mar 09, 2026

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Once a month we'll be dropping into the feed with a (totally optional) prompt for listener submissions. This month Mauricio is thinking about navigating the return of his cluster headaches.

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Will I feel guilty if I choose not to freeze my eggs? Feb 16, 2026

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Through Bunny's husband's job, she has access to one free round of IVF. They've recently started talking to fertility clinics, but she's not quite ready to be a mom yet - and isn't sure if she ever will be. After a bad experience with one of the clinics, she's wondering if she should abandon the process entirely - will she feel guilty and regret it if she does?

This week on the show Mauricio and our guest explore guilt, prophecy, and how to know when to take the next step.

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This show is completely funded by Patreon, and we are so grateful to our supporters who make it possible. If you can, please considering chipping in!

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