The Queer Family Podcast – LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories

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Introducing "This Is Infertilty" Jan 08, 2024

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A Mic for the LGBTQIA+ Community: The Queer Family Podcast. Join Jaimie in this Bonus Episode as she guests on ‘This ‘Is Infertility” with Dan Bulger.

Almost three years ago, we published a list of our Top 17 Favorite Fertility Podcasts. Topping that list was a podcast called “If These Ovaries Could Talk,” a show centered around the lesbian experience of fertility and family building. Today’s guest, Jaimie Kelton, created this podcast after going through the journey to build her family and struggling to find relatable content and education for queer identities. As her following has grown, so has her podcast. Jaimie explains how her show has now evolved into “The Queer Family Podcast,” a podcast for diverse identities, and all LGBTQIA+ stories alike. She dives deep into her story, the evolution of the podcast, and the reality of family-building in the LGBTQIA+ community.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

*Despite being a primary supporter of fertility care, the LGBTQIA+ community is often treated as an afterthought, facing challenges in accessing fair and comprehensive family-building options.

*The podcast has built a supportive and vocal community around it, showcasing the need for connection and chosen family within the queer community.

*The LGBTQIA+ community faces financial challenges in family-building, with many individuals paying out of pocket for fertility care. Progyny is mentioned as an insurance provider addressing inclusive coverage for the community.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

*“For the most part, the LGBTQIA+ community is an afterthought when it comes to fertility care, which is funny, because we are the main supporter of fertility care, because most of us need help to make our families.” - Jaimie Kelton

*"I didn't hear any queer stories at all. So I thought, well, somebody needs to create this. And so, I just ended up creating it" - Jaimie Kelton

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to This Is Infertility

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Queer Family Podcast: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Families and Fertility Journeys Jan 08, 2024

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l BONUS l Jaimie has some exciting news to share y’all! You can now watch video episodes on Spotify!

A brief introduction to The Queer Family Podcast and Jaimie’s personal journey of building a family as a gay mom. She talks about her experience with infertility and the lack of representation for LGBTQIA+ families in the fertility space. Jaimie also announces that the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify and encourages listeners to watch the episodes there. She concludes by promoting California Cryobank, the sponsor of the season, and invites listeners to share their own family stories.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

*Jaimie started the Queer Family podcast to shine a spotlight on and normalize LGBTQIA+ families.

*The podcast features interviews with different individuals, couples, and families about their family-building journeys.

*Jaimie’s personal journey involved fertility treatments and a long struggle with unexplained infertility.

*LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples often get excluded from conversations about fertility benefits and insurance.

*Great news – the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify, so you can watch the episodes.

*Our season sponsor, California Cryobank, offers a diverse selection of sperm donors for LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

*”This show needed to happen. It is six years old as we speak, and there is not a shortage of folks who want to come on here and tell their beautiful, beautiful stories." - Jaimie

*”I tried my best to shed a little light on [the lack of inclusion for LGBTQIA+ folks in fertility benefits], and I hope you do enjoy that episode." - Jaimie

*”Go make those babies, y'all. And then come tell me about it. Go make them. Go ahead. Love is love." - Jaimie

🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

*Hey there, I'm Jaimie, the host of The Queer Family Podcast, and I'm a proud gay mom of two awesome kids. My wife, Anne, and I went on quite a journey to build our family. That’s why The Queer Family Podcast exists. It’s a show all about sharing and celebrating LGBTQIA+ family stories.

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to ⁠This Is Infertility⁠

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Introducing "Lost Spaces" Jan 01, 2024

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S14 EP15 BONUS | Join Jaimie in this Holiday Bonus Episode as she guests on 'Lost Spaces' with K Anderson! Jaimie shares her experience growing up in San Francisco surrounded by queer culture but struggling to recognize her own queerness. She discusses the male-dominated gay world she witnessed in the 80s and 90s and the lack of representation of gay women. Jaimie reflects on her journey of self-discovery, including experimenting with women and eventually embracing her identity as a lesbian. She also discusses the challenges of coming out to her parents and the stereotypes surrounding "U-Haul lesbians." Throughout her story, Jaimie emphasizes the importance of embracing one's differences and shedding the need for perfectionism. Dive into this special episode with a personal touch from Jaimie.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Growing up in a queer-friendly environment does not guarantee immediate self-recognition of one's own queerness.
Representation and exposure to diverse queer experiences are crucial in understanding and accepting one's own sexuality.
Coming out can be a complex and ongoing process, with individuals gradually embracing and fully owning their identities.
The queer community can provide support and a sense of belonging during the process of self-discovery.
Losing perfection means letting go of the need to control others' perception of you.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"I think everybody has a little bit of gay in them and they just haven't found it yet." - Jaimie Kelton
"I knew there was community. I knew I would not be alone if I decided to come out.” - Jaimie Kelton
“I feel like I touched my toe real slowly into this gay water." - Jaimie Kelton

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

Listen to Lost Spaces

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Introducing "Who's Your Daddy" Dec 25, 2023

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S14 EP14 BONUS | We interrupt our regular content to bring you Holiday Bonus Episodes of podcasts that Jaimie loves and has guested on! Listen to the intro to hear an update and funny story from Jaimie before diving into an episode of “Who’s Your Daddy” with Michael and Matt. Jaimie and the fellas go deep into her personal story of struggling through unexplained infertility and over 3 years (!!) of trying to have a baby through IVF and IUI. She also shares some very exciting news that came to be a pretty big surprise!

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🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"We always thought I would be the one to carry, but my wife surprised me by expressing her desire to carry. We had to go back to the drawing board and adjust our plans accordingly." Jaimie
"I always felt slightly off about our fertility doctor. I never felt like he was right for me. Finally, after all of that, I said, 'You know what? Switch the formula. I'm getting a new doctor.'" Jaimie
"We took out another loan against my wife's retirement. Thank God we were privileged enough for my wife to have a retirement to even take out of. We went for the IVF, and it didn't work." Jaimie

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Trust your gut and find a doctor who is the right fit for your fertility journey.
Taking supplements and making lifestyle changes can improve egg health and increase the chances of pregnancy.
The financial cost of fertility treatments can be significant, and it's important to plan and budget accordingly.
Open and honest communication with children about their donor origins is crucial, but it's important to consider age-appropriate explanations and potential confusion.

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

Listen to Who’s Your Daddy
Follow Michael and Matt
Email them at whosyourdaddypod@gmail.com

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Gender, Sexuality, and God's Will Dec 18, 2023

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S14 EP12 | Dr. Lulu, a Nigerian-born pediatrician and advocate, shares her personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer person. Growing up in a homophobic and religious society, she struggled with internalized homophobia and rejected her own child when they showed signs of being feminine. However, after her child revealed themselves as transgender, Dr. Lulu had a change of heart and became an advocate for LGBTQIA+ youth. She emphasizes the importance of unlearning societal norms and accepting and affirming our children for who they truly are. Dr. Lulu also discusses her new gender-affirming family coaching practice and the importance of supporting siblings in the transition process.

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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Dr. Lulu is a pediatrician, advocate, and speaker. She is Nigerian-born and has a passion for supporting LGBTQIA+ youth and their families. Dr. Lulu has recently opened a gender-affirming family coaching practice where she helps parents and families navigate the process of gender affirmation.

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Self-awareness is crucial in understanding our reactions and beliefs about gender.
Exploring the underlying emotions and beliefs behind our reactions can lead to personal growth and understanding.
Gender affirmation goes beyond hormones and surgery and includes respecting a person's chosen name, pronouns, and clothing.
Supporting and affirming LGBTQIA+ children requires unlearning societal norms and taking responsibility for our own biases.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"The truth will set you free. Spend enough time getting curious and asking yourself why you felt this way." - Dr. Lulu
"Embarrassment is an emotion that can reveal deeper beliefs and patterns in our lives." - Dr. Lulu
"Gender affirmation starts at a young age and includes respecting a person's chosen name and pronouns." - Dr. Lulu
"Parents must let go of the belief that they did something wrong and accept their child's gender identity." - Dr. Lulu

🏳️‍🌈Resources:

The Trevor Project Lifeline 1-888-488-7386
It Gets Better: Watch Videos of Support
The National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1800-273-TALK (8255)
The GLGT National Help Center: 1-888-THE_GLNH (888-843-4564)

Youth Talkline: 1-800-245-PRIDE (800-246-7743)

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Navigating Transitions and Coming Out Together Dec 11, 2023

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S14 EP11 | Moe Ari and Tiffany, hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast, share their journey as a queer couple. They met in college, became friends, and eventually fell in love. Moe Ari later came out as transgender, and they decided to start a family through reciprocal IVF. They faced challenges with their families' acceptance and had difficult conversations about their donor choice. Despite the obstacles, their families have come around and are now obsessed with their daughter, Nova. The couple emphasizes the importance of being your own “love goals” and creating your own authentic journey of partnership.

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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Moe Ari and Tiffany are the hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast.
They met in college and have been together for a decade.
Moe Ari is transgender and went through a gender transition during their relationship.
They used reciprocal IVF to have their daughter, Nova.

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Nova's birth helped solidify Moe Ari's gender transition and their identity as a father.
The couple chose a donor based on shared values and personality traits, rather than physical appearance.
Moe Ari's family was accepting of his coming out & transition, while Tiffany faced more challenges with her family's acceptance.
Becoming parents has brought healing and growth to both Moe Ari and Tiffany.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"Hearing her call me Daddy for the first time was like, I am a dude. I am a dad." - Moe Ari
"We wanted to feel connected to the donor in a way that transcended the physical." - Moe Ari
"Having Nova was the first time I had the confidence to really allow myself to be seen." - Tiffany

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

We Are The Rainbow

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A Donor Conceived Gay Mom Finds Her "Bio Dad" Dec 04, 2023

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S14 EP10 | Freya Lyon, a queer mom and donor-conceived child, shares her journey of finding her "bio dad" and connecting with her donor-conceived siblings. She discusses her experience growing up with queer moms, her own journey of becoming a parent, and the importance of open communication and honesty in donor-conceived families. Freya emphasizes the significance of answering the questions of donor-conceived children and providing them with the option to connect with their donors or half-siblings.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Freya had a positive experience growing up as a donor-conceived child and always felt comfortable discussing her origins.
She recently found her biological father and has formed a close relationship with him and her donor-conceived siblings.
Freya's children have multiple half-siblings from the same donor, and they have the option to connect with them in the future.
Open communication and honesty are crucial in donor-conceived families to ensure that children have a clear understanding of their origins and can make informed decisions about connecting with their donors or half-siblings.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"I've always wondered if I would have inherited something [from my biological father]." - Freya Lyon
"Our family is completed, we're not having anymore. I want to be able to do this for someone." - Freya Lyon
"That level of contact was really all I wanted as a kid. I just wanted the odd question answered. I didn't need that relationship growing up. It's just a bonus now." - Freya Lyon

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Freya Lyon is a queer mom and donor-conceived child. She has two children with her wife using a sperm donor and has recently connected with her biological father. Freya shares her journey of finding her biological father and forming relationships with her donor-conceived siblings.

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The Fortunate Dads Adopt Nov 27, 2023

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S14 EP9 | Eddie and Aurelio discuss their journey of adopting in the UK and becoming parents to twin toddlers during the pandemic. They emphasize the need for a support network and resources during the adoption process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic added both challenges and opportunities for bonding with their children. They now provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents through their popular social media platforms.

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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Eddie and Aurelio, also known as @fortunatedads, are adoptive parents who share their journey of adopting twin boys on their social media platforms. They provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents.

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Adoption involves extensive paperwork, interviews, and assessments, making it a complex and emotional process.
The adoption system has a high number of children in need of loving families.
Having a support network and resources in place is crucial during the adoption process.
The COVID-19 pandemic presented additional challenges, but also provided an opportunity for bonding and quality time with the children.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"We wanted to be a family and adoption felt like the right path for us." - Eddie and Aurelio
"There is no feeling like it. You just feel whole." - Eddie
"Representation matters. It's important for our children to see other same-sex couples and know that it's normal." - Aurelio

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A Beautifully Complicated Transition, with Emme Reynolds Nov 20, 2023

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S14 EP8 | Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent to two children in a newly blended family, shares their journey of self-discovery and transition. She discusses the importance of listening to each other's stories and understanding the challenges and complexities of transitioning. Emme emphasizes that transition is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, and highlights the difficulties faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the current political climate. She also touches on the support she has received from her family and the importance of visibility and representation. Overall, Emme encourages open and honest conversations about gender identity and the experiences of trans individuals.

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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Emme Reynolds is a transgender parent to two children in a blended family. They are also the host of the podcast "A Second Puberty."

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Transitioning is a complex and ongoing process, and it is important to understand that it is not always easy or straightforward.
It is crucial to listen to and understand each other's stories within the LGBTQ+ community.
The support and acceptance of family and friends can make a significant difference in the well-being and happiness of a trans individual.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"Transition can be hard and difficult, but it is also beautiful and valid." Emme
"No one is trying to turn your straight kid trans. We're trying to keep trans kids alive." Emme
"It is important to have access to gender-affirming healthcare and medications." Emme

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

Article about centering disability visibility in reproductive healthcare:

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Finding Strength in Tragedy Nov 13, 2023

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S14 EP7 | Liz Glazer, an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom, shares her journey to parenthood and the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. She discusses the struggles and grief associated with pregnancy loss, emphasizing that all forms of loss are equally difficult. Liz also talks about her wife's decision to freeze her eggs and their experience using a sperm bank. Despite the tragedy, Liz and her wife decided to try again and successfully welcomed their daughter, Eloise. Liz highlights the importance of being there for someone experiencing grief and offers insights into the unique nature of grieving for a child who never lived.

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🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

Liz Glazer is an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom. She is known for her debut stand-up comedy and storytelling album, "A Very Particular Experience," which explores the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. Liz is also a former tenured law professor and has been doing stand-up for 10 years.

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

Liz and her wife, Karen, decided to have children, and Karen had frozen her eggs before they started trying.
Liz and Karen used a sperm bank for the embryo transfer, and the first transfer was successful.
Liz emphasizes that there is no hierarchy of grief and that all forms of pregnancy loss are difficult.
Liz and Karen joined a bereavement group called Pockets of Light, which provided support during their grieving process.
Liz shares the strangeness of grieving for someone who never lived and the abstract nature of the grief.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

"I think that being willing to be the person who is there, who's emailing, who's calling, who's reaching out, that's really helpful." - Liz Glazer
"Grief is such a personal journey and nightmare in so many ways." - Liz Glazer
"There's no grief Olympics, all of it sucks because all of it is." - Liz Glazer

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Pockets of Light

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