The Obedient Rebel

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When Everything Is Falling Apart... May 04, 2021

Show notes

Have you ever felt like you wanted to run to a goal but you only ended up falling apart in the process? Many people ask me what they do wrong so they can just get to where they want to be. But they want it without the "falling apart" side of the journey. Is growth ever possible without the tears and pain?

Let's talk about how we can win the inner game by facing obstacles more effectively. Everyone has experienced feeling low and everyone wants the same thing out of it - to get past it and win! But too many times, we fail to face it with a better mindset and we unconsciously allow ourselves to lose. The enormous efforts tend to pay out marginal wins, and this strategy will change all of that. Stay tuned to learn more because this is going to be quite a tool in the Prosperity Approach!

Key Takeaways

Intro (00:00)
Uplevel the inner game (02:53)
A call for hypergrowth (05:15)
The necessity of falling apart (10:32)
Resist and it will persist (13:10)
Your life’s most important mantra (17:17)
A space for tears and pain (21:53)
The bitter end can be a sweet beginning (25:55)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

We will hang out in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group and learn all the ways to achieve prosperity. This Challenge is FREE and it’s starting soon. Together we will set you on a path of financial freedom, so make sure to sign up as soon as possible!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Is It God’s Will Or Mine? Apr 27, 2021

Show notes

How often do we ask ourselves about what God wants for us? We like to focus on the will of God and set aside what our hearts really hope for. We spend our lives dreaming of so many things but a paralyzing question lurks behind them all the time: Is this God’s will or is this my own will? Let’s find out together!

It’s important to be sure about how we feel about our plans and desires. The sad part is that so many of us also think that pursuing the things that we love can be a selfish act. Do we really need to suppress the things we want to do in order to live up to God’s will?

Join me in this engaging topic about real growth, living our best lives, and getting a better grip on what God really wants for us.

Key Takeaways

Intro (00:00)
Grow in pain or grow in love (02:36)
Where do desires come from? (05:59)
Have you been living your best life? (09:27)
More on heavenly nudges and intuition (11:14)
On wanting material things (16:57)
I used to play the inner game wrong (21:36)
God’s hints can be very subtle (23:41)
Litmus test recap (26:34)
Conclusion (28:11)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

A Nudge Or A Coincidence? Ways To Identify Signs From God Apr 20, 2021

Show notes

We are fully aware that God is with us every minute of every day. He speaks to us all the time but we don’t know what He’s saying and how He relays the message. God does not talk to us the way humans communicate, but did you know that there are ways to get His messages? If you’re wondering if it’s a “nudge” from God or just a mere coincidence, then this topic is for you.

I have always been certain of God’s presence, but I never got the gift of intuition. I need to have some sort of test to have a real grip of what’s going on and understand heavenly messages. So I have a five-way test of knowing if a message was from God himself or if it was just an idea to dismiss. Learn how to apply it in your life and you will never have to miss a message from God again.

Ways To Get A Yes From God Through Prayers Apr 13, 2021

Show notes

Powerful experiences strengthened my faith to the point that I became thankful for the financial freefall. At a time when we felt like life was most uncertain, and things never seemed to work well, it was easy to miss whatever good was still left. Little did we know that in the midst of a denied prayer, we were being ushered to a dazzling and life-changing surprise.

We can’t expect God to say “yes” all the time. But there is a certain mindset we need to harness for us to master the skill of asking, identifying, and owning an answered prayer! I’m glad you’re here for this episode, as what you’re about to hear may just change your entire concept of praying.

Key Takeaways

Intro (00:00)
It all begins with how much you believe. Most of the time, we are not confident that He is truly going to answer our prayer (05:48)
It’s important to believe that there is always something better for you (08:51)
Shaken by a financial freefall last 2018, I had no idea that it was the path God laid down for me to learn (12:16)
The instant miracle we experienced became my lesson about certainty. God never intends for us to keep falling (17:05)
I realized that if I had never experienced the downfall, I would never have learned so much from handling money which is crucial to the Prosperity Approach. (21:20)
Conclusions on how to effectively receive a “Yes” from God (24:14)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

We will hang out in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group and learn all the ways to achieve prosperity. This Challenge is FREE, and it’s starting soon. Together we will set you on a path of financial freedom, so make sure to sign up as soon as possible!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

His Real Character: Do We Know God Enough? Apr 06, 2021

Show notes

When things become unbearable, we often end up defining God in our own human ways. I did just that, but let me tell you, these definitions are often wrong. It was only when I started getting to know God better that I was able to overcome the darkness. Knowing God’s real character will help you get out of that dark place too. In this episode, we take a step further in getting to know Him.

As a person who did all the “good girl” things growing up, I never imagined facing a serious faith crisis. With my finances hitting rock bottom while dealing with overwhelming grief over a brother who passed away, I was overwhelmed. But I got through it when I finally understood who God truly is. It doesn’t matter if your perception of God is different than mine. Whether your God to you is the universe, energy, love, or angels - this episode is all about recollecting and redefining our thoughts about God’s real character.

Key Takeaways

Choose the God of your own understanding (00:00)
Darker days ahead: brother passed away, finances crashed, a fire incident (4:50)
The more I asked for God’s presence, the emptier I felt (8:55)
I started making up my own definition of God’s character (15:30)
That’s when I realized that these are the real characteristics of God (20:23)
Knowing God better was key to real spiritual maturity (27:08)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Powerful Transformation Is Possible with Valaura Arnold Mar 30, 2021

Show notes

You know I’m all about show and don’t tell. My guest today is Valaura Arnold, she’s one of the people who’ve deeply inspired me on my health journey. She’s also been through the Prosperity Approach and has some amazing results to show for it! Tune in to discover how Prosperity Approach works in practice and what it can do for you too.

Valaura was instrumental in my health journey as she was my health coach. We co-created an incredible experience together, all based on divine timing. Today she’s living her best life, and a big part of that was her commitment to the Prosperity Approach.

We discuss her journey and how Prosperity Approach helped her move forward in her business and relationships with her spouse and children.

Key points discussed

Who is Valaura and why she’s such a big inspiration for me (00:00)
How we started working together through divine intervention (04:04)
What prompted Valaura to commit to the Prosperity Approach (08:42)
How her husband reacted to her transformational journey (16:40)
We need to believe in the power of manifesting because it’s real (20:36)
The first shifts in mindset Valaura experienced (24:11)
The single most important thing to know about the Prosperity Approach (27:34)

Additional resources

Valaura can bring incredible health transformation into your life - contact her via email Arnoldhealtharmada@gmail.com or find her over at Facebook!

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Healthy Relationships: Do They Require Hard Conversations? Mar 23, 2021

Show notes

The Prosperity Approach is all about dealing with confrontations on a much higher and more effective level. Just like so many of you, I used to avoid conflict. I was a notorious people-pleaser! And although I thought that approach was keeping the peace in my relationships, it actually bred resentment.

In this episode, I want to give you the courage to have all those hard conversations. Being open and honest can do nothing but improve your relationships. It’s amazing how these “awkward” confrontations are actually key to establishing healthy boundaries. And if you do it with the Prosperity Approach, you don’t have to be afraid of sounding angry or offensive to others!

Key points discussed

I am a recovering people-pleaser (01:20)
The Prosperity Approach to healthy boundaries (5:38)
We teach people how to treat us (06:40)
Fear is the anticipation of pain (09:55)
The situation with team member’s resentment (12:45)
Faith is the anticipation of relief (15:21)
My first confrontation as an adult (with my best friend!) (19:44)
Confrontation with a team member (24:39)
Lessons learned in having that conversation (26:41)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

A Different Way to Approach Relationships: Show up in Power and Compassion Mar 16, 2021

Show notes

Prosperity in relationships begins when each partner stands up for their truth. Now, that doesn’t mean being overbearing, manipulative, or bullying. There is a way to show up powerfully and radiate that empowered feminine unapologetically. Today I’ll share my own story of going from being apologetic and permission-seeking to finding my footing and inspiring my husband to do the same.

Like I said in the last episode, we don’t need our partners to be our cheerleaders. We just need them not to be roadblocks. If that sounds worrisome to you and like it might end your partnership, don’t worry. There is actually a way to get what you want and still have a prosperous relationship!

I’m talking about the principles of empowered feminine and empowered masculine. When you show up in that way, your partner will be naturally attracted to your energy. Everything flows easier and without a struggle. If you’re ready for this download, let’s dive in right now!

Key points discussed

How it used to be when Jeremy and I just got together (00:00)
Before we learned to communicate, there was definitely some friction… (04:31)
What Prosperity Approach looks like in relationships (07:58)
No one can resist the empowered feminine energy (10:52)
They don’t need to become our cosmic cheerleaders (14:06)
How we defined our own way of being a power couple (17:14)
What “little girl energy” does to relationships (20:30)
This is what happens when you really stand up for yourself (22:44)
The main takeaway about the empowered feminine (27:43)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Your Journey Is Your Own: Personal Development in Relationships Mar 09, 2021

Show notes

When you’re learning something new, sometimes your partner isn’t on board. Maybe they don’t understand, maybe they don’t want to support you, maybe they’re just a killjoy. At that point, so many people want to know how to change their partners. The thing is, you really don’t need to do that. You don’t need to have your partner on board.

Today I want to share my story and what happened when I started growing. At first, my husband wasn’t into it. At all. We had some heated discussions and it took a while for me to understand a simple truth: you can’t change anyone. But, you can lead by example. You can and should show up for yourself and your mission.

So, let’s drop the need to have our partners on board… Tune in to learn how!

Key points discussed

What I’ve learned about partnerships (00:00)
First, give yourself permission to own your journey (05:07)
This is what happened when I started to grow and change (08:25)
One of our biggest fights ever was about… you’ll never guess (11:41)
Nobody needs to be right (or wrong) (15:57)
How I approached the conversation from the empowered feminine (18:35)
Your journey is yours, his journey is his (21:49)
Don’t try to change them: lead by example (25:30)

Additional resources

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Gina DeVee on How to Be a Queen in Your Relationships Mar 02, 2021

Show notes

Relationships are an important part of a prosperous life. Today I have a special guest who will share her wisdom on relationships and all things femininity. My dear prosperity seekers, it’s none other than the Queen herself, Gina DeVee! Gina has been absolutely instrumental in my professional and personal transformation. She is a Queen in every area of her life and she teaches women how to be Queens in their lives as well. Tune in for this absolute blessing of a conversation!

After my financial breakdown, there was only one thing that could pull me back up. I had to rely on divine nudges and follow my feminine intuition. It took me straight to Gina DeVee, a female empowerment coach, a psychotherapist, and a feminine powerhouse like no other.

Today I’m so honored to share this conversation with you. We discuss the masculine and feminine, interpersonal relationships, how to give yourself permission, how to become empowered through femininity… and so much more. Tune in right now!

Key points discussed

Who is Gina and what’s her divine assignment (00:00)
What does a prosperous relationship look like (03:55)
The difference between feminine and masculine energy (07:11)
Practical ways to awaken your femininity (11:31)
How to regain feminine power in your marriage (17:44)
Giving yourself permission to say “no” (23:16)
How to stop making up excuses and own your power (28:46)

Additional resources

Gina has been an incredible mentor and friend to me. I just adore her book, The Audacity to Be Queen, and I recommend you get it right now! Subscribe to her Divine Living podcast and make sure to check out her website www.divineliving.com.

Of course, don’t forget to get in touch with Gina over on Instagram at @ginadevee.

Want to experience the Prosperity Approach first hand? Join us in the Prosperity Experience Challenge! This Challenge includes live free coaching with me for five days!

Join the challenge, get the free Prosperity Guide, and come share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.