The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

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Keeping Score in Marriage Oct 10, 2022

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9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 5. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. In this episode, we are talking about keeping score in your marriage.

Quick Quotes:

Scorekeeping: Keeping an invisible scorecard where you are always winning and your spouse is always losing. You are keeping track of their wrongs and justification to do your own thing.
Reminder: you are scoring your marriage together, not scoring your spouse.

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Unity in Marriage with Jeremiah & Mo Aiken Oct 05, 2022

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On today's special Hump Day Episode we are interviewing our friends Jeremiah & Mo Aiken

Learn more about their ministry here: https://www.instagram.com/5thwheelmissions/

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Giving your Spouse your Best Oct 03, 2022

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9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 4. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about love vs leftovers. How much of your energy are you giving to your spouse every day? Do they get your best or do they just get whatever you have left at the end of the day?

Quick Quotes:

We don't want to give our spouse our leftovers in how we treat them, we want to give our spouse our best time not give our best to strangers.

Signs you are giving your spouse leftovers:
Coming home angry or apethetic
Taking on hours / or things that take away from family time.

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Can I Make My Spouse Go to Church? // Hump Day Q&A Sep 28, 2022

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Today's Hump Day question: Can I force my husband to come to church with me? On today's episode, we are joined by our friends Chris & Paulette Monroe to help us answer today's question.

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Our Kids are Hurting our Marriage Sep 26, 2022

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9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 3. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about what you should do when your kids are having a negative impact on your marriage.

Quick Quotes:

One of the best gifts you can give your kids is the gift of a great marriage.
Whatever we feel like we are winning at, is what we try to lean in to, but what happens when we do this with the kids is that we sabotage their launch into adulthood.

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Can we Both Climax? // Hump Day Q&A Sep 21, 2022

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Today's Hump Day question: How do we both climax during sex?

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The His & Hers Trap Sep 19, 2022

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9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 2. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about the his and hers trap. Is everything in marriage to be shared, or are there things can be just the husbands or wife's?

Quick Quotes:

Pride is the root cause of divorce one way or the other.
Stay connected during the day and find rhythms that makes sense for you as a couple
Talk about the habits that you have to get consistent for you to forge new habits together.

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Navigating a Blended Family Sep 14, 2022

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We will be back with more of your questions next week but wanted to share a special interview with our great friends Scott & Vanessa Martindale. The Martindale's just released their amazing book "Blended & Redeemed" this week and we want you to go grab a copy! Scott & Vanessa run the non-profit Blended Kingdom Families where they are bringing hope to blended families.

Even if you aren't a blended family, you probably know someone that is and this resource would be a great gift to help them in their step-parenting.

Buy the book here: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/new-release-preorders/products/blended-redeemed

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The Danger of Online Secrets Sep 12, 2022

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Welcome to the first episode of our new series "9 habits that lead to divorce.' In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about secrets and especially online secrets. In our digital world, it's key to have trust and boundaries for you and your spouse.

Quick Quotes:

Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy
When secrets start, they often start with online behavior.
Guard against any kind of correspondence with people of the other sex, because you don't know what their intentions are, even if yours are good.
You should never be the comforter to someone of the opposite sex when you are married.
What you find is that when you open the door to keeping online secrets in your marriage, you begin to find yourself going down roads you never thought you would.
The best way to manage your online life - always be asking "why" Why am I following this account? Why am I messaging this person?

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Interview with Gabe & Rebekah Lyons: https://youtu.be/3f1HTpbmhjc

Episode about Confessing Your Porn Addiction: https://youtu.be/uzfvMnVnyQQ

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Resentment Over Sex // Hump Day Q&A Sep 07, 2022

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Today's Hump Day question: How do I get through my resentment over sex with my husband?

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