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The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

The Naked Marriage invites couples to uncover God’s design for lifelong love. Through honest, faith-centered conversations, hosts Dave and Ashley Willis talk openly about challenges couples often face but rarely talk about. With wisdom, vulnerability, and humor, they offer fresh perspectives and practical ways to build a deeply connected marriage.

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My Spouse Is Having A Secret Relationship With Another Woman// Hump Day Q&A Jan 24, 2024

Show notes

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: I've told my spouse that having one-on-one lunches with the opposite sex makes me uncomfortable, and now he's having secret connections with other women. How do I ask him to stop?

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How To get My Spouse To Listen Jan 22, 2024

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Hey there, Dave and Ashley Willis here, and we just want to welcome you to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the core of marriage – communication. We share our personal journey on how to get your spouse to really listen. From being present to avoiding distractions, we spill the secrets. Learn tips on approaching a non-listening spouse with grace and curiosity. We explore side-by-side communication and tackle gender differences in processing info. Wrap it up with the magic of giving each other time to process, and watch your relationship transform through effective communication. Grab a seat, tune in, and let's deepen those connections!

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Takeaways

Listening is more important than talking in communication.
Being present and avoiding distractions is crucial for effective listening.
Approach a spouse who doesn't listen with gentleness and curiosity.
Side-by-side communication and understanding gender differences can enhance connection.
Give each other time to process information and thoughts.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Importance of Communication

01:30 Learning to Listen Better03:10The Listening Exercise

04:07 Being Present and Avoiding Distractions

05:04 Approaching a Spouse Who Doesn't Listen

06:32 Being Gentle and Curious

08:23 Assuming and Zoning Out

09:20 Side-by-Side Communication

10:44 Non-Accusatory Approach

11:37 Understanding Gender Differences

17:29 Processing Time for Men

20:12 Giving Time to Process

20:43 Conclusion

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Creating & Keeping Great Sex Habits in 2024 | 14 Days of Sex | Day 14 Jan 21, 2024

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Hey there! Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis. Today, in our final episode wrapping up our spicy 14-days of sex, Ashley and I get real about something close to our hearts: the importance of sex habits in a marriage. We share our experiences and insights on fostering regular, fulfilling intimacy, and dive deep into open communication, mutual needs, and how prayer plays a key role. This isn't just a talk; it's a personal invitation to prioritize connection and keep the flame burning. Join us for some candid conversations and takeaways that hit home – let's continue growing together for a more passionate marriage journey!

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00:00 Introduction and Recap

03:41 Sex Habits

10:41 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Helping Your Husband Achieve Better Orgasm | 14 Days of Sex | Day 13 Jan 20, 2024

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Hey, welcome back! We're still riding the waves of our 14 days of sex journey on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Ashley and I get personal, diving into the male orgasm and everything related. From discussing the impact of a vasectomy on ejaculation to our approach to talking openly with our kids about sex, we cover it all. Join us as we cover the nuances of pleasure points and even tackle the headache mystery during orgasm. Communication is key, and we're here to normalize these experiences. Stick around for insights on sexual variety and the intriguing refractory period for men. It's an episode filled with candid conversation and insights into our own journey.

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00:00 Introduction and Year Outlook

00:31 Male Orgasm

01:27 Ejaculation and Vasectomy

02:24 Openness with Children

03:18 Female Ejaculation

04:14 Quantity of Ejaculate

04:40 Headaches during Orgasm

05:29 Communication and Normalcy

06:56 Pleasure Points for Men

08:19 Variety and Oral Sex

09:48 Multiple Orgasms for Women

10:18 Refractory Period

11:18 Post-Sex Hygiene

12:26 Conclusion

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I Dont Want to be Controlling// Hump Day Q&A Jan 20, 2024

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Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I initiate conversations with my spouse without coming across as bossy or controlling

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Helping Your Wife Achieve Better Orgasm | 14 Days of Sex | Day 12 Jan 19, 2024

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Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are talking about what culture deems as a very hard goal... but we think with a little communication it is super achievable -- the female orgasm. We're tackling common questions, emphasizing patience and selflessness for husbands, and sharing practical tips. Our challenge for you: prioritize your wife's pleasure for deeper intimacy. Ready to dive!

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Takeaways

The female orgasm is characterized by a clenching of the muscles and a feeling of pleasure.
The female orgasm often takes longer to achieve than the male orgasm.
Husbands should be patient and prioritize their wives' pleasure, focusing on foreplay and taking the time to understand their preferences.
Communication and kindness are key in creating a fulfilling sexual relationship.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Series Overview

00:32 Understanding the Female

Orgasm03:21 The Female Orgasm Takes Longer

04:19 Patience and Selflessness in Pleasuring the Wife

05:17 Exploring Different Stimulation Techniques

06:43 The Importance of Time and Kindness

08:10 Prioritizing the Wife's Pleasure

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What's Off-Limits In Marriage? | 14 Days of Sex | Day 11 Jan 18, 2024

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Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're almost at the end of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're diving into a personal conversation about what's off-limits in the bedroom for Christian married couples. No frills, just real talk. We're emphasizing the importance of keeping it between the two of you – no bringing other people into the bedroom, no polyamory or open marriages. We also tackle using non-human objects for pleasure and the potential issues that can arise. Vibrators, masturbation, slapping, choking – we're covering it all. Our encouragement? Have those open discussions and seek counseling if you need it. Join us for this honest chat about boundaries in the bedroom as we navigate this journey together

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Takeaways

Christian married couples should not bring other people into the bedroom.
Using non-human objects for sexual pleasure should be carefully considered.
Open communication and seeking counseling can help navigate boundaries in the bedroom.
Respecting and prioritizing the emotional and physical well-being of both partners is crucial.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and XO Marriage Announcement

01:24 What's Off Limits in the Bedroom

03:46 Not Going Outside of Marriage Covenant

06:29 Sexual Sin in the Bible

07:48 Using Non-Human Objects for Sex

08:17 Vibrators and Masturbation

09:10 Slapping and Choking

10:57 Conclusion and Open Discussion

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Understanding Painful Sex | 14 Days of Sex | Day 10 Jan 17, 2024

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Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're right in the thick of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! This episode is a bit close to the heart. Today, we're diving into the sometimes sensitive issue of painful sex, and we want to approach it with the care it deserves. Opening up about the importance of communication, we share some insights on conditions like vaginismus and how those pelvic floor muscles can play a role in causing discomfort. But it's not just physical – we touch on the emotional impact too, stressing the need for understanding and support between partners. We even explore unexpected factors like allergies to condoms and lubricants. As we wrap up, think of this as a gentle reminder to seek solutions and support. And remember, finding intimacy in different ways is a journey worth taking. Join us for this intimate conversation, where openness paves the way to a healthier and more fulfilling sex life.

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Takeaways

Painful sex is a common issue that many couples experience but often struggle with in isolation.
Vaginismus, a condition involving tight pelvic floor muscles, is a common cause of pain during sex and can be addressed through physical therapy.
Allergies to condoms, lubricants, or spermicides can also cause discomfort during sex, and exploring alternative options may help.
Menopause can lead to dryness and pain during sex, and hormone replacement therapy may be a solution.
Believing and supporting your spouse when they experience pain is crucial, and seeking medical help and therapy can provide solutions.
If one solution doesn't work, keep seeking alternatives and don't give up on finding ways to enjoy sex.
During times of pain or discomfort, couples can focus on growing closer in other ways and finding intimacy outside of intercourse.
Men can also experience pain during sex, and there are solutions available for them as well.
Open communication, seeking help, and supporting each other are key to addressing and overcoming painful sex in a marriage.

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00:00 Introduction: Painful Sex

01:00 Vaginismus and Pelvic Floor Issues

02:22 Psychological Impact of Painful Sex

03:17 Allergies to Condoms and Lubricants

05:12 Painful Sex during Menopause

06:10 Believing and Supporting Your Spouse

07:36 Seeking Solutions and Finding Help

09:25 Growing Closer in Other Ways

09:54 Men's Experience of Painful Sex

10:23 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Dealing With Premature Ejaculation | 14 Days of Sex | Day 9 Jan 16, 2024

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. We're in the middle of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we are having a real talk about something a lot of couples go through: premature ejaculation and how it affects our sex lives. We're keeping it simple – it's all about open communication with your spouse and finding solutions together. We're sharing some practical tips to make things last a bit longer, like using desensitizing gels or condoms. It's about being patient, understanding each other, and making sure both partners are satisfied. And hey, before we wrap up, we've got a light-hearted shout-out for the upcoming XO Marriage conferences. Join us for a down-to-earth chat about navigating the ups and downs of our sex lives."

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Takeaways

Open and honest conversation with your spouse is crucial for addressing and finding solutions to sexual issues.
Premature ejaculation can lead to frustration for both partners, but there are practical ways to prolong the sexual experience.
Reducing premature ejaculation can be achieved through stimulation and focusing on mutual satisfaction.
Shame should not be associated with premature ejaculation, and seeking solutions through medical advice is encouraged.
Patience and understanding are key in supporting a spouse dealing with premature ejaculation.

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00:00 Introduction and Importance of Conversation with Spouse

00:29 Premature Ejaculation and Frustration

01:24 Practical Challenges and Solutions03:21Reducing Premature Ejaculation through Stimulation

03:47 Shame and Solutions

04:44 Patience and Mutual Satisfaction

05:40 Humor and Conclusion

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Sex Drive Changes | 14 Days of Sex | Day 8 Jan 15, 2024

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, We're pulling back the curtains on the various causes, from aging to medical issues and mental health, that lead to Sex Drive Changes. It's not just a talk; it's a personal journey as we share our own experiences and the solutions we've discovered. Open communication is key, and sometimes seeking professional help is a game-changer. As we wrap up, consider our book, 'The Counterfeit Climax,' a resource for further exploration. Join us for a candid conversation where our personal stories shine a light on navigating the twists and turns of changing sex drives in marriage.

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Takeaways

Sex drive changes can be caused by various factors, including aging, medical issues, and mental health.
Seeking specialized doctors and exploring alternative solutions can help address sex drive changes.
Open communication and seeking professional help are crucial in navigating changes in sex drive.
The book 'The Counterfeit Climax' is recommended as a resource for further exploration.

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00:00 Introduction and Preview

00:51 Causes of Sex Drive Changes

01:48 Personal Experience with Sex Drive Changes

03:12 Seeking Solutions for Sex Drive Changes

04:09 Importance of Specialized Doctors

05:03 Exploring Alternative Solutions

06:30 Comprehensive Testing and Research

08:48 Hormone Replacement Therapy

09:41 Navigating Changes in Sex Drive

10:39 Communication and Seeking Help

13:04 Conclusion and Resource Recommendation

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