The Mark Groves Podcast

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#159: How To Not Die Alone - Logan Ury Jul 18, 2021

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What does the science say about finding and creating health relationships? This week I dive into the science on dating and love with behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury, who is also the author of the incredible book How To Not Die Alone. Not only is Logan a dating and relationship science ninja, she's also the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. You're not going to want to miss her brilliant and practical insights on how to create the love. #seewhatididthere Find Logan at www.loganury.com on Instagram. ~ Discover: What makes a great relationship? Dating blindspots The "romanticizer", the "maximizer" and the "hesitater" The Disney and Rom-Com paradox The happily every after fallacy The life partner vs. the prom date How to improve your dating habits How are you showing up? Why we don't use discernment in dating The drug of love How to not die alone ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#158: Why You Run From Love (or Sabotage it) - Dr. Alexandra Solomon Jul 14, 2021

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Why do we have such a hard time stepping towards love and/or surrendering into it? Why do we sabotage relationships with people who actually want to love us? In this episode, I welcome back one of your favourites, Dr. Alexandra Solomon. She is an absolute relationship wizard and we discuss what gets in the way of love and why. We explore how to navigate the delicate space of relationships and take responsibility for ourselves, and invite our partner to take responsibility for themselves. You're not going to want to miss this wisdom-packed episode. Buckle up. ~ Discover: Why we don't touch the depth of grief and pain Noticing and exploring patterns are necessary to create shift Why do we hesitate talking about our feelings Name your pain Taking in feedback and healthy shame How to deepen relationships How to move through shutting down Relational is change cemented when... Why acknowledgment is so critical How to love bravely ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#157: The Impacts of Lockdowns - Dr. Jay Bhattacharya Jul 07, 2021

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This week I am so excited to welcome Dr. Jay Bhattacharya on the podcast. He is a Professor of Medicine at Stanford University and directs Stanford’s Center for Demography and Economics of Health and Aging. Dr. Bhattacharya’s recent research focuses on the epidemiology of COVID, including the lethality of COVID infection and effects of lockdown policies. Listen out for: The ideas behind pandemic plans, and why Dr. Bhattacharya says lockdowns will be viewed as the single biggest public health mistake in all of history. Why public health officials' had the wrong approach by focusing on controlling all infections (or cases) in the population, rather than focusing on how to protect those most at risk. The psychological, socio-economic, and physical effects that infection control/ lockdowns have had on individuals and communities. Learn more about the Collateral Global project and connect with Dr. Bhattacharya on LinkedIn. ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#156: Recognizing Red Flags - Vienna Pharaon Jun 30, 2021

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This week I am so excited to share an amazing conversation from a Live webinar I hosted with one of my best friends, Vienna Pharaon. Vienna is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of New York, practicing out of NYC. Vienna received her Master of Science in Marriage & Family Therapy from Northwestern University and trained extensively at The Family Institute, Bette D. Harris Center. In this episode we dive deep into dating, red flags, narcissism, unavailability, self-worth and so much more. Grab your pen and paper—this episode is dynamite! Find more about Vienna's work here, and be sure to follow her on Instagram @mindfulmft. ~~~ Discover: Dating Q&A with Vienna Dating dynamics and red flags Why don't they text me back? If you loved yourself would you respond this way? Signs of green flags What is love bombing? Narcissism, gas lighting and discarding Why we are drawn to people who wound us Emotional familiarity, trauma bonding, and healing How to touch the wound differently The conversations we don't want to have are the exact thing we need for alignment Why we are drawn to avoidant people? How to heal the chasing Why you need to tune in to yourself How to take your power back Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#155: How You Relate Is Your Responsibility - Solo Episode Jun 24, 2021

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This week I wanted to share some thoughts on taking responsibility for our relationships. When we begin to understand things like our unconscious biases, explore the programs we were raised with, and recognize the BS of what we've been taught relationally — we are presented with a choice. We can choose whether or not we want to do the work, sit with the hard stuff, and become the best version of ourselves. Expansion is readily available to us... will you choose it? ~~~ Discover: Perspectives of the world of those who are "lucky" and those who are "unlucky" The unconscious programs that are running the show Healthy inquiry, self-responsibility and self-awareness Expansion and the cocoon Where your worth comes from Explore the depths of who you are with grace and compassion Progress and transformation and stepping into a new space The beauty of repair Take responsibility for the way you relate Life is hard, AND we can change From victim to victor Life is hard, AND you can change Owning your sh*t Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#154: Let Yourself Arrive - Solo Episode Jun 16, 2021

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How do you honour transitions? Are you able to sit in the space of expansion? Can you fly off the edge and trust? This week's episode is a personal life update. I share what life has felt like lately, moving cities, and how I've been navigating both change and uncertainty while continuously being called back to the present moment. ~~~ Discover: How to be more present and slow down through change and grief Sitting with yourself is a gift How to navigate through life transitions Pay attention to the subtle nudges Can you sit in the space that your soul has drawn you to and just trust? Imposter syndrome is a sign you're on the right path Can you have courage and let yourself arrive? Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#153: Healing is Multi-Dimensional with Dr. Mariel Buqué Jun 09, 2021

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I think it’s absolutely fascinating that a lot of the things we might be healing today… are not actually ours. You may have heard the words generational trauma, intergenerational trauma and collective trauma before – but what do they mean? How does this impact a person’s relational patterns, expansion, intimacy or growth? I am so excited for you to experience this week’s episode with the brilliant Dr. Mariel Buqué, a Columbia University-trained Psychologist, Intergenerational Trauma expert, and sound bath meditation healer. Her work focuses on the advancement of culturally responsive therapeutic practices that affirm the lived experiences of Black & Indigenous People of Color (BIPOCs). Her clinical work centers on healing wounds of intergenerational trauma, holistic mental wellness, and centering indigenous healing practices. We discuss the ways intergenerational trauma forms, caring for ourselves in a holistic way, healing from emotional wounds and how to transition into a liberated version of Self. Head here to find Dr. Mariel Buqué's work and learn about the the Soul Healing Collective –a community space she created for people to heal together, as she believes in the liberation of both our minds and of oppressive systems as necessary qualities of our collective wellness. Be sure to connect with @dr.marielbuque on Instagram as well. ~~~ Discover: The things we are looking to heal today are actually not ours Looking at inherited trauma The connection to the gut microbiome, trauma and mental health Challenging western science and psychology How hollistic and ancestral practices help us feel grounded and connected Why we hang on to our limitations - the undercurrent of safety Safety vs. certainty How trauma effects nature vs. nurture Epigenetics, stress and resilience Sound bath meditations for inherited trauma How to hold compassion for trauma that isn't yours Finding wisdom inside your history The multi-dimensional approach to healing Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#152: How to Access Clarity & Connection with Yung Pueblo Jun 03, 2021

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This week I am honoured to welcome back Diego Perez onto the show. Diego Perez is a meditator, writer, and speaker who is widely known on Instagram through his pen name Yung Pueblo. His written works focus on the reality of self-healing, the movement from self-love to unconditional love, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves. Diego's practice of Vipassana meditation has given him a deeper understanding of liberation that inspires his writing. Through writing and speaking he aims to support the healing of the individual, knowing that when people release their personal burdens it helps humanity build a global peace. In this episode Diego shares how meditation practice is a profoundly transformative path, and his primary vehicle for growth, healing and freedom. We anchor into how to traverse serious transformation on both an individual and global level. How to dance in nuance, how to practice love in its purest form, and how to deepen our connections rather than our attachments. The name Yung Pueblo means young people; it serves to remind him of his Ecuadorian roots, his experiences in activism, and that the collective of humanity is in the midst of important growth. You can connect with Diego on Instagram @yung_pueblo, and find his new book Clarity & Connection, here. ~~~ Discover: The power of mediation and silent retreats "In silence is who you are." How silence can give you more than a college education How to hold space for different perspectives and truths How to deepen trust intimacy How 50% gives you success in relationships How impermanence is critical How to return to circadian alignment How to create more balance in life and relationships Love in purest form How to deepen clarity and connection ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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#151: How to Harness The Power of Plant Medicine - Jenny Sansouci May 27, 2021

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I am so excited to welcome Jenny Sansouci onto the podcast! Jenny is the author of The Rebel's Apothecary: A Practical Guide to the Healing Magic of Cannabis, CBD, and Mushrooms. Jenny is a Certified Health Coach through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and has been trained by functional medicine doctor Frank Lipman, MD, in New York City. In this episode we discuss the various medical and wellness uses for cannabis and medicinal mushrooms. How they can enhance the lives of anyone living with pain, anxiety, depression, weakened immune system, insomnia, and more. We talk about the myths and stigmas associated with these powerful healing plants and fungi. We get into the research on psilocybin mushrooms, and share our personal journey’s — diving deep into the weird and beautiful blend of biological and spiritual facets. What starts off as a conversation aiming to deepen your understanding and respect for organisms that literally exist under our feet, quickly shifts to the understanding and expansion of human consciousness. Discover: Cannabis, psilocybin and chemotherapy Healing modalities that academia is now supporting The benefits of Reishi, Maitake, Chaga, Lion's Mane and other medicinal mushrooms Censorship of natural modalities Looking at healing through a different perspective Questioning what we were taught in relationship How relationships are the gateway to the divine Depression: blunting the symptoms vs. getting to the root cause The beauty and wisdom inside nature The illusion of security "When you get the message, hang up the phone." Exploration vs. recreation Maybe there's another way Click here to grab your copy of The Rebel’s Apothecary. Download this free immune support chapter from the book, and be sure to follow @jennysansouci on Instagram.
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#150: Supporting Women's Mental Health - Taryn Bird May 20, 2021

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This week I am excited to introduce you to the wonderful Taryn Bird, Senior Director of Social Impact, Kate Spade New York. She leads the social impact team, overseeing the company’s social enterprise initiative on purpose, philanthropic programs and corporate volunteering. In this episode, we discuss the importance of women’s mental health, the impact it has in today’s society, and the gaps in the women & girls empowerment space. We dive into being proactive about mental health and wellbeing, knowing that you’re not alone, and the unique considerations that are important to recognize among women-identified individuals. Taryn candidly shares her own experiences with mental health, post traumatic stress, loss, and healing. I am so excited to share this important conversation with you as part of Mental Health Awareness Month and Mental Health Action Day. ~ Discover: The accessible mental health tools available to women, girls, and moms Current mental health statistic during covid Experiencing negative emotions The shocking KPI's of women who give The questions we are not asking enough The correlation between how much women give and their mental health How companies are putting resources in place to support mental health Mental health does not have to be dark Why feeling seen inside community is healing The pandemic after the pandemic Releasing control and welcoming the process Why filling your cup is so important but so easily forgotten "Post Traumatic Growth" Purpose and the connection to mental health Learn more about the Kate Spade New York Foundation here, and check out the Women’s Guide to Mental Health & Wellbeing. Check out Mine’d, an accessible way to support your mood and mental health.
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