The Mail-In Podcast

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**The Mail-In Podcast**

Your questions, answered. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries tackle the problems faced and questions asked by 20 and 30-somethings on a daily basis.

Latest Episodes:

Can I Put Grandma's Diamonds In An Engagement Ring? Feb 05, 2026

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Advice for handling a slacker on your work team?

2. My wife and I aren't sure whether to intervene with a couple experiencing parenting inequalities.

3. How do I go about asking her Dad for permission to marry her?

4. I have family jewels that I'd like to put in an engagement ring.

5. I helped my buddy get hired at my company a few levels below me.

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Washing Your Hands Before Unloading The Dishwasher Jan 29, 2026

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Back on ⁠The Mail-In⁠ this week with ⁠⁠Sally deFries⁠ and Will deFries. Here's what we've got:

This week, Sally is joined by Will (filling in for Brett who is on a ski trip) to talk a listener with intimacy issues, saving money while also enjoying your life, washing your hands before emptying the dishwasher, a new parent grabbag, lacking empathy because of your job, handling conflict, choosing where a couple should get married, and more.

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Should We Even Have A Wedding At This Point? Jan 22, 2026

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. How often do you wash jeans?

2. Sell my husband on moving to Austin from PA

3. Traveling to San Diego and Napa with a 9 month old

4. Should we even have a wedding at this point?

5. I'm 23 dating a 33 year old

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My Wife Cheated On Me Jan 15, 2026

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Can we get Sally's thoughts on Heated Rivalry?

2. My wife of 2 years cheated on me. Again.

3. Engagement ring shopping.

4. We've both put on a bit of relationship weight and I think she looks better now... but she doesn't.

5. We accidentally invited a third couple to a NYC trip.

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Where Do I Draw The Line? Jan 08, 2026

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Happy New Year from the squad at The Mail-In Pod. Brett Merriman & Sally deFries back on the mic with y'all. Here's what we've got this week:

1. Having trouble managing a tough relationship with my dad while being there for my mom.

2. Friendships of the opposite gender?

3. Ski trip bachelor party out west?

4. If you're in someone's wedding party do you still get them a gift?

5. Should I propose on a trip even though we have things to work out?

6. How to tell my friends I'm pregnant when they're on an IVF journey.

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My Encounter With A Rude Bartender Dec 11, 2025

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we've got:

1. What should I get my dad for retirement?

2. Throwing an end-of-year party for my law firm.

3. What should I do in a situation where a bartender was extremely rude to me?

4. My girlfriend goes out and doesn't answer when I'm there to pick her up. Should I end things?

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The Mail-In Thanksgiving Spectacular ft. Randy Trembacki Nov 21, 2025

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Producer Randy Trembacki for a dose of nostalgia and some questions on top. Here's what we've got:

1. Deciding between family members as a wedding officiant.

2. What does "a couple" mean at the store?

3. My buddy is getting married and we're not a fan of his fiancée...

4. Need help with my Thanksgiving mac n' cheese!

5. What is Randy thankful for?

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Where Do I Meet Single People At 31? Nov 07, 2025

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We're back on The Mail-In Podcast with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:

1. How do I stop being habitually late to things?

2. Where do I meet single people at 31?

3. How do I manage too many bachelorette parties?

4. My girlfriend sneezes into her hands

5. What's the hiking like in Austin?

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Happy Halloween! Oct 31, 2025

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We're back on The Mail-In Podcast for a Halloween edition with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we got:

1. Skipping my best friend's kid's birthday parties.

2. What are your thoughts on pursuing single fatherhood by choice?

3. Setting boundaries when moving back to the town your family lives in.

4. I'm pregnant with my first and am thinking about having one vs. two kids?

5. I'm feeling disrespected by my employer and wondering what to do.

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Are We Dating The Same Guy Groups feat. Randy Trembacki Oct 16, 2025

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki filling in. Here's what we're working with:

1. Should I be bothered that a girl asked about me in a "are we dating the same guy?" group?

2. Am I within my right to charge my friends for a hotel room they checked out late from?

3. How can I bring up to my wife that her mom living with us is becoming a real problem?

4. How to make the best of working remotely in Japan for two weeks?

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