The Mail-In Podcast

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Dinner With Friends ft. Ellie Schnitt Jun 03, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined live from New York City by Twitter's very own Ellie Schnitt. They talk about grabbing dinner and drinks with friends of the opposite sex, how to change up your sig oth's wardrobe without offending them, and what to do after a break-up. Sprinkle in some discussion about making friends in a new city and talking with your friend about a toxic relationship he or she is in and it's an all-time episode.

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Kat Pat Is Getting Married ft. Kate Pattenaude May 27, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined in New York City by Kate Pattenaude aka @TheRealKatPat. They discuss Kate's recent engagement and the wedding activities that go along with it, keeping your house from becoming a frat basement, and how to NAIL any karaoke situation. Stay for the shower thoughts where Brett breaks down a nightmare flight and Kat Pat aims to mend a relationship with her pending nuptials.

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How Do You Find An Apartment? ft. Randy Trembacki May 20, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Washed Media video guy, Randy Trembacki. The guys dig into their morning routines, social anxiety at a bar after the pandemic, and how to find a new apartment - a process they're both in the midst of.

(2:23) Morning routines and how to save time

(11:38) Apartment pool etiquette

(18:14) Dealing with social anxiety at bars post-pandemic

(24:23) Rekindling a fizzled-out relationship

(41:58) Finding a new apartment

(55:29) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Anthem Part Three ft. Dave Ruff May 13, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by Dave Ruff, ex-lawyer and more recently co-founder of Washed Media. They dig into old internet trends that pre-date Brett before helping out with getting your girlfriend to pay her share for a vacation to Mexico, divvying up bedrooms when you're moving in with your buddies, and how to prepare for having a kid (from a dad's perspective).

(11:42) My girlfriend won't pay me back for a vacation

(19:12) Who gets the master bedroom?

(26:14) My coworker's boyfriend suuuuucks

(32:49) What to expect when you're expecting (as a dad)

(41:50) Canadian bachelor parties

(55:54) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Back To Where It All Began ft. Dillon Cheverere May 06, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by the creator of the show and Washed Media Co-Founder, Dillon Cheverere. The guys discuss how to handle an ex at a wedding, how Brett ended up at Washed, massive pet peeves of a significant other, and breaking up with someone you've lived with for YEARS.

(4:09) My ex is going to the same wedding

(11:49) How did Brett end up at Washed?

(21:00) Getting a bridesmaid to pay her fair share

(29:34) My girlfriend loves country music and I hate it. What do I do?

(36:07) Breaking up with someone you've lived with for years

(41:45) Stocking your bar cart as a post-grad

(49:51) Shower Thoughts 🚿

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Road Trip Essentials Ft. Randy Trembacki Apr 29, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined again by Washed Media Video Director, Randy Trembacki. The guys discuss pregame essentials for a post-grad group, their peak-performance travel routines, and if being a "bad texter" early in a relationship is a sign that it's not going anywhere...

(2:56) Hosting a pregame for a post-grads

(14:02) Road Trip Essentials - planes, trains, & automobiles

(24:22) Dealing with a "bad texter" early in a relationship...

(31:45) How to leave your job and not piss off your coworkers in the process

(51:30) Following up on a Venmo request

(58:01) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Are We Doing Solo Vacations? Ft. Randy Trembacki Apr 22, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett & Washed Media video director Randy Trembacki to get involved with topics like being a first-time wedding guest, what to do with a fixer-upper house, and potentially getting "Friends'd" by a listener.

(10:30) Meeting your coworkers for the first time after a YEAR

(19:21) Always a groomsman, but now I'm a first-time guest. What do I wear?

(29:11) Two couples, one apartment. Good idea?

(36:10) Are we doing solo vacations?

(47:53) How to ask your boss for a raise

(1:04:42) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Golf, Cars, and Tiki Bars: Guy Stuff With KJ Ellis Apr 15, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by KJ Ellis in an episode that ends up sounding like a conversation that occurs at a bachelor party. They hit rules of engagement with exes on IG, work crushes that are getting a little too real, and getting a new car after being down BAD on the side of the road.

(3:01) Instagram rules after your breakup

(12:47) This dude signed up for the Berlin Marathon for a girl (now she has a bf)

(32:20) How do I buy a new car?

(44:43) Getting more into golf

(54:58) Working your way into a group chat

(59:17) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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The One That Got Away with Sally & Will deFries Apr 08, 2021

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This week on The Mail-In, Brett is joined by the husband and wife team of Sally & Will deFries to talk brunch with the squad, moving in with a significant other early in the relationship, and whether or not to do a wedding in Sonoma or a potentially life-altering work conference in The Adirondacks.

(4:32) Guy can't golf because he's at brunch with his girlfriend every Saturday

(22:49) Being single and proud at 27

(30:32) Is moving in with your girlfriend after 9 months too quick?

(37:12) Going to a close friend's wedding that you *definitely* don't still have feelings for

(1:00:12) Physical intimacy after 5 years in a relationship?

(1:09:35) Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Wedding Invites & Groomsmen Problems With KJ Ellis Apr 01, 2021

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This week, The Mail-In welcomes KJ Ellis on the show. He and Brett get to the bottom of wedding invite etiquette, being part of a wedding party that you don't think you should be a part of, and reining a friend in after they've gotten back out there too quickly after surgery.

(2:30) KJ's origin story and how we got here

(9:15) How many people do you invite to your wedding?

(22:00) I don't want to be this guy's groomsman. Help.

(46:59) How do you tell your potential employer you're deploying with the Army Reserve?

(55:24) What to eat when you're bored but also on a hotness journey

(1:05:16) Shower Thoughts

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