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"I Think You're Marrying The Wrong Person" Oct 31, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries to solve the internet's problems. Here's what we've got:

How do you talk to someone about your thought that they're marrying the wrong person?
Feeling a bit lost in my career/work life - is it too late to completely switch things up?
What are your thoughts on Ozempic?
One of my friends no-showed my wedding...
Can you be mad about your friends watching football during your wedding?

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How Do I Host A Halloween Party? Oct 23, 2024

Hopping back in on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries to solve the internet's problems. Here's what we've got:

Hosting a Halloween Party and I need some advice!
My girlfriend compliments me in the most hyperbolic ways and it weirds me out?
How would you put together a deFries Halloween costume
How do you break the ice with people? Small talk prompts?
Best advice for holding a Bachelorette Party in Austin, TX?
How do I handle the bartender flirting heavily with the guy I'm on a date with?

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Sally Absolutely Hates Weddings Oct 10, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries this week. Here's what we've got:

Thoughts on a babymoon?
Finding time to work out after having a baby?
My sister invited me to a wedding as a plus one. Should I go?
Are you obligated to use a friend as a realtor?
What is Sally's pigs-in-a-blanket recipe? How about Brett's buff chick dip?

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Should My Significant Other Be Contributing More Financially? Oct 03, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in the chairs! Here's what we've got:

How do I ask my girlfriend to pay for more things in our lives?
Setting boundaries with in-laws who live within driving distance
I'm 6 weeks pregnant and have a history of miscarriage - how do I tell my parents I don't want to visit without spilling the beans too quickly?
How do I know if I'm settling?
Am I the asshole for not wanting to help setup/breakdown my buddy's wedding?

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Do I Tell My Friend I Love Them? Sep 26, 2024

Back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries this week! Here's what we've got:

Advice for females in their 30s who don’t have kids yet but want kids?
Establishing holiday traditions when your extended family is pulling you in different directions.
Do I tell my friend I have feelings for them before their current sig-oth moves to our city.
I'm struggling with addiction and I'm wondering if y'all have any tips..
Bridal party etiquette for a sister-in-law

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How To Handle Your Parents Asking About Marriage & Kids? Sep 12, 2024

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries! Here's what we've got:

How do you handle the pressure of your parents asking about marriage and kids?
Any tips for handling the last trimester of pregnancy at a job?
Is it rude to propose on a vacation that also doubles as attending a wedding?
Tips for carry-on only travel overseas?
Is body count important in a relationship?

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Getting Better Sleep Feat. KJ Ellis Sep 06, 2024

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and special guest, KJ Ellis, of Too Much Dip. Here's what we've got:

Trash or not trash: finishing a High Noon your date left half-filled?
How do you get a good nights sleep?
A lot of career uncertainty?
Anxiety about jumping in a brand new program after being in a career for a while.
How do you mend deep family relationship cuts?
What's the rule on ending things with someone after a big gesture?

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What's The Deal With Run Clubs? Ft. Randy Trembacki Aug 30, 2024

Back on The Mail-In this week with everyone's favorite Washed video guy, Randy Trembacki, in the co-host chair next to Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got for y'all:

I'm in a run club and I have a crush on my sister's friend.
My friend is engaged and I don't support the marriage. Do I go to the wedding?
Can I tell my dad he rambles too much on the phone and that's why I don't call as often as I should.
How do I not take rejection in my job personally?
Struggling with finances and my mom wants to help (but there's a catch)
Is it right to want to cut friends out of your life based on a certain election outcome?

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Are They Still Interested In Me? Aug 08, 2024

We're back at full strength this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries on The Mail-In. Here's what we've got:

When do you know if someone has lost interest early on in dating?
We're going to need to do IVF to have kids and we're arguing about the process
How do we become good at-home cooks?
My GF's estranged father passed away a few months ago. She's taking it really hard with the guilt and grief. How do I help?
Separating friends/family on a bachelor party?

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A Parents-Only Vacation Faux Pas For The Ages Aug 01, 2024

We're back at full strength this week on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:

Is it ok to be turned off by someone's career choices?
Is it possible to maintain friendships with coworkers your age after you become their boss?
Any thoughts on staying away from kids' birthday parties while we struggle to conceive?
My girlfriend and I have both gained some weight. She wants to lose it. I think she looks even better than she did before. What do I do?
How to navigate your partner switching up their dietary habits to exclude meat?
Can I tell my friend she's uninvited to a parents-only trip after saying she's bringing her child?

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When Should You Start Chipping In On Dates? Feat. KJ Ellis Jul 25, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and special guest KJ Ellis of the Too Much Dip podcast. Here's what we got:

Should I feel guilty for leaving my kid behind while traveling?
Long distance relationships on a budget
What's the etiquette for replacing something you break?
Southwest is ending their open seating policy
When should she start chipping in for dates?
A friend's work bestie is torpedoing our overseas vacation...

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Liking Someone More Than They Like You In A Relationship Jul 18, 2024

We're back to FULL strength on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:

How do I tell my friends that my husband and I don't want to travel with them?
What's your go-to karaoke song?
Handling situations where someone likes you more than you like them and vice versa.
How do I kindly tell someone they can do things without their partner?
Going on trips where drinking was expected while pregnant?

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Paying For Dates Ft. Randy Trembacki Jul 12, 2024

WE'RE BACK! Thanks for bearing with us on The Mail-In the last month but we're back in action with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki on the mics. Here's what we've got:

Is it wild to have someone call you and demand you pay for the next few dates?
What is your cutoff time for flying vs. driving?
Narrowing down names for a child - are some too popular?
Do I have to go to a wedding just because I was invited?
Should I take less money now for a potential payoff in the future?
Back on dating apps after a divorce !

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Who's Your Celebrity Hall Pass? Jun 13, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in the host chairs! Here's what we've got:

Celebrity hall passes?
Am I wrong to be annoyed by my friend sending me pictures of her kid constantly?
Statute of limitations for work fridge food items?
Should I split money with my in-laws after selling their hand-me-downs?
What is your least favorite habit of a coworker?

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Talking About Sex, Folks! Jun 06, 2024

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are back to solve as many problems as possible in an hour. Here's what we've got:

Should I quit my underachieving beer league team?
Broke up with my GF and now I'm in a pickle...
How to host a fun adult get-together with kids in the mix?
Got out of the military and now I'm thinking I want to be a CRNA
I'm married with kids and our sex life has become extremely complicated...
I liked an Instagram pic I shouldn't have...

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Comparing Lives, Children, and Accomplishments With Family & Friends May 30, 2024

We're back!! Thanks for bearing with us the last few weeks on The Mail-In. Sally deFries and Brett Merriman on the mic! Here's what we've got this week:

My roommate is afraid to take his new girlfriend to a bar where he hooked up with a bartender
I can't help but get annoyed comparing lives with my in-laws
UT tailgating scene and places to catch games in Austin
Meeting new friends in an unfamiliar city as a medical student
I want to set my coworker up with a friend... how should I do it?

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New Mom Chronicles May 10, 2024

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries talking shop and answering questions. Here's what we've got:

I'm a newly-divorced 36 year old looking to hop back into the dating pool. Is everyone always this immature now?
How do I go about finding the right person for me?
How do I find time for myself as a new mom?
Is it too soon to apply for a new job within my current company?
I'm in a wedding soon and the bride hasn't told me what to wear!
Cutting the guest list for small weddings

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My Mother-In-Law Is Driving Me Crazy May 02, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries - here's what we've got this week:

Enjoying your senior year of college
An on-again, off-again dating roller coaster
I'm pregnant and my MIL is driving me crazy
I manage a sales team and one of my guys is going through a tough breakup
I have a girlfriend and I have a huge crush on my coworker

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I Have A Crazy Mother-In-Law Apr 25, 2024

This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries is back to join Brett Merriman in the host chair. Here's what we've got:

What are your hair routines?
Did I cause a friendship divorce by checking out of a wedding early?
My girlfriend is concerned about my caffeine intake
My future mother-in-law is basically wearing my wedding dress to the big day
How do you say no to people when you're a people pleaser?
My wife is making "who loves each other more" a competition

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Baby Names & Free Drinks Ft. Will deFries Apr 18, 2024

We're joined by a very special guest on The Mail-In this week, Will deFries. Will created Sunday Scaries and happens to be the husband of the normal co-host of the show, Sally deFries. He joins Brett Merriman answering things like:

What is the etiquette for baby names and sharing them with friends?
How much do you tip bartenders who give you free drinks?
Meet cute gym situation
Need help on a trip to Europe as a chronic over-packer
Is "golden retriever energy" actually kind of an insult?
How should I get to this bachelor party?

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I Have A Crush On My Boss Ft. KJ Ellis Apr 11, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and special guest, KJ Ellis. Here's what we're working with:

I have a crush on my boss and I think she might be into me
My boyfriend pooped in the shower and I caught him
Business casual attire for a guy who hasn't worked from an office in years?
Should I tell my girlfriend about the very expensive watch I bought?
Biggest difference between kid #1 and #2?
I'm tired of planning the groom's bachelor party when people are making different plans

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Taylor Swift Ticket Drama. Uh oh. Apr 04, 2024

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are tackling some BIG time problems. Here's what we've got:

One of my friends has a fiancée on Grindr. How should we tell her?
How do I get over my resentment for my fiancée going to a strip club on his bachelor party?
Should I be angry about my couple friends wanting to sell their Taylor Swift tickets that I helped them get?
Going to a work conference in Vegas - is gambling concerning?
Burnt out in consulting - should I stick it out or look around?
Is a three bedroom house going to feel too cramped with a kid in the mix?

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Falling For Your (Physical) Therapist Mar 28, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

I asked my boyfriend's mom for pictures and she sent me back one of my bf and his ex
30th birthday conundrum
I fell for my physical therapist
Bouncing back from a poor work happy hour performance
Just moved into a new house - what are the first things to do?

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Am I Responsible For My Girlfriend's Birthday Party? Mar 14, 2024

This week on The Mail-In we're rocking with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries back in action. Here's what we've got:

Interviewing for a job but I just found out I'm pregnant - should I say something?
How do you balance your personal life with your spouses after kids?
My girlfriend is a party person and I'm responsible for her birthday party this year...
What would you change about your wedding?
What's the ideal set up/activity for double dates?

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Aging (Gracefully) Into New Bars Feat. Connor Crehan Mar 07, 2024

This week on The Mail-In, host Brett Merriman is joined by Connor Crehan aka 'Captain Cons', co-host of Zero Blog Thirty on the Barstool Sports Podcast Network. They're getting into topics like:

How quick is too quick when it comes to a dating-to-marriage timeline?
I'm debating declining a wedding invite for the first time...
My age gap (33F / 56M) situationship is becoming difficult because he won't tell his kids about me
Need help finding love as a guy in his late 30s
Should I pursue an extra year of medical training or head home and begin my life?
Aging out of bars and holiday drinking events

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My Partner Is On The Fence About Having Kids Feb 29, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in the captain's chairs. Here's what we're working with:

How do I not feel guilty for canceling plans?
My girlfriend travels internationally for work all the time and it ruins our vacation plans
My girlfriend is unsure if she wants to have kids and it's driving a wedge in our relationship
We have separate finances and my partner keeps using my card
What are some things you wish you knew a decade ago that you do now

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We Never Have Sex Anymore Feb 23, 2024

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are back to break down your biggest questions. Things like:

Am I an asshole for hooking up with two girls in the same day?
Switching careers at 28
My wife and I are planning on having our first child - any advice?
My partner and I don't have much sex anymore
Favorite things about your routine?

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I'm Inheriting A TON Of Money Feat. KJ Ellis Feb 09, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman hosting and special guest KJ Ellis of Too Much Dip. Here's what we got:

I'm inheriting $35 MILLION and I'm not sure how to navigate this
How do you tell your roommate they've been doing something wrong their whole life?
My coworker won't stop harassing me with the same joke
Should guys pay for everything on a date?
If I help a friend out financially, can I ask for a financial favor when I'm in a similar situation?
Would you take an all expenses paid trip to Antarctica?

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Boy Do We Have A Rom-Com Situation For Y'all... Feb 01, 2024

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with:

25 year old single guy moving to San Diego. What's the move?
Going on a ski trip to Brighton, UT
How can you preserve alone time while living with a partner?
Rom com situation: a friend and I caught up for drinks and things escalated...
My girlfriend of 3 years is becoming more helpless and it has me questioning things...
Where should we go for our honeymoon?

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Is Taylor Swift Fandom A Dealbreaker? Jan 25, 2024

Sally deFries is back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman! Here's what we've got:

My girlfriend is beyond obsessed with Taylor Swift. Is that a dealbreaker?
Should I text my ex happy birthday after she took all her things and left with no explanation?
How do I get out of speaking at a wedding and dealing with a changing friendship?
Any advice for going through a second c-section?
I'm the best man planning bachelor parties and speeches. Any tips?

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Unhealthy Drinking Habits Feat. Randy Trembacki Jan 19, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In with special guest Randy Trembacki filling in this week with Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got:

Should I push my wife to workout before we go on a hiking trip?
How to broach the topic of a friend's unhealthy drinking habits?
What are your thoughts on giving or loaning money to friends?
Help me choose which business school to go to
How do I choose which bachelorette parties to go to this summer
My due date is the same day as my sister-in-law's wedding !

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Annoying Things In-Laws Do Feat. Kayla Haby Jan 12, 2024

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Kayla Haby filling in for Sally alongside Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got:

My husband's father does really annoying things when we visit - when can I say something about it?
What are your opinions on thank you notes
Do I have to buy a wedding present for a destination wedding?
How to handle a 2-year long distance marriage?
I called my coworker a terrible name and I need to figure out how to move forward
Should I ask my roommate to keep her part of the security deposit?

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Could You Land A Plane By Yourself? Jan 04, 2024

Happy New Year! We're back in 2024 on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

Saw a text from my girlfriend to her sister-in-law that disparaged my family...
Do I need to give my boss anything in return for giving me his grill for free?
Need some help re-motivating myself at work after having a child!
Can you land a plane in an emergency with help only from Air Traffic Control?
Tips for bringing a baby on an airplane?

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The Mail-In Holiday Spectacular Dec 21, 2023

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A holiday special of The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries! 🎄 Here's what we've got for your travel back home:

What's the best Christmas Eve drink combo & holiday cocktails in general?
Around the holidays my ex always reaches out to rekindle the flame. Now she's married and is still doing it. How do I handle this?
Does Santa wrap his gifts?
Best tips for staying with significant others' family/in-laws over the holidays?
Is there a tier system for gifts to your siblings and their significant others?
What are your favorite Christmas traditions from childhood that you want to keep alive as an adult?

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Losing Loved Ones And How To Move On Dec 14, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

Advice for doing Whole30?
How do you get through the passing of both your parents?
She didn't text me back and now I don't know how to proceed...
I've hooked up with a guy that I'm about to see again at a wedding. Not sure how to proceed...
What are your Brawny flags? i.e. those annoying things that someone does when you live together for the first time

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Should I Stay Above Or Below The Wall? Nov 30, 2023

Back on The Mail-In with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman answering your questions. Here's what we've got this week:

I'm crushing on a sales rep - how do I ask her out?
My parents don't approve of my upcoming marriage and want me to sign a prenup
I have a weak stomach - how do I support my wife during childbirth?
I miss friendships with my exes while I'm currently in a relationship. Can I ask them to be friends again?
My girlfriend dumped me and my friends are now telling me they never approved
What are some good ideas for gifts on a budget?

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Put Your Phone Away At A Concert Nov 16, 2023

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. They're breaking down questions like:

How do I stay present and not stress about major life events like buying a house or getting married?
Do you have road rage and how do you handle bad drivers?
Should I leave a note on the door of a girl I met in my apartment complex?
How do I not document every waking moment on my phone especially when it comes to my small child?
How do you feel about keeping all pictures of your ex saved?
Thanksgiving traditions and go-tos?

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Are Non-Traditional Weddings Becoming The Norm? Nov 09, 2023

Back on The Mail-In this week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Answering things like:

What are your thoughts on non-traditional weddings?
My current interests bore me. How do I go about finding hobbies?
I had a total rom-com story on a plane. Did I brick the dismount?
What do your sub 30s hair and skincare routine look like?
How do you adapt to changing holiday traditions as you get older?
Is it lame to attend your 10-year high school reunion?

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Is It Ok To Do A Solo Thanksgiving? Nov 02, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In with Sally deFries - fresh off bringing new life into the world! Her and Brett Merriman are breaking down your questions this week. Here's what we've got:

Best man speech tips?
I have a roommate moving in with me and I'm anxious about it after living alone for a while..
Doing a solo golf trip to Frisco during Thanksgiving - how should I do the dinner by myself?
I've been on a few great dates with a girl but she has genital herpes. Is that a dealbreaker?
A girl I'm dating is moving three minutes away and I'm feeling like it will make things move too quickly
Recommendations and tips for NYC during Christmastime

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Cheating On Your Partner ft. Randy Trembacki Oct 19, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Washed Media's own Head of Video Production, Randy Trembacki, as a special guest. He and Brett Merriman tackle your biggest questions:

Should I give in to the small-town "grass is greener" pull?
Any sites like Washed out there putting out good written content?
I took a job at a startup that hasn't lived up to their promises
I'm 23 and it seems like everyone around me is getting married and having kids
If a girl tells me she wants a break because she's "burned out from dating" what do I do?
My bf made out with another girl at a music festival and I want to stay together. Should I?

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Getting Healthy Ft. Dave Ruff Oct 12, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In this week with special guest, Dave Ruff, host of Too Much Dip and Circling Back. He and Brett Merriman break down the questions and problems y'all have for us this week. Things like:

How do you get motivated to get healthy when you've been out of the game for a while?
Tips for moving cross country?
I'll be working with a girl I ghosted 3 years ago...
How do you tell a guy you don't want to just be a hookup?
How do I break an unhealthy relationship with food?
Best tips and destinations for golf trips?

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Why Do "Friends With Benefits" Exist? Sep 28, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries - her last episode before she has another baby! Here's what we've got this week:

Friends With Benefits - why can't I find something more?
How do I get friends back that took a backseat while I was in a relationship?
I'm running out of things to talk about with my long distance GF
How do I tell my roommate she's the crazy one in her relationship?
Do I get to keep my sand volleyball team after my friend's breakup?
What does it take to be successful in a business development role?

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My Girlfriend Can't Have An Orgasm Sep 21, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman steering the ship. Here's what we've got this week:

I cannot get over this person
My partner cannot have an orgasm and I'm thinking of ending things
Help me deal with an over-scheduler
My girlfriend gave me a proposal ultimatum. I'm 24.
I have a teenage son who lacks ambition
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I'm In Love With Someone Who's Engaged Sep 14, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries this week tackling your biggest problems and questions. Here's what we've got this week:

How do you handle those "just wait" parents commenting on how hard having kids is?
Am I the scumbag friend for expecting my friends to reach out to me to make plans?
Should I tell my girlfriend the reason for her parents' divorce?
Do I tell my engaged friend I have feelings for her?
Disaster friend group situation
How to have a great Halloween party

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I Went Through My Fiancée's Phone... Sep 07, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In! Thanks for bearing with us as we had no AC in the studio last week which would've made for a very grumpy pregnant Sally deFries (and Brett Merriman). Here's what we're answering this week:

- Can I ask my girlfriend to get rid of her cat if I'm allergic to it?

- How should I approach my wife about buying MORE revealing clothing?

- How do I tell my friends in a city that we're visiting that I don't want to hang with them and their toddler?

- I went through my fiancée's phone and found things I didn't want to find. How do I proceed?

- Should I tell my partner that my ex will be at a wedding I'm attending?

- Can I have a housewarming party even though my place isn't exactly finished?

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What If We Disagree On How Many Kids We Want? Aug 24, 2023

We're back onThe Mail-In with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman this week to break down your biggest questions. Here's what we've got:

- Should I go to my buddy's golf-based bachelor party if I don't golf?

- I'm interviewing for a job and just matched with my potential new boss on Bumble. Help.

- What if I want to stop at two kids and my wife wants three?

- Any tips on improving your social media presence?

- What is your advice on Wedding Day prep? Any tips?

- My fiancee is a terrible driver and I'm incredibly anxious about it. What do I do?

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You Have To Hear This Story... Aug 17, 2023

Back at full strength on The Mail-In! Brett Merriman hosts with Sally deFries in the co-host chair. Here's what we're working with this week:

- Should we join a country club to save $$ on a wedding?

- CRAZY story of a guy dating someone who gets married while they're dating???

- One of my bridesmaids is going to a concert instead of my bachelorette party - should I be mad?

- How should we tell our new neighbors we're having a party?

- When should I tell different people I'm pregnant?!

- I'm tired of the stigma around losing weight with the help of specifically prescribed drugs!

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How Do I Meet Older Women? Ft. Randy Trembacki Aug 03, 2023

Welcome back! We're rocking on The Mail-In this week with Washed Media Video Director, Randy Trembacki. He and Brett Merrimanare answering the hard hitting questions the listeners have. Things like:

- How do I get over feeling less accomplished career-wise than my girlfriend in social situations?

- My partner isn't a fan of how close I am with my Mom

- How do I meet older women?

- Christmas in July! Need help picking gifts this year as money will be tight

- I can't get over my high school ex...

- Need help with planning a bachelorette party

- Shower Thoughts

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Should I Bring A Random Plus-One To A Wedding? Jul 20, 2023

The Mail-In is back after a vacation week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got this week:

- If I'm not super physically attracted to someone, should I move on?

- Should I bring a random plus-one to a wedding?

- Do I need to pay family members to take my dog out?

- How did Sally develop such a "care-free" personality?

- Skincare for MEN!

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The Taylor Swift Ticket Swindler Jul 06, 2023

Hope everyone had a great 4th of July weekend! We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in the hosting chairs answering your biggest questions. Here's what we have this week:

- My friend thinks she deserves money for selling a Taylor Swift ticket that she didn't purchase ???

- I have a remote job, unlimited PTO, a good salary, BUT I'm extremely bored

- Do you tip your wedding vendors in the service industry?

- I've been friend-ghosted by a new mom

- I'm tired of the party scene and want to slow down without ruining my social life

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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SALLY IS PREGNANT Jun 29, 2023

HUGE news for The Mail-In as co-host, Sally deFries, is getting ready to welcome another child into the world. She and Brett Merriman are breaking down the biggest questions y'all have this week including:

- When you get married, do you also marry your spouse's family?

- Need some advice on flying with a child

- How many guys is perfect for a bachelor party?

- Give me the lowdown on botox!

- Tips for a Napa trip?

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*Alternative* Life Choices & Professional Mentors Feat. Producer Randy Trembacki Jun 22, 2023

The Mail-In is back this week with special guest, Producer Randy Trembacki of Washed Media. He and Brett Merriman break down questions, problems, and the general zeitgeist of the millennial demo. Here's what we've got this week:

- I need a peer mentor!

- How do you communicate with your family about alternative life choices like not having kids?

- How do I interpret a "friend" break up text?

- Am I the asshole for thinking a family of doctors can support someone having quintuplets?

- What should you do with groomsmen gifts?

- Shower Thoughts

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Airport Fits & Credit Card Debt Feat. Dillon Cheverere & Dave Ruff Jun 15, 2023

BIG week on The Mail-In with show creator, Dillon Cheverere, and former producer, Dave Ruff, back on the mic with Brett Merriman hosting. Here's what we're working with this week:

- Airport fits and travel routines

- Should I tell my fiancée about my credit card debt prior to getting married?

- How do I initiate telling my work crush I have feelings for her?

- I caught feelings for my ex's best friend and she caught them back 😬

- Am I the asshole for not wanting to do a Vegas bachelor party for my friend who's eloping for his wedding?

- Quarter life crisis: should I move to a new city for a new start??

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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HELP! I've Been Ghosted... Jun 08, 2023

Brand new Mail-In! Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are in the chair to give you what you need:

- How do I break up with my cleaning lady?

- Can I skip a wedding where my girlfriend hates the groom?

- I'm not feeling challenged at work, should I quit my job?

- How do I get over being ghosted?

- How do you keep your home tidy with a toddler around

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Helping A Loved One Through Grief And Mourning Jun 01, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are back to break down your biggest questions and problems. Here's what we've got today:

- Where are we getting good wedding dresses now as 30-somethings?

- What are the keys to being more conversational?

- How do you keep a good work/life/workout balance?

- How do I get a family member to stop coming to me for MLM buys?

- How do I help my husband go through losing both of his parents?

- Austin Bachelor Party: Lake vs Downtown

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Why Is Wedding Planning So Hard? May 18, 2023

Sally deFriesandBrett Merriman are back onThe Mail-In this week to break down your biggest questions and problems. Here's what we've got:

- How to deal with your partner being a terrible sleeper?

- Do I have to invite someone to my wedding solely because they invited me to theirs?

- I'm a teacher and I'm burnt out and discouraged trying to find a new job

- How do I stop wedding planning from tearing apart my relationship?

- My neighbor's dog will not shut up. How do I go about asking my neighbor to let him in?

- What is your group trip shopping list?

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Ick Lists & Escaping The Friend Zone Ft. Dave Ruff May 11, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Dave Ruff of Circling Back and Too Much Dip joins the show to fill in as a co-host with Brett Merriman. We're solving your problems, folks. Or at least trying to. Here's what we've got this week:

- What is on your "ick list" for a typical night out?

- How do you navigate the house-buying process in a city like Austin?

- Should I pay the best man who offered to pick up a steak dinner tab on a bachelor party?

- What should I do to get out of the friend zone?

- Should I quit my job to trade options full time?

- Solo for a day in Austin - what should I hit?

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How Do You Tell Your Partner You Don't Like Their Rapidly Changing Appearance? May 04, 2023

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries to give you what you need: answers.

- How do I tell my wife she needs to get her weight under control?

- I got a big promotion and am finding it's not all its cracked up to be. What do I do?

- My girlfriend is way too into the new appearance changing trends. How do I explain to her that I think they're making her look worse?

- How much is too much to ask my friends to pay for my bachelor party?

- What can I do ahead of time to be more confident in my transition to the workforce and office life?

- How do you unwind after long days of work? My anxiety spikes and I can't "turn off"

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When Should You Text Someone After You Get Their Number? Apr 27, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are tackling problems like:

- Can joggers be business casual?

- After getting someone's number, when should you text them?

- How should we go about inviting a divorced couple to our wedding?

- Is it lame to have your bachelorette party in your hometown?

- Can I reach out to step parents who have been a big part of my life after a divorce?

- What is the cutoff age for a belly button ring?

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How Much Time Do You Spend With Coworkers Outside The Office? Apr 20, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to tackle your most burning questions. Things like:

- Do you tip at a wedding tasting?

- Any advice for initiating intimacy again after having a child?

- What do you buy for a 1-year-old's birthday party?

- Is it wrong for me to not want to spend time with my coworkers outside work hours?

- Am I asking too much of my partner to define the future of our relationship?

- Travel tips for heading to Italy

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How Do I Kick The Doomscrolling Habit? Apr 13, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are here to help with weddings, bachelorette parties, social media and more.

- How do I stop my partner from doomscrolling and freaking out that the sky is falling?

- Picking between two best men

- Where is the line for calling the police on potentially abusive neighbors?

- Trash or not trash to post wedding pics that I look good in but the newlyweds don't?

- Do I HAVE to attend someone's bachelorette party that attended mine?

- Power rank leftover foods

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Can We PLEASE Stop Eating Leftovers? Apr 06, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries returns with Brett Merriman to tackle the internet's questions of the week. Here's what we've got today:

- How do I tell people (nicely) that they can't always crash at our place?

- What do you do to manage friends that don't put in the same amount of effort as you?

- How do you ground yourself when so much around you changes in adulthood?

- Making wedding planning easier for my future spouse who has lost both of her parents

- Am I an asshole for not wanting to eat leftovers from my wife's cooking 3 nights in a row?

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AirBNB Rules To Live By Feat. Will deFries Mar 30, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Will deFries, creator of Sunday Scaries and husband of Sally deFries, fills in on the mic. Here's what we've got this week:

- One of the wildest drunk text situations we've come across

- Tips for trying to get pregnant with your first child?

- AirBNB rules when splitting different bedrooms with couples?

- How to start a long distance relationship with someone you met while they were in town?

- Is it weird that my girlfriend has pictures of her ex on her phone?

- Bachelor party ideas for Saratoga Springs, NY?

- El Tiempo vs. Matt's El Rancho

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Are Strip Clubs A Dealbreaker In A Relationship? Mar 23, 2023

Another episode of The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries in which we get a question that we did NOT see coming. Here's what we have:

- Tips for hosting friends in town?

- Should I be ok with my husband going to strip clubs with his coworkers?

- Is my boyfriend getting a dog a dealbreaker when I'm not a dog person?

- Am I the asshole for not attending the birthday party of my 5 year old nephew?

- My boyfriend of 3 years has a "goon cave" that I didn't know about. Do I have to break things off?

- Solo travel tips for Los Angeles?

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My Best Friend's Wife Wants Me To Be Her Hall Pass... Mar 16, 2023

Back on The Mail-In this week to break down the biggest problems facing our listeners! Sally deFries and Brett Merriman take you along for a WILD ride this week. Here's what we're working with:

- Is it a trash move to not go to a wedding that was supposed to be an elopement?

- Feeling stuck in life despite everything being great on the surface. Help.

- I got Monica'd. Should we do a small wedding and save money for a house OR spend on a celebration for ourselves?

- My best friend's wife wants me to be her hall pass. My best friend can't find out. Should I do it?

- How to celebrate a divorce?

- How do you handle a bachelorette party drop out who hasn't paid for the Airbnb or activities yet?

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Sex In Our Marriage Has Disappeared Mar 09, 2023

We're back! After a week hiatus due to some unforeseen under-the-weather children, Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to tackle every question the listeners have to offer. Here's what we have this week:

- How does Sally balance friends, family, travel, etc while being a mom? Any tips to a first-time mom?

- My wife has a friend who dresses really cute. How do I nudge her towards that style?

- How can I introduce the conversation of getting a babysitter to my wife?

- How do I friendzone a coworker without it blowing up on me?

- Am I the asshole for cutting down my wedding invite list?

- How do I get past the fear of rejection when it comes to sex in our marriage?

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I've Worked Hard On My New Body. How Do I Show It Off? Feb 23, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman returns to the show with Sally deFries in the co-host chair. Tackling questions that run that gamut like:

- What are your thoughts on influencers these days?

- How do you approach a significant relationship stalemate without compromise?

- I've worked incredibly hard on my new body, how do I show it off?

- Some idiot ordered $900 worth of bottle service on a work trip and we're stuck with the bill

- How do I convince my buddy to do more on his bachelor party than sit around the pool at the Airbnb?

- My husband and I want to do a 4-6 day domestic trip between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Any suggestions?

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FEMAIL-IN RETURNS FT. LILY BOETTCHER & ALYSSA RUFF Feb 14, 2023

The FeMail-In is BACK for Valentine's Day! Sally deFries hosts as Lily Boettcher and Alyssa Ruff join the crew to break down your questions. Here's what we've got this week:

- Washed bits that get old?

- When is the best time to have your second child?

- My friend is being reckless with a pregnancy, how do I talk to her about it?

- Advice for your first year of marriage?

- My wife is verbally abusive, how do I handle this?

- Is there a male equivalent to "Galentine's Day"?

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I'm Falling For My Married Work Wife Feb 09, 2023

Back after an Austin ice storm derailed the recording schedule last week - thanks for bearing with us. Sally deFries and Brett Merriman co-host on The Mail-In where they help you through your most difficult situations.

- If I'm only drinking beer on a ski trip, can I ask to not pay for communal liquor?

- What are your thoughts on using backpacks as adults?

- Should I tell a new girlfriend about a hookup with an old classmate before they meet?

- I'm falling for my married work wife. Help.

- Our friend is getting married the same weekend as my school graduation. Can we skip?

- What's the first home improvement project I should pick in my new property?

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How To Know When You're Settling In A Relationship? Jan 26, 2023

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are back to break down the internet's questions. A lot on tap:

- What's the line between settling and accepting that relationships always require work?

- What are some tips you have for making long distance work?

- I'm pregnant! What is the etiquette for having a non-traditional baby shower?

- Family planning advice: have a baby now or later?

- New to Hinge! Wondering how it works when it comes to getting *off* the app?

- What's the move when trying to hang out with your friend who's in the same city where you're attending a bachelor party?

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Engagement Timing & Bachelor Party Max Numbers? Jan 19, 2023

Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back on The Mail-In this week answering your most burning questions. Things like:

- What do Sally and Brett's career paths look like? How'd they get to where they are?

- What percentage of questions get answered on air? How are they picked?

- How do you talk to your boss about being stressed when they have SO much more on their plate than you do?

- What's the limit for number of people on a bachelor party?

- How soon is too soon for an engagement? Is there such thing as waiting too long?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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Is It Weird To Plan My Own Bachelorette Party? Jan 12, 2023

The Mail-In is BACK after a little holiday break, with Brett Merrimanand Sally deFries answering your burning questions. Here's what we've got this week:

- My boyfriend's friends caused a rift in our relationship. Can we still trust each other?

- My maid-of-honor has been zero help. Can I plan my own bachelorette party?

- I heard a stat that couples who move in together before marriage are more likely to get divorced and now I'm concerned !

- Career move: Sioux Falls and $$$ or Denver and fun?

- I've been dating the same guy for 5 years and we can't talk about marriage at all. Is it irrational to be mad at this?

- Can Sally still defend Southwest Airlines? How long does a trip have to be to pack a bag?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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How Many Red Flags Is Too Many Red Flags? Dec 22, 2022

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, Mail-In fam! This week Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are sweating out holiday travel weather and tackling your biggest questions. Here's what we've got:

- Should I be picking up my girlfriend's bar tabs even though I'm not drinking?

- Do I have to retire the 😉 emoji from dirty texting if my mom has started using it?

- Are lying, cheating, and home-wrecking too many red flags to get over?

- How do I tell my wife that a guys trip is a GUYS trip only, even if she wants to go?

- Putting together the best ski trip for beginners

- Traveling to Italy for the first time - help!

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What Makes A Good Christmas Cocktail Hour? Dec 15, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are getting into the weeds on mental health, Christmas cocktail hours, and much much more.

- How much would you spend on attending the NCAA Championship if your school made it?

- Help me set boundaries with my friends and family so we're not the go-to dog/house sitters!

- My mental health journey has been a success but I feel guilty about my sibling's not going as well.

- Scale of 1-10, how weird is it to send a Christmas card of you and your significant other if you aren't engaged or married?

- Help me and my girlfriend compromise on choosing a living situation

- What makes a good Christmas cocktail party?

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Do People Really "Suck At Texting"? Dec 08, 2022

Big time episode of The Mail-In featuring Brett Merriman and Sally deFries as they solve your biggest problems and answer your questions. Here's what we've got this week:

- How do I continue a "texting thing" over the holidays without seeing them in person?

- When do you ask for a dad's blessing before engagement?

- Figuring out people who "suck at texting"

- How do I split apartment supplies with my roommate who is never home?

- Planning a girls trip but my friend will have a 3-month old baby. Help.

- My best friend is moving away for school and his girlfriend doesn't want him to. How do I support?

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How Much Apartment Can We Afford? Dec 01, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Sally deFries battles through one of the worst cases of nasal congestion she's ever seen. The gang gets through it and answers some questions in the process. Things like:

- I dropped $500 on a birthday dinner and gift for my girlfriend. She broke up with me the next morning. Can I request some money back?

- Is it a red flag if you have the same appearance traits as your partner's ex?

- Getting on the same page when it comes to how much house/apartment you can afford as a couple

- Laid off in Chicago - should I just become a "yachtie" for a year?

- Finding the right balance between surprise and sure-thing with engagement rings?

- Where should we do our babymoon?

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My Friend's Wife Is Too Close With Another Man Nov 17, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Sally deFries is back in the co-host chair with Brett Merriman as they take on the hardest questions in the game. Not really. But hopefully you can relate to some of these:

- If you had to defeat the devil in one activity for the battle for your soul, which activity would you choose?

- How do I handle our friend's wife being too close with one of her male friends?

- Relationship tips for an ICU nurse?

- Is it weird that I don't want a bachelor party?

- Am I being unreasonable not wanting my friend to name her daughter the same name I have picked out?

- Romance novel recommendations?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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Is It Too Early To Put Up Christmas Decor? Nov 10, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Brett Merriman hosts as Intern Calli Rubin fills in for Sally. The two break down the most burning questions their audience has and more. Here's what we've got this week:

- Friendsgiving Do's & Don'ts

- If someone ghosts you after a first date, can you call them out?

- How early is too early for a Christmas tree?

- Trying to talk to someone at a 6am gym class?

- What's the criteria for working from bars?

- Couples trips on a budget?

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Moving On After A Broken Off Engagement Nov 03, 2022

Happy November! This week on The Mail-In hosted by Sally deFries and Brett Merriman, we're getting into wedding receptions, breaking off engagements, and much, much more.

- What to do if you're the best man for two weddings on the same day?

- Why do personal errand days feel so much more productive than work days?

- Tips on throwing a great wedding reception?

- Breaking off an engagement and getting into a new serious relationship?

- Traveling for summer trips: Montana, California, and Wyoming

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How Long Are Venmo Requests Good For? Oct 27, 2022

On The Mail-In, Brett Merriman and Sally deFries are breaking down the most pressing problems and burning questions that y'all have. Here's what we've got this week:

- How long after a trip or dinner do you have to send a Venmo request?

- How do I deal with a break up from an unrequited love?

- Is one year too early in a relationship to buy jewelry?

- I like a guy who doesn't want to do long distance...

- Is it reasonable to have a "tough love" conversation with your husband who's been unemployed for almost a year?

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Do I Tell Someone Their Boyfriend Is Cheating On Them? Oct 20, 2022

Sally deFries and Brett Merriman are back to break down your toughest questions that you need answers to. Here's what we've got this week:

- Do I tell someone that her boyfriend is cheating on her?

- Can I tell my new girlfriend I got my dog from my ex?

- How do I come out to my husband that I'm bi?

- Is something wrong with the relationship if I don't miss my girlfriend?

- Which month is the best?

- How do I do a trip to New York in December?

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Are Bachelorette Parties Out Of Control? Oct 13, 2022

This week on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries:

- Open relationship coming to an end

- How do I date someone else in the friend group?

- Is wanting to move in with someone *after* marriage a red flag?

- How do I tell people they're not invited to my wedding?

- Bridesmaid expenses are CRAZY

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How Do I Tell My Parents I'm Not Having Kids? Oct 06, 2022

Brett Merriman is back from his week-long road trip to join Sally deFries on The Mail-In, where they attempt to solve your problems in 60-ish minutes or less. Here's what we've got this week:

- How do you find the motivation to be productive while working from home

- Brett & Sally's hair secrets

- My husband and I have decided to not have kids, how do we tell our parents?

- Can I turn a fender bender into a meet-cute?

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Female-In: Mom Talk with Sally & Lily Sep 29, 2022

Sally deFries is hosting today on The Mail-In. Sally and her sister, Lily, are answering your questions and breaking down your problems. Also answering a bunch of questions about being a mom. Here's what we've got this week:

- Halloween Costumes

- What travel credit card should I get?

- How to approach a woman without appearing creepy?

- MOM TALK (pregnancy, relationships, postpartum, & more)

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Can I Ask The Bride And Groom For A Plus One? Sep 22, 2022

Sally deFries is back from Italy and we're FULL speed on The Mail-In. Brett Merriman and Sally are answering your questions and breaking down your problems. Here's what we've got this week:

- What is your walk-up/closer entrance song?

- How do you handle your younger sibling getting engaged before you?

- How many teams am I allowed to be a fan of?

- What are the requirements for cubicle decor?

- Can I ask my friends getting married for a plus one?

- Bachelor Party Pick: Las Vegas vs. New Orleans

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How Do You Manage Someone? Ft. Intern Calli Rubin Sep 15, 2022

The Mail-In is SO back with another special guest, Intern Calli Rubin. She and Brett Merriman are here to tackle your biggest problems and make you think with Shower Thoughts. Here's what we've got this week:

- TikTok trends and life hacks we're following

- I need new a new LinkedIn pic that screams professional but cool

- How do you know it's time for a cross-country move?

- Handling feelings for someone in the friend group when they're not reciprocated

- Becoming a boss for the first time

- Business casual travel recs

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Offensive Driving ft. KJ Ellis Sep 08, 2022

A new twist on an old favorite as we welcome back KJ Ellis, co-host of Too Much Dip, to The Mail-In. He and Brett Merriman are breaking down adulthood so you don't have to. Solving problems one washed up person at a time, themselves included. Here's what we've got this week:

- Hangover cures in your early 30s?

- What are some driving offenses that should be punishable by death?

- What to expect when you're expecting (a second child)?

- Not being asked to be a groomsman

- Moving to a new city, part ???

- Power ranking home improvement projects that don't require outside contractors

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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How Do You Start Eating Healthy? Sep 01, 2022

Back on The Mail-In this week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Digging into some of your most pressing questions as autumn is deceptively close in Central Texas. Here's what we've got this week:

- Fall primer 🍂

- Dipping my toes into sports betting for the first time, how should I manage it?

- Comparing yourself to others and navigating infertility

- Help me eat healthy for the first time in my life!

- What are we rocking to games we're not fans of?

- Las Vegas recs

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What's The Deal With Sorority Recruitment? Ft. Intern Calli Aug 25, 2022

LOADED episode of The Mail-In this week as Brett Merrimanand Sally deFries welcome on Intern Calli to help them get their heads around bid day, door stacks, Bama rush tok, and everything involved in sorority recruitment. Here's what else we've got:

- Getting out of the friend zone

- An update from our cross country Canadian couple

- Injuries from working out as you get older

- Budgeting spreadsheet incoming!

- Do I get a bachelor party after I'm married if I didn't already do one?

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How Do I Handle Having Feelings For A Coworker If I'm MARRIED? Aug 18, 2022

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries this week to dig into a wide range of questions. Here's what we've got:

- Do I get my wedding gift back if my friends were only married for 6 weeks?

- Is it a red flag to date her if she doesn't have any friends? \

- I have feelings for my coworker, but I'm married. Please help.

- What are some ways to get through grief?

- How do I support my fiancé when her friends keep bailing from her bachelorette party?

- What airlines are the best? The worst?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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How Do You Deal With Hard Stuff? Aug 11, 2022

Brett is back in town with Sally after a few weeks at home for a big episode of The Mail-In. We're tackling your problems so you don't have to (yet). Here's what we've got this week:

- Where do we stand on the Beach Boys?

- What's the etiquette for being home when someone is working on your crib?

- Baby moons? Are we doing them?

- Do I have to give the same honeymoon gift back to someone that gets married a month after me?

- Summer fling is coming to and end and we both know it. How do we enjoy our time left?

- Upstate NY recommendations in the fall?

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Do I Have to Drop My Significant Other Off at the Airport? Aug 04, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Dave and Dillon fill in for Brett as they, along with Sally, break down your most pressing questions. Here's what we're working with this week:

- Trying to date as a non-drinker

- Picking up/dropping off your significant other at the airport versus asking them to Uber

- Navigating friendships post-breakup

- Living within your means in your 20s

- Where to live during the three days between leases

- Managing relationships during the busiest times in your life

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Cross Country Road Trips Feat. Kayla Haby Jul 21, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Kayla Haby is back in the co-host chair with Brett Merriman to break down your most pressing questions. Here's what we're working with this week:

- How to handle roommate disputes over budgets?

- Which college should I attend after the Marine Corps?

- My friends didn't bother getting me a wedding gift

- My Instagram got hacked and now I'm starting anew

- Should I stop going tanning?

- How do I pass the time on a cross country roadtrip?

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Sleeping With Your Therapist Jul 14, 2022

Here's what we have this week:

- Sleeping with your therapist !

- How do you explain to your significant other that you don't want them to golf with you?

- What's a weird body thing you do?

- Running into your ex at a wedding

- Is it ok to criticize your coworkers?

- Bachelor Party: Northern Michigan

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How Do You Un-Invite Someone To Your Wedding? Jul 07, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Brett and Sally are hyped going into the Saturday meetup at Kirby Ice House in Houston. Apologies for the existential crisis we hit by the end... Here's what we're working with this week:

- Do I have to go to ALL the company happy hours?

- What's the best job benefit you've ever had?

- How do you un-invite people from your wedding?

- How do you handle being invited to two weddings in one day?

- Peeing in a pool

- Houston spots

- Shower Thoughts 🚿🚿

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Getting Out Of A Rut Jun 30, 2022

This week on The Mail-In, Sally is back in the co-host chair next to Brett to tackle your hardest questions and most pressing problems. Here's what we've got this week:

- "Ghosting" after a first date?

- Going to concerts solo

- What if they don't look like their dating app pics?

- Gender roles in business?

- What to do when you're in a funk

- Bachelor party tips for the Kentucky Bourbon Trail

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INTERN EPISODE ft. Abhi Pal and Calli Rubin Jun 23, 2022

On this week's Mail-In, Brett Merriman is joined by the newest crop of Washed Media interns Abhi Pal (business development) and Calli Rubin (social). They dig into how they got to Washed Media, what they've learned, and what to expect going forward. They also keep everyone young, which may be their most important quality.

- Intern bios

- What's the oldest trait about the Washed guys?

- What is the dating scene like in college now?

- How do I stay cool at 29?

- How did sororities/fraternities shape your college experience?

- Do guys or girls have cleaner college living situations?

- If you were Washed CEO, what would you do?

- Which Washed employee would do the best at a formal?

- Shower Thoughts 🚿

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How Transparent Do I Have To Be About My Past Partners? Jun 16, 2022

Brett is back and Sally is fired up for summer. We're breaking down your biggest problems this week on The Mail-In. Things like:

- How do you plan to talk to your kids about "x-rated" content?

- I'm flirting with my neighbor big time. What's the next step?

- Did I get a pity wedding invite? Do I go?

- How much do I have to tell a new boyfriend about my past sex life?

- I'm on the other side of a best-friend-catching-feelings relationship. Help

- San Diego recs?

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Do I Need To Quit My Job Because of My Girlfriend? Jun 09, 2022

With Brett on vacation in Montana, Sally deFries was joined by Circling Back's very own Will deFries. Together, they go through questions about fading friendships, how soon is too soon to make plans in a new relationship, asking her dad for permission to marry her on the golf course, whether or not someone should quit their job due to their girlfriend's demands, brushing your teeth in the office, and shower thoughts involving wildlife photography and hotel bedding.

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How To Deal With Misogyny In The Workplace? Jun 02, 2022

We're back! This week on The Mail-In, Sally and Brett are back in the studio to solve your most pressing problems with decent to above-average advice. Here's what we've got this week:

- What are things you take advantage of when your significant other is out of town?

- My boyfriend sold our house without consulting me. Help?

- How do I take a chance apartment elevator run-in to the next level?

- How do I deal with misogyny in the workplace?

- What color are bones?

- I'm traveling to the UK in a few months and I'm not sure how to handle it?

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