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Ep. 285 - A Bold, Biblical Battle Plan Against Pornography Sep 03, 2024

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Pornography is a big problem, destroying lives across the globe. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about E.Z. 's new book which dives into this topic, with Oscar pointing out that it discusses biblical manhood before addressing pornography. But why is understanding manhood so crucial first? Our culture has distorted the concepts of manhood and womanhood, leading to a catastrophic impact. Men in the Bible fought for their families and the gospel on many levels, not just physically.

Men must confront this issue head-on. It's easy to think you're the only one facing this struggle, but it's a battle that finds many. Sin is like a lion seeking to destroy, and it’s crucial to be vigilant and proactive in resisting temptation. Some young men have never encountered this struggle, but once you step into that arena, it can be overwhelming. The average Christian doesn’t desire to fall into sin, but you can’t hesitate to resist temptation. Lust is a serious issue, a bedfellow of death, with the wages of sin being death and damnation. Falling into pornography betrays your wife, friends, and the Lord. The example of Joseph is powerful; he had the opportunity to indulge in sin but chose to resist and physically run away.

Realize that God isn’t fighting against your joy, but for it. He created sex as a gift within marriage, a built-in protection. Understanding God’s will and choosing to live it out is crucial in this battle against the world, the flesh, and the devil. The enemy uses tactics like discontent, but walking in the Spirit is key. The world often talks about pornography's destructiveness, but it’s more than that—it’s a sin against God. Recognizing God’s love for you can ignite a renewed passion for the Lord. For the young man living a double life, remember that the power that raised Jesus from the dead lives inside you. Value the gospel, meditate on God’s greatness, and remember you will stand before the Lord. Jesus paid for your sin so run to Him and obey Him.

Today, pornography is more accessible than ever. Men are constantly in the crosshairs. Don’t believe the lie that you can’t quit. If you were promised 100 million dollars for six months without looking at pornography, you’d find a way. The issue isn’t that you can’t stop; it’s that you won’t. We are called to a pure relationship with the Lord. Engage with God—read your Bible, use your spiritual gifts, witness to others, and cry out to the Lord in prayer. God is our source of help. This is a cancer destroying the glory of God. As you distance yourself from these things, you will grow in holiness.

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Ray Comfort
Emeal (“E.Z.”) Zwayne
Mark Spence
Oscar Navarro

Ep. 284 - How to Grow in Being Sympathetic Toward People Aug 29, 2024

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The Christian walk involves moving from sympathy to empathy, as exemplified by Christ's compassionate suffering and sacrifice. By actively listening, showing care, and trusting in God's presence, believers can better support and connect with others.
The word sympathy originates from a Greek word meaning a shared feeling or a willingness to help because of shared feelings. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar share how the Christian walk involves fellowshipping with God first and then with others. In fellowship, we often move from sympathy to empathy. Sympathy is feeling sorry for someone's situation, whereas empathy is about experiencing their emotions because you've been through similar situations yourself. No one wants to go through pain, but enduring it can strengthen your spiritual muscles. Everyone has faced tough times, enabling us to relate to others' pain and emotions.
1 Peter 3:8 speaks to this topic, emphasizing that being like-minded and sympathetic fosters compassion. Christ is our ultimate example—He did not stand above human suffering but willingly stepped into it. Jesus endured complete separation from God so that we would not have to experience that separation. Through His sympathy, we are saved, and this empowers us to sympathize with others. Sympathy naturally leads to action. It’s about trying to understand and entering into someone’s world, even if you haven't experienced their exact circumstances.
The guys speak about how sympathy is the Lord opening your eyes to the people around you. Believers often become self-centered, forgetting the precious souls bearing the image of Christ surrounding us. Romans 12:15 encourages us to weep with those who weep and rejoice with those who rejoice. It is essential to actively listen and slow down. Overpowering conversations can make others feel undervalued. Listening to bless others can also be a learning experience. Jealousy can sometimes hinder our ability to rejoice with others, but love focuses on the well-being of other people.
It all comes back to remembering the sympathy that God has towards us. To grow in sympathy, ask thoughtful questions and be mindful of the environment and the people around you. Engage in actions that show you care. Be patient with those who are suffering and encourage them to move forward and actively walk with the Lord. The guys encourage Christians to remember that there is value in your suffering beyond what God may be doing in you. Affliction serves to convince us of our own insufficiency and dependence on God. Even if you feel isolated, remember that God sees your struggles. Continue to move forward, trusting in God's presence and support.

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Ep. 283 - What Does the Bible Say About Not Judging Others? Aug 27, 2024

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"Judge not, lest you be judged" is often misunderstood. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about the criteria Jesus provided for judging by emphasizing the concept of being "measured." In ancient times, people used scales to measure grain, but tax collectors and Romans often tampered with these scales, leading to unjust measurements. Jesus warned against using unbalanced scales to judge others, implying we must hold ourselves to the same standard. It is impossible to make judgments without evaluating actions.
When the guys talk about judging, they mean assessing someone's actions, not their motives. While it's essential to make judgment calls, Christians should be righteous and grounded in God's word. It's wrong to assume we know someone's internal motives, but believers can lovingly point out clear sins. Twisting scripture to avoid accountability is misguided. Chrisitains understand their own shortcomings and invite others to receive grace, rather than condemning them.
Jesus clarified, rather than abolished, the law. God knows our hearts completely, and both believers and unbelievers must judge themselves before they stand in front of God. The Bible encourages us to discern good fruit from bad. Judging isn't about deciding someone’s eternal fate but evaluating their actions. This helps individuals recognize and correct their sins, fostering spiritual growth. Believers benefit from mutual accountability, as it helps produce good fruit. Spiritual stagnation often results from a lack of honest feedback. It's crucial to welcome constructive criticism and avoid hypocrisy, which requires an outside perspective to identify.
Romans 10 illustrates improper judgment, advising against a judgmental spirit. Everyone's sanctification journey is unique, and non-sinful personal choices should be respected. Instead of criticizing, the guys encourage believers to ask questions and seek understanding. Judgmental attitudes are ugly and unproductive; we lack full knowledge and should mind our own business. There's only one true judge, and expecting others to conform to our standards is hypocritical.
To close, the guys talk about some practical ways to avoid a judgeful spirit. Community provides counsel and support. Share opinions with humility and graciousness when asked, but avoid interfering in non-sin issues. Respect areas of liberty unless they lead to sin or stunt growth. Focus on your own sanctification and celebrate others’ strengths. Addressing personal shortcomings can keep us from meddling in others’ lives.

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Ep. 282 - How to Cultivate a Teachable Heart Aug 01, 2024

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We can learn from anyone—our enemies, kids, friends, and many others. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about having opportunities to learn from the people God places in our lives, but if we aren’t actively looking for these opportunities, we miss out on valuable lessons. If a person isn't worshiping the true and living God, they often end up worshiping themselves. A significant reason leaders fall is that they don’t believe they can. Believers often treat sin lightly but we should treat it with seriousness.

One major obstacle to being teachable is the self-perception that we cannot be wrong, especially on topics we know well. How wise it would be to stop, hear, and truly listen. The Bible is the word of the living God, and meditating and praying on the scripture can bring new insights. When it comes to seeking counsel, many Christians hesitate because of their image. This is why leaders especially need trusted advisors. The less we know, the more arrogant we can become; conversely, the more we know, the more humble we should be. The guys share personal experiences of being humbled after feeling overly confident. A good question to ask yourself is, "What do I not know?" Look for opportunities to gain wisdom and be a collector of it.

For those who realize they lack wisdom, there are practical steps to become more teachable. With today's access to information, there's no excuse for not finding what you need—be diligent with your time. Look at where you spend your time and who you surround yourself with. Walk with the wise to raise your own wisdom. We tend to focus on things like social media instead of the Bible. Reorient your life to seek wisdom from the Bible first. Even if you can't find a one-on-one mentor, you can still surround yourself with people who are where you want to be. It might not be full-blown discipleship, but even a conversation over coffee can be beneficial. If personal mentorship isn’t feasible, be discipled by books. Solid, sound books can be reread, highlighted, and memorized.

Approach the Bible with curiosity and ask questions. Cry out to the Lord, asking Him to give you a teachable heart and to provide the resources you need. Pride is a destroyer that misleads; being open to instruction and maintaining a teachable spirit is crucial. Fellowship with other believers facilitates mutual learning and growth. Encourage and pray for one another, and it will transform your life. By cultivating a teachable spirit and seeking wisdom, you set yourself on a path to becoming wiser and more humble in your latter years.

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Ep. 281 - How to Prepare Kids for the Real World Jul 30, 2024

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Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar know through personal experience that having children is a profound blessing, despite societal messages that often portray them as inconveniences. Many people today grant children excessive freedom when they are young, which can lead to poor decision-making in adulthood. It’s essential for parents to appreciate the sweetness of raising children in the Lord, giving guidance when children are young so when they are older they love the Lord.
To prepare children for the world, they need a spiritual foundation and a grasp of the basics. This is achieved through knowing the scripture, praying, and attending church. The trend of worshiping online, exacerbated by Covid, needs to be reconsidered; physical attendance and active service in church are vital. From day one, parents are preparing to send their children out into the world. Oscar mentions not shielding his kids but discussing and dissecting the lies the world presents so they can discern truth as they grow.
Parents must remind their children why they exist and cultivate their hearts for the gospel. Demonstrating the gospel shows children they don’t measure up on their own. Parents are called to imitate Christ and impart that to their kids. It's important to patiently teach them the words of Jesus. When they feel the power of sin, it will bring them back to the foot of the cross. Teach children to be open to direction and instruction. Ignoring correction leads to destruction. We should reflect on criticism rather than react impulsively. Sin is rooted in idolatry, and when our idols are challenged, it reveals the true state of our hearts.
The guys talk through some of the key things Christian parents need to instill in their children. Christians should know that work is sacred and they must be hard workers. Encourage children to immerse themselves in Proverbs. Teach them financial literacy, as schools often neglect practical skills like budgeting and balancing a checkbook. Open, honest discussions about money are crucial. Parents often feel uncomfortable discussing sex with their children, but it's essential to seize moments to speak life into them and address the heart of the matter. Emphasize the importance of keeping their word; if they commit to something, they must follow through.
Lastly, parents should avoid treating their children as sanctifying trophies. Psalm 127 states that unless the Lord does the work, it is in vain. God is the one who raises children and sends them out for His purposes. Remember that ultimately salvation is in the Lord’s hands.

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Ep. 280 - What Does the Bible Say About Dreams? Jul 25, 2024

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Dreams have a profound impact on many people, and the Bible offers numerous examples of dreams being used for guidance and prophecy. In the Old Testament, dreams were often a medium through which God conveyed wisdom and direction. Today, we still experience various types of dreams, but their nature and significance can differ greatly from biblical times.
One common type of dream involves subconscious processing. Our brains process repressed thoughts and experiences, with imagination taking over as the rational part of our brain rests. These dreams are influenced by cultural factors and personal experiences; however, in His sovereignty, God can use these dreams for His purposes as illustrated by stories of people being reminded of His laws through dreams. There is a danger in seeking guidance solely through dreams. Relying on dreams for advice outside of God’s Word can lead us astray. The Bible provides all the guidance we need, and looking for extra-biblical sources of authority, including dreams, can be risky. It's crucial to keep these dreams in context and not give them undue authority.
Some dreams can have positive effects, setting individuals on a better path. For example, one might experience a troubling dream that leads to positive changes in their life. Medications affecting the central nervous system can also create vivid dreams.
When dealing with impure dreams, it’s important not to dwell on them excessively. If a dream makes you feel guilty, confess it to God and move on. The enemy seeks to use guilt to keep us focused on our sin, but we should be quick to repent and continue our walk with God. God understands our hearts and desires and provides consolation in our fallen nature and spiritual struggles. Reflecting on what we focus on during the day is wise; consuming impure content can lead to impure dreams. To influence our dreams positively, we can prepare our minds and hearts before sleep by focusing on the Lord. Reading about missionaries, praying, or studying the Bible can fill our hearts, minds, and souls with godly content.
God uses dreams to advance His kingdom and glory. Recognize that His work through dreams always aims at furthering His kingdom. By focusing on God and His Word, we can better understand and respond to our dreams in a way that aligns with His purposes.

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Ep. 279 - Is It Unspiritual for Christians to Pursue Physical Health? Jul 23, 2024

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The biggest problem in America isn't that people are overly healthy. The guys talk about how only a small percentage of Americans meet ideal standards for a healthy lifestyle. Most Americans live sedentary lives, but God designed us to be active. Historically, humans walked everywhere and engaged in physical labor, but modern conveniences mean we can meet our needs without leaving our homes, resulting in neglect of physical health.
Health isn't just about weight, it's about the well-being of the body. Sometimes, society swings too far, suggesting that weight doesn't matter at all. Many theologians emphasize being embodied—caring for the body, mind, and soul to the glory of God. This holistic approach is part of our walk with the Lord. Our motives for physical activity also matter. We should aim to be our healthiest selves to bring glory to God. Our mental and physical well-being are interconnected; often, those struggling with mental illness are advised to get outside and exercise.
E.Z. shares his personal experience of maintaining fitness into grandparenthood, highlighting the numerous benefits of exercise. Gluttony, which is a forgotten sin, is one that contributes to many health problems in America. If you know you need to improve your habits, start small. A morning walk, perhaps inviting your spouse to join, can significantly impact your health. Exercise helps prevent many medical conditions and offers stress relief. Oscar shares that he uses working out as a form of spiritual and mental therapy, focusing on the Lord during his sessions.
Engaging in regular physical activity isn't just about personal gain; it enables us to fulfill our roles more effectively and live out our faith more fully. The connection between body, mind, and spirit underscores the importance of a holistic approach to health. Physical fitness enhances our ability to serve others and glorify God in all aspects of our lives.
In conclusion, the pursuit of physical health is deeply intertwined with spiritual well-being. By recognizing our bodies as temples and taking steps to care for them, we honor the Creator and improve our quality of life. Simple changes, like choosing to be more active daily, can lead to significant improvements in health and well-being. Let's embrace a balanced approach to health, recognizing the profound connection between our physical and spiritual lives.

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Ep. 278 - A Christian Response to Violence in Politics Jul 18, 2024

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In today’s ever-turbulent political climate, the intersection of faith and politics has become a topic of intense debate. Today’s conversation delves deep into this complex interplay, combining humor and heartfelt reflections to offer listeners a comprehensive exploration of how spirituality can thrive even in the most chaotic times.
Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar address political violence in light of the recent attempted assassination of Donald Trump. The hosts share personal anecdotes and scriptural references to emphasize the importance of maintaining a biblical worldview and trusting in God’s sovereignty during such tumultuous events. This discussion is not only timely but also crucial for understanding how Christians can navigate political chaos without losing their spiritual grounding.
The role of Christians in politics is another key topic explored. Drawing on historical and biblical examples like Daniel in Babylon and Joseph in Egypt, the guys argue that believers have a responsibility to promote righteousness and justice in the political sphere. However, they also caution against placing ultimate hope in political systems, urging listeners to keep their faith firmly rooted in God.
One of the most compelling parts of the episode is the discussion on the emotional allure of political fervor and its dangerous intertwining with faith and power. Reflecting on early Christian history, the hosts note how the church’s initial growth through hospitality and generosity eventually gave way to aggression and control. This serves as a cautionary tale, reminding Christians to balance their political engagement with a steadfast trust in God’s sovereignty.
Finally, the discussion concludes with a powerful call to action, urging Christians to seek the welfare of their cities as encouraged by Jeremiah 29:7. While trusting in God’s sovereignty is essential, it is equally important to take action and influence policies in alignment with Christian values. This balanced approach serves as a guide for listeners seeking to navigate the complex relationship between faith and politics in a way that honors God and promotes justice.
Whether you’re grappling with how to respond to political violence, considering the role of Christians in politics, or seeking to balance your spiritual and political lives, this episode offers valuable insights and practical guidance. Don’t miss this enriching conversation that blends humor, sincerity, and deep reflection.

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Ep. 277 - How to Be a Spiritually Effective Neighbor Jul 16, 2024

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In today's society, we rarely talk to our neighbors, missing opportunities to show warmth and kindness. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about how God has placed us where we are to be intentional in our kindness. The early church thrived in a corrupt society by living amongst their neighbors and being intentional about their community. Christians today should emulate this, combating the modern issue of loneliness by reaching out to their neighbors.
Many aspire to be missionaries abroad but overlook their local community. We often don’t realize the value acts of kindness within our own neighborhoods. Building relationships with those around us fosters openness to sharing the gospel. To be spiritually effective neighbors, we must be physically present and kind. Simple gestures, like sharing homemade brownies, can make a significant difference.
Hospitality extends beyond inviting people into our homes; it includes engaging with them in our community spaces. For example, Oscar organizes block parties with potlucks, distributing candy and gospel tracts. Such events allow neighbors to see Christianity in action, leading parents to inquire about faith, and witnessing the gospel lived out in the homes of believers. Living a Christian life publicly has a powerful impact on others.
We must recognize our call to reach out to our neighbors. Often, we justify our inaction with busyness or fear of judgment. The guys highlight the parable of the Good Samaritan, which teaches us to love our neighbors regardless of their background. Dealing with difficult neighbors requires us to show love, understanding, and grace. Putting others before ourselves and going the extra mile with courtesy and consideration demonstrates our faith in a profound way.
Our ideological differences should not hinder our witness. Political views can become idols, overshadowing the gospel. We must prioritize witnessing for Christ over promoting political ideals. 1 Peter 2:15-17 urges us to do good and love our neighbors, regardless of their actions toward us. Man-made ideas should be set aside for the sake of the gospel.
In essence, being intentional in our kindness and hospitality, living out our faith openly, and prioritizing the gospel over ideological differences are crucial in reaching and loving our neighbors effectively. This approach allows us to be a light in our communities, fulfilling God's call to live in fellowship with those around us and sharing the message of Christ through our actions and relationships.

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Ep. 276 - How to Mind Your Own Business and Let People Be Jul 11, 2024

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It's tiring to constantly get worked up about other people's lives, trying to control their actions and beliefs. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar encourage believers to become disciplined in knowing when to keep quiet. The concept of leading a quiet life, minding our own business, and working with our hands serves as a witness to the gospel.
Increasing knowledge can lead to sorrow, as Solomon experienced, surrounded by less wise people. When our children don't heed our advice, they often learn through hardships rather than through guidance. It's crucial to lay a foundation of what God calls us to be stewards of. A quiet life focuses on family, church, and neighbors, avoiding unnecessary anxiety. God didn't create us to be all-knowing, as our phones make us.
E.Z. mentions Ray as an example of not meddling in people’s business. When E.Z. married Ray's daughter, Ray understood that they were their own family unit and refrained from interfering. A common issue for married couples involves handling holidays. Mark addresses this by giving his kids and their families the freedom to make their own choices without pressure, fostering closeness. Crowding someone only pushes them away.
When we see people in our circle going through difficulties, do we wait for them to come to us? This depends on our hearts. A genuine desire to mind our own business naturally shows through. Being discerning is essential, but checking up on one another is good. It’s how we approach the person that matters. 1 Peter 4:15 highlights the seriousness of being a busybody, as it can destroy a family. The sin that causes us to meddle is often comparison, leading to legalism, pride, and hatred, making us feel more righteous than others.
Ultimately, meddling violates love. Have we prayed for the person before talking about them? Have we earnestly prayed for their well-being? Convictions can be a challenging area. Some believers may struggle with listening to secular music but need to let others have their own experiences. However, if someone listens to vulgar music, it might be worth discussing. Our experiences differ, so we should give ourselves to prayer and encouragement. When approaching others, do so with a humble, gentle spirit, being a breath of fresh air to them.
In summary, a quiet life that focuses on family, church, and neighbors helps us avoid unnecessary anxiety and meddling in others' affairs. By praying for others and approaching them with humility and gentleness, we can foster stronger relationships and live in a way that honors God.

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