While doing a little Facebook stalking recently, you noticed that photos of your wife's ex-boyfriend's youngest look suspiciously like your own youngest. You're thinking about discreetly having your kid take a paternity test, but you're honestly not sure what you'd do if the results confirmed your suspicions. So what should you do? We'll try to help you with this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/284.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Should you secretly undertake a paternity test on your 11-year old?
• You're a cybersecurity student stuck in a career ditch. How do you dig yourself out?
• You struggle with stammering. What can you do to find your way through?
• How do you sell ideas without getting them stolen?
• What does "I'm here if you need anything" actually mean, and how far can you take it?
• Threatened by hackers, you wonder: where do old passwords go to die?
• Should you report your ex for a visa breach that could get them deported?
• How can you get out of spending Thanksgiving with your fiance's family for for much needed "me" time?
• Life Pro Tip: Next commute, take time to listen to your car without the radio on. Your ears may pick up on sounds you wouldn't otherwise notice that indicate it's time to take it to the shop.
• Recommendation of the Week: Hail Satan?
• A quick shout out to Kay for recommending Bikram: Yogi, Guru, Predator on Netflix!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, join his podcasting club, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Ken Perenyi is a former art forger who spent 34 years creating fake paintings that passed muster among the experts in the world's major auction houses and galleries. He comes clean to tell us how he got away with it in his book Caveat Emptor: The Secret Life of an American Art Forger.

What We Discuss with Ken Perenyi:

• How Ken, as an academically disinclined New Jersey teenager with no artistic background and zero plans for the future, fell headfirst into the New York art scene of the '60s and '70s.
• What a fortuitous trip to The Metropolitan Museum of Art awakened in Ken and how it led from technical curiosity to natural talent to outright forgery.
• How Ken prematurely aged his work to appear hundreds of years old, the materials he used, and how long it took him to create forgeries that would fool even lifelong, devoted experts.
• The first nervous deal Ken ever made and how it fed an ambition to take his talents as far as they would go.
• How Ken survived scrutiny by the mafia and FBI, changed his ways, and now works on the level selling "high-class fakes" rather than "forgeries."
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/282

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Your shopaholic wife spends like there's no tomorrow, and is irked that you won't add her to the account for the business you've been running since before you were married. In fact, she loves to gain sympathy from others by telling them you're hiding money away from her -- which irks you. But one practical question did recently come up: What happens to the money in that account if anything should ever happen to you and she doesn't have access to it? On this Feedback Friday, we delve into this and much more!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/281.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• It's been a long day. Are you a jerk for not letting someone cut in front of you in the grocery store checkout line just because they say their child is waiting for them in their car and everyone behind you already let them through?
• You were able to use the tips you learned about negotiation in our episodes with Alex Kouts and Ramit Sethi to get a raise from your old boss. But now that it's time to ask for an increase, you've got a new boss with whom you haven't yet established rapport. Should you wait?
• In another nod to the Alex Kouts episodes, you've negotiated the raises to elevate you into a higher tax bracket -- but you're clueless about how to behave in the associated culture. How do you fit in with your new peers without feeling like you just landed on another planet?
• Even though your parents don't let your 10-year-old sister use Instagram because they don't want her interacting with creepy DMs from predators, she's allowed to use TikTok because of the "funny videos" even though you know the creeps are there, too. How can you keep her safe?
• Three years ago, you married a widow whose husband died three years before that. You don't really have a problem talking about him with her, but you no longer want to visit his grave with her where she breaks down and makes you feel like a consolation prize. Is this wrong of you?
• Your shop-happy wife is irked that she doesn't have access to the business account you've had since before you got married,...

Dr. Sarah Hill (@sarahehillphd) is a leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary psychology, and the author of This Is Your Brain on Birth Control: The Surprising Science of Women, Hormones, and the Law of Unintended Consequences.

What We Discuss with Dr. Sarah Hill:

• How hormonal birth control affects women -- and the world around them -- in ways we are just now beginning to understand.
• Why a woman will be attracted to a certain partner while taking hormonal birth control -- and the problems this could cause for a relationship when she stops taking it.
• On a hormonal contraceptive, a woman is twice as likely to have attempted suicide as a woman who was not on a hormonal contraceptive.
• Why, in spite of its drawbacks, Sarah credits the pill to her own ability to achieve a doctorate and career success.
• Why these new findings should be a rallying cry for women to demand more information from science about how their bodies and brains work and to advocate for better research.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/280

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Dennis Quaid has been a Hollywood leading man for decades, fronts a band called The Sharks, and now stars in a new scripted musical podcast called Bear and a Banjo.

What We Discuss with Dennis Quaid:

• Whether or not getting rejected for a coveted job in Hollywood ever gets easier -- even when you've been getting cast for decades.
• Why Dennis considers fear his greatest motivator -- and what this indicates to him when he feels it upon being offered a role.
• The hardest place to get respect, the greatest things our kids teach us, and where dad jokes go to die.
• Listening versus improvising, and how Dennis brings his characters to life without strictly memorizing his lines before arriving on set.
• Accents, biographical misinformation, and how learning to play a real-life astronaut led to Dennis learning how to fly real-life planes.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/279

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When you were kids, you and your brother moved to the other side of the country with your mother and stepfather not long after your parents divorced. You never saw your father again, and believed your mother when she said that he and his mother -- your grandmother -- had died. Fast forward to now. You and your brother are adults, and he's got a bombshell to drop: your grandmother is still alive, and your father only recently passed away. Feeling betrayed, you've pieced together your mother and stepfather's systematic strategy to estrange you from your dad's side of the family (who, by the way, tried to find you over that time without success) -- and you're angry. You feel robbed of the time you could have spent with them, and you're wondering how you should raise the issue with your mother -- or if you should. This is obviously a sensitive situation, but we'll do our best to help you with this and more on the latest Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/278.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• When you have to cover for your kid's friend's expenses on a movie and pizza night because his mom neglected to provide him with any cash, is it wrong for you to expect his mother to recompensate you for those expenses even though she works two jobs and says you look like you can afford it?
• Your 80-year-old grandmother insists on bringing your bedridden and nonverbal father home instead of putting him in a place where he can get the constant care he needs. Putting your grandmother's strong will aside, what's the most responsible call to make here?
• As kids, you and your brother moved across the country with your mom when your parents divorced. Until recently, you never saw your dad's side of the family again because, your brother recently discovered, your mom lied about your father and your grandmother's deaths. How do you confront your mother -- or should you?
• You have a serious case of wanderlust. You have no debt, no children, and above average savings. But your friends and family look at you like you're insane whenever you mention leaving a job you love in order to travel. You know that the amazing experiences will be worth it, but can't help but wonder: are you crazy?
• You work in an incredibly cutthroat sales company where only 10%-15% of employees hired retain their employment, and you're in that top 15%. But you don't love your job and only stick around because you've got the "golden handcuffs" to keep you tethered. You're an underperforming...

Neil Pasricha (@neilpasricha) is a New York Times bestselling author of five books including The Book of Awesome, The Happiness Equation, and his latest, You Are Awesome: How to Navigate Change, Wrestle with Failure, and Live an Intentional Life.

What We Discuss with Neil Pasricha:

• Why anxiety is at an all-time high when we live in an age of relative ease compared to what our ancestors (and even recent generations) endured.
• Why you need to be prepared — and willing — to lose more if you want to win more from what life has to offer.
• How to set up incredibly productive untouchable days where you’re basically unplugged and unreachable — even when you have bosses and significant others who may be resistant to the idea.
• How to use the Saturday morning test to brainstorm new skills, adventures, and personal improvements you’d like to implement.
• A failure budget you can use to try new things, fail, and rejoin the fray — enhanced by the experience, but with relatively few scrapes and bruises.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/277

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James Stavridis (@stavridisj) is a retired United States Navy admiral, operating executive with The Carlyle Group, and author. His latest book, Sailing True North: Ten Admirals and the Voyage of Character, is out now.

What We Discuss with James Stavridis:

• What Admiral Stavridis means when he says we're "overweight in thinking about leadership and underweight in thinking about character."
• Why creativity and innovation are important for leaders -- and the roadblocks that tend to smother these qualities as we achieve in our lives and careers.
• Principles followed when top brass make decisions that put people in harm's way.
• The winners and losers in the recent decision to pull US troops from Syria and what this means for our former allies in the region.
• Meditations on single malt scotch whisky and the dangers of bringing alcohol to sea on a US Navy ship.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/276

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Your fiance travels and stays in hotels at different locations every week for work. The other day, you found black Victoria's Secret panties in your laundry. The thing it, you don't wear Victoria's Secret. So you approached him and said, "I need help understanding how this is in our belongings." He said this is a truly unfortunate situation because he doesn't know how it got there. You closely watched him for any signs that would alarm you as hints of lying. You found none. Is there any surefire way to know if a significant other is cheating beyond what amounts to circumstantial evidence? We'll try to unlock this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/275.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• A mysterious pair of panties that don't belong to you showed up in your laundry after your fiance returned from a business trip. He says he has no idea how they got there. Is there a surefire way to tell if he's been cheating and lying?
• You're a single dad who shares equal custody of a five-year-old son. His mom and new husband have offered the option to stay in a trailer on their property. You all get along great and this would be convenient for everyone, but is it an appropriate arrangement?
• As a leader in the workplace, you helped someone you thought was an amazing employee get promoted. Now you find that this person is mocking you behind your back and taking sick days once a month. You went to bat for this person and you feel betrayed. What now?
• You've been using techniques in Six-Minute Networking for talking to strangers, but what can you do when people aggressively try to shut down a conversation? Should you just call it a loss, cut bait, and move on, or try to break the dam a different way?
• You broke up with your girlfriend of four years because she started having feelings for another woman. Neither of you want this, but you're not able to continue loving her and only her knowing that she doesn't love you and only you back. Where do you go from here?
• You're worried that your significant other's negativity is rubbing off on you; your social life is suffering and you haven't felt like yourself lately. Even though you still care about them, you feel breaking up is the best way to give them the time and space they need. But how?
• You just started a new career. You want to start off strongly, but you already feel intimidated and think perhaps you have a little imposter syndrome. What...

Darren Prince (@agent_dp) is a prominent sports and celebrity agent and global advocate for addiction and recovery. His book Aiming High: How a Prominent Sports and Celebrity Agent Hit Bottom at the Top is out now.
[Featured photo by Ryan Hartford of Ecliptic Media]

What We Discuss with Darren Prince:

• How Darren was making multiple six figures by the time he was old enough to drive.
• What got Darren started on a 24-year journey of addiction and how he found the exit to a recovery that’s been going on for 11 years strong now.
• What it’s like to go drinking with Dennis Rodman and rely on him to be the responsible one when it’s time to wake up and go to work the next morning.
• What Darren does to fulfill his mission to help others avoid and break free from addiction.
• Lots of celebrity stories from someone who’s not just an agent for his clients — he’s also their fan.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/274

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Scott Adams (@ScottAdamsSays) is the creator of comic strip Dilbert, a talent stacker extraordinaire, and bestselling author. His latest book, Loserthink: How Untrained Brains Are Ruining America, is out now.

What We Discuss with Scott Adams:

• Why the term “loserthink” isn’t about being uninformed — it’s about unproductive thinking.
• Mental models we use that sometimes fail us, and thinking traps that we fall into when we’re looking to interpret communication, evaluate facts or evidence, and form opinions.
• How to evaluate fake news and see why the business models of many media outlets have been redesigned to keep us engaged at the expense of accuracy and truth.
• When and how to dial down our ego so we can clarify our thinking, and also when and how we can use our ego as a tool to move forward.
• Ways to evaluate and poke holes in bad arguments, and strengthen our own methods of thinking and arguing.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/273

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Xero is online accounting software that can make running every type of business so much easier — we swear by it in house here at The Jordan Harbinger Show! Try Xero free for 30 days and, if you like it, get 25% off your first three months at xero.com/jordan!

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Last week you texted your parents to let them know you'd be able to make it home for Christmas this year. They called back to tell you how they decided several years ago to buy a boat. The only problem was that they didn't have the $20,000 to buy it. Their solution? Take out a student loan in your name, of course! Now they've missed several payments and it's about to default, and your father had the nerve to say, "If you're going to make a big deal about this, it's best if you don't come home this year." In shock and 'about' $25,000' in debt, you're wondering if you should sue your parents for identity theft. On this Feedback Friday, we'll do our best to help you figure out not only if, but how to sue your parents for identity theft if you decide it's the right thing to do.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/272.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your parents are about to default on a $20,000 student loan they took out in your name without permission so they could buy a boat. So now the question is not only if, but how to sue your parents for identity theft and make sure you’re not on the hook for their mistake.
• This year, your sister bought plentiful gifts for your oldest and youngest kids, but shorted the middle one considerably. You don’t want to appear ungrateful, but what can you do to make it clear how this is going to play out for Jan Brady on Christmas morning?
• You have trouble connecting and communicating with people and cultures outside your own. You’re a science-y, city type struggling with social skills, and your work brings you into contact with a more rural demographic. How can you bridge the gap?
• Because you compete in beauty pageants, some make incorrect assumptions about your intelligence. How can you build your professional identity and network as a future physician without having to hide your personal interests and accomplishments?
• You’re in a small market and want to get noticed by potential mentors or hiring managers outside of your geographic location. What thoughts or strategies do we have for moving up the corporate ladder?
• Your recent college graduate son is an introvert with Asperger-like qualities when it comes to interpersonal skills. When you bring up networking as a way to get ahead in his new career, he shuts down and exits the conversation. How can you best support his progress?
• You’re starting to plan your work travel for next year. How do we decide what conferences and events are worth our time when we’re making our travel plans?
• You hate winter so much because of the cold, the dark, and the holidays. You get depressed and stressed, and basically hibernate. What do we recommend for people with past abuse for whom the holidays turn into a deep, dark, angry depression?
• Life Pro Tip: If you have aging parents, go through their bills with them and make...

Ryan Holiday (@ryanholiday) is the bestselling author of Trust Me, I'm Lying; The Obstacle Is the Way; Ego Is the Enemy; Conspiracy, and other books about marketing, culture, and the human condition. His latest offering is Stillness Is the Key.

What We Discuss with Ryan Holiday:

• How successful people learn to process feedback -- and consider its source in order to improve and move forward.
• Why self-awareness is the secret weapon of some of the highest-performing people you'll meet.
• What can keep us striving and moving upward in a world where it's way too easy to compare ourselves to one another and beat ourselves up in the process.
• How Ryan found the purpose and motivation to write eight books and ghost write another six by the time he was 30.
• The eerie, intuitive, borderline magical superpowers of Mr. Rogers, Cesar Millan, and the two daycare miracle workers who can put 15 toddlers down for a nap (including Ryan's son) simultaneously every day.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/271

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Xero is online accounting software that can make running every type of business so much easier -- we swear by it in house here at The Jordan Harbinger Show! Try Xero free for 30 days and, if you like it, get 25% off your first three months at xero.com/jordan!

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Your stepdaughter is 14 and has been living full time with you and your husband for about eight years. Every other weekend she spends with her mom, who you know is a sex worker. The stepdaughter just says her mom works away, but doesn't know what she does. Recently you were sent a screenshot of a Facebook post from another mom in your stepdaughter's class asking if it was real. The post had an ad for your stepdaughter's Mom's "services." You haven't answered yet because you don't know what to say. Since it's out on Facebook, should you give the stepdaughter a heads up that her mom takes money for sex, or do you let her get blindsided by the kids in school? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to help you do the right thing here.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/269.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• Unknown to her, your stepdaughter's biological mother is a sex worker. Now that busybodies in your town have found out, should you tell her before she finds out from her bullying classmates?
• You're forced to interact often with someone who doesn't respect your time and keeps you locked in long, boring conversations for what adds up to about three hours a week. What's your best escape plan?
• Your fiance's sister moved to a new city and hasn't had much success with networking. As far as you know, she hasn't made any friends, isn't dating, and doesn't have any hobbies. You want to help her, but you're not sure how. What do we suggest?
• When you have new coworkers who seem to go out of their way to exclude you from their conversations, it's hard not to take it personally. What can you do, if anything, to cope with cliques in the workplace?
• You've found a job for which you'd love to apply, but the company is requiring a cover letter with pay requirements. Is there a comfortable middle ground you can ask for that doesn’t make you seem overzealous?
• You're analytical, and your spouse is emotional. You usually play off of each other's strengths, but you're currently in a conversational stalemate in which you feel like your spouse is treating you like a jerk for just trying to help. What's really going on here?
• You recently graduated from a great school, but you've only managed to get a handful of interviews and no offers over the last several months. Your confidence and resources are dwindling and you don't know what else to do. How can you keep your spirits up while finding your bearings?
• What...

Robert Spalding (@robert_spalding) is a national security strategist and a globally recognized expert on Chinese economic competition and influence. He retired from the US Air Force as a brigadier general, and is the author of Stealth War: How China Took Over While America's Elite Slept.

What We Discuss with Robert Spalding:

• The consequences the United States faces as a result of its economic connections to a totalitarian state that openly opposes its core values.
• How electronics and sensors are being created for American consumers that send data to China to feed the government's artificial intelligence systems.
• Why there can't be a global free market system when the second biggest economy in the world isn't participating.
• How US manufacturing suffers as a result of consumer demand for "cheap stuff" that China is more than happy to fulfill.
• China's fraudulent accounting methods, akin to a ponzi scheme, that actively erode the US economy with assistance from the very people this hurts.
• And much more...

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Brian Grazer (@BrianGrazer) is an Academy Award-winning producer whose films and TV shows have been nominated for 45 Academy Awards and 196 Emmys. He is the author of Face to Face: The Art of Human Connection.

What We Discuss with Brian Grazer:

• What imposter syndrome looks like when you’re at the top of the Hollywood game.
• How Brian turned a childhood learning disability into a superpower.
• Why being called a loser by Harvey Weinstein at the 1996 Academy Awards doesn’t Brian hurt so much these days.
• How Brian networked himself up from legal clerk at Warner Bros. to one of Hollywood’s most respected producers.
• Why Brian values curiosity over IQ.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/267

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Recently you stopped all contact with a childhood friend due to his toxic behavior. He went through a pretty bad breakup due to his behavior and you had enough. He thinks that by being a horrible dick to people, he’s being really honest and helping them. Your other friends tell you that you should talk to him about why you cut him off, but you feel you've told him one too many times why he’s a dick and what he could do to change. Do you owe him a conversation just because you were childhood friends? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to help you decide whether to continue ghosting this ex-friend or actually take the time to tell him he's a horrible person.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/266.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• Recently you stopped all contact with a childhood friend due to his toxic behavior. Do you owe him a conversation just because you were childhood friends -- even if it's just to tell him he's a horrible person?
• You've grown distant from your once-close sibling, who has become increasingly anxious and self-isolated to the point where family visits never happen anymore. Is there a way you can help draw them out?
• Your boyfriend enjoys porn, so you're wondering -- from a guy's perspective -- why is it necessary to have an “escape” from a relationship with a partner who is perfectly willing to do it all? Is he just scared to be vulnerable enough to ask you?
• After six potential relationships got nipped in the bud because the other person says you're "too good" for them, your suspicions are aroused. What's the most likely story, and what can you do to change this all-too-familiar outcome?
• When you work in politics and it's election season, how do you wrangle your campaign volunteers to do the work that's proven effective (phone calls and knocking on doors) instead of the work they want to do (strategy meetings and social media)?
• You're constantly told you need to meet with mentors, but you've gotten a lot of terrible advice from them. Is there any value to just going through the motions with bad mentors who may be great connections if not the soundest strategists?
• You're a shoe-in for a job opportunity opening near you soon, but it would mean pulling out of a job you're not that excited about that requires a lengthy commute. How can you let go of the latter job without leaving anyone in the lurch?
• Life Pro Tip: Feeling a gag reflex? Squeeze...

Moran Cerf (@twtrdtcm) is a neuroscientist who strives to understand the underlying mechanisms of human psychology, behavior changes, emotion, decision making, and dreams.

What We Discuss with Moran Cerf:

• What would a future in which we could connect our brains to the cloud and outsource parts of our thinking look like?
• Can we — or will we ever be able to — record and share our dreams like home movies of the most intimate kind?
• How teachers might use virtual reality attuned to our specific brain engagement patterns to ensure we’re learning at an optimal rate.
• What happens when computers and machines can read our thoughts and know what we’re thinking even before we do?
• What are the security risks of having our thoughts available to these kinds of networks?
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/265

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Mike Rowe (@mikeroweworks) is a host and narrator known for his work on Dirty Jobs, Somebody’s Gotta Do It, The Way I Heard It Podcast, and Returning the Favor. He is also now an author, and his first book, The Way I Heard It, is out now.

What We Discuss with Mike Rowe:

• The kind of cognitive dissonance Mike believes our country needs right now, and the tropes we could afford to grasp more loosely.
• How the prevailing desire among correction culture commandos to prove others wrong on the Internet stifles our ability to exchange ideas freely.
• Why Mike eschews second takes in favor of presenting his audience with the authentic moments they trust him to share.
• How Mike’s thrifty (and crafty) parents suckered him into feeling sorry for rich people when he was growing up.
• Why we shouldn’t view a blue collar career pursuit as a cautionary tale in comparison to the lifelong debt likely incurred by chasing a four-year degree these days.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/264

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You recently had a revelation that your spouse has zero respect for you. On a daily basis, you’re reminded how to do basic tasks and criticized for every minor mistake you make. You’ve also noticed that they never value your advice, and if they have a question about something — no matter how confident your answer is — they’ll always ask someone else afterward as if they don’t value or believe your answer. You work hard, have a good job that supports your family on your income alone, you help out around the house probably more than most in your position, and you’re going to school to further your education and job opportunities even more. The big question is: If they really do have zero respect for you, how can you win back your spouse’s respect? We’ll try to answer this and much more on the latest Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/263.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• From the way you’re treated in public and private, you recently had a revelation that your spouse of several years has zero respect for you. Even if you can figure out why, can respect ever be regained after it’s lost? If so, how?
• You’re trying to get through college as an introvert, but your challenges are going as expected. Once people have an impression of you as an unfriendly person fixed in their minds, is it possible to change it?
• You’re trying to move into another role at your current company; you had a great interview and thought it was a sure thing. But they chose someone else and you wonder what went wrong. What can you do to improve your chances next time?
• Your significant other isn’t pulling their weight financially. How can you tactfully approach the matter without making them feel completely worthless, and what can you do to ensure they understand the concept of “adulting?”
• You’re from a developing nation and, thanks to the Internet, you relate more to Western culture than the one in which you were raised. Unfortunately, any potential significant other isn’t on board with your “radical” views. Should you seek love in another land even though you don’t have a lot of money to travel?
• You’re young, and so are most of your network connections. Should you still work on this younger network, or should you try to build an older...

T.I. (@Tip) is an award-winning rapper, actor, entrepreneur, family man, philanthropist, author, activist, and host of expediTIously on PodcastOne.

What We Discuss with T.I.:

• Why T.I. went from selling candy to selling crack as a teenager, and how he turned away from a life of crime to pursue a life of rhyme.
• How does an award-winning rapper, actor, entrepreneur, family man, philanthropist, author, activist, and podcast host celebrate a landmark birthday?
• T.I.'s world-tested secrets to releasing an album and filming an unauthorized music video while serving time in prison.
• How T.I. walks the line between excess and moderation when it comes to everything from music to jewelry to tequila.
• Does T.I. feel tension between setting a good example for kids and community, and staying on top of the rap game?
• And much more...

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Mubin Shaikh (@MrMubinShaikh) is a former Islamic extremist who became an undercover counter-terrorism operative instrumental in exposing a plot to hold Canada's Parliament hostage and behead the Prime Minister. He is the co-author of Undercover Jihadi: Inside the Toronto 18 -- Al Qaeda Inspired, Homegrown Terrorism in the West.

What We Discuss with Mubin Shaikh:

• What does "radicalization" mean to someone who's experienced it firsthand, and how can it convert a teenaged Canadian metalhead into a true believer of a cause that uses terrorism to accomplish its goals?
• What did it take for this true believer to change course and start working for his government's counter-terrorist agency?
• The differences between Sufi and Wahhabi Islam, and what makes the latter a more suitable creed for extremists.
• Why "terrorism is the atom bomb of the poor man."
• How Mubin's undercover work exposed a massive terrorist plot, and what the aftermath of this operation looked like.
• And much more...

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You're in your 30s, single, and you have a problem with prostitutes. You don't even really enjoy the experience and you know it's not worth your time, money, or the legal or health risks, but you still have an irresistible compulsion to continue meeting with them. Even more troubling is that you've noticed it's slowly changing how you see money and women. You know you'd like to settle down with the right woman some day, but you worry that the temptation to cheat on her with a prostitute could ruin everything. It's out of control. So what can you do? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to help you figure out how to quit your prostitute problem (and determine why you have one in the first place).

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It's filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• Your proclivity for prostitutes is a problem. Perhaps there's a process to properly put this pricey, precarious, and pointless pursuit out to pasture?
• As a first time juror, how do you balance your desire for justice with impartiality in a difficult-to-prove case? [Thanks to Corbin Payne, Esq. for helping with this one!]
• When everyone has to work harder to make up for the boss' brother (who pulls full salary but only shows up half the time), can company culture be called to task, or is it just time to move on?
• You wound up on Hertz's do not rent list as the result of a fraudster stealing cars under your identity. The company refuses to take you off the list in spite of proof you weren't at fault. Is there any recourse for you?
• You believe you have solid ideas, but no capital or time to develop and market them. Is it possible to sell these ideas to someone with these resources without getting taken advantage of?
• You've just turned 18, but feel directionless. While you don't want to live a "normal" life that's been played out millions of times, becoming a therapist or trying your hand at standup comedy have crossed your mind. What's our advice?
• If you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with, what happens when you can't relate to anyone in your immediate circle since moving to be closer to your spouse's family in another country and settling for a miserable, underpaying job?
• Your coworker would be more articulate (and effective at his job) if he could only eliminate that Beaky Buzzard-like "duhhhhh" he uses as conversation filler. How can you tactfully suggest ways for him to hone his presentation skills?
• Life Pro Tip: Set a nearby shop as your home address in your vehicle's navigation...

Dr. Jolene Brighten (@drbrighten) is a nutritional biochemist, a pioneer in women's medicine, and the author of Beyond the Pill: A 30-Day Program to Balance Your Hormones, Reclaim Your Body, and Reverse the Dangerous Side Effects of the Birth Control Pill.

What We Discuss with Dr. Jolene Brighten:

• The pros and cons of using hormonal birth control.
• How the birth control pill can change who you're attracted to and why there are higher instances of divorce when women go off the pill after getting married while on it.
• The problems that arise for all of us when scientifically accurate sex education isn't mandated in every school.
• How the pill can mask symptoms of serious health problems -- even infertility.
• What you can do to alleviate potential problems from using the pill, and when to know it's time to switch doctors who don't take your concerns seriously.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/259

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The Pitch is a Gimlet podcast hosted by Josh Muccio in which real entrepreneurs pitch to real investors -- for real money. Each episode takes listeners behind closed doors to the critical moment when aspiring entrepreneurs put it all on the line. Check out The Pitch here, on Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts!

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Dennis Rodman (@dennisrodman) (aka The Worm) is one of the greatest rebounders ever to play professional basketball, with five NBA championships under his belt. He's arguably just as well-known for his off-court antics, and his resume includes stints as an author, an actor, a reality star, a wrestler, and an unofficial diplomat to North Korea.

What We Discuss with Dennis Rodman:

• How Dennis went from being a shy, neglected kid to a people-pleasing watch thief to a man who values independence and naysayer-defying personal expression above all else.
• Why the hustle of living as a homeless 19-year-old was more appealing than eating mustard sandwiches in the projects with his family.
• The volatile relationship Dennis has had with the media over the years, and how he decides who's worthy of his trust (and who's not) these days.
• Why, given his passing interest in basketball until a late growth spurt made him a contender, Dennis' self-taught and unique approach to world-class rebounding is particularly surprising.
• Marrying himself, being an early ally to the LBGTQ community, the pros and cons of fame, and risky birthday toasts to Kim Jong-un in North Korea.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/258

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You were recently and unknowingly an accomplice to fraud and credit card theft. You’re a freelancer with a client who frequently used your services; you built trust, and then he asked you to transfer some money for him as a paid favor. Your poor judgment, kindness, and greed led to where you are now. Now the real credit card owners are issuing chargebacks, which are draining your account, and you don’t have their money because you sent the money to someone else. What do you do? We’ll try to answer this and more on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/257.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• You were unknowingly an accomplice to credit card fraud. Now the real credit card owners are issuing chargebacks, which is draining your account and you don’t have their money because you sent the money to someone else. What do you do?
• Because you’re in the entertainment industry, you’ve been getting nipped and tucked for years and you look much younger than your time on earth would indicate. Is it imperative that you tell your new significant other about your cosmetic procedures?
• Your future in-laws seem to be in a financially abusive relationship — with one taking more than their fair share from the other — to the point that you hope they divorce. Are you out of line by wishing for this?
• What do you do when a friend, colleague, family member, or loved one seems to be losing their marbles before your very eyes?
• You’ve been growing your network with great success over the past few years, which is awesome. What’s not so awesome is worrying about how to balance the time you spend with these connections as your network grows. How can you keep quality job one in this case?
• Even when you know a recent breakup was for the right reasons, it’s hard not to ruminate over where they are, who they could be with, what they’re thinking, if they are thinking of you, and whether they’ll ever return one day. How can you move on?
• You’ve legally adopted your wife’s 16-year-old, but he’s troubled. How do you get him to see the errors of his ways? How do you look at him without wanting to snap at him? How do you lead him to want to better himself, grow, and not just do the minimum?
• You’re a 16-year-old, and your parents have strange beliefs. They make you eat...

Malcolm Gladwell (@gladwell) has written bestsellers that are probably on your shelf right now, including The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, and What the Dog Saw. His latest book is Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know.

What We Discuss with Malcolm Gladwell:

• Why, if we don't know how to talk to strangers, we invite conflict and misunderstanding in ways that have a profound effect on our lives and our world.
• Why the information we gather from face-to-face human interaction isn't as uniquely valuable as we think it is.
• Why television makes us worse at reading other people.
• Why we think we can tell if someone is lying, guilty, or deceptive -- and why we're almost always wrong.
• What determines the direction of Malcolm's projects, and how he researches and organizes the massive amount of information that goes into them.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/256

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You recently discovered evidence that your friend of 12 years has a significant other who’s nothing but a no-good two-timer. Is it your place to call this out? Is exposing a cheater the right thing to do even if it may ruin your friendship? We’ll dig into this and more right here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/254.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? It’s filling up fast; reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• You recently uncovered dirt on your friend’s significant other as a faithless, two-timing snake. Is exposing this cheater the right thing to do?
• Recently reconnecting with an old friend, you were shocked to discover they’ve been diagnosed with a potentially fatal condition. While you’re not super close, you want to be of comfort without being awkward. What should you do?
• New to your field, you’ll be attending a networking event with other young professionals and industry veterans soon. What can you do to stand out and be remembered in a good way?
• You recently angered a friend by unknowingly poking fun at him for being single, but you’re so embarrassed and upset with yourself for hurting him that you don’t have the courage to apologize bravely and sincerely. How can you make things right?
• Someone you once considered close has in recent years become cold and judgmental, though you can’t point to any event that would constitute a falling out. Others in your circle have noticed, so you’re pretty sure it’s not just you. What can you do to get to the bottom of this?
• What’s the best way to cope with the psychological toll of starting and running your own business? (Thanks to Brian Clark from Copyblogger for fielding this one!)
• You consider yourself pretty genuine, so should you even be attempting to network with people you don’t like just because they’re decent connections within your industry?
• A friend has become annoyingly needy and narcissistic since breaking off an engagement. How can you break it to them that their behavior has become unacceptable without being heartless?
• Life Pro Tip: When you’re moving, pack a “first day” box with everything...

Chase Jarvis (@chasejarvis) is an award-winning artist, entrepreneur, and one of the most influential photographers of the past decade. He is also an author, and his latest book, Creative Calling: Establish a Daily Practice, Infuse Your World with Meaning, and Succeed in Work + Life, is out this week.

What We Discuss with Chase Jarvis:

• Some of the most common barriers to creativity and our pursuit of creative outlets or careers and how to work past these barriers.
• Why creativity is a habit, not a skill, and what we can do to cultivate this creativity with practice.
• How even Chase has experienced creative slumps, and what he did to dig himself out of them.
• The DEAR framework for being able to understand what works in any situation -- by studying the masters who have come before you.
• The importance of community for sustained success in any endeavor.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/252

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Major life changes can be a mixed bag. On one hand, you're over the moon for landing your dream job. On the other hand, being diagnosed with an aggressive form of brain cancer and told by your doctor that you've got two years to live (at best) puts a bit of a damper on the celebration. You're determined to remain positive -- after all, you wouldn't be the first to beat fatalistic odds if this thing were somehow turned around, so there's no harm in being hopeful. You wouldn't say you're lost, but you do want to ensure that you make the most of whatever time you have left -- however long that may be. We can only imagine what you're going through, but on this Feedback Friday we'll do our best to offer how we might spend our time if confronted with the worst news possible -- but armed with your incredibly deep well of positivity.

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/251.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? Reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• How do you make the most of the time you have left with positivity when doctors have given you two years to live?
• People have preferences about looks, personalities, and religious backgrounds for their significant others. Is wishing they hadn’t slept with 100 people before you a valid preference?
• What does it take for a successful and single 51-year-old woman who travels frequently to find someone with whom to build a family when the dating pool of quality candidates seems so microscopic?
• While a policy to never pursue romance with a professional connection has served you well in the past, you’ve met someone who makes you want to reconsider this policy. How might you make your interest known while remaining professional?
• You’d like to improve the relationship with your parents and the way you communicate. What can you do to make things better?
• If you wanted to start a new business online without using the topics of your current or past expertise, how would you pick a niche and establish your credibility? (Thanks to Brian Clark from Copyblogger for fielding this one!)
• While you’ll be laid off soon, you’re not worried because you have a generous severance and plenty of leads already. How do you network without people assuming you’re just trying to get a job through their connections?
• Aside from buying decent mics...

Nir Eyal (@nireyal) is a behavioral designer who helps companies design products that move people, and helps people design their own behavior using the principles of consumer psychology. He is the author of Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products and Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life. This is Nir's second appearance on the show (check out his first time here).

What We Discuss with Nir Eyal:

• Why time management is quite literally pain management, and the time you plan to waste is not wasted time.
• How the issues caused by technology today aren't dissimilar to the issues caused by technology that vexed Aristotle and Socrates thousands of years ago.
• Why you'll probably find the popular advice to try digital detox as a way to rid yourself of technology's influence over your life about as effective as a fad diet.
• The damage caused by accepting the media's spin on technology as a pervasive addiction over which we have no control, and what we can do to get the best of these tools without letting them get the best of us.
• How to nurture your child's healthy relationship with technology by empowering them with an understanding of its opportunity costs.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/250

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Kobe Bryant (@kobebryant) is most known for his 20 years on the basketball court as one of the game's most iconic legends. He now focuses his famous tenacity on running Granity Studios, an award-winning multimedia company devoted to creating new ways to tell stories around sports -- like Legacy and the Queen with Annie Matthew.

What We Discuss with Kobe Bryant:

• What creativity and basketball have in common and what Kobe has carried from the court to his new business.
• Lessons Kobe has learned from people who are the best at what they do — from Taylor Swift to Jony Ive to Sean Penn to Kate Winslet to Larry Moss to Oprah to George R.R. Martin.
• How Kobe manages pressure in high stakes situations on the court and at the head of a creative content studio.
• The music that gets Kobe in the mindset he needs to excel at whatever he does.
• The importance of learning how to negotiate with yourself in order to achieve greatness, and how parents might help their kids develop this crucial skill.
• And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/249

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You have a hostile coworker undermining you before management at every opportunity. How can you ensure facts will speak up for you instead of your coworker's toxic fabrications? Never fear! We'll show you how to navigate around a hostile coworker on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/248

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• A Detroit vagrant in his 40s probably has enough problems to deal with. Can any good come from pressing charges against him because he tried (and failed) to steal your laptop?
• You have a hostile coworker undermining you before management at every opportunity. How can you ensure facts will speak up for you instead of your coworker's toxic fabrications?
• You hear of coworkers getting a promotion because they're "smart." What does it mean to be smart? Is being smart related to IQ? Is it related to emotional intelligence? Is it related to street smarts? Or is it a combination of all of these?
• As a business owner in a new country who's pioneered your own niche, how do you avoid a race to the bottom in pricing and remain high in quality as competition attempts to elbow into your turf?
• Is it ever good to name drop when networking?
• How can you continue to network and problem solve for your peers, but also start to lay the foundation of credibility with your accomplishments to build future -- and likely new leadership positions -- at your company?
• You reached out to someone in your chosen field, and you were referred to two others who have agreed to meet with you. How can you use the FEW technique effectively when these meetings happen?
• Is it worth the ROI to obtain expensive credentials (like an MBA) early in your career? Or is charging forward to gain experience more beneficial?
• Life Pro Tip: When you get a scammy/spammy phone call, tell them: "I think you have the wrong number...this is a government office." Alternatively, you can play this sound into the phone to possibly get removed from the system's rotation.
• Recommendation of the Week: Dave Chappelle: Sticks & Stones, Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee (Dave Chappelle Episode)
• A quick shoutout to David Gray Lassiter!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and...

Chris Bailey (@chris_bailey) is a productivity expert, host of the Becoming Better Podcast, and the bestselling author of two books about productivity: Hyperfocus, and The Productivity Project. In the time it's taken you to read this, he's probably written another.

What We Discuss with Chris Bailey:

• The neurochemical reason our brains switch focus every 40 seconds (or less) and what we can do to recapture this hit to our overall productivity.
• Why giving yourself the time to unfocus productively with what Chris calls scatterfocus is as crucial to your progress as hyperfocus.
• How Chris harnesses scatterfocus to mull over and solve complicated problems without distraction.
• What Chris learned by deliberately allowing himself to enter a state of boredom for an hour a day for an entire month (and how he did so creatively).
• What the attention overload gap is, the problems it can cause, and why we're more susceptible to it than we probably suspect.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/247

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Wendy Behary (@donsanddivas) has been training professionals and supervising psychotherapists for more than 20 years, and is the author of Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed.

What We Discuss with Wendy Behary:

• What's the difference between someone who comes off as somewhat self-absorbed and a full-blown, clinical narcissist?
• Is clinical narcissism actually on the rise in the US? If so, what’s causing it?
• Does narcissism statistically affect men more than women, or is there just a difference in how they tend to express it?
• When a little bit of narcissism can be a big advantage.
• How to tell early on if you’re dealing with a bona fide narcissist, what you can do to remain your best self in their presence, and how you might possibly help them become their better selves.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/246

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When your significant other agreed to stop watching porn early in your relationship, you were relieved. But now that you've been dating for a few years and everything's otherwise great, you can't shake the feeling that they haven't quite given up porn and it feels like a betrayal. Is porn cheating? On this Feedback Friday, we do our best to get some perspective on this and much more!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/245.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Due to your own complicated history, your significant other's possible consumption of porn feels like betrayal. Is there a way to understand it from a different perspective?
• You spent six years training for your dream job only to be disqualified on a technicality. How can you motivate yourself to endure a similar time sink for another career when you know you're not getting any younger?
• As a business owner, how do you deal with the deadbeats who take advantage of your good nature and don't respect what you do enough to give you fair value for your services?
• How do people transition from the period of time they need to get experience in their field to the time they get paid for making use of that experience?
• Your significant other wants you to list the names of the people you've dated and slept with in the past, and then delete them all from your social media. Is this at all reasonable?
• You assumed you were having an email conversation regarding a business proposition with a man you know named Sam, but it turns out it's been with a woman named Sam whom you don't remember meeting. Now what?
• You're normally a great conversationalist, but when it comes to interacting with a superior, you find yourself worrying too much about accidentally saying the wrong thing and the conversation ends up stagnating. How might you overcome this?
• Life Pro Tip: Looking to cut the cord but dreading the inevitable call to the cable company where they badger you into not leaving? Tell them you're moving out of state where they don't offer services. Your cancellation call will take a fraction of the time.
• Recommendations of the Week: Happy Jail and Twelve Monkeys
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• A quick shoutout to Justin Phillips!
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Rob Reid (@Rob_Reid) is a tech entrepreneur, early-stage tech investor, author of After On: A Novel of Silicon Valley, and host of the After On Podcast.

What We Discuss with Rob Reid:

• The potential for synthetic biology to be leveraged by nihilistic mass murderers to wipe out millions.
• The potential for synthetic biology to be leveraged by altruistic medical pioneers to save millions.
• What CRISPR is and how its eventual availability to hobbyists may ensure there's a mad scientist on every block.
• Why the future of synthetic biology may be exponentially more dangerous to humanity than the nuclear proliferation of the Cold War.
• What we can start doing now to prepare for this future and minimize its risks while reaping its rewards.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/244

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Mark Geragos (@markgeragos) is a criminal defense lawyer who has represented high-profile clients like Michael Jackson, Winona Ryder, Gary Condit, Susan McDougal, Chris Brown, and Scott Peterson. He is the co-author of Mistrial: An Inside Look at How the Criminal Justice System Works...and Sometimes Doesn't.

"You never know what's going to happen -- especially when you're kind of the emergency room doctor of the law." -Mark Geragos

What We Discuss with Mark Geragos:

• How (and why) does a criminal defense lawyer stand up for the rights of someone who seems clearly guilty?
• How nonverbal communication and body language are used effectively in the courtroom.
• The court of public opinion and why it matters today more than ever.
• The skills Mark uses to control his emotions during life and death trials.
• What Mark witnessed in his youth that ensured his choice to defend people from criminal charges rather than prosecute them.
• And much more...

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Scott Young (@ScottHYoung) is the host of the Scott Young Podcast and author of Ultralearning: Master Hard Skills, Outsmart the Competition, and Accelerate Your Career

What We Discuss with Scott Young:

• How Benjamin Franklin, chess grandmaster Judit Polgár, and Nobel Laureate physicist Richard Feynman used Ultralearning to rise to the top of their fields.
• How Scott used ultralearning to absorb the entire MIT four-year computer science curriculum in 11 months and learned four languages in one year!
• The biggest mistakes you're probably making when trying to learn something new.
• Why school isn't the only place where intense learning is possible.
• How our brains process languages and why some of our most popular learning options (like Duolingo) may not be optimal.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/241.
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At work, you're the youngest person on the team -- but you've also been there longer than anyone else. Your boss (who lives in another state) refers to you as his site lead, but you don't have an official title to reflect this. Your group needs the organization you know you can offer, but you don't want to come off as a power-hungry usurper. How do you get your boss to clarify your role -- to you and the team? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to show you how to ensure your authority is respected.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/239.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? Reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• Is there a moral and/or legal obligation for Airbnb hosts to inform their guests when there are security cameras present -- whether or not they're recording anything?
• Are there any online courses or coaches specialized in social skills we would recommend for making conversation and connection easier?
• You're worried you don't come across as friendly. How can you improve your outer emotional reaction to people without feeling like you're overacting and being fake?
• Your boss communicates with you as if you're in a leadership position, but you feel like you have no authority. Do you need to ask him to clarify your role -- to you and your team?
• Is sharing photos useful when you're reconnecting with someone you haven't seen in a while, and is there networking value in alumni associations?
• You tend to forget the lessons you learn from audiobooks after a couple of months. What is the best way to memorize and apply the key takeaways of these books?
• What are the logistics of carrying on a successful long-distance relationship with a significant other whose sister doesn't like you and will probably undermine you from afar?
• You want to start a family, but your spouse's fertility issues may prevent this. Additionally, they're averse to therapy that might help lessen the impact or present options if you receive bad news. How can you be as supportive as possible?
• Life Pro Tip: Buy daily necessities in bulk when they're on sale, and pay close attention to unit prices!
• Recommendation of the Week: Losing Sight of Shore
• A quick shoutout to Becky, Robin, and all of the women's college volleyball players who listen to the show!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories...

Steven Hassan (@CultExpert) is a licensed mental health counselor who has been educating the public about mind control, brainwashing, and destructive cults since 1976. He's the author of Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue, and Recovery from Destructive Cults and the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center. This is part two of a two-part episode. Check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Steven Hassan:

• What to do if you suspect you've been targeted for recruitment by a cult.
• How to tell if your friends and family are being affected by a cult.
• What you should and shouldn't say to someone you're trying to rescue from a cult.
• How phobia indoctrination keeps a cult's potential defectors tethered to its undue influence by fear (and how Steven helps people break this indoctrination).
• Why Steven is optimistic that we've reached a turning point at which the bulk of humanity is waking up to understanding the psychology of undue influence.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/238

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Steven Hassan (@CultExpert) is a a licensed mental health counselor who has been educating the public about mind control, brainwashing, and destructive cults since 1976. He's the author of Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue, and Recovery from Destructive Cults and the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center. This is part one of a two-part episode (part two coming soon).

What We Discuss with Steven Hassan:

• How to use Steven’s BITE model to tell if you or someone you love is involved in a destructive cult through control of behavior, information, thought, and emotion.
• The four types of destructive cults most prevalent today: commercial, religious, political, and self-help.
• How cults have weaponized the Internet and social media to fill their ranks and thrive as never before possible.
• Why it’s the people who believe themselves immune to (i.e., too smart for) cult indoctrination who are most at risk of being targeted and recruited.
• How Steven has refined Ted Patrick’s invasive cult deprogramming tactics of the ’70s into a more effective strategic interactive approach.

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You and your spouse recently decided to move back to your small hometown after giving the big city a try and deciding it's just not for you. But the problem is: you're going to have to give up the job you love, with benefits and more of a salary than you've ever made elsewhere. On top of that, the company is currently paying for you to finish school, so there may be legal consequences if you ditch them on graduation day. So in this Feedback Friday, we'll try to show you how to quit your dream job gracefully.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/236.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is it unreasonable for you to tell friends and family that you don't support MLM companies, won't host their parties, and won't buy their products? Or is there a softer, more effective approach?
• You recently broke up with your significant other of 15 months, but feel guilty because they gave up their chance to start their MBA in anther city to be with you. Are you a terrible person who made a selfish decision?
• Your spouse wants to move the family out of the big city and back to your hometown, but it means leaving a job you love that has invested in your education. How do you gracefully part ways while causing the least impact and without burning any bridges?
• You did a digital detox after listening to our episode with Cal Newport, and want to limit your seven-year-old's exposure to devices after hearing our episode with Jonathan Haidt. How do you ensure you're not just making the wrong thing more appealing?
• You moved to another country five years ago and have been working menial jobs, learning the language, and taking classes for fun. Now you're ready to take your career seriously, but your resume might be hard to explain. How to proceed?
• You've lost your motivation, confidence, and self-esteem after quitting a job under a manipulative boss, and your dreams of landing a better job are stalled after submitting hundreds of applications with no calls back. How do you give yourself the kick-in-the-ass, tough self-love pep talk you drastically need?
• After a few years of accepting sponsored links and posts for your blog, you ended up owning your own link placement agency. This is now what you do full time and you earn more than you ever have before, but you know it's just a matter of time before Google smacks you down. How can you find time to start a more legit business before this happens?
• You would love to start your own podcast and YouTube channel. You have a great topic, lots of ideas, and contacts for people you could have on the show. Should you work on both the podcast and YouTube or just focus on one?
• What's the most interesting experience you've ever had? Safari? helicopter tour of a waterfall in venezuela? I'd love to know. Looking at a bucket list. The books on this are all lame because...

Seth Godin (@thisissethsblog) is an entrepreneur, a teacher, a Marketing Hall of Fame inductee, a daily blogger, the host of the Akimbo podcast, and the author of 19 international bestsellers. His latest is This Is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See.

What We Discuss with Seth Godin:

• Why it's possible to suffer from imposter syndrome simultaneously with entitlement.
• Why the market for media is so fragmented today, and what it means for content creators, advertisers, and consumers.
• Why you can trade for attention, but you can't trade for trust.
• The simple sentence you can use to remind yourself that you're not going to do better work by heeding your one-star reviewers.
• Why Seth considers the idea of hustling selfish and akin to bullying.
• And much more...

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So your abusive ex has basically invaded your home and claimed squatter's rights when the police showed up to escort them away. What can you do to get them out -- and keep them out -- of your life forever? Listen to this Feedback Friday to hear our take on the matter!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/233

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Should you be searching for a new job when you're in extended treatment for a serious medical issue? Is it fair to your current or potential future employer?
• After time off from your relationship to finish grad school, you're back with your significant other. But how can you get over the retroactive jealousy you feel?
• When you're the parent of a junior high schooler, how can you create opportunities for your kid to build social skills with adults?
• When your mentally ill mother gave your estranged sister her house -- from which she was then kicked out -- do you have a legal claim to at least part of that house?
• How do you retain clients -- without bashing your old employer -- when it's time to move on to a job that will be a better fit in your small, gossipy industry?
• Do you take on a higher paying, riskier job with a long commute to boost your debt repayments, or stay where you are where the growth is slow but more secure?
• You fired one contractor for shoddy remodeling work and had to hire others to fix it. What are your legal obligations regarding unfinished payment and equipment left behind?
• What can you do to keep an intrusive, abusive ex out of your life forever -- especially when they move into your house and claim squatter's rights when you try to kick them out?
• Life Pro Tip: If you're a student planning your career, look up postings for your entry-level dream job, find the skills and qualifications you'll need, then work backwards from there.
• Recommendation of the Week: I Am Mother
• Quick shoutouts to Corbin Payne, Esq. for helping with some of the legal stuff here, and Manny Dhillon!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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Daniel Goleman (@DanielGolemanEI) is a psychologist, science journalist, and author of The New York Times Best Seller Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ.

What We Discuss with Daniel Goleman:

• The pros and cons of technology's influence on the way human beings connect in the 21st century.
• How we read emotions on a subconscious level -- and why blind people can sometimes still see them.
• Why sights, smells, and sounds can make us relive traumatic experiences.
• How emotions become contagious.
• The science behind why people act like jerks on the Internet.
• And much more...

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Mike Abrashoff (@itsyourship) is a former Naval Commander, leadership and teamwork expert, and author of the New York Times bestseller It's Your Ship: Management Techniques from the Best Damn Ship in the Navy.

What We Discuss with Mike Abrashoff:

• Why leadership style matters and organizational culture is everything.
• How to know when it's appropriate to break the rules and favor innovation over tradition.
• When to challenge your superiors, and how to do so without endangering your career.
• How to earn the trust of your superiors so they come to rely on you and trust your judgment.
• What it takes to foster learning and innovation among the ranks of people conditioned to just follow orders.
• And much more...

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People rarely admit to enjoying small talk, but that's because so few of us are actually very good at it. Luckily, FEW is also a convenient-to-remember acronym for Facts, Emotions, Why -- a foolproof formula for leading small talk that can yield big results. Find out how in this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/230.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• When your friend repeatedly sends five-minute voice messages that a 10-second text would convey, how do you drive home the point that ain't nobody got time for that?
• Congrats on quitting social media! But now what do you do with your spare two- to five-minute intervals you used to spend tweeting or reading Facebook? Glad you asked!
• How can somebody in a quaint but underdeveloped town find improv and behavioral classes to improve their skills and up their game on personal and professional fronts?
• Is it opportunistic to leverage interest other companies have shown in recruiting you when it's time to negotiate for a raise -- even when you planned to stick around anyway?
• Even though you consider yourself social and find your spouse's friends a delight, they seem to think you don't like them. How can you dispel their concerns and let your real feelings shine through?
• You've broken up with your significant other of four years for once again lying to you, but you feel guilty because they've been in therapy for the past six months trying to be better. What next?
• Your usually calm and cool significant other will be taking the bar exam soon, and a lot of things are up in the air until it's passed. How can you express support without getting in the way?
• When you've lost trust in your business partner, what steps can you take to ensure you're not on the hook for 100 percent of the company's debt if things go even further south?
• Life Pro Tip: Drowning in debt from that unexpected hospital visit? Medical billing departments will often accept a fraction of what you "owe."
• A quick shoutout to recently married listener and local Michael Moore!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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Oliver Bullough (@OliverBullough) is a journalist, a regular contributor to The Guardian, and author of Moneyland: Why Thieves And Crooks Now Rule The World And How To Take It Back.

What We Discuss with Oliver Bullough:

• How corrupt leaders pilfer everything from wildlife reserves, banks, and even national healthcare systems.
• How this type of graft corrupts society and leads to other crime and unrest -- such as terrorism and flawed elections.
• How corruption filters down the economic food chain, harming children and those who can't defend themselves.
• How dark money can be used for a host of unsavory purposes, and why it's nearly impossible to uncover it because of shell corporations, passports for sale, and the fact that dark money knows no borders.
• What we might do to begin reeling in this lopsided power structure from its offshore roots in a way that benefits the fair-playing majority.
• And much more...

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Justin Paperny (@justinpaperny) was a successful stockbroker who made some bad decisions and wound up serving 18 months in prison for violating securities laws. Now he helps others prepare for time behind bars and after. He's the author of Lessons From Prison.

What We Discuss with Justin Paperny:

• What happens when white-collar criminals go to jail.
• Why otherwise good people might find themselves on the wrong end of the justice system.
• How someone prepares to do time inside a federal prison -- and what they can expect once they leave.
• How easy it can be for people to rationalize criminal behavior and lose control of their moral compass.
• Why Justin counts his 18 months behind bars as one of the best experiences of his life.
• And much more...

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Kim Scott (@kimballscott) is a co-founder of Radical Candor, LLC and author of Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity.

What We Discuss with Kim Scott:

• How the best lessons about management can be learned from our worst bosses.
• Why the worst bosses aren’t necessarily the worst people in the world, and how relating to them as human beings makes challenging their bad decisions easier.
• How then-Google executive Sheryl Sandberg changed an important aspect of Kim’s long-term career potential by caring personally, but challenging directly when spotting room for improvement.
• The four quadrants of the Radical Candor framework.
• How conscientious bosses can avoid promoting ruinous empathy, manipulative insincerity, and obnoxious aggression.
• And much more...

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Bryan Johnson (@bryan_johnson) is an entrepreneur, venture capitalist, and founder and CEO of Kernel, a company developing advanced neural interfaces, and OS Fund, a venture capital firm that invests in early-stage science and technology companies.

What We Discuss with Bryan Johnson:

• Why humanity needs to co-evolve with artificial intelligence if we are to survive as a species.
• What future literacy is and why it's crucial for understanding the role humanity will play in the decades to come.
• The steps being taken to comprehend what makes biological systems fail in order to improve their capabilities.
• How privacy inequality could create more of a disparity between people than economic disparity ever could.
• Why Bryan advises us to be skeptical of advice -- and how we can discern between what's applicable to our own situation and what's completely useless.
• And much more...

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Matt McCarthy (@drmattmccarthy) is an assistant professor of medicine at Weill Cornell, a staff physician at New York-Presbyterian Hospital, and the author of Superbugs: The Race to Stop an Epidemic.

What We Discuss with Matt McCarthy:

• How antibiotics are abused on a large scale by industrial agriculture, prescription-happy doctors, and mysophobic hand washers.
• Why antibiotic abuse is resulting in the fast-track evolution of once easily vanquished bacteria into superbugs from which we have no known protection.
• How herd immunity works, and why you may be at risk for contracting a once-eradicated disease thanks to anti-vaccination propaganda.
• Why the FDA approval process takes so long for new drugs to safely come to market, and how this hinders innovation in a profit-driven pharmaceutical market.
• How genetic editing through new CRISPR technology may be our best hope for quickly reacting to rapidly adapting superbugs.
• And much more…

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into what it takes to cultivate the mindset of abundance that seemingly makes generosity possible, and how to overcome the evolutionary blips in our programming that make it so counterintuitive.

"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." -Paul McCartney

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why the mindset of scarcity is your survival mode default that urges you to see the world as a zero sum game and hoard your resources accordingly.
• What you can do to reconcile this scarcity mindset with one of abundance that seemingly permits you to give generously without remorse.
• How you can begin practicing the behavior of generosity even before you've fully sold yourself on the belief of abundance.
• The many ways that tiny repetitions of generosity act to strengthen the muscles of abundance with giant gains.
• A smattering of good advice for cultivating abundance, and (we hope) an abundance of even better advice for making generosity second nature.
• And much more...

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Adam Savage (@donttrythis) is a special effects designer, educator, actor, former cohost of MythBusters, current host of Savage Builds (both on Discovery Channel), and author of Every Tool’s a Hammer: Life Is What You Make It.

What We Discuss with Adam Savage:

• What you have to gain by paying heed to your obsessions.
• The sublime benefits of real expertise.
• How deadlines spur action past the bottleneck of intended perfection.
• The universality of imposter syndrome.
• How an expanded vocabulary leads to unexplored solutions.
• And much more…

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When a longstanding policy — whether official or not — was a serious tipping point in the decision to accept your current job, are you right to feel like you’ve gotten the old bait-and-switch treatment when it’s axed nine months after you started? If so, how do you engage leadership to renegotiate terms? We’ll tackle this and more on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/218.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• If your not-so-close family members are unapologetically crummy to you and your fiance, is it time to cut them out of your life?
• When you don’t click with people your own age, what are the pros and cons of dating someone 17 years older than you?
• Nine months ago, you chose your job over other offers because it had flexible perks that are now being axed. How do you engage leadership to renegotiate terms?
• While networking in your field, you meet the same people at different events. The problem: you remember them, but they don’t remember you. How can you stand out?
• You want to leave factory life behind and relocate closer to your kids, but you’re 40 and don’t have the skills for a different job. What’s your best next step?
• Even though you’re curious about your own genetics, are you right to be wary of the potential privacy concerns that arise from taking a home DNA test?
• You’re speaking at a conference on behalf of your company where many industry leaders will be attending. How can you best network during your time offstage?
• You’ve lost respect for a friend who would rather waste their money than repay an old debt. Is this resolvable, or is it time for the friendship to move on?
• Life Pro Tip: Don’t just thank someone when they do something for you. Tell them what it means to you. Example: Rather than saying “Thanks for the ride,” say “Thanks for the ride! You saved me a bunch of time. You saved me a bunch of phone calls. You saved me a bunch of effort. I really appreciate it!”
• A quick shoutout to Tomas Conefrey for his kind donation!
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Matt Schrier is an American photographer who survived seven months as an Al-Qaeda captive in Syria before escaping, and the author of The Dawn Prayer: A Memoir.

What We Discuss with Matt Schrier:

• How Matt Schrier was captured by Al-Qaeda just 45 minutes away from the border on his way out of Syria in 2012.
• How making his captors laugh on day one of his captivity got him special treatment from a usually unforgiving crowd.
• What Matt did to survive and plan an escape in spite of an unhelpful, self-sabotaging cellmate.
• Why Matthew feels betrayed by the FBI and the US government for putting intelligence gathering over the safety of Americans imprisoned by terrorists.
• Why, even after becoming the first American to escape from Al-Qaeda and his feelings of betrayal from his own government, he has no regrets about going to Syria in the first place.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/217

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Why do people keep resisting new things? That's the question the Pessimists Archive podcast tries to answer. Each episode travels back in time to the moment a new technology or innovation was introduced and explores why everyone was freaking out about it. Give Pessimists Archive a listen here!

Chelsea Handler (@chelseahandler) is a writer, comedian, producer, TV host, activist, and the author of five consecutive New York Times bestsellers -- her latest is Life Will Be the Death of Me...And You Too!

What We Discuss with Chelsea Handler:

• Finding the line between mood enhancement and paranoia-generating abuse when it comes to cannabis.
• How a DUI at age 21 led to Chelsea's entry into the world of standup comedy, and what she was really trying to get from her search for attention.
• As someone who's never been afraid to quit a job she's grown tired of doing, what really matters to Chelsea?
• What's the difference between authentic generosity and generosity that just feeds the giver's ego?
• Why is Chelsea writing books, doing standup comedy, and working on television projects when she was sure she'd burned out on doing all of these things not long ago?
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/216

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There's lots of stuff in this one about investing wisely and eradicating debt -- especially student debt -- thanks to some professional help from our all-star, money-ninja accountant Matt Rzepka, along with the usual questions about everything else we get here on Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/215.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You judge people quickly, won't suck up to authority, and have a reputation as being unapproachable. What's really going on, and are you stuck this way?
• You're a frugally living 37-year-old doctor swimming in med school debt. Should you put all your money into saving and investments or toward extra loan repayment?
• For someone with student loan debt just starting out in their career, what is the best move for financial freedom? Should you pay off debt, invest, build savings, or acquire assets?
• Early in med school with many years of debt ahead, is it still worth it to be locking your money up and committing to your monthly index fund?
• Your network connection is great at opening doors, but lackluster in work ethic. Is there a way to inoffensively compensate them for opening those doors without involving them in the actual job that results?
• Are you really offended when an entertainer (say, a podcaster) openly expresses their political views, or are you just offended when their political views seem to differ from yours?
• How can you stop giving in to your need for instant gratification and become a productive member of society when you lack discipline and think the world's ending anyway?
• Life Pro Tip: If you volunteer to give up your seat on an overbooked flight, don't just take the first offer. Tell the gate agent, "Toss in another $200+/- and I'll go for it." They'll almost always agree, because a willing volunteer is worth it. And if they offer you a meal voucher, ask for a day pass to their first class club instead. It will have food plus other amenities!
• Recommendation of the Week: The Dawn Wall
• A quick shoutout to Malak Firaas from (the nation of) Jordan!
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• Connect...

Gabriel Weinberg (@yegg) is a serial entrepreneur, angel investor, founder of privacy-protecting search engine DuckDuckGo, and coauthor of Super Thinking: The Big Book of Mental Models.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Weinberg:

• What are mental models, and how can they be applied to make your life run more efficiently and effectively?
• How mental models used primarily in physics, economics, biology, and math can be easily adjusted for everyday decisions.
• What a South American tribe that can only count to three and our own grade school experiences with multiplication tables can teach us about the power of math as a mental model.
• Why you should be second-guessing your natural intuition during the decision-making process, and how you can use mental models to do it.
• First principles versus conventional wisdom for approaching familiar situations in an innovative way.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/214

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The Mental Illness Happy Hour with Paul Gilmartin is a weekly online podcast that interviews comedians, artists, friends, and the occasional doctor. Each episode explores mental illness, trauma, addiction and negative thinking. Give it a listen here!

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LeVar Burton (@levarburton) is an award-winning actor famous for iconic roles from Kunta Kinte in Roots to Geordi La Forge on Star Trek: The Next Generation, and the host of long-running PBS series Reading Rainbow and the LeVar Burton Reads podcast.

What We Discuss with LeVar Burton:

• How LeVar went from pursuing a vocation in the priesthood to acting in a miniseries that changed the national dialogue about slavery forever.
• What LeVar's Roots experience taught him about the power of television for education and engagement and how it paved the way for his involvement with Reading Rainbow.
• The questions LeVar asks parents who want their kids to read more.
• What it was like to act in Star Trek with the most expressive parts of his face covered and a head full of technobabble vocabulary.
• How LeVar avoided melting down in spite of international attention from an early age and what he's done to stay relevant over 40 years in show business.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/213

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Build Your Network with Travis Chappell is a podcast for aspiring professionals who want to grow their inner circle and sharpen their relationships. Listen here!

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Are you a germaphobe if it creeps you out when your spouse and in-laws don't wash their hands after using the bathroom, or is your disgust actually reasonable and justified? If getting divorced and burning down the house aren't options, we'll tell you how to live with unwashed loved ones on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/212.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Thanks to an accidental glance at their phone, you suspect one of your parents might be cheating on your other parent. What do you do now?
• You've noticed your significant other and in-laws don't wash their hands after using the bathroom. As a germaphobe, how do you reconcile love with the disgust you're feeling?
• Though your trustworthy significant other insists the condoms you found in their car were bought before you agreed to stop using them, it's bothering you. Should you let the issue go?
• How can you deal with the anxiety of starting your own business and accepting the risks and potential setbacks while giving it your all?
• How do you intentionally work your way toward connecting with super influential people like Reid Hoffman when you're just getting started in your networking efforts?
• Your stay-home spouse admitted recently that they are lonely. How do you foster friendships as an adult -- especially when you have infants to take care of?
• The VP of your company wants to advance you, yet worries you may be too young or inexperienced for a higher-up position. What can you do to convince them you're ready for the position?
• You have a somewhat manipulative boss who is taking a new job and wants to bring you along. Should you take this as an opportunity to continue your professional relationship, or is it just time to move on from his erratic reign?
• Life Pro Tip: If you can’t decide between two items of clothing (like two different jackets), have someone take photos of you with them on (front and back), and then look at the photos.
• Recommendation of the Week: The Black Godfather
• A quick shoutout to Jodie!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram...

Arthur Brooks (@arthurbrooks) is a social scientist, Washington Post columnist, president of the American Enterprise Institute, and author of Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt.

What We Discuss with Arthur Brooks:

• Why happiness relies on being mindful of what you have right now instead of comparing yourself to others who have what you want.
• A disheartening statistic: One in six Americans has stopped talking to a family member or close friend entirely because of politics.
• How gratitude can be used as an anesthetic for contempt.
• Why a healthy society elevates authoritative leaders in search of cooperation for the greater good over coercive leaders who bully their way toward short-term results.
• Why we should commit not to be -- or interact with people who hide behind being -- anonymous on the Internet.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/211

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The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

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MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com -- and use code JORDAN for 10 percent off!

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Build Your Network with Travis Chappell is a podcast for aspiring professionals who want to grow their inner circle and sharpen their relationships. Listen here!

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Howie Mandel (@howiemandel) is a comedian, actor, host of Deal or No Deal, judge on NBC’s America's Got Talent, and coauthor of Here's the Deal: Don't Touch Me.

What We Discuss with Howie Mandel:

• Why Howie believes it's important for us to be open about our struggles no matter what they are.
• How being impulsive helped Howie understand the power of "now" and set him on his current career path.
• Why Howie believes more of us would be ahead and happier if we learned to live in the moment instead of fretting over consequences.
• What Richard Pryor taught Howie about honing an act and controlling an audience like a conductor -- not always going for laughs, but impact.
• The real secret to staying married for 40 years.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/210

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Have you ever thought about the fact that where you choose to live directly affects the "you" you become? Apartments.com has the most listings, which means you have the most apartments, townhomes, condos, and houses to choose from. Change your apartment, change the world at Apartments.com here!

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Happier with Gretchen Rubin is a lively, thought-provoking podcast in which the best-selling author and her cohost (and sister) Elizabeth Craft share practical, manageable advice about happiness and good habits. Lend it your ears here!

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You’d love for your teenager to listen to this show and learn some life advice by proxy instead of having to endure it in real time like you did, but it seems unlikely. Why are teenagers so stubbornly opposed to parental wisdom? We can’t say for sure, but we do have some tricks for making them follow good advice against their own bratty proclivities.

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/209.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• When your main squeeze is giving you the turd degree for having one crappy day, perhaps something else stinks about your relationship. Should you dump them?
• Your professor drops your final grade if you don’t bring a doctor’s note for absences, but doesn’t suffer consequences when they miss a class. Should you bring up this double standard?
• Your significant other failed classes early in school thanks to social anxiety, but has since improved. Is it dishonest to prop up a low GPA on a resume by specifying the higher GPA of their major?
• How do you impart what you’ve learned from this show to your teenager, who is unlikely to listen to the show directly?
• Is it worth cultivating one-sided friendship with people who seem only interested in talking about themselves and their problems?
• Life Pro Tip: It might seem common knowledge, but make proper backups of all your data — not once a year but at least once a month.
• Recommendations of the Week: Business of Being Born and Good Fortune
• A quick shoutout to Jackie Jones!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you’d like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a cofounder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and coauthor of Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies and The Start-Up of You: Adapt to the Future, Invest in Yourself, and Transform Your Career. This is part two of a two-part episode. Check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

• Why surviving a horrible childhood isn't a prerequisite for developing grit -- and what you can do to learn resilience.
• What it takes to gather the data points necessary for unpacking the secret subtext of indirect feedback.
• How we can steer into good crises to strengthen relationships and better our circumstances.
• What running Dungeons & Dragons and RuneQuest campaigns taught Reid about complex human motivations and the power of heroic collaboration.
• Aligning goals between employers and employees of any generation with Star Wars-inspired rotational, transformational, and foundational tours of duty.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/208

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Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a cofounder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and coauthor of Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies.

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

• Why creating the best products and services on the market won't mean squat if you don't have the network to get the word out about them.
• Reid's flexible planning framework that adjusts navigation to suit the unexpected path rather than the imagined destination.
• How to know when you're informing your intuition with the best available data or just procrastinating to avoid making important decisions.
• Why "never give up" is terrible advice, and how to separate your winning instincts from your losing ideas.
• Why an honest partner is almost always your best source of ideas -- and a reminder of where the road paved with the best intentions usually leads.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/207

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into how even the most driving purpose can wear you down, why meaning doesn't always align with happiness, and what you can do to recalibrate your purpose when you're discouraged by the obstacles you face in its pursuit.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/205

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why meaning doesn't automatically create happiness, and happiness isn't required to create meaning.
• Why, if you're doing it right, pursuing your purpose should make you miserable from time to time.
• The key upsides to embracing the difficulty of your purpose and how it drives you toward your best work.
• How to focus on the micro over the macro in order to keep you connected to your purpose when you're having your doubts.
• Understanding that discipline is knowing when to think about certain issues; denial is refusing to think about them at all.
• And much more...

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We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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Scott Galloway (@profgalloway) cohosts Pivot with Kara Swisher, publishes the No Mercy/No Malice newsletter, is a professor at NYU Stern School of Business, and is the author of The Algebra of Happiness: Notes on the Pursuit of Success, Love, and Meaning.

What We Discuss with Scott Galloway:

• How American priorities have shifted from a society that creates millions of millionaires to one that idolizes individuals worth the GDP of Norway.
• Why the opportunities Scott and earlier generations enjoyed are no longer available to the majority of the population today.
• How Scott can predict if a young person will be successful by the time he or she is 30 (and what you can do to give yourself an edge if you're not on the path).
• Why striving for work/life balance and following your passion aren't ideal strategies if you aspire toward great wealth.
• The good news: why you don't have to have great wealth in order to live a rich and happy life.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/204

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KiwiCo delivers monthly STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, Math) crates that inspire kids to see themselves as scientists, artists, creators, and makers. Get your first month free at kiwico.com/jordan!

Disgraceland is a true crime podcast about musicians getting away with murder. If you love true crime and you love music, get ready to love Disgraceland here!

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Knowing how to find a mentor is something we've covered in depth on this show, but what advice do we have for those of you who are answering the call and want to know how to be a good mentor? In this Feedback Friday, we'll try to give this excellent question the answer it deserves.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/203.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Why has your spouse stopped calling and writing you from prison? Don't panic! Here are no less than eight possibilities.
• Should you send an unsolicited text to a professional in your field just because happenstance landed their number in your lap?
• You've been house hunting for six months, beaten in acceptance offers three times, and you're burning out. What's our advice for keeping your chin up?
• What kind of problems can arise when college-age friends decide to become roommates? Let us count the (potential) ways!
• You want to up your metaphor game from Candy Land to chess. Here's a strategy to expedite your victorious cry of "checkmate!"
• Your employer wants to start a podcast with you taking lead. How should you intelligently approach the compensation side of negotiation?
• Your significant other's mother is a paranoid narcissist who is trying to pull you apart. How can you loosen her grip on your beloved?
• Thanks to being a long-time listener, you know how to find a mentor. But how do you ensure you're a good mentor when people come seeking your help?
• Life Pro Tip: If you want to give your future child a unique or random name, consider making it their middle name.
• Recommendation of the Week: Last Breath
• Quick shout out to The World Wanderer!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Shane Snow (@shanesnow) is an award-winning entrepreneur and journalist, author of Dream Teams and Smartcuts, and the blogger who wrote How to Debate and Make Progress by Curbing Intellectual Dishonesty.

What We Discuss with Shane Snow:

• What is intellectual dishonesty, how does it undermine meaningful debate, and what can we do to recognize it in ourselves and others?
• Why the cognitive diversity of differing perspectives and open-mindedness of intellectual humility make for healthy discourse.
• The six recurring problems in discourse: dodging, logical fallacies, deception, dirty debate, little accountability, and false endings.
• What we have to gain by rooting out intellectual dishonesty when it appears in ourselves and others.
• How to pull discussions back from the brink of intellectual dishonesty and put them on an honest track.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/202

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Explore Blue Diamond for all your almond product needs. From delicious almond nut snacks to gift baskets, they've got you covered at a store near you or at bluediamond.com!

Disgraceland is a true crime podcast about musicians getting away with murder. If you love true crime and you love music, get ready to love Disgraceland here!

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Eric Schmidt (@ericschmidt) is Technical Advisor and Board Member to Alphabet Inc., former Google CEO, and co-author of Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell.

What We Discuss with Eric Schmidt:

• Privacy in the age of tech megacorporations and how much access the government should have to our data.
• What the rise of China, the isolation of North Korea, and the western notion of privacy mean for a free and open Internet across cultures.
• A realistic view of current day artificial intelligence and what we should expect from it in the future.
• How idea generation is fostered inside a company like Google.
• Why all top-performing executives in Silicon Valley have elite-level coaches, and why you should consider one as well.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/201

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Are you trying to hire the right person for your business, but the best candidates keep slipping away? Let ZipRecruiter -- the fastest way to hire great people -- help you screen only the best at ziprecruiter.com/jordan!

Take breakfast back with Just Crack An Egg breakfast bowls. Simpy crack a fresh egg over tasty ingredients for a hot, fluffy scrambled egg breakfast. Find out more here!

The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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You're having issues with retroactive jealousy regarding your significant other's past. You've tried to find resources to help you cope with this, but most of what's you've found feels gimmicky with little to no real information or exercises aimed at helping you overcome these feelings. In this Feedback Friday, we'll try to lend a helping hand.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your parents are first cousins, and it's a secret not many know -- including your significant other with whom you're building a life. Are you obligated to share this?
• Creeps offering to rub your realtor girlfriend's feet for $500 isn't the side hustle she was hoping for; how do you ensure she's safe when meeting clients in empty houses?
• You love your job, but you don't love the corporate culture and lengthy commute. When is the right time or the wrong time to trade one company for another?
• How do you go about asking for the raise you know you deserve (especially as more tasks are being assigned your way) without jeopardizing your current position?
• You've been using our free Six-Minute Networking course, but have a few questions about some of the details. We're here to help!
• Is Better Help cheaper than in-office therapists, and is it covered by traditional work health options? How do you evaluate it from a budget priority standpoint?
• You're trying to prove your value during your company's review period, but one of your overseers seems closed-minded to your process. What's your best move forward?
• Even though you don't consider yourself possessive, you have intense bouts of retroactive jealousy regarding your partner's not-that-sordid past. How do you move past it?
• Pro Tip of the Week: Instead of saying 'my ex,' say 'a guy/girl I dated.' 'My ex' insinuates that person is still a part of your life.
• Recommendation of the Week: Chernobyl on HBO
• A quick shoutout to Liam from the UK!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other...

Ramit Sethi (@ramit) is the author of I Will Teach You to Be Rich, now in its second edition with over 80 pages of new material, new insights, and new tools for mastering money and living your rich life.

What We Discuss with Ramit Sethi:

• What has changed between the first edition of I Will Teach You to Be Rich and the recently published, heavier-by-80-pages second edition.
• How the idea of a "rich" life differs from person to person.
• Thinking critically about bank accounts, investing, engagement rings, marginal tax rates, interest rates, budgets, real estate, and prenups.
• Using the concept of money dials to maximize spending in the areas of your life that count.
• Why you have a huge advantage if you're able to change your mind quickly in the face of new evidence.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/199

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The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

Luminary is a podcast streaming platform that gives you access to 500k+ shows, when and where you want. Sign up for Luminary Premium at luminary.link/jordan and access your first two months of premium content for free!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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Mark Manson (@iammarkmanson) is a blogger, entrepreneur, and author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life and his latest, Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope.

What We Discuss with Mark Manson:

• How acknowledging the uncomfortable truth of human existence’s meaninglessness can ultimately serve as an argument against nihilism.
• What the paradox of purpose tells us about the stress that accompanies an overwhelming abundance of choice.
• How the feeling brain and the thinking brain might seem at odds, but they actually conspire to guide our values (for better or worse).
• Why your identity will stay your identity until a new experience acts against it, and how you can change your values to fit your current narrative instead of one that’s outdated.
• What the God value is and how it aligns your hierarchy of values by way of the feeling brain.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/198

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Calm is the number one app for meditation and sleep! Want to explore its many benefits? Enjoy an exclusive discount of 25% off a Calm premium subscription by going to calm.com/jordan!

Take breakfast back with Just Crack An Egg breakfast bowls. Simpy crack a fresh egg over tasty ingredients for a hot, fluffy scrambled egg breakfast. Find out more here!

Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

Have you ever thought about the fact that where you choose to live directly affects the "you" you become? Apartments.com has the most listings, which means you have the most apartments, townhomes, condos, and houses to choose from. Change your apartment, change the world at Apartments.com here!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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Many people don't pursue their true creative, entrepreneurial, career interests because it feels too risky. Vadim and Sergei Revzin from The Mentors Podcast join us to talk about how you can intelligently evaluate that risk and confidently make progress on your plans armed with the best information available.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/197.

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Have you told someone lately how much they mean to you? Don't wait too long to regret it -- tell them today.
• You're clinging to a marriage that seems, by all indications, on its way out. How do you overcome the feelings of isolation and loneliness?
• A recent windfall gives you the chance to take a sabbatical from work and get your health back on track. But how hard will it be to return to the workforce?
• Vadim and Sergei Revzin from The Mentors Podcast join us to talk about why many people don't take the risk to pursue their creative entrepreneurial interests -- and how you can get better at evaluating that risk.
• Your immediate boss attempts to stunt your rise in the company behind closed doors, but gives you rave reviews to your face. What's your best move here?
• Networking can be difficult for people with Asperger's Syndrome. How do you dig the well you need when you're not thirsty but you know you need water?
• You don't like sharing on social media, but you suspect there's no way around it if you want to successfully market the book you're publishing. Do you have options?
• What's the best way to turn down a job you've already accepted without tactlessly burning a bridge in the process?
• Learn how Jordan organizes his network by using Contactually.
• Recommendations of the Week: Chernobyl on HBO and Animals Rule Chernobyl Three Decades After Nuclear Disaster by John Wendle, National Geographic
• Quick shoutout to Christine from the nail spa!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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Moby (@thelittleidiot) is a musician, singer, songwriter, producer, animal rights activist, and author of Then It Fell Apart.

What We Discuss with Moby:

• How Moby's illustrious heritage made it imperative for him to write his own memoirs instead of passing the job off to a ghostwriter.
• Why, in his early fifties, Moby has not one but two memoirs under his belt.
• What it was like to grow up as a latchkey kid, impoverished and on food stamps, in the wealthiest city in the United States.
• Why Moby "was so happy" during the time he lived in an abandoned factory on the crack-infested side of Stamford, Connecticut.
• How Moby felt at the realization that he was making more for an hour-long performance than his New York City executive grandfather had made in a year.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/196

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From You Flowers will make Mom's heart bloom this Mother's Day with a bouquet that is guaranteed to put a smile on her face. Go to fromyouflowers.com/jordan to send a dozen roses for $19.99 or upgrade to two mixed dozen roses with a free vase for $10 more!

Luminary is a podcast streaming platform that gives you access to 500k+ shows, when and where you want. Sign up for Luminary Premium at luminary.link/jordan and access your first two months of premium content for free!

The Art of Manliness Podcast is a show that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

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Leon Logothetis (@thekindnessguy) is a global adventurer, motivational speaker and philanthropist, host of Netflix's The Kindness Diaries, and author of Go Be Kind: 28 1/2 Adventures Guaranteed to Make You Happier.

What We Discuss with Leon Logothetis:

• How Leon went from broker to broke world traveler, completely reliant on the kindness of strangers to survive.
• Why people with the least to offer are often the most giving.
• How Leon finds what he has in common with strangers to make meaningful human connections.
• What Leon does to give back to those who help him in his travels.
• How Leon has overcome otherwise show-stopping hitches by keeping calm and carrying on.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/195

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NetSuite by Oracle allows you to manage sales, finances, accounting, orders, and HR for your business instantly on the cloud from anywhere! Download your free guide -- Seven Key Strategies to Grow Your Profits -- at netsuite.com/jordan!

Eight Sleep is the first bed engineered with dynamic cooling and heating that keeps you at the perfect temperature all night long. Get $100 off your purchase when you go to EightSleep.com/jordan!

Have you ever thought about the fact that where you choose to live directly affects the "you" you become? Apartments.com has the most listings, which means you have the most apartments, townhomes, condos, and houses to choose from. Change your apartment, change the world at Apartments.com here!

Listen to Mind Pump Episode 987 to discover why the ketogenic diet might be making you fat. Find it here!

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Being a podcast host has its own set of dos and don'ts, but what does it take to be the best podcast guest in the west -- and east and all points in between? What will ensure that you're the podcast guest who gets invited back time and time again rather than thrown onto the booking agent's "do not call" pile? We've recruited our friend Bobbi Rebell of The Financial Grownup Podcast to give us the skinny.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/194.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is undergoing cosmetic surgery to correct a physical trait that makes you insecure 24/7 a worthwhile investment or submission to excessive vanity?
• As a manager, you love your company, salary, and benefits, but your passion isn't developing others to do their best. Without a college degree, what are your options?
• One parent died from being in a medicine-shunning cult, and the other has a history of being abusive toward you. Should the loss of one automatically mend your issues with the other?
• Is it reasonable to put your therapy visits on hold during a new job's six-month probationary period for better chance of retention?
• You're facing prison and losing your job for being pulled over with less than a fifth of a gram of weed in your car (even though you weren't under the influence). How can you find the motivation to move on?
• You left a part-time job you loved for a full-time job that pays more but doesn't enchant you in the same way. How do you know if you made the right decision?
• When you're a guest on someone's podcast, how do you ensure they love you and invite you back -- and maybe make you a regular? Our friend Bobbi Rebell of The Financial Grownup Podcast has answers!
• You're friendly and nice on the inside, but your face and body don't translate that message. How can you come across as less chilly when trying to network?
• You got a no-strings-attached monetary gift from a kind person in your wind ensemble to repair your instrument, and you have $50 left over. What's the protocol for gracefully returning it?
• Life Pro Tip: When your power goes out, pop your phone open and search for Wi-Fi in the area. If the list is empty or shorter than usual, then it's not just you that lost power. Another tip is to get a cheap UPS on Amazon to power your cable modem and Wi-Fi router. That way if the power does go out in your neighborhood, you can get online and figure out...

Mimi Ikonn is a serial entrepreneur best known for Luxy Hair and Intelligent Change, a YouTube influencer with 2.8+ million subscribers, and the author of The Bingo Theory: A Revolutionary Guide to Love, Life, and Relationships.

What We Discuss with Mimi Ikonn:

• How Mimi and her husband Alex keep themselves and their relationship real and grounded under the daily scrutiny of millions of people.
• Why authentic audience engagement will always count more than any number of likes.
• The process of building an online business brick by brick.
• Why dramatically scaling up income often leads to depression.
• Mimi's QVCA formula: Quality, Value, Consistency, and Attraction.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/193

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to wait at the railroad crossing if the signals are on -- even if we can't see the train, it's probably closer than we think. STOP. Trains can't!

Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com!

One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

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Rick Hanson (@drrhanson) is a psychologist, Senior Fellow of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley, co-host of The Being Well Podcast, author of Hardwiring Happiness, and co-author of Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness.

What We Discuss with Rick Hanson:

• While you can't count on others or the world, you can count on your own strengths (and why this is a good thing).
• Why your brain is like velcro for the bad and teflon for the good and what you can do to mitigate your own negativity bias.
• The two stages by which you develop mental resources: experience and conversion to lasting change.
• How you can build resilience by focusing on experiences rather than conditions.
• How to stay informed about current events without letting the news hijack your emotions.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/192

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Are you trying to hire the right person for your business, but the best candidates keep slipping away? Let ZipRecruiter -- the fastest way to hire great people -- help you screen only the best at ziprecruiter.com/jordan!

Take breakfast back with Just Crack An Egg breakfast bowls. Simpy crack a fresh egg over tasty ingredients for a hot, fluffy scrambled egg breakfast. Find out more here!

HoneyBook allows you to keep track of projects, manage important documents, schedule appointments, streamline communications, draft proposals, process payments, and more. Get 50% off your first year at honeybook.com with promo code JORDAN!

Boost your credit score fast and for free. Experian Boost includes your free credit score, score tracking, and the personal factors that affect your score. Find out more at experian.com/jordan!

Stable, happy leaders are in a position to make better decisions and take smart risks. Entrepreneurs who aren't sure how to pay the rent...not so much. Hear all about it on The $100 MBA Episode 1229: How Paying Yourself First Puts Your Business First here!

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Guy Kawasaki (@GuyKawasaki) is the chief evangelist of Canva, was once the chief evangelist for Apple, and is the author of many paperbound books -- his latest is Wise Guy: Lessons from a Life.

What We Discuss with Guy Kawasaki:

• How to focus on using the success of others as fuel for motivation rather than poison for envy.
• How we can embrace the unknown when we're looking at new ideas for our business or career.
• Why Guy believes it's better to be lucky than smart.
• What we can and should -- and should not -- emulate from visionary leaders like Steve Jobs.
• What Guy means when he says the key to career success is to get high and to the right -- even though we're in California, it's not what you might think!
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/190

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to wait at the railroad crossing if the signals are on -- even if we can't see the train, it's probably closer than we think. STOP. Trains can't!

Find out how 22-year-old Nick Santonastasso inspires Self-Made Man Mike Dillard by listening to his podcast here!

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Humble The Poet (@humblethepoet) -- aka Kanwer Singh -- is a rapper, spoken-word artist, poet, and author of Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths for a Better Life.

"You want to see light at the end of the tunnel? Start digging!" -Humble The Poet

What We Discuss with Humble The Poet:

• How your upbringing can prepare you for success (or failure) later in life.
• Why being satisfied with less is different from simply giving up on achieving more.
• How real growth and struggle differ from tacky, self-help fluff.
• Why, if you don't have a secure self-concept, the media (even if it's just social media) will build it for you.
• How to build a moat around your psyche so you don't let in mismatched influences.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/189

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Calm is the number one app for meditation and sleep! Want to explore its many benefits? Enjoy an exclusive discount of 25% off a Calm premium subscription by going to calm.com/jordan!

Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

Ever dreamt of having the cleanest bum on the block? Omigo reinvented the toilet seat so you never have to use toilet paper again! Curious? Get $100 off your order by going to myomigo.com/jordan!

The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

The Art of Manliness Podcast is a show that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!

If you've gotten yourself into credit card debt, it's hard to see a way out. Minimum payments can be as much as rent and won't always whittle down the debt because your interest rates are probably too high. With thanks again to Ramit Sethi (@ramit) of I Will Teach You to Be Rich, we'll show you how get out of credit card debt more easily than you probably think possible.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/188.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You're in more credit card debt than you'd like. Should you tell your family about it so you don't feel like you're hiding something from them?
• While we're on the topic of credit card debt, we share some tips from Ramit Sethi for getting that debt under control (Script found here).
• After surgery, monitoring, and an almost clean bill of health, how can you encourage your spouse that every pain experienced now isn't cancer?
• How do you deal with blame and taking responsibility after the breakup of a long-term relationship and the fallout of shared property?
• When visiting another country, we've advised hiring a local to hang out with and guide you around. But where can you find such a guide?
• How can you find a suitable, non-nuclear solution for you and your long-time partner to travel together, given different work circumstances?
• Going from employee to entrepreneur in an industry where name equals credibility, how do you keep your name safe if your business fails?
• So you want to get involved in politics or some other high-profile career? You might want to scrub those old social media posts; here's how.
• Your timing for knowing when to interject in a conversation could be better. How do you improve it?
• Life Pro Tip: Keep a $100 bill folded in a side compartment of your wallet in a doggie poop bag. The money is for emergencies. The bag is for protecting your valuables if you're caught out in the rain.
• Recommendation of the Week: You Vs. Wild
• Quick shoutout to Melissa!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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Hal Elrod (@HalElrod) has overcome two near-death experiences, is the bestselling author of The Miracle Morning, and his latest book, The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions That Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Probable, to Inevitable, is out now.

What We Discuss with Hal Elrod:

• How the concepts of unwavering faith and extraordinary effort combine to form The Miracle Equation.
• Why this equation is a quantifiable, non-woo way of achieving the incredible in spite of borrowing words like "miracle" and "faith."
• How to move from the emotional pain of resistance to the emotional invincibility of acceptance.
• Why pursuing one mission dauntlessly is worth more than setting a hundred fuzzy goals.
• How you can turn off your stress response and what you can do to grow from fleeting happiness to lasting inner peace.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/187

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Listen to Mind Pump Episode 980 to discover the five most important steps you should take to achieve your best body by summer. Find it here!

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David Smalley (@davidcsmalley) is an actor, comedian, and host of the Dogma Debate podcast, in which he -- as an atheist -- regularly discusses religion and politics with preachers, pastors, comedians, and people who hold different world views.

What We Discuss with David Smalley:

• How David Smalley went from spiritual believer to secular atheist.
• Why regularly challenging your own beliefs helps inoculate you against manipulation by others.
• The tactics car dealers and clergy use to corral people into compliance.
• What happens when atheists cling to faulty beliefs with the same fervor once reserved for their disavowed religions.
• How to debate in a way that might actually change someone's mind rather than angering them to the point of doubling down on their initial position.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/186.

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The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

Naveen Jain (@naveen_jain_ceo) is an entrepreneur driven to solve global grand challenges through innovation. He is the founder of Moon Express, Viome, Bluedot, TalentWise, Intelius, and InfoSpace, and the co-author of Moonshots: Creating a World of Abundance.

What We Discuss with Naveen Jain:

• How Naveen and his siblings all became wildly successful professionals in spite of growing up financially and educationally underprivileged.
• How to know when a billionaire really becomes successful.
• Why it's the thought processes -- not the habits -- of highly successful people you should be emulating if you want to succeed.
• Why Naveen believes sustainability is not sustainable, and why we have to create more of what we need rather than consume less of what we have.
• What moonshots are, and how they make seemingly impossible goals achievable.
• And much more...

Full show notes and worksheet here: https://jordanharbinger.com/184

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Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and check out Spike Jonze's short film at MedMen.com!

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The jet-setting lifestyle of an entrepreneur requires a little work on the road. But what if the jet you're setting on doesn't have Wi-Fi? Before you take your next flight, tune in to The $100 MBA Episode 1231: 5 Tips To Getting Work Done On a Plane here!

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Lisa Lampanelli (@LisaLampanelli) recently lost 100 pounds, retired from a Grammy-nominated career in comedy that spanned three decades, and is now a life coach who runs transformational food and body-image workshops and performs issue-oriented storytelling shows.

What We Discuss with Lisa Lampanelli:

• How Lisa made her last career pivot -- from rock journalist to comedian.
• How Lisa engineered her image as comedy's "Loveable Queen of Mean."
• The psychology of a celebrity roast and the toll it takes in the name of good fun.
• How Lisa lost over 100 pounds and what she learned along the journey.
• Why Lisa formally retired from comedy recently to focus on helping others.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is your significant other right to be upset that you want to spend some of your social time separately?
• Is spending eight years to switch careers from barber to therapist worthwhile in your mid-forties?
• Is there anything wrong with hiding the fact that you're in a relationship when you meet new people?
• You're still young, but your mindless six-figure job is wearing on you. Would it be irresponsible to drop everything and do something else?
• How can you overcome your intense fear and anxiety around driving? More important: should you?
• Our listener whose dog was attacked in episode 161 tracked down the human responsible. What's the best next step?
• Extensive (and very appreciated!) listener advice for helping the hoarders from last Feedback Friday.
• Do we ever worry that recommending podcasts we enjoy will result in fewer listeners?
• Life Pro Tip: When your ISP raises your bill, call in and say “cancel service” to the automated operator. You’ll be sent to their retention team. They will usually take $10-20 off your monthly bill for a year. I do this once a year with Comcast.
• Recommendation of the Week: Why Not Home?
• Quick shoutouts to Andrea Ott and Annie Chau!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into why the impulse for blaming other people is a phenomenon familiar to most of us, and how we can curb it in ourselves without defaulting to always taking the fall when it’s undeserved.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why the externalization of blaming other people when you're at fault robs you of being truly in control of your own life.
• Why the internalization of blaming yourself when you're not at fault is just as toxic as externalization.
• How you can use the Accountability Spectrum to find an appropriate balance between externalization and internalization.
• What true accountability requires of you and what it gives you in return.
• The best antidote to blaming.
• And much more...

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The Art of Manliness Podcast is a podcast that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

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Zvi Band (@skeevis) is the founder and CEO of Contactually, and author of the upcoming Success Is in Your Sphere: Leverage the Power of Relationships to Achieve Your Business Goals.

What We Discuss with Zvi Band:

• Why your network isn't just some intangible asset you tend at your convenience -- it's a crucial resource you neglect at your peril.
• Why a network is the best way to increase your luck surface area -- the number of chances you have to get lucky when things aren't going your way.
• How and why relationships decay -- especially in this day and age when we're ostensibly connected to everyone we know on social media.
• How to prioritize your relationships -- not merely organize them.
• How you can easily add value to your network and relationships -- even if you've convinced yourself you've got nothing to offer.
• And much more...

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Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

Listen to Mind Pump Episode 955 to hear the compelling reasons Emmy-winner John Brenkus believes boys and girls should be competing together. Find it here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• What can you do when your parents are hoarders with health issues who get enraged when you try to help them?
• Your calmness under stress seems like a positive trait in a medical professional. But are your peers right to call you disinterested?
• When you dislike idle chit chat, how do you respond to the small talk question "How's business?" without being uncivil?
• Is becoming a police officer because you want to help people a good idea for someone who's never really dealt with trauma, or could you be throwing yourself in the deep end?
• How might an over-55 sales professional re-entering the job market go about starting a consulting career?
• Jake from Intuit stops by to help us cope with financial crises around tax time.
• How do you beat feeling envious of others who maintain the discipline to see their self-improvements through?
• When you're serious about networking, should you regularly cull connections on LinkedIn with people you don't really know?
• Life Pro Tip (via Mark Frauenfelder's Recomendo Newsletter): For Starbucks people traveling. When you're leaving a foreign country and still have some of the local currency, take it to a Starbucks and load it onto a gift card. You can use the card later in the UK, USA, Canada, Australia, Mexico, and the Republic of Ireland.
• Recommendations of the Week: The Dropout Podcast, The Dropout on 20/20, and The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley
• Quick shoutouts to Benjamin Torrero in Mexico City, Ankie Hille Hagen in Norway, and Officer Tim De La Pena!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy...

Michelle Tillis Lederman (@mtlederman) is a former finance executive, NYU professor, and author of The 11 Laws of Likability and The Connector's Advantage: 7 Mindsets to Grow Your Influence and Impact.

What We Discuss with Michelle Tillis Lederman:

• Understanding where you fall on the connector spectrum when it comes to developing relationships and building a network.
• How to increase your own self-trust to recognize what you do well and bring it to the surface where it can be useful.
• How to make strong connections and effectively manage your network even if you're an introvert.
• How to magnify the power of connection you're probably already leveraging in your personal life if you're an extrovert.
• The seven mindsets of a connector who can make things happen faster, easier, and better.
• And much more...

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One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

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Beau Lotto (@beaulotto) is a world-renowned neuroscientist who specializes in the biology and psychology of perception. He is the author of Deviate: The Science of Seeing Differently.

What We Discuss with Beau Lotto:

• Why our brains evolved to experience the world differently from reality.
• What Beau means when he says: "Choose your delusion or it will choose you."
• How our experiences literally change our physical makeup.
• Why the more complex your environment is, the more complex your brain will be.
• How our assumptions control our perceptions and what we can do to break free from assumptions that don't serve us.
• And much more...

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Brian Scudamore (@BrianScudamore) pioneered the industry of professional junk removal with 1-800-GOT-JUNK? at age 18, scaled that success into three more home-service brands, and is the author of WTF?! (Willing to Fail): How Failure Can Be Your Key to Success.

What We Discuss with Brian Scudamore:

• How Brian turned a trash removal business that began with a $700 investment into an international, multimillion dollar service franchise.
• The $29 gimmick Brian used to prove to his franchise partners they didn't need to spend big bucks on traditional marketing tactics to get their small business known.
• Why high school dropout Brian didn't sell his business and retire in his 20s -- even when competitors offered him millions of dollars.
• Brian's WTF (willing to fail) philosophy that has allowed him to harness the smaller failures along the way to avoid ultimate catastrophe in the long run (with examples).
• Practical exercises you can use -- for entrepreneurship as well as personal enrichment -- to similarly WTF your way forward.
• And much more...

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A.J. Jacobs (@ajjacobs) is a journalist, lecturer, human guinea pig, and best-selling author; his latest book is Thanks a Thousand: A Gratitude Journey.

What We Discuss with A.J. Jacobs:

• What's the difference between true gratitude and positive thinking?
• How acknowledging the role of luck in our lives allows us to have compassion for and empathize with others.
• The lifelong lessons that stick with A.J. long after the conclusion of his unique experiments.
• Why gratitude leads to happiness -- not the other way around.
• If possible, why you might consider thanking your parents on your birthday.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Recently, your daughter's 15-year-old friend got pregnant. Should you keep your daughter away from her?
• With inoperable stage four pancreatic cancer, your father may not have long to live. How can you fill his remaining time with purpose?
• How can you be comfortable around someone who seemingly reads your mind by body language, microexpressions, and tonality?
• While you want to open up around others, social events have you in the corner hiding inside your shell. How can you coax yourself out to mingle?
• You're in your 30s and you can keep working locally at a safe, consistent job that pays well, but you're really yearning for a chance to live and work abroad. A few years from now, which choice are you most likely to regret not making?
• The company where you've worked for 15 years has expanded and you'd like to keep working for it -- but on the other side of the country. Should you keep this to yourself until your plans are more concrete, or should you tell your local office boss as soon as possible?
• You're moving from California to the UK on a plane and you're wisely taking your cat with you in the cabin. But she can be loud when she's nervous; what happens if you wind up sitting next to someone who hates cats? What's the protocol?
• You knew someone who could have helped you redirect your career momentum, but you've let the connection lapse and now you feel awkward about reconnecting. Is it too late to reach out?
• Life Pro Tip: Whenever you recall a painfully embarrassing memory, imagine the Seinfeld theme playing over it.
• Recommendation of the Week: Bohemian Rhapsody
• A quick shoutout to Jamie Sparks!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Clint Watts (@selectedwisdom) is a Senior Fellow at the Foreign Policy Research Institute, a Senior Fellow at the Center For Cyber and Homeland Security at The George Washington University, and author of Messing with the Enemy: Surviving in a Social Media World of Hackers, Terrorists, Russians, and Fake News.

What We Discuss with Clint Watts:

• How our own cognitive biases are manipulated in an effort to destabilize trust in each other and our very way of life.
• How hostile entities like ISIS use social media for propaganda and recruitment.
• Why Western governments can't, even with their relatively infinite wealth of resources, beat ragtag Somali Twitter pirates and ISIS shills.
• How bias creates social media bubbles, what forms they take, and why this is dangerous.
• How we can fix these issues or at least mitigate the effect they have on our lives.
• And much more...

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Charlamagne Tha God (@cthagod) cohosts The Breakfast Club and The Brilliant Idiots, and is the author of Shook One: Anxiety Playing Tricks on Me.

What We Discuss with Charlamagne Tha God:

• An inside look at someone in the public eye who has struggled with a lifetime of anxiety.
• How concepts we took in stride even 10-20 years ago are shocking by today's standards.
• Charlamagne's early memories of dealing with anxiety before he knew it had a name, and how it shaped his world view.
• How is FEAR most commonly applied as an acronym for your life: Face Everything And Rise, or Fear Everything And Run?
• The external pressures we all face and have in common -- and what we can do to keep them in check.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You accidentally sent your roommate a message meant for someone else in which you were indirectly complaining about them. Is there a way to gracefully recover from this faux pas?
• Even though you seem to hit it off when meeting new people, you can't seem to form close friendships and make them stick. What's missing from the formula?
• As a young couple about to embark on a life of wedded bliss, what's the most fair way to handle finances from the start -- especially when one person makes considerably more money?
• Here's Jordan's strategy for investing money with compound interest.
• If you could ask only one question of a person you perceive to be successful, what would it be -- and from Jordan's perspective as an interviewer, how should you ask it?
• What are some unexpected things you can encounter when moving to a new city -- especially when you feel like you haven't prepared enough in advance for the changes immediately ahead?
• What's the best way to heat up cold contacts into bona fide network connections?
• Is it worth it to stay at your current job for another eight years to secure your retirement finances, or is now the time to take on your own business venture?
• Though you relocated three years ago for a job you still consider decent, you miss family and friends back home. What are the pros and cons of moving back now?
• Life Pro Tips: [Jason] Treat the halfway point on your gas tank as empty. [Jordan] Use Rebump for a 33 percent better response rate with your emails.
• Recommendation of the Week: Abducted in Plain Sight
• Quick shoutouts to Taylor Moser and Rick!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Nathan Latka (@NathanLatka) is the principal of private equity firm Latka Capital; executive producer and host of The Top Entrepreneurs Podcast, and author of How to Be a Capitalist Without Any Capital: The Four Rules You Must Break To Get Rich.

What We Discuss with Nathan Latka:

• How Nathan makes it worthwhile from an ROI standpoint for sponsors to fork over big bucks for advertising on his relatively niche podcast.
• How to creatively negotiate from a standpoint that you can get people what they really need -- even when they don’t know what that need might be.
• How to overcome whatever fears you may have for making the big asks during a negotiation.
• How to get bankers, Airbnb hosts, and freelancers to give you terms you want.
• How to land a meeting with anyone.
• And much more...

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Mike Posner (@MikePosner) is a musician, poet, record producer, and singer-songwriter responsible for hits like Cooler Than Me and I Took a Pill in Ibiza.

What We Discuss with Mike Posner:

• Can two grown men who went to rival high schools as teenagers make nice on a podcast?
• How experiencing fame and fortune forced Mike Posner to reexamine his values -- and why he's glad it happened to him early in life.
• How Mike's lifestyle changed from a focus on fame, money, and materialism to one centered around self-care, creativity, and motivation.
• Why Mike looks at success and failure as waves that tend to follow one another -- not states of guaranteed permanence.
• Is Mike walking from sea to shining sea on his own two feet in an effort to prove that this Groves Falcon is way better than any Seaholm Maple could ever be?
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• What's the best way to deal with inconsiderate seatmates on an airplane?
• How do you conscientiously create social media content that doesn't inflict FOMO on others?
• Do you stay at your stable job that gives you more time with your family, or take the stressful, time-consuming job at the startup for the chance to make more money?
• You've been a counsellor for 15 years and want to transition to working online. Do you need to be really narrow with your audience, or can you reach out to people on a broader spectrum?
• You started therapy for acute to moderate generalized anxiety disorder recently. But should you disclose this to your employer?
• You've been running your own business for three years and finally had to hire some help. Is it wise that the first employee also happens to be your spouse?
• Gossipy coworkers have been spreading untrue rumours about you, and now it's affecting how others treat you at the office. How can you best put a stop to this?
• Life Pro Tip: Compliment or send appreciation to a friend or loved one every morning by text or email.
• Recommendation of the Week: Free Solo
• A quick shoutout to Cameron Schmidt!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Kevin Barrows is a former FBI special agent who now conducts traditional corporate fraud investigations, reputation risk and due diligence efforts, and supervises computer forensic and computer crime assignments for Renaissance Associates.

What We Discuss with Kevin Barrows:

• Why conducting a successful interview is an art that requires establishing credibility, understanding motivation, employing psychology, assessing body language, and listening.
• Why approaching a witness at an inconvenient time, in the wrong place, or in the wrong way can ruin an interview before it gets started.
• How to quickly identify the motivation of the person being interviewed.
• How to make the truth the only option for the person being interviewed.
• How to create and execute a game plan to get to that truth -- whether it's with our spouse, our kids, or our colleagues and employees.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

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MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and check out Spike Jonze's short film at MedMen.com!

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Chris Voss (@vossnegotiation) retired as the lead international kidnapping negotiator for the FBI, is CEO of the Black Swan Group, and is the author of the national bestseller Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It.

What We Discuss with Chris Voss:

• How you can be a more effective negotiator for anything by using the FBI’s own field-proven hostage negotiation techniques.
• How to determine which of the three archetypes of negotiator you're dealing with: The Analyst, The Assertive, or The Accommodator.
• Who has the real leverage in a kidnapping or hostage scenario -- and how this applies to your own lower-stakes negotiations.
• What it takes to subtly convince someone to have it your way.
• The Black Swan Rule: Treating others not the way you want to be treated, but the way they want to be treated.
• And much more...

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Todd Herman (@todd_herman) is an entrepreneur, coach, mentor, and author of The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life.

What We Discuss with Todd Herman:

• How you can harness the power of your own secret identity -- and why you would ever want to.
• What it takes to adopt seemingly out-of-character characteristics and dominate your personal and professional life.
• Why taking on an alter ego isn't a "fake it 'til you make it" scheme, but channeling little-used facets of yourself you may not even realize exist.
• The hidden enemy forces that oppose your attempts at accomplishment and how to resist their subtle and not-so-subtle influences.
• How to honestly understand and come to terms with what truly motivates you -- and deal with what keeps you from following these motivations.
• And much more...

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TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

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Cesar Millan (@cesarmillan) is the internationally renowned master dog trainer known best as the Dog Whisperer, founder of the Dog Psychology Center, and best-selling author of Lessons From the Pack: Stories of the Dogs Who Changed My Life.

What We Discuss with Cesar Millan:

• How Cesar Millan went from impoverished Sinaloan kid to homeless immigrant to world-famous Dog Whisperer.
• What we can learn about communicating with dogs by understanding the priority of their senses compared to our own.
• Why the key to correcting an "untrainable" dog is usually reprogramming the human in charge.
• Why the rich, famous, and powerful often find animal companionship so much more grounding than time with even their closest human friends.
• Why human beings are the only species on the planet that will follow an unstable leader who does not represent the greater good.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

Eight Sleep is the first bed engineered with dynamic cooling and heating that keeps you at the perfect temperature all night long. Get $100 off your purchase when you go to EightSleep.com/jordan!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is your passively stoic expression (aka resting bitch face) getting you turned down for promotions? Here's some advice for turning down the Spock and cranking up the rock.
• How can you reduce stress and have a social life when your deadly serious job requires you to be on call 24/7/365?
• In trying new ways to strike up conversations without coming across as having a motive or being awkward, how do you spot the line you shouldn't cross?
• Are you missing out on life by not spending as much time and energy on your relationships and friendships in your 20s because you're so focused on personal development?
• For a year and a half, Your drug-abusing friend's been cut out of your life for ignoring the help you offered. Now he's in rehab and you don't feel much like re-engaging. Are you being selfish?
• You're understandably skittish about taking your dog out after he was attacked and severely injured by a bigger, unleashed dog. How can you reintroduce him to socializing, get the irresponsible owner to cover vet expenses, and prevent this from happening in the future?
• Is working for your significant other's brother's business -- even though you're not really qualified yet -- an opportunity or trouble waiting to happen? There are many issues at stake here, not the least of which is: what happens if you break up?
• Are cryptocurrency and blockchain technologies still relevant in 2019?
• Pro Tip: If you use AT&T, download the AT&T Call Protect app, which crowdsources spam and robocaller information.
• Recommendation of the Week: Inside The Mossad
• Quick shoutout to Mitchell Smith!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

Sign up for Six Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into why a lot of self-help makes you feel miserable by design and what you can do to improve yourself without being suckered by hucksters or succumbing to an existential meltdown.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why so-called "self-help" often makes you feel worse about yourself than before you sought it.
• How to separate actionable self-help from motivational "hustle porn" designed to prompt emotions and elicit sales.
• Why those inspirational bromides you’re seeing all over Instagram might goad you into short-term action, but won't do much for you over the long haul.
• Striving to improve yourself is admirable and encouraged -- just don't get suckered into the myth that there's a finish line.
• How to consume genuine self-help without being miserable while avoiding the big business con-artistry that pervades this space.
• And much more...

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Cal Newport researches cutting-edge technology and writes about the impact of these innovations on society. He is the author of Deep Work, So Good They Can't Ignore You, and Digital Minimalism.

What We Discuss with Cal Newport:

• Why focus in our modern era of endless technological distractions is the new IQ.
• Why your greatest competitive advantage may lie simply around decluttering and resetting that focus.
• The best ways to declutter the mental landscape to optimize your capacity to focus.
• How Henry David Thoreau's analog lessons from Walden can be applied to your 21st century digital lifestyle.
• How you can use technology to improve your daily life without becoming absorbed by its distractions.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

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John Ruhlin (@ruhlin) is the world's leading authority in maximizing customer loyalty through radical generosity. He is the founder of Ruhlin Group, and author of Giftology: The Art and Science of Using Gifts to Cut Through the Noise, Increase Referrals, and Strengthen Retention.

What We Discuss with John Ruhlin:

• Active loyalty versus passive loyalty.
• Why personalization matters.
• Why you should be asking "What's the most I can do here?" when investing in relationships rather than "What's the least I can get away with?"
• Why the timing of a gift matters.
• How to exercise radical generosity and take gift-giving to a whole new level.
• And much more...

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Jaron Lanier is an early Internet pioneer, computer scientist, visual artist, musician, and author of Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now.

What We Discuss with Jaron Lanier:

• The real cost of the "everything is free" mentality that accompanied the cultural proliferation of the Internet and social media.
• How social media manipulates human behavior to threaten free will.
• Why negative emotions are the lifeblood of social media.
• How social media contributes to the mass production of misinformation.
• Why feeding on social media content tailored to you makes it difficult to empathize with the perspective of others.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

Need custom graphics, logos, or Web design? Access a community of 600,000+ designers by registering at designcrowd.com/jordan and enjoy up to $100 off with The Jordan Harbinger Show bonus offer!

Great protection. Fair prices. Easy to use. SimpliSafe is the right way to protect your home at half the size and double the range -- go to SimpliSafe.com/jordan to learn more!

Looking to score last-minute hotel deals? HotelTonight has access to unsold inventory from the world's greatest accommodations at a fraction of regular rates. Hit hoteltonight.com and use code JORDANH at checkout for $25 off your first booking!

The One You Feed is a podcast by Eric Zimmer and Chris Forbes that hosts inspiring conversations about creating a life worth living. Check it out here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Teaching your kid how to play chess? Here's a simple way to keep them engaged without crushing their spirits or throwing a single game.
• When your line of work grants you even a minor level of celebrity, how do you express appreciation when you're recognized without succumbing to awkwardness?
• How can you work with someone you don't like or respect -- and ensure that you still like and respect yourself in the process?
• You've been selected to give a graduation speech in front of 2,500 people and want to crush it. What can you do to be as prepared as possible?
• Someone owns the Web domain you want, but they're not using it. What's the best way to negotiate for it or find a close alternative?
• When you're in a line of work that doesn't generate repeat customers, what's the best (and least tacky) way to ask for referrals from satisfied past customers?
• After following the Level One exercises and re-engaging contact with a former mentor, they seem resistant to a catch-up meeting. How might you offer value to make it worthwhile for them?
• Meeting new people and dating when you have a chronic illness presents numerous challenges, but the biggest might be: when is it appropriate to disclose your condition to a potential relationship partner?
• Life Pro Tip: Make yourself manually dial some of your more important contacts on occasion so you'll know their numbers if you're ever stuck without your phone.
• A quick shoutout to Cesar Millan and everyone at The Dog Psychology Center!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

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Brian Rose (@LondonRealTV) is the Founder and Host of London Real, a live video talk show that introduces you to the most fascinating people in the world.

What We Discuss with Brian Rose:

• The epiphany Brian had at the height of his "success" that made him step away and start from scratch.
• Why it's important to regularly question our dogmas and deconstruct our entrenched beliefs.
• The power of vulnerability and honesty.
• What to do when you find your past holding you back.
• Brian's Pull the Trigger Transformation System of goals, actions, and mentorship that will get you off your couch and racing (in his case, quite literally) toward serious achievement.
• And much more...

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!

Need custom graphics, logos, or Web design? Access a community of 600,000+ designers by registering at designcrowd.com/jordan and enjoy up to $100 off with The Jordan Harbinger Show bonus offer!

UNTUCKit makes casual shirts that are designed to be worn comfortably on the outside of your waistband without looking sloppy. Go to untuckit.com or visit one of the 50 stores across the US and Canada and use promo code JORDAN at checkout for 20 percent off your first purchase!

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Adam Grant (@AdamMGrant) has been Wharton's top-rated professor for seven years, is the host of podcast WorkLife with Adam Grant, and is the author of three New York Times Best Sellers: Option B (with Sheryl Sandberg), Originals, and Give and Take.

What We Discuss with Adam Grant:

• Why you probably don't know yourself as well as you think you do.
• Why you're prone to believe things about yourself that are patently false.
• How people closest to you benefit from reinforcing these falsehoods.
• Why the people who would most benefit from helping you see these falsehoods are the least likely to point them out.
• What you can do to become more accurately self-aware.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens— with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

The One You Feed is a podcast by Eric Zimmer and Chris Forbes that hosts inspiring conversations about creating a life worth living. Check it out here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your new neighbor's loud arguments and wild parties at all hours would be annoying enough if they involved multiple people, but the only person who ever seems to be in attendance is her. Should you be concerned enough to inform management -- or the police?
• When reconnecting with someone in your network (per our Level One exercises), how can you identify ways to add value to their goals?
• Long-time listeners would understand a covert contract from the contractor's side of things. But what do you do if you suspect someone has a covert contract out on you?
• Your newest roommate is a slob who pilfers your food and doesn't clean up after himself. What can you do to put your foot down without causing too much contention?
• With so much motivational and personal development advice being thrown around these days, how can you tell the difference between genuine self-help and utter bullcrap?
• Without succumbing to the formulaic elevator pitch, how can you politely introduce yourself and make an impression when you're in convenient proximity to your company's higher-ups and decision makers?
• How might a public school teacher who loves to teach supplement their painfully inadequate income?
• What thought exercises might help someone on the edge of burning out at their job decide whether to soldier on for the next few months to qualify for a bonus or just quit now and damn the consequences?
• Recommendation of the Week: FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened
• A quick shoutout to Heike Dunkel from Germany!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Dave Asprey (@bulletproofexec) is a self-described biohacker, CEO and founder of Bulletproof 360, Inc., host of the Bulletproof Radio podcast, and author of Game Changers, Head Strong, and The Bulletproof Diet.

What We Discuss with Dave Asprey:

• How Bulletproof founder Dave Asprey biohacked himself from a 300-pound heart attack waiting to happen to 9.6 percent body fat.
• How a prenatal condition, bullying, a thyroid condition, and toxic mold collaborated to bring Dave's health to a point so low even his doctor couldn't help him.
• What is your immune system's "memory" forgetting, and what role does mitochondria play in how you feel?
• What does Dave believe are the top two causes of autoimmunity, and what can we do to guard ourselves when our body can't even identify the enemy?
• Why does Dave put butter in his coffee instead of milk or cream like normal people, and what's the difference between real Bulletproof coffee and what the small-town cafe on the other side of the world is trying to peddle as "Bulletproof" coffee?
• And much more...

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Derren Brown (@DerrenBrown) is a mentalist, illusionist, magician, artist, photographer, collector of curiosities, and author.

What We Discuss with Derren Brown:

• How did Derren Brown make the transition from law student to career hypnotist?
• How does psychological manipulation and hypnotic suggestion work to make people operate counter to their own desires?
• How does Derren use his own manipulative skills for good?
• How do faith healers and psychics ply their trades so convincingly?
• What are the limits to hypnotic influence?
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Are you a square if you think your casual love triangle has devolved into nothing more than a crossed line?
• Your wedding guest list is getting out of control. How can you maintain the desired intimacy of a smaller gathering and keep the budget in line without offending anyone?
• If epilepsy keeps you from driving, how can you overcome feeling like a nuisance to your friends and family -- and how do you work around it for potential dates?
• You're feeling a little overwhelmed from having so many irons in the fire, but you need to keep the momentum going to support your family. What are some healthy ways to regain a sense of balance?
• How do you calm your mind from acute stress when something happens and you can't stop thinking about it?
• Some of the hardships you've endured and
  conquered still embarrass you. How can you own and include them in the story you share with others?
• Your boss constantly overshares and vents personal issues to you, which is draining and counterproductive. How can you establish appropriate boundaries without causing workplace friction?
• Due to your best friend's recent string of bad luck, you feel your relationship shifting from an equal footing to a mentor-mentee situation. How can you keep your ego in check to regain balance while still being supportive?
• Recommendation of the Week: The Clinton Affair
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Erik Aude:

• How Erik Aude entered one of the world's toughest prisons an innocent man and emerged as a murderer.
• What processing, being the new curiosity, and solitary confinement are like in an overcrowded Pakistani prison.
• How you know when you're really in danger in a foreign prison: when they put you on death row for your own protection.
• How much you should expect to pay a lawyer to defend you from a hanging offense in Pakistan (and how much they'll try to charge you).
• Life lessons that can only be learned in the school of the hardest knocks from world-infamous hijackers and mass murderers.
• And much more...

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Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part one of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part two here!

What We Discuss with Erik Aude:

• How an American actor with a successful career gets wrongfully imprisoned in Pakistan for three years.
• Why Erik's unique history with pain tolerance made him uniquely suited to survive torture and the rigors of prison life.
• The culture shock an average westerner might expect to experience while visiting Pakistan.
• What the phrase "physical remand" actually means in Pakistan's justice system.
• How Erik remains positive and grateful for what he has in spite of the ordeals he's faced -- in Pakistan and at home.
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