At work, you're the youngest person on the team -- but you've also been there longer than anyone else. Your boss (who lives in another state) refers to you as his site lead, but you don't have an official title to reflect this. Your group needs the organization you know you can offer, but you don't want to come off as a power-hungry usurper. How do you get your boss to clarify your role -- to you and the team? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to show you how to ensure your authority is respected.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/239.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Interested in doing some prison time with Jordan next February? Reach out to prison@jordanharbinger.com for details!
• Is there a moral and/or legal obligation for Airbnb hosts to inform their guests when there are security cameras present -- whether or not they're recording anything?
• Are there any online courses or coaches specialized in social skills we would recommend for making conversation and connection easier?
• You're worried you don't come across as friendly. How can you improve your outer emotional reaction to people without feeling like you're overacting and being fake?
• Your boss communicates with you as if you're in a leadership position, but you feel like you have no authority. Do you need to ask him to clarify your role -- to you and your team?
• Is sharing photos useful when you're reconnecting with someone you haven't seen in a while, and is there networking value in alumni associations?
• You tend to forget the lessons you learn from audiobooks after a couple of months. What is the best way to memorize and apply the key takeaways of these books?
• What are the logistics of carrying on a successful long-distance relationship with a significant other whose sister doesn't like you and will probably undermine you from afar?
• You want to start a family, but your spouse's fertility issues may prevent this. Additionally, they're averse to therapy that might help lessen the impact or present options if you receive bad news. How can you be as supportive as possible?
• Life Pro Tip: Buy daily necessities in bulk when they're on sale, and pay close attention to unit prices!
• Recommendation of the Week: Losing Sight of Shore
• A quick shoutout to Becky, Robin, and all of the women's college volleyball players who listen to the show!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories...

Steven Hassan (@CultExpert) is a licensed mental health counselor who has been educating the public about mind control, brainwashing, and destructive cults since 1976. He's the author of Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue, and Recovery from Destructive Cults and the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center. This is part two of a two-part episode. Check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Steven Hassan:

• What is the difference between a religion and a cult?
• The set of tools cults use to recruit new members into the fold.
• The psychological techniques cults use to control their members and enforce cult-mandated behavior.
• Why even society's most intelligent people fall prey to cults.
• How you can protect yourself and others from becoming victimized by a cult.
• And much more...

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Steven Hassan (@CultExpert) is a a licensed mental health counselor who has been educating the public about mind control, brainwashing, and destructive cults since 1976. He's the author of Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue, and Recovery from Destructive Cults and the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center. This is part one of a two-part episode (part two coming soon).

What We Discuss with Steven Hassan:

• How to use Steven’s BITE model to tell if you or someone you love is involved in a destructive cult through control of behavior, information, thought, and emotion.
• The four types of destructive cults most prevalent today: commercial, religious, political, and self-help.
• How cults have weaponized the Internet and social media to fill their ranks and thrive as never before possible.
• Why it’s the people who believe themselves immune to (i.e., too smart for) cult indoctrination who are most at risk of being targeted and recruited.
• How Steven has refined Ted Patrick’s invasive cult deprogramming tactics of the ’70s into a more effective strategic interactive approach.

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You and your spouse recently decided to move back to your small hometown after giving the big city a try and deciding it's just not for you. But the problem is: you're going to have to give up the job you love, with benefits and more of a salary than you've ever made elsewhere. On top of that, the company is currently paying for you to finish school, so there may be legal consequences if you ditch them on graduation day. So in this Feedback Friday, we'll try to show you how to quit your dream job gracefully.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/236.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is it unreasonable for you to tell friends and family that you don't support MLM companies, won't host their parties, and won't buy their products? Or is there a softer, more effective approach?
• You recently broke up with your significant other of 15 months, but feel guilty because they gave up their chance to start their MBA in anther city to be with you. Are you a terrible person who made a selfish decision?
• Your spouse wants to move the family out of the big city and back to your hometown, but it means leaving a job you love that has invested in your education. How do you gracefully part ways while causing the least impact and without burning any bridges?
• You did a digital detox after listening to our episode with Cal Newport, and want to limit your seven-year-old's exposure to devices after hearing our episode with Jonathan Haidt. How do you ensure you're not just making the wrong thing more appealing?
• You moved to another country five years ago and have been working menial jobs, learning the language, and taking classes for fun. Now you're ready to take your career seriously, but your resume might be hard to explain. How to proceed?
• You've lost your motivation, confidence, and self-esteem after quitting a job under a manipulative boss, and your dreams of landing a better job are stalled after submitting hundreds of applications with no calls back. How do you give yourself the kick-in-the-ass, tough self-love pep talk you drastically need?
• After a few years of accepting sponsored links and posts for your blog, you ended up owning your own link placement agency. This is now what you do full time and you earn more than you ever have before, but you know it's just a matter of time before Google smacks you down. How can you find time to start a more legit business before this happens?
• You would love to start your own podcast and YouTube channel. You have a great topic, lots of ideas, and contacts for people you could have on the show. Should you work on both the podcast and YouTube or just focus on one?
• What's the most interesting experience you've ever had? Safari? helicopter tour of a waterfall in venezuela? I'd love to know. Looking at a bucket list. The books on this are all lame because...

Seth Godin (@thisissethsblog) is an entrepreneur, a teacher, a Marketing Hall of Fame inductee, a daily blogger, the host of the Akimbo podcast, and the author of 19 international bestsellers. His latest is This Is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See.

What We Discuss with Seth Godin:

• Why it's possible to suffer from imposter syndrome simultaneously with entitlement.
• Why the market for media is so fragmented today, and what it means for content creators, advertisers, and consumers.
• Why you can trade for attention, but you can't trade for trust.
• The simple sentence you can use to remind yourself that you're not going to do better work by heeding your one-star reviewers.
• Why Seth considers the idea of hustling selfish and akin to bullying.
• And much more...

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So your abusive ex has basically invaded your home and claimed squatter's rights when the police showed up to escort them away. What can you do to get them out -- and keep them out -- of your life forever? Listen to this Feedback Friday to hear our take on the matter!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/233

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Should you be searching for a new job when you're in extended treatment for a serious medical issue? Is it fair to your current or potential future employer?
• After time off from your relationship to finish grad school, you're back with your significant other. But how can you get over the retroactive jealousy you feel?
• When you're the parent of a junior high schooler, how can you create opportunities for your kid to build social skills with adults?
• When your mentally ill mother gave your estranged sister her house -- from which she was then kicked out -- do you have a legal claim to at least part of that house?
• How do you retain clients -- without bashing your old employer -- when it's time to move on to a job that will be a better fit in your small, gossipy industry?
• Do you take on a higher paying, riskier job with a long commute to boost your debt repayments, or stay where you are where the growth is slow but more secure?
• You fired one contractor for shoddy remodeling work and had to hire others to fix it. What are your legal obligations regarding unfinished payment and equipment left behind?
• What can you do to keep an intrusive, abusive ex out of your life forever -- especially when they move into your house and claim squatter's rights when you try to kick them out?
• Life Pro Tip: If you're a student planning your career, look up postings for your entry-level dream job, find the skills and qualifications you'll need, then work backwards from there.
• Recommendation of the Week: I Am Mother
• Quick shoutouts to Corbin Payne, Esq. for helping with some of the legal stuff here, and Manny Dhillon!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD,...

Daniel Goleman (@DanielGolemanEI) is a psychologist, science journalist, and author of The New York Times Best Seller Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ.

What We Discuss with Daniel Goleman:

• The pros and cons of technology's influence on the way human beings connect in the 21st century.
• How we read emotions on a subconscious level -- and why blind people can sometimes still see them.
• Why sights, smells, and sounds can make us relive traumatic experiences.
• How emotions become contagious.
• The science behind why people act like jerks on the Internet.
• And much more...

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Mike Abrashoff (@itsyourship) is a former Naval Commander, leadership and teamwork expert, and author of the New York Times bestseller It's Your Ship: Management Techniques from the Best Damn Ship in the Navy.

What We Discuss with Mike Abrashoff:

• Why leadership style matters and organizational culture is everything.
• How to know when it's appropriate to break the rules and favor innovation over tradition.
• When to challenge your superiors, and how to do so without endangering your career.
• How to earn the trust of your superiors so they come to rely on you and trust your judgment.
• What it takes to foster learning and innovation among the ranks of people conditioned to just follow orders.
• And much more...

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People rarely admit to enjoying small talk, but that's because so few of us are actually very good at it. Luckily, FEW is also a convenient-to-remember acronym for Facts, Emotions, Why -- a foolproof formula for leading small talk that can yield big results. Find out how in this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/230.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• When your friend repeatedly sends five-minute voice messages that a 10-second text would convey, how do you drive home the point that ain't nobody got time for that?
• Congrats on quitting social media! But now what do you do with your spare two- to five-minute intervals you used to spend tweeting or reading Facebook? Glad you asked!
• How can somebody in a quaint but underdeveloped town find improv and behavioral classes to improve their skills and up their game on personal and professional fronts?
• Is it opportunistic to leverage interest other companies have shown in recruiting you when it's time to negotiate for a raise -- even when you planned to stick around anyway?
• Even though you consider yourself social and find your spouse's friends a delight, they seem to think you don't like them. How can you dispel their concerns and let your real feelings shine through?
• You've broken up with your significant other of four years for once again lying to you, but you feel guilty because they've been in therapy for the past six months trying to be better. What next?
• Your usually calm and cool significant other will be taking the bar exam soon, and a lot of things are up in the air until it's passed. How can you express support without getting in the way?
• When you've lost trust in your business partner, what steps can you take to ensure you're not on the hook for 100 percent of the company's debt if things go even further south?
• Life Pro Tip: Drowning in debt from that unexpected hospital visit? Medical billing departments will often accept a fraction of what you "owe."
• A quick shoutout to recently married listener and local Michael Moore!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD,...

Oliver Bullough (@OliverBullough) is a journalist, a regular contributor to The Guardian, and author of Moneyland: Why Thieves And Crooks Now Rule The World And How To Take It Back.

What We Discuss with Oliver Bullough:

• How corrupt leaders pilfer everything from wildlife reserves, banks, and even national healthcare systems.
• How this type of graft corrupts society and leads to other crime and unrest -- such as terrorism and flawed elections.
• How corruption filters down the economic food chain, harming children and those who can't defend themselves.
• How dark money can be used for a host of unsavory purposes, and why it's nearly impossible to uncover it because of shell corporations, passports for sale, and the fact that dark money knows no borders.
• What we might do to begin reeling in this lopsided power structure from its offshore roots in a way that benefits the fair-playing majority.
• And much more...

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Justin Paperny (@justinpaperny) was a successful stockbroker who made some bad decisions and wound up serving 18 months in prison for violating securities laws. Now he helps others prepare for time behind bars and after. He's the author of Lessons From Prison.

What We Discuss with Justin Paperny:

• What happens when white-collar criminals go to jail.
• Why otherwise good people might find themselves on the wrong end of the justice system.
• How someone prepares to do time inside a federal prison -- and what they can expect once they leave.
• How easy it can be for people to rationalize criminal behavior and lose control of their moral compass.
• Why Justin counts his 18 months behind bars as one of the best experiences of his life.
• And much more...

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Kim Scott (@kimballscott) is a co-founder of Radical Candor, LLC and author of Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity.

What We Discuss with Kim Scott:

• How the best lessons about management can be learned from our worst bosses.
• Why the worst bosses aren’t necessarily the worst people in the world, and how relating to them as human beings makes challenging their bad decisions easier.
• How then-Google executive Sheryl Sandberg changed an important aspect of Kim’s long-term career potential by caring personally, but challenging directly when spotting room for improvement.
• The four quadrants of the Radical Candor framework.
• How conscientious bosses can avoid promoting ruinous empathy, manipulative insincerity, and obnoxious aggression.
• And much more...

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Bryan Johnson (@bryan_johnson) is an entrepreneur, venture capitalist, and founder and CEO of Kernel, a company developing advanced neural interfaces, and OS Fund, a venture capital firm that invests in early-stage science and technology companies.

What We Discuss with Bryan Johnson:

• Why humanity needs to co-evolve with artificial intelligence if we are to survive as a species.
• What future literacy is and why it's crucial for understanding the role humanity will play in the decades to come.
• The steps being taken to comprehend what makes biological systems fail in order to improve their capabilities.
• How privacy inequality could create more of a disparity between people than economic disparity ever could.
• Why Bryan advises us to be skeptical of advice -- and how we can discern between what's applicable to our own situation and what's completely useless.
• And much more...

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Matt McCarthy (@drmattmccarthy) is an assistant professor of medicine at Weill Cornell, a staff physician at New York-Presbyterian Hospital, and the author of Superbugs: The Race to Stop an Epidemic.

What We Discuss with Matt McCarthy:

• How antibiotics are abused on a large scale by industrial agriculture, prescription-happy doctors, and mysophobic hand washers.
• Why antibiotic abuse is resulting in the fast-track evolution of once easily vanquished bacteria into superbugs from which we have no known protection.
• How herd immunity works, and why you may be at risk for contracting a once-eradicated disease thanks to anti-vaccination propaganda.
• Why the FDA approval process takes so long for new drugs to safely come to market, and how this hinders innovation in a profit-driven pharmaceutical market.
• How genetic editing through new CRISPR technology may be our best hope for quickly reacting to rapidly adapting superbugs.
• And much more…

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into what it takes to cultivate the mindset of abundance that seemingly makes generosity possible, and how to overcome the evolutionary blips in our programming that make it so counterintuitive.

"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." -Paul McCartney

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why the mindset of scarcity is your survival mode default that urges you to see the world as a zero sum game and hoard your resources accordingly.
• What you can do to reconcile this scarcity mindset with one of abundance that seemingly permits you to give generously without remorse.
• How you can begin practicing the behavior of generosity even before you've fully sold yourself on the belief of abundance.
• The many ways that tiny repetitions of generosity act to strengthen the muscles of abundance with giant gains.
• A smattering of good advice for cultivating abundance, and (we hope) an abundance of even better advice for making generosity second nature.
• And much more...

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Adam Savage (@donttrythis) is a special effects designer, educator, actor, former cohost of MythBusters, current host of Savage Builds (both on Discovery Channel), and author of Every Tool’s a Hammer: Life Is What You Make It.

What We Discuss with Adam Savage:

• What you have to gain by paying heed to your obsessions.
• The sublime benefits of real expertise.
• How deadlines spur action past the bottleneck of intended perfection.
• The universality of imposter syndrome.
• How an expanded vocabulary leads to unexplored solutions.
• And much more…

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When a longstanding policy — whether official or not — was a serious tipping point in the decision to accept your current job, are you right to feel like you’ve gotten the old bait-and-switch treatment when it’s axed nine months after you started? If so, how do you engage leadership to renegotiate terms? We’ll tackle this and more on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/218.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• If your not-so-close family members are unapologetically crummy to you and your fiance, is it time to cut them out of your life?
• When you don’t click with people your own age, what are the pros and cons of dating someone 17 years older than you?
• Nine months ago, you chose your job over other offers because it had flexible perks that are now being axed. How do you engage leadership to renegotiate terms?
• While networking in your field, you meet the same people at different events. The problem: you remember them, but they don’t remember you. How can you stand out?
• You want to leave factory life behind and relocate closer to your kids, but you’re 40 and don’t have the skills for a different job. What’s your best next step?
• Even though you’re curious about your own genetics, are you right to be wary of the potential privacy concerns that arise from taking a home DNA test?
• You’re speaking at a conference on behalf of your company where many industry leaders will be attending. How can you best network during your time offstage?
• You’ve lost respect for a friend who would rather waste their money than repay an old debt. Is this resolvable, or is it time for the friendship to move on?
• Life Pro Tip: Don’t just thank someone when they do something for you. Tell them what it means to you. Example: Rather than saying “Thanks for the ride,” say “Thanks for the ride! You saved me a bunch of time. You saved me a bunch of phone calls. You saved me a bunch of effort. I really appreciate it!”
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Matt Schrier is an American photographer who survived seven months as an Al-Qaeda captive in Syria before escaping, and the author of The Dawn Prayer: A Memoir.

What We Discuss with Matt Schrier:

• How Matt Schrier was captured by Al-Qaeda just 45 minutes away from the border on his way out of Syria in 2012.
• How making his captors laugh on day one of his captivity got him special treatment from a usually unforgiving crowd.
• What Matt did to survive and plan an escape in spite of an unhelpful, self-sabotaging cellmate.
• Why Matthew feels betrayed by the FBI and the US government for putting intelligence gathering over the safety of Americans imprisoned by terrorists.
• Why, even after becoming the first American to escape from Al-Qaeda and his feelings of betrayal from his own government, he has no regrets about going to Syria in the first place.
• And much more...

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Chelsea Handler (@chelseahandler) is a writer, comedian, producer, TV host, activist, and the author of five consecutive New York Times bestsellers -- her latest is Life Will Be the Death of Me...And You Too!

What We Discuss with Chelsea Handler:

• Finding the line between mood enhancement and paranoia-generating abuse when it comes to cannabis.
• How a DUI at age 21 led to Chelsea's entry into the world of standup comedy, and what she was really trying to get from her search for attention.
• As someone who's never been afraid to quit a job she's grown tired of doing, what really matters to Chelsea?
• What's the difference between authentic generosity and generosity that just feeds the giver's ego?
• Why is Chelsea writing books, doing standup comedy, and working on television projects when she was sure she'd burned out on doing all of these things not long ago?
• And much more...

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There's lots of stuff in this one about investing wisely and eradicating debt -- especially student debt -- thanks to some professional help from our all-star, money-ninja accountant Matt Rzepka, along with the usual questions about everything else we get here on Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/215.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You judge people quickly, won't suck up to authority, and have a reputation as being unapproachable. What's really going on, and are you stuck this way?
• You're a frugally living 37-year-old doctor swimming in med school debt. Should you put all your money into saving and investments or toward extra loan repayment?
• For someone with student loan debt just starting out in their career, what is the best move for financial freedom? Should you pay off debt, invest, build savings, or acquire assets?
• Early in med school with many years of debt ahead, is it still worth it to be locking your money up and committing to your monthly index fund?
• Your network connection is great at opening doors, but lackluster in work ethic. Is there a way to inoffensively compensate them for opening those doors without involving them in the actual job that results?
• Are you really offended when an entertainer (say, a podcaster) openly expresses their political views, or are you just offended when their political views seem to differ from yours?
• How can you stop giving in to your need for instant gratification and become a productive member of society when you lack discipline and think the world's ending anyway?
• Life Pro Tip: If you volunteer to give up your seat on an overbooked flight, don't just take the first offer. Tell the gate agent, "Toss in another $200+/- and I'll go for it." They'll almost always agree, because a willing volunteer is worth it. And if they offer you a meal voucher, ask for a day pass to their first class club instead. It will have food plus other amenities!
• Recommendation of the Week: The Dawn Wall
• A quick shoutout to Malak Firaas from (the nation of) Jordan!
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• Connect...

Gabriel Weinberg (@yegg) is a serial entrepreneur, angel investor, founder of privacy-protecting search engine DuckDuckGo, and coauthor of Super Thinking: The Big Book of Mental Models.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Weinberg:

• What are mental models, and how can they be applied to make your life run more efficiently and effectively?
• How mental models used primarily in physics, economics, biology, and math can be easily adjusted for everyday decisions.
• What a South American tribe that can only count to three and our own grade school experiences with multiplication tables can teach us about the power of math as a mental model.
• Why you should be second-guessing your natural intuition during the decision-making process, and how you can use mental models to do it.
• First principles versus conventional wisdom for approaching familiar situations in an innovative way.
• And much more...

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The Mental Illness Happy Hour with Paul Gilmartin is a weekly online podcast that interviews comedians, artists, friends, and the occasional doctor. Each episode explores mental illness, trauma, addiction and negative thinking. Give it a listen here!

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LeVar Burton (@levarburton) is an award-winning actor famous for iconic roles from Kunta Kinte in Roots to Geordi La Forge on Star Trek: The Next Generation, and the host of long-running PBS series Reading Rainbow and the LeVar Burton Reads podcast.

What We Discuss with LeVar Burton:

• How LeVar went from pursuing a vocation in the priesthood to acting in a miniseries that changed the national dialogue about slavery forever.
• What LeVar's Roots experience taught him about the power of television for education and engagement and how it paved the way for his involvement with Reading Rainbow.
• The questions LeVar asks parents who want their kids to read more.
• What it was like to act in Star Trek with the most expressive parts of his face covered and a head full of technobabble vocabulary.
• How LeVar avoided melting down in spite of international attention from an early age and what he's done to stay relevant over 40 years in show business.
• And much more...

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Are you a germaphobe if it creeps you out when your spouse and in-laws don't wash their hands after using the bathroom, or is your disgust actually reasonable and justified? If getting divorced and burning down the house aren't options, we'll tell you how to live with unwashed loved ones on this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/212.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Thanks to an accidental glance at their phone, you suspect one of your parents might be cheating on your other parent. What do you do now?
• You've noticed your significant other and in-laws don't wash their hands after using the bathroom. As a germaphobe, how do you reconcile love with the disgust you're feeling?
• Though your trustworthy significant other insists the condoms you found in their car were bought before you agreed to stop using them, it's bothering you. Should you let the issue go?
• How can you deal with the anxiety of starting your own business and accepting the risks and potential setbacks while giving it your all?
• How do you intentionally work your way toward connecting with super influential people like Reid Hoffman when you're just getting started in your networking efforts?
• Your stay-home spouse admitted recently that they are lonely. How do you foster friendships as an adult -- especially when you have infants to take care of?
• The VP of your company wants to advance you, yet worries you may be too young or inexperienced for a higher-up position. What can you do to convince them you're ready for the position?
• You have a somewhat manipulative boss who is taking a new job and wants to bring you along. Should you take this as an opportunity to continue your professional relationship, or is it just time to move on from his erratic reign?
• Life Pro Tip: If you can’t decide between two items of clothing (like two different jackets), have someone take photos of you with them on (front and back), and then look at the photos.
• Recommendation of the Week: The Black Godfather
• A quick shoutout to Jodie!
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Arthur Brooks (@arthurbrooks) is a social scientist, Washington Post columnist, president of the American Enterprise Institute, and author of Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt.

What We Discuss with Arthur Brooks:

• Why happiness relies on being mindful of what you have right now instead of comparing yourself to others who have what you want.
• A disheartening statistic: One in six Americans has stopped talking to a family member or close friend entirely because of politics.
• How gratitude can be used as an anesthetic for contempt.
• Why a healthy society elevates authoritative leaders in search of cooperation for the greater good over coercive leaders who bully their way toward short-term results.
• Why we should commit not to be -- or interact with people who hide behind being -- anonymous on the Internet.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/211

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Howie Mandel (@howiemandel) is a comedian, actor, host of Deal or No Deal, judge on NBC’s America's Got Talent, and coauthor of Here's the Deal: Don't Touch Me.

What We Discuss with Howie Mandel:

• Why Howie believes it's important for us to be open about our struggles no matter what they are.
• How being impulsive helped Howie understand the power of "now" and set him on his current career path.
• Why Howie believes more of us would be ahead and happier if we learned to live in the moment instead of fretting over consequences.
• What Richard Pryor taught Howie about honing an act and controlling an audience like a conductor -- not always going for laughs, but impact.
• The real secret to staying married for 40 years.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/210

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Happier with Gretchen Rubin is a lively, thought-provoking podcast in which the best-selling author and her cohost (and sister) Elizabeth Craft share practical, manageable advice about happiness and good habits. Lend it your ears here!

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You’d love for your teenager to listen to this show and learn some life advice by proxy instead of having to endure it in real time like you did, but it seems unlikely. Why are teenagers so stubbornly opposed to parental wisdom? We can’t say for sure, but we do have some tricks for making them follow good advice against their own bratty proclivities.

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/209.

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• When your main squeeze is giving you the turd degree for having one crappy day, perhaps something else stinks about your relationship. Should you dump them?
• Your professor drops your final grade if you don’t bring a doctor’s note for absences, but doesn’t suffer consequences when they miss a class. Should you bring up this double standard?
• Your significant other failed classes early in school thanks to social anxiety, but has since improved. Is it dishonest to prop up a low GPA on a resume by specifying the higher GPA of their major?
• How do you impart what you’ve learned from this show to your teenager, who is unlikely to listen to the show directly?
• Is it worth cultivating one-sided friendship with people who seem only interested in talking about themselves and their problems?
• Life Pro Tip: It might seem common knowledge, but make proper backups of all your data — not once a year but at least once a month.
• Recommendations of the Week: Business of Being Born and Good Fortune
• A quick shoutout to Jackie Jones!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you’d like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a cofounder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and coauthor of Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies and The Start-Up of You: Adapt to the Future, Invest in Yourself, and Transform Your Career. This is part two of a two-part episode. Check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

• Why surviving a horrible childhood isn't a prerequisite for developing grit -- and what you can do to learn resilience.
• What it takes to gather the data points necessary for unpacking the secret subtext of indirect feedback.
• How we can steer into good crises to strengthen relationships and better our circumstances.
• What running Dungeons & Dragons and RuneQuest campaigns taught Reid about complex human motivations and the power of heroic collaboration.
• Aligning goals between employers and employees of any generation with Star Wars-inspired rotational, transformational, and foundational tours of duty.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/208

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Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a cofounder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and coauthor of Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies.

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

• Why creating the best products and services on the market won't mean squat if you don't have the network to get the word out about them.
• Reid's flexible planning framework that adjusts navigation to suit the unexpected path rather than the imagined destination.
• How to know when you're informing your intuition with the best available data or just procrastinating to avoid making important decisions.
• Why "never give up" is terrible advice, and how to separate your winning instincts from your losing ideas.
• Why an honest partner is almost always your best source of ideas -- and a reminder of where the road paved with the best intentions usually leads.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/207

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into how even the most driving purpose can wear you down, why meaning doesn't always align with happiness, and what you can do to recalibrate your purpose when you're discouraged by the obstacles you face in its pursuit.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/205

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why meaning doesn't automatically create happiness, and happiness isn't required to create meaning.
• Why, if you're doing it right, pursuing your purpose should make you miserable from time to time.
• The key upsides to embracing the difficulty of your purpose and how it drives you toward your best work.
• How to focus on the micro over the macro in order to keep you connected to your purpose when you're having your doubts.
• Understanding that discipline is knowing when to think about certain issues; denial is refusing to think about them at all.
• And much more...

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Scott Galloway (@profgalloway) cohosts Pivot with Kara Swisher, publishes the No Mercy/No Malice newsletter, is a professor at NYU Stern School of Business, and is the author of The Algebra of Happiness: Notes on the Pursuit of Success, Love, and Meaning.

What We Discuss with Scott Galloway:

• How American priorities have shifted from a society that creates millions of millionaires to one that idolizes individuals worth the GDP of Norway.
• Why the opportunities Scott and earlier generations enjoyed are no longer available to the majority of the population today.
• How Scott can predict if a young person will be successful by the time he or she is 30 (and what you can do to give yourself an edge if you're not on the path).
• Why striving for work/life balance and following your passion aren't ideal strategies if you aspire toward great wealth.
• The good news: why you don't have to have great wealth in order to live a rich and happy life.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/204

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KiwiCo delivers monthly STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, Math) crates that inspire kids to see themselves as scientists, artists, creators, and makers. Get your first month free at kiwico.com/jordan!

Disgraceland is a true crime podcast about musicians getting away with murder. If you love true crime and you love music, get ready to love Disgraceland here!

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Knowing how to find a mentor is something we've covered in depth on this show, but what advice do we have for those of you who are answering the call and want to know how to be a good mentor? In this Feedback Friday, we'll try to give this excellent question the answer it deserves.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/203.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Why has your spouse stopped calling and writing you from prison? Don't panic! Here are no less than eight possibilities.
• Should you send an unsolicited text to a professional in your field just because happenstance landed their number in your lap?
• You've been house hunting for six months, beaten in acceptance offers three times, and you're burning out. What's our advice for keeping your chin up?
• What kind of problems can arise when college-age friends decide to become roommates? Let us count the (potential) ways!
• You want to up your metaphor game from Candy Land to chess. Here's a strategy to expedite your victorious cry of "checkmate!"
• Your employer wants to start a podcast with you taking lead. How should you intelligently approach the compensation side of negotiation?
• Your significant other's mother is a paranoid narcissist who is trying to pull you apart. How can you loosen her grip on your beloved?
• Thanks to being a long-time listener, you know how to find a mentor. But how do you ensure you're a good mentor when people come seeking your help?
• Life Pro Tip: If you want to give your future child a unique or random name, consider making it their middle name.
• Recommendation of the Week: Last Breath
• Quick shout out to The World Wanderer!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Shane Snow (@shanesnow) is an award-winning entrepreneur and journalist, author of Dream Teams and Smartcuts, and the blogger who wrote How to Debate and Make Progress by Curbing Intellectual Dishonesty.

What We Discuss with Shane Snow:

• What is intellectual dishonesty, how does it undermine meaningful debate, and what can we do to recognize it in ourselves and others?
• Why the cognitive diversity of differing perspectives and open-mindedness of intellectual humility make for healthy discourse.
• The six recurring problems in discourse: dodging, logical fallacies, deception, dirty debate, little accountability, and false endings.
• What we have to gain by rooting out intellectual dishonesty when it appears in ourselves and others.
• How to pull discussions back from the brink of intellectual dishonesty and put them on an honest track.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/202

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Better Help offers affordable, online counseling at your convenience. If you're coping with depression, stress, anxiety, addiction, or any number of issues, you're not alone. Talk with a licensed professional therapist for 10 percent off your first month at betterhelp.com/jordan!

Explore Blue Diamond for all your almond product needs. From delicious almond nut snacks to gift baskets, they've got you covered at a store near you or at bluediamond.com!

Disgraceland is a true crime podcast about musicians getting away with murder. If you love true crime and you love music, get ready to love Disgraceland here!

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Eric Schmidt (@ericschmidt) is Technical Advisor and Board Member to Alphabet Inc., former Google CEO, and co-author of Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell.

What We Discuss with Eric Schmidt:

• Privacy in the age of tech megacorporations and how much access the government should have to our data.
• What the rise of China, the isolation of North Korea, and the western notion of privacy mean for a free and open Internet across cultures.
• A realistic view of current day artificial intelligence and what we should expect from it in the future.
• How idea generation is fostered inside a company like Google.
• Why all top-performing executives in Silicon Valley have elite-level coaches, and why you should consider one as well.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/201

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The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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You're having issues with retroactive jealousy regarding your significant other's past. You've tried to find resources to help you cope with this, but most of what's you've found feels gimmicky with little to no real information or exercises aimed at helping you overcome these feelings. In this Feedback Friday, we'll try to lend a helping hand.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your parents are first cousins, and it's a secret not many know -- including your significant other with whom you're building a life. Are you obligated to share this?
• Creeps offering to rub your realtor girlfriend's feet for $500 isn't the side hustle she was hoping for; how do you ensure she's safe when meeting clients in empty houses?
• You love your job, but you don't love the corporate culture and lengthy commute. When is the right time or the wrong time to trade one company for another?
• How do you go about asking for the raise you know you deserve (especially as more tasks are being assigned your way) without jeopardizing your current position?
• You've been using our free Six-Minute Networking course, but have a few questions about some of the details. We're here to help!
• Is Better Help cheaper than in-office therapists, and is it covered by traditional work health options? How do you evaluate it from a budget priority standpoint?
• You're trying to prove your value during your company's review period, but one of your overseers seems closed-minded to your process. What's your best move forward?
• Even though you don't consider yourself possessive, you have intense bouts of retroactive jealousy regarding your partner's not-that-sordid past. How do you move past it?
• Pro Tip of the Week: Instead of saying 'my ex,' say 'a guy/girl I dated.' 'My ex' insinuates that person is still a part of your life.
• Recommendation of the Week: Chernobyl on HBO
• A quick shoutout to Liam from the UK!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other...

Ramit Sethi (@ramit) is the author of I Will Teach You to Be Rich, now in its second edition with over 80 pages of new material, new insights, and new tools for mastering money and living your rich life.

What We Discuss with Ramit Sethi:

• What has changed between the first edition of I Will Teach You to Be Rich and the recently published, heavier-by-80-pages second edition.
• How the idea of a "rich" life differs from person to person.
• Thinking critically about bank accounts, investing, engagement rings, marginal tax rates, interest rates, budgets, real estate, and prenups.
• Using the concept of money dials to maximize spending in the areas of your life that count.
• Why you have a huge advantage if you're able to change your mind quickly in the face of new evidence.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/199

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The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

Luminary is a podcast streaming platform that gives you access to 500k+ shows, when and where you want. Sign up for Luminary Premium at luminary.link/jordan and access your first two months of premium content for free!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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Mark Manson (@iammarkmanson) is a blogger, entrepreneur, and author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life and his latest, Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope.

What We Discuss with Mark Manson:

• How acknowledging the uncomfortable truth of human existence’s meaninglessness can ultimately serve as an argument against nihilism.
• What the paradox of purpose tells us about the stress that accompanies an overwhelming abundance of choice.
• How the feeling brain and the thinking brain might seem at odds, but they actually conspire to guide our values (for better or worse).
• Why your identity will stay your identity until a new experience acts against it, and how you can change your values to fit your current narrative instead of one that’s outdated.
• What the God value is and how it aligns your hierarchy of values by way of the feeling brain.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/198

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Take breakfast back with Just Crack An Egg breakfast bowls. Simpy crack a fresh egg over tasty ingredients for a hot, fluffy scrambled egg breakfast. Find out more here!

Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

Have you ever thought about the fact that where you choose to live directly affects the "you" you become? Apartments.com has the most listings, which means you have the most apartments, townhomes, condos, and houses to choose from. Change your apartment, change the world at Apartments.com here!

We all have a love affair with the silver screen. Listen in as Chuck Bryant talks with your favorite people about their favorite movies on the Movie Crush podcast here!

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Many people don't pursue their true creative, entrepreneurial, career interests because it feels too risky. Vadim and Sergei Revzin from The Mentors Podcast join us to talk about how you can intelligently evaluate that risk and confidently make progress on your plans armed with the best information available.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/197.

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Have you told someone lately how much they mean to you? Don't wait too long to regret it -- tell them today.
• You're clinging to a marriage that seems, by all indications, on its way out. How do you overcome the feelings of isolation and loneliness?
• A recent windfall gives you the chance to take a sabbatical from work and get your health back on track. But how hard will it be to return to the workforce?
• Vadim and Sergei Revzin from The Mentors Podcast join us to talk about why many people don't take the risk to pursue their creative entrepreneurial interests -- and how you can get better at evaluating that risk.
• Your immediate boss attempts to stunt your rise in the company behind closed doors, but gives you rave reviews to your face. What's your best move here?
• Networking can be difficult for people with Asperger's Syndrome. How do you dig the well you need when you're not thirsty but you know you need water?
• You don't like sharing on social media, but you suspect there's no way around it if you want to successfully market the book you're publishing. Do you have options?
• What's the best way to turn down a job you've already accepted without tactlessly burning a bridge in the process?
• Learn how Jordan organizes his network by using Contactually.
• Recommendations of the Week: Chernobyl on HBO and Animals Rule Chernobyl Three Decades After Nuclear Disaster by John Wendle, National Geographic
• Quick shoutout to Christine from the nail spa!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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Moby (@thelittleidiot) is a musician, singer, songwriter, producer, animal rights activist, and author of Then It Fell Apart.

What We Discuss with Moby:

• How Moby's illustrious heritage made it imperative for him to write his own memoirs instead of passing the job off to a ghostwriter.
• Why, in his early fifties, Moby has not one but two memoirs under his belt.
• What it was like to grow up as a latchkey kid, impoverished and on food stamps, in the wealthiest city in the United States.
• Why Moby "was so happy" during the time he lived in an abandoned factory on the crack-infested side of Stamford, Connecticut.
• How Moby felt at the realization that he was making more for an hour-long performance than his New York City executive grandfather had made in a year.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/196

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The Art of Manliness Podcast is a show that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

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Leon Logothetis (@thekindnessguy) is a global adventurer, motivational speaker and philanthropist, host of Netflix's The Kindness Diaries, and author of Go Be Kind: 28 1/2 Adventures Guaranteed to Make You Happier.

What We Discuss with Leon Logothetis:

• How Leon went from broker to broke world traveler, completely reliant on the kindness of strangers to survive.
• Why people with the least to offer are often the most giving.
• How Leon finds what he has in common with strangers to make meaningful human connections.
• What Leon does to give back to those who help him in his travels.
• How Leon has overcome otherwise show-stopping hitches by keeping calm and carrying on.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/195

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NetSuite by Oracle allows you to manage sales, finances, accounting, orders, and HR for your business instantly on the cloud from anywhere! Download your free guide -- Seven Key Strategies to Grow Your Profits -- at netsuite.com/jordan!

Eight Sleep is the first bed engineered with dynamic cooling and heating that keeps you at the perfect temperature all night long. Get $100 off your purchase when you go to EightSleep.com/jordan!

Have you ever thought about the fact that where you choose to live directly affects the "you" you become? Apartments.com has the most listings, which means you have the most apartments, townhomes, condos, and houses to choose from. Change your apartment, change the world at Apartments.com here!

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Being a podcast host has its own set of dos and don'ts, but what does it take to be the best podcast guest in the west -- and east and all points in between? What will ensure that you're the podcast guest who gets invited back time and time again rather than thrown onto the booking agent's "do not call" pile? We've recruited our friend Bobbi Rebell of The Financial Grownup Podcast to give us the skinny.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/194.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is undergoing cosmetic surgery to correct a physical trait that makes you insecure 24/7 a worthwhile investment or submission to excessive vanity?
• As a manager, you love your company, salary, and benefits, but your passion isn't developing others to do their best. Without a college degree, what are your options?
• One parent died from being in a medicine-shunning cult, and the other has a history of being abusive toward you. Should the loss of one automatically mend your issues with the other?
• Is it reasonable to put your therapy visits on hold during a new job's six-month probationary period for better chance of retention?
• You're facing prison and losing your job for being pulled over with less than a fifth of a gram of weed in your car (even though you weren't under the influence). How can you find the motivation to move on?
• You left a part-time job you loved for a full-time job that pays more but doesn't enchant you in the same way. How do you know if you made the right decision?
• When you're a guest on someone's podcast, how do you ensure they love you and invite you back -- and maybe make you a regular? Our friend Bobbi Rebell of The Financial Grownup Podcast has answers!
• You're friendly and nice on the inside, but your face and body don't translate that message. How can you come across as less chilly when trying to network?
• You got a no-strings-attached monetary gift from a kind person in your wind ensemble to repair your instrument, and you have $50 left over. What's the protocol for gracefully returning it?
• Life Pro Tip: When your power goes out, pop your phone open and search for Wi-Fi in the area. If the list is empty or shorter than usual, then it's not just you that lost power. Another tip is to get a cheap UPS on Amazon to power your cable modem and Wi-Fi router. That way if the power does go out in your neighborhood, you can get online and figure out...

Mimi Ikonn is a serial entrepreneur best known for Luxy Hair and Intelligent Change, a YouTube influencer with 2.8+ million subscribers, and the author of The Bingo Theory: A Revolutionary Guide to Love, Life, and Relationships.

What We Discuss with Mimi Ikonn:

• How Mimi and her husband Alex keep themselves and their relationship real and grounded under the daily scrutiny of millions of people.
• Why authentic audience engagement will always count more than any number of likes.
• The process of building an online business brick by brick.
• Why dramatically scaling up income often leads to depression.
• Mimi's QVCA formula: Quality, Value, Consistency, and Attraction.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/193

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to wait at the railroad crossing if the signals are on -- even if we can't see the train, it's probably closer than we think. STOP. Trains can't!

Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com!

One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

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Rick Hanson (@drrhanson) is a psychologist, Senior Fellow of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley, co-host of The Being Well Podcast, author of Hardwiring Happiness, and co-author of Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness.

What We Discuss with Rick Hanson:

• While you can't count on others or the world, you can count on your own strengths (and why this is a good thing).
• Why your brain is like velcro for the bad and teflon for the good and what you can do to mitigate your own negativity bias.
• The two stages by which you develop mental resources: experience and conversion to lasting change.
• How you can build resilience by focusing on experiences rather than conditions.
• How to stay informed about current events without letting the news hijack your emotions.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/192

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Are you trying to hire the right person for your business, but the best candidates keep slipping away? Let ZipRecruiter -- the fastest way to hire great people -- help you screen only the best at ziprecruiter.com/jordan!

Take breakfast back with Just Crack An Egg breakfast bowls. Simpy crack a fresh egg over tasty ingredients for a hot, fluffy scrambled egg breakfast. Find out more here!

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Stable, happy leaders are in a position to make better decisions and take smart risks. Entrepreneurs who aren't sure how to pay the rent...not so much. Hear all about it on The $100 MBA Episode 1229: How Paying Yourself First Puts Your Business First here!

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Guy Kawasaki (@GuyKawasaki) is the chief evangelist of Canva, was once the chief evangelist for Apple, and is the author of many paperbound books -- his latest is Wise Guy: Lessons from a Life.

What We Discuss with Guy Kawasaki:

• How to focus on using the success of others as fuel for motivation rather than poison for envy.
• How we can embrace the unknown when we're looking at new ideas for our business or career.
• Why Guy believes it's better to be lucky than smart.
• What we can and should -- and should not -- emulate from visionary leaders like Steve Jobs.
• What Guy means when he says the key to career success is to get high and to the right -- even though we're in California, it's not what you might think!
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/190

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The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to wait at the railroad crossing if the signals are on -- even if we can't see the train, it's probably closer than we think. STOP. Trains can't!

Find out how 22-year-old Nick Santonastasso inspires Self-Made Man Mike Dillard by listening to his podcast here!

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Humble The Poet (@humblethepoet) -- aka Kanwer Singh -- is a rapper, spoken-word artist, poet, and author of Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths for a Better Life.

"You want to see light at the end of the tunnel? Start digging!" -Humble The Poet

What We Discuss with Humble The Poet:

• How your upbringing can prepare you for success (or failure) later in life.
• Why being satisfied with less is different from simply giving up on achieving more.
• How real growth and struggle differ from tacky, self-help fluff.
• Why, if you don't have a secure self-concept, the media (even if it's just social media) will build it for you.
• How to build a moat around your psyche so you don't let in mismatched influences.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/189

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Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

Ever dreamt of having the cleanest bum on the block? Omigo reinvented the toilet seat so you never have to use toilet paper again! Curious? Get $100 off your order by going to myomigo.com/jordan!

The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

The Art of Manliness Podcast is a show that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

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If you've gotten yourself into credit card debt, it's hard to see a way out. Minimum payments can be as much as rent and won't always whittle down the debt because your interest rates are probably too high. With thanks again to Ramit Sethi (@ramit) of I Will Teach You to Be Rich, we'll show you how get out of credit card debt more easily than you probably think possible.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/188.

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You're in more credit card debt than you'd like. Should you tell your family about it so you don't feel like you're hiding something from them?
• While we're on the topic of credit card debt, we share some tips from Ramit Sethi for getting that debt under control (Script found here).
• After surgery, monitoring, and an almost clean bill of health, how can you encourage your spouse that every pain experienced now isn't cancer?
• How do you deal with blame and taking responsibility after the breakup of a long-term relationship and the fallout of shared property?
• When visiting another country, we've advised hiring a local to hang out with and guide you around. But where can you find such a guide?
• How can you find a suitable, non-nuclear solution for you and your long-time partner to travel together, given different work circumstances?
• Going from employee to entrepreneur in an industry where name equals credibility, how do you keep your name safe if your business fails?
• So you want to get involved in politics or some other high-profile career? You might want to scrub those old social media posts; here's how.
• Your timing for knowing when to interject in a conversation could be better. How do you improve it?
• Life Pro Tip: Keep a $100 bill folded in a side compartment of your wallet in a doggie poop bag. The money is for emergencies. The bag is for protecting your valuables if you're caught out in the rain.
• Recommendation of the Week: You Vs. Wild
• Quick shoutout to Melissa!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect...

Hal Elrod (@HalElrod) has overcome two near-death experiences, is the bestselling author of The Miracle Morning, and his latest book, The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions That Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Probable, to Inevitable, is out now.

What We Discuss with Hal Elrod:

• How the concepts of unwavering faith and extraordinary effort combine to form The Miracle Equation.
• Why this equation is a quantifiable, non-woo way of achieving the incredible in spite of borrowing words like "miracle" and "faith."
• How to move from the emotional pain of resistance to the emotional invincibility of acceptance.
• Why pursuing one mission dauntlessly is worth more than setting a hundred fuzzy goals.
• How you can turn off your stress response and what you can do to grow from fleeting happiness to lasting inner peace.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/187

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The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

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Listen to Mind Pump Episode 980 to discover the five most important steps you should take to achieve your best body by summer. Find it here!

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David Smalley (@davidcsmalley) is an actor, comedian, and host of the Dogma Debate podcast, in which he -- as an atheist -- regularly discusses religion and politics with preachers, pastors, comedians, and people who hold different world views.

What We Discuss with David Smalley:

• How David Smalley went from spiritual believer to secular atheist.
• Why regularly challenging your own beliefs helps inoculate you against manipulation by others.
• The tactics car dealers and clergy use to corral people into compliance.
• What happens when atheists cling to faulty beliefs with the same fervor once reserved for their disavowed religions.
• How to debate in a way that might actually change someone's mind rather than angering them to the point of doubling down on their initial position.
• And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/186.

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Get two months of Skillshare -- unlimited access to over 18,000 classes in design, business, technology, photography, entrepreneurship, film, writing, and more -- for free at skillshare.com/harbinger!

Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and find your closest store at MedMen.com!

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to wait at the railroad crossing if the signals are on -- even if we can't see the train, it's probably closer than we think. STOP. Trains can't!

The Hartford Insurance Group knows there's nothing small in small business, and it's been protecting customers for over 200 years. Learn what it can do for you and your business at thehartford.com/smallbusiness!

One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

Naveen Jain (@naveen_jain_ceo) is an entrepreneur driven to solve global grand challenges through innovation. He is the founder of Moon Express, Viome, Bluedot, TalentWise, Intelius, and InfoSpace, and the co-author of Moonshots: Creating a World of Abundance.

What We Discuss with Naveen Jain:

• How Naveen and his siblings all became wildly successful professionals in spite of growing up financially and educationally underprivileged.
• How to know when a billionaire really becomes successful.
• Why it's the thought processes -- not the habits -- of highly successful people you should be emulating if you want to succeed.
• Why Naveen believes sustainability is not sustainable, and why we have to create more of what we need rather than consume less of what we have.
• What moonshots are, and how they make seemingly impossible goals achievable.
• And much more...

Full show notes and worksheet here: https://jordanharbinger.com/184

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Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and check out Spike Jonze's short film at MedMen.com!

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The jet-setting lifestyle of an entrepreneur requires a little work on the road. But what if the jet you're setting on doesn't have Wi-Fi? Before you take your next flight, tune in to The $100 MBA Episode 1231: 5 Tips To Getting Work Done On a Plane here!

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Lisa Lampanelli (@LisaLampanelli) recently lost 100 pounds, retired from a Grammy-nominated career in comedy that spanned three decades, and is now a life coach who runs transformational food and body-image workshops and performs issue-oriented storytelling shows.

What We Discuss with Lisa Lampanelli:

• How Lisa made her last career pivot -- from rock journalist to comedian.
• How Lisa engineered her image as comedy's "Loveable Queen of Mean."
• The psychology of a celebrity roast and the toll it takes in the name of good fun.
• How Lisa lost over 100 pounds and what she learned along the journey.
• Why Lisa formally retired from comedy recently to focus on helping others.
• And much more...

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TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

If you want to listen to a podcast that will help you avoid financial common pitfalls every entrepreneur faces, check out How To Always Profit First with Mike Michalowicz, Self-Made Man here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is your significant other right to be upset that you want to spend some of your social time separately?
• Is spending eight years to switch careers from barber to therapist worthwhile in your mid-forties?
• Is there anything wrong with hiding the fact that you're in a relationship when you meet new people?
• You're still young, but your mindless six-figure job is wearing on you. Would it be irresponsible to drop everything and do something else?
• How can you overcome your intense fear and anxiety around driving? More important: should you?
• Our listener whose dog was attacked in episode 161 tracked down the human responsible. What's the best next step?
• Extensive (and very appreciated!) listener advice for helping the hoarders from last Feedback Friday.
• Do we ever worry that recommending podcasts we enjoy will result in fewer listeners?
• Life Pro Tip: When your ISP raises your bill, call in and say “cancel service” to the automated operator. You’ll be sent to their retention team. They will usually take $10-20 off your monthly bill for a year. I do this once a year with Comcast.
• Recommendation of the Week: Why Not Home?
• Quick shoutouts to Andrea Ott and Annie Chau!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into why the impulse for blaming other people is a phenomenon familiar to most of us, and how we can curb it in ourselves without defaulting to always taking the fall when it’s undeserved.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why the externalization of blaming other people when you're at fault robs you of being truly in control of your own life.
• Why the internalization of blaming yourself when you're not at fault is just as toxic as externalization.
• How you can use the Accountability Spectrum to find an appropriate balance between externalization and internalization.
• What true accountability requires of you and what it gives you in return.
• The best antidote to blaming.
• And much more...

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The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you’re skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it’s supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!

NetSuite by Oracle allows you to manage sales, finances, accounting, orders, and HR for your business instantly on the cloud from anywhere! Download your free guide — Seven Key Strategies to Grow Your Profits — at netsuite.com/jordan!

Eight Sleep is the first bed engineered with dynamic cooling and heating that keeps you at the perfect temperature all night long. Get $100 off your purchase when you go to EightSleep.com/jordan!

The Art of Manliness Podcast is a podcast that aims to help men become better men; host Brett McKay explores how to live a life of both contemplation and action while having some fun along the way. Do yourself a favor and check out The Art of Manliness Podcast here!

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Zvi Band (@skeevis) is the founder and CEO of Contactually, and author of the upcoming Success Is in Your Sphere: Leverage the Power of Relationships to Achieve Your Business Goals.

What We Discuss with Zvi Band:

• Why your network isn't just some intangible asset you tend at your convenience -- it's a crucial resource you neglect at your peril.
• Why a network is the best way to increase your luck surface area -- the number of chances you have to get lucky when things aren't going your way.
• How and why relationships decay -- especially in this day and age when we're ostensibly connected to everyone we know on social media.
• How to prioritize your relationships -- not merely organize them.
• How you can easily add value to your network and relationships -- even if you've convinced yourself you've got nothing to offer.
• And much more...

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TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

TripActions rewards travelers for saving their company money -- and they'll reward you just for checking them out. This month only, you can go to tripactions.com/jordan, complete a 30-minute demo with a TripActions account executive, and you'll get a $100 Amazon gift card!

Ship is here to make dating fun again. With Ship, friends can set each other (or themselves) up -- because who knows you better than your friends? Check out Ship at getshipped.com/jordan!

Listen to Mind Pump Episode 955 to hear the compelling reasons Emmy-winner John Brenkus believes boys and girls should be competing together. Find it here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• What can you do when your parents are hoarders with health issues who get enraged when you try to help them?
• Your calmness under stress seems like a positive trait in a medical professional. But are your peers right to call you disinterested?
• When you dislike idle chit chat, how do you respond to the small talk question "How's business?" without being uncivil?
• Is becoming a police officer because you want to help people a good idea for someone who's never really dealt with trauma, or could you be throwing yourself in the deep end?
• How might an over-55 sales professional re-entering the job market go about starting a consulting career?
• Jake from Intuit stops by to help us cope with financial crises around tax time.
• How do you beat feeling envious of others who maintain the discipline to see their self-improvements through?
• When you're serious about networking, should you regularly cull connections on LinkedIn with people you don't really know?
• Life Pro Tip (via Mark Frauenfelder's Recomendo Newsletter): For Starbucks people traveling. When you're leaving a foreign country and still have some of the local currency, take it to a Starbucks and load it onto a gift card. You can use the card later in the UK, USA, Canada, Australia, Mexico, and the Republic of Ireland.
• Recommendations of the Week: The Dropout Podcast, The Dropout on 20/20, and The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley
• Quick shoutouts to Benjamin Torrero in Mexico City, Ankie Hille Hagen in Norway, and Officer Tim De La Pena!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy...

Michelle Tillis Lederman (@mtlederman) is a former finance executive, NYU professor, and author of The 11 Laws of Likability and The Connector's Advantage: 7 Mindsets to Grow Your Influence and Impact.

What We Discuss with Michelle Tillis Lederman:

• Understanding where you fall on the connector spectrum when it comes to developing relationships and building a network.
• How to increase your own self-trust to recognize what you do well and bring it to the surface where it can be useful.
• How to make strong connections and effectively manage your network even if you're an introvert.
• How to magnify the power of connection you're probably already leveraging in your personal life if you're an extrovert.
• The seven mindsets of a connector who can make things happen faster, easier, and better.
• And much more...

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One's a comedian, one's a radio/TV host. Together they bring you The SDR Show -- a no-apologies, not politically correct, not for the faint of heart show that somehow blends the classic energy of a morning radio show into the new era of digital entertainment. Listen to The SDR Show here or where your ears enjoy podcasts most!

Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!

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Beau Lotto (@beaulotto) is a world-renowned neuroscientist who specializes in the biology and psychology of perception. He is the author of Deviate: The Science of Seeing Differently.

What We Discuss with Beau Lotto:

• Why our brains evolved to experience the world differently from reality.
• What Beau means when he says: "Choose your delusion or it will choose you."
• How our experiences literally change our physical makeup.
• Why the more complex your environment is, the more complex your brain will be.
• How our assumptions control our perceptions and what we can do to break free from assumptions that don't serve us.
• And much more...

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MedMen is proud to be leading the way as the cannabis industry transitions from its legacy era of homegrown enterprises to an institutional phase of professional standards and practices. Experience the new normal and check out Spike Jonze's short film at MedMen.com!

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Brian Scudamore (@BrianScudamore) pioneered the industry of professional junk removal with 1-800-GOT-JUNK? at age 18, scaled that success into three more home-service brands, and is the author of WTF?! (Willing to Fail): How Failure Can Be Your Key to Success.

What We Discuss with Brian Scudamore:

• How Brian turned a trash removal business that began with a $700 investment into an international, multimillion dollar service franchise.
• The $29 gimmick Brian used to prove to his franchise partners they didn't need to spend big bucks on traditional marketing tactics to get their small business known.
• Why high school dropout Brian didn't sell his business and retire in his 20s -- even when competitors offered him millions of dollars.
• Brian's WTF (willing to fail) philosophy that has allowed him to harness the smaller failures along the way to avoid ultimate catastrophe in the long run (with examples).
• Practical exercises you can use -- for entrepreneurship as well as personal enrichment -- to similarly WTF your way forward.
• And much more...

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Hunt a Killer is a puzzle-style game that poses this tantalizing question: what if a serial killer delivered a package to your doorstep each month? Go to huntakiller.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first box and find out!

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Do you want fancy designer jeans that look pretty at the club or good-looking but functional jeans that adventurers, go-getters, and rodeo riders have relied on for over 70 years? Try Wrangler -- denim made for the modern world. Check 'em out here!

Brother INKvestment Tank all-in-one inkjet printers keep your business running by delivering up to one year of printing without the need to replace ink cartridges! Find out more by visiting ChangeTheWayYouInk.com!

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A.J. Jacobs (@ajjacobs) is a journalist, lecturer, human guinea pig, and best-selling author; his latest book is Thanks a Thousand: A Gratitude Journey.

What We Discuss with A.J. Jacobs:

• What's the difference between true gratitude and positive thinking?
• How acknowledging the role of luck in our lives allows us to have compassion for and empathize with others.
• The lifelong lessons that stick with A.J. long after the conclusion of his unique experiments.
• Why gratitude leads to happiness -- not the other way around.
• If possible, why you might consider thanking your parents on your birthday.
• And much more...

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TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Recently, your daughter's 15-year-old friend got pregnant. Should you keep your daughter away from her?
• With inoperable stage four pancreatic cancer, your father may not have long to live. How can you fill his remaining time with purpose?
• How can you be comfortable around someone who seemingly reads your mind by body language, microexpressions, and tonality?
• While you want to open up around others, social events have you in the corner hiding inside your shell. How can you coax yourself out to mingle?
• You're in your 30s and you can keep working locally at a safe, consistent job that pays well, but you're really yearning for a chance to live and work abroad. A few years from now, which choice are you most likely to regret not making?
• The company where you've worked for 15 years has expanded and you'd like to keep working for it -- but on the other side of the country. Should you keep this to yourself until your plans are more concrete, or should you tell your local office boss as soon as possible?
• You're moving from California to the UK on a plane and you're wisely taking your cat with you in the cabin. But she can be loud when she's nervous; what happens if you wind up sitting next to someone who hates cats? What's the protocol?
• You knew someone who could have helped you redirect your career momentum, but you've let the connection lapse and now you feel awkward about reconnecting. Is it too late to reach out?
• Life Pro Tip: Whenever you recall a painfully embarrassing memory, imagine the Seinfeld theme playing over it.
• Recommendation of the Week: Bohemian Rhapsody
• A quick shoutout to Jamie Sparks!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Clint Watts (@selectedwisdom) is a Senior Fellow at the Foreign Policy Research Institute, a Senior Fellow at the Center For Cyber and Homeland Security at The George Washington University, and author of Messing with the Enemy: Surviving in a Social Media World of Hackers, Terrorists, Russians, and Fake News.

What We Discuss with Clint Watts:

• How our own cognitive biases are manipulated in an effort to destabilize trust in each other and our very way of life.
• How hostile entities like ISIS use social media for propaganda and recruitment.
• Why Western governments can't, even with their relatively infinite wealth of resources, beat ragtag Somali Twitter pirates and ISIS shills.
• How bias creates social media bubbles, what forms they take, and why this is dangerous.
• How we can fix these issues or at least mitigate the effect they have on our lives.
• And much more...

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Charlamagne Tha God (@cthagod) cohosts The Breakfast Club and The Brilliant Idiots, and is the author of Shook One: Anxiety Playing Tricks on Me.

What We Discuss with Charlamagne Tha God:

• An inside look at someone in the public eye who has struggled with a lifetime of anxiety.
• How concepts we took in stride even 10-20 years ago are shocking by today's standards.
• Charlamagne's early memories of dealing with anxiety before he knew it had a name, and how it shaped his world view.
• How is FEAR most commonly applied as an acronym for your life: Face Everything And Rise, or Fear Everything And Run?
• The external pressures we all face and have in common -- and what we can do to keep them in check.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• You accidentally sent your roommate a message meant for someone else in which you were indirectly complaining about them. Is there a way to gracefully recover from this faux pas?
• Even though you seem to hit it off when meeting new people, you can't seem to form close friendships and make them stick. What's missing from the formula?
• As a young couple about to embark on a life of wedded bliss, what's the most fair way to handle finances from the start -- especially when one person makes considerably more money?
• Here's Jordan's strategy for investing money with compound interest.
• If you could ask only one question of a person you perceive to be successful, what would it be -- and from Jordan's perspective as an interviewer, how should you ask it?
• What are some unexpected things you can encounter when moving to a new city -- especially when you feel like you haven't prepared enough in advance for the changes immediately ahead?
• What's the best way to heat up cold contacts into bona fide network connections?
• Is it worth it to stay at your current job for another eight years to secure your retirement finances, or is now the time to take on your own business venture?
• Though you relocated three years ago for a job you still consider decent, you miss family and friends back home. What are the pros and cons of moving back now?
• Life Pro Tips: [Jason] Treat the halfway point on your gas tank as empty. [Jordan] Use Rebump for a 33 percent better response rate with your emails.
• Recommendation of the Week: Abducted in Plain Sight
• Quick shoutouts to Taylor Moser and Rick!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Nathan Latka (@NathanLatka) is the principal of private equity firm Latka Capital; executive producer and host of The Top Entrepreneurs Podcast, and author of How to Be a Capitalist Without Any Capital: The Four Rules You Must Break To Get Rich.

What We Discuss with Nathan Latka:

• How Nathan makes it worthwhile from an ROI standpoint for sponsors to fork over big bucks for advertising on his relatively niche podcast.
• How to creatively negotiate from a standpoint that you can get people what they really need -- even when they don’t know what that need might be.
• How to overcome whatever fears you may have for making the big asks during a negotiation.
• How to get bankers, Airbnb hosts, and freelancers to give you terms you want.
• How to land a meeting with anyone.
• And much more...

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Mike Posner (@MikePosner) is a musician, poet, record producer, and singer-songwriter responsible for hits like Cooler Than Me and I Took a Pill in Ibiza.

What We Discuss with Mike Posner:

• Can two grown men who went to rival high schools as teenagers make nice on a podcast?
• How experiencing fame and fortune forced Mike Posner to reexamine his values -- and why he's glad it happened to him early in life.
• How Mike's lifestyle changed from a focus on fame, money, and materialism to one centered around self-care, creativity, and motivation.
• Why Mike looks at success and failure as waves that tend to follow one another -- not states of guaranteed permanence.
• Is Mike walking from sea to shining sea on his own two feet in an effort to prove that this Groves Falcon is way better than any Seaholm Maple could ever be?
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• What's the best way to deal with inconsiderate seatmates on an airplane?
• How do you conscientiously create social media content that doesn't inflict FOMO on others?
• Do you stay at your stable job that gives you more time with your family, or take the stressful, time-consuming job at the startup for the chance to make more money?
• You've been a counsellor for 15 years and want to transition to working online. Do you need to be really narrow with your audience, or can you reach out to people on a broader spectrum?
• You started therapy for acute to moderate generalized anxiety disorder recently. But should you disclose this to your employer?
• You've been running your own business for three years and finally had to hire some help. Is it wise that the first employee also happens to be your spouse?
• Gossipy coworkers have been spreading untrue rumours about you, and now it's affecting how others treat you at the office. How can you best put a stop to this?
• Life Pro Tip: Compliment or send appreciation to a friend or loved one every morning by text or email.
• Recommendation of the Week: Free Solo
• A quick shoutout to Cameron Schmidt!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Kevin Barrows is a former FBI special agent who now conducts traditional corporate fraud investigations, reputation risk and due diligence efforts, and supervises computer forensic and computer crime assignments for Renaissance Associates.

What We Discuss with Kevin Barrows:

• Why conducting a successful interview is an art that requires establishing credibility, understanding motivation, employing psychology, assessing body language, and listening.
• Why approaching a witness at an inconvenient time, in the wrong place, or in the wrong way can ruin an interview before it gets started.
• How to quickly identify the motivation of the person being interviewed.
• How to make the truth the only option for the person being interviewed.
• How to create and execute a game plan to get to that truth -- whether it's with our spouse, our kids, or our colleagues and employees.
• And much more...

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Chris Voss (@vossnegotiation) retired as the lead international kidnapping negotiator for the FBI, is CEO of the Black Swan Group, and is the author of the national bestseller Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It.

What We Discuss with Chris Voss:

• How you can be a more effective negotiator for anything by using the FBI’s own field-proven hostage negotiation techniques.
• How to determine which of the three archetypes of negotiator you're dealing with: The Analyst, The Assertive, or The Accommodator.
• Who has the real leverage in a kidnapping or hostage scenario -- and how this applies to your own lower-stakes negotiations.
• What it takes to subtly convince someone to have it your way.
• The Black Swan Rule: Treating others not the way you want to be treated, but the way they want to be treated.
• And much more...

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Todd Herman (@todd_herman) is an entrepreneur, coach, mentor, and author of The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life.

What We Discuss with Todd Herman:

• How you can harness the power of your own secret identity -- and why you would ever want to.
• What it takes to adopt seemingly out-of-character characteristics and dominate your personal and professional life.
• Why taking on an alter ego isn't a "fake it 'til you make it" scheme, but channeling little-used facets of yourself you may not even realize exist.
• The hidden enemy forces that oppose your attempts at accomplishment and how to resist their subtle and not-so-subtle influences.
• How to honestly understand and come to terms with what truly motivates you -- and deal with what keeps you from following these motivations.
• And much more...

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Cesar Millan (@cesarmillan) is the internationally renowned master dog trainer known best as the Dog Whisperer, founder of the Dog Psychology Center, and best-selling author of Lessons From the Pack: Stories of the Dogs Who Changed My Life.

What We Discuss with Cesar Millan:

• How Cesar Millan went from impoverished Sinaloan kid to homeless immigrant to world-famous Dog Whisperer.
• What we can learn about communicating with dogs by understanding the priority of their senses compared to our own.
• Why the key to correcting an "untrainable" dog is usually reprogramming the human in charge.
• Why the rich, famous, and powerful often find animal companionship so much more grounding than time with even their closest human friends.
• Why human beings are the only species on the planet that will follow an unstable leader who does not represent the greater good.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is your passively stoic expression (aka resting bitch face) getting you turned down for promotions? Here's some advice for turning down the Spock and cranking up the rock.
• How can you reduce stress and have a social life when your deadly serious job requires you to be on call 24/7/365?
• In trying new ways to strike up conversations without coming across as having a motive or being awkward, how do you spot the line you shouldn't cross?
• Are you missing out on life by not spending as much time and energy on your relationships and friendships in your 20s because you're so focused on personal development?
• For a year and a half, Your drug-abusing friend's been cut out of your life for ignoring the help you offered. Now he's in rehab and you don't feel much like re-engaging. Are you being selfish?
• You're understandably skittish about taking your dog out after he was attacked and severely injured by a bigger, unleashed dog. How can you reintroduce him to socializing, get the irresponsible owner to cover vet expenses, and prevent this from happening in the future?
• Is working for your significant other's brother's business -- even though you're not really qualified yet -- an opportunity or trouble waiting to happen? There are many issues at stake here, not the least of which is: what happens if you break up?
• Are cryptocurrency and blockchain technologies still relevant in 2019?
• Pro Tip: If you use AT&T, download the AT&T Call Protect app, which crowdsources spam and robocaller information.
• Recommendation of the Week: Inside The Mossad
• Quick shoutout to Mitchell Smith!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into why a lot of self-help makes you feel miserable by design and what you can do to improve yourself without being suckered by hucksters or succumbing to an existential meltdown.

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why so-called "self-help" often makes you feel worse about yourself than before you sought it.
• How to separate actionable self-help from motivational "hustle porn" designed to prompt emotions and elicit sales.
• Why those inspirational bromides you’re seeing all over Instagram might goad you into short-term action, but won't do much for you over the long haul.
• Striving to improve yourself is admirable and encouraged -- just don't get suckered into the myth that there's a finish line.
• How to consume genuine self-help without being miserable while avoiding the big business con-artistry that pervades this space.
• And much more...

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Cal Newport researches cutting-edge technology and writes about the impact of these innovations on society. He is the author of Deep Work, So Good They Can't Ignore You, and Digital Minimalism.

What We Discuss with Cal Newport:

• Why focus in our modern era of endless technological distractions is the new IQ.
• Why your greatest competitive advantage may lie simply around decluttering and resetting that focus.
• The best ways to declutter the mental landscape to optimize your capacity to focus.
• How Henry David Thoreau's analog lessons from Walden can be applied to your 21st century digital lifestyle.
• How you can use technology to improve your daily life without becoming absorbed by its distractions.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

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John Ruhlin (@ruhlin) is the world's leading authority in maximizing customer loyalty through radical generosity. He is the founder of Ruhlin Group, and author of Giftology: The Art and Science of Using Gifts to Cut Through the Noise, Increase Referrals, and Strengthen Retention.

What We Discuss with John Ruhlin:

• Active loyalty versus passive loyalty.
• Why personalization matters.
• Why you should be asking "What's the most I can do here?" when investing in relationships rather than "What's the least I can get away with?"
• Why the timing of a gift matters.
• How to exercise radical generosity and take gift-giving to a whole new level.
• And much more...

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Jaron Lanier is an early Internet pioneer, computer scientist, visual artist, musician, and author of Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now.

What We Discuss with Jaron Lanier:

• The real cost of the "everything is free" mentality that accompanied the cultural proliferation of the Internet and social media.
• How social media manipulates human behavior to threaten free will.
• Why negative emotions are the lifeblood of social media.
• How social media contributes to the mass production of misinformation.
• Why feeding on social media content tailored to you makes it difficult to empathize with the perspective of others.
• And much more...

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If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!

Need custom graphics, logos, or Web design? Access a community of 600,000+ designers by registering at designcrowd.com/jordan and enjoy up to $100 off with The Jordan Harbinger Show bonus offer!

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The One You Feed is a podcast by Eric Zimmer and Chris Forbes that hosts inspiring conversations about creating a life worth living. Check it out here!

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Teaching your kid how to play chess? Here's a simple way to keep them engaged without crushing their spirits or throwing a single game.
• When your line of work grants you even a minor level of celebrity, how do you express appreciation when you're recognized without succumbing to awkwardness?
• How can you work with someone you don't like or respect -- and ensure that you still like and respect yourself in the process?
• You've been selected to give a graduation speech in front of 2,500 people and want to crush it. What can you do to be as prepared as possible?
• Someone owns the Web domain you want, but they're not using it. What's the best way to negotiate for it or find a close alternative?
• When you're in a line of work that doesn't generate repeat customers, what's the best (and least tacky) way to ask for referrals from satisfied past customers?
• After following the Level One exercises and re-engaging contact with a former mentor, they seem resistant to a catch-up meeting. How might you offer value to make it worthwhile for them?
• Meeting new people and dating when you have a chronic illness presents numerous challenges, but the biggest might be: when is it appropriate to disclose your condition to a potential relationship partner?
• Life Pro Tip: Make yourself manually dial some of your more important contacts on occasion so you'll know their numbers if you're ever stuck without your phone.
• A quick shoutout to Cesar Millan and everyone at The Dog Psychology Center!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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Brian Rose (@LondonRealTV) is the Founder and Host of London Real, a live video talk show that introduces you to the most fascinating people in the world.

What We Discuss with Brian Rose:

• The epiphany Brian had at the height of his "success" that made him step away and start from scratch.
• Why it's important to regularly question our dogmas and deconstruct our entrenched beliefs.
• The power of vulnerability and honesty.
• What to do when you find your past holding you back.
• Brian's Pull the Trigger Transformation System of goals, actions, and mentorship that will get you off your couch and racing (in his case, quite literally) toward serious achievement.
• And much more...

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Adam Grant (@AdamMGrant) has been Wharton's top-rated professor for seven years, is the host of podcast WorkLife with Adam Grant, and is the author of three New York Times Best Sellers: Option B (with Sheryl Sandberg), Originals, and Give and Take.

What We Discuss with Adam Grant:

• Why you probably don't know yourself as well as you think you do.
• Why you're prone to believe things about yourself that are patently false.
• How people closest to you benefit from reinforcing these falsehoods.
• Why the people who would most benefit from helping you see these falsehoods are the least likely to point them out.
• What you can do to become more accurately self-aware.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your new neighbor's loud arguments and wild parties at all hours would be annoying enough if they involved multiple people, but the only person who ever seems to be in attendance is her. Should you be concerned enough to inform management -- or the police?
• When reconnecting with someone in your network (per our Level One exercises), how can you identify ways to add value to their goals?
• Long-time listeners would understand a covert contract from the contractor's side of things. But what do you do if you suspect someone has a covert contract out on you?
• Your newest roommate is a slob who pilfers your food and doesn't clean up after himself. What can you do to put your foot down without causing too much contention?
• With so much motivational and personal development advice being thrown around these days, how can you tell the difference between genuine self-help and utter bullcrap?
• Without succumbing to the formulaic elevator pitch, how can you politely introduce yourself and make an impression when you're in convenient proximity to your company's higher-ups and decision makers?
• How might a public school teacher who loves to teach supplement their painfully inadequate income?
• What thought exercises might help someone on the edge of burning out at their job decide whether to soldier on for the next few months to qualify for a bonus or just quit now and damn the consequences?
• Recommendation of the Week: FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened
• A quick shoutout to Heike Dunkel from Germany!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Dave Asprey (@bulletproofexec) is a self-described biohacker, CEO and founder of Bulletproof 360, Inc., host of the Bulletproof Radio podcast, and author of Game Changers, Head Strong, and The Bulletproof Diet.

What We Discuss with Dave Asprey:

• How Bulletproof founder Dave Asprey biohacked himself from a 300-pound heart attack waiting to happen to 9.6 percent body fat.
• How a prenatal condition, bullying, a thyroid condition, and toxic mold collaborated to bring Dave's health to a point so low even his doctor couldn't help him.
• What is your immune system's "memory" forgetting, and what role does mitochondria play in how you feel?
• What does Dave believe are the top two causes of autoimmunity, and what can we do to guard ourselves when our body can't even identify the enemy?
• Why does Dave put butter in his coffee instead of milk or cream like normal people, and what's the difference between real Bulletproof coffee and what the small-town cafe on the other side of the world is trying to peddle as "Bulletproof" coffee?
• And much more...

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Derren Brown (@DerrenBrown) is a mentalist, illusionist, magician, artist, photographer, collector of curiosities, and author.

What We Discuss with Derren Brown:

• How did Derren Brown make the transition from law student to career hypnotist?
• How does psychological manipulation and hypnotic suggestion work to make people operate counter to their own desires?
• How does Derren use his own manipulative skills for good?
• How do faith healers and psychics ply their trades so convincingly?
• What are the limits to hypnotic influence?
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Are you a square if you think your casual love triangle has devolved into nothing more than a crossed line?
• Your wedding guest list is getting out of control. How can you maintain the desired intimacy of a smaller gathering and keep the budget in line without offending anyone?
• If epilepsy keeps you from driving, how can you overcome feeling like a nuisance to your friends and family -- and how do you work around it for potential dates?
• You're feeling a little overwhelmed from having so many irons in the fire, but you need to keep the momentum going to support your family. What are some healthy ways to regain a sense of balance?
• How do you calm your mind from acute stress when something happens and you can't stop thinking about it?
• Some of the hardships you've endured and
  conquered still embarrass you. How can you own and include them in the story you share with others?
• Your boss constantly overshares and vents personal issues to you, which is draining and counterproductive. How can you establish appropriate boundaries without causing workplace friction?
• Due to your best friend's recent string of bad luck, you feel your relationship shifting from an equal footing to a mentor-mentee situation. How can you keep your ego in check to regain balance while still being supportive?
• Recommendation of the Week: The Clinton Affair
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part one here!

What We Discuss with Erik Aude:

• How Erik Aude entered one of the world's toughest prisons an innocent man and emerged as a murderer.
• What processing, being the new curiosity, and solitary confinement are like in an overcrowded Pakistani prison.
• How you know when you're really in danger in a foreign prison: when they put you on death row for your own protection.
• How much you should expect to pay a lawyer to defend you from a hanging offense in Pakistan (and how much they'll try to charge you).
• Life lessons that can only be learned in the school of the hardest knocks from world-infamous hijackers and mass murderers.
• And much more...

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Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part one of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part two here!

What We Discuss with Erik Aude:

• How an American actor with a successful career gets wrongfully imprisoned in Pakistan for three years.
• Why Erik's unique history with pain tolerance made him uniquely suited to survive torture and the rigors of prison life.
• The culture shock an average westerner might expect to experience while visiting Pakistan.
• What the phrase "physical remand" actually means in Pakistan's justice system.
• How Erik remains positive and grateful for what he has in spite of the ordeals he's faced -- in Pakistan and at home.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Advice for someone trying to transition into a new industry after a long time in their current, unrelated one.
• Your significant other always wants to shut the party down when all you want to do is go home where it's cozy and quiet. But is there a not-so-nefarious reason you haven't considered?
• You're paying down a massive college debt you incurred by preparing for a career you don't really like. How can you transit to another field that better suits you without going broke?
• Even though you're young and in an ideal relationship that already seems headed toward marriage, should an unexpected pregnancy hasten the occasion?
• When the coping mechanisms you use to help alleviate the burnout of your well-paying, long-term job are not keeping pace with the added stressors of that job, how do you test the waters of alternatives before it's too late?
• What's the real reason you can't seem to land a promotion at the company where you've worked forever?
• How do you best ensure an introduction between two mutually beneficial connections in your network doesn't get botched once it's out of your hands and in theirs?
• Recommendation of the Week: Murder Mountain
• A quick shoutout to The Daily Show's own Trevor Noah!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Philip McKernan (@PhilipMcKernan) is a speaker, filmmaker, and author of One Last Talk: Why Your Truth Matters and How to Speak It and Rich On Paper Poor On Life: 3 Paths To More Meaning (And Money).

What We Discuss with Philip McKernan:

• Do you rarely follow the life advice you'd give -- without hesitation -- to others?
• Why doing what you're good at isn't always a match for what makes you feel good.
• How honest vulnerability (not dinner party oversharing) helps you gain insight into what makes you tick and gives your life meaning.
• Why people travel thousands of miles and pay thousands of dollars for clarity about their own situation they don't actually want.
• The deep lessons you can learn about yourself in 15 minutes from Philip's One Last Letter exercise.
• And much more...

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Shawn Achor (@shawnachor) is one of the world's leading experts on the connection between happiness and success, and is the author of Big Potential, The Happiness Advantage, and Before Happiness.

What We Discuss with Shawn Achor:

• Positive Peer Pressure: having great people around you can help make you great (and is an even better predictor of success than qualities like grit and resilience).
• Why you actually achieve and perform better when you help others operate at their best.
• Powerful skills that allow you to make others better -- and therefore raise your own potential.
• How success in personal and professional life really isn't survival of the fittest -- it's survival of the best fit.
• Practical insight into how you can protect yourself against stress and negativity.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Our safety tips for a solo woman traveler.
• Suggestions for understanding, coping with, and supporting a significant other suffering from anxiety.
• Advice for someone with no finance background or college degree to learn how stocks and investments work.
• Networking without the happy hour.
• Why you should get started with the ideas you have for content creation (whether it's podcasting, videos, blogging, or something else) sooner rather than later.
• Showing support for a loved one who makes poor decisions without enabling their situation.
• How to learn a new language and make it stick.
• Recommendation of the Week: American Circumcision
• Quick shoutouts to: Wahn and American Dream University!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Jon Taffer (@jontaffer) is the host of acclaimed reality show Bar Rescue, host of the No Excuses podcast, and author of Don't Bullsh*t Yourself!: Crush the Excuses That Are Holding You Back.

What We Discuss with Jon Taffer:

• The psychology behind Jon Taffer's "break them down to build them up" strategy.
• Are you an overachiever -- when it comes to rationalizing your excuses?
• Why success in business always hinges on the human factor.
• The benefits of hiring for personality over skill.
• Why Jon ruthlessly critiques his own work and how this routine ego beating has been crucial to his success.
• And much more...

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Jason Khalipa (@JasonKhalipa) is a CrossFit Games world champion, the founder of NCFIT, and author of As Many Reps As Possible.

What We Discuss with Jason Khalipa:

• You don't have to start out with "The Right Stuff" to accomplish great things.
• Is your confidence earned or perceived?
• Are you surrounding yourself with the right connections to succeed?
• Are you just talking about the things you want to do, or are you taking actionable steps to accomplish them?
• Can you take a joke and use it to make your life better? Jason Khalipa has -- and he can tell you how.
• And much more...

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Kai-Fu Lee (@kaifulee) is a venture capitalist, technology executive, and author of AI Superpowers: China, Silicon Valley, and the New World Order.

What We Discuss with Kai-Fu Lee:

• Why the advent of AI is as important as the Industrial Revolution.
• The AI Superpowers that are competing to shape the nature of our future.
• How soon we can expect artificial intelligence (AI) to drastically disrupt the jobs we take for granted today.
• What can humans do to prepare for a future where their livelihoods might be taken over completely by AI?
• Should we fear what we're losing in such a future, or embrace the opportunities we're gaining?
• And much more...

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us to deep dive into the elusive subject of purpose -- why you’re not finding it as easily as the so-called experts say you should be, and why you should be following meaning to purpose instead of picking a purpose and hoping it’s full of meaning. [Featured image by Smart]

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• The difference between purpose and meaning.
• Why reverse-engineering meaning from purpose is harder (and far less effective) than finding purpose through meaning.
• What an ER nurse taught Gabriel about the surprising ways meaning can manifest.
• Why you should be suspicious of what The Cult of Purpose is trying to sell you.
• The best ways to naturally follow meaning to purpose without forcing an expectation of what that purpose is.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

Friend of the show and Entrepreneur on Fire John Lee Dumas (@johnleedumas) joins us to help a listener begin anew in a new city.

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• If there's such a thing as remorseful flirtation, how should you feel to be on the receiving end of it?
• As old-timers who have already been there and done that, how do we recommend you live your twenties to their fullest?
• The management at your current job barely acknowledges you and it's time to move on. Is it appropriate in this case to give notice by email?
• Will setting boundaries for your narcissistic sibling have any positive effect on your relationship, or should you just cut them off altogether?
• What's the best way to bid a fair-weather friend adieu after they've made it clear that visiting you on your almost-deathbed was a real inconvenience?
• Even though you bounced back from your layoff with a huge pay increase and promotion potential galore, you miss your old team and want to stay on good terms. How do you speed up the healing process to make this possible?
• When you have a lifelong habit of rejecting people before they reject you -- to the point that you've never dated and you don't have any close friends -- what can you do to become more approachable?
• When moving to a foreign city to reboot your personal and professional life, what's the best way to put down roots, make new connections, and get your brand noticed?
• Recommendation of the Week: The American Meme
• Quick shoutout to Corey Anderson!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Spencer Greenberg (@SpencrGreenberg) is a mathematician, entrepreneur, and founder of Clearer Thinking, a website that trains people to overcome their own biases and make better decisions rationally.

What We Discuss with Spencer Greenberg:

• Common logical fallacies and concepts like black and white thinking, cherry picking, straw man arguments, and the typical mind fallacy.
• How these logical fallacies can be so powerfully persuasive even in the face of contrary evidence, and why they inhibit our thinking and keep us from getting closer to the truth.
• How to spot cognitive bias in ourselves and others -- and in the sources we choose to inform us about the outside world.
• How we can improve our critical thinking, cut through these faulty arguments and biases, and separate fact from fiction with logic over emotion.
• Practical tools that allow us to cultivate clearer thinking for these often cloudy times.
• And much more...

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Joe Navarro (@navarrotells) is a retired FBI agent, one of the world's leading experts on nonverbal communication, and author of Dangerous Personalities: An FBI Profiler Shows You How to Identify and Protect Yourself from Harmful People.

What We Discuss with Joe Navarro:

• How coming to the United States from Cuba at an early age poised Joe Navarro to become one of the world's most respected experts in nonverbal communication.
• How to spot the narcissists and predators in your midst before they spot you as a clueless opportunity.
• What to do if you find you're already being wrapped up in the deceitful webs of these dangerous personalities and how to disentangle yourself from them.
• Why you often let misguided social programming override your natural instincts to sniff out the bad behavior of people in your life and how to tune into those instincts again.
• The best first step in arming yourself against the actions of predators and narcissists in your life -- whether they're bully bosses or abusive spouses.
• And much more...

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Tom Bilyeu (@TomBilyeu) interviewed Jordan on his Impact Theory Podcast earlier this year, and the episode was so well-received that Tom has been kind enough to let us share it here with you!

What Tom Discusses with Jordan:

• Jordan's three rules for improving your relationships -- and not poisoning them.
• How -- and why -- Jordan wound up giving tours in North Korea.
• What Jordan did to overcome his childhood shyness and become someone who talks to people in public for a living.
• Jordan's method for developing body language and esteem and the value of deliberate practice.
• Jordan and Tom discuss the process of building relationships and common mistakes people make.
• And much more...

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The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to let someone else drive if we have a few drinks at that holiday party -- and make sure our friends do the same. Drive sober or get pulled over!

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Andy Molinsky (@andymolinsky) is a professor of organizational behavior and psychology at Brandeis University’s International Business School and author of Global Dexterity: How to Adapt Your Behavior Across Cultures without Losing Yourself in the Process.

What We Discuss with Andy Molinsky:

• Common cross-cultural tripwires.
• How to diagnose our cultural differences and assess situations in cultural context to build rapport.
• Processes and practicals to avoid common miscommunications.
• 10 cultural codes around the world.
• Tips for leading an international team over cross-cultural hurdles and working together to realize its potential.
• And much more...

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Srini Rao (@unmistakableceo) is the host and founder of the Unmistakable Creative podcast and author of An Audience of One: Reclaiming Creativity for Its Own Sake.

What We Discuss with Srini Rao:

• How an ADHD diagnosis in his mid-twenties and the inability to hold down a real job forced Srini to develop his own tools and systems for harnessing creativity and boosting production.
• Why expressing your creativity on a regular basis -- even when it's done without the intention of reaching an audience or being commercially successful -- can be incredibly beneficial to every area of your life.
• Research shows that being creative can actually make you happier, help you recover from trauma, and increase your productivity.
• How you can cultivate your own creativity even if you're the type of person who thinks you don't have any to begin with.
• Why you don't have to be a creative genius or successful artist to take advantage of the creativity-happiness connection.
• And much more...

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Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course! Chris "Drama" Pfaff (@dramadrama) is a former reality TV personality, host of the Short Story Long Podcast, and founder of streetwear clothing line Young and Reckless.

What We Discuss with Chris Pfaff:

• Why Chris decided to take his skateboard from suburban Akron -- where escaped cows made the evening news -- to Los Angeles, where high-speed car chases barely raise eyebrows.
• What it's taken so far for Chris to make it in today's cutthroat fashion business climate -- especially when he has to work twice as hard to overcome what others expect from his "dumb" reality TV persona.
• How to stay tenacious -- like someone raised in the Midwest -- when you fail over and over again.
• Why sometimes running a business -- even something as fun and exciting as a top-level streetwear brand -- can be more of a curse than a blessing.
• How Chris feels about regretting something he has done versus regretting something he hasn't done.
• And much more...

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into identifying and overcoming imposter syndrome -- the sinking feeling that your accolades are unearned, your successes are undeserved, and you'll be discovered for the fraud you (think you) are at any moment by somebody -- anybody -- more qualified than you (which only seems to be everybody)! [Photo by Steve Lundqvist]

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• Why you're not alone in feeling pangs of imposter syndrome (or imposter experience or imposter phenomenon, depending on who you ask) -- it strikes nearly everyone (even elite athletes and military special forces) from time to time.
• How to tell the difference between true fraudulence and imposter syndrome -- and act accordingly.
• The three behaviors that should help you avoid feeling imposter syndrome but counterintuitively tend to reinforce it.
• The two common beliefs that invite imposter syndrome to visit most frequently.
• What you can learn from incidents of imposter syndrome to grow more resistant to its eerily convincing distortions of reality.
• And much more...

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Dr. Matthew Walker (@sleepdiplomat) is Professor of Neuroscience and Psychology at the University of California in Berkeley, founder and director of the Center for Human Sleep Science, and author of Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams.

"The shorter your sleep, the shorter your life." -Dr. Matthew Walker

What We Discuss with Matthew Walker:

• Why you're not lazy if you don't happen to be a morning person (it's genetic).
• What it means when you always seem to wake up right before your alarm.
• What's going on in your dreams (lucid or otherwise) and what can you learn from them?
• How to train yourself to go to sleep at the time that's ideal for you.
• Mistakes you're making that keep you from getting optimal results at bedtime.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Your brother in law is a narcissist with a bad case of PLOM (Poor Little Old Me) Disease and is clearly in the mindset to cheat on your sister -- if he hasn't already. Is it your place to warn her even though it'll devastate the family?
• Is it your fault that you -- and the rest of your coworkers -- are always disappointing your boss because you never seem to be able to read her mind and discern her intentions?
• Using the networking skills we teach in Six-Minute Networking, how do you actively develop new contacts?
• When your current job was able to accommodate your needs in order to retain you, you had to renege on another job offer you had already accepted. How do you reach out to make peace and mend a bridge you never intended to burn?
• When you have an estranged parent who has only lied to you and disappointed you over the course of your entire life, how should you take their disclosure of a personal tragedy?
• After graduation, you'll have three months until you start your full-time job. Should you use the money you've saved up through college to travel for those three months, or should you use it to pay your student loans?
• You work in an office full of people who share political views that widely differ from your own. Should you put up with it quietly, offer your counterpoints, just pretend to agree with them to avoid friction, or look for a new job entirely?
• When you live in a country overrun by state-driven propaganda, what's the best way to stay informed of real current events so you can critically weigh the evidence and formulate your own views?
• Recommendation of the Week: Three Identical Strangers
• Quick shoutout to everyone who joined us at our live event in Las Vegas for Advanced Human Dynamics!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Kristen Carney (@KristenCarney) is a comedian, writer, host of the Mentally Ch(ill) and Ask Women podcasts, and someone who publicly copes with -- as many silently do -- depression.

What We Discuss with Kristen Carney:

• Understand why someone who seems to have it all on the outside might really be dying on the inside.
• Deal with the aftermath when someone close takes their own life -- even when part of you empathizes with their reasons.
• Be your own champion: reach out to your family and friends who support you through the highs and lows before you're at your wit's end.
• How the Internet has exacerbated suicidal tendencies since the '90s.
• Why comparing our blooper reel to the highlight reel of others will always lead to our downfall.
• And much more...

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David Buss (@ProfDavidBuss) is considered the world's leading scientific expert on the evolutionary psychology of human mating strategies. He is the author of several books on the subject, most recently The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating.

What We Discuss with David Buss:

• How dating apps work and what they're doing to our brains.
• Mate-switching strategies: why affairs happen and the mechanisms at play.
• How we can track our own mate value to keep our relationships strong and secure.
• Why mating strategies tend to be universal even if their cultural variations seem to suggest otherwise.
• Why a vacation with your partner is a good stress-test for seeing what might be in store for your future together.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Is partaking of a small amount of marijuana in the evening akin to relaxing with a glass of wine at the end of the day, or are you just lying to yourself in order to justify an unhealthy addiction? Also: is it worth the risk if it's not legal in your area?
• How do you become essential to a fast-growing company that has so much to offer your career among a peer group with a competitive but respectful corporate spirit?
• How do you navigate the chain of command without stepping on toes when you know your boss' boss is more competent than your boss and prefer to work with her when something needs to be done?
• You're naturally shy and don't have much contact with your old friends these days. How do you work up the courage to go out and meet people who have the potential to be your new friends?
• You've graduated from high school and now you're in a gap year before you go to college. You've been offered a management position at your current job, but it would further delay your college plans. Should you take the opportunity for promotion, or stick with your plan to start school next year?
• Are you crazy for wanting to transition away from a well-paying job with great benefits toward a sustainable digital nomad lifestyle -- especially when you and your wife are planning to raise a family?
• Is the idea of going back to college your solution for being unable to cope with the stress of your challenging job, or are you just not adjusting to being the low person on the totem pole?
• Tank's Good News: Watch Olympic Sprinter Run onto Busy Highway so He Can save Tortoise from Traffic
• Quick shoutouts to Nicola and American Dream University!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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Freeway Rick Ross (@FreewayRicky) managed a billion-dollar drug empire in the age of Iran-Contra, now helps rebuild at-risk communities, and is featured in the Emmy-nominated documentary Freeway: Crack in the System.

What We Discuss with Freeway Rick Ross:

• How Rick went from a tennis scholarship track in high school to a young adulthood making cocaine appealing and affordable for a growing urban clientele.
• The escalation of Rick's business model thanks to an immensely helpful Nicaraguan connection during the Reagan administration.
• Why Rick wished he had more hours a day in prison -- a place where most people are just looking to kill time.
• The story behind the ex-prison guard rapper who uses Rick's name and why he's legally allowed to do so.
• How Rick overcame illiteracy later in life and the must-read books he recommends for anyone with (legal) entrepreneurial ambitions.
• And much more...

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Molly Bloom (@immollybloom) is an entrepreneur, speaker, and author of Molly's Game: The True Story of the 26-Year-Old Woman Behind the Most Exclusive, High-Stakes Underground Poker Game in the World.

What We Discuss with Molly Bloom:

• What Molly Bloom learned by running underground poker games for some of the world's wealthiest and well-known.
• The psychology Molly used to control the games -- and their players.
• The secrets of generating rapport and trust among those who aren't in the habit of trusting anyone.
• The strategies Molly utilized to become indispensable to her players.
• How Molly got involved in the world of poker in spite of unlikely beginnings, and what happened to make her quit it for good.
• And much more...

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Nadya Tolokonnikova (@tolokno) is one of feminist art punk collective Pussy Riot's most visible members, and she's the author of Read & Riot: A Pussy Riot Guide to Activism.

What We Discuss with Nadya Tolokonnikova:

• The roots of Nadya's distrust of authority -- and why she became a headstrong activist against it at an age when many Americans are only beginning to discover themselves.
• What Pussy Riot's protest art aims to accomplish by openly defying such authority.
• What life in a Russian prison labor camp is really like and how Nadya and her bandmates survived their sentence for "hooliganism" there.
• How today's young people are making contributions to their communities in ways undreamt of just a generation ago (and often pulling bigger paychecks than their parents).
• The potential perils of shoplifting to survive for eight years and creating DIY music in a corrupt police state without a stunt double.
• And much more...

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Robert Greene (@RobertGreene) is the author of five New York Times Best Sellers. His highly anticipated sixth book, The Laws of Human Nature, is out now.

What We Discuss with Robert Greene:

• Why you can't monumentally improve your life by modifying your behavior if you don't understand what causes such behavior.
• Why it's liberating to understand that the reason other people react to you in whatever way they do has more to do with them and their own baggage than you and yours.
• How oversimplifying the impression you have of someone robs you of the ability to relate to them beyond a surface level -- and what you can do to change the game.
• Why your lower nature seems to be the default you'll fall into without effort and what it takes to tap into the potential of your higher nature.
• The difference between active and passive envy, where envy comes from, why it's so often destructive, and how you can flip envy to your benefit.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• The idea of having children with your partner out of wedlock might not matter to society as much as it used to, but it might matter more to your partner than is apparent.
• You don't always need to see your doctor waving a huge red flag in order to seek a second opinion, but here's a great example of one if you're wondering what such a red flag might look like.
• Even though the relationship you've had with your high school sweetheart for nearly 10 years is strong, you can't help but wonder if your partner's desire to explore and experience other people would break you up for good or bring you closer in the long run.
• During childhood, your spouse was sexually abused by a family member. Not everyone in the family knows this, and now that family member will be present at future holidays and gatherings. If your spouse doesn't want to speak up, what can you do?
• Getting from the beginning to the end of a personal anecdote can be a struggle when you don't feel like you've mastered the art of storytelling. How do you get better at honing your storytelling chops?
• You know it's a bad idea to pursue a romance or relationship with someone at the office (especially when you're the boss), but you can't deny there's an attraction between you and someone there. So how do you cool things off before this becomes a real problem?
• If you're a new teacher -- or someone who frequently needs to speak in front of people -- how do you address the overwhelming feedback that your voice is too quiet?
• How can you convey remorse about an on-the-job transgression for which you need to atone on a professional level?
• Tank's Good News: Hands-Only CPR's 'Keep The Beat' 100 BPM Playlist by American Heart Association on Spotify
• Recommendation of the Week: Quincy
• Quick shoutout to Taylor Fischer in Las Vegas!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Michael Scott Moore (@MichaelSctMoore) is a literary journalist and novelist who wrote about being held hostage by Somali pirates in his latest book, The Desert and the Sea: 977 Days Captive on the Somali Pirate Coast.

What We Discuss with Michael Scott Moore:

• Why high-seas piracy still exists in some of the world's most desperate places.
• How an outsider -- such as a journalist like Michael Scott Moore -- can be easy prey for pirates abroad even under the "protection" of hired security.
• The types of people who become pirates and how the devoutly religious among them reconcile their actions with their faith.
• Why you'll probably never find a restaurant specializing in Somali pirate cuisine.
• How a hostage remains sane over 977 days in captivity through escape attempts and threat of torture.
• And much more...

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Michael McFaul (@McFaul) is a former US ambassador to Russia, a professor of political science at Stanford University, and author of New York Times Best Seller From Cold War to Hot Peace: An American Ambassador in Putin's Russia.

What We Discuss with Michael McFaul:

• What the role of an ambassador in the 21st century entails, how it differs from being a diplomat, and how it changes between administrations.
• Ambassador McFaul's creative approach to problem-solving when confronted with relentless obstruction by Putin, and how he developed relationships and recruited allies in this hostile environment.
• How ambassadors, government officials, and spies conduct their business and keep secrets overseas.
• The exhaustive preparations and precautions that precede a meeting between two world leaders.
• How to get inside the mind of another culture when doing business cross-culturally so you can be effective when you need to be.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• Now that you're on track to exercise, eat healthier, and lose weight, how can you help your significant other -- who wants to do the same -- get on track as well?
• Though you've come a long way in personal improvement over the past few years, you're a late bloomer when it comes to relationships. How can you maintain self-esteem when you keep getting dumped for having stronger feelings than the other person?
• You've cleaned up your act and walked a straight and narrow path to sobriety after a long period of goofing off. Now you want to expand your career options, but your resume's got some hard-to-explain gaps. What's your best next step?
• You've been following our Six-Minute Networking steps and now you're at the David Burkus-prescribed re-engagement with weak and dormant ties by text. How do you end the conversation in one of these texts without being awkward?
• After what seemed like genuine interest from a prospective employer and a promising couple of interviews, it's been radio silence for the past two weeks. Are you being ghosted, or are you reading too much into the lapse in correspondence?
• We've dispensed plenty of advice on how to deal with the narcissists in your life -- but what if you're coming to the sobering realization that the narcissist in your group might actually be you? Do you need to learn how to better empathize with others, or are you just being hard on yourself?
• How do you build authority and trust when you're in a position of power at your company, but you're so young that a lot of your subordinates don't seem to take you seriously?
• Tank's Good News of the Week: "Sherlock" Star Benedict Cumberbatch Saves Cyclist from Muggers
• Recommendation of the Week: Jack Ryan
• Quick shoutout to Steve Goddard!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Nilofer Merchant (@nilofer) is one of the world's top-ranked business thinkers, an innovation expert, and the author of The Power of Onlyness: Make Your Wild Ideas Mighty Enough to Dent the World.

What We Discuss with Nilofer Merchant:

• How bias -- from others as well as ourselves -- works to stifle innovation and the spread of good ideas.
• The process by which ideas are created and spread and how we can exercise our own abilities to make our ideas heard -- even if we're at the bottom of the totem pole.
• Why we conform to expectations that were largely created decades ago and don't really have a place in the modern workforce.
• Where "left-field" ideas often originate and why they're often missed.
• What we can do to make the generation and capture of ideas more inclusive.
• And much more...

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General Stanley McChrystal (@StanMcChrystal) is a retired four-star general, founder of McChrystal Group, and co-author of Leaders: Myth and Reality.

What We Discuss with General Stanley McChrystal:

• What General McChrystal learned by reexamining one of his most controversial personal heroes.
• The counterintuitive ability of leaders who value their own mission over the lives of the people who work for them to attract talent.
• How writing his memoirs without the aid of a journal -- but the memories of others who were with him throughout his life -- put his own role as a leader into perspective.
• Why there's no single leadership style that's right for all leaders, and what potential leaders risk by trying to emulate styles that don't suit them.
• The danger of these three common myths of leadership -- formulaic, attribution, and results -- and how to dispel them.
• And much more...

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Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into the five keys to being unforgettable — what makes you memorable, common pitfalls that may make you unforgettable for all the wrong reasons, and what you can do to maximize the chance that you’ll be unforgettable for all the right ones. [Photo by EfE]

What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:

• How the competitive edge of authenticity aids in making you unforgettable.
• Strategic vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability.
• Why generosity is the backbone of networking and making you stand out from the crowd.
• What leveraging intrigue does to leave someone curious to know more -- and remember more -- about you.
• How contrast between you and your surroundings can be a double-edged sword that makes you unforgettable in ways you'd rather not be (and how to better ensure it cuts in the right direction).
• And much more...

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James Clear (@JamesClear) believes that you do not rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems. He is the creator of the Habits Academy and author of Atomic Habits: An Easy and Proven Way to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones.

What We Discuss with James Clear:

• How a near-death experience began James' exploration in leveraging tiny habits for giant outcomes.
• The difference between systems and goals and which one you should commit yourself to if you want results.
• What bamboo, cancer, and a winning Olympic coach can teach us about little changes that amount to a lot.
• Why the way you behave depends on the type of person you believe yourself to be -- and what you can do to modify this belief for the better.
• What it takes to break bad habits while creating good ones without falling into the “fake it ‘til you make it” delusion.
• And much more...

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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

• If anxiety is a conspiracy theory you tell yourself about yourself, how can you just debunk the hell out of it and get on with your life?
• Speaking of conspiracy theories, how do you snap your beloved parent out of believing everything seen on YouTube and [pick your biased media outlet of choice here]?
• Living abroad is massively rewarding, but not usually for the reasons people think. Here are some tips for giving it a real go before giving up if things don't go as expected (and they won't).
• Should your partner build themselves up to your level if they feel lower in the social value hierarchy, or should you let them take you down a peg or two for the sake of balance?
• As a new podcaster, are you having trouble with keeping a consistent publishing schedule? Here's why we do what we do and how we keep ourselves on track.
• Are there any positives to living by the "I told you so" mentality?
• Tank's Good News: Teenager Is on Track to Plant a Trillion Trees: Starting His Project as a Nine-year-old, Felix Finkbeiner Aims to Restore the World's Forests by Laura Parker, National Geographic
• Recommendation of the Week: RBG Movie
• Quick shoutouts to Natasha Holmes, Jessica Clark, and Lexie!
• Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
• Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
• Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Scott Harrison (@scottharrison) pivoted from hard-partying club promoter to life-saving charity founder. His first book, Thirst: A Story of Redemption, Compassion, and a Mission to Bring Clean Water to the World, is out now.

What We Discuss with Scott Harrison:

• Discover how you can get your foot in the door of an industry and claw your way to the top through hustle and creativity.
• Explore how you can expand your thinking and your horizons while divining a sense of purpose if you're feeling lost or are ready for a change.
• Uncover how creativity and storytelling are the keys to creating an emotional connection with your line of work, product, or business -- whether you're selling overpriced champagne to investment bankers in Manhattan or securing life-saving, clean water for kids in Africa.
• Find out how prodigal son Scott Harrison returned from the self-serving world of nightclub promotion to save lives at the head of an organization that ensures 100 percent of its donations provide clean water to the people who need it most.
• Learn how plain old Scott became Lord Scott Harrison for fun and free upgrades.
• And much more...

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Jennifer Dulski (@jdulski) is the Head of Groups and Community at Facebook, former COO of Change.org, and author of Purposeful: Are You a Manager or a Movement Starter?

What We Discuss with Jennifer Dulski:

• While they're both necessary for any organization to succeed in realizing its ambitions, what really separates movement starters from managers?
• What movement starters from all walks of life have in common and what they do differently that makes them able to achieve incredible results.
• How businesses and teams can unite for a common purpose -- and why this is not only important, but crucial for moving forward and keeping everyone involved on the same page.
• How to bridge the gap between idea and impact -- from creating a clear vision for your team as well as persuading decision-makers and even navigating criticism.
• How you can use influence mapping to recruit others to support your movement.
• And much more...

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Coss Marte (@CossMarte) is the founder and CEO of ConBody, a NYC-based fitness studio that hires formerly incarcerated individuals to teach fitness classes, and author of ConBody: The Revolutionary Bodyweight Prison Boot Camp, Born from an Extraordinary Story of Hope.

What We Discuss with Coss Marte:

• How a 13-year-old immigrant from the Dominican Republic scaled up a $5 million per year drug business -- the Uber for cocaine.
• How Stephen King (probably not the one you're thinking of) brought this whole operation down, inadvertently leading to a domino effect of positive change beginning with Coss Marte.
• The power of mindset and fitness to stay sane and healthy behind bars -- where the odds are stacked overwhelmingly against personal improvement on any level.
• What Coss and ConBody Fitness are doing to help rehabilitate the incarcerated and break the cycle of recidivism so many fall into.
• How lessons learned from the illicit drug trade transferred to Coss' legitimate business and helped him build a bridge of understanding between the world's successful and its formerly incarcerated.
• And much more...

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Chase Hughes (@thechasehughes) is the top behavior profiler in the United States and author of The Ellipsis Manual: Analysis and Engineering of Human Behavior.

What We Discuss with Chase Hughes:

• Why authority is a weightier force for influence than any social skill in the book.
• What you can do to bolster your own authority -- and resist manipulation by the authority of others.
• The five factors that measure your ability to persuade and influence on a level that surpasses mere inspiration.
• Why your patterns of behavior that happen even when no one is looking can make or break your life's outcomes.
• Top authority killers and how to avoid them.
• And much more...

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Jason Calacanis (@Jason) is Silicon Valley royalty, the most successful angel investor today, and author of Angel: How to Invest in Technology Startups -- Timeless Advice from an Angel Investor Who Turned $100,000 into $100,000,000.

What We Discuss with Jason Calacanis:

• What venture capitalists are looking for in startup founders.
• How Jason bounced back after losing everything (something to which we can personally relate).
• How to make yourself more marketable, whether you're a founder or an angel investor yourself.
• What Jason considers "the greatest skill of all."
• The impersonations Jason can do to make your blood run cold when you're miles away from any semblance of civilization.
• And much more...

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Todd Garner (@Todd_Garner) is a Hollywood veteran who has overseen 170 films (and counting) -- including Anger Management, xXx, 13 Going on 30, Paul Blart: Mall Cop, Black Hawk Down, Punch Drunk Love, Con Air, and Hellboy. He also hosts The Producer's Guide on PodcastOne.

What We Discuss with Todd Garner: