The Jess Connolly Podcast

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Showing Up Scared | Scared of Style + Being Seen With Ally Van Iten Sep 28, 2026

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What if getting dressed could actually help you show up with more courage?

In this episode of Showing Up Scared, Jess talks with House of Color CEO Ally Van Iten about her journey into color and style, eventually becoming CEO.

Jess also shares how having her colors done three years ago became far more significant than a wardrobe decision. During a season of deep grief and family crisis, exploring color and personal style helped her feel equipped to show up as herself again.

Together, Jess and Ally talk about why enjoying beauty isn’t frivolous, how creativity reflects the heart of a creative God, and why “not worrying about what we wear” doesn’t mean we have to stop caring about beauty and style.

If you’ve ever felt afraid to be seen, this conversation is an invitation to step into the fullness of who God made you to be.

Pre-order a copy of You Can't Be Brave Until You're Scared and fill out this form to enter into the drawing to get your colors done!

Head to dwellbible.com/jess⁠ to get Dwell and find the New Testament in 90 Days plan.

Showing Up Scared | Scared of Rest Sep 21, 2026

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What if the reason you struggle to rest isn’t that you don’t know how, but because you’re actually scared to?

In the first episode of Showing Up Scared, Jess Connolly is kicking off the season by talking about a fear many of us don’t realize we’re carrying: the fear of rest. What does rest say about us? What might we have to face when things get quiet? And what happens when we stop striving long enough to trust that God can keep holding everything together without us?

Jess walks through some of the fears underneath our resistance to rest. From the fear of what other people think to the fear of ourselves, losing control, and even trusting God, she unpacks why naming our fears is such an important first step toward courage.

Rest is trust. And sometimes, choosing to rest is one of the bravest things we can do.

Women + The Church: The Kingdom Dream Aug 03, 2026

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We are in the final episode of our summer series Women + The Church. Today, we dive into the question of what it looks like when women are equipped to run on mission - not in theory, but in the day-to-day.

Jess and Nick paint a picture of how practical leadership tools can empower a young mom teaching Romans with confidence, a pastor's wife to build rhythms that prevent burnout, and a woman across the world getting trained in communication skills. They've seen firsthand at their own church the security and humility it takes for men and women to lead well together, and how that partnership points toward an Edenic return.

It's an honest look at what's possible and an invitation to imagine it for your own church and community.

Let's go.

Resources & Links

We need YOUR help. Join the Founder's Circle for our non-profit: Support the ministry of Go and Tell Gals.

You're called. Now it's time to get equipped. The Go + Tell Gals Leadership Certification trains Kingdom women in the 5 Pillars of Genuine & Effective Leadership. Learn more and get on the waitlist here.

Women + The Church: The Real Problem Jul 27, 2026

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The Church is full of women ready to lead, and Jess believes it's time to actually equip them. In episode three of our Women + The Church summer series, she's getting into the equipping gap: what it is, why it matters, and how to close it.

Jess sits down solo this week to name something she's seen over and over again, coaching women for the last six years: women are trusted with real leadership, but never actually trained for it. She walks through the five pillars that Go and Tell Gals is building its work around, and shares how the shift from coaching certification to leadership certification will help equip the women who need it most.

It's an honest look at the gap, an invitation to be part of the solution, and a look at how we can partner in this good work together.

Let's go.

Resources & Links

We need YOUR help. Join the Founder's Circle for our non-profit: Support the ministry of Go and Tell Gals.

Women + The Church: What DOES the Bible say? Jul 20, 2026

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We're back with Part Two of this summer series, Women + The Church, and today we're finally getting into the text itself.

This week, Jess and Nick sit down to actually open Scripture together, looking at what it says, who it was written to, and why context matters so much in how we read it. It's a conversation about slowing down, asking better questions, and holding the Bible with both conviction and humility.

This isn't an episode meant to convince anyone. It's an honest look at what the text actually says, and an invitation to wrestle with it well.

Let’s go.

Resources & Links

We need YOUR help. Join the Founder's Circle for our non-profit: Support the ministry of Go and Tell Gals.

Book Nick mentions: God's Big Picture by Vaughan Roberts (or for the deeper dive, According to Plan by Graham Goldsworthy)

Women + The Church: My Story Jul 13, 2026

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This summer, we're diving into one of the most requested conversations we've ever had.

In Part 1 of this four-part series on Women in the Church, Jess and Nick share their journey. From the churches that shaped them to seasons of confusion, wrestling, and healing to the convictions they hold today.

This isn't an episode meant to convince anyone or argue a position. It's an honest conversation about following Jesus, loving His Church, taking Scripture seriously, and learning to walk faithfully in the calling God gives each of us.

Whether you've wrestled with these questions for years or have never really thought about them before, we hope this conversation encourages you to pursue truth with humility, grace, and courage.

Let’s go.

Resources & Links:

We need YOUR help. Join the Founder's Circle for our non-profit: Support the ministry of Go and Tell Gals.

Shalom Season | Episode 120: Peace Is a Practice May 18, 2026

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The final episode of Shalom Season is here, and Jess is ending it with something we all need: practical peace.

After conversations about peace in our minds, bodies, homes, relationships, and communities, this episode brings it all together with five grounded, honest ways to practice biblical shalom in everyday life.

If you’ve loved this season, this episode feels like a deep breath and a commissioning all at once.

Let’s go.

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Preorder Jess’s Book: You Can’t Be Brave Until You’re Scared

Join us at Brave 2026! A two-day gathering for Kingdom women in Charleston, SC Grab your ticket!

Shalom Season | Episode 119: False Peace With Pricelis Dominguez May 11, 2026

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Not all peace is real peace. Today, Jess sits down with pastor and author Pricelis Dominguez to talk about the kind of “peace" that avoids tension, discourages questions, and keeps everyone the same, as well as the kind of unity that actually reflects the heart of God. This one will stretch you in the best way.

Let’s go.

Don’t Miss:

Preorder Pricelis Dominguez’s new book, False Peace, and dive deeper into today’s conversation about comfort, unity, and the kind of peace that actually changes us.

Download the False Peace Inventory Guide, a short reflection resource to help you recognize where you may have settled for comfort instead of true unity.

Preorder Jess’s Book: You Can’t Be Brave Until You’re Scared

Join us at Brave 2026! A two-day gathering for Kingdom women in Charleston, SC Grab your ticket!

Shalom Season | Episode 118: Peace for Moms With Deb Hopper May 04, 2026

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What does peace look like in motherhood when life doesn’t go as planned?

In this special Mother’s Day episode, Jess sits down with her mom, Deb Hopper, to talk about finding true, biblical peace in the middle of real life. All things: single parenting, unexpected challenges, and letting go as kids grow.

This conversation is full of wisdom, honesty, and practical encouragement for any season of motherhood (or honestly, any season at all).

Let’s go.

Don’t Miss:

Preorder Jess’s Book: You Can’t Be Brave Until You’re Scared

Join us at Brave 2026! A two-day gathering for Kingdom women in Charleston, SC Grab your ticket!

Jess partnered with the Dwell Audio Bible App to create a 5-day devotional, Mothering as a Daughter of God, to help you be filled, held, and rooted in His love. Listen now at dwellbible.com/jess for up to 50% off.

Shalom Season | Episode 117: Peace With People With Debra Fileta Apr 27, 2026

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Jess sits down with counselor and author Debra Fileta to talk about her newest book, People Skills, and what it looks like to build healthier, more peaceful relationships. From emotional triggers to communication habits, this honest conversation will help you grow in self-awareness and change the way you show up, so you can experience more peace in every relationship.

Let’s go.

Don’t Miss:

Order Debra Fileta’s Book, People Skills.

Preorder Jess’s Book: You Can’t Be Brave Until You’re Scared

Join us at Brave 2026! A two-day gathering for Kingdom women in Charleston, SC Grab your ticket!

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